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The way they DECEIVED you is DESPICABLE! BAIT and SWITCH! But you're SMART!

Soul Whispers Tarot27:08

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So, someone promised you the sun, the moon, and the stars, but they gave you trash. Okay. So, we have the sun here, the stars. It made me think sun, moon, and stars. And then here's the mice in the Lenormand cards, which is all of this trash in this basement here. Okay.

So, this is someone who came into your life with a sole purpose to use you, some sort of manipulator, a narcissist. They wanted to see what they could get from you. They knew that they they know that they're a nasty, manipulative person. They're the snake, okay? They know that they're a predator, that they wanted to attack you, use you, exploit you, and they knew that they had to hide their true nature at all costs. So, they would have come forwards towards you wearing a mask. They came into your life under false pretenses, okay? They studied you. They figured you out. They figured out what it is you were looking for in them in a relationship, whatever kind of relationship this was. In this example, we'll talk about it being a romantic relationship, but it can be any kind of relationship. Okay?

So, they they studied you. They figured out what it is you were looking for, what you wanted um in the relationship with them. They It's like they took notes. Took notes on what your morals are, what your goals are, ambitions, what makes you tick, what you value. They were really trying to get a feel for who you are. Okay? And then they molded their image to mirror back to you everything that they deciphered you were looking for. Okay? They pretended to be just like you. And they did this in order to foster a false sense of closeness, intimacy, rapport. Um, and they did this so that you would let them in your door, let them through the door. You would put your guard down. You would open up to them so that they could get access to you and everything that they wanted to take from you, extract from you, siphon from you.

So they knew that you were looking for maturity in a person. You were looking for respect, kindness, because these are all of the things that you value. These are all of the things about who you are. Okay? And you were looking for someone that you would really um feel that alignment with that mirror. You were looking for the mirror. So they decided to mirror it all back to you. So yeah, they discovered that you were also looking for high amounts of empathy, like someone that would really understand you, someone that has a lot of empathy, is very kindhearted. You were looking also for someone that was courageous, okay? That has true strength, true stability. These are all of the things that you value. So they pretended to be all of these things with the mask that they were wearing. so that you would believe in them and like I said let them through your door.

So you may have initially been attracted to their sense of fearlessness. They may have been coming across as bold, strong, courageous, fearless, taking action and they were really taking the lead in these ways. And this may have really pleased you. It may have made you feel like you could relax. You know, you were excited that they could handle you because you are this powerful empath. You have all of these high qualities of all those things you were looking for. Maturity, respect, kindness, high empathy, courage, strength, stability. You have all of those things. So, a lot of people in this world are intimidated by you or intimidated by anyone who has all of those um really good qualities about them. So, you could have been excited initially thinking they can handle you that they understand the real you because I feel like as an empath, you've always felt like an outsider or strange or like you don't fit in in this world or you felt very misunderstood and therefore lonely. So, one of the things that was important to you was for someone to really understand the real you and love the real you. And obviously this person was pretending to understand you and love the real you and that they weren't intimidated. You know, they didn't appear to be intimidated. Um but that's just because the reason why they weren't intimidated was because they thought you were naive. They thought you were below them. They took all of your kindness and your good qualities as weakness um foolishly. They took you for being weak. Okay. So, they weren't intimidated because they thought, you know, you were easy prey. Basically, it wasn't because they're courageous and they have genuine strength and morals or anything like that. They literally just thought you were easy prey. So, that's why they weren't intimidated. They totally underestimated you. They couldn't see the real you. Even though they were studying you, they can't sink beneath the surface. They have to live on the surface level cuz there's a whole load of garbage, a whole load of shadow things that they sh feel shameful for deep down. So they dare not introspect. This has got a lot to do with their wounds. Um but also how they've been very evil and extremely toxic and abusive to others. They dare not introspect. So they cannot operate from a deeper level. So even though on the surface they may have seen that you have all of these amazing qualities, they couldn't see that this comes from your immense depths that it comes from your im immense strength as a person to be able to have all of these amazing qualities. They just thought this was you being kind-hearted, giving, sharing, and you know, you being naive, you being some sort of Pollyanna. They could only see the surface level of that and not what it takes to actually be a person like that, all of that strength within you. So, they weren't intimidated. They thought you were easy prey. Um, yeah, you were attracted initially to their sense of fearlessness, but it wasn't fearlessness. It was them being deluded and having a a massive ego thinking that they were above you, your easy prey.

