How To Attract a Provider

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Okay, so we're gonna be talking today—hold on one second—we're gonna be talking today about how to attract a provider. Now, there's providers of all sorts. Not all providers are going to be millionaires; not all providers are going to be super rich. There are some that are going to be middle class, upper middle class, blue collar, whatever, white collar, rich, semi—whatever. They have to be generous though; that's the one thing that you need to look for in a provider. Not just, you know, their status of, you know, income, but if they're generous. There are rich men that are stingy and won't give you more than a dusty will. So you got to avoid those types of men, and they're easy to spot because they always also have excuses of why they aren't able to spend. So listen for that. But if guys really like you and they want to impress you, they're going to provide; they're going to spend. So look for men that are eager, eager to impress you. When a man is eager to impress you, they're going to spend more. If you—if the man you're dealing with is not eager to impress you, they're not going to be spending too much. So that's why you need to find the correct type of man that is eager to impress you. Okay? That means you're probably going to look way better than them, and they're going to like you a lot more. Like I always say, that's obvious, but they need to feel eager and excited to impress you. When a man is excited to see if they can impress you or not, they're going to want to give; they're going to want to spend; they're going to want to show you that they can provide and do what it takes to be, you know, in some sort of relationship in the future with you.

So another way to attract a provider: you got to look good enough to make them feel eager. Okay? Now, not everybody is going to be a 10, but if that man is Quasimodo and you a five, you gonna make him eager. All right? If y'all know who Quasimodo is, it's the Hunchback of Notre Dame; go look it up. But if that man is ugly or not a very attractive, and you're a good solid five, you still gonna make him eager, and he's still gonna spend on the fess. All right? If that man is a seven and you're a 10 or a nine, he's still going to be eager to spend. All right, sprinkle sprinkle, especially if he likes you and he's excited to be in the presence of you, he's gonna spend.

So another way to attract a provider is to expect being provided for, no matter what. It's normal; it's the norm. You go anywhere, you expect them to provide. You're not on a date trying to reach in your pocket. You don't look like you date men that ask you to go 50/50. You can't go out in public looking like that. Your attitude, your face card, your your style, the way you carry yourself cannot say you split bills, baby. You got to have that look in your eye, that sprinkle sprinkle, that sparkle in your eye that says, "I do not split bills." You got to walk in there like you're the best thing ever; like your confidence level has to be so high that if a man dare ask you to split a bill, he know he gonna get cussed out, belittled in public, filmed, put on TikTok, and all of that. Okay? He gotta—he gotta be afraid; he literally has to fear; his heart has to start beating fast when he even thinks about asking you to pay for something. All right? He needs to fear the reaction; that's what you need to be looking like. Okay? All right? 'Cause you are already know—if you walk in the room, somebody asks you, "Oh, you want to go to dinner?" And then you go out on a date, you get dressed, you put on all your makeup, clothes, hair, makeup, whatever, whatever, and they dare ask you to split bills, they need to be very afraid of what you gonna do and what you gonna say to them, and if their ego is still gonna be intact when they leave. Thank you, Miranda. Sprinkle sprinkle.

How many times a week should you go to a bar? You live one hour away from the rich side of town, so you feel disappointed when you make the drive and don't want to sprinkle sprinkle. Um, okay, so I would say go as often as you can and try to go out during the daytime and not go to the bar. If you can't get out there in the daytime, take a personal day off, fake a doctor's appointment, do something, but you need to get out there in the daytime and go run errands, go to the gym over there, go get your, you know, your shopping done over there. Like you need to be like you're a part of that community over there; take a yoga class over there, you know, something. You need to be in that environment more often than you're not, because it's a numbers game. You need to hang out there in your—in your spare free time, you know what I'm saying? That's not where you just go sit at a bar; that's where you go and do everything, because the longer you're out there, the more you look like a regular, in that you belong, the easier it is for people to approach you. So you got to get out there consistently. Okay? Some people just move out there; all right, they get them a little studio apartment, and they go ahead and just move out there just so they could be in the environment, because it—it's literally investing in your future. If you plan on marrying somebody that has money, you got to be around people that got money. Okay? If that's all you're around, that's all you gonna meet, period. So it just makes sense, if that's what you want, to move out there or closer to it. If you can't make a closer move, then you just got to put in more commitment to being over there in your spare time. [Music]

