Unf**k your life and become highly Successful

Hello my brother. A problem has arisen, brother. I feel sad and lonely, but I want to become the best in my life. Fundamentally, I feel, brother, that the biggest problem nowadays is that people desire many things emotionally. You open Instagram, you open YouTube, or you sit with Instagram Reels, and your algorithm, where motivational content comes at a very strong level. It's exploding, absolutely exploding. Millionaire cars are stopping. People are getting out. Aura farming is happening. All this is happening. And seeing it, you feel a great sense that, brother, the time has come. When 2026 started, it was like, brother, 2026 has begun. It will be the greatest year. It will be the greatest comeback. We will do this in this year. March started, lock in. The time has come to lock in. So many months are left. You are living so much in emotions and narratives, mentally, that it has no connection. How are your days going? How did February become March? How will you go from March to April, from April to July? If you are actually asked, if I calculate these 30 days, sit and study them, I will not see anything unique. I will not see any distinctiveness. I will not see anything amazing or epic. You have done any big work each day. This is not visible. There was hard work every day. This is not visible at all. Rather, every day is a blur. Yes, brother, life is going on somewhat, but some are living. But emotionally, brother, we are sharing the best version reels with each other. We are living too much in drama. In real life, routinely, our life, the regular life, there is no effort in it. There is no intentionality. Practically, in effort, in action, in planning, all three are almost, you could say, two to three out of ten. No one is at zero, but no one is excelling at a supreme level. That's why your problem is also this: I want to do many things from desires. Desires also jump a lot. My mind also wants to do a lot. There are also very big dreams. But brother, I don't see myself doing it. I don't see myself doing anything within myself. This is the problem for many people, isn't it? Brother, how to align this with karma? Now we are talking about practical life. Practical solutions are logical. Practical solutions are intelligent, rational. The first change you need to bring is to completely divorce it from emotions. You have to separate it. Meaning, emotionally, the warrior is the one who will pick up the sword alone. 4000 people are coming in front of him. He will fight and he will win. Emotions support such narratives a lot and are also happy. Reality has nothing to do with this. In reality, you cannot fight two people. In reality, you might not even be able to win if you fight one person. Similarly, it's like, brother, we will become millionaires. We will become that much. Reality is literally thinking like a scientist. A scientist, or you can understand, you are studying rats inside a lab. So you have to understand the entire cognitive map, which we will call my field, in which I have to work. I am placed here. There are many other cognitively equally smart or much smarter agents than me who exist in this field. There are many hierarchies. Hierarchies exist in every aspect. What does this mean? There is a hierarchy in skills. There is a hierarchy in success. There is a hierarchy in tragedies. There is a hierarchy in groups. How to reward personalities? There is also a personality-based hierarchy. Humans, first of all, support things hierarchically and construct them themselves. They will create it wherever it exists. First, second, if I want returns in anything at a dangerous level, I want a Mercedes car, four BMWs parked at home one day, everything. Anything that is sustaining at a very high level, not once that suddenly a crore of money comes, and then the next month it's back to ₹2000. Anything that is sustainable, repeatable, relies on structure. It relies on structure. It relies on structure. Remember this. All these things rely on structure. Not on willpower. It relies on structure. Not on what emotions are saying. It relies on structure. It's not like I will work like this one day. Returns will come like this. Cars will descend. Everyone will watch. Stop all that. That's the best thing. If you already have dreams, those dreams are enough to fuel you to work. Your field is a cognitive map at a very formidable level. You are placed here. Many people have built very capable structures from which they are getting tremendous returns. Hierarchies exist. In different hierarchies, priorities might be given to different things. In some, perhaps, there is a lot of value in flattery. Nothing is singular. It will be multifactorial. Meaning, perhaps in this field, you also need skills. You also need people skills. Meaning, interpersonal skills, communication, friendships, network. You will have to do some X, Y, Z, A, B, C. So what are we talking about here? Your field, however objective you