So, um the real reason why they were taking so much action which you initially liked was because they were love bombing you. They were taking so much action towards you because they were so eager to get close to you as quickly as possible so that they could start extracting everything from you because um you felt like a lot of people are intimidated by you. You may have felt like a lot of people haven't really taken action towards you. Um and this person was the opposite. So yeah, you may have been blinded initially by them taking so much action, but again it was them love bombing you. What you thought was real strength basically and confidence in them was really weakness disguised. You know, they were wearing that mask. They didn't know the real you. If they had have known the real you, they would have been afraid of you. they would have been intimidated and they would have avoided you because you are the one who's ended up exposing them. You know, at the end of the day, because you were already all of these amazing qualities, which is a indicator of your immense strength, you are the strong one to liberate yourself from this situation and eventually expose them. But they had no idea that that was going to happen. They know they had no idea that you had that in you. Okay, that courage, that indestructible soul.

So, you started to see the cracks in their mask once they thought they had you. Their abuse escalated, okay? Instead of all of the wonderful, wonderful things that they promised you. They gave you so much toxicity. This is um the lightning card. So, that's like the tower card. Tower moments. They, you know, they started being extremely abusive, chaotic, trying to destroy your life, trying to destroy your self-esteem, your reputation. And you went for a massive death and rebirth. Rebirth into a much higher version of yourself, stronger version, wiser, healthier boundaries, more self-love, and realizing that at the end of the day, you are always the strong one, the indestructible one. You are always the one with the amazing qualities, the courage. They were just all of the fakeness pretending to be those things. So yeah, instead of all of the wonderful things they promised you, they gave you so much toxicity. They gave you fear. You know that they made you feel so fearful. You felt constricted. You felt trapped through threats, through abuse of all kinds, um, insults. They gave you a ton of anxiety. They put you in survival mode. They gave you a ton of eggshells to walk on. They gave you tons of lies, gaslighting. They may have given you mental health problems. It may have turned into physical health problems. So, they were the exact opposite of what they were pretending to be. and what you were hoping they would be. They weren't strong at all. They were cowardice. They were weakness in disguise. That's why they go so over the top with their attacks to pretend that they're strong, to be dominant and make you feel inferior, to make them feel better and above you, but it's all lies. They weren't stable. They were anything but stable. Okay, these are all the things that they promised initially, stability, that they were stable. You know, that's that's what they pretended to demonstrate, but they weren't stable at all. They were the tower. They were purposely trying to make you feel unstable. They were purposely trying to make you feel unsafe and all over the place. They certainly weren't mature. They were extremely immature to say the least and they certainly weren't dependable. Again, that's that stability. They they were unstable. They you couldn't trust them as far as you could throw them. They weren't logical. Okay? They were very illogical. They certainly were unable to handle you. And again, that's another understatement. They were unable to handle you because they were triggered all the time by you because deep down they could sense your strength, your confidence that you're an amazing person. And this triggered them left, right, and center. Okay? So, they certainly couldn't handle you. They weren't empathic at all. They, you know, they don't have empathy. They couldn't care less about you feeling bad. They actually took pleasure from you feeling bad and fearful, afraid, traumatized. They certainly weren't caring. They couldn't understand the real you. They don't know what love is. They don't know what empathy or kindness or any of these amazing qualities are. They don't understand. It doesn't compute in their mind. So, they certainly couldn't understand the real you. So, they totally did a bait and switch on you. They weren't considerate or thoughtful. They didn't put others, including you, before themselves ever. They were extremely selfish. They may have had no goals or dreams of their own. No aspirations, no sense of adventure, nothing to walk to work towards together. You know, you could be someone where within your partnerships, you like working together as a team, but they had nothing to work towards. They may have tried to get you to do all the work. You're the you were the one with the goals, the dreams, the aspirations, and they were just piggybacking off of all of that. They know that they're so self-destructive that even if they did have any goals or dreams, they'd fail every time because they wouldn't be able to help themselves in in terms of blowing that up. Okay. So, they just took they abused you. They took pleasure in that. They used you to feel strong in quotation marks. Um trying to belittle you. They tried to tear you apart.

