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This young lady must have something going on outside. Wang Shi asked her what time she would be home. "Hey, this young lady won't stand for it. You want to control me? There's trouble in the backyard." Wang Shi's past achievements were inseparable from the powerful support of his father-in-law, Wang Ning. The Director of the Public Security Department of Guangdong Province. He truly hasn't seen women. Nonsense, your father-in-law is the Deputy Secretary of the Guangdong Provincial Party Committee, and also in charge of public security. Oh, when the old father-in-law passed away, he was over 60 and liberated himself. Just a little flirtation, and boom, his brain was filled with lust. But look at Baozi's wife, she's quite good! That Peng Guomu, she really has the looks and the substance! Asked you what time you'll be back. Asked more than once, right? I said I'm still in a meeting. But do you admit that you love yourself more than you love me? First of all, let's have a scoop! This is an email I just received. The credibility is very high because generally, the less said, the truer the matter. Greetings, Master. The joke about sending your mistress to MBA if you want to break up with her is truly a masterpiece. All the protagonists today are prototypes of a female artist who is a masterpiece. Her ex-boyfriend is Yang Changlin of Chongqing Tianci Hot Spring. Boss Yang is over 70 this year. Uh, but the old man is still vigorous. His current girlfriend is from the 00s. She posts photos on WeChat Moments every day showing off their affection. Oh, senior, senior, impressive! Back then, Miss So-and-so was with him. She wanted to marry the boss and move up. The boss went along with it and sent her to CEIBS to study. During her studies, she met Feng and his gang. Feng then introduced Miss So-and-so to a certain well-known real estate developer. Unfortunately, the lifelong reputation of the well-known real estate developer was ruined. Ultimately, it was ruined by this woman. Why are we talking about her today? It's because I saw a rumor on Twitter that they are going to have their assets notarized. Miss So-and-so deleted all her photos and group photos with the well-known real estate developer from her social media platform. Not set to private, but deleted. Oh my, so I have to talk about it. So I read this part about the well-known real estate developer, and it truly made me feel deeply. We are not slandering anyone, we are just respecting him. Let's talk about facts. I feel very sad because we are all in the same boat. Don't harm your own kind, you know? Look at Brother So-and-so, he's over 70, and he's living so miserably. Why is this? How did it come to this? He was once a powerful figure, someone who could have surpassed Jack Ma and Pony Ma. He was a big shot! So there are a few points that deeply touched me. In a well-known interview, they were conducting interviews recently, and it went smoothly, but then it backfired. This interview recording, you have to be strong yourself to strike the iron. You didn't mess yourself up. He said he likes skiing. I like skiing too. Then he said he broke a rib skiing. He didn't dare to tell his wife after breaking his rib. What is an old man afraid of? Afraid of falling. I took her skiing to show off. I couldn't keep up with the speed, and I fell down. I pretended to be fine. How did I hear this and immediately get out of character? Uh, in a normal marital relationship, if you break a rib, the first thing you do is tell your wife. Why not? Why not tell her? My first reaction was why? I'm truly untalented and unlearned, I can't figure it out. The only reason I can think of is that he had to pretend. He had to pretend to be a hero. A hero's ribs can't break. So you don't tell your wife about something so big. Oh, he even said it. This is the first thing that touched me. The second thing that touched me was when he was interviewed with Old Duan. Brother Duan said he gets up at 5:40 to exercise and go to work. Work! He used the word "work." Then Brother Duan said, "I basically get up at 5:30 in the morning to go to work." Oh, you still go to work? I go to work. I decided to start a business again. That means you like it. There's no other reason. Brother Duan naively asked, "What kind of work are you doing?" "I have a job. I have a job now." Uh, Old Duan, Duan Yongping, was speechless. The camera was on, and he couldn't not speak. He just said, "Then you really like it. You really like going to work." Oh, in this short sentence, it was like a photon torpedo that shattered my heart. Does anyone really like going to work? I ask you, are there any neurotics who really like going to work? Those perverted people like going to work. Old Duan was really at a loss. It seems he couldn't explain it anymore. He couldn't keep up. Old Duan said, "You really like going to work." Oh, well. Brother Duan's high emotional intelligence is fully displayed. If it were me, I probably couldn't keep up. My mind would go blank. So after the interview ended, when