Lover pop, lover pop, love pop. Love a pop. Love a pop. Love a pop. Heat. Heat. N. I don't know. Hey, hey, hey. Heat. Heat. Heat. Heat. N. Hello. Hello everyone and welcome back to our channel. It's your host Arlette and we are here with another episode of Pop the Balloon or Find Love and we have some single men lined up. Make some noise, guys.

All right, so you guys definitely sound ready. That's good. We're going to be bringing out some single ladies one by one. When she comes around this corner, if you like what you see, you know she's your type to a tea, do not pop your balloon. However, if there's anything that you're just really not feeling, you can't see yourself dating this woman, go ahead and pop your balloon and I'll go over to each of you and see why you ended up popping. You guys ready?

Let's go. Let's go. Okay. So, with that being said, let's go ahead and bring out our first single lady. Hello. Welcome in. What's your name?

My name is Gabby. Gabby, how old are you?

I'm 35. Okay. Where are you from?

I'm from Texas. Texas. And what do you do?

I'm a behavioral health consultant. Okay. Very nice. So, what are some things I like to do for fun?

Um, I love traveling. If I travel, then I go to a historical site, go to advent, uh, have an adventure, should I say. I like going to tea shops. Um, I like reading, writing, cooking, all those types of things.

Okay, got it. And what are some things you look for in a man?

Um, I look for a leader. Someone who has a relationship with Jesus Christ. Um, someone who's marriage-minded, marriage-focused. Um, I would also say somebody who's confident, driven, and bonus points if you're charming and have swag and are a jack of all trades.

All right. And what are some of your deal breakers?

Um, some of my deal breakers I would say aggression. I can't do aggression of any kind. Um, I would also say a chronic substance use or a history of substance use, unemployed, overall instability. Um, yeah. Okay. All right. Sounds good.

So, we did get some pop balloons. Let's head on down and see why they ended up popping. We'll start right here first.

Okay. All right. If we can get your name and age.

Hi, my name is Jay. I'm 33 years old. Hi. And where are you from and what do you do?

I'm from Montreal, Canada. And what I do, I'm a sales director. So what I do is easy. I manage customer service and and manage also customers relationship and I'm also in charge to build new customers as well.

Okay. Very nice. And why did you end up hopping your balloon?

I pop my balloon because I don't have any attraction for her and also I don't really believe in men mean marriage. I think that it's a trap for men. So therefore I had to disqualify her. Now, is he someone that's your type?

Yes. He's very handsome. Very well put together, and I like his hair.

I appreciate it. Of course. Head on down this way. If we can get your name and age.

Jaylen. I'm 34 years old. Okay. And Jaylen, where are you from and what do you do?

I'm from Alabama and I'm a Tik Tok streamer at TV Jaylen. Yeah. And why'd you end up hopping your balloon?

Well, it was like I didn't really like the dress. That's all. Yeah. I didn't really like the dress. Yeah. Okay. I love it. And is he someone that's your type?

He's very handsome and I like his hair. Oh, thank you. Of course. Let's head on down this way. Okay, if we can get your name and age.

Marcus, I'm 32. Okay. Marcus, where are you from and what do you do?

I'm from Alabama and I'm a bartender. Very nice. And why'd you end up popping your balloon?

Uh, for me it was just off of uh I like the dress. I think she's overall gorgeous. I just think effort with the hair. Um I feel like she didn't put enough effort in. Me personally.

Okay. Got it. Got it. So, is he someone that's your type?

Um, he could be. He could be, I think. Yeah. Okay. So, it makes it a could. Um, he's tall and dark-skinned.

All right. Yeah. Thank you. Let's go on this way. If we can get your name and age.

Geraldo 40. Sorry. Geraldo 40. Geraldo. Where are you from and what do you do?

Brooklyn, New York. And I'm in the healthcare. Okay. Very nice. And why did you end up hopping your balloon?

Her initial attraction. Okay. So, what makes her not really your type?

Um, just initial attraction. Um, just initial attraction. Okay. Now, is he someone that's your type?

Um, I would say no. And why not?

He's a little on the shorter side. I knew that, too. Thank you. Let's go over here. We can get your name and age.

Joshua, 35. Joshua, where you from and what do you do?

Texas. I'm a diesel mechanic. Uh, why did you end up popping your balloon?

I don't like her hair. Her hair. Okay. What What about it? Like

She could have did better. A lot better. All right. Now, is he someone that's your type?

Oh, I would say no. No. Okay. And why not?

Um, he's also on the shorter side. Thank you. Let's go over here. Okay. We can get your name and age.

Rodri J. Uh, 34. Okay. And where are you from and what do you do?

I'm from Columbia, South Carolina. I do it and artist. Yeah. Yeah. All right. And why'd you end up popping your balloon?

Um I'm I'm like I'm fake 6'1 and you're a little bit taller. But you're beautiful. You're gorgeous. Thank you. I just like I like him short. I understand. I understand. Yeah. Cool. Cool. So, how tall are you?

I'm 5'9. Okay. Yeah, you are on the taller side. Now, is he someone that's your type?

Oh, yes. He's handsome. Mhm. Thank you. Thank you. All right. If we can get your name and age.

Hi, my name is Sice. I apologize if I'm soft spoken. Um I'm actually 36 years old. 36. Okay. Yeah. Thank you. Where are you from and what do you do?

I'm from Brooklyn, but um I recently moved to Pennsylvania and um I do modeling. I also have a small lawn service company and I also make custom coloring books as well. Yeah. Thank you. Okay. And why'd you end up popping your balloon?

The truth is like I love how she looks because natural beauty is something I have appreciation for. I don't see makeup. Her hair is naturally out. I love that. I know that she said she's into dark-skinned guys. I'm dark-skinned. Win for me. The only thing that made me feel like not so confident with her was the fact that she said that she had a problem with his height and me and him are like lined up the same height with the camo. Oh, okay. And I was like, I'm the same height. So, I felt like it'd be a dissatisfaction for her. If I would have waited, I probably still wouldn't have been her type because of my height. That's something I can't really change. So, yeah. I appreciate you. Of course. Natural is where it's at. So, I appreciate it. Yeah. 100. You're beautiful, though. Thank you so much. Now, was he spot on? Is he someone that's your type or not so much?

Yeah, he has a very ethnic look. Very handsome. God is good. Very beautiful. He's glowing is what I would say. Thank you. Thank you. Of course. Thank you. All right. If we can get your name and age.

Don, 32. All right. Don, where are you from and what do you do?

Queens, New York. I'm an educator. And now, why'd you end up hopping your balloon?

Um, first off, I want to give a shout out to her for coming out and working through those nerves. Uh, could definitely see it, but shout out to her for doing that. Um, I do feel like she looks good. I just don't feel like she's the person for me.

Okay, got it. Now, is he someone that's your type?

Yeah, he's handsome. Mhm. Thank you. Thank you. Okay, we did get another pop back over here. All right, your name and age.

Uh, Tercy, 40. Tercy, where you from and what do you do?

From Michigan, originally live in Florida. Uh, healthcare technology, entrepreneur, uh, everything to do with fitness LLC and then, uh, recently got into Airbnbs. Great. Why'd you end up hopping your balloon?

Uh, man, I was toggling between keeping it and I mean, I guess I just wasn't wild. Okay. But then I think what kind of tipped me over the edge was I'm hoping for someone to come out with a little more substance versus just the physical. And so when I hear short short, you know, for me is like um what are we here for? So it now is he someone that's your type?

Um Oh, not so much. And why not?

Um, I would just say off first glance like if you were outside I just probably wouldn't do a double take. Yeah. Cool. Thank you. Yep. All right. So, we do have an unpoplin over here. If we can get your name and age.

How you doing? I'm Bartholomew. I'm 34. And now, where are you from and what do you do?

I'm from Chicago. I'm an educator. I do a little photography. Got it. So, what's making you hang on to your balloon?

First of all, I love your hair. I love natural black women hair. Um, and I love that dress. It's sparkly and you know what I'm saying? So, I wanted to hear you out. I ain't expect everybody to pop already, but I wanted to hear you out and before I pop my balloon. You already plan to pop.

No, I'm saying like if I was Let me hear you out first. Sorry. Of course. Now, is he someone that's your type?

Yeah, I like the dreads. We call them locks where I'm from. Oh, I'm sorry. Locks. I'm locked in. All right. So, now this is your opportunity. You guys get to know each other a little more. Do you have any questions for one another?

Yes. Um, what are your views on gender roles in a relationship? I'm really open. I feel like I'm I'm big on communication. So, first I learn my partner, get to know what she's into, and I use that to my advantage to move correctly in a relationship. I use that to decide how this going to go. You know, it might be times where you lead, it might be times when I lead, but you know, if we in this together, I I see it as like a partnership, a team team. I play a lot of basketball, so you might be better at something that I that I am in. So, yeah. Thank you. That's true. Um, I like that answer. Um, am I allowed to ask another question? Okay. Um, what is uh one motto or quote that you live by? Hakuna Matata. It means no worries. Um, growing up, my favorite movie of all time was Lion King. Uh, I kind of see myself as Simba as well. Uh, he lost his dad, I lost my mom, but at the end of the day, we both turned ourselves to some kings, you feel me? So, um, Lion King, Hakuna Matata, uh, No Worries kept me going a lot of times when I was stressed out or worried about something and I just remember it's out of your control. So. Mhm. Yeah. Do you have any questions for her? Um, okay. If you if you was to get a superpower today, what would it be and how would you use it to help make the world a better place? Uh, I would have to say seeing through walls, I think, is a good way to put it. um like that laser vision. Um I would say that that would be important because there's a lot going on in this world right now. I don't think I need to get into all of those things cuz we all know what those are. But just to be able to see what the other sides or sides are doing so that we could properly plan to um plan the counterattack, whatever that may be. Any other questions? Do you eat McDonald's? Only the breakfast. Why pop your envelope? McDonald's support the genocide and we too old to be eating McDonald's. That's fair. Okay, I guess I think I already asked earlier. He is someone that's your type? Oh, yeah. He's very handsome. Yes. I appreciate that. You're beautiful as well. Thank you so much. That's what I'm back to say. All right. Well, unfortunately that's all the balloons pop, but thank you so much for coming on. I'll go ahead and take the mic and let's give it up for her, guys.

All right, let's bring out our next single lady. Hello. Welcome. What's your name?

Jordan. Jordan, how old are you?

I am 34. Where are you from?

Fort Worth, Texas. Okay. And what do you do?

I'm a neonatal ICU nurse and the author of the Food as Medicine anti-inflammatory cookbook. Oh, wow. Nice. So, what are some things you like to do for fun?

I like to travel, create travel blogs, and I love to cook. Okay, nice. What are some things you look for in a man?

Definitely need a man of God, a man with his own um relationship with Christ. I need a kind man, a smart man, and I need a man with a sense of humor. Basically, I'm looking for a lover boy ready to fall in love. Okay. And now, what are some of your deal breakers?

Everything opposite of that. So, if you do not have your own relationship with Christ, if you're mean, if you don't have a sense of humor, um, and if you're just nonchalant.

Okay, got it. So, we did get pop balloons. Let's go see why they ended up popping. We'll start here. if we can get your name and age and why you ended up popping your balloons.

My name is Jay. I'm 33 years old. And the reason why I pop is simple. I'm not really attracted to her physically and that's pretty much it. If I'm not sexually attracted to you, yeah, that's a no. So, I have to disqualify her.

