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This young lady must have something going on outside. Wang Shi asked her what time she would be home. "Hey, this young lady won't have it! You want to control me? There's trouble in the backyard!" Wang Shi's past achievements were inseparable from the powerful support of his father-in-law, Wang Ning. The Director of the Public Security Department of Guangdong Province. He truly never met a woman. Nonsense, your father-in-law is the Deputy Secretary of the Guangdong Provincial Party Committee, and also in charge of the Public Security Department. Oh, when the old father-in-law passed away, he was over 60 and liberated himself. Just a little flirtation, and boom, his brain was filled with lust. But look at Baozi's wife, she's quite good! That Peng Guomu, she really has the looks and the substance! "What time will you be back?" You've asked more than once, haven't you? I said I'm still in a meeting. But do you admit that you love yourself more than you love me? First of all, let's have a scoop! This is an email I just received. The credibility is very high because generally, the less said, the truer the matter. "Dear Cult Leader, Hello. The joke about sending your mistress to MBA if you want to break up with her is truly commendable. All the protagonists today are prototypes of a 'virtuous and accomplished' female artist. Her ex-boyfriend is Yang Changlin of Chongqing Tianci Hot Spring. Boss Yang is over 70 this year. Uh, but the old man is still vigorous. His current girlfriend is from the 00s. She posts photos on WeChat Moments every day showing their affection. Oh, senior, senior! Impressive! Back then, a certain Miss wanted to marry the boss and climb the ladder. The boss, going with the flow, sent her to study at China Europe International Business School. During her studies, she met Feng and his group. Feng then introduced this Miss to a certain well-known real estate developer. Unfortunately, the lifelong reputation of the well-known real estate developer was ruined, ultimately ruined by this woman! Why are we talking about her today? It's because I saw a rumor on Twitter that they are going to have their assets notarized. Miss has deleted all her group photos and pictures with the well-known real estate developer from her social media platform. Not set to private, but deleted. Oh my, so I have to talk about it. So I looked at this part about the well-known real estate developer, and it truly made me feel deeply. We are not slandering anyone, we are just respecting him. Let's talk about facts. I feel it's very regrettable because we are all of the same kind. Don't harm your own kind, you know? Look at a certain big brother, he's over 70 and living so miserably. Why is this? How did it come to this? He was once a powerful figure, someone who could have surpassed Jack Ma and Pony Ma. He was a big shot! So there are a few points that deeply touched me. In a well-known interview, they were doing interviews recently, and it went smoothly and then backfired. This interview transcript, you have to be strong yourself to forge iron. You didn't mess yourself up. He said a few things, like he likes skiing. I also like skiing. Then he said he broke a rib skiing. After breaking his rib, he didn't dare to tell his wife. What is an old man afraid of? Afraid of falling. I took her skiing to show off. I couldn't keep up with the speed, and bam, I fell. I also pretended to be fine. How did I hear this and immediately get out of character? Uh, in a normal marital relationship, if you break a rib, the first thing you do is tell your wife. Why not? Why not tell her? My first reaction was why? I'm truly untalented and unlearned, I can't figure it out. The only reason I can think of is that he had to pretend. He had to pretend to be a hero. A hero's ribs can't break. So you don't tell your wife about something so big. Oh, he even said it. This is the first thing that touched me. The second thing that touched me was when he was interviewed with Old Duan, Brother Duan. He said he gets up at 5:40 to exercise and go to work. Work. He used the word 'work'. Then Brother Duan said, "I basically get up at 5:30 in the morning to go to work." Oh, you still go to work? I go to work. I decided to start a business again. That means you like it. There's no other reason. Brother Duan naively asked, "What kind of work are you doing?" "I have a job. I have a job now." Uh, Old Duan, Duan Yongping, was speechless. Since the camera was on, and he couldn't not speak, he just said, "Then you really like it. You really like going to work." Oh, in this short sentence, it was like a photon torpedo, shattering my heart. Does anyone really like going to work? I ask, are there lunatics? Do they really like going to work? Those perverted people like going to work. Old Duan was really at a loss. It seemed he couldn't explain it anymore. He couldn't handle it. Old Duan said, "You really like going to work." Ah, yes. Brother Duan's high emotional intelligence was fully displayed. If it were me, I probably couldn't have handled it. Oh, my mind would have