Brother Duan said goodbye to Brother Wang, he said earnestly, "Be good to yourself." Haha, all men understand this. Because the young wife is standing there, watching intently. Be good to yourself. All the words were swallowed, countless words swallowed into his stomach, condensed into one sentence: "Be good to yourself." Brother, be good to yourself. Damn, it's so tragic. To live to this point, I am so tragic. Then, the fourth thing that tore me apart was when the couple, in what seemed to be the back seat of a business car, or somewhere else, in what seemed to be a very relaxed state, were talking. A couple talking. A couple talking. Personally, I think this kind of "couple's double act," like the so-called self-media of Lao Gao and Xiao Mo, should have a persona of love and harmonious marriage. So I'll talk about it in that vein. I'll talk about verbal sparring. Damn, I'll tell you, you watch that segment, it's definitely verbal sparring. When a couple appears in public, and in the form of a loving couple, and they are verbally sparring, what is going on? You first admit that you love yourself very much, but do you admit that you love yourself more than you love me? If you're like this in public, imagine what it's like behind closed doors. Let me show you what they said. Do you admit that you love yourself more than you love me? The woman said to the man, "Do you admit that you love yourself more than you love me?" Meaning, she's warning Wang Shi, you old scoundrel, aren't you too selfish? Wang Shi couldn't handle it on the spot. When Xiao Tian said this, Wang Shi couldn't handle it. "Do you admit that you love me more than you love yourself?" Wang Shi's expression was worse than crying. Then he didn't lose to real estate, didn't lose to society, but lost to this conversation. "You love me more than you love yourself." Is it true that you love me more than you love yourself? No, you love yourself more than you love me. I misspoke. "You love me more than you love yourself." That's not a compliment. That's right. That's according to the script. You didn't follow the script. "You love yourself more than you love me." You love yourself a little more than you love me. She said coquettishly. The 72-year-old man couldn't keep up with the conversation. It was very awkward. He said, "Haha, you're asking me? Then you're right this time." Where did this sentence come from? Wang Shi asked her what time she would be home. "Hey, this young lady, this young wife is going out." Wang Shi asked what time she would be home. "Always asking. Asking you what time you'll be back. Asked more than once, right? See, you have a bad memory. You always ask me what time I'll be home. I said I'm still in a meeting." This young lady won't stand for it. "You're interfering with my freedom. You're controlling me. This is mental control!" "It's because I love you!" "You love me, you love yourself!" That's how it came about. "For the past three years, I've flown to various cities to meet investors. You always ask me what time I'll be back. What do you mean? You want to control me?" This old Wang, this old man, really wants to cooperate with this young lady, this young wife. It's said that in their conversation, he's also meeting investors. The old gentleman is also meeting investors. What is he meeting investors for? I don't understand. What does he need to meet investors for? What else do you need to invest in? Aren't you an investor? I, I, I really don't understand why Wang Shi still needs to meet investors. A 72-year-old big entrepreneur, who are you meeting investors for? Investors should be meeting you, right? Why would Pan Shiyi and Zhang Xin go to meet investors? It's a joke. You are all peers. So Wang Shi said, "The first thing I do when I get back to the hotel is send a WeChat message. I ask about my wife's itinerary, help her connect on cultural tourism projects, cooperate with her, and even wear a wig to look younger. Wearing height-increasing shoes to appear very young and energetic. He's living like a young husband. So she's a great man. This guy is living like a young husband. This situation of being young and a young husband deeply touched me. Why? Because in one sentence, if a woman truly loves you, if you are a man and this woman truly loves you, and you ask her what time she'll be home, your wife or your woman will feel very sweet inside, feeling that you are concerned about her, thinking of her, and that she is in your heart. If this woman doesn't love this man, her first reaction is that you want to control me. And based on my social experience, I personally believe there's definitely something going on. This young lady must have something going on outside. Why? It's very simple. Have you seen the movie "Cell Phone"? In the movie, the cell phone is like a hand grenade. Why? Because in the movie, Zhang Guoli was betraying Deng Jie. Zhang Guoli played that character, what's his name, Ge You. To be fair, Yan Shouyi, and Zhang Guoli, who played the producer, both betrayed their wives and were involved with other women. So their cell