Would you rather be a side chick to an NBA player, a wife to an average man?

>> No, it's a side chick.

>> The side chick?

>> You just know the expectations and it's more fun. That's why everyone picking the side chick though?

>> Because I think you could have more fun with the money, the experiences that they can offer. And so it's like if you know the expectations that are there for you along with having the money and the experiences available to you, that's why I'm engaged and I still hook up with my sneaker link and it happened like 3 days ago.

And does the person you're engaged to know about this?

>> Nope.

>> He belongs to the street.

>> The home is crazy.

>> He's with his baby mom, so [ __ ] him.

How many people on the roster?

>> Two. My my fiance and my sneaky link.

>> Okay. Why are you engaged to your fiance if you're just going to hook up with other random guys?

>> Money.

How much does a sneaky link give you?

>> 15,00 15,000 a month.

>> Yes. And I don't >> this guy.

>> He's my best friend's brother.

>> Yeah. Have you hooked up with his best friend before?

>> I have. I also hooked up with his sister and his mom.

>> Bonnie married the sneaky link.

>> That's a good question. Actually, [laughter] I haven't thought about that. I guess in like 2 years, maybe.

>> You going to divorce your your husband and then marry the sneaky link?

>> [ __ ] him. What's he doing with his [ __ ] baby mom?

Who gives you more money? Your sneaky link or the fiance?

>> My fiance.

How much does he give you?

>> 15k. How about the sneaky link?

>> Zero.

>> Well, ain't no [ __ ] way, boy.

>> I thought you said the sneaky link pays you.

>> No, the slink the sneaky link [ __ ] me good.

>> But the fiance doesn't [ __ ] you good.

>> No, the fiance's too far away.

>> So, you're cheating on your fiance with the sneaky link.

>> If if I'm Dominican, it doesn't count. [laughter]

>> If I'm Dominican, it doesn't count.

>> Crazy.

>> And my fiance is also Dominican and I'm Dominican. will make you fall in love and then break your [ __ ] heart and send you to a [ __ ] therapist.

Have you noticed that I haven't been speaking to you for the last 2 days?

>> Uh, yeah, I've noticed.

>> Okay. So, what do you have to say about that?

>> Can I get two more days? [laughter]

>> Nice. That's not really a thing. [laughter] So, you thought it was like almost a red flag that he was too nice?

>> I think I was just like not ready to accept all of that yet. I was like coming out of that like a long relationship, a divorce, like I I was just like chaotic.

>> Yeah.

>> I think I needed some chaos first.

>> Yes. Meeting a nice guy that's actually going to treat you well. You're like, "Wait, can you pause for two seconds? Let me get my [ __ ] together and I'll come back."

>> Yeah, totally.

>> Okay. Wait.

>> I am okay to finish my life being single. It's not going to happen.

>> I would rather die as a single man, having never gotten laid before wife up a lady who is absolutely contentious, who makes me want to sit in the corner of my roof, who makes me want to run out into the desert and die there.

>> Proverbs 21:19.

>> I would rather be single for the rest of my life because that is that sounds so much better.

>> I think this is becoming more of a man's view in this day and time. My son is 18 and I was like, "You don't want to have a girlfriend?" He's like, "I don't want to invest time and money and everything in a girl that I don't want to marry that's been with all my friends."

I don't think people realize this is going to become extremely common where men like generally speaking in their nature don't really need other people with them. I mean, I can go to church. I have my boys at church. Like, that's my community. I don't need to have a wife. I definitely want one, but I don't need it. Whereas women in general, psychologically, sociologically, they need that partner. And when we find women who are single in their 50s and 60s, they are crushed.

It's pretty safe to say you've slept with 50 men for the majority of women and how they're dating today with sexual liberation and freedom and I get to go out there and I get to live my best life and I'm I'm doing [ __ ] walks and all these different things that are encouraged in society.

What's her name? Amber Rose's walk. It's a [ __ ] walk, right? And you go and you're taking pride in the fact that you get to have sex with as many men as you want. No. You know what that is? That's trauma projected onto other women that are traumatized finding each other and making your bad choices. Okay. It's not okay. Not if you want a high earning high value masculine man. If that's just your life, then do you. I'm not here to judge you. I don't care. I'm just telling you what you disqualify yourself from. So, if you are talking from a space of I've slept with 50 men. Why? What happened to you? Why are you seeking love so desperately that now you have to give one of the most valuable things that you have to somebody that you barely even know?

Well, Sarah, a lot of people don't believe that their vagina is valuable. They just think they THINK IT'S BUT I GET THAT GOES IN that goes in upbringing. Why did nobody ever teach you that?

People can have a horrible upbringing. I know this from my own experiences. And then through their own intentional choice to heal, seek God, exception to the rule. The reality is most people have trauma. They never address their trauma. And they perpetuate the same cycle of life over and over and over again.

What is the minimum yearly income to be your future husband?

For me, it's pretty much like if I'm having to work, you need to be making more than me. So like for me, I bring in about like 100K. So for me, I would want to date someone who's making the same and up.

I said 150, but my husband makes more than that.

Okay. So, what about you?

I said 300. I'm in very expensive area of LA.

What part?

West Valley.

Is the guy you're currently dating, does he make that much?

I have never asked, but I

Well, what's he do for work?

It's a salary around that or more.

I mean, but you make good money, right?

It's hard. It's hard. I mean, what do I do with someone that's making 75 in LA? That's rent. You'd be a sugar mama.

Absolutely not.

Be a little sugar mama.

I'm sorry. That doesn't that does nothing for me downstairs.

Honey, this is the reason why feminism didn't become a thing until the last hundred years. Because technology made and maintained by men is the only thing that allows you to believe you don't need men. Do you get that?

Wait. You're trying to get that. Okay. What is your point though?

My point is that your belief in women's rights, you have to ask the men to guarantee your rights. Any rights you have are granted, guaranteed, and enforced by men only.

Fantastic.

And the minute they don't want to do that anymore, you don't have them.

Does it make it right?

I don't agree to the same paradigm as you. I don't believe in rights. I believe in duties. We have duties to each other. We have duties to society. We have duties to God.

We have duties but not rights.

Correct.

As individuals, that's what you believe.

Yes.

Okay. I disagree. I believe we have. you believe in is is fairy tale stuff. It's it's only there but it's only there granted to you by men. Do you understand that?

I understand that, Rachel. Do you?

So then you'd better be nice to them and you'd better stop arguing that you don't need them and we should have our own money and you should have your own money and we're all going to just live as individuals. This rugged individuality that you believe in doesn't exist.

All right. What's up, guys? Welcome to the show, man. It's your boy Boogie. Shout out to you guys for joining me this afternoon, this next Friday. So, like the video. We got so much to talk about. We're going to try to go through it, all of it. Uh, I have so many videos. I don't know if we will be able to cover all of them. I'm going to try my best. Um, but as you're coming in, do me a favor and like the video, right? Throw down a super chat, support your boy. Uh, share the video. Be in the chat. Let's get active. All right. So, uh, let me get the first video rolling, man. I haven't been live in a while, but I'm back. So, let's do it. Let me make sure you can hear me and then we get it popping.

Go ahead.

Let's go. Let's go.

So, what's one of the most important metrics for a relationship? I guess I could look at reasons why people divorce and maybe look at those. So I think one of the top three reasons is financials. What are the financials between black men and black women? Who who's more on average makes more money as an example?

Even I think I just said it that black women

make more money on average.

Not on average.

That's that that was just speaking of uh of

Oh, that was just marriage. Oh, okay. Okay.

Okay. So just on average than the man would make more.

Okay.

So men make more money. Question on average. And it's like I think right now it was up to like $5,000 more on average. Now what about debt? Who has more debt? Women.

Women have more debt. Credit card.

I believe so. I

I think it's running neck and neck now.

Nope.

I thought it was

not even close. It can never run neck to neck cuz women shop more than men. Women want to travel more than men. Women put so much makeup and weaves and things like that more than men. Women like to go back to school for a thousand degrees that don't give them nothing and they still get student loan debt. I mean, it's not even close.

Connect the last time we looked it up. I think that was a couple of months ago. We had looked it up talking about just based on consumer debt or whatever.

I thought it was like basically statistically even.

Somebody edify me in the chat. Who has more debt? I'm I'mma chat GPT it, but I'm looking at the chat, too. Oh, shout out to Arnold. He in the chat. We got a few super chats. Marie, too. Who has more consumer debt? That's a good prompt.

Answer. Black.

That's a fair prompt. Yes. Yeah. Make it short. Depend on what you put in there. Pause.

It [laughter] can make a big difference. Oh, my bad. I care. It's the wrong screen. I got you. All right. Ready when you are. It's crazy. All right. [clears throat]

Short answer. There is no clean widely cited data set that directly compares total consumer debt between black members, black women in all categories. But when you break it down by the data we do have, especially student loans and gender trends, a clear pattern shows up. So Arnold saying they broke this down. Black women have more debt. Black women generally carry more debt than black men, especially in student loan debt, which is the biggest form of consumer debt. Black women have the highest student loan balances of any race or gender. The gap between black women and black men grows over time due to slower repayment and compounding interest. Women overall tend to hold more debt than men. Women Women hold about twothirds of US student loan debt. Shown broader credit suggests men tend to borrow slightly more in areas like auto loans and mortgages, but that doesn't outweigh the heavier long-lasting burden women carry in student debt. So that's pretty much the key metric. And so what we know is, and I actually I know that stat cuz I looked it up regarding the average income. And then if you couple it with this, seems like men may have just on average more liquid capital. So that is an important metric in terms of marriage, right? Or who will be more ready for marriage. Money matters to most people as it should, right? So

it matters more to women cuz they like to spend more of money of the money, especially men's money. [clears throat]

What? So what what's next? So let's say that men have an edge in financials. What would be another metric that we could measure?

How taller? No. Stronger, faster?

Men are more physically capable. Now, does that matter in the world today?

I don't I don't think physical powers don't matter today

as it pertains to relationship.

Yeah.

Yeah. To be able to protect

Oh, you're saying that he's So, okay. Okay. I I see what we could do. the things that men are supposed to provide protection, right? Men have physical prowess. Aaliyah is alleging that men are more readily available to do that. Black men. Now, black men, the only other race of men who is less obese than black men is Chinese men.