gone blank. So after the interview ended, when Brother Duan said goodbye to Brother Wang, he said earnestly, "Be good to yourself." Haha, all men understand this. Because the young wife is standing there, glaring. "Be good to yourself." All the words were swallowed, countless words swallowed into his stomach, condensed into one sentence: "Be good to yourself." Brother, be good to yourself. Damn, how miserable. To live to this point, I am extremely miserable. Then, the fourth thing that tore my heart apart was when the couple, seemingly in the back seat of a business car, or somewhere else, in a very relaxed state, were talking. A couple talking. A couple talking. Personally, I think this kind of "couple's doubles" format, like the so-called self-media of Lao Gao and Xiao Mo, should have a persona of love and harmony between husband and wife. So I'll talk about it in that way. I'll talk about verbal sparring. Damn, I'll tell you, you guys watch that segment, it's definitely verbal sparring. When a couple appears in public, and in the form of a loving couple, and they are verbally sparring, what's going on? You first admit that you love yourself very much, but do you admit that you love yourself more than you love me? If it's like this in public, imagine what it's like behind closed doors. Let me show you what they said. "Do you admit that you love yourself more than me?" The woman said to the man. "Do you admit that you love yourself more than me?" Meaning, she's warning Wang Shi, "You old scoundrel, aren't you too selfish?" Wang Shi couldn't respond on the spot. When Xiao Tian said this, Wang Shi couldn't handle it. "Do you admit that you love me more than yourself?" Wang Shi's expression was worse than crying. Then he didn't lose to real estate, didn't lose to society, but lost to this conversation. "You love me more than yourself." Is that right? "You love me more than yourself." No, you love yourself more than me. I misspoke. "Love me more than yourself." That's right. That's according to the script. You didn't follow the script. "You love yourself more than you love me." You love yourself a little more than you love me. She said coquettishly. The 72-year-old man couldn't handle the conversation, it was very awkward. He said, "Haha, you're asking me? Then you're right this time." Where did this sentence come from? Wang Shi asked her what time she would be home. "Hey, this young lady, this young wife is going out." Wang Shi asked what time she would be home. "Always asking." "Asking what time you'll be back." You've asked more than once, haven't you? See, your memory is bad. You always ask me what time I'll be home. I said I'm still in a meeting. "This young lady won't have it! You're interfering with my freedom. You're controlling me. This is mental control!" "I love you!" "If you love me, you love yourself!" That's how it came about. "You've asked me what time I'll be home for the past three years while I've been flying to various cities to meet investors. What do you mean, you want to control me?" This old Wang, this old man, really to cooperate with this young lady, this young wife. It's said that in their conversation, he's also meeting investors. The old gentleman is also meeting investors. What is he meeting investors for? I don't understand. What is he meeting investors for? What else do you need to invest in? Aren't you an investor? I, I, I really don't know why Wang Shi still needs to meet investors. A 72-year-old big entrepreneur, who are you meeting investors for? It should be investors meeting you, right? Why would Pan Shiyi and Zhang Xin go to meet investors? It's a joke. You are all peers! So Wang Shi said, "The first thing I do when I get back to the hotel is send a WeChat message asking about my wife's itinerary, helping her connect on cultural tourism projects, cooperating with her, and even wearing a wig to look younger, wearing height-increasing shoes to appear very young and energetic. This is living like a young husband. So she's a great man, and this guy is living like a young husband. This situation of being a young husband deeply touched me. Why? In one sentence, if a woman truly loves you, if you are a man and this woman truly loves you, and you ask her what time she'll be home, your wife or your woman will feel very sweet inside, feeling that you are thinking of her, caring about her, and that she is in your heart. If this woman doesn't love this man, her first reaction is that you want to control me. And based on my social experience, I personally believe there's definitely something going on! This young lady must have something going on outside. Why is it so simple? Have you seen the movie "Cell Phone"? In the movie, the cell phone is like a hand grenade. Why? Because in the movie, Zhang Guoli, behind Deng Jie's back, Zhang Guoli played that role, what's his name, Ge You. To be fair, Yan Shouyi, and Zhang Guoli, who played the producer, both had affairs behind their wives' backs. So their cell phones couldn't be seen by their wives. The moment their wives touched their phones, they would flip out. If you are a man, and