phones couldn't be seen by their wives. The moment their wives touched their cell phones, they would flip out. If you are a man, and your heart is very healthy and very open, and your wife touches your cell phone, your first reaction will never be anger. Your first reaction will be that your wife might have run out of battery on her own phone, or your wife, you and I are one, and she casually took your phone. This is your normal reaction. If you say, "Hey, you're invading my privacy. Why are you looking at my phone? How do you know my password?" If your first reaction is this, you definitely have something to hide, you're just worried you haven't deleted everything cleanly. That movie very realistically recreated that scene. My understanding wasn't high back then, so I didn't watch this movie. I only saw this movie. It's harming your own kind. So, I didn't expect Liu Zhenyun and Feng Xiaogang, these two unreliable people, to bring all the secrets of bosses and men onto the big screen. So there's nothing that can be done. So, Fan Bingbing played herself. Yes, she changed the little sister's phone number to 10086. Xu Fan also sarcastically said, "Oh, China Unicom has been looking for you a lot lately, 10086." Haha, 10086 is Fan Bingbing. So this matter, girls are the same. Boys and girls, boys and girls are actually the same. The girl's first reaction is not that you are concerned about me, but that you want to control me. You're not allowed to ask anymore. Why? I personally believe there's trouble in the backyard. It's just a matter of how high the flames are, whether they've burned themselves. So, let's look at the netizens' comments. One netizen said, "This is retribution and the price of choice." Why? Because Old Wang himself said something. Brother Wang himself said, "Everyone should bear the consequences of their choices." He said this himself. So, who is bearing the consequences of their choices? Is it him or Xiao Tian? It's not explained. Because Wang Shi's past achievements, as this netizen said, I highly agree. In the end, it was inseparable from the powerful support of his father-in-law, Wang Ning, and the resources brought by his ex-wife, the daughter of an official. His ex-wife's name was Wang Jianghui, and his father-in-law's name was Wang Ning. Who was Wang Ning? Wang Ning served as a deputy-provincial leader in Guangdong Province starting in 1982. You know, Guangdong is where Wang Shi made his fortune. If he held a position like CPPCC, it might not be worth mentioning, or not that important. What position did he hold? Guangdong, I just said Guangxi? Guangdong, Guangdong Provincial Public Security Department Director, Guangdong Provincial Public Security Department Secretary, Guangdong Provincial Disciplinary Committee Secretary, Guangdong Provincial Vice Governor, Guangdong Provincial Party Committee Standing Committee Member, Guangdong Provincial Party Committee Deputy Secretary. This is the elder Wang Ning. Born in 1923, he joined the revolution before 1949. How high was his rank? Director of the Guangdong Provincial Public Security Department, Secretary of the Disciplinary Committee, Deputy Secretary of the Provincial Party Committee. Who would dare to offend him? He was the King of Guangdong, it wouldn't be an exaggeration to say. Of course, the Old Ye family was there. If the Old Ye family didn't approve, could he have gotten promoted? He was too familiar with the Old Ye family. So without his father-in-law Wang Ning, Old Wang's first pot of gold came from Dalian, transporting feed and corn to Guangdong. He made over 100,000 yuan per truckload. That's how he made 30 million yuan. In the 1980s, by 1985, Wang Shi had 30 million yuan. What does 30 million yuan mean? In 1985, even in Hong Kong, he would have been a super-rich tycoon. How did he get this money? So, he had such a background. Some people say Old Wang, Wang Shi, is not from a high-ranking family. How do you look at it? Compared to you, he is from a high-ranking family. But compared to Wang Jianghui's family, she was definitely marrying down. Because her father, Wang Shi's father, was from the Liuzhou Railway Bureau. You, from the Liuzhou Railway Bureau, weren't even the top boss. In the railway system, you might have some influence, but can you compare that to the Deputy Secretary of the Guangdong Provincial Party Committee? Can you compare that to the Director of the Guangdong Provincial Public Security Department? No, you can't. So he was always suppressed. His persona is that everyone knows he's a son-in-law, a "fast son-in-law." As the third-highest official in Guangdong, some say he can be defined as such. So, as the so-called "fast son-in-law" persona, it's a shackle he's always wanted to escape. It's imaginable that Wang Jianghui was not a woman of allure. Wang Jianghui's allure was definitely not enough. Girls from such families are usually more conservative. Maybe a bit plump, not seductive. This was also a concern for Wang Shi. Of course, it can be inferred, based on my personal experience, that before 2012, Old Wang probably didn't