Chinese.

So, black men are actually less obese than white men, Latino men. Now,

so I'm just I'm just thinking about physical capability. Now, what would be the side that women would have to innately offer? Is it what would be so you got physical prowess for protection what are the thing that men have to offer or excuse me women have to women sorry

got to be in shape

affection love I don't know what what is it

like nurturing

I mean, if men are going to be the protectors and they have the physical strength the best thing a woman can do is be in shape for a man that's it that's all men are asking for not much but even that women don't want to give that's why you will find I mean, I'm sure you guys have seen these videos online you find a woman who's 300 lb. She wants men to accept her the way she is and she wants a man who's in shape. Can you think about that for a second? I would understand if a woman who doesn't have money wants a man who has money because usually men are the providers. But how a woman who's out of shape, 300 lb, wants a man in shape when she can literally get in shape herself and she knows that physical attributes is one of the things that that attracts a man is crazy to me. Maybe

maybe nurturing.

Nurturing for sure. Some physicality.

Cooperation. Is it cooperation? Is it nurturing? Zag said cooperation.

Well, cooperation involves both parties, but I would say nurturing homemaking would be like a

Yeah, you might you might have shot him in the chest with the homemaking thing.

So,

so we talking physical. So, what do we do as women? That's physical.

Well, no, no, no. I'm saying that somebody might want to tell Natasha to be careful. Now, one thing I don't accept. So this part we're saying that nurt uh the physical protection aspect, right?

Because it's hard to conclude it.

I'm just trying to think of something that may be able to make that point, right? You got protection, you got nurture. Do we do we want to compare those two things?

Showering, having kids, maybe would that match up? Well, would that go?

I think [clears throat] we might have to go down. Remember, these are single people,

right? Right. So the ability to

I think it would have to be I think it would have to be homemade and this is one other thing that would be

oh I see more comparative

equal value that's the only that would be of equal value on the opposite end

this is more speculative right this this exercise this part but do you think more black men are capable of protecting than black women are capable of homemaking?

No.

Yes.

No. No. Because women are we are we we're we're naturally nurturers.

Not anymore.

That that so I don't think that No, I think

I disagree. Women are not naturally nurturers anymore. Actually, the whole thing of women being natur to be naturers. That's why, for example, especially in Russia, they can train some young girls to be spies and that girl is not a natural. I'm telling you, she can end your life in two seconds. So the whole thing of women are naturally natural. Have you been a natural to a man or you're saying you're only naturalist to to kids? Because that's the only time they talk about their natural because they can take care of kids. But we I honestly believe women are not naturally natural anymore. Maybe 50 years ago, maybe 60 years ago, but in 2026, women are not naturally natural. They're not even naturally feminine. So we we we're definitely it's women for that one for sure. If you if you we first of all, we give you just said we give birth. You get what I'm saying? We are natural nurturers. That is something that we are created to be. I don't

give birth isn't automatically nurturing. That's exactly nurture. That's biology.

I think but I'm still saying we're we're we are created to nurture our children. We're we create you get what I'm saying? We have men. We nurture them. You get what I'm saying? So

that's not even true. That's why I just So you see how she's saying they they nature they nature men. That's not even true cuz she said we are naturally naturers. I know it's it's a game of words, right? So, she's saying they they are born they're biologically natural. But that's not true. That's why I say they may be natural to kids, but they're not natural to men. Because as soon as a man says, "Can you make me a meal?" She says, "I'm not a slave. I'm not your slave. You're not the boss of me." How are you a natural to men when you easily get offended when a man says, "Can you be soft? Can you make me a sandwich?" How are you naturally a natural in that way? Doesn't make sense.

I don't I don't feel like most men You don't have men, you have children.

I have children. You know what I mean? Please. How can we nurture them? That That's what I'm saying.

People like that, there wouldn't be any children involved. So, I wouldn't use the childbearing portion of it or whatever. If for nurturing, I would more so use the use the fact that we're more influenced. What's the word? It started with an a and it got a M in it.

Meanable is good.

That would more so speak to the nurturing part as opposed to the childbearing part. If we're talking about two single people coming together in a relationship,

you got homemaking. I like Cali. I think those cuz you were looking at tangible [ __ ] Can he protect? Can she make sure that house is a home? Cooking, cleaning, etc., etc., etc. Are more men able to protect than women are to homemate in our community?

Yes. In 2026,

this is a speculative.

Every man is not automatically a protector.

And that that let's make it orderly. Let's make it orderly. Let's make it orderly. Aliyah, you said what?

I said men are more ready to protect than women are to be homemakers.

Exactly.

I just feel like just from the commentary I hear on social media, women, certain women, we don't even want to make a man a sandwich. So that

how would we be ready to make a home or to make a house a home and we not even willing to make our boyfriend a sandwich?

That's what I said, guys. I'm literally reacting to this in real time. I haven't watched the full video and that's why I like Aaliyah because that's what I said. How are women considered natural natural when they get offended when a man ask them make me a sandwich? Be nice to me. Smile. Be soft. You know what they say? How can I be soft when I have to pay my own bills? Then don't say you are naturally soft. You're naturally a natural. If you get offended, I've we have seen so many men losing their life trying to protect a a woman that they don't know, a stranger. So, a man is walking on the street, he sees a woman being attacked. Most men's natural instinct is to go and protect the woman. That's natural for a man. For most men at least, for most men. The reason most men don't want to do it anymore in 2026 cuz you're going to lose your life. You have kids and things like that. And sometimes you try to save a woman from a man who's attacking her and then the guy is going to end your life and she's going to go back in bed with that same man who ended your life that same night. So that's why most men don't want to protect random strange women on the street anymore. But naturally men to run towards danger when a woman is involved. Men usually naturally want to protect women. But how many women naturally just want to cook meals, make a sandwich, be nice to strange men? So clearly, that's why I say I don't believe anymore in 2026 that women are naturally natural. I believe that's a skill. That's a habit as a woman that she has to learn. If she wasn't taught to be a natural to a man when she was a a kid, a little girl, she's never going to learn it when she grows up.

So that's just how my mind how I'm thinking about it in my brain. I don't think black women is willing to make it a home for a man. They might make it a home for themselves and he could stay there too maybe. But

I don't know if it'll be a home for them.

Tamia, you said the women are more apt to be homemakers and the men are protectors.

I don't I don't I don't believe that.

Make the case.

Only because I feel that way because I do see

to me

I don't know. I don't know.

I love you. First and foremost,

feel is a nasty stuff. I ain't going to lie.

Let me let me think.

All right, we let it marinate. We let it marinate. We'll come back. Carrie, are you ready? Are men better protectors than the women are homemakers in our community?

Yes.

Who you think gets denied if those two things are compared together or put against each other?

First, I said no. That men aren't ready to protect. I changed my answer on that because I feel like men they they are just as natural of of pro as to being a protector that a woman is to being a natural nurturer. But I feel like men are more readily available for those roles.

That's true.

Some women don't feel like some men are worthy of making a house a home. So

do me a favor. Clean it up. You said some. So what you think most women see men as worthy are minority? Most women don't think that most men are worthy of having home for. So you say the men get denied in home. Damn

for sure. I thought cow

I would say most men over most women as far as the provision versus the protection versus the um homemaking only in that only in that most men are would be more so willing to crash out over the person that they claim versus a woman and a homemaker because that has that that's that's a skill that has to be taught.

Damn.

I just it I agree with the ladies.

Oh my god.

I just said it. Naturally, men are more of protectors, which that's why women like to hold men to that same standard. What's the first thing a woman says if a man doesn't doesn't do what she wants to do? Oh, these men are not real men anymore. Nobody ever talks about a real woman. We've heard the whole thing of a real man will do ABCD. How many times have you heard of a real woman will do ABCD? Because women can do whatever they want to do on conditions. whatever benefits them. They can be feminine today and then tomorrow they they will be the worst person you ever met in your life. You feel me? And that's why I'm saying some men get into relationships hoping women never change cuz in the beginning she may act soft and feminine and then in year three you're wondering who the hell is this? Cuz they switch up once they have the leverage. Once they brought they have brought you in now you're in love cuz most men are suckers for love for some reason. And then they switch up. And the man is wondering, "How did she switch up? I thought she was soft and feminine." No, that's who she really was. So that's why I'm saying no woman is naturally feminine and submissive. They just pick and choose when they want to be that to a man whenever it benefits them.

A man, [laughter]

I agree. Don't you want ME TO ARGUE? IT'S NO ARGUING IT. THEY MADE IT make I

The points are valid. THEY MADE IT MAKE SENSE.

Don't mean I can't Don't mean I can't whine about it.

All right. So the men are up too financials and just an innate thing that we offer to one to one another.

That is a crucial one. I'm not going to hold you. Let's look at the look. Go ahead. Go ahead. Go ahead. You got it.

I was going to say this just to add on to what I was saying because a lot of my home girls, right, they talk about how a man physical or his physicality make them feel safe off off rip.

And and a lot of times I think that that's really something that a lot of women look for. They look at the physicality of a man and they automatically think like he he a protector or he'll make me feel safe.

That's real talk. A lot of times that happens.

Women don't realize that, but we do it a lot.

Well, most women do it a lot.

Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Now, let me read these super chats real quick. This one This one might be tough. Subscribe, tell a friend, and tell a friend. Hit that like now if you can. It helps the channel the most. My brother Dan in the building with the $2. Shout out to Brooklyn ladies. Talk your [ __ ] Yeah, I had to turn my soundboard for off daily. But salute, salute, salute, my brother, brother number in the building with the fist bump. Appreciate you. My brother Marcus Evans, what up kid with the $5 says, "What's good, brother H?" And the ladies on the panel, "I hope everyone is doing well. Y'all be good." Black, what up with the $2 says, "Love comes with conditions. End of story." BZ with the $5 says, "So if a woman married outside the community, are they still a part of it?"

They still part of the statistic.

They would, but good gracious, bro. You know how I feel. And I'm saying,

man, the most high Arnold with the $2 says, "I can negotiate a business deal, not emotions [laughter] indeed." Ricardo with the $5 says, "Most women want to get married in the wedding versus the marriage for the long hall."