Okay, is that what you did, Shear? Nope. Well, I know where—I knew where the rich men hung out where I lived, but I wasn't even looking for nobody when I found—when I found my husband, I wasn't even looking for nobody; they was looking for me. Sprinkle sprinkle. All right, but I did—like I did say that I was looking for an older man that's going to pay all my bills, and he found me, so I guess I manifested him. I was literally just sitting there minding my business. Okay? Uh, I was like at a bar where my friend worked, and she was a bartender, and I was waiting to go meet up with this guy that owned a funeral home because we were supposed to, you know, do a little work. And so the guy ended up cancelling and say he's going to do it tomorrow, so I just sat there, sat my wine, talked to my friend, and then here he comes. A—it was near—it was like in a nice side of town, at least where a lot of professionals were, you know what I'm saying? Yeah. So definitely nowadays, a lot—since the internet has freed up a lot of people's times and schedules, most people that can make money online, on their own businesses, you know, don't have a 9-to-5 schedule; they're not going to be at work when most 9-to-5 people are at work; they're going to be out doing leisurely things. So that's why I say go to the nice sides of town, go to the rich sides of town during the daytime, if you can, maybe even on the weekend, early in the mornings, and go have fun, go hang out.

How do you keep yourself on a man's mind without seeming too eager and without—Okay, if you're not on his mind naturally, you're not the one he wants. I'm telling—to tell y'all, there's nothing you can really do except look good, smell good, and have options. That's the way to stay on a man's mind: look good, smell good, and have options, baby. Sprinkle sprinkle. Look better than them, a lot better than them; smell—smell good and have options that have more money or the same—a type of money. That's how you keep—keep them thinking about you. Sprinkle [Music] sprinkle.

He said these rich men have terrible personalities. How do you deal with this? Girl, I have terrible personality, too, when it comes to uh, dealing with people with terrible personalities. Okay, just mirror them; just mirror them. They're used to it. I have a terrible personality when I'm in contact with a terrible personality; I become them, literally. Okay? And you have to understand something about rich people: they're used to getting their way; they're used to doing whatever they want. If you don't have what they have, they think that they run you and all this kind of stuff. That's why you need more options, ma'am. I keep trying to tell y'all—the one thing I keep telling y'all: having several options changes other people's attitudes towards you. I promise you, if you're sitting there with a rich man, but you got five other rich men on your roster, or two other rich men on your roster that have more money or the same amount of money than that person that you're dealing with, and they can tell by the way you carry yourself, your confidence, they're not going to be so disrespectful, because they know that in a matter of weeks, months, or maybe a year or two, you could be richer than they are, just by marriage. So you need—you need to understand your power as a woman; you need understand your power as a woman; you need to have several; you need to act like you have several. You don't got to say it, but you need to walk in the room like you could pull any millionaire in there. Okay? Because just think about this: that man took his whole life to get to that level of rich; all you got to do is go marry somebody, and you gonna be on his same level. Sprinkle sprinkle. Know your power, ma'am. Oh, Kelsey, thank you, ma'am. Sprinkle sprinkle.

So another way to attract a provider is to pretend that you already have or had or always been provided for. Okay? Go to the nice places, like I said; dress like a woman who is provided for. Now let me tell y'all, there's—there's different cities, different styles, different trends. I don't know, but when a woman is provided for, she doesn't have to show everything. I'm gonna tell y'all, when a woman is truly provided for, she doesn't show everything; she's not desperate for attention from anything, moving any dusty. She's not showing off everything because she has everything or can get anything. What—what she focuses on is her skin, her hair, her face, hygiene, nails, outfit. Okay? She's not trying to show off everything like it's for sale; she's trying to show people that she is valuable. There's a difference; she's not on sale or for sale; she is valuable. So she's gonna look valuable; she's not going to look cheap; that's number one. So according to where you live or whatever area you are hanging out in, you need to determine what looks cheap and what looks valuable that's going to fit into that area. Okay? Because everybody is different; every area is different. All right? Some people live in a suburb; some people live in a city; some people live on islands; some people live in different countries. So whatever it translates to where you live, that's what you need to—you need—you need to understand that. Okay? Sprinkle sprinkle.

