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can't help it. We have to eat out. We have to go to the fun restaurants. We have to party. It's It's like women do the responsible thing or the irresponsible thing.
All right. What's up, guys? Um, after giving middle of the road takes with general conservative talking points for years, Brett Cooper, uh, you know, nothing against her. I think she's What the Brett? What are you doing with this top? I thought you were a mother. Oh my god, this is so low cut. Okay, that's crazy. You know, they call me a degenerate, but they wear [ __ ] things than I do. All right, whatever. Whatever.
Okay, so she's been doing middle of the road takes for years, right? And um she's definitely anti-masculinity. Um and she has protected women for years, never really doing any um certain takes or anything that makes women look bad. But recently, it's gotten so bad in society, like we have Only Fans workers out in public that the Daily Wire, the ex employees, the TradCons are finally saying, "Okay, women are our big fat [ __ ] whores." So now um Brad is finding out that women are not nurturing and we're not good parents and um men are better people and women don't want to be mothers.
A study just went viral on X because it found that 75% of Americans want adults only dining. And the assumption obviously online was that, you know, this huge percentage was all of these bitter childless people in the child-free Reddit that don't want our heathens, our little crotch goblins ruining their night. But no, actually that's not the case. It's actually parents leading the charge. And listen, >> yeah, there's so many mothers who wish they didn't have kids. You know what's so crazy? My mom used to tell me not to have kids young. I'm like, "Mom, did you not enjoy having us?"
>> I am a new mom. I have a little baby. I would love a quiet, peaceful dinner, but obviously, in my opinion, not enough to ban children to get one. But what I think is important to talk about is that this fight isn't really about banning children versus >> Yeah. So, again, you know, she saw Instagram like what it was like for Instagram to have a kid. Um, and all this propagan, you know, kind of right-wing propaganda. She had her kid. She's not going to have more than two. Women are lazy. She wants her career more than having a kid. The attention from the internet is way better than anything her husband or kids could give her.
So >> them run feral in every single environment. Whether it is, you know, a nice restaurant, an Applebee's, a club, whatever it is, it is really about whether in our society, we still know how to share a room with other people and how to prepare your children to do just that. Now, before I tell you guys what Alex and I are doing to try to prepare our family for this, before we dive into the story, I want to thank you guys so much for being here. Thank you for liking and subscribing and always jumping in the comments to engage in all of these topics. I love hearing your thoughts on all of them. If you want to stay up to date on everything we're doing, make sure to subscribe to the channel and ring that notification bell so you always stay up to date every time we upload a video.
All righty. So, this survey which went viral a few weeks ago on X is from a company called Lightseed Covers and they surveyed a thousand adults. So, just keep that in mind. It's a you know small sample but it's worth talking about. But they found that 75% want some form of adult-only dining and 79% of those people are parents. 49% want kids restricted during late night evening hours. 46% want designated adult-only sections. 46% say that romantic settings should be child-free. But here is the nuance that all of these headlines skipped. Only 20% actually want fully totally child-free restaurants. And the other half said that it really depends on the setting. So most people, even though this was not the viral thing that got everybody talking, most people are not saying we want to ban children outright. They are saying, "Give me the option of maybe a quiet table sometimes." And again, I'm a parent. I get it. Like that is totally reasonable. If you are going to a steakhouse with a bunch of colleagues, men in suits, and they want to have a serious dinner at 8:30 p.m. at Bourbon Steak in Nashville. If you and your spouse are finally getting a night away from the kids, you want to have a romantic little quiet dinner, that makes sense. However, the caveat is if you are wanting a quiet ADULTONLY DINNER AND YOU GO TO APPLEBEE'S, IF YOU WANT A QUIET ADULT dinner canoodle,
>> this is what she never Okay, she never says anything of substance or to makes a take that makes women look bad. I'll tell you what women women are the consumers. So, the only people pulled that matter are what do women want? Women want to be able to be single mothers or married and still behaving like a single woman like Brett and be able to bring their kid if they want. Um, and so what's going to actually happen, I would predict, is there's I bet there's going to be daycarees at clubs there. You already see them at gyms, but I wouldn't be shocked if like there was daycarees at like fine dining restaurants and stuff so Bobby could go [ __ ] and come back. Which is kind of like, you know, Brett when she dropped off her kid and went and like saw clvicular at the fashion show
>> your spouse and you go to a brewery that serves up ARTISAL PIZZAS ON A PATIO, you're not going to get it. Sorry. Like that is a totally different conversation. Like that is the unreasonable version from this child-free movement. people who think that a child should not exist in their ey line at all because of their decision not to have children. And so wanting an adult-only space and wanting no children around are two completely different things. But I do want to address both of these. So I want to start with us though, the parents, because half of this conversation in my opinion is a parenting problem. And we should not pretend that it is not because there is a difference between, you know, a kid just being a kid out in public and a kid being undisiplined. Like obviously a baby gets fussy, a Guys, you might have to see a mom breastfeeding in public. So, sorry to talk to breastfeeding in public. You better cover that. I am not with this. I am not with this movement that women can just whip out their boobs in public to feed their kids. Ma'am, either go home or go to the bathroom. I am not with that. I'm call me anti-natalist or whatever. I don't want to see your tits in public.