dare to fool around. Nonsense, your father-in-law was the Deputy Secretary of the Guangdong Provincial Party Committee, and also in charge of public security. The head of public security. You know, gambling, prostitution, and drugs are all related to the Public Security Department. The Public Security Department is their stronghold. If you go there for prostitution, you're finished. So he probably didn't dare to fool around. Even if he wanted to, he wouldn't dare. It would be too easy to investigate. So, Old Wang never passed the "woman test." He was too obedient. When his old father-in-law passed away in 2013, when his old father-in-law passed away, everything that was supposed to come, came. Damn, it was like a compressed spring, it had to pop out. So the outcome that was bound to come could not be avoided. Now, in 2013, after his father-in-law died, he let himself go. He let himself go in 2012, hand in hand with Xiao Tian. It's been 15 years since then, right? Fourteen or fifteen years. After these fourteen or fifteen years, everything should end. So he sighed, "People should bear the consequences of their choices." Some netizens said, "This is not just a sigh, but more like a belated stop-loss order." The most ironic thing for Xiao Tian is that everyone believes she is not an independent woman. So, what people lack, they shout about. What she lacks the most is what she emphasizes every day. So she emphasizes that she is an independent woman. As for how independent she is, we have witnessed it today. Very independent. She can criticize Wang Shi. Absolutely. She can criticize Wang Shi in front of the camera, making him unable to respond and putting him in an awkward position. So she used Wang Shi's resources to build this persona of an independent woman. Then, after 15 years, Wang Shi couldn't keep up with the pace anymore. When Wang Shi was still the godfather of real estate, Wang Shi was the core resource. But today, 15 years later, Wang Shi has become a non-performing asset. He should be a chief resource officer who has lost his resources. You are a non-performing asset. The company will lay you off. You are that non-performing asset. So Wang Shi's mistake, some netizens said, is that he mistook a woman's ambition for ambition, and mistook a woman's transaction for admiration. But I think it's still too much. This is not human language. It's too close to the truth, scratching the itch through the sock. The real reason is simple: he hasn't experienced women. You see, everyone is surprised. Such a big boss has never passed the "woman test." Why? Because Wang Jianghui and her father were too powerful and suppressed him. When he was young and vigorous, when he had 50 million, 100 million, he should have been fooling around everywhere and passed the "woman test." When he was hiding his phone, entering 10086, using 8848 to hide his secrets, he didn't do it. Then, oh, when his old father-in-law passed away, he was over 60 and liberated himself. He liberated his true nature. He hadn't experienced women. He was sexually repressed for many years. As a result, any girl with a little bit of beauty, just a little flirtation, and boom, he lost his mind. Like a 20-year-old, his hormones went to his head, his brain was filled with lust. This is the state of a young person whose brain is filled with lust, experiencing thirst and wildness. So, in the end, not only did he personally destroy his original marriage, but he also personally sowed the seeds of this so-called sexually destructive love. This is very emotional, very emotional. But is it true that Xiao Tian really deleted all their photos? If it's true, I can predict, my crow's mouth has predicted it, that something is wrong. They have something going on. "What time are you coming back?" They have something going on. "What's up? I'm going to meet investors." "Can't come back a little later? No, you can't check!" Something's up. So this matter might be about Old Wang. If I were in his shoes, I wouldn't go to that extent. Because in my "Naxing Sect," I always tell all my male disciples that when you are young, you must pass the "woman test." When you have money, the first test is the "woman test." If you don't pass the "woman test," women will "test" you. So now, if you can't pass, I personally think you must pass the "woman test" before you're 40. Preferably before 30. Preferably before marriage. Don't try to pass the "woman test" after marriage. If you try to pass the "woman test" after marriage, you'll likely end up with a mess. So in my Naxing Sect, I promote that young men should not get married when they are starting a business. Don't rush. Women are different. Women should get married early. After 30, it's too late. Men, actually, after 30, don't rush. Because as long as you succeed in your business, you have enough computing power and resources. Success in business is just a matter of time. So a 35-year-old man still has great marriage market competitiveness. But women don't. Women are different. So men should pass the "woman test," preferably before marriage. Preferably