can see it, like a hawk, like an eagle. See it like a scientist. First, understand. Forget all narratives. Stop living in these narratives, emotional stories. Become a little reality-driven. Become a little practical. What is my cognitive map? Where am I placed? Clearly, if I am earning ₹1000, earning ₹100, earning ₹00, I have to reach ₹5 lakhs. So where am I placed? What is the field? And how realistically do I understand the field? This is called practical thinking. Realistic data acquisition. Through which you will first create the cognitive map of that thing. For this, the more realistic the data you have collected, the better your map will be, the more accurate your map will be. And we are talking about the inside of the mind here. Your cognitive map, your mind map of that thing for which you want success here. This is the first thing. Pick up a diary, pick up a chart paper, pick up anything, and see how much you know about what you are doing, in terms of accuracy, in terms of practical reality. And how much time are you wasting on the clock, brother, during the day? Or are you stuck in narratives? This will happen, one day that will happen, and one day this will happen. Statistically, how many people like you are there who put in as much effort as you do, and their lives have changed by an hour? A simple answer can be found. This is called empirical inquiry. Empirically, what outcome will you get from anything you are doing? You are seeing for yourself how much you are getting. But if you have doubt that no, no, no, if I watch four more reels, it's just a matter of time. I will have 18 Mercedes. Inquire. There are 1000 people like me. If they are putting in that much effort, how many of them? You will know the probabilistic likelihood, the probability that you will have 25 four-story houses, 28 cars, whatever I see and want to understand, and want to tear up my life. The first thing is how deeply you understand your playing field, whatever it is, whatever your field is. Second, now within this map, where do you have to go first? When your map is completely clear in front of you, you will see that, okay, I am here. This is the place where a person is currently getting 1 lakh. Within this, there are other places where salaries will increase. I have to go here. What skills are needed? You acquire statistical knowledge that of the 1000 people who have reached here, what was the bare minimum they had? What do I have or not have? On the basis of which they are earning so much money today. What are the conditions to reach here? What are the requirements? What are the bare minimum requirements? Without that, it's not possible. Do you have that? So for the attainment of the gold destination, these are your objectives. Those are your mini-goals. Right off the bat. These are the things that will eat up your time. You don't need to see any content anywhere. No need to chew any content. You have the whole day. Sit comfortably in the evening with your family. If you work, work. When you get free time while working, keep PDFs of things on your phone. Whenever you get free time, replace scrolling with reading. Meaning, you can also give degrees of hardness to your reading material, research material. Keep the one that seems tough to study for secluded, isolated time. Meaning, we are doing it again. To achieve my goals, whatever skills I need to acquire, how well do I know the skills? How well have I understood them? How many hours will it take? How hard is it? Perhaps there are core chapters within this that are hard, some are easy. Do you ever divide these? Whoever wants to achieve anything, there is no skill in the world that doesn't require some study, some learning. Learning is another word for study. Anything you are learning, in which there are many things to learn, some will be hard, some will be hardest, some will be easy, some will be relatively medium level. Have you ever assigned? If I avoid the hardest things, I should do them first. Meaning, from today itself, I have put in 2 hours simply in the evening. If my goal is a year later, I have time, then every day I will do this hardest thing for 2 hours. The first priority becomes the hardest, because if the hardest is removed from the front, then the rest will become easy. Perhaps there are many people for whom the pit, the hardest part, makes no difference in doing it on time. So they can do it according to their own preference: I will do this first, then this. But you have a plan. You know what you have to do during the day. Do you know what you have to do during the day? You don't know. Pick up attack mode. Don't pick it up because we know everything. We are stuck in life. We don't want to work, but we want to dream. But arrogance is filled. Why should I pick up anything? Whatever you have to read, whatever you have to do, from hardness to its level, split it. So the easy part, which you know are easy chapters. Easy reading. If you have a job, do anything. Whenever you get a break, don't just chatter with people. What's going on in the office? The office is going on. Oh, what happened to them? Oh, what about their affair? You do this then, my brother. Brother, it's been 3 years, I'm stressed. Brother, my salary agreement hasn't happened. You could have simply opened a PDF on the side. Simply, while working, whenever you take a break, when there's chatter. 