>> And throw a crayon off the table. Like, that's just a small human being, a small human trying to figure out the world around him. But, you know, a four-year-old doing laps around that steakhouse at 9:00 p.m. at night, disrupting the serious businessmen in suits that are trying to eat their filet minans while the mom sits back at the table scrolling on her phone or talking to her friends, totally ignoring the kid. Like, that is a totally different problem. That's not just a kid being a kid. That is you. And the fix for that is not some outright ban on kids. It's not some, you know, city ordinance. It is better parenting, which thankfully when this story was going viral two weeks ago, a lot of people brought up. One thing that I would add to this conversation that I did not see as much was that yes, it is better parenting, but it is also common sense. It is also situational awareness because as a parent, in my opinion, again, my son is 9 months old, so maybe I'll change my mind on this later, but I do feel like this is common sense, but as a parent, you should be thoughtful about where you take your kids and how it is going to
>> This is such a middle- of the road take with no point.
>> In fact, the experience, not just >> Here's my point, guys. Women are [ __ ] and we're going to [ __ ] no matter what. uh make sure we're whing for you and um also women will [ __ ] at the expense of their kids. Um even the right-wing eg girls.
So >> for the people around you who are also paying customers, but also for you and your kids because you want them happy. Because I guarantee, let's just go back to the four-year-old doing laps around the steakhouse. I guarantee that your four-year-old is not going to enjoy some highbrow tiny French beastro where couples go out for a romantic date night. And you should not demand that your four-year-old son enjoys it or that he conforms to sit in the tiny little beastro chair and behaves for the 3hour six course meal. Like it is literally just common sense. And it is also, especially for new families, young families, it's trial and error. Like now that Alex and I have a baby, I keep a list of restaurants in my phone. It is called my happy baby list. And it's all of the places that we love taking our son in Nashville. It's places with patios, specifically patios with heaters in the winter and big tables, spots that are, you know, already a little bit loud somewhere where I can easily get up, take him outside, walk around, go to a quiet space if he's losing his mind. Like again, it is trial and error. We have like had to figure that out over the last nine months. It is also just situational awareness. Sitting down somewhere and going, "Oh, this is terrible. I'm so uncomfortable. I feel like I can't even like move around. My diaper bag is hitting somebody. Like, they're already, you know, shooting looks at me because I brought MY CHILD INTO HERE." LIKE maybe this is not the best place for us because it's going to annoy other people but also it's going to make the experience stressful for you which is then going to stress out your child and then NOBODY'S HAPPY.
SO >> WHY DON'T women just stay home? You know what I mean? This is we can't help it. We have to we have to eat out. We have to go to the fun restaurants. We have to party. It's it's like women do the responsible thing or the irresponsible thing. I'm not saying never go out to eat, but like when I was a kid that was a luxury. You did not do that on a regular basis. You did not.
>> Why try to shove the square peg into a round hole? And again, that might be common sense, but you do kind of have to figure it out. Like when we first became parents, we did try to do that. Like I was saying, we tried the nicer places. We were trying to, you know, fit our baby into our exact old life with the later dinners and the quaint restaurants that we loved going to date nights on before we had him. And sometimes it worked. Sometimes those were, you know, happy surprises like, "Oh, good. We can take him to this favorite spot of ours." Sometimes it absolutely did not. Unfortunately, we've not been back to those restaurants in months. Hopefully, we will soon. But when it didn't work, we just like got through the dinner. We made it fast. We apologized to people around us. Most people were totally accommodating and sweet. We were even at a restaurant
>> now. So, it's so funny because half of women's talking is just us talking about how awesome we are. So, now she's going to talk about how she's special and different and not like the others.
>> On vacation before Christmas and this woman saw that we were struggling. Oh my god, I'm going to tear up just because it's like so sweet. But she saw that we were struggling and she was like, can I just do you want me to walk around and I'll carry your baby? And I think some people would be like, oh my god, I'm never going to like hand my child to a stranger. But she was this, you know, sweet woman. She was like, I'm mom. And we did. And we were able to like sit there and enjoy our lunch in peace on our first ever trip we took with our son and she just walked around the restaurant with him. So a lot of people outside of social media and these surveys are more accommodating probably than you would think and are nicer. You do just have to read the room. Try
>> to Yeah. to your fa remember social media is how people really feel. So it's how they talk behind your back. So people are accommodating but they still are annoyed
>> to pick the right room and if you get it wrong you just handle it and hopefully people are nice about it and if they're not that's okay. That is not child-free oppression. That's just a learning experience. It is being a considerate adult who happens to have a child. Here is now where the conversation goes with the other party because that street runs both ways. So to the childfree complainers, this is such common sense as well. But you do not get to live in a world without other people's children. That is not a thing that exists. Kids are in grocery stores. They are on the plane. They are at the table next to you. That is called living in a healthy, hopefully thriving, growing society. And if you do not want to hear a tiny baby get uncomfortable on a plane when its ears are popping and it doesn't know what's going on, if it can't sleep because its nap schedule is all screwed up, or if the AC is not working on a plane, which I feel like it never does, and it's crying and it's hot and that ruins your day so much to the point that you are posting about it. If it bothers you that much, save up for a private jet. Seriously. Genuinely,
>> yo, that is the brattiest take I've ever heard. If your kid's crying on the plane, it is really annoying. This is what I mean. The problem isn't the people in the restaurants. Flying is supposed to be for single people and working men. That's that's who it's for. It's not for the mothers. That's the problem. That's what you're missing, Brett. The mothers are supposed to be home. The streets are for the people street in the w the husbands to find their side chicks. You know,
>> save up for a private jet. And I guarantee, just so you know, that the parents feel just as awful with the addition
>> restaurants. Again, that's supposed to be for single people, dates, you know, maybe the occasional date night, but like for what
>> of crippling embarrassment and guilt because they know that you are upset. So, your anger, posting about it, crap, talking them on the plane, it does not help. Anyway, anyway, back to this viral story. Sorry, I got off on a tangent there. You do need to see the most insane part of this study because while some people just wanted to ban kids outright, they were totally okay with something else. And this goes back to the child freak complainer. Oh, the survey rates. At the same time, restaurants are becoming increasingly dog friendly. Nearly half of consumers, 45% support allowing dogs at restaurants in some capacity.