Okay. Got it. And now, is he someone that's your type?

Uh, I like I like his suit. I like his outfit. He looks nice. Thank you. Let's head on to the next one. Your name and age and why did you pop your balloon?

Jaylen. I'm 34 and I popped because I I wasn't physically attracted either. It was like the body frame isn't quite what I was looking for. But she's nice, you know, she she brought up God. That's amazing. And now, is he someone that's your type?

Yeah, he's handsome. Okay. All right. Cool. Thank you. All right. Your name and age and why did you pop your balloon?

Ters 40. And um physically not that attracted to her. I think it I'm very big on fitness, working out, and so I think I do prefer someone with more athletic build, but um great teeth. And is he someone that's your type? Are you attracted to him?

Uh not typically, but I like his outfit. Thank you. Thanks. Set on down this way. Your name and age and why did you pop your balloon?

I'm Bartholomew. I'm 34. Um I agree with him. Nice smile. You kind of give me Kelly Roland a little bit, but you also remind me of my auntie a little bit. So, I had to pop. And is he someone that you would go for?

Not typically, but I love his name. Thank you. So, why would you typically not go for him?

Just the dreads. Okay. They call them locks where I'm from. Locks. All right. Your name and age. And why did you pop your balloon?

Mark is 32. Um, me personally, I just popped off. I thought we would match personalitywise. Um, that's all it was for me. Like, what what made you think that?

Um me more outgoing, so I'm like more of um outside on the scene. So I just when she walked in, I didn't feel like she would match up with that personality. Got it. And now is he someone that you would go for? Is she your type?

Well, outside on the scene, probably not. Okay, thank you. Let's go here. Your name and age and why did you pop your balloon?

Daldo and I'm 40. Um initial attraction, but love her smile. She look very beautiful though. And is he someone that's your type?

Not typically. And I wish I could see his hair. It's not done right now. He's not done. Okay. You know what to do. Cover it up. All right. Your name and age and why did you pop your balloon?

35 in Texas. And she too fragile. Your name is 35?

No. My name is Joshua. My name Joshua and 35 in Texas. She's too fragile. I like thick with her ass. Okay. All right. Now, is he someone that's your type?

Uh, not typically. Okay. I think I'm too fragile. Okay, we'll leave it at that. Thank you. All right. Your name and age and why did you pop your balloon?

Roger Jay, 34. Um, I'm going second what what Buddy said down there. You do kind of favor like a Kelly Roland vibe. You know, some you got somebody out there. Um, it's just IA initial attraction. Yeah. And is he someone that's your type?

Uh, yeah. I like his outfit. Thank you. Thank you. Okay. Your name and age and why did you pop your balloon?

Hi, my name is Ree, 36 years old. And the reason why I popped is like, well, I'm going to compliment her first cuz I'm team Jesus as well. I like wear um John 3:16 on my heart. That's everything. So, I really love that he came out with that. Um, the reason I mostly popped is like I'm at a age where like I need time to stop when someone walks into the room and it just didn't for me. I I need that energy where I'm like, "Wow." And I didn't get that. So, that was the only reason. Um, but I think you have amazing face card. Like, I can't knock you. Yeah. Nice. All right. And now, is he someone that's your type?

Not typically, but I love his skin tone. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. So, what makes him not typically your type?

Maybe just the hair. It's my natural hair. I know. I love it, but it's just got to braid it. Different for me. No, I appreciate you though. Thank you. Thank you. All right. Your name and age and what agenda popping your balloon.

Uh Don, 32. Um I loved everything that she said. Um it sounded good. I just um kind of gave off more friend energy to me. So that's the reason why I popped. And is he someone that you would go for?

Not typically, but I kind of agree. It's more of like a friend vibe. Okay. Thank you. Thank you. Let's head on back. All right. Well, unfortunately, that's all the balloons pop, but thank you so much for coming on. I'll go ahead and take that mic and let's give it up for her, guys.

Okay, let's bring out our next single lady. Hello. Welcome in. What's your name?

I'm Taiisha. Taiisha, how old are you?

I'm 32. Okay. Where are you from?

I'm from Corpus Christie, Texas, but I live in Houston. Okay. Very nice. And uh what do you do?

I actually have my own practice as a mental health therapist. Cool. Okay. So, what are some things you like to do for fun?

So, for fun, I like to do things that are engaging. So, um for example, I've been uh skydiving before. I've been surfing this year. I like to go hiking, walking, and doing things that are relaxing like reading, walking, and things like that. Okay, got it. Uh, what are some things you look for in a man?

Yeah. So, in a man, I look for someone who is um confident and secure in himself, and a man that's capable of creating space for a confident and secure woman. Um, someone that's kind, patient, uh, peaceful, prosperous, and, um, yeah, knows how to set and respect boundaries. Okay. And what are some of your dealbreakers?

Um, so deal breakers for me would have to be someone that is um probably unstable. So emotionally unstable, not certain of himself. And um I don't have children, so I'd like to say anyone with children probably a no for me. Um yeah, and that's it. Okay. All right. So we did get some pop balloons. Let's go see why they ended up popping.

All right. your name and age and why did you pop your balloon?

I'm Jaylen. I'm 34 and I have a kid. I have a daughter. Yeah. So, before she made that, that was one of her deal breakers. Why are we hanging on to your balloon?

Uh, I was just hearing her out. Yeah, I was just hearing out and she looks okay. Now, apart from him having a child, is he someone that's your type?

Yeah, he looks okay, too. I think he's a handsome man. He's here. Nice appearance. Um, thank you. So, yeah. Okay. But thank you for your honesty. Yeah. Okay. Let's head down this way. Okay. Your name and age and why did you pop your balloon?

Well, follow me on 34. Uh cuz I got kids. Okay. Kids plural?

With a Z. Okay. Okay. Got it. So before that, why was your balloon unpopped?

Chocolate. I like the legs. I like the smile. I like what you were saying, too. Yeah. Got it. Okay. And apart from the kids, is he someone that's your type?

Um not necessarily. You seem like a really cool person, though. for me is um more of appearance, but overall a good-look man. Yeah. Thank you. I got you. Yeah. Let's head on down over here. All right. Your name and age and why did you pop your balloon?

Geralo. 40. I ain't want to pop my balloon. I got a kid. He 19. He's older. Yes. Yeah. Okay. Yeah. But she is so gorgeous. And we match. Yeah. Okay. Got it. Does the age of the kid matter or is just kid?

I would say kid in general. In general. Okay, got it. But is he someone that's your type?

Um, not necessarily, but I do like that you're here and you're present. That takes courage and I appreciate your honesty. I like that. Yeah. Thank you. Head on over here. Okay. If we can get your name and age and why you popped your balloon.

Joshua, 35. I got one handsome son. Got it. And uh why was your balloon unpopped prior to her making that statement?

She the best looking one that done came out. So I want to hear what she had to say. Okay, got it. Now, is he someone that's your type?

Yes, you have a nice smile. Um but again, I appreciate the honesty and I'm glad you have a handsome son taking good care of him. I hope. Yeah. All right. Thank you. Okay. Your name and age and why'd you end up hopping your balloon?

Rodri J, 34. Um I got two kids. I got a girl and a boy, but you got it going on. Otherwise, Yeah. Thank you. Yeah. And apart from the kids, is he someone you would go for?

Um, I do like the aesthetic. I like how you put it together. A little different, but um yeah, I think you're a good-looking man. Yeah. Thank you. Thank you. All right. Your name and age and why'd you end up popping your balloon?

My name is Ree. I'm 36. Um I'm popped because I'm a single dad. I do have a 11year-old. Okay. Um, but otherwise like you have a good heart like and um the personality traits that you look for um it kind of matched mine like you wanted a guy that was calm, patient, um like emotionally stable and ready for a relationship. So I feel like we would have connected there. But you shouldn't settle, you know. Okay. Oh wow. Yeah, I appreciate that. And now is he someone that's your type?

Based on what he said? Absolutely. But um again, I'd prefer someone without kid without kids. Yeah. Sure. Don't settle yet. Yes. Thank you. Life short. Absolutely. I respect that. Thank you. Okay. Let's head on back. You turn around.

All right. So, we've got four unpop balloons. Go ahead and ask these remaining men a question. Yeah. So, we're all here today and I would like to know what's your reason for being here? Okay. Cool. Your name and age and what's your reason for being here today?

All right. My name is Jay. I'm 33 years old and the reason why I'm here today is simple. To find a woman that aligns with me. Okay. Simple as that. Okay, nice. Okay, your name and age and answer to her question.

Tersy 40. And my answer is also simple. I'm here to make a connection and I think from there anything else is possible. Okay. Your name and age and what's your reason for being here today?

I'm Marcus. I'm 32. Uh my reason for being here today, I'm just uh open-minded, giving it an opportunity. See what I can find, see what finds me. All right. your name and age and what's your reason for being here today?

Don, 32. Um, hoping to find my match. That's it. Okay. Okay. Go ahead and ask him another question while we're down here.

Yeah. When you say your match, what do you mean by that exactly? Um, I'm trying to find a person that's for me. um person I could build with person that when I see them like just brings happiness to me you know and motivates me to do better. Okay. Yeah. Uh another question for like all of them.

Okay. Yeah. So what are some things that you are committed to in life right now? I get three question. My bad. Um you said what is it that I'm committed to in life right now? Mhm. Um, right now I would say outside of like my regular job, um, what I'm committed to is financial stability and music. Okay. Uh, I make my own music. So, yeah. Okay. Is that your primary like career? Music?

No, I say outside of my primary job. Okay. Uh, I'm also an educator. Okay. Nice. Yeah. So, that's how that goes. Okay. Yeah. Let's go over here. if you don't mind repeating the question for him over.

Yeah. So, what are some things that you are committed to in life right now? Uh things I'm committed to in life right now, one thing, the major thing is growth. I just want to grow as a person. Uh every day I want to be better than I was yesterday. Okay. Um that's my biggest commitment. Um secondary commitments, uh I want to find where I want to be in life. Like who I want to be. Um I know where I'm going, but that don't mean I know who I want to be. That's how I look at it. Um, you always can grow and become a new person. So, I don't try to stay stagnant or in place, so to say. Yeah. Can I ask a follow-up question? Um, so what about your life right now do you feel grounded in? Cuz you say you're still trying to figure out what you want to be, but like

What I feel grounded in? Yeah. Um, I don't feel unstable in anything in life. I feel grounded in everything I do. Um, I have a vision. I know where I'm going. That's why I'm saying, but visions change. You could be one person now, but 5 years from now, you going to be a whole new person. So, I never try to stay um complacent is what I'm trying to say. Um I know who I am now today, but I don't know who I will be tomorrow. And that's why I say I'm always trying to grow and become the better person. Um that's why I say I don't know who I am. Okay. I know who I am. Well, let's say I say I know I don't know who I'm going become. Let's say like that. Okay. I know who I am today, but I know who I become tomorrow. And I'm always trying to become the better person. Okay. All right. You going to go ahead and answer her question?

Uh yeah. I would say I'm committed to health and wellness first and foremost cuz if I'm not the best version of me, then it has a ripple effect. I can't accomplish things that I want to get done, right? Um I'm also committed to my relationships with people that I have because they've been, you know, very center to my progress and success and so very much want to keep fostering those and moving forward. Absolutely. Okay. Awesome. I can ask what what's on the who's on your necklace? Who's that?