So a woman who values herself and looks like she values herself attracts provider men. Okay? A woman with high standards attracts—attracts provider men. A woman that knows how to have fun responsibly attracts provider men. A woman that looks like—if that person—if a man walks into—into anywhere and he thinks that you're going to add a fun, you know, twist to his life, he's going to want you there. If you make him feel good about himself when he's out in public, you make him look good because you look good, he's going to want that type of energy when you—when he walks into anywhere with you on his arm. You need to bring more value to him by how you look as well. Okay? You look good and you're on the arm of a man; when he walks into a room, all eyes on him and the—everybody's asking, "Who is that? Who is that?" Because of you, not because of him. He can walk in there by himself and nobody gonna blink twice, unless he got, you know, um, unless he's famous or something. But he walks in there with you, then everybody know he's somebody. You got to be that woman; that's what attracts a provider. When they walk into the room with you and every head turns, that's what they want. They want you're like literally their car. If they're—if they're on the street driving a sports car, a luxury vehicle, people's like, "Oh, okay, who is that? He got a nice car." You can't drive his car into the restaurant; he can't drive his car into the gala, so he has you on his arm; you are the extension of his success, and that's why a man will provide for you, because if he—if he spends money on his car maintenance, getting his car washed, detailed, and stuff like that, he's gonna do the same thing to you. So we objectify ourselves; we've already been objectified. Unless you want to be the domestic house servant that don't leave, I'd rather be objectified than um, domestify. Sprinkle sprinkle. All right? Because I like objects; I'd rather be valued for way more than cooking and cleaning, baby. Sprinkle sprinkle. They're going to objectify you anyway; you might as well get on board, man; you might as well—you might as well get paid off of it and get the lifestyle from it and everything, because they're going to do it anyway, no matter what you want or not.

Uh, use some—for what you focus on attracting men, but can you share some details about keeping and maintaining—Okay, Kelsey, ma'am, we don't keep men; men keep us. Sprinkle sprinkle. I keep telling y'all, we don't keep them; they keep us. If you got to keep a man, you chose the wrong one; he ain't no pet. They got to figure out how to make money and keep us happy and keep us impressed to keep us interested in them. Okay? We're the prize, not the man, so they need to be focused on how to keep us. They need to be bringing us flowers; they need to be calling us and telling us what we need to hear; and they need to be sending us gifts and putting money in our account. That's how men keep us, so we don't keep them, baby; they keep us. And what we do is we make them look good; we make them feel good; we stroke their ego; and we make sure that every day that they get up and go to work, they have a purpose and somebody—and somebody to come back to to share that money with, baby. That's what we do. So get reverse everything you think and ask yourself, "How can a man keep you?" Y'gotta—y'gotta think different; we got to think different, because you sitting there trying to, you know, rack your brain on how to keep some man, you doing everything wrong in bage.

Does it matter what car we show up driving? It's a clean, recent car, but it smells—small girl, don't nobody care what kind of car you drive; they gonna buy you another one if—if uh—if you make them uh, feel like you're the one. Thank you, girl. Sprinkle sprinkle. They gonna buy you another one soon, because they'll be proud to be able to level your car up; it's something that they can do for you, because if they're driving a luxury vehicle and they make you their woman, you can't be driving that—they're going to have to level your car up, too, because you represent them. [Music]

Okay, all right. You said, post Shir, I get so embarrassed when some—some brag on their cleaning ability just for a man's attention. Do something fiscal with that skill and start a business. Exactly. Well, you know, and I always tell women, if you're happy doing what you're doing, you don't need me; you don't need my channel; you don't need nothing. If you're happy cooking and cleaning and having dinner on the table by six o'clock and doing whatever you got to do as, you know, a traditional housewife, you—if you're happy and your husband is happy and your kids are happy, you don't need me. If you ain't happy, that's why you found me; you looking—you was looking for something. Okay? But if you don't—if you're not happy with that, then deep down inside you're not happy with it, do something about it. Okay? Some women love doing that stuff, and it makes them happy, and I don't want to take that away from them. Sprinkle sprinkle.

What if we complain that—that give them nothing then leave and go—and go be—when they have to step out on their own by themselves, looking like they ain't got nothing, ain't got nobody, or have to replace you and still pay anyway, then let them figure it out. Okay? Because the next woman they date, they gonna have to spend money on her, too, unless she's a pig Misha, and if she's a pig Misha, he probably don't want to be seen out public with her. Okay? We're not going to argue with these guys about any of that stuff; we know our value; we don't have to tell them what we gonna do for them; we—what we gonna do is show them our absence and our presence in another man's life; that's what we gonna do for them; teach them a lesson. Sprinkle sprinkle. And that's another way to attract a provider: don't become a pig Misha; stop explaining yourself. If you know your value, you don't got to explain it. Nobody asks why certain things cost certain amounts of money; they already know. Why does it cost so much when it only takes this much to make? Because it's the name, baby; it's the reputation; it's what comes with it. If you want a good—like people will buy designer handbags, or people will go to Walmart and buy a handbag; they both handbags, right? One can afford this one, and one can afford that one; that's literally it.