So, this is you putting an ending. The coffin here is you putting an ending to this relationship, this situation. You putting up boundaries. You cutting them off. You basically put out the garbage. This was their garbage they tried to just throw on you. You know, all of their I'm hearing the word contamination. They're trying to contaminate you. All of their shadow, all of their shame, all of their self disgust, everything they tried to project on you, using you as the scapegoat. They tried to contaminate you, like I said, with all of their trash, all of their garbage, and you got to a point where enough was enough. You knew you deserved beauty, you know, not all of this trash. You knew that you deserved happiness, appreciation, equality, respect, love, everything that you represent, everything that you um value, everything you deserve. You've started to really really see this. You may have already known that you deserved all of these things, but certainly by the end of this, you knew 10 times more. you know, your sense of self-belief and knowing you deserved all the these things had grown immensely. You knew that you deserved to have someone who looks out for you and for your highest good, someone who protects you, not attacks you. Um, but they had the audacity to tell everyone once you've, you know, thrown them to the curb, so to speak. They had the audacity to tell everyone that you did them wrong cuz you wouldn't take their abuse indefinitely, basically. But they would have said that they were the victim. You did this, that, and the other to them. Again, it's all projection. That's all they ever do. They project. They're like a bottomless pit. They don't have their own identity. They're a void. But that void is filled with all of this shadow and darkness and evil. And for some of you, your unbothered nature when you cut them off made them go insane and they exposed how trashy they are to everyone. Everyone could see it clearly.

Let's look at some more cards. The mask. This is interesting. So, they came into your life wearing a mask. It's ironic. Okay. You may have felt very misunderstood in this world. You may have felt very insecure and like you had to wear a mask, but you are hiding how wonderful you are in many ways. You know, they were hiding how toxic they are. You both may have been wearing a mask in this relationship, if you can even call it that. I don't really call it a relationship. It was abuse. Um, but you were wearing a mask to protect yourself from them. They were wearing a mask to manipulate you and use and abuse you. This was you both observing each other. Once alarm bells started going off with you, you retreated. It's like they're in the bushes here. You retreated back into yourself and were observing them. And you may have played along. You may have played your role um until you'd built up the strength to be able to walk away. You're protected by the angels. I'm telling you, you've been through an immense death and rebirth. This was a death of a lot of things that were holding you back in your life. Maybe you struggled with having strong boundaries or implementing boundaries. I'm not trying to say that you didn't have any boundaries cuz in most cases um the victims of narcissistic abuse. You you had boundaries but the narcissist will completely abolish completely shatter um those boundaries and then punish you for having boundaries and gaslight you into making you believe that you're a really bad person for having boundaries. and they expect you to put up with ridiculous things and extremely abusive things and they tell you that you should just put up with that, that nothing wrong is happening, nothing wrong is going on. It's all in your head kind of thing. But this is your rebirth. You're growing 10 times stronger in in all ways. Okay? The divine has always had this amazing plan. You are being reborn like into the real you. Um ali in alignment with your interstructural soul in alignment with your confidence, your natural state, how you deserve to feel. And this is you moving into knowing without a shadow of a doubt that you are all of those traits that I mentioned. You're mature, you're respectful, you're kind, you're empathic, you're courageous, you're strong, you're stable, you're wise. You know, this has all helped you or will be helping you to realize this so much more so that you can move forwards in your life without holding your self back with insecurities and pushing forwards very strong and courageously.