So that's actually my uh my business is the image for my everything you do with fitness LLC. Okay. Yeah. So it's yourself. Yeah. Okay. That's a good question. All right. Thank you. All right. And what about over here if you want to go ahead and answer her question?

Uh can you repeat your question again? Yeah. So what are some things that you are committed to in life right now? Okay. I'm committed to myself, right? I believe that everything starts with a man and start with ourselves. And I have goals and dreams I want to achieve that I don't want to I can't reveal over here. But I'm committed to myself and if I can find a woman that can contribute to my life and add value to my life to help me reach my goals, that would be amazing. Okay. What can I answer a question?

Uh, not yet. I think you had Yeah, you said your goals. I was just curious like when you said a woman helping you with your goals, like what what's one of them that you have in mind? I know it's a question. You said you have you want a woman to help you with your goals or like So, I was wondering what one of those goals are.

Well, first of all, um, I'm a content creator. Okay. Right. I do content about cars and all the topics. Okay. So, if if I can find a woman, right, that can help me uh with my content creation and can find me, right, and give me ideas to improve my content creation, that would be a one thing of uh of her showing me that she's really down for me as well, you know. Okay. So, that's one example. Okay. Yeah. Yeah. All right. Let me go ahead and give you a pick. There you go. And I'm going to have you pop one balloon. Okay. Whenever you're ready. Yeah. Oh, okay. All right. Okay. So, why was your balloon unpopped? I know you try to beat her there, but

Because I saw her coming for for over here. So, you know what? Making things easy. Um, the reason why I keep my balloon on pop is because I wanted to hear her out, you know. So, that's pretty much it. But, uh, at the end of the day, I don't date a woman that don't like me. Therefore, I have to disqualify her. You know what I'm saying? saying I love myself too much to deal with women who don't like me. So I think it's a it's the basics but I respect a decision. Okay. Okay. Then why were you about to pop his balloon?

Well, I mean it seems like again he the commitment to himself which I I think that's important. You should definitely prioritize yourself. But as far as the goals and wanting a woman that can help you with your content, that just doesn't align with where I'm at in life and um I just want you to be able to have what makes sense for you. Thank you so much. Absolutely. Thank you. Okay. So we now have three unpop balloons. go ahead and ask these men another question.

Yeah. Okay. So, well, where where do you live? I'd like to know that. Um Yeah. Maybe what are you hoping to get from here today? Like are you assuming like are you wanting a relationship? Are you just wanting connection? Um what's your intentions overall? Okay. Like if they get a match today, what's their intentions? Okay. Mhm. I'll start here. First question is where do you

Yeah. Where do you stay? Where do you stay? Name and age first.

Ters 40. I stay in Myar, Florida. So basically South Florida by Miami, Fort Lauderdale. Okay. And as I said before, I'm looking for a connection. I think the connection just generates where we go from there. Absolutely. Um if there's no connection, then there's there's no moving forward. So absolutely. Yeah. Okay. So down here, your name and age, where you stay, and what if you get a match today, what do you wish to get out of it?

Okay. Mark is 32. I stay in um Scottsdale, Arizona. So I live local. Um, if I find a match today where I look to get out of it, um, that's why I say I'm always growing. I'm open to see what it could be. I don't want to say I'm looking for love because you can go outside and just find love. So, I don't want to just say I had to come here and look for love. Um, but I am open to opportunities to see what it could be. Um, that's my open-minded. That's what I say. All right. All right. Your name and age. Where do you stay? And if you get a match today, what are you hoping to get out of it?

Uh, Dawn 32, uh, Queens, New York, and if I match today, what am I hoping to get out of, uh, out of, excuse me, out of it? Um, I plan to follow through and just, you know, see what happens. Okay. Yeah, absolutely. Thank you. Thank you. Let's head on back. All right. I'm going to have you pop one more balloon.

Okay. Mhm. Okay. All right. So, why was your balloon unpopped?

I was just finishing her out. I found her attractive. And why'd you end up popping his balloon?

Well, I'll say I definitely find you attractive as well. Beautiful skin. Um, for me, it was just you seem uncertain about what you want and kind of just open with things and that doesn't necessarily align with where I'm at right now. Mhm. Thank you. All right. Okay. Let's head on down this way. Okay. Why'd you end up popping your balloon?

Uh, first off, it was unpopped all this time because I loved everything that she said. Um, I love the way that she carries herself. Um, she definitely articulates herself well. Um, I just couldn't see it. And I was holding on to the balloon because, you know, I didn't want to just pop at first um because I felt like there was an attraction there. Um, so but uh the longer we went I was just like I don't think that's it. You know what was making you feel that way?

Um I can't put my finger on it. Um one of the things that did kind of throw me off a little bit though uh was the dress. I just feel like it's a little too short. Yeah. Thank you. Now is he someone that's your type?

Yeah, I think he's an attractive man and I was he's an educator. here. I used to be in education for some time and so I have much respect for the profession and I was curious to learn more about him but I definitely understand. Um so yeah all good. Thank you. Of course. Mhm. Turn them back this way. Now did you have any questions for her?

Yeah. Um so you asked about our commitments. So I'm throw the question back at you. Yeah. What are your commitments?

Yeah. So for me right now it' have to be my mental and physical health for sure. Um my practice and my plants. Those are my priorities. So, my commitments. Yeah. Okay. Was that a pop?

So, I didn't really hear anything in there that was insinuating that she's looking for a man. Okay. You asked what I'm committed to in my life right now. Right. So, what I would have loved to have heard was, you know, I'm committed to maybe finding a relationship or a man or, you know, finding someone that's compatible or something that's working towards that goal. Okay. Um, and also when I hear, you know, you're committed to your mental and not saying there's anything wrong with that, for some reason I get alerts that, you know, maybe you're not all the way there. Like for me, I feel like that's not something I would say because I feel like my mentor is always on par. Okay. And so I feel like if you're actively working on it, then there is potential that maybe you're not actually where you want to be with that. Am I right about that or am I wrong about that?

Um, I'd say I disagree. You know, as a mental health therapist, I think it's important or I know it's important for me to continuously make sure I prioritize my well-being and making sure that I'm good. So that's what I mean when I say that. Um, but yeah, I'm definitely in a good space in life. Healthy, happy, and so, but I understand where you are, and I love that the work that you do. As you said, you're in a fitness, right? Right. Yeah. So, all good. Okay. Yeah. Okay. All right. Let's head back this way.

Okay. Well, unfortunately, that's all the balloons popped, but thank you so much for coming on. Let's go ahead and give it up for her, guys. All right, let's bring out our next single lady. Hello. Welcome in. What's your name?

My name is Danielle. Danielle, how old are you?

I am 32. And where are you from?

I'm from Michigan. Okay. What do you do?

I am a firefighter and I work in law enforcement. All right, that's nice. So, what are some things you like to do for fun?

I'm big on traveling. I love to travel. I'm big on theater. I love the arts. Um, traveling, food, and theater. Those are my top things. I work out, but I really like theater, traveling, and food. Okay. And art. And what do you look for in a man?

I look for an intentional gentleman who is prepared for commitment. Someone who wakes up in the morning and chooses to do right by himself, his friends, community, and family, and me because he fears God. That's what I look for. Okay, nice. And what are some of your dealbreakers?

Deal breakers are bad hygiene, physical and spiritual. Um, multiple kids, multiple partners. Um, someone who's not grounded, someone who doesn't have a foundation. That's really important to me. So, someone who's not stable. Okay. I would say that. Okay. You said multiple kids. Do you have any kids?

I do not have any children. No kids. Okay. All right. So, we did get a pop balloon. Okay. Let's head on down and see why. All right. Your name and age and why did you pop your balloon?

Bartholomew 34. I ain't want to pop. I swear I didn't. Um, but I got kids. How many though?

Three. All right. Yep. Got it. And why didn't you want to pop?

Come on. I know. See the skin the hell? You my type for sure. Thank you. Thank you. I appreciate that. All right. Now, apart from the kids, is he someone that's your type?

Yeah, he's I like his outfit. I like the Doc Martens. I'm a fan. Thank you. Um, chocolate. I have nothing to nothing negative to say. All right. Thank you. Yeah. Let's head on back this way. I'm going to go ahead and hand you a pick. Sure. Got quite a few guys here today. So, I'm going to have you pop Lord. Don't pass out, but I'm going to have you have pop four.

Four. I've never heard you say that, Arlet. But, okay. Four is crazy. I know. Four. Yeah. Wow. There's just so many. It sure is. Yeah. All right. Whenever you're ready, though, go right ahead. What? Four is crazy. Um, okay. I'm sorry. Okay, three more. Two more. And one more. Okay, let's start. We'll just head on down the way. Same way you popped. All right. Your name and age.

I don't know why she popped. I'm sorry. Four is a big number. You're not wrong. I'm sorry. Well, I'm 40. Geraldo. And Geraldo, why was your balloon unpopped?

She could marry me right now. Like, for real. But she is gorgeous. Thank you. I appreciate that. All right. I know four is a lot, but why was he one of the four?

It was a lot, or um the do-agg. That's one thing that I could say that I did not find appealing, so I had to pop off that. I got to pick. So, sorry. It's all right. Thank you. It's going over here. All right. Your name and age and why was your balloon unpopped?

Joshua 35. And she seemed well put together. Thank you. Okay. What What was he one of the four?

I had to pick. Um I won't say it was necessarily the height, but the fit is cool, but I just had to pick. I just had to pick. I'm sorry. It's cool. Thank you. Okay. Your name and age and what was your balloon unpop?

Roger J. 34. Um I like her glasses. I wear glasses, too. Thank you. I figure you like learning. I do. Yeah. So, I got that energy. Okay. Yeah, got it. And why was his willing popped?

Had to pick. Don't love the fit. I don't understand it, but that's I'm willing to learn it. Yeah. Right. Um, but I just had to pick. Unfortunately, I didn't try it on. It's from online site. It's from I'm sorry. Where? Online. On online. Okay. And you just pick from like three different websites or Okay. No, no, I'm not I'm not being funny. It just that's what it's that's how I read it when we talk about, you know, learning and that. That's how I read it. I'm sorry. I don't mean no harm, but I had to pick. I'm sorry. I got you. Thank you. All right. Your name and age, and why was your balloon unpopped?

Hi, my name is Ree. I'm 36 years old. Um, it was unpopped. Um, I I think she's beautiful, but um I look for more than that. You're welcome. And um the stuff that she was asking for like in character and looking for someone that was um ready for commitment. I'm someone that's ready for that. So, I may not match her aesthetically, but you know what she looked for, I feel like I

matched up. Then I felt like if I would have popped on her, I would have felt like I fumbled her, so it's better she popped on me. Yeah.

Okay.

Yeah. Thank you.

I would end up popping his. I love the fit. Again, had to pick. I do feel like you match my aesthetic. I do like that. Didn't necessarily love the hair. Don't understand the vision there, but I'm willing to learn, right? But I got a papa based off physical appearance, and that was just one thing that just didn't necessarily stand out to me.

I'm not with people selling, you know. So, yeah. Thank you.

You're welcome.

Thank you. All right, let's head on back this way. Okay, now we're down to a reasonable number, five balloons. So, you can ask the remaining guys a question.

Sure.