That's true.

Salute. Subscribe, tell a friend, and tell a friend, man. Look, let's get to this one. So, right now, the men are up 20. So, we looking at aside, Bside, kids. Kids. So, now I want to make sure that I'm clear on this stat. 50% of men don't have kids. But what age group is that, Cali?

50% don't have kids. That's not any That's not any age group. It was 26% for 20 to 29. 62% 30 to 30 Well, that do have kids, excuse me, that do have children was 26% 20 to 29. 62% for 30 to 39, 80% 40 to 40.

So on average 50% don't have kids. Is that what that is? Is that is that still true? If you average those ages,

so if the average age of uh black men is in their mid30s, no.

So the average age for black men is mid30s. Hold on.

I believe is 33 or

black men are the youngest, right?

Hold on. All right. So, let me just see. Average age for black I can bring the screen up for you guys. About 34 years old. So

that's the average age

for black men. So I'm just going to ask it the question. I know we talked about that stat a bunch of times. So it says about 60% of black men, which goes along with that 35, about 60% of black men ages 15 to 44 are fathers have at least one biological child. How do we take out the married men?

Why we got to take

So put single men, single black men.

All right. So no one single stat, but it says So it says, so it says roughly 35 to 45% of black men are both single and have children. So it's slightly imperfect, but I guess it goes. So what number do we accept? So that one would say about 55% don't have kids. So it's close kind of right to the other number. So it says 55%. What's the number for women? How do you

Is it higher?

I don't know that one.

It got to be higher.

Let me just ask the same question. So what percentage of single black women have kids? So it says 55 to 65% of black women are unmarried and 75 70 to 75% have kids. Damn.

So, it looks to be about 10 points.

It sounds like most a most single men who don't have kids, if they want to get married or in a relationship, the chances of having to choose a single mom are higher. And the only way a man in 2026 who doesn't have kids is going to find a woman who doesn't have kids, the probability is low. So, you may have to be okay with dating a single mom, guys. Matter of fact, you maybe have to be okay if you're really about marriage. If you're being if you're trying to be logical if you're a man trying to get married in 2026 and beyond and you got no kids as a black man and you want a black woman, you have to be okay with being a stepfather. I'm going to be honest with you. Otherwise, you may it may take you another 10 to 15 years trying to find a woman who doesn't have kids who matches every other thing. Because you may meet a woman who doesn't have kids, but does she qualify in all the other aspects of the type of wife you want? She may not have kids, but she may be for the streets. She may not have kids, but she may be a feminist. She may not have kids, but she may have lots of student loan debt. She may not have kids, but she may be disrespectful. She may not have kids, but she may not be good at at uh saving money. Maybe she does she has bad spending habits. So, but then what if you find a single mom who has two kids from two different men, but she's soft, she's nice, no student loan debt, she's going to cook for you. So, it's a tough choice for men. I'm not saying choose a single mom. I'm just laying down the statistics and what men have to choose from.

70% of the 55%. Is that what you're saying?

Yeah, I think so. So, the 75% have kids. 55 to 65% of black women are unmarried. 65% roughly 55 to 65% of single black women have children. So it's like five to 10% disparity

just about think.

Does this mean anything? Does this change anything? Does this make anybody more or less desirable?

So it appears that black women have more kids. Single black women have more kids on average than single black men

about. It looks to be and this is we this is very not this is not this is surface. It looks to be about 10 percentage points difference. Do you guys think that kids make a person more or less desirable?

Yes.

Especially if you if you got multiple different children and then you got to take in the consideration of how many baby fathers you got.

Start with one.

How you rate it one to to somebody? That can be less desirable for somebody. I think it all depends on a person's preference because some people prefer no kids at all. If I don't have no kids, I wouldn't want somebody who has kids or have one kid. I have none. So, it's like

I think that matter it's it's all about a person's preference with that.

We got we got we got it. Go ahead. My bad. No, I was saying just based off the rhetoric, um, I would have to go with Aaliyah's position that wouldn't you would you wouldn't want to have you wouldn't want to get into relationship with someone with kids and you don't have any.

Why are you hanging off the camera?

Like hanging off the camera.

I I agree with that though. I agree with that because when you don't have kids, it's in a relationship dealing with someone who don't have kids, it's a lot of things that a person with kids won't understand. So, I think people with no kids should date people that don't have any kids.

Well, what what's in contention, we haven't heard from Aira yet on this, is a person with a kid. So, more men don't have kids, right? About 10 percentage points. I know people are putting different stats in the chat. I'm just looking at the one that's the least biased. So, it had about 10%. It doesn't have such an exaggerated percentage, right? About 10%. Does that make a person more or less desirable, marriageable if they don't have a kid? We understand people have preferences, right?

Yeah.

But does that make a person more or less maritable if they do or do not have a kid? A

care.

I think if they said a car

Yeah. spoken.

So I feel like I'm going to have to agree with you and say only because I'm a woman. I don't have kids. So I don't to be honest with you, a man having kids don't bother me. But I feel like more it's been more times where men don't prefer a woman who have kids. Yeah, cuz usually the man is expected to provide for those kids. I don't care if she's getting child support. I don't know if you guys cuz sometimes women like to say, I don't need you to take care of my kids cuz they have a daddy, their daddy provides. The problem is if that relationships get serious and you get to live with this man in the same under the same roof with those kids, I don't care how much money this woman is getting from child support as a man. the mere fact that those kids are living under your roof, you're already providing. So, cuz if you only had to provide for you and the woman without the kids, but now she has two kids, even if it's one kid, now you got to provide for two extra people, even if she's getting child support. And guys, I'm telling you, I don't care what women say. If she's getting child support from her baby daddy, she's not going to stop getting that child support just because she now has a man who's being a stepfather. And that's going to rub some men the wrong way because she's getting double the provision. She's getting child support and then she's getting money from the stepfather. The stepfather is going to feel some kind of way. And let let's take it a step further. The step the the baby daddy most baby daddies don't want new men enforcing their discipline and their culture and their laws and ways of doing things on their kids. And rightly so. No man wants another man telling them telling their kids what to do. Especially if it's to provise. Now, if the baby daddy's not present, he's not taking care of their kids, that's different. But most men, biological fathers don't want new men to do anything with the with their kids. What if the guy is weird? You know, what if the guy is he has a different religion from the from the baby daddy? So, at the end of the day, as a man, if you're going to be a stepfather, there's so many things that come with it. But we have seen that most women with kids like to just shame men who don't want to be stepfathers. They don't look at it logically. They don't look at the itinerary that the man has to go through in order to put himself in that position. But anyway, shout out to DJ Hamp and um this might be risky link down below. Shout out to you guys for watching. Comment down below where you're watching from from. Uh, like the video. Let's get it. Let's go to the next video real quick. Uh, you saw the title and this is the video that brought you here. Men are titled Being Nice Guys. Women don't like it. Women would rather men be nice guys and say nothing about how they treated. So, let's get it to Let's get it. Let's get it. Let's get it. All right. When we grow older, we expect those things from our women as well. Not that we want our mothers, but we want the qualities that our mothers have hold in our lives. Y'all don't hold those those characteristics no more. Most women don't don't make sure they man eat or say, you know, did you eat today or stuff like that? And that's part of the things that we lack in society because y'all too busy trying to do masculine [ __ ] that y'all forget what y'all own position. You know what I'm saying? That's how I look at it.

What's the masculine [ __ ] masculine [ __ ]

First of all, when I was grow When I was growing up,

men could watch basketball and women didn't even want to look at it when I was growing up. Now, we can't have sports for ourselves. We can't have nothing for ourselves. We can't We have nothing.

So, you're against women?

I'm not say I didn't say I was against anything.

Nothing. I'm asking.

Let's not put the words in my mouth about the against thing cuz I'm not against anything. I'm saying that we don't have anything for ourselves anymore because y'all so busy fighting for equality that y'all want to do what we do. Men used to ride motorcycles at one point where it was a man's thing. Yo, let's go out. Let's ride the bikes. Women are riding bikes now. It's nothing that we have for ourselves. But me, as far as you asking me the question of what a woman what a woman's place in society is, a woman is is is is necessity. You understand what I'm saying? Men, we are careless. We are sometimes irresponsible. Women are planners. Women will make sure that you are okay. They'll make sure that you uh that that that you don't spend loosely. They make sure they know how to spend money wisely. You could give a woman

I disagree. Most women spend more than men. That's why they have more consumer debt. I think that's a myth that needs to be destroyed.

On average, the average woman spends more than the average man. The average woman has more debt than the average man. So the whole thing of men don't spend spend have bad spending habits, that's not true.

$5 every every month and she'll come back with $5,000 at the end of the year.

That's not true.

Women are more responsible than us. They're planners. They're they're nurturers, but then at the same time, there's women that want to be men at the same time. And to me, it's confusing.

What What was See, this is the problem with women. They don't listen. [laughter] If you listen to what he said,

oh man, I'm leaving.

What he said was this.

He said,

he said,

"I look,

Major Hype, correct me if I'm wrong, cuz my ears work very well."

Major I know Major Hype said, "I won't take a girl out."

Okay,

there's a big difference when a girl is asking to take me out.

So, if you ask to take me out, then I'm going to ask I'm going to require you to, you know what I'm saying? and do your

Well, I think I I think I think it should I think it should go

But look, again, this is

I think it should go hand in hand. I think it should go hand in hand because to me it depends on who who invite who out.

Agreed.

Right. So if you asking me to go out, you don't know how my pocket is. So you must have it if you asking me to go out because you don't know what my pockets look like. So if I'm going out and you if if I'm in my crib chilling and you like, "Oh, let's go grab a bite to eat." But me as a man,

you checking your box.

No, me as a man, I'm still not letting you pay.

Right.

I'm be honest.

That that's just me that I grew up with.

I'm still not letting you pay.

So my grandmother is the one that raised me

cuz my mom actually worked at that time and his answer was

it was on the money. I think we look for a little bit of support, reassurance when I think that we're a little bit and when he asks you the question, it's like what part of men in society? I think we look for a little bit of reassurance, a little bit of stabilization when we're feeling insecure because we grew up in a generation where we didn't have anybody to ask a question to except his mom or my grandma. Mhm.