3 hours, 2 hours, everyone has in the office, no matter how much work they are doing, where you are sitting and dying. In that, people open reels, or are gossiping in the office, or smoking cigarettes, doing drama. Whatever your next goal is, whatever the easy level part of it is, the mid-level part, the hardness level, switch to that. Because you are already doing hard work in the office, perhaps. So there's no need to read the hardest. No need to learn the hardest. Do the easy level, which you can browse comfortably, read comfortably, without a problem. So it's not a cognitive load. This is called working systematically. Everything can be solved smartly. How detailed are your solutions? Again, this completely depends on how strong your desire is, brother. What I said at the beginning, how detailed is your cognitive map? How intensely do you want to do it? How much fire is inside you to achieve this? If there is no fire, then you have to solve the fire. First, create the fire. Everything is problem-solving. Everyone has equal time. No one got more time. A person is working in this same time, while working a job, without cognitively exhausting themselves. Meaning, when I come home, I will eat comfortably. If I need a half-hour nap, I will take a half-hour nap. If I am not that tired. Okay? Or at night, I will do the core, the hardest level, for 2 hours, or just one hour. Every day I will do this much, which I did for 3 hours in the office, taking breaks. When I woke up, bathed, did whatever. If we commute, in the metro, anywhere. If our commute is 40 minutes, one hour, brother, you are sitting for an hour, you can lock in. You can do the medium level, whatever you have in terms of hardness level. Or sit and watch reels. Then ask, brother, I have a lot of desire, I want to achieve a lot, but brother, I am lonely, sad, I don't understand one thing. Either you are saying I am grinding at such a dangerous level in my life that because of it, I can understand that temporarily I don't have time in my life to make friends, to spend time with friends, because of this, a lot of loneliness is coming. This is a genuine problem. But whoever is grinding at a very dangerous level, it has an expiry date. No one is doing it indefinitely. If you are grinding indefinitely, then you are grinding incorrectly. The whole point of grinding is that we are going to extremes temporarily, because of which we will be able to make a jump. Right grinding, meaning right hard work, smart work, at a very formidable level, which you are stretching. You are doing a speed run in 6 months. If you have competition coming in a year, and you lock in for a year, then that year is over, right? You have crushed the competition. Technically, you have divided life. You have divided your goals. You have set short-term goals for yourself. Now, which chapters to do when, how to revise? You have made the whole system. And you are executing it. In that, I can understand that 10 hours are going. You also have to work out. You walk for an hour, you walk because you also have to keep yourself physically fit, because mental and physical are completely connected. Because both things add to each other. So I can understand that because of that, you are not able to talk to your family that much, sit properly. But that's a matter of one year, right? How can it be that it's been 4 years? I am feeling lonely and sad. Meaning, you are not calling your family, not spending time there, and what were you doing for 4 years? If you don't call anyone, don't talk to anyone, don't try to solve that problem with sincerity, with intensity, that brother, I need to make friends now, stop me if you can, you are not even doing that. What have you been doing for 4 years? Then brother, what I am talking about, if you were so zoned in on your work, then in 4 years you should have crushed it. In 4 years of study, what can't a person crush? If one is zoned in, working structurally, working smartly. You are saying its function is that I am not talking to people these days because I can understand when you have too many tasks in your life, cognitively heavy, and because of that there is a loss, but that is a temporary loss. I don't understand when people say I have been like this for 5 years. Brother, in 5 years, you should have crushed God knows what. If you are saying I was prioritizing this, it means you were not prioritizing anything. Brother, in 5 years, you were prioritizing simple masturbation. You were prioritizing lying on the bed and masturbating. You are creating a cognitive map. In the cognitive map, what are your goals? Assign