What is When's the last time you've been impressed by a woman? H. Okay, let's start over here. Name an age and when's the last time you were impressed by a woman?

My name is Jay. I'm 23 years old. That's a great question. The last time I got impressed by a woman when when she clean all my apartment, she make me some food and take care of my clothes. That was really uh impressive because she really showed me that she really like me. Normally women they only do one thing but she did the whole thing so she was really devoted to me so yeah that really impressed me. I like that.

Okay.

And it should be anyways but anyways.

All right.

Okay. Thank you. Let's go over here. All right. Your name and age and when's the last time you were impressed by a woman?

My name is Jaylen and I'm 34. And the last time I got impressed by a woman was when Young Miami made that song Spin It. That's the last time I got impressed by a woman. That's a great song. Okay, you can move on.

Your name and age. When was the last time you were impressed by a woman?

Tersy. 40. Um, yeah. The last time I was impressed was the level of detail a woman paid attention to me. Um, I guess my ex I was dating under 3 months. She drew a picture of me and she like drew pictures of everything I like to do from what I like to eat, just habits. And so I thought it was funny but very much you know that means she was paying attention. So

thank you.

Okay.

Your name and age and when's the last time you were impressed by a woman?

Okay. Marcus 32. Last time I was impressed by a woman. I would say me personally I say every day. Anybody who get up and try and keep going. Um, you know you don't know what anybody going through. So just to keep going every day. That's impressive.

Okay. Thank you. Let's head on down this way.

All right. your name and age and when's the last time you were impressed by a woman?

Don 32. Um, the last time I was impressed by a woman was my last relationship.

Um, just the patience. Um, sometimes I could be a little bit difficult to deal with. Um, so I just uh really respected the patience that was shown.

Yeah.

Can I ask a question? difficult in what regard to deal with?

Um, sometimes I might be here but I'm somewhere else like my mind roams a lot in a positive way. Um, I just like to get a lot of things done. So, in the midst of trying to balance all of that sometimes, you know, my balance might not always be the best.

Positive on your perspective or hers?

On my perspective.

Okay.

Yeah.

Great. Thank you. Thank you.

All right. So, I am going to have you pop one balloon.

Okay. So, why was your balloon unpopped?

Uh, I just wanted to hear her out. I think she looks beautiful.

Thank you.

Okay. And so, why' you end up popping his balloon?

The young Miami comment. Not a fan. I don't think there's any substance to Young Miami. I think when I talk about like bad physical and spiritual hygiene, I think the things that you take in is very important and listening to her is not healthy.

You don't like that song?

I do not.

Oh, okay. Okay. All right.

Anything of that caliber I'm not a necessarily a fan of. I don't see the point. Sorry.

Okay.

I get it.

Thank you.

All right. So, we now have four unpop balloons. Go ahead and ask the remaining men another question. What is a red flag about dating you? Give me one red flag, one green flag.

Okay, let's start there. Come back this way.

Sure.

So, one red flag, one green flag about dating you. Name and age first.

Don 32. Once again, um, red flag um, once again that sometimes my mind may be everywhere. Um, green flag, I'm very good at motivating my partner. Um, always want them to do better for themselves.

Can you give me another red flag then since you already kind of touched on the first one?

Another red flag. Um, sometimes I might come off as a bit nonchalant. Um, I don't believe is me being nonchalant. I just think, um, the way I react at times is different.

Okay.

Um, but I guess that's what I would say is a red flag.

Okay. Thank you.

All right. Name an age and what's one red flag and one green flag about dating you? Okay. So, Marcus 32. Uh, green flag for me would be communication. I know how to communate communicate very well. Um, I'm open. So, a red flag for me, I could say at times I'm very petty. Um, I could be petty if I feel some type of way. I feel belittle or disrespected. I can become a petty person. Um, that would be one of my red flags.

Can I ask a question? What makes you have the assumption you communicate very well?

Um, what have what you say? What gives me the assumption I can?

Yes. Do you know that?

Um, like I said, I'm I'm a person. I like to talk. I like to communicate. No matter how I feel, I'm going to tell you how I feel. I'm going listen to how you feel. I'm um open ears. I don't just shut you out and say what I feel is right or what I feel is right or wrong. Like I hear you out and I try to come to a common ground. That's why I'm very good at communicating. Um trying to work through the problem. Not saying that everything's going to be uh peaches and creams, but for the most part, I at least try.

So, is it safe to say you're a self- validated, wellcommunicator? self validated. Uh, no, not just

so who validated the fact that my past relationship a couple people I didn't talk to before just relationships or any situationship a lot of people I talk about I communicate very well like I said I'm just very petty at times when I feel some type of way um but even when I feel some type of way I still communicate that I feel some type of way I just do petty things.

Okay, thank you.

All right.

All right. Your name and age and what's one red flag about dating you and a green flag?

Uh Ty 40. And so you said what's a green flag and red flag about dating me or dating in general?

Okay.

Um I say green flag is who I surround myself with. And so um constantly reinforcing the type of uh goals and uh just the way I personally want to live my life and where I see myself going and how that would also get me there in terms of relationships. Um a red flag.

Can I stop you right there?

Sure. So what's the the that that would pertain to me and you dating? Not about an individualistic perspective, but what's a green flag that I would maybe endure while dating you?

Okay. Yeah. So I'm going to say it again. It would be who I surround myself with because those are people who are making me a better person for you, right? So they're reinforcing certain uh principles, right? If I'm doing something that maybe um isn't, you know, let's say becoming of a husband or becoming of a boyfriend, then my circle is going to let me know that.

Sure.

So, um yeah, I was I would say that's a great

Can you give me an example of one by chance or

Yeah. Um you know, my my presence in the community in general, you know, um I see myself as a role model in my community where I came from. You're from Michigan. I'm from Grand Rapids.

Um so, you know, how do I portray myself on social media?

Okay. um online in general. So, those are things that, you know, are going to I'll get checked by people I'm around if I'm doing something that isn't up to par,

right?

Uh red flag, I'd say sometimes I can be a little more um direct and not so emotionally tied when I'm being direct. And so, depending on, you know, how sensitive you are or maybe if you don't know me well enough, it can come off as, you know, a a bad thing, but it is good intention. So, I guess it's kind of a green flag, too. So,

okay.

Thank you.

All right. Your name and age and what's a red flag and green flag about dating you?

My name is Jay. I'm 33 years old. So, a red flag with me is the fact that I'm a great leader. So, I'll make sure that you don't have to worry about where we're going to do, where we're going to go, what we going to do, right? And simultaneously, it will make you a better woman as well. And my green my red flag will be I have a hard head. when I want to do something, I really focus on that and that's it. Now, if I see that you've been consistent with me, I may, how can I say that? I may listen to what you have to say and if it makes sense with what I want to accomplish, then I will add to it and then we go from there.

So, you may listen to me.

Yeah. In fact, I will

depending on your mood is what you

No, no, it's that I will listen to what you have to say. Right. But I'm I'm the one who take the final decision about if I'm going to apply what you're saying or not.

All right. That's it. No.

Okay.

All right. I'm going to go ahead and have you pop one more balloon.

Sure.

All right. So, why was your balloon unpopped?

Well, first of all, I wanted to hear her out.

She have a great energy and beautiful smile.

But again, the golden rule, never deal with a woman who don't like you. So, therefore, she's disqualified.

All right. Why'd you end up hopping his balloon?

you know, um I think he's very well-dressed. I love the outfit. You get a a for effort for sure. Um I didn't love the I will listen to you if it basically makes sense. I think I'm big on I like a man to be a leader and make the final decision if it makes sense, but a woman still is the partner and it's not about like your mood. if I'm making more sense than you, I would like to think you would choose what I have to say over you. And it's not like a man or woman thing all the time. So, I don't know. I just didn't really resonate with that too much.

I mean, at the end of the day, in a relationship, the man is the leader, the woman follows. So,

I agree.

You can give me any ideas or opinions, but as long as you know that I'm the one who take the final decision, that's the way it's going to be.

Sure. I can give you a lot of ideas, a lot of opinions, a lot of perspective, right? I would like to be able to come to a table and have that dialogue and then you make the decision. It kind of came off like

I'm the man. I'm going to make the decision regardless.

Yes.

Okay.

I'm the man. I made the decisions.

Amen. Is correct.

Regardless, that's it.

Yes.

Agreed.

Thank you.

All right. So, we have three unprompt balloons. Go ahead and ask them another question.

I forgot. Um um um did I ask about kids? I don't. No.

Um kids, if you have them, how many? What are their ages? And what is the dynamic between you and the child's mother?

Okay. And if they don't have kids,

if they don't have kids, great.

Okay. All right. Any kids over here?

No kids.

No kids. Straight to the point.

Oh, that's all right.

Okay. Look, he's already shaking his head.

No kids.

No kids. Okay. See?

All right. Any kids over here?

No kids.

No kids. Okay. Ready?

Head on back. Well, I'm going head on back. I'm going to have you stay here and go ahead and pop one of their balloons

with no question or

No, you chose that question. You

Well, well, I didn't know how many I had. I like this. Um, could they I don't Can they ask me a question or uh next round?

What? Okay. Um,

okay.

All right. So, what was making you hang on to your balloon?

I just finished sharing her out. I like what she was saying. Um, and she's a jerk. Thank you.

All right. And why'd you end up popping his balloon?

Just had to pop. I didn't have another question. And I just had to pop. Process of elimination, unfortunately.

Thank you.

All right. So, we now got two men left. Guys, any questions for her?

You ready? Okay.

What's more important to you, relationships or money?

Relationships.

And why? Money is money is fleeting, right? You'll make the money as long as we exist. You'll do something to produce some level of revenue. Cool. But relationships matter on a I think a bigger scale, more grand scale. The type of relationship that you have with people, places, and things, I think it's more spiritual. It's more fulfilling. So, the relationship I may have with my brother, sister, my teacher, my co-orker, whoever, the person at the grocery store that I shop at every Friday, you know, I think those are more of the things that kind of keep you fueled throughout life as opposed to money. It's going to be there regardless and really only holds value for one thing.

That's a great answer. Um, can I answer another question? All right.

So, you say you're a police officer.

I did not say that. I said I'm in law enforcement. However,

Okay. I am a police officer.

Okay. So, two-part question. How long you been doing that? And what is your ultimate career goal?

I've been in my career for seven years. My ultimate career goal is to just continue to grow and learn because the role that I play is so dynamic. I'm a firefighter and a a medical first responder. So, there's a plethora of things that I can still learn, perfect, and explore. Um, I'm in the career goal to be honest. I mean, it's just a matter of how long I want to stay in it and collect a pension to be honest. I mean, I'm there and just continue to collect many hats while I'm still doing what I enjoy.

All right, cool.

Yeah.

Okay, let's head down over here. See if he has any questions. All right, any questions over here?

Yeah, I got a couple. Um, first one, you did say the Young Miami comment earlier. Mhm.

I'm not a fan of Young Miami. I'm not going to say I listen to her music,

but it did make me a bit curious to what music you do listen to or like your top artists.

W That's number one.

I like Neo.

Okay.

I like Ride Wave. I listen to a lot of gospel. Um I do like Kevin Gates, but I play that when I'm working out.

Okay. But like a good little mix, but I just the young Miami I don't see the I don't know. I don't like it.

Okay. Um my second one is what is the duration of the longest what is the duration of the relationship between you and your closest friend?