Whether it was what should I wear today? What should I eat today? Where should I who should I play with and that carries on the new generation I think they have a little bit of that. But still, even if they said, "Hey, let's go out tonight." You're going to look in your pockets and you're going to find a way to pony up.

Let's talk about upbringing.

Yes. Important,

right?

That's key.

Upbringing is very important, right? And a lot of people don't even pay attention to upbringing, right? But in a on a whole, right? Women are are raised based off of fantasy. That's important. Or is that true?

No, it's important. Like the fact that you're saying that it's important.

They're built their lives are are are are fantasy lives. Like you're as a little girl, you're growing up playing with dolls. You playing with you got the little tea parties. You got the house thing. You got all of this [ __ ] going on that probably won't happen later on in life for you, right? the G Wagon. [laughter]

Then you got the little boys that grow up in reality, which what's reality?

Reality is I'm getting Tonka trucks. I'm getting tools. I'm getting all these things that I'm going to be doing maybe later on in life. So, you grow up with this fantasy thing that you're going to find this man that's going to sweep you off your feet and he's going to give you this perfect life and all of this. And we are thinking, "Okay, we got to work. We got to bust our ass. We got to do all these things. And it it I think it's a a a sort of disappointment between the two because at the end of the day, I'm I'm looking for something, but I'm I'm sticking to what I'm sticking to, though. I'm sticking to

What I was raised on. I was raised on Tonka trucks doing construction and all of these other things. Think about our toys as kids growing up. We had fake fake lawnmowers. We had all of these things. Lawnmowers that you push and bubbles come out.

All this foolishness and then y'all got all houses and you know what I think I mean upbringing is key but I think it's even worse right now and the reason I'm saying it's worse because I don't think boys are growing up with toys anymore. I think boys are growing up mostly video games and being indoors. But another thing that's even more important than toys is boys are growing up without seeing a father in the house. Boys are growing up seeing the the mother having multiple men. So boys are growing up seeing the mother being the leader of the house. You know, now that could be the mother's fault. That could be the father's fault. That could be the fault of both parents of why the kid is growing up with one parent. But the issue is in that in the meantime girls are growing up not knowing how to cater to a man. Then the boys are trying to be son husbands. And guess what? Once they grow up they are taught how to cater to a woman but they were never taught what to expect from a woman. That's why women get offended when they get older and they're meeting men who are asking them what do you bring to the table. Women get offended because they never grew up being told this is what you should do for a man. Cuz the days of a woman being taught what to do with a man are long gone. I'm probably at this point 60 to 80 years ago. So I think growing up with one parent is an issue, especially a single mom cuz the single moms are going to look out for themselves. And that when the daughters see that, they learn I should look out for myself as a woman. And then the the sons see that and they're thinking I should look out for a woman and I should never expect nothing in return.

And all of these other things. So y'all yazzle beads. They also got kitchens [laughter] and they still don't do that. [laughter] All right. There's a lot of women that had bas that can't bake and can't cook right now. Do both. So just think of how how easy it was how easy it was for us to answer that question. Who raised us? What you cook? Like professional. Like like what's your like what's your thing when you when you want to when you want to like woe somebody with your meal. [laughter] Not the package. The package box mac and cheese. I don't like how everybody else be answering for her. I don't like [laughter] that. I'm not feeling that. All right. So we're going to go back to the question. What do you cook to wow somebody? I'm just want to know what's going on here. I can make steak and shrimp. Women don't cook anymore. They get offended if a man ask them to cook. Most women will sleep with a man before they cook for him. Crazy. They think sleeping with a man is okay, but cooking with a man, cooking for a man is where they draw the line. They think it's slavery. Steak and shrimp. Steak and shrimp. You don't sound confident enough for me. Yeah. I don't know about your filelet mcnog. I don't know about that. I'll do a steak and shrimp. I mean, a good steak isn't easy. A good steak ain't easy. If you don't know how to do that, come on. Stop it. Vegetarian pasta is the way to go. Vegetarian pasta. She's just thinking on her feet. Pasta. Pasta eat. That's my girl. But like, but that's vegetarian pasta. Leave her alone. She got it. Without meat, actually. That's weird. You know what's funny? Meat. No, I said I've never had rice pasta without meat. For the longest time, I thought for the longest time I thought Aaron couldn't cook. Right. I'm just being honest. And Aaron used to start showing us Texas though. Yeah. But I have no idea why you thought at my big age that I can't cook. Husband from I mean there are so many women who are married who can't cook. That's nothing new. I don't think any man in 2026 who's marrying a woman is expecting her to be a good cook or even to know how to cook. In other words, most men who getting married who have been getting married in the last 10, maybe even 20 years are not expecting women to be traditional women anymore. Even if women are still expecting men to be traditional, I don't think any man is looking for a traditional woman in 2026. Most men are just having to deal with the fact that, hey, listen, I'm going to meet a modern woman. She's probably going to be feminist or part-time feminist. She's going to be part-time traditional. She only be traditional when she wants to. She's going to be part-time soft, part-time feminine, part-time submissive. One day she may be submissive, another day she may want to be eco. But when it comes to my role as a man, she wants me to be traditional the entire time. She want me to be a provider. She want me to protect her when something goes wrong. She want me to be a leader. But sometimes she wants to lead on Sundays and if it goes wrong, she's going to blame me. So I don't think any man is still looking for a traditional woman. And if you are looking for a traditional woman, um, I got bad news for you. You're going to be looking for a long, long, long time. She may pretend to be traditional in the beginning and when she gets you and she thinks now she got you, you're invested. You can't easily move on. And then that's when they change. You know, the woman starts from making three meals a day for you to starting to making two meals to one meal. And you're wondering, why does she want to cook anymore? And then she's going to say, I'm not your slave. We are equal. This is a partnership. That's the word they like to use these days. So, if you're man in 2026 looking for a traditional woman because you think you're traditional man and you deserve a traditional woman, I got bad news for you, bro. I got very bad news for you. She may be traditional in the beginning cuz if she wasn't traditional in the house, if she has never cooked for a man a man for a meal, she have never cooked a meal for for her father. Actually, if she has never cooked a meal for her brothers, if she has never seen her mother cook a meal for a man, I'm telling you, she's never going to be a traditional woman, you know. But hey, listen, good luck. But let's get it to let's get to the next video real quick. Shout out to you guys watching. Shout out to Azumo Swalla. Uh, all right, let's get to the next video real quick. All right. Oh, my bad. My mic was off, guys. It's getting worse. It's getting worse. I'm telling you, it's getting worse. But after this video, if you don't believe it's getting worse cuz All right, let's just go through it.

I want to create a national baby daddy registry. And I am looking for investors similar to a sex offender registry. It would be publicly accessible, searchable by name, and updated in real time by the women who are dealing with these men. You would be able to go to my website, type in his name, see his profile, which would show you things like his full name, his age, his occupation, the number of women he has children with, as well as the number of children he has, his current occupation, and whether or not he's known to lie about what type of job he has, and notes about whether or not he actually knows all of his children. There would also be a presence rating on a scale of 1 to 10. One being, I haven't seen him since I told him I was pregnant. And 10 being, he's been there for every step of the way. There would also be a section for child support status. Is he current? Is he behind? Do you not have him on child support because he doesn't need to be. And on this registry, men would be overall like ranked from like, you know, like the best men to the worst men. And you would be able to see what number your potential man is on the list. Anyway, this is a great potential investment opportunity for anyone who wants to get behind it because ideally we would get the men on the registry for free, but if they want their information removed, we would charge them hundreds of dollars for it. I've already locked down a really good domain name and I'm excited to share it with those of you who decide to invest from the beginning. The National Baby Daddy Registry coming soon.

I mean, this is crazy, but here's the thing. I actually want them to make a registry for that. I don't mind. Let them make make a registry for baby daddies. But do you know else? Something else I want them to do? Let them make mandatory DNA testing. When a woman is giving birth, let them make mandatory DNA testing. That's number one. Number two, let them make a registry for women who are caught lying about who the real father is. Paternity fraud. Because some of so many men are raising kids that don't belong to them. Let's make Let them You go on a with a woman on a date. You find her name on a registry because she lied about who the real father is. Let them make a registry for women who use men for uh free dinner debts. So when you go on a before you go on a date, you check for her name in the registry of women who have a habit of using men for free food dinner debts. Let them make a registry of women who make false accusations on men. When they found out they're lying, the name goes on the registry. Let them make a registry of women who lie about who their real uh the boyfriend is. So if they're lying, if she tells you she's single but she's not single, they should make a registry for that. Also, the last thing they should do is to put fines for women who lie about paternity fraud, false accusations, they put should put they should put fines and jail time. I'm okay with that. The concept sounds really good, but I think that kind of is that sounded very illegal, very doxing.

I mean, isn't this kind of the questions you already should know before you slept with him to begin with? And then on top of that, I feel like um if he's behind on child support, isn't this already kind of part of the national whatever it [laughter] is registry to begin with? Like you can pull up somebody's record. It doesn't have to be in his public knowledge, right? Or maybe it's not. I don't know. I don't think you can find out if they're on child support. If they are, usually they're either in jail or they lost their license or something. But I don't know. This is This is giving those problems. Wait, it's giving invasion of privacy, too. Intrusiveness. Very good concept. I mean, I I mean, I wish it wasn't in invading people's privacy, but I don't I wouldn't want to be I wouldn't I wouldn't want my man on there if he did have kids by other women. And yeah, I don't know. I think that's too much. If it's gonna be all of that, then they might as well throw the women on there because it's way more baby mamas than there is. You should have the woman to the man, the women to the man. And see if that was if they did it that way, women wouldn't want to be a part of that. Exactly. No, they need to have a registry of women that whose baby is not the daddies. I say that. I mean, shout out to these ladies cuz I'm reacting to this in real time. I just said that they should make a registry of women who lie about the DNA, who lie about paternity fraud, cuz so many guys are raising kids who don't belong to them, especially in a marriage. Because most married men assume if their wife gets pregnant that must be their kid. I mean I'm sleeping with my wife, right? It should be my kid. They don't know she's sleeping with a guy across the street. Cuz most married men are scared of asking for their for their for for DNA test from their wives cuz the wife is going to say, "Oh, you don't trust me? Divorce."