>> I am not for that. Keep your [ __ ] at home.
>> Including 16% >> Yeah, cuz women are having dogs instead of kids.
>> Who are comfortable with dogs both indoors and outdoors and 29% who support outdoor only spaces and this is growing among Gen Z. Consumer support rises sharply to 64% compared to 35% of baby boomers. So TLDDR while this whole debate is happening with the childfree people and the conservative Christian family oriented people all of that stuff there is a growing desire to have more dogs in restaurants and it's not just this study the prioritization of dogs has been wildly increasing over the last
>> women are ruining everything
>> decade I would say and I say this as somebody with four dogs so obviously I love dogs but people have noticed this as you can see look at these Reddit posts like here's one headline from 2019 it reads papuccinos fraternity maternity leave and more. Millennials pampered pets are like children. Yes, they are. And no, paternity leave was not a joke. This article reads, "Corporate America is responding by offering pet perks such as veterinary insurance as an employee benefit. Take your dog to work days and in some cases paternity leave and faternity leave, which is paid time off for newly adopted pets."
Okay, this is just kind of a tangent and I made a Tik Tok about this, but I didn't intend to talk about it in this episode, but it's just so perfect and it really ties in with the people treating their animals as children while simultaneously being pissed at people who do actually have human baby children. But I was scrolling on Facebook, you know, browsing marketplace, keeping tabs on all the groups that I'm in, and a post in the Franklin, Tennessee Facebook group literally stopped me in my tracks. This woman posted and she said, "I'm looking for a luxury residential interior designer to design a suite for my son." I was like, "Oh, you know, whatever." I keep scrolling. I see a picture of a cat. I'm like, "Wait, wait, wait. Let me let me scroll back up. HER SON." SHE I'M NOT KIDDING, GUYS. She said, "My son." And she was like, "Yes, and my son, by the way, is a main [ __ ] cat." And then she goes on paragraphs paragraphs saying, you know, I want him to have a cat tower. We want to build out this room. I want to source a beautiful marble slab for his bathroom that has room for his Robo litter box. She's hiring a luxury residential designer for a glorified cat nursery for a cat that she just adopted. Like obviously I'm not like pissed about that. I was more so just a guest. But that is just an example of the prioritization of pets over children and what people are now doing for their pets while simultaneously, you know, wagging this
>> because women would rather have dogs than an average guy's kid.
>> Finger at people with children that are simply being children in public. Anyway, moving on from that, back to the whole point, more specifically with restaurants. I I'm sure that everybody has seen this, but people will also use, you know, emotional support as a way to get their dogs and pets into
>> I have never done such a thing.
>> Dining spaces, grocery stores, coffee shops, planes, you name it. We've all seen it. Like, these dogs are about as portable as an Inflate IQ tire inflator.
>> You know what that I I had to do that? I'll tell you why. To get my dog from England. Oh my god, that was such a process. Because she was too fat to go in the cabin and two, she had a snout. No, she couldn't go in the car. I had no other choice. No other choice. Okay. Wait.
>> These folks, the dog friendly, child-free crowd, what they are saying is that they will happily share their dinner with some random person's golden doodle that they assure you is super well trained. But the golden doodle is, you know, begging, occasionally barking, yanking on the leash. LIKE, THAT'S TOTALLY FINE. BUT A BABY in a high chair three tables over is just a bridge too far. So my response to these people would be, "You bring your dog everywhere. I have to live with your dog. I wave at your dog. I give it a little pat. So, you also have to live with my child. That is the deal of existing around other people.
>> No, I don't think it's the same because again, the kids are supposed to be inside. The dogs can go outside, but modern woman, we all are very selfish creatures. So, anyways guys, let me know what you think in the comments. I love you. Thank you for watching. Um Brett Cooper is going to have to start acknowledging soon that women are terrible cuz I'm on her ass. So like the video, subscribe to the channel.