them. Split the contents within the goals by hardness level. If you are working a job, in the remaining hours of the job, do the easy tasks. You can do it comfortably. They are not cognitively heavy. But they are important tasks. Easy doesn't mean avoidable. Third, divide whatever your long-term goal is into chunks. Set weekly goals. Set 15-day goals or one-month goals. Set a monthly goal. All these things are given in attack mode. There is a whole section of trade lines. In which you can literally assign mini-goals, maximum goals. Everything is filled with automated templates right now. Why are you given tools? Do you think I made them by reading everything? I made them by thinking out of thin air. It is heavily backed by research. How do things work? How does work happen? Does work happen with tools? No, is it that 99.9% of things in the lives of the children around you are not tools? Even using two stones to hit each other and create fire is using tools. Where will you create fire? Otherwise, if there were no tools. Now chunk your goals. What is your one-month goal? Everyone watching below, write in the comment section. What is your one-month goal? Your goal is to crack IIT. Promotion, startup, starting a company, doing research. Building a product. I am building a product right now. Okay? Where are you going to reach in one month in your product building? Write it. I want to make friends. This is your goal. Why can't it be a goal? At least I will talk to one person in a month. This is your interpersonal goal. Not everything is success in life. Success in life is not just earning money. It is also earning a human being, a good relationship, a good person, a good friend. It is many, many times more valuable than 100 crore rupees. Someone's house, someone's background might have 100 crore rupees, but when he is sitting alone, sleeping here, tears come out. Many billionaires, millionaires are in depression. I am telling you a genuine thing. They are not happy. They have stolen even their underwear. From a 24-perspective, look at humans. You don't need to look from one perspective. This doesn't mean money is a bad thing. Money is also a very great thing. Handle your human condition, your human situation from 25 perspectives. If you have been lying around for 3 years and have not reached anywhere. You have been lying around for a year, for six months. And now you talk so much nonsense that brother, I am lucky, I am this. Think about what is going wrong in your life. Something is going terribly wrong. And if your genuine problem is that you sit on your phone, then it is genuinely time to solve it. I have made a whole video on scrolling with solutions. Pick it up and watch it. It has practical solutions, but on reels, girls watch AI, now AI-enhanced girls, it's better to masturbate. You are looking behind, you look ugly. In your own life, humiliation comes. You don't do karma. It has become a habit. And what is the habit? The habit is to sit on Instagram and abuse people. You can do this much at most. So first organize your life. Become a little organized there. And I have told you this system. Before organizing anything, start by understanding that thing. Then set your goals in it. If you understand, then realistic goals can be achieved. And how to achieve realistic goals can be achieved. You can recognize how many goals are within the goals. How to reach them can be achieved. See their contents in front of you with complete clarity. These are all the contents. It's not like a book, brother. We only see the book from the outside. This book has to be read. One day when I opened it, I realized, okay, I'll read this chapter. When you don't even know what to read, how will you know how hard it is to read this? How easy it is to read this? How many hours will it take to read this? How many years will it take to master this? You don't know all this. You are assuming in your mind, sitting in your mind. Brother, I will read this for four months. Open it, son, open your book. Read it. Read it, son, work. Get zoned in. Everyone watching, get zoned in. Live life smartly, practically. We are talking at a very basic level right now. What I want to talk to you about, the genuine, hard-to-hard talk, is how to tear the sky, and that is far above money. That is becoming a complete Superman. Becoming a complete Übermensch. How to become a Superman in the impact, effect of your character, soul, or spirit, who you are? We are talking about going there. You cannot even complete your basic tasks right now. Basic tasks that you have assigned as requirements for your goals are not being met. You will become a Superman for an hour. And I am talking to girls too. The ultimate being that you can be. Your best version that you can be. You think that is success. You think successful people are the best version of themselves. Success is a marker of capability. Meaning, whoever is capable will definitely be successful. We want to talk to you about capability. That