What percentage that is? Damn. [laughter] Everybody's looking for the perfect man. He doesn't exist. She's looking for the perfect statistics, it's gonna be way more women than men, right? Isn't that what we're saying? So, I mean, the reality is it's a funny concept. It sound good, but in reality, that's still not gonna stop me. Yeah. I mean, it don't even matter if that was a real thing that happened. It I know a bunch of women that would still go out and get the a [ __ ] men. So, like, what does it matter? True. It sounds good on the internet. Yeah, it sound good on the internet. But it's still some women out here that don't have a man that's gonna go get the dead beat man and help him get on his feet. Register. What man gonna register? Like, hey, who gonna do that? I think I got proposing that they didn't they didn't have a choice. Like, we just all put our baby daddies on there and just, you know, everybody just goes on there and looks and adds to or takes away. Yeah, that's my baby daddy. That's my baby daddy, too. Yeah. That ain't going to start nothing but a bunch of drama between women cuz at the end of the day it's only a few men that's making all these kids by these women and they going to still go for it. So I mean for I was saying Future Future has what five maybe six baby mamas after the first baby mama cuz he's he's a celebrity he's a rapper. So after the first baby mama, all the next baby mamas, they knew he had a a baby mama. They knew he had kids. The second baby mama, the third, the fourth, the fifth, they all knew. When Sierra got pregnant with with with from from future, she knew about his other baby mamas and his other kids. She still went and had a baby with him. So, I don't think a registry is going to stop women from sleeping with men they think are rich, tall, famous because they already had they already have baby mamas. But one thing I know for sure, if a man finds out, the woman is trying to sleep with lied about a DNA test, paternity fraud. Most men are not going.

Small app. [laughter] I do have this gonna be a small app. They're going to end up fighting and they still gonna end up screwing them. I got a question. Do we got any baby daddies on the panel? Baby daddies. Baby daddies. I want to say baby daddies. Maybe fathers of children. Oh gosh. That's [laughter] not bad. Okay. Do we have any men on the on the panel that's not married that has kids? Oh no. No. I'm not married. Apparently one of them. No, I'm married. I have kids. We have no baby daddy. So I can't even ask y'all that. Okay. So never mind. I was going to ask. But we could think like baby daddies. You can. Okay. No, I was ask you to be on this rank already. CJ said he gave up. CJ said he I saw your head. I'm married. I am married. I have kids before before my wife. Okay. So, before your wife your wife, what would you rate yourself as a baby daddy? [laughter] Be honest. I mean, of course, I'm I'mma think I did the best I could, but I mean, my daughter would be a better, you know, the best is the best you could. The best like I mean, I think it's the women that have rank, not the kids. No, but he's a good example looking at your looking at you're married and then you were a baby daddy. Do you have kids with your wife? I do. I had one. I had one I had one before my wife and then I had one with my wife. Okay. So, prime example, what is your rating when you were baby daddy and what was your rating when you're husband? What is my rating as a baby daddy? No. When you were [laughter] I mean as opposed to being married. Yeah. And you can't say. No. No. I um I guess you would be you would have married the first one. That's what I said. Yeah. No, I mean it's really it, you know, marriage is my choice though, you know. So, uh No, you gave the same effort. So, you gave the same effort when you're married to the baby mama. Well, I was actually with uh her mom, you know, for about four years, you know. So, we were it wasn't just a thing. We were just, you know, Yeah, having sex or whatever. He want to come answer. And then and then when you married when you married your wife, she said since you have a baby, you got to give me one too, right? No, no, I wouldn't say that. Um Oh, I mean obviously my Yeah, my child is my wife's only child. So my wife didn't have a child before I got with her. So my child is her only child. Okay. He doesn't want to answer. It's okay. Okay, CJ. Well, better question might be if we Okay. Based off of you and your baby mama's conversations, how would she rate you as a baby daddy? It depends. That's Put like this. Put like this. I've been there. I've been there from day one. I um you know, I'm current on my I pay child support. I'm current on my child support, you know, and I do things outside of child support. You know, I I mean, maybe he's just not good at answering questions. Yeah. What? Why did y'all break up? Wait, why did y'all break up? The question, why did me and my baby mom break up? Um, don't say y'all was young. Please, I hate that one. No, no, it really was though. You know, I had I had I had my daughter at, you know, I had my daughter at 21 and um regular, you know, it was cool. You know, I don't think that's everybody everybody in my city will, you know, it it was cool. the baby, you know, of course, in the black culture, the baby mama, baby daddy thing, you know, that was pretty normal, especially when I was young, you know, uh there weren't many people getting married, you know, uh in my city, so you know, but my daughter's mom though, yeah, she uh I didn't see it then, but she wasn't wife material. I'll just say that. Oh, damn. Oh, I think he was trying to avoid himself from from saying nothing bad about the baby mama. That's why he was having a hard time answering the question. But number two, if he's still on child support, he doesn't want to say nothing crazy cuz anything he says on this panel could literally the baby mama could take it to child support court or to family court and if he has custody of the baby of the daughter, the the baby mama could use that in in court and then the the judge could literally strip him strip him of his custody. So I think that's why he's trying to be very careful what he says about his baby mama, especially if they have a good relationship. Okay. All right. Understandable. I think that regarding And I hope she is watching so that way she she can get her act together and get and get her husband. Oh, she stop bothering you, right? Damn. We can infer that she would not give a very high score. She not give high score. But that's just off of her. Like if she was honest, if she was honest, she would. Okay. So, let's see. Let's let's pretend if your baby mama was on this panel, what would she say about you? You knowing her, what would she say about you? Uh, I couldn't feel it. She [laughter] There you go. There you go. You couldn't hit the walls. [laughter] You know, you know, saying a woman scoring, that's that's kind of my my mom used to tell me that all the time. you know, that was that was kind of the uh the dynamics of that. You know, I I caught a lot of, you know, uh she did a lot to try to, you know, just she put me on child support, you know, early on. And, you know, I was giving her money orders before I was even on child support. You know, my mom advice for my mom, like I said, I was young, but I was trying to keep a a paper trail of me giving instead of just putting money in her hand to pay for stuff, you know, she got upset about that. And yeah, so I've been I've been, you know, helping out my kids since since she was born. But CJ, you know, being a good father or a good baby daddy or whatever you want to call it, it's not just money, right? Time, right? Right. No, I get that. I told you could say you don't have to bring money into it. Did you do you spend time with your I actually had to go I actually had to go to court and fight for visitation rights, you know, just to spend time. She was one of those where she tried to keep the child away from me and stuff like that. So, so, so basically it's low. Wait, what was the reasoning? Because you you didn't answer why. And that's why men don't want to have kids anymore. Why am I having kids and then I have to ask the judge to let me see my kids and then I have to pay money. That That's crazy. Why would you put yourself in that situation? I broke up. She wasn't watching TV. I mean, that's how the conversation ended. was gone. Did you cheat on her? Did you cheat on her? You cheated on her, didn't you? Yeah, you did. See, there you go. That's why she was mad and put you on child support cuz you cheated on her. That's how that's how it started, right? That's that that was a starter. I was young, you know, but I only cheated her because I I did know at the time, but she wasn't she wasn't my she wasn't my future wife. Why Why ask men Why would you ask men why it ended? They be like, "We was young." No, you cheated. No, because because as men as men as men, the older you get, you do mature. You do you do mature and become, you know, you you understand more about what what's life about? You know, I was, like I said, I was I was caught up in the culture, you know, uh, doing pretty much what everybody else does, you know, just you was young, dumb, and full of comb. That's it. That's it. Straight up. Straight up. She on child support because you was with her, you cheated on her and then got married to somebody. That's not why he's on child support. No, I promise you that's why he on child support. He was on child support. He's on child support cuz he stopped. HE WAS ON CHILD SUPPORT BECAUSE HE cheated at first. So they was cool until she found out that he probably cheated. I say I say I was on child. She just admitted that you cheated and that's why you on child support. But I say I was on child support for because she knew I wasn't going back. You know what I'm saying? It it's a lot of, you know, details in between that. But she knew she knew she knew I was gone pretty much. Like she knew it was over. And so that was her way of trying to, you know, hurt me in a way. You know, she thought she would hurt me. Yeah. That usually happens. Now, I'm not saying every time a woman puts a man on child support is not because he cheated. I'm saying majority of the time women use the child support system or the the family court system against a man to get some kind of leverage. They use the kids as bait to control the man, especially if the man moved on with a better looking woman. Cuz in his case, he's he's married. So guess what? The only leverage that the ex-woman has on him is the baby, you know. So as soon as the baby turns 18, she knows it's over. So she's going to use the kid against him any chance she gets. as soon as he gets more money, she's going to go back to child support and tell the judge, "He's making more money. I need more money." So, to them, they use the kids as bait. Now, eventually, the kids grow up to see this and most kids start hating the mom because of how what she put them through, you know, talking bad about the fathers and things like that. But for the most part, if a if a woman because he said he was already giving them money before she put them on on child support. But most times they take men to child support hoping they will get more money only to find out he was actually spending more money when there was no child support compared to what the court system tells him to pay. So that backfires. But anytime a woman puts a man on child support, most times it's because she's she's being vindictive.