Yeah, look, they wanted you on the floor. This is going over the top of this mice. They were eating away at your self-esteem. This is like they were also observing what your insecurities are, what buttons to push, what your wounds are, where where they could, you know, um get a grasp of you, get a hold of you and drag you under and make you fall on the ground. So this the mice is traditionally about eating away at you. It's about stealing. They were stealing your self-esteem, stealing your sanity, maybe stealing your finances, stealing your sense of security and stability. And um this is what they do. They're scavengers. Like they're parasites. They feed off of they find a host, so to speak. That sounds awful, but you you are the strong one. You are such a powerful soul. They knew that there was a lot to extract from you, but this is all about you rising back up more than ever before. Being in the light, allowing yourself to be seen, knowing because of everything that you've been through, everything you've overcome in this situation, you knowing that you're an incredible person to be able to have navigated through this so gracefully. So, this is um so much more confidence than you ever had to really go for your goals, your dreams, be your true self, be in the limelight, or just allow yourself to be seen. Look, you can juggle. You can do the hula hoop. You can walk a tight rope. You can do this all at once. You're very flexible. You're very gifted. You're very wise. You navigated through all kinds of things, all kinds of chaos that this person tried to put you through to destroy you, but they couldn't. They could only temporarily like get you on the floor here. But this is you remembering your true self and coming back to your true self, but so much more than ever before.

Yeah. Look, you may have felt like the ugly duckling. By that I mean you had a poor self-image. You this was like the wounds like I said within you your own shadow that made you feel bad. This is the irony but this is what made you realize okay in truth it's the narcissist who has all of these skeletons in the closet and all of this shame and all of this um darkness within them stuff that's eating away at them. That's why they're a bottomless pit. They're always seeking higher experiences, seeking what makes them feel good. But it's so it's so temporary because all of the shadows festering within their subconscious and they dare not look at it. But so the irony is they are the one that's actually very evil, a a bad person, very toxic, but they couldn't care less. They don't have a conscience. Yet you're someone who is predominantly, you know, so loving, so kind, so caring. No one's perfect, but you are this beautiful swan, but you are the one beating yourself up. You are the one um with this immense conscience and feeling so bad over the most minuscule of things. But this stark contrast, meeting this evil person and them not caring less, actually taking pleasure in your pain made you realize that you're an incredible person. So, you've moved out of the ugly duckling mentality. You know, you've moved out of seeing yourself in a bad light and you've um grown into the beautiful swan, which is who you really are. This is you growing into your confidence knowing that you're this amazing person and this is how you gracefully navigated out of this situation. This is 44. Four is about stability. You're being guided by the divine gracefully out of this situation. And yeah, this is the narcissist card looking in the mirror. There's all of these mirrors here. There's a painting they've done of themselves. Um, mirrors at their feet. You know, their ego was so inflated that it blinded them. Okay? And now they're going through a tower moment. Um, now this is an ending for them. They were left with nothing. Okay? They may have been extracting. This is the ironic thing for them. They were extracting so much from you. But because they're a bottomless pit, they still ended up with nothing at the end of the day. And that is what they're so angry with you about. It's their audacity. It's their sense of entitlement. They think that you've done them wrong because you've left them with nothing. But it's cuz they do not ever create anything for themselves and they were depleting you. and using and abusing you and being totally out of order to say the least. And they weren't working on any of their goals or dreams. Like I said, they don't have any. Their main goal is to seek out new victims, new sources of supply so they can hijack people's lives and live off of all the the benefits that these other people have genuinely worked for themselves.

So, they promised you the sun, the moon, and the stars, but they gave you trash. It's time to put out the garbage. Or you already put out the garbage. And this is you releasing, healing, purging all of the toxicity that they contaminated with you with for so long. Enough is enough. You've said goodbye. You've put an end to this, and you're rising up tenfold. Everything that was stolen from you is coming back to you tenfold. You are naturally abundant. That is your natural state. And so you are returning to abundance, but more so than ever before.

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