capability is a very big, broad concept. It radiates not just from success in the mind. It is strong in character. Terribly strong. Terribly practical too. Not foolish. We have to reach there. You cannot even complete basic tasks right now, brother. All this. My basic things, I have to accomplish them first. If I want to live the best version of my life. When I end my life, it should be a story that people enjoy. All your future generations should put up your picture in a big living room, saying, this was our ancestor. He turned the universe upside down, our entire lineage. We all feel proud in his name, by his last name. Before him, our history was different. After him, the whole story changed for our entire lineage, our entire clan, our entire group. One person changed the intergenerational scale. The difference between who we were before and who we are now is like heaven and earth. He established entirely new standards. Now we all live in those new ones. This is your story. Now you don't have to walk in this time. You cannot even complete basic tasks, brother. With so much research tools existing in this AI era, you cannot do this research: brother, can I make a detailed cognitive map of my field? I can't even do that. Right now, I am stuck in distractions that have no value. This is the same thing I asked you in the scrolling video: if you remember, what were you watching three days ago? Do you remember? You can write five reels. Take a pen. Can you remember and write five reels? What did I watch? Three days ago, 13 days ago. When this has no value. Such forgettable things. Have I ever learned a very beautiful, great lesson from reels that I still apply in my life? Do you remember anything? And how many hours did you spend? How many days did you spend? How many months did you spend? So, sister, look at the investment. Look at its return. When the return is dust, kick it. Now this is logical thinking. But you don't want to do logical thinking, brother. You want to do emotional thinking. You want to flow, you want to play in the aura, and make yourself a king in an imaginative reality, and later a warrior, even if you have stolen your underwear, have only three pairs, no money to buy a fourth, but you are sitting as a king in your imagination. Then you say, why doesn't this girl I love look at me? Why would she look at you? There is no consistency between what you think, what you want to become, and what you are, what you are doing. You are a highly unreliable human being. Understand my point. I am actually happy. Whichever girls are rejecting you. Claims and actions must match. The simple marker of reliability is this. To become reliable, your claims, I see myself like this. I am a warrior. I am a self-respecting person. I am a capable person. If these are your very basic claims, then they must be completely reflected in your actions. If there is a mismatch, then whoever is running away is literally making a rational decision. Now, how can we blame them? If you want to do a PhD in shooting yourself in the foot. Brother, come into the game. Sister, you too come into the game. If you are sitting here, most people are guys. I don't know why girls don't feel like watching all the videos. But if a sister is watching, you too get in the zone. Get in the game. We are all human. From a Homo sapiens point of view, you play the game. At least in my philosophy, everyone watching me, brother, we have to keep ourselves as players. In this Earth, whatever field we choose, whatever our cognitive map is, you will start as a Homo sapiens. I am not saying gender doesn't exist. I am not saying gender norms, gender attitudes, gender-based social norms, social attitudes towards gender, all these things don't exist. They all exist. The games are different for everyone. But don't tell me this game. You can't win this game. You can win. If you enter, then start playing. Where are you stuck in these virtual simulations? This is a virtual simulation. The real life game is going on. Reality has simply told you that whatever being you are, all your possibilities, all your capabilities, I am taking them all away from you. Here, take a little cheap pleasure. Take this beautiful girl. Take this body, this physique, ruin yourself in bed. And you are doing just that. No, I am telling you, brother, come seriously, get zoned in. Come, come, come, log in seriously. Log in seriously. Log in as a Homo sapiens, as a player. We will tear it apart and keep it in our hands, brother. We will tear it apart and keep it in our hands. No one will stop us. If I am upgrading my messages, in clarity, in perspectives of seeing things, if you see a dangerous upgrade, then I should also see an upgrade in you, that you upgrade every 6-6 months, brother, your perspectives change, your methods change, you invent new methods, you understand yourself more deeply, and you understand how I get the best output, the best outcome for myself. Work, and you will achieve it. After this.