Let's get off y'all. Let's go back to the topic. We don't want him to get get in trouble with you. Thank you for that. Let me ask you a question. So So women get women put men on child support to be vindictive. They don't care about the child. They keep a child away from them to be vindictive. I mean it's all it go hand in hand. Yes. But I think regarding this this child registry, it just shows if more women want to do that. I think it's like, do y'all not know how to u vet a person? You'll rather listen to a website, listen to other women that are scorned, that are in their feelings, that are going to rate a man wrong because they didn't choose him like CJ or they cheated, so let me give him a four or let's just make up some stuff. So, I don't think that's really going to work out well at all. Where are they going to how are they going to make sure that that information is correct? True. Same as it's going it's going to be just like the tea app. Nobody is you know people are just going to go on there and be vindictive, do anonymous comments, say it say, "Oh, that's my baby daddy." When it really isn't. It's I think it would just be a big waste of time and really just cause a lot of drama unnecessary. Would that be able to cause like lawsuits and stuff for I would I would sue if I were a man. I would definitely sue. Yeah. Yeah. Just think about like these people's employments. Like what does that how does that affect it? Like women don't care. If you if you out here, you're a man and you're in this type of website or registry, you just be the top and then you're looking for a job or an employer types in your name and then there you go. This registry pops up. Like that's crazy. But can an employer not hire you because you got a bunch of damn kids by a bunch of different women? I mean, I mean, no, they can't. But at the same not you don't have to say it's usually if you got child support areas that you haven't paid is when an employer may not give you employment. Other than that having a bunch of kids may not be an issue as long as you know you're not on child support that you don't pay on paper but it's one of those things where it doesn't look good. I'd rather not. Yeah. They can't discriminate against you because you got only if you got a crazy baby mama that's gonna be calling my office every five minutes looking for you and stuff like because women do that. Women do that. Yeah, men do that. Yeah, this is a bad a bad decision making though. That's one thing I do do. I take account, you know. I I don't blame my daughter's mom for anything. You know, my my baby mom as y'all call it, but I don't I call her my daughter's mom. But I don't blame her because I know that, you know, I was the one that chose to have sex before I was married. So, you know, I I own it and I just, you know, I deal with Yeah. But don't don't give her the pleasure. You taking all the blame for everything. [laughter] Oh my gosh. I'm sorry, baby. It's me and all me. You know, I'm a champ. Don't do that. Don't do that. Would you men, the men that are not married, that don't have kids, would you men want a baby mama registry? No. Do you think that men will be more honest compared to the women? Men don't even want to don't want to have kids anymore. I mean, as a man, if you know, there's a chance the woman is going to use the kid against you. Cuz in the beginning, everything is nice and sweet. The moment you break up and you got a kid, she's going to use the kid against you. You know, as a man, I'm telling you. So don't say 10 years from now, oh my god, Boogie told me and I didn't listen. I'm telling you, everything is fine right now, you're in love and you have a kid, but the moment God's left and you move on to another woman, the only leverage she has on you, the only control, any sort of control she has on you is the kid that you guys have together, she's either going to involve the system or she's just going to badmouth you towards the kids. So she's going to be telling, "Oh, your dad ain't [ __ ] your dad, you know, he's a womanizer. Your dad is broke. Your dad doesn't care about you. She's going to refuse you from seeing the kids. Sometimes, you know what the women do? They move to another state. So, the man doesn't has to struggle to see the kids. She will move to another state, put him in child support in a different state. The whole time the guy doesn't even know. And then only to find out 10 years later, he's going to go to jail, to prison because he hasn't been paying child support. And he didn't know. he wasn't able to see the kid cuz she moved and moved to a whole new state. So, as a man, if you're going to have kids, those are the things you have to think about. Most men don't think about them because they're in love, they're enjoying the sex, but it's going to come back to haunt you.

Registry. No, I think they'll both be deceptive. I think people should learn about each other the oldfashioned way by talking. You know what I'm saying? And lying and finding, you know what I'm saying? Cute ways of dating. All right. Wait, you think men are more deceptive? No, women are more I think women I think men are more deceptive. That's not true. I don't think so. I think women will hold on. I I don't mean to pick on Shampoo, but Shampoo is married and he when I don't I think he said he's been married 20 years or something like that. The problem with men who have been married for so long, they don't understand the dating the dating field in 20 2016. If he married 20, 30 years ago, the women of 20 30 years ago are not the women of 2026. The times have changed. So, he's out of touch. Now, he could be saying it just to so that we can argue about it. But I don't think you understand what's going on out here. Even the women are telling you that women are more deceptive. That should tell you something. Baby daddy or to a man and say he ain't ain't crap. And then a man would be like, "Yeah, she did this, this, and that." I think a man will be more honest. I don't know. That's me. I don't know. I think well in my experience I think I'd have met more women that got pregnant by a dude that told them the baby mama still wanted them. She was still after him. She was bitter and all that. When she had Yeah. Once she have a baby by him, she realized why the baby mama ain't with him. Of course. You know what I'm saying? Like I I I think in a situation like that like a woman usually have sole custody of the baby. Like she is the primary parent. So you go kind of see what's going on in a way. No, you can't. Yeah. When it come to her and her child, man. Because some women get, you know, if you have a a baby mother that's always um in y'all life and all of that stuff, the the your girl your girl gets jealous of that. She wants that drama, too. I don't want any drama. I Everybody says that, Mimi. But people want drama. People don't like it. It makes my I never heard a woman I never heard a woman say I like drama. They always say I don't like drama. When you get I think when you get to a certain age it's just like I really do not you know you've been through it when you were younger. The age you can't blame the age. No I just think that with mature okay with maturity you just don't have time for that. And it's like I don't even want to deal with men that have that type of drama in their life. You know, to be honest, they got mature men that act immature. Age is not always the answer to everything. It's a lot of messy people out here, man. People like being messy. People like being toxic. It's that's just the culture now, man. They got old men. They got old my age and older that that that see a a young girl and pay her, you know what I'm saying, to to you know what I'm saying, to do [ __ ] And then makes for great makeup. Hang on. Hang on. Then when the when the guy gets caught, the girl turns into a victim and say he made her do this. No. Sometimes women have to take accountability. I don't I mean they got to be of age, but if they 18 and this dude is 60, 70 years old and then something happens and she said, "Oh, he forced me to do that." That's sometimes that's [ __ ] But then that goes back to saying like women would be more deceptive because deceptive. Yeah. They say they older when they be younger and then when something happens the dude gets in trouble. Yeah. I mean at the beginning I think it depends cuz I mean my husband has two two baby mamas. I have two stepdaughters, one for each. At the beginning it wasn't. Do you have any Do you have any children by him? I do not. Not yet. Um, but he has [laughter] We already went through this. WE ALREADY WENT THROUGH THIS. Maybe enough for them. That baby gonna have an eye in the middle of his head. [laughter] Gonna be hard boiled. Look at that. Hasn't happened yet. [laughter] It just has to happen. Let's talk about age. Anyway, but at the beginning with both the kids mothers, it wasn't all happy. There was also drama, but then eventually it got to the point where, okay, we're all adults. True. We all here for for the kids. So, yeah, at the beginning there's always going to be drama until you get to that point to where you decide to be adults and you're like, "Okay, nah, send me that drama. I'm not getting into any more drama, man. I'm not I don't care. I don't want it. I like my peace. I want to be worried about things that, you know, probably going to improve my life, not other people's issues. So, for those of you are getting with people who have baby mama, baby daddy drama, that's on you and you're going to get exactly what you deserve, you know. But anyways, shout out to uh Azu Mosala for the $2 super chat. I appreciate that. Oh, two pounds. Oh, my man is in the UK Monday. Um, in the UK. Anyway, let's go to the next video. Okay, where we going next? All right, I got you guys. Ashley. Ashley's back and she's going to give it give us the example that women don't really understand men. So, let's go through it. All right. Here we go.

All right. What brings you up? So, I came up because I feel like I'm having a hard time, I guess, finding the one or I guess the right person for me. Um, I meet men and they're typically great. They like me, we have great conversation, we build a connection and then sometimes it's been admitted to me, most of the time it's been admitted to me that they feel like they aren't ready for me. They see that I have a good head on my shoulders. They see I have a lot to offer. They see me as someone that they would want to commit to and marry, but then they just kind of pull back because I guess they're a little scared. And I don't know if it's me. It's you. That's the problem. Like I don't know if I'm coming on too strong, which I don't think I am cuz I'm very aware of that. And I'm not trying to rush being married. Um, because I know it'll happen and it's divine time. But um, I am upfront once we get to certain point points of the relationship or conversations. I'm very clear with where I'm at. So, um, sometimes it takes a while. It's not like they date me for a day or two and they're like, "Oh, I can't do this." Um, but, you know, I might talk to someone for a couple of weeks, mostly months. It'll be a couple months and then they kind of admit it. So, I don't know if it's me. I don't know if I'm going to after you were intimate with So, this just sounds to me like which I told you guys most women try to be nice, soft, and feminine in the beginning. Once they think they got you and then they are true colors, who they truly are comes out thinking you're going to tolerate it. So if all men are doing exactly what she's saying, they get to know her and then after a couple months they they they back out. That's because who she really is isn't fun to be around. It's not worth the investment. After I spent time after all of the um I typically am not intimate with someone unless we have a connection or until we're in a relationship. She's lying. Um, so there's so you're talking to him for weeks and months and nothing. There's no kissing, no nothing. Months as in like maybe one two months at the most. Um, I was in a relationship one twice where a guy told me twice where they both told me that. So yes, I was intimate with them twice, but there have been guys that I wasn't intimate with that have said that to me. So what about the last two guys? The very last two guys you were dating. you guys were going out and then what happened around the fifth or sixth date, what happened? Um, so the last one that was a relationship and he just didn't seem ready for the for a commitment, so I left because I felt like too much time had passed. Um, and he didn't admit that or say it. He appeared to present that when we dated, but Wait, wait, wait. So, he wasn't ready for a relationship, but you guys were together? No, we were in a relationship. We were in a relationship. The last guy. Yeah, but you said he wasn't ready for a relationship. He wasn't ready for marriage. I'm sorry. I misspoke. Oh, okay. I misspoke. I'm sorry. Yeah, cuz marriage doesn't happen in two months of meeting someone or two months of being in a relationship cuz most men are now awake. Men are not just falling in love anymore. Some men are still cuckles for love. And shout out to CGA. Men are in love. Women are in business. But men are starting to wake up. The days of a man just being in love and then proposing in two months of meeting a woman, those days are gone. Cuz most men know women change just like that. Especially the moment they think you you're fully invested, they're going to switch up on you. But the thing is, most women are having a hard time being pretenders and being chameleons for a long time. They're going to pretend for a month or two and then who they really are is going to come out. especially when they think they got you. But most men are not staying. So it's not about commitment. He was scared of commitment. He was scared of committing to who you are. He appeared to not be me. He didn't phys he didn't verbally say that, but he appeared because I don't just take what you say for face value. You have to also show me. Um, so he just didn't appear to be at that point. So I just feel like I've heard that oh I'm wife material or I can see you are I feel like you know that you know a a blue collar guy would definitely see you and be like okay I'm going to wife her you definitely why because she looks good is that what women think how men choose wives just look at you and your wife those days are gone am I saying all men are are not are not choosing wives based on beauty no I'm saying that the moment of a man trying to make a lifetime commitment to a woman based on her looks, those days are shrinking. These days, a man wants to know, am I willing to lose everything I've built just because she looks good. Is she going to be peaceful? So, I'm even surprised Ashley doesn't know this, that the days of men just because she looks good. That look, and I've almost been engaged once before. Yeah. Like I can see like black American men loving your look, loving your aesthetic, loving your vibe. She's not one of those highmaintenance Instagram baddy girls. How do you know? But she keeps herself together. She's going to motivate me and push me to achieve my goals. That's what you give. How do you know, Ashley? That's what she get. When you're meeting these guys, these dayto-day guys, let's say the last Did you date someone um recently? Um yes, sort of. Yes. Okay. And what happened? Um, I decided that I didn't need to go further. We maybe talked for about 2 or 3 weeks, but he he had some insecurities. Um, I had a health concern that popped up. So, I took a random trip to visit my best friend somewhere and um, just to kind of ease my mind before I got results back and that was a problem for him. And we had only been dating for two weeks and he became skeptical of me. So, I decided that that was a red flag and I left that alone. Okay. And who else do we have on the roster? Um, it's some great guys.