It's a great question. She's here with me today. Seven years. Um, so yeah, we've been friends for seven years with my best friend.

Okay. Um, my bad.

No, you're okay.

Um, so do you do you believe yourself to be someone that gets along well with other women?

I get along great with other women. Today is a prime example. I met a lot of them, had a ball. I don't know. I I'm the type of person where I can get in in any environment that I fit in. If I'm there, I don't have any problems. I'm not caddyy. I'm not boisterous. I'm not a lot of things. I'm just super cool, down to earth, natural, and I can get in in any setting. I do pride myself on that. It doesn't matter where I go. It's like I've been there before, even if I haven't.

Okay. Um I could I could get another one up.

Go ahead. The last one. Um, what do when you're not working,

what is it that brings you joy in your off time?

It's a great question. What brings me joy? Um, I like to see other people happy. So, in my off time, I do volunteer. I do donate a lot of my money and time. Um, again, I travel. I just like to have a good time. I like to appreciate life, enjoy life, and not take it for granted. So, I just get immense joy from being around people that appreciate me, that love me, and have a the same appreciation for life, and just want to have a good time in any facet that we're in.

Okay,

good answers.

All right. Okay. So, they got to ask you a few questions. You got to hear a little bit about them. I am going to now have you pop one of their balloons.

Can I ask the question? Let's do Dlette.

Is this going to help you decide for sure?

Yes.

Okay.

Do either of you have any felonies?

Any felon? He said no. No. Okay. No to both of them.

Now you got to pump.

Now I don't know. Okay.

No. Help me out. Cool.

All right. Why' you end up popping your balloon?

That was a wild question. She's

she's in law enforcement.

It is not a wild question.

I'll tell you why. I think it was a wild question

cuz I'm wondering like what type of relationships have you had for that to be the make or break between us two? Cuz I feel like

that didn't really Right. But it didn't really tell you a lot about us, right? In terms of kind of making the decision. I feel like that's something that

Can I respond?

Yeah, of course.

I think it's Here's the thing. I don't know you guys. Okay. We're only asking a certain series of questions. At the end of the day, people have lived a life that may be not as presentable as it is today that it wasn't 10 years ago. Okay? I don't know that information. It is against my code of conduct to date a felon. I think it's fair to ask that question. I get you may not want to blast it on YouTube, but I have to know that.

Sure. So, I got you. And that kind of goes into why I asked why I had the response I did because I don't think well one if someone did have that they'll probably be on the show. But secondly again I think there's should have been a more in-depth question allows us to tell you a little bit more about ourselves versus a yes or no.

Sure.

All right. So now is he someone that's your type?

Um yeah. I like the way he's dressed. Um I think he speaks well. I like the way he looks. I have nothing bad to say about him. I think it's an important question. So whether you like it or not, I got to ask whether it's here or the first date. So I'm going to ask. So yeah.

Cool. Thank you.

Thanks.

All right. Come on up here with us. I'm going have you stand on over there. Stand here.

All right. So are there any final questions between the two of you before we determine if this is a match?

Um, where are you located?

I'm in Michigan.

Detroit. And you're where?

New York.

Okay,

that's my only question.

Okay, so now what? Back to I

I'm thinking um but

you got a second.

You also have a chance to ask a question.

if you have any New York um do you have any addictions, any trauma that you feel like you're actively dealing with or working on right now? No.

Are you sure?

Yeah. I'm trying to think.

Okay.

Um, nah, I wouldn't say I have um any addictions that I'm working through. Um, I like to take a lot of time to talk to myself. Um, I take time to talk to people when need be. Um, so yeah, I wouldn't I wouldn't say so.

Can I ask the question?

Let me ask my final question.

All right. Is it a yes for you for her?

Yes.

And is it a yes for you for him?

Yeah.

We got a match.

All right. Go on up. Okay. Make some noise for them guys. You think you're smart? Perfect. Now prove it. Fast Thinking Games is a new game show where quick thinking, confidence, and knowledge go head-to-head. We're casting contestants from across the UK and Europe, testing your general knowledge, your spelling skills, mathematical strengths, and finally, a head-to-head. Think you've got what it takes? Apply now by clicking the link in the description box. The winner takes home £400 cash prize. So, let's play fast thinking games to see who's the smartest. All right, let's bring out our next single lady. Hello. Welcome in. What's your name?

Hi, I'm Briana.

Briana, how old are you?

I'm 32.

Where are you from?

I'm from the DMV area, Virginia.

Okay. And what do you do?

I'm a speech pathologist.

Very nice. Uh, what are some things you like to do for fun?

I like to do a lot. I like to work out. I'm really into Pilates and weightlifting. I like to travel. I like to plan themed intimate events with my friends. Um, that's a few things.

Okay, got it. And now, what are some things you look for in a man? Um, someone very ambitious, intentional, consistent, someone who is marriage-minded and wants a family. Um, someone loyal. Um,

yeah, those are a few things.

Got it. Got it. And now, what are some of your deal breakers?

Um, someone with poor hygiene. Um, someone who isn't goal oriented, someone who like doesn't like to do a lot for fun and just kind of boring. Um, someone who is just mean and argumentative. H. Okay, got it. So, no pop balloons. Off to a great start. So, I'm going to hand you a pick. There you go. And I'm going to have you pop. Let's go with three balloons. Whenever you're ready, go right ahead. Okay. Two more. And one more. Okay. Start over here. All right. Your name and age. And why was your balloon unpopped? Ters 40. And uh I think the presence was was you know I like what I was seeing so far.

Um seemed soft. So no reason to pop.

Got it.

Anyway popping his balloon.

Um just a little bit too flashy for me. Like a lot going on. Yeah.

You tell me like how flashy.

Just a lot of jewelry like watch like bracelets like necklace the shoes. Just a lot for me.

Yeah. Sorry.

No worries.

It's going over here. All right. Your name and age and why was your balloon unpopped?

Bartholomew. I'm 34. I like the toes. I like the tats. I like the smile. I like the natural hair. I like the earrings.

Thank you.

I like I like you. That's why I That's why I ain't pop.

All right. Who' you end up popping his balloon?

Um, I'm not really into locks. Um, yeah. More of a clean cut or just like longer hair. I'm more into. Yeah,

this this a wig.

Okay,

I can take this off. I'm baldheaded under here.

Thank you.

All right. Your name and age and why was your balloon unpopped?

Marcus 32 and my balloon I'm still hearing her out just hearing what she has to say.

Okay.

All right.

I got it. And why' you end up popping his balloon?

Um, just kind of had to choose. I think I'm more attracted to some more of the other men in the line. Yeah,

that's fine.

All right. Thank you.

Sorry. Want to get a pop balloon over here? All right. Your name and age and why did you pop your balloon?

Um Joshua, 35. I was going back and forth when she first came out, but when she said the flashy thing, so like

Yeah.

Okay.

Okay. So,

is he someone that's your type?

No, not really.

Okay. And why so?

I'm a little bit short. You're flashy. I'm not really into your outfit. Yeah. Sorry. Thank you. Head back this way. We did get a pop balloon. Okay. Your name and agent. Why did you pop your balloon?

Jaylen 34. And I pop my balloon because sometimes I wear diamonds and and I don't want to be too flashy for you.

I mean diamonds are cool. I'm just saying like a lot just a lot of jewelry just like with like just

gold everywhere like necklace, rings, bracelets, shoes, just like a lot of just shiny things. Yeah.

Okay. Okay. Yeah. Yeah, I be wearing diamonds sometime, like a chain and like rings and stuff like that. So, I ain't

I ain't want that to be a problem.

Okay.

Yeah.

Okay.

Yeah.

Now, is he someone that's your type? Yeah, I think he's very attractive.

No, same for her. She's beautiful. It's just that comment like it raised like a red flag cuz I was like if we out sometimes I do want to wear that type of stuff.

Yeah. Got it.

All right. Well, thank you.

You're welcome.

Okay. So, we are now down to four unpop balloons. Go ahead and ask the remaining men a question.

Okay. Um, what does consistency and intentionality mean to you and how would you display that in your relationship?

Okay, let's start here first. Your name and age and then the answer to her question.

That's a good question. My name is Jay. I'm 23 years old. Can you just repeat it again just to be sure?

What does consistency and intentionality mean to you and how would you display that in your relationship? I mean it means that you know what you want in life and you act accordingly to towards what you want and the way I would display it is by consistent actions. For example, I'm a leader so I will lead make sure that everything is okay, right? And I will be consistent about it. So yeah, that's it pretty much it.

Thank you. Let's head down this way. All right. Your name and age and the answer to her question.

Geraldo and I'm 40. And what was the question again? Um, what does consistency and intentionality mean to you and how would you display that in your relationship?

Um, consistency, you know, um, reassuring her every day. Um, spoiling them with gifts, um, and you know, uh, surprises. That's how

All right. Your name and age and the answer to her question.

Name is Rodri J. 34. Um, consistency and intentionality within a relationship between the dynamic. uh just um let's see I think speaking on things is important communication as far as int intentions like knowing uh first step is communicating obviously the actions follow but it's important to communicate what you intend in a relationship um and consistency I think that kind of follows up with that right like so the more that you talk about something the more you should be consistent with it in action

your name and age and the answer to her question.

Hi, my name is Ree. I'm 36 years old. And um my answer to the question is this. Like I'm the type of person like when I'm in a relationship, I wear my heart on my sleeve. So the person that you meet me as is who I am throughout the relationship. I'm not going to change up 3 months in. So it's like if I'm treating you good in the beginning, I'm going to stay like that. You're going to get the morning gifts from me a little. You know, I'm I'm a thoughtful person. So I'm real big on consistency. Like I never want a woman to feel like I'm not interested. If I love her, I want to show it.

Okay. Thanks. All right. I am going to have you pop one balloon.

Okay. Okay. All right. So, why was your balloon unpopped?

She's gorgeous.

It's beautiful.

Thank you.

Love the teeth. Love the hair.

Thank you. Okay. And why'd you end up popping his balloon?

Um, he just seems a little bit too soft spoken for me. Um, I'm a little bit quiet, so I just need someone like more outgoing, someone to compliment my personality.

Yeah.

Thanks.

All right, we are now down to three unpop balloons. Go ahead and ask these men another question.

Okay. Um what are two things or a few things you've learned from previous relationships that you have learned and how would you um implement that in your new relationship?

Okay, start there. Come back this way.

All right. Your name and age and the answer to her question.

Hi, my name is Reese. I'm 36 years old.

Yeah. So, um I would say that in my past relationships, um I was sometimes very busy. it like I would give them my undivided attention and sense of loyalty, but sometimes I wasn't available like every single time they wanted me to. So that's something that I learned over the years is like really put that time in no matter how busy I am with work like even if I go see the person an hour after work like just make that time like I want to you know I haven't had the opportunity I've been single for quite a while but that's something that I took from my past. Yeah.

Okay. You name age and the answer to her question. Uh Rodri J 34. Um I would say I like a woman. I've learned in my last relationship, which I have two kids, a son and a daughter. So I was in a relationship with her for four years. Um I've learned that um there was some things about myself that I still needed to mature. I was 26 when I had my first child. So, you know, I'm 34 now. Yeah. I had to mature.

Yeah. I had to uh I had to learn uh I had to learn how to deal with insecurities. I'm done.

Okay.

Thank you.