your heart is very healthy and very open, and your wife touches your phone, your first reaction would never be anger. Your first reaction would be that your wife might have run out of battery, or your wife, you and I are one, she casually took your phone. This is your normal reaction. If you say, "Hey, you're invading my privacy! Why are you looking at my phone? How do you know my password?" If your first reaction is this, you're definitely hiding something, you're just worried you haven't deleted everything cleanly. That movie very realistically depicted that scene. Back then, my level wasn't high either, so I didn't watch this movie. I only saw this movie because it was harming my own kind. So I didn't think that Liu Zhenyun and Feng Xiaogang, these two ungracious people, would bring all the secrets of bosses and men onto the big screen. So there's no way around it. So, Fan Bingbing played herself. Yes, she changed the little sister's number to 10086. Xu Fan also sarcastically said, "Oh, lately China Unicom has been looking for you a lot, 10086!" Haha, 10086 is Fan Bingbing. So this matter, girls are the same. Boys and girls, males and females are actually the same. The girl's first reaction is not that you are thinking of me, but that you want to control me. You are not allowed to ask again in the future. Why? I personally believe there's trouble in the backyard. It's just a matter of how high the flames are, whether they've burned themselves. So, let's look at the netizens' comments. One netizen said, "This is retribution and the price of choice." Why? Because Old Wang himself said something. Brother Wang himself said, "Everyone should bear the consequences of their own choices." He himself said this. So, who is bearing the consequences of their choices? Is it him or Xiao Tian? It's not explained. Because Wang Shi's past achievements, as this netizen said, I highly agree. Ultimately, it was inseparable from his father-in-law Wang Ning's powerful support and the resources brought by his ex-wife, the daughter of an official. His ex-wife's name was Wang Jianghui, and his father-in-law's name was Wang Ning. Who was Wang Ning? Wang Ning served as a vice-provincial leader in Guangdong Province starting in 1982. You know, Guangdong is where Wang Shi made his fortune. If he held a position like CPPCC, it might not be worth mentioning, or not that important. What position did he hold? Guangdong, I just said Guangxi? Guangdong, the Director of the Public Security Department of Guangdong Province, Secretary of the Public Security Department of Guangdong Province, Secretary of the Guangdong Provincial Commission for Discipline Inspection, Vice Governor of Guangdong Province, Member of the Standing Committee of the Guangdong Provincial Party Committee, Deputy Secretary of the Guangdong Provincial Party Committee. This is the old senior Wang Ning! Born in 1923, he joined the revolution before 1949. How high was his official position? Director of the Public Security Department of Guangdong Province, Secretary of the Commission for Discipline Inspection, Deputy Secretary of the Provincial Party Committee. Who would dare offend him? He was the King of Guangdong. It's not an exaggeration to call him the King of Guangdong. Of course, the Lao Ye family was there. If the Lao Ye family didn't approve, could he have risen? He was too familiar with the Lao Ye family. So without his father-in-law Wang Ning, Old Wang's first pot of gold came from transporting feed from Shanghai to Dalian, transporting corn to Guangdong. He made over 100,000 yuan per truckload. That's how he made 30 million yuan. In the 1980s, by 1985, Wang Shi had 30 million yuan. What does 30 million yuan mean? In 1985, even in Hong Kong, he would have been considered a super-rich person. How did he get this money? So, he had such a... Some people say Old Wang, Wang Shi, is not from a high-ranking family. How do you look at it? Compared to you, he is from a high-ranking family. But compared to the Wang Jianghui family, she was definitely marrying down. Because her father, Wang Shi's father, was from the Liuzhou Railway Bureau. You, the Liuzhou Railway Bureau, were not the top boss. In the railway system, you might have some influence, but can you compare that to the Deputy Secretary of the Guangdong Provincial Party Committee? Can you compare that to the Director of the Guangdong Provincial Public Security Department? No, you can't compare. So it always suppressed him. His persona is that everyone knows he's a son-in-law, a "fast son-in-law." So as a high-ranking official, the third-highest in Guangdong, some say he can be defined as such. So as this so-called "fast son-in-law" persona, it's a shackle he's always wanted to escape. You can imagine, Wang Jianghui was not a woman of loose morals. Wang Jianghui's allure was definitely not enough. Girls from such families are usually more conservative. Maybe a bit plump, not flirtatious. This was also a hidden worry for Wang Shi. It can also be inferred, based on my personal experience, that before 2012, Old Wang probably didn't dare to fool around. Nonsense, your