There. She's the red flag and she doesn't even know it. And the reason she doesn't know it because whenever a relationship ends, a situationship ends, most women think the man is the issue. They never look in the mirror. The reason she's going to go through the same issues over and over and over again is because she thinks the man is always the issue. She hasn't had time to look in the mirror and figure out what did I do wrong because most men don't tell women because he knows if he tells us she's going to hurt her feelings.

I'm I'm everything's kind of new for me right now, but it's some great guys there. I'm just right now I'm just trying to vet and filter it out to see, you know, who's the best fit for me and on the align with what I want.

And when you say who's the best fit for me, do we have dates lined up or are we just talking on the phone?

Um dates lined up. So, talking on the phone and then dates lined up as well.

Okay. I would keep the talking on a phone limited.

Got it. And I would save that for the dates.

Yes. Okay.

Okay. And I would just take your time. Like you don't need to rush and stay on the first date. You're ready to get married. You ready to get your ex cracked?

No, I don't.

Okay. I don't do that at all. It takes more conversation. And they have to share something deep with me and kind of start the conversation as to what they want and I let them lead and I kind of follow that. So, okay. And I want you to relax more, not be on business mode when you're on the date either.

Okay. Yeah. I am in the corporate world. So,

Yeah, I want you to work on that. Can I also see you?

I knew there was an issue. You see what I told you in the beginning? She acts feminine but her masculine energy her boss babe independent woman energy you finally comes out after some time and that's the only real thing true thing Ashley has told her the entire time apart from just feeding into the delusion that's the first right thing Ashley has said cuz like I told you they know men want feminine woman so she's going to pretend in the first couple days first two months sometimes even six months some women are very good at it they could even play the field and be feminine and soft for two years and then eventually maybe into a marriage, maybe even after the first kid. Whenever she feels she has leverage over you, then the real her is going to come up. You ask her to make you a meal, she's going to bark at you. Oh, I'm not a slave. I'm too tired. Once you start to hear that, then you know, okay, the representative has gone to Tyra.

Sure. If I can pull this table, he looks kind of overweight. That's a nice.

Just move your chair.

Yeah, let's do that.

Yeah. Okay, Tyra, I see. Okay, you're more top heavy, Tyra. Okay, they definitely coming your way, Tyra.

This kind of this kind of.

Yeah, I'm sure the guys are definitely coming your way, Miss Tyra. Are we working on our way?

What'd you say?

Are we working on our way?

I am. That is something I'm getting back into. I was in a car accident.

Okay. Um, so I I couldn't really do it. And then I got into I got hit again in another car accident. So I'm kind of trying to let my body heal, but just more so getting back to watching what I'm eating and then doing some slight workout. So.

Okay. I'm sorry to hear that, dear.

Thank you. Yeah, I'm here though, so I'm blessed.

Yeah, I would say go on walks. You for sure need to go on walks.

Okay. Um, the reason I want you to drop more weight is so you can open up your options and have better options. I think you're a pretty girl. I see the potential if you drop another 30, 35 pounds.

I agree.

Just with your fa I can see it.

I really do.

I've been that way. I I prefer myself in that that weight range.

Yeah. I really want you to get the weight down. Not that you're not pulling them now. And not that you can't go out and date and things like that, but I think that's going to open up your options for sure.

Absolutely. I mean, that's true. And I do agree. Uh, if she lost some weight, uh, she you can see the facial structure is not bad. Pretty girl. Yeah, she'll lose weight. She will pull them the men if she doesn't already do that. But if she doesn't change how she presents herself to those men and she only present the presents the beauty, she's going to have the same recycling issue, the same cycling issue. I can guarantee you if she stays who she is in terms of attitude, boss, babe, girl, boss, independent woman, don't need no man, a man should worship me, I'm the prize kind of attitude. Even if she became 125 lbs and became even way prettier, in 10 years, she's going to have the same issue. I'm telling you. I'm telling you. So until they learn what men really want beyond the beauty, cuz the beauty will attract men, that's for sure. Will attract plenty of men. But until they learn what keeps a man, what type of attitude does a man want? If he tells me to to cook for him, am I going to say I'm too busy, I'm too tired, even if I expect him to pay the bills? Those are they sound like small things, but women don't want to do those things. Women want men to be to do everything for them, but they also want men to accept them the way they are. Accept me. I'm a girl boss. You know, hear me roar. I'm the queen. Don't tell me what to do. Don't hold me accountable, but still pay my bills. Still worship me. And that's not going to fly anymore. Unfortunately, most men are checking out. They will deal with her for for a fun time. She's a pretty girl. Most men will deal with that, but long term, men are not taking that, you know. But anyway, I'll put the link down below. Uh, let's get to the next video. Shout out to you guys watching. Like the video. Uh, let me give you guys um one more video. Can I do that? Uh, all right. Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. I don't really care for that video. The video is going to give you, but I don't care for it. So, let's do this one. All right, let's go. Next video.

To address all of it.

Yes, I am engaged. Yes, I am the same person who made several videos saying that I never had never had any plans to get married. I did not want to get married and I did not agree with the institution of marriage. Gag is I still don't agree with the institution of marriage. But in those videos I made caveats under certain circumstances like if you plan on having children, if you plan on living together, if you plan on buying property together, that is this those are the situations where marriage does make sense. I don't think you should feel like getting married is a milestone that you must make in your life to feel like an accomplished person. I don't think it's an accomplishment. I I don't think as women you should feel pressured to get married because when women are pressured to get married, they end up in bad situations. I am in a good situation and I cannot tell you all of the details of the situation I'm in because now the situation I'm in involves another person. So I have to maintain privacy around my relationship and I will be even more um stringent about that going forward. I owe it to my partner who does not have any kind of presence online at all to protect our privacy as a couple. I am in a good situation. I'm with someone who is fantastic and I'm in a good situation. Again, I cannot give you all the details of the situation that I'm in. You just have to take my word for it. If you think that I'm a dumb [ __ ] then you think I'm a dumb [ __ ] and it's probably not a good idea to follow me anymore. If you think I'm full of [ __ ] then you think I'm full of [ __ ] and you probably shouldn't follow me anymore. All I've ever done online was share exactly how I feel at that specific point of time. And that's what I'm going to continue to do. Engaging with influencers, content creators, when engaging with social media, you need to utilize discernment. And that has been a pillar of the things that I've said on this channel since its inception. You need to have discernment. If if you have if what anything I've said has caused you to make major life decisions or to not make major life decisions, that's not a good sign. You need to make decisions for yourself for what is best for you. Because it's true. I can't promise you that I'm never going to change my mind. I can't promise you that I'm not going to get more information and and make a different decision in the future. I can't promise you that because I'm a human being. All I can do is my best to be honest and forthcoming about what's going on in my life while also protecting myself, my partner, and my privacy.

So, I'mma stop there, but I'mma show you because this women are lashing out.

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Hold on. Women are lashing out. They pissed at her because they were basically following her and taking her advice and saying that this is what my life is going to be, whatever.

Idiots. So, I'mma show you one of the videos where women are basically having a conversation about how they feel about her.

That lady came on here, built her entire platform around how much she hate men. She hates the idea of men. She hates marriage. She hates the idea of having kids. She hates everything about the institution of marriage. She doesn't even want to be in a relationship. She doesn't even want to be in a relationship. She doesn't want to be married. Married disgust. Okay. And now she get married. I just feel like y'all should just unfollow her and call it a [ __ ] day.

Are people allowed to change their minds?

Yes.

Yeah.

Yes, they are. Yes, they are. We grow, we learn. I just feel like now you just need to rebuild your platform from scratch.

No, she don't.

Because this is no longer your identity. Your whole platform was you hate men. You [clears throat] hate marriage and now you're getting married to a man.

Women love to hate men in in in droves in a group. You guys notice that? That's why I told you guys if you meet a woman who claims she's not a feminist, look at the type of friends she has. Because women like to we usually when women are friends, they usually agree with the same thing. You're going to find out they watch the same shows, they enjoy the same activities. As a man, I could be, I don't know, let's say I like the Lakers in terms of basketball. I could be friends with a man who likes a different team. Maybe he likes the Celtics, maybe he likes the 76ers, something like that. Men don't have to agree with everything to be friends, to be in a group. But women usually, they like to get together when they agree on the same thing. That's why I said it's very hard for a woman who claims she's not a feminist and she has feminist friends. She's not traditional. Let's say she says she's traditional and doesn't have and her friends are not traditional. That's a red flag. So women like to hate men in a group.

They can't hold each other accountable.

All that grifting.

That girl was doing some back pedling in that video.

[ __ ] I don't even know if that's a woman for real [ __ ] ass. Them big ass hands. Them [ __ ] man hands. Them That's a man.