All right. Last but not least, your name and age and the answer to her question.

Sure. My name is Jay. I'm 23 years old. And uh three things that I learned in my past relationship. Number one is to never be complacent. Sometimes we tend to be complacent. You take things for granted and then things fall off and that's not good. Uh second thing would be to always be patient because sometimes things happen and then your partner or your whatever needs to learn things accordingly. So sometimes you need to be patient to let them know to let them learn to their own pace. Right? And third would be to be open-minded because sometimes sometimes things can change and if you keep an open mind you welcome new ideas and then that can make things better. So that's what I would say.

Okay.

Got it. Thank you.

Okay. Go ahead and pop one more balloon.

Okay. All right. So, why was your balloon unpopped?

Um, a couple reasons. Like, one, time stopped when you walked out. That's what I was waiting for this whole time. Like, sincerely. Um, the other thing too is like you seem genuine, like you really ready for a relationship. Also, I remember you mentioned you live in the DMV. Um, I had recently moved to Pennsylvania from New York, so it's not like a far travel. Um, so it was just kind of convenient there as well. Um, we didn't get to dive deeper. Like, I didn't get to know if you had a relationship with God. like that's something that's important to me, but the way you carry yourself just gives me that vibe that you do. So,

yeah.

Thank you.

You're welcome. Yeah.

It might end up popping his balloon.

Um, I liked all of your answers. Um, I think just like the hair, it's like a little wild for me.

I have to go braid it right now. I got money. I'll go pay. You're my type. Like, you change your mind about them. Like, for sure. Let me know.

Okay.

Yeah. You the one, You the one. Yeah. You popping.

Oh, thank you.

Yeah. Sure.

Thank you. behind.

Okay, so we now have two guys left with their ballooner popped. Guys, any questions for her?

Yes, I do have a question.

Okay, go ahead.

My name is Jay, 23 years old. Question for you is simple. Why do you think about a woman being completely submissive to a man?

Um, I don't like that. I don't think that. Okay.

Yeah.

Okay. That was a very quick pop.

Yeah.

Why? Why? Why have

Well, I believe that if a woman really like a man, she's going to be submissive to him because she really like him. That's a decision that she's doing for herself. I'm not forcing her to be submissive to to me, but she wants to do it naturally. So, if she's not, that means she don't like me. Therefore, I love myself too much to deal with women that don't like me. Disqualified.

Okay.

You know, now is he someone that's your type?

He is. But I would never be completely submissive to a guy. Like I'm too independent for that. I respect that.

So yeah,

I respect that.

All right, let's head down there. See if he has any questions.

All right. Do you have any questions for her?

Uh, do you have any children?

No.

Okay. How do you feel about Oh, that's the obvious question. Where do you live? DC.

Mhm.

I'm in SC. I'm in South Carolina.

How do you feel about long distance?

I've done long distance before.

Yeah, likewise.

That's it.

That's it. All right. Pretty basic. I mean, vibes is vibes. If it is, it you know, it is what it is.

Okay. Okay. Now, is he someone that's your type?

Yeah, he's cute.

No, I like his answers.

Yeah.

Okay. Come on up here with us.

All right. Do you have any final questions? If you don't have any, that's okay as well, but let us know. How's your relationship with your parents and your family?

It's really good. I'm really close to my parents. I have a twin sister and a younger brother. We're all very close. U we all live around the same area, hang out, like do family trips and events and things like that. So, yeah, we're very close.

Cool. Okay.

Any final questions for you? Um, so you said you have two kids. Is your relationship with their mother um like cordial? Is there any drama or anything?

No. Yeah, we're co-parents. She supports my trip out here, you know. Um, so yeah, we're good. We We've been separate for about three years since my son was born. He's three.

So, we're we're good. We're good. Um, I'm I'm friends with her sisters. It's like a real co-parenting relationship.

Yeah. If she needs help or I need help with something, you know, with something cuz I'm there cuz uh uh Yeah. cuz kids. Yeah.

Okay.

All right. So, I'm gonna ask my final question now then. Is it a yes for you for her?

Um, can I get your name one more time?

Briana.

Briana. Yeah.

Yes. Okay.

And is it a yes for you for him? Um, I don't think so. Sorry.

Okay.

So, why was it a no? Sorry. I think that the two kids just too much for me. Um, yeah. Yeah, you just seem really nice and down to earth. Yeah,

likewise.

Yeah.

Have you head on back?

All right. Well, unfortunately that's all the balloons pop, but thank you so much for coming on. I'll take the mic and let's give it up for her, guys.

Thank you. Okay, let's bring out our next single lady. Hello. What's your name?

My name is Avery.

Avery, how old are you?

I'm 26 years old.

Where are you from?

I'm from North Carolina.

North Carolina. Okay. What do you do?

Um, I am a licensed natural hair stylist and I also do inhome companion care for elderly residents.

Oh, very nice. Okay. What are some things you like to do for fun?

Um, for fun, I love to skate. Um, I'm a very athletic, active type of person. Um, anything artsy or creative. I love music, live music, anything of that type of sort.

Um, so yeah.

Okay. And what are some things you look for in a man?

Um, intelligent, kind, caring, um, goal oriented. Very goal oriented. I make that a big thing with myself. Um, what else? I guess that's my top three.

Okay, got it. And uh what are some of your deal breakers?

Deal breakers? No job.

Um I want to say kids, but maybe one I can deal. Um

other than that, I just want to see, you know,

what they have to offer.

All right, got it. So, we did get a pop balloon. Okay, we got Okay, I was going to let them finish. Let's go see why they ended up popping. Okay. Your name and age and where did you pop your balloon?

Kids.

How many?

I got three.

Okay.

Yeah.

Okay.

Oh, my name Bartholomew. I'm 34. Sorry. There we go.

No. Apart from the kids. Is he someone that's your type?

Um, yes. You're very handsome and I like your outfit.

I like your I like the little kitten heels.

Oh, thank my friend told me not to wear them cuz the heel was too little. So, I thank Thank you for that. For sure.

I love yours. Thank you. Let's go over here. All right. Your name and age and white is your popular balloon.

Geraldo. And I'm 40. She said you 26.

Yes.

Yeah, I'm 40.

Okay.

Yeah.

But she's gorgeous. Yeah.

Thank you.

And now is he someone that's your type?

Um, not so much.

Yeah. I think the age thing will probably

All right. Thank you.

Your name and age and why did you pop your balloon?

Joshua 35. You It's two things. You said I was already when you was talking like your mouth keep going to the side a little bit and it's kind of

I don't know why but the second thing is you said you weren't for sure if they can have one kid or not and I got one kid.

Okay.

Okay. Got it.

Now is he someone that's your type?

Um not really but I really like your outfit.

Thank you.

And what makes him not really your type?

Um I would say height. I am looking for someone a little taller.

Okay. Thank you. So this way, your name and age and why did you pop your balloon?

Rodri J, 34. Uh, I got two kids,

so yeah, that's pretty much it.

And is he someone that's your type?

Um, yeah, I would say so.

Thank you.

Okay, we did get another pop back over here. Okay, your name and age and why did you pop your balloon?

Ty, 40. And uh, I couldn't really hear that well, but I think I heard you say something about the age and so I'm 40, so I fig Yeah. You don't look 40 though. It's

the Nigerian genetics.

Okay.

Okay. So 40 is is that too old for you or it was more so like

a little too old.

Okay.

Got it. Got it.

Yep. Cool.

But apart from that, is he someone that's

You're very handsome.

Thank you.

Okay. Head on back this way. So we now have four unpop balloons. Go ahead and ask these men a question. Um, what's one goal that you set for yourself this year that you're already working on or may have accomplished?

Okay, your name and age first and then ask your question.

My name is Jay. I'm 23 years old and our goal was to come to USA to make content and I did it.

Cool.

Your name and age and the answer to her question. My name is Jaylen, 34 years old, and one goal that I made for myself was to get into real estate. I haven't done it yet, though.

Okay.

But I'm working on it.

What's working on it?

Uh, I've been looking at houses.

Okay.

Yeah.

Okay. Thank you. Why are they laughing? All right. Your name and age and the answer to her question.

Marcus. I'm 32. Um, a goal I've been working on this year, I've been working on owning my own business. Uh, I officially just got my LLC, so I'm very close to uh getting a jump started.

What What's the business area?

Uh, I just started I just signed up for a food truck. So, opening up for a food truck. I want to get into the restaurant industry.

Interesting.

Okay. Your name and age and the answer to her question.

My name is Reese. I'm 36. Um, the first answer, even though it may not been your intentions, is to keep growing with God. Like, that's important to me. Um, the second thing to answer your question is that um, so I do modeling and um, I have like a a small company where I help up and coming models like build a portfolio and everything free of charge and I like to expand that where I'm doing it in more than just the state that I'm in. So

yeah, thank you.

That's interesting.

Pretty cool. Thank you. You're welcome.

All right, let's head on back.

I can't walk back.

Oh yeah, you can turn around.

All right, I'm going to hand you a pig. Okay,

there you go. And I'm going to have you pop one balloon.

This is hard.

I know. Everyone says that.

Oh my god. All right. So, why was your balloon unpopped?

Simple. Um, for me, a woman's beauty is has it importance, but the most important thing is the behavior. And again, you don't like me, you're disqualified.

But what made you hang on until this point?

Well, I wanted to hear what she has to say. Obviously, she have a beautiful energy and she's well put together.

Thank you.

You know, nice hair is good. But again, you know, I'm very big on like, you know, liking me. You need to be highly sexually attracted to me. If not, you're out.

That's understandable.

Okay. Thank you.

You're welcome.

Now, is he someone Oh, I'm sorry. Why did you end up hopping his balloon?

Um,

well, you were walking this way to do it.

Just cuz I had to pick out of the four and

I don't know. I feel like after hearing you speak, it's like I could tell we probably wouldn't have been a good match.

I like your confidence though. You know what? Yeah.

I appreciate it.

Thank you.

All right. So, we now have three unpop balloons.

Go ahead and ask these men another question.

Okay. Um, let me think of a good one.

How do you feel about social media presence for yourself and for your partner?

Okay, let's start with our comeback. How do you feel about social media presence for yourself and for your partner? Name and age.

Reys. I'm 36. Um, I feel good about it. Like because of Milin, I have a social media presence. I naturally at first wasn't into social media but because of Molly I was forced to get it and now I'm like enjoying like the progression and stuff but I feel like when you have a partner like there's stuff you can even do together you know so yeah it's okay with me.

Okay. Thank you.

All right. Name and age and how do you feel about social media presence for yourself and your partner?

Mark is 32. Uh social media presence me personally um it doesn't bother me. Um, I don't see it's a bad thing to uh be active on social media. I think you should have a good balance though. You should be um aware of what reality is and what social media is. That's my stance on it.

And over here, name and age and the answer to your question.

I'm Jaylen. I'm 34 and social media presence doesn't bother me at all. I do social media myself. So, um, it's the new way of marketing. Yeah.

Okay.

Okay. All right. Go ahead and pop one more balloon.

I'm sorry.

I'm following you.

Okay.

All right. So, why was your balloon unpopped?

Um, first off, I like your name. You said Avery, I believe.

Yes.

Beautiful name.

Thank you.

You're welcome. Yeah. You have a great presence. I think you said you were 26.

Mhm.