late marriage. For men, it's best to marry a wife after you've passed the test. What is the "woman test"? It's simple: do you prefer dumplings, noodles, rice, or Japanese cuisine? You need to know, because you'll be eating this for a lifetime. Will you eat Japanese food, Korean food, Chinese food, Sichuan cuisine, or Northeast cuisine? This is your taste. You must know, because different women have different characteristics. Men and women are the same. So only when you know what you love can you spend your life with them, instead of wanting to change after a few years, like the "seven-year itch." So how do you know what you like? In my Naxing Sect, I've talked about it. In the early courses, I talked about the physiological characteristics of women, the psychological characteristics of women, and how they must match with men. This marriage should at least have sexual compatibility of 51%. The rest, soul compatibility, values compatibility, added together. If it exceeds 80%, this marriage will be very stable. After having children, it will be very stable. If it's less than 50%, this marriage won't be stable. So you have to pass the "woman test." So, the consequence of not passing the "woman test" is that I know Wang Shi never went to Dongguan. Haha, yes. Because his father-in-law was a leader back then, he didn't dare to go. So men over 35 also have trouble finding partners. No, no, you misunderstood. I'm talking about successful entrepreneurs. If you're a successful entrepreneur, you want to start a business, or if you're not starting a business, you're a delivery driver. Then don't wait until you're 35. You really won't find anyone. If Tian doesn't have a status, at least 1,500. I don't understand what that means. Wang Shi has an Android mindset. Don't say that. That's objectifying women. It's also objectifying men. You're objectifying Wang Shi. This is irrelevant. It's about not passing the "woman test" and then letting himself go when he's old. Then it's over, isn't it? No good ending. This chaos has just begun. With the public opinion growing, this backfire will lead to more conflicts between the couple. I can predict it because I'm experienced. Although I'm younger than him, I'm telling you, this is just the beginning. The chaos in their family, you'll see it. Because this doesn't match. There's no tacit understanding between the couple. This kind of couple has to act, has to perform for each other. The whole family is not a stage. A family is a safe harbor. The battlefield outside, the business battlefield, is the stage. If you turn the family into a stage, then why is there no sense of security? The couple will definitely not last. I'm telling you, there's a saying that's very true: a man's mirror is his woman. That is, a woman is a man's mirror. No matter how powerful this man is, no matter how much you brag, just look at his wife. If she's by his side, attending events together, look at his wife, and you'll know his level. It's basically that level. Because I'm still an old-fashioned man, so when I look at someone, even though I'm over 50, I still like to see if he has enough computing power, enough IQ, enough intelligence to keep up. You say he's experienced and has seen and done things, that's okay, it can be accumulated later. But if the IQ is not enough, the brain is not enough, and you can't keep up, then there's no hope. There's an English saying: "Happy wife, happy life." So, there's a Chinese saying: "A wife is a husband's mirror." These are all wise words. So, when I look, first I look at the woman's quality. Because I'm not interested in Xiao Tian. An artist who is a masterpiece, I'm not interested. I only knew her name through Wang Shi. Then I looked her up. There are such programs these days, so I have to talk about it. I looked it up, and it seems like adult education. Not a regular university student, not like us who took the college entrance exam, got a bachelor's degree, a key 211 university. No, this is adult education. She's not young either, probably born in the 80s. Yes, she's considered an 80s generation. The computing power from that era is definitely not enough. There's no doubt about that. So this guy is really... my big brother, what kind of eyes does he have? Haha, haha. So there's nothing that can be done. Haha, Baozi. This example is well-chosen. Baozi's IQ and computing power might not be enough, but look at Baozi's wife, she's quite good! That Peng Guomu, she really has the looks and the substance! She has the experience and the knowledge. She's an artist of virtue and art. Old Wang has already exposed Tian's underwear. I haven't exposed it. She just didn't go to college. She didn't go to a regular, full-time program. This is from Google and Baidu online. It says she's in adult education, something about the Chinese Film Academy, directing, that's all later. She didn't get in at 18. This is not exposing her underwear. There's trouble in the backyard. This is unavoidable. This is public. Haha. Wang Shi might as well find a Japanese girlfriend. Haha. It's too late to say that.