That's a man.

Women are pissed. I mean, there's so many women that are pissed.

Why they mad?

They're stupid. They're They're [ __ ] idiots. Why would you listen to a woman that hates men? If you don't If you don't hate men, why you listening to?

I agree. I agree. And I've always said that the people who talk down on relationships and on men on women or whatever, they're just hurt people. And that's the only reason they're saying that we are for the most part, we're built to be with other people. Why did you all of a sudden adopt this hatred towards these other people? And then what's so, and I don't know any of her content, so I'm just saying this, but I would imagine that she kept her content going while she was in her relationship. She didn't just meet this man yesterday and.

That's fine.

No, it's not cool. As long as these stupid hoes is following her, that's fine. So anyway, it's never cool to be.

Switched up her narrative when she got in her relationship and saw that it was instead money, right? And kept saying.

Are the women who were following her stupid. Yes, but still.

Stupid. Well, I also feel like people don't listen to.

I feel like people don't really listen either. So, and I don't watch her. I don't have Tik Tok, but from what she said in this clip, what she said, there was caveats to what she would say in her videos. She said that if you're going to get married, make sure it's because you're having children. If she's saying those type of things and people are mad at her because she's simply getting married, but she stated in this video that the reason why she's getting married is probably because of those things, those caveats. What's the problem? People don't listen. Like people are talking.

Uh, people just misery loves company. So women who feel that she she played them, she lied to them are women who needed a reason to continue to hate men, but they needed a leader. So to those women, she was their leader. But their leader who hated men and hated marriage is telling them, "Hey, finally I got the man." They feel betrayed. But here's the thing. Here is the thing. The reason I believe she may even get bigger. Number one, those women who followed her for hating men are going to continue to follow her hoping and wishing her marriage fails. And then they will be like, "Oh, you see what you preached was right. You should have known better. You told us to head men. Told us to hate marriage. You betrayed us. Now look, your marriage has failed." That's number one. That's why I believe she's she's not going to lose any followers. Number two, the reason why she's not going to lose any followers cuz women are driven by their emotions when it comes to the choices they make in who they follow. You guys remember Derek Jackson? Derek Jackson panders to women. Derek Jackson was married the whole time he pers. Derek Jackson was caught cheating on his wife and it was crazy shedroom. Oh my god. He pers to women but he was caught cheating. You know, things like that. His wife came out. So much happened about Derek Jackson. If you don't know, you don't know. That's on you. But guess what happened to Derek Jackson after he was caught cheating. He was saying how men are bad. Men mistreat women. Women are the best. Women are the prize. Women shouldn't settle for less. He was saying so many things that pander to women and he got he became a millionaire off those things. But guess what? When he was caught cheating on his wife, what happened? He got more followers from women. He he got bigger. He holds conferences and women still buy tickets to go to see this guy who pers to them even if he was co-ching on his wife. Think about that. For some reason, women make as long as you keep lying to women. So this woman is married now. If she keeps hating women, even if she's if if she keeps preaching to women to hate men, even if she's married, she will continue making money.

And a lot of people just take what they want to hear because it sounds good. And like Kimmy said, they're probably hurt women that are just like, "Oh, no. Women, I mean, I hate men, but at the end of the day, it's like you're following some random girl off of off of a platform and basing that off of how you should or shouldn't be in a relationship. Like, are we not grown women? Can you not think for yourself? Why are you even listening to a whole another woman anyway? I think that's silly. So.

Well, no, she she the caveat I think came later after she.

Got she she built her channel.

I don't think that that's what she follow. So I just was based on what she said. I didn't know.

She probably built she probably built that [ __ ] off hatred and then like once she got like later like she probably only had like three or four things where she was like oh well you know maybe you should use the she she ain't built that [ __ ] off no discernment. Not the way not no not the way no women is talking about oh I left my man she probably liking all the comments of of people doing that [ __ ] She's a grifter.

She never believe the [ __ ] she was saying. You know how they do medicine commercials and they they say the side effects real fast. That's probably how she gave those caveats. Real fast. Low down. Like.

It wasn't like it wasn't like she did a whole video. She probably didn't do a whole video saying hey you need to have discernment. She didn't do no she that wasn't her overwhelming message.

Most of these people.

No. Because No, no, no, no. See, this is the this problem.

The woman was a grifter. Y'all don't want to hold her accountable for being a grifter.

I didn't even give my opinion yet. I don't want to say I'm not holding her accountable. I don't think.

Relationship content is pointless said that. I think I'm holding the women listening to her accountable. I think I think that I'm not following no woman.

She a piece of.

One mic y'all. One mic.

Can we get a chance?

I mean, that's like Derek Jackson and telling women certain stuff. I can't be mad at her more than I am at the women that followed her. Like to me, it's just like y'all followed the leader.

Nothing wrong with nothing wrong with Derek Jackson. The only.

No, I'm saying.

The only thing that was wrong with Derek Jackson.

Is he was admitting he was wrong.

No, no, no, no, no. The only thing that I think that was wrong with Derek Jackson was that he threw other men under the bus in order to [laughter and clears throat] that's the only I mean if any man is going to p to women you have to throw men under the bus. You can't just tell women tell women how they the prize without throwing men under the bus. So I mean I'm thinking about making a channel where I p to women. What do you guys think? Cuz I think I'll make lots of money if I just call women queens. They never do wrong. Men are the worst things that ever happen to to women. Men are bombs. Men are not providers anymore. Men are not real men anymore. I'm going to make a bank. I'm going to make lots of money. I think I should do that. So maybe in the next six months. Maybe in the next six months I should start doing that. I won't do it on this channel. I'll probably have to make a new channel, you know, uh so that I can uh make some money. But I'm thinking about pandering to women, too, cuz the saying goes, when you lie, women buy. So, I may have to do that, you know. But this is a good screenshot. Let me get this real quick. Give me one second.

But enough.

If he finessed them and they went.

I don't think it's any different than a woman finessing a guy and he got taken advantage of. The same way that same the same way that I said that these these guys and slamm agreed with me, especially the guy that got took up top that the chick ordered all of the food for and was drinking 19 1730 well 1942. Um, and I said that's a his problem is a [ __ ] need to take his L and he need to learn. And everybody warranted these chicks and said, "Listen, y'all are going to y'all are getting bad advice." And the only reason that the guys was uh feeling some type of way was because there's plenty of guys that pander. That's the game. This is not the nothing new. Um, guys have always pandered for [ __ ] That that has been a strategy for some guys for a long time. That is not that has never been a thing. So the fact that they the fact that they the fact that they fail for it, that's a them problem. They need to work on their discernment a little better and they need to learn how to vet a little bit.

But that's.

I don't have a problem outside of him throwing other guys under the bus to do so.

But I'm saying I'm not even talking about like saying Derek Jackson was wrong or right. What I'm saying is she reminds me of him. She fed the internet whatever her speech was and the women fell for it. Why am I mad at her for doing that if the other women went like I.

Let me tell you what happens. Let me tell you what happens.

They start off and they gain a massive following by actually saying and believing one thing. I don't think that it's a grift. I think that they truly do believe it when they first start saying it. And they may even come from a dark place. It may come from a breakup. It may come from this. It may come from that. And then they start to get a massive following and that's what they lean into, right? They lean more into the thing that got them popular in the first place. Then they get a man, but they can't walk away from it because they following was built off of that whole situation. So, it's difficult to say, you know what, I might be off or I might be wrong or I changed my mind or I grew out of it because the very thing that they discover you for is what they expect you to be for the rest of your life.

Yeah. I mean, I'mma keep it real.

I I I honestly I think I'm gonna start hating men.

I mean, if that's what it takes to make money from women, I'm going to start hating men. I'm going to pander to women and hate men. And I know you guys are not going to like it. You're going to call me out, but it doesn't matter if I'm going to be making money. You know, it's easier to make money from women. You just have to hate men. Tell them that their price. They do nothing wrong. Tell them their standards are exactly what they should be. Tell them never to settle for less. Tell them to avoid average men cuz average men are the plague. Tell them to avoid men who want to go 50/50. Tell them to never provide for a man. Tell them that they should only date men who are going to pay all the bills. Tell them they should only tell them that all men are supposed to be real men and become stepfathers and be the men that stepped up. Tell them to continue becoming single moms because there are plenty of men who are going to be stepfathers. I mean, the list goes on and on. And tell them they've never done nothing wrong in a relationship, that men are the worst thing, and they should avoid men. And they should use men, they should go to child support, put men on child support when it comes to divorce. Uh, they should try to get as much property and assets from a man you know and if they sign prenups tell them once they go to divorce court tell the judge that you know what he made me sign the prenup under duress I didn't want to sign the prenup you know I could go on and on and I'm going to get a massive you you guys think I have 10,000 subscribers right now but if I start making such videos especially on Tik Tok and come come to YouTube I'm going to get like 200,000 followers from women just like that. So, I think I think that's something I'm thinking about. I think that's something I'm thinking about. You guys don't be mad at me. I've told you what I'm think about to do. I'm going to be a grifter. I'm going to make a YouTube channel where I p to women. That's okay. At least, you know, you don't have to support me. The women will support me. The women got me. I mean, if they could if they continued to support Derek Jackson, even when he was caught cheating on his wife, all he did was I mean, Derek Jackson formula was so easy. After they caught him cheating on his wife, he changed nothing. He kept saying exactly what he was saying about women, calling them queens, you know, the prize and everything nice. He didn't have to change nothing. And his m his following even grew even bigger than it was before. He still makes money. He still sells books. He still sells conferences and women show up. So, I mean, you guys are you guys are kidding. And I'll be hiring people. If you're not ready to p women to p to women, I'm not going to hire you. All right? So, that's my next move. That's my million dollar business idea. If you don't like it, kiss my ass. [laughter] All right? But I hope you understand. All right, man. Shout out to you guys who have watched today, man. I'll be back on Sunday for a live stream. Shout out to Azou for the super chat, the support. I see fortron in the chat and everybody ninja watches. All right, see you next time. Peace.

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Dating Trends Ep10: Women CANT BELIEVE Men Have STOPPED BEING NICE GUYS

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