father-in-law was the Deputy Secretary of the Guangdong Provincial Party Committee and also in charge of the Public Security Department. The head of the Public Security Department. You know, gambling, prostitution, and drugs are all related to the Public Security Department. The Public Security Department is their boss. If you go whoring there, you're finished. So he probably didn't dare to fool around. Even if he wanted to, he wouldn't dare. It would be too easy to investigate. So, Old Wang didn't pass the "woman test." He was too obedient. When his old father-in-law passed away in 2013, when his old father-in-law passed away, everything that was supposed to come, came. Damn, it was like a compressed spring, bound to pop out. So the outcome that was bound to come could not be avoided. Now, as it is today, in 2013, after his father-in-law died, he let himself go. In 2012, he and Xiao Tian held hands and let themselves go. It's been 15 years since then, right? Fourteen or fifteen years. After these fourteen or fifteen years, everything should end. So he sighed, "People should bear the consequences of their own choices." Some netizens said, "This is not just a sigh, but more like a belated stop-loss order." The most ironic thing for Xiao Tian is that everyone assumes she is not an independent woman. So people shout about what they lack the most. What she emphasizes every day is what she lacks the most. So she emphasizes that she is an independent woman. As for how independent she is, we have witnessed it today. Very independent. She can scold Wang Shi. Absolutely. She can scold Wang Shi in front of the camera, making him unable to respond and putting him in an awkward position. So she used Wang Shi's resources to build this persona of an independent woman. And then, after 15 years, Wang Shi couldn't keep up with the pace anymore. When Wang Shi was still the godfather of real estate, Wang Shi was the core resource. But today, 15 years later, Wang Shi has become a non-performing asset. He should be a chief resource officer who has lost his resources. You are a non-performing asset. The company will lay you off. You are that non-performing asset. So Wang Shi's mistake, some netizens say, is that he mistook a woman's ambition for ambition, and mistook a woman's transaction for worship. But I think it's still a bit too much. This is not human language. It's a bit too far from the truth, scratching an itch through a sock. The real truth is just one sentence: he never met a woman. You see, everyone is surprised. Such a big boss, surprisingly, never met a woman. Why? Because Wang Jianghui and her father were too powerful and suppressed him. When he was young and vigorous, when he had 50 million, 100 million, he should have fooled around everywhere. When he was going through the "woman test," hiding his phone, using 10086, using 8848 to hide his secrets, he didn't do it. And then, oh, when his old father-in-law passed away, he was over 60 and liberated himself. He liberated his true nature. He hadn't experienced women. He was sexually repressed for many years. As a result, any girl with a little bit of beauty, just a little flirtation, and boom, he lost his mind. Like a 20-year-old, his hormones went to his head, his brain was filled with lust. This is the state of being filled with lust, like a young man. He appeared thirsty and wild. So, finally, not only did he personally destroy his original marriage, but he also personally sowed the seeds of this so-called sex-driven love. This is very emotional, very emotional. But is it true that Xiao Tian really deleted all their photos? If it's true, I can predict, my crow's mouth has spoken, something is wrong. They have something going on. "What time will you be back?" They have something going on. What's up? I'm going to meet investors. Can't I come back a little later? No, you can't check. There's something going on. So, this matter might be that Old Wang, if you... First, I wouldn't go to that extent. Because in my "Na Xing School," I always tell all my male students that when you are young, you must pass the "woman test." When you have money, the first hurdle is the "woman test." If you don't pass the "woman test," women will test you. So now, if you can't pass, I personally think you must pass the "woman test" before 40. Preferably before 30. Preferably before marriage. Don't go through the "woman test" after marriage. If you go through the "woman test" after marriage, you're likely to end up with a mess. So what I promote in "Na Xing School" is that young men should not get married when they start their businesses. Don't rush. Women are different. Women should get married early. After 30, it's too late. Men, actually, after 30, don't rush. Because as long as you succeed in your business, if you have enough computing power and resources, succeeding in your business is just a matter of time. So a 35-year-old man still has great competitiveness in the marriage market. So women are not like that. Women are finished after 35. Men and women are different. So men should pass the "woman test," preferably before marriage. Preferably