But you seem really really mature. Like I'm 36, so maybe I'm a little too old in a sense, but you were really mature. So I was like, uh, at first I was going to pop off the age, but talking to you, like your whole vibe. Like you're cool.

I appreciate that.

You're welcome. And you're a hair stylist. And I've been getting popped all day cuz of my hair. So I was like, maybe this girl could do something that, you know, fix me up a little bit. But I definitely appreciate your time either way. I hope you get a good match. So thank you.

Yeah. You're welcome.

All right. And why did you end up popping his balloon? Um,

I'm not going to say besid No, I wasn't going to say because of you.

Um, like

I'm not sure if we would really make a great match. I would probably work with you in a more professional way

cuz I enjoy modeling and things of that such too.

You look like a mom. So,

but um, yeah, that's all it was.

No, no, I respect it for sure. Yeah.

Thank you.

Okay, so we now have two guys left. Gentlemen, any questions for her? You ready?

Yeah. What does that tattoo on your thigh say?

Love yours. JCole vibes.

Love yours.

I don't like

That's corny.

Yeah, that's on you for life, you know. I think you should have something more meaningful. Yeah,

I could respect it.

So, you got it simply just cuz of J.Cole or No,

that's not why. But

that's what I thought. It was like

No, not simply because of J.Cole. It was just a reference.

Okay. Okay.

Okay.

But that's on you for life, though. Like I don't

I get it.

So if there was more meaning behind it, would that change it?

It would. Well, the placement. I personally don't like the placement.

But at the same time, I wanted to see what it said cuz I couldn't really see it from this angle. Got it.

But yeah, I don't really like that's a life choice.

Yeah.

Yeah,

that makes sense. Okay. Now, is he someone that's your type?

Um, yeah. You're very handsome.

Thank you.

Thank you. Let's

head down this way. All right. Do you have any questions for her?

Uh, yeah. One question. You eat McDonald's?

No.

Oh, did you want me to answer? Seriously?

No.

Let me get serious. U all right. Um, give me a red flag about yourself.

A red flag about myself?

Yeah.

Um, I can get really caught up in my work and be a workaholic. I'm working on balancing work and life now and being more grounded in life. So, yeah, that would be my red flag.

Oh, I'm sorry. One more time. What did you what did you do for work?

Um, I'm a hair stylist, a licensed natural hair stylist, and I do inh home care for elderly residents. I also work in food management. I do a lot of stuff. That's why I say workaholic. I do a lot. So,

no kids.

No kids.

All right. That's it.

That's it. Okay. All right. And now, is he someone that's your type?

Um, yeah.

Okay. Cool. Up here with us. Let's see if we have any further questions up here. All right. Do you all have any final questions for one another before we determine if this is a match?

And you say you don't have any kids?

No, no kids.

Where are you from

originally? I'm from born in Detroit.

Okay.

I say um in Scottsdale. No.

Okay.

I don't really have any other questions right now.

That's it.

Okay. Let me ask my final question then. Is it a yes for you for her?

Yes.

Okay.

And is it a yes for you for him?

We got a man. I'll take the mic. All right. Go ahead and get your lady. Make some noise for them guys.

All right, let's bring out our next single lady. Hello. Welcome in. What's your name?

My name is Diana Taylor.

Diana, how old are you?

I'm 30 years old.

Okay. Where are you from?

From Flint, Michigan.

Okay. And uh what do you do?

I'm an actress, an influencer, and I am a soon-to-be real estate agent.

Okay. Very nice. What are some things you like to do for fun?

I love to travel. I've been to 12 countries. I love to cook. Um I

I'm a little nervous. Sorry.

It's okay. You're doing well.

I love to travel. I love to cook. And um that's pretty much about it.

Okay. Got it. So, what are some things you look for in a man?

I look for someone who knows how to communicate um effectively. Um someone who I'm sorry, I'm so nervous.

It's okay. It's okay.

So nervous. Um knows how to communicate, who isn't argumentative, and knows how to like plan dates.

Okay, got it. And now, what are some of your deal breakers?

Um I would say someone that's argumentative. um someone who doesn't know how to hold a conversation and like red flags.

Okay.

Yeah.

Okay. Got it. So, we did get a pop balloon. Let's go see why they ended up popping. Let's start here.

All right. Your name and age and why did you pop your balloon?

Ters 40. Um basically just the physical attraction in terms of looking for something a little more um athletic.

Okay.

Yeah. But uh big ups Michigan Anders. I'm from Michigan, so

Oh, that's what's up.

And now, is he someone that's your type?

Um, not really.

I would just say because of the flash, I don't really like the

the necklace. That's about it.

Okay,

cool. Thanks.

Thank you. Yeah.

All right. So, I'm going to actually hand you a pick.

Okay.

There you go. And I'm going to have you pop uh let's go with two balloons. Okay. Mhm. Okay. All right. Your name and age and why was your balloon unpopped?

Bartholomew 34. Uh, I like the angel numbers. You got 222 right there. I wanted to hear more after that. After I saw that.

Okay.

What'd you end up popping his villain?

Um, I would just say the appearance like the it's like giving more of like a gothic look. So, it's not really my preference.

Okay.

Now, we got that before, but I'll take it.

Thank you. Let's go over here. All right. Your name and age and why was your balloon unpopped?

Draw 40. And she had the angel numbers. I got the angel numbers. She look good.

Got it.

And why you end up popping his balloon?

I'll say so just say appearance. Yeah.

So what was it about his?

I look too gangster or something.

Kind of. Yeah.

Just a little rough around the edges for me.

Yeah.

Thank you.

All right. Let's head back this way. Okay. So we are now down to five unpop balloons. Let's go ahead and ask these remaining guys a question. Um, I would say, what's your biggest red flag?

Okay. What is your biggest red flag? Name and age first.

My name is Jay, 32 years old. My biggest red flag, again, I'm so confident that people can see it as being cocky, right? But at the same time, I can listen. If your opinion makes sense to what I want to accomplish,

I can listen to what you have to say and apply it to my goal. Okay.

Your name and age and the answer to her question.

Jaylen and I'm 34. And my biggest red flag is a woman who is impurp

All right. Your name and age and what is your biggest red flag?

Josh, I'm 35. My biggest red flag is like trying to balance my social and work life. Okay. So, it's like

Yeah. Yeah. But I'm working on it, though.

All right.

Your name and age and what is your biggest red flag?

Uh, Rodri J 34. I would probably say just topically speaking, I'm a baby daddy. You know, I got two kids, so I didn't want I didn't want that to happen. You feel me? So, I know I understand it. But other than that, I'm pretty good.

Okay. Okay. Got it. Thank you. All right. You're naming agent. What's your biggest red flag?

Um, I would say the biggest one is I have a habit of wearing my heart on my sleeve and sometimes I'm putting 100% effort when someone's might be putting 20 and I'm still put in 100 thinking that I'll just go more than 100 and try to, you know. So, and the second one is I I do have one son. Like that's my only kid, but I ra just be honest with you, you know.

Okay.

I don't know if that's a red flag, but yeah.

And then your name and age.

Oh, Reese, 36. Yeah.

Thank you.

All right. I am going to have you pop one balloon.

One.

Mhm.

Okay.

Go right ahead. Whenever you're ready.

Okay. Stay up there. All right. So, why was your balloon unpopped?

I like how she carry herself. Um I like the nails, the bracelet matching the necklace. Like, yeah, she seems cool. And um even when she was talking up there, like she was like she know what she want and just real genuine. So yeah.

All right. And what'd you end up hopping his balloon?

I would say just overall physical attraction.

Yeah. Like the hair.

Can't knock it. Can't knock it. I've been getting the hair thing all day.

Yeah. The hair.

My mom's Native American, my dad's black, so it's like I can't really help it.

Okay.

But you know, it's nothing to get it braided or, you know,

switch it up. I'm not like I'm openminded to that, too.

Yeah. Yeah.

So, yeah, I've been single a while, so I just been however, you know.

Okay.

Yeah, I got no one to impress currently. So,

yeah, I understand.

But thank you, though.

All right, let's head on back this way. So, we now have four unpop balloons. Go ahead and ask them another question.

Um, what is one thing that your ex would say about you?

Okay, one thing your ex would say about you.

Okay. Name an agent. What's one thing your ex would say about you?

Uh, Roger J. 34. Uh, my ex was the mother of my kids. She would probably say I'm pretty ambitious. Um, hard-headed, you know, get I like to get what I want, but it's for the good for for everybody.

Yeah.

Your name and age, and what's something your ex would say about you?

Joshua, 35. My ex probably say I'm a provider.

Okay.

Your name and age. And what's something your ex would say about you?

My name is Jaylen and I'm 34. And my ex will probably wipe the sweat off her forehead and say, "Damn, I missed my blessing."

Okay. Your name and age. And what's something your exes say about you?

My name is Jay. 33 years old. And what she would say about me is that I am very, very sexual and I'm a freaky ass Right. I like to piss my woman, you know, and satisfy her sexually. Okay. All right. I'm going go ahead and have you pop one balloon.

Okay.

All right. So, why was your balloon unpopped?

I told y'all earlier I like thick I like thick women.

Okay. Straight to the point.

And why you end up popping his balloon?

Hands to height.

Okay.

Yeah. All right.

You got heels on though.

I'm 5'1.

Hey, this been coming on. Everybody here. The height. Everybody got heels on.

I'm still 5'7 with the hills off. So,

okay.

And how tall are you?

5'8, 5'9.

Just a little too short.

Okay.

Thank you.

Okay, we are now down to three unpop balloons. Go ahead and ask another question.

Okay. Um, what would make you husband material?

Okay. What will make you husband material?

First of all, I'm a great leader, right? I know how to lead. They make sure that everything will be uh aligned perfectly. So, you won't have to worry about any dates, stuff like that. Second of all, I can provide as well, right? I can take care of a woman, be there for her. And uh to the world will be um I'm a good teacher, right? I'll teach you how to become the best version of herself. And that's pretty much it.

Okay.

Your name and age and the answer to her question.

My name is Jaylen and I'm 34. And what would make me a good husband would be uh if I choose you, I'mma choose you every single day. And um you don't have to worry about my loyalty. my loyalty will be with you. And that's that's pretty much it.

All right. And last but not least, gonna go ahead and answer her question.

Uh Roger J34. Um well, what made me a good husband?

I would say I like to say the three Ps. One of them my brother just here right here just said protecting, providing, provisioning. So I've always carried that like just being I think being a man, especially being a black man, you got to do like extra. you got to provide not even just for my partner but my my mom. I come from a single, you know, household. So, I definitely that goes into that ambition that I was speaking about just wanting to make it for everybody type.

Thank you.

All right. I'm going to head on back and I'm going to have you pop one more balloon.

Okay.

Mhm. All right. Sorry. Okay. All right. So, why was your balloon unpopped?

Uh, she's easy on, very easy on her eyes. Carries herself well.

Okay. Got

it. I end up popping his balloon.

Um, I remember you mentioning that you had two kids and I want to be the only baby. So,

thank you.

Yeah.

Okay. So, we are down to two on pop balloons, guys. Any questions for her?

Yes, I do have a questions. So, what are the three ways that you can bring tangible value in a man's life?

Um, I would have to say it's based on the way I was brought up. So, my mom pretty much raised me just to be a nurturer. So, just being like, um, very submissive, cooking, cleaning, um, just all of those wely things that I've been taught by my mom.

Great. That's perfect.

Yeah.

Any questions?

That's it.

Okay. Okay. Any questions here?

Uh, yes. What would you wear if I had you around my mom? Cuz I I feel like feel like you don't really got no clothes on for real. Like that's like a club attire. So I want to know if I could take you back home.

Um, I would definitely wear less skin. So,

okay.

Well, I'm curvy, so probably like a t-shirt, not revealing as much around your parents, of course.

That's a BBL. Um, I had a fat transfer. Yeah.

Okay. Okay. Okay.

Are you good?

Okay. All right. Why'd you end up popping your balloon?

Well, I I don't I prefer like natural women.

Okay.

But, you know, like it was I had to hear her out and see like where the substance was at, but like the attire really is like kind of clubbish.

Okay. and on the first date like tricked me into thinking like you know like you're a modest woman

even if you're not you know

respectfully.

Okay.

And now is he someone that's your type?

Um honestly yeah he's someone I could see myself dating.

Okay. Thank you.

Thank you.

And now is he someone that's your type?

Yeah

for sure.

Okay. So scoot that way for me. We'll have you stand right on over here. All right. Any final questions between the two of you before we determine if this is a match?

I do.

Mhm.

So, are you down for us to go for a date tonight?

I'm open to that. Yeah, I'm down.

Cool.

Okay. What about yourself? Any questions? Are you good?

No, I think I'm good.

Okay. Well, let me ask my final question then. Is it a yes for you for her?

Absolutely.

And is it a yes for you for him?

We got a match. I'll take the mic. All right, y'all. Go on up. Make some noise for them, guys.

All right, let's ring out our next single lady.

Hello. Welcome in. What's your name?

Name is Autumn.

Autumn. How old are you?

I'm 32.

Okay. Where you from?

I'm from DC.

Oh, nice. And what do you do?

I work in DC government. Oh, all right, girl.

What are some things I like to do for fun?

Um, I like to travel. I like to walk my dog and go hiking with him.

I like to shop. Um, and experience DC

basically.

Okay, got it. Uh, what are some things you look for in a man?

Um, I look for a leader, someone that is funny and um, and it likes to travel as well. Got it. Okay. Okay. And now what are some of your deal breakers?

Someone that is a faker, like they come off as like, oh, I'm this lavish type of person, but

they probably like not that. Um, someone who's close-minded and someone who probably can't take a joke.

Okay.

All right. Got it. So, we did get some pop balloons.

Let's head on down and see why they ended up popping. Let's start here. Your name and age and why did you pop your balloon?

My name is Jaylen. I'm 34 and um just not the look I was kind of looking for.

Okay.

Yeah.

So, what does that mean?

It not my type.

Okay.

Yeah. Not my type.

Got it. And now, is he someone that's your type? He cool. He cool.

Yeah. Okay. No problem.

Thank you. All right. Your name and age and why did you pop your balloon?

Ters. 40. And uh yeah, I I just couldn't find myself like gravitating towards her physically. So, that was basically it.

Okay. a little bit.

And do you feel yourself gravitating towards him?

No.

Okay. Why not? Um, flashy a little bit. Um, I don't like the outfit at all.

I don't I don't like those shoes at all either. So, that's probably it. Yeah.

Okay.

Thanks.

No problem.

It's good to say you got your balloons down.

Okay. Okay. All right. Your name and age and why did you pop your balloon? Joshua 35. I love your hair, by the way. But

you're just not the the bodybuilder I like or whatever. But I got a question.

How can you say he flashing? You got these big ass gold. You got these big gold chains on your neck.

This is just like a costume jewelry. That's something he probably wear like all the time. I don't really wear jewelry. This is just something I had to, you know, throw on with a black dress. Just like a little spaz, you know, little pop of color a little bit, you know. All right.

I'm not a jewelry person for real.

I got you.

Okay.

All right. So, would you like thick girls or something?

Yeah, I like thick

Okay. Okay.

Yeah. You feel

I'm a little slim thick. I'm a little slim thick. So, I'm cool. I understand that. Now, is he someone that's your type?

Oh, yeah. He cool. He's not ugly.

Yeah.

Thank you.

Your name and age and why did you pop your balloon?

Roger J. 34. I like your glasses. I wear glasses as well. Um I just got I get a homie vibe, like a friend vibe,

and that's cool, too.

Right.

Yeah. And is he someone that's your type?

No, not really. Okay,

why not?

Um, I'm not really attracted to him. Um, I'm really big on fashion. I like fashion for people. So, I don't like the outfit either. The green backwards right now. The green and the with the

You said what?

Oh, no. I was on fashion backwards right now.

Oh, okay. Um, the green with the pants. Just little black.

And then the black

um Steve No. What's those Martins? Yeah.

Not it.

Not it for me.

Damn.

But it's okay.

I appreciate you.

Thank you.

Oh, and I don't like dangling earrings either.

It's not dangling.

Those are dangling.

Yeah. I'm saying these angle.

Those dangle.

She wants like just a stud.

Just a stud. Yeah, like a stud.

That's fine.

Yeah,

cuz you know dangling is like a little string and like a little

Okay. Tweet your own, you know.

Thank you.

We're not trying to fight.

No, we not we not we not fighting. All right. So, we've now have three unpop balloons. Go ahead and ask the remaining guys a question.

Um, like I mentioned earlier, I am a dog mom that Bentley is my heart. So, do anybody have a problem with dogs?

Okay. Name and age. And how do you feel about dogs?

Bartholomew 34. I'm a big dog myself. So, no, I have no issues with dogs.

Okay. your name and age and how do you feel about dogs?

They're all 40 and I love dogs.

Okay. Do y Oh, can I

Do y'all have dogs?

I I used to but a car had them. So, yeah.

I'm so sorry.

Do you have dogs?

No dogs. Okay.

Let's go over here. All right. Your name and age. How do you feel about dogs?

My name is Reese, 36. Um, when I was younger, like my parents had two dogs at two different times. So, I I grew up around it, but um I don't currently have pets, but I'm okay with dogs. Like, it's cool.

Okay.

Yeah.

Thank you. Cool. All right. While we're here, go ahead and ask another question.

Um if I had the actual X, what would they say that you need improvement in?

Oh, um just uh having more time, like make more time. I I work a lot. Like I usually work literally seven days.

Um I work for myself, so I can work less. Um, but at that time I felt like I needed to prioritize work more. Um, so that's a big one is just making that time and working a little less. Yeah.

Okay. Okay.

All right. What about over here? What's something your ex would say you need to improve on?

Yes.

To improve on.

Um, stop. Don't say no. Basically, I'm always I'm I'm I mean I never say no. I always give give give everything I have.

Oh, okay. So, learn to say

just learn to say no. There you go. I'm sorry about that.

Okay.

All right. What about over here?

It's tough cuz I'm almost perfect.

Oh,

I'm just playing. Uh probably my organization.

Okay.

Uh I'm a busy guy. I I work I do photography. Sometimes I have a lot of things going on at the same time and it can hinder other things. So, just being more organized, something I'm working on, getting better with my calendar, putting stuff in my calendar.

Thank you. All right. So, I'm going to hand you a pick.

Okay.

There you go. And I'm going to have you pop one balloon. Okay. All right. So, why was your balloon unpopped?

She got my favorite color on red. the glasses. She's beautiful.

Thank you.

Love the hairstyle, too.

Thank you. Thank you.

And why gender popping his balloon?

Um, like I said, the outfit just wasn't there for me. Um, I really don't like men with hair. Um, and then

the skull the skully.

Yeah. Bad hair day, but it's cool.

Okay. Yeah, that was it. Great. Thank you. Okay, we should stop right here. The two guys left. Any questions for her?

Oh, you're already ready. Okay, let's come down here. Hey, go right ahead.

Yeah. So, um, do you have a relationship with God? And if you don't, are you open to maybe allowing someone to gradually like lead you to God, so to speak?

I feel like I do have a relationship with God. I'm not religious. I'm definitely spiritual. I do go to church here and there, but if I'm not in the church, I watch it on TV. I'm definitely open to somebody helping me get into the church because I feel like if I had a partner that was more active in the church, then it would help me to go more. So, yes,

I like that answer. That's cool. Yeah.

Thank you. Any other questions?

Um, I know you said you're just a dog mom, so you don't have any children?

No.

Is children something that you're not interested in or something maybe you do want in the future?

Um, if they do have kids, I would say my limit is probably like one or two.

I I do have one, so

Okay. Yeah,

that's my only kid. That's why I was asking too. Yeah.

And if it's like two, then you have two baby mamas.

No, no, that's you know, you got to have two kids. One baby mama, not two kids. Yeah, that's too much.

Just one kid. Yeah.

Okay, that's cool.

Thank you.

Okay.

All right. Any questions over here?

Oh, I I do have kids.

How many?

I got three, but I got one big mom.

I'm sorry.

Sorry.

So, what was making you hang on to your balloon?

I just want to hear how I like the little swoops you got going on. You know, the glasses. Yeah. Just want to hear you out.

Okay.

Thank you.

Got it. Apart from the kids, he's someone that's your type. He's very handsome. I love dark skin men.

Thank you.

I love darkkinned men. And you know what? The outfit, I like it. It's cool. My brother wears those type of pants. I'm like, I'm kind of getting into that type of style, you know? So, it's cute.

I don't look gothic or nothing, do I? Just a little just a little t. You about to you about to you getting there. You know, you getting it. But you Google, you cool. It's cute though. It's cute. I like it.

I appreciate that.

G like a little Japanese type of

I watch a lot of anime. So,

okay. I see that. I see that. I see that.

All right. Thank you.

Okay. I didn't ask that over here. Now, is he someone that's your type?

Um, not offhand. No. I think

No.

No. Okay. All right. So, is that going to be a pop? Yes.

Okay. So, what was making you hang on to your balloon?

Um, there's a couple reasons. Like, I like your confidence. Um, you're very stylish. You know, I'm a creative person, so I like that. Like, you gave me a vibe like you could be artsy and into music and different kind of things. Also, I think you mentioned hiking.

Mhm.

Yeah, that's something I grew up doing. So, I do like that. Um, the other thing too is, um, like all your answers seemed genuine and and I like the fact that although you had no kids,

you were still open to someone with one and some of the women today was not.

That was a deal breaker. So,

at this age,

they, you know, you were bound to have one at least. You know what I'm saying? So,

and, you know, when you're young, you don't always, you don't make the best decision on choosing, being selective, and

and that's very honest.

You don't let God lead the relationship. So, there's a lot of factors why people have kids with the wrong people. So,

yeah.

Yeah. But I appreciate you for being understanding.

Yeah. Thank you.

Thank you.

Okay, let's head on back.

All right, so fortunately that's all the balloons pop, but thank you so much for coming on. I'll go ahead and take the mic and let's give it up for her, guys. Thank you everyone for tuning in to this episode of Pop the Balloon or Find Love. If you'd like to be featured in any of our upcoming episodes, make sure you click on that link in the description box below and fill out a form to be considered. Also, don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe. And we'll catch you all next time. Love pop. Lover pop. Love a pop. Lover pop. Love a pop. Lop. Lover. Lop. Lop. Lop. Lop. L. Pop. Lover. Pop. Lover. Pop. Lop. Love a pop. Love a pop. Love a pop. Love a pop. Love a Keep loving.

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Ep 108: Pop The Balloon Or Find Love | With Arlette Amuli

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