late marriage. For men, it's best to marry a wife after you've passed the test. What is the "woman test"? It's simple: do you prefer dumplings, noodles, rice, or Japanese cuisine? You must be clear. Because you'll be eating this for a lifetime. Will you eat Japanese food, Korean food, Chinese food, Sichuan cuisine, or Northeast cuisine? This is your taste. You must know. Because different women have different characteristics. Men and women are the same. So only when you determine what you love can you spend your life with them, instead of wanting to change after a few years, like the "seven-year itch." So how do you know what you like? I've talked about this in "Na Xing School," in the early courses. The physiological characteristics of women, the psychological characteristics of women, and men must have a special match. Your marriage must at least have a sexual match of 51%. The rest, soul match, values match, combined. If it exceeds 80%, this marriage will be very stable. After having children, it will be very stable. If it's less than 50%, this marriage won't be stable. So you have to pass the "woman test." So, the consequence of not passing the "woman test" is... I know Wang Shi never went to Dongguan. Haha, yes. Because his father-in-law was a leader back then, he didn't dare to go. So it's not good for men over 35 to find partners. No, no, you misunderstood. I'm talking about men who have succeeded in their careers. Men who have succeeded in their careers. If you want to start a business, or if you haven't started a business, if you're a delivery driver, then don't wait until you're 35. You really won't find anyone. If Tian doesn't have a status, it's at least 1,500. What does that mean? I don't understand. Wang Shi is an Android mindset. Don't say that. This is objectifying women. It's also objectifying men. You're objectifying Wang Shi. This is irrelevant. It's just not passing the "woman test," and then when you're old, you let yourself go. Then it's over, isn't it? No good end. This chaos has just begun. With the great development of social public opinion, this backfire will lead to more conflicts between the couple. I can predict it because I've been through it. Although I'm younger than him, I'm telling you, this is just the beginning. The chaos in their family, you'll see it. Because this doesn't match. There's no tacit understanding between the couple. This kind of couple has to act, has to perform for each other. This whole family is not a stage. A family is a safe harbor. The battlefield outside, the business battlefield, is the stage. If you turn the family into a stage, then why is there no sense of security? The couple will definitely not last. I'm telling you, there's a saying that's very true: a man's mirror is his woman. That is, a woman is a man's mirror. No matter how powerful this man is, no matter how much you brag, just look at his wife. If she's by his side, attending events together, look at his wife and you'll know his level. It's basically that level. Because I'm still an old-fashioned man. So when I look at someone, even though I'm over 50, I still like to see if he has enough computing power, if his IQ is enough, if he can keep up. You say he's experienced and has seen the world, that's fine, it can be accumulated later. But if his IQ is not enough, his brain is not enough, he can't keep up. Then there's no hope. There's an English saying: "Happy wife, happy life." So, there's a Chinese saying: "A wife is a husband's mirror." These are all profound truths. So when I look, first I look at the woman's quality. Because I'm not interested in Xiao Tian. An artist of "virtuous and accomplished" caliber, I'm not interested. So I only knew her name through Wang Shi. Then I looked her up. There are such programs these days, so I have to talk about it. I looked and it seems like adult education, not a regular university student. Not like us who take the college entrance examination, get a bachelor's degree from a key 211 university. No, this is adult education. She's not young either, probably born in the 80s. Yes, she's considered an 80s generation. Her computing power from that era is definitely not enough. There's no doubt about that. So this guy is really... My elder brother, what kind of eyesight does he have? Haha, haha. So there's no way about this. Haha, Baozi. This is a good example. Baozi's IQ and computing power might not be enough, but look at Baozi's wife, she's quite good! That Peng Guomu, she really has the looks and the substance! She has the experience and knowledge. She's an artist of "virtuous and accomplished" caliber. Old Wang has already exposed Tian's secrets. I haven't. She just didn't go to college. She didn't go to a regular, full-time program. This is from Google and Baidu online. It says she's in adult education, something about the China Film Academy, directing, that's all later. She didn't get in at 18. This is not exposing secrets. There's trouble in the backyard. This is unavoidable. This is in public. Haha. Wang Shi might as well find a Japanese girlfriend. Haha. It's too late to say that.