Uh, Sugar Daddy pays for everything but he's too touchy; wants to hang—oh, wants—how can I change that? He just—grab his hand. Sprinkle sprinkle. You got to hold his hand to keep it from roaming. Thank you, expensive. Sprinkle spr—if you get in—get in the habit of holding his hand, so he don't—he don't try to be touchy-feely, so just grab his hand, hold hands, tell them you like holding hands, and you hold that hand in place so it can't go nowhere else. If you—if the other hand is loose, give them something to carry; some bags or something, some shopping [Music] bags. Mhm.

You said you're—you're a former Pikme, and you're glad the Pikme demon left your body years ago. Okay, ma'am. Sprinkle sprinkle. Yes, got that Pik Misha demon out. Tips on—Okay, BB, ask for tips on how to carry yourself like royalty when you get shy and socially awkward. Um, imagination, darling; imagine that you are royalty and walk and talk like that. Y'—y'all see my Bridgerton era videos and TikToks and um, Instagram; just get into character; main character. Sprinkle sprinkle. Get into main character; that's it. Prepare for your role when you walk in somewhere; that's literally it. These actresses and actors that play royalty on certain TV shows, they don't walk everywhere like that unless they start walking like that after they've played the role, but when—when the camera is on and action is said, they're walking in there like royalty because that's the role that they're playing; they're using their skills; they're acting; their imagination to pull it off. So do the same. Thank you, Katherine, for the belated birthday wish. Sprinkle sprinkle. Fake it till you make it; that's how everybody do it, ma'am. Okay.

What if you're a wealthy woman? How do you find a provider? Find a man that makes more money than you; there's always—it's always out there; there's always men that have more money. You got to get into them upper circles where the more money is, or if you can't get into circles where the money is, then you need to act like you have less than what you have, so other men are more likely to provide for you. But if you—if you can't hide the fact that you need to get in circles with higher-earning men—Do you think the other people in your office are listening? I don't care. Do you think I care? They probably—they probably listen and taking notes just here so I don't get fine. Okay, ma'am. Spr spr. Uh, you've been struggling to find a Sugar Daddy in the Philly area. I go to Four Seasons, Ashton cigar, Del Frisco's, no—Okay, you go to all the—the ratchet places. Sprinkle sprinkle. Now I'm not saying those places are ratchet; I'm saying that's where women hang out that look for rich men, or that's where escorts hang out. Go during the daytime to the areas in the rich neighborhoods and go do rich activities. Cigar bars are ratchet for women to hang out in; hotels are ratchet for women to hang out in unless you're going to a networking event. Get out of there; you look like an escort. Okay? No offense to escorts, because you know that's what they be working, but are you one? If you're not an escort, don't go to escort places. Sprinkle sprinkle.

You're alone, drowning in bills. How do you glow up, girl? You can glow up with any type of product; you can go to Dollar Tree and glow up; you can go to the thrift store and glow up; you just have to have style. Get—download Pinterest; make you some cute outfits up from the stuff you already have in your closet or go thrifting; go to the Dollar Tree and get some makeup; they got some cute makeup now; they even got Elf and everything there, you know what I'm saying? Go—go find you—go find you a way to level up on your own budget and make it work. Okay? You don't have to spend money to go hang out; you don't have to spend money to go walk around in a grocery store or a park in the rich side of town. If you're going to go shopping for groceries anyway, might as well go over there. If you're going to be—you know—if you're going to do stuff over there, you need to make sure that you're also being social so that you can meet more people. Okay? Sweet tooth. Sprinkle sprinkle.

When—when and how to get him 20K for a new car? Is that a lot? It's not a lot if he's a millionaire or upper middle class, and if he really, really likes you; if he sees you as maybe wife material or long-term girlfriend material, he may go ahead and do it, but like—like I said, you have to—you have to like make him look good when he walks in a room, and you can't be driving no ratchet car if he's driving a nice car, if you're going to be in his life. So just mention all those things to him in a—in a nice way; like compliment his car a lot if he drives a nicer car, and then every time you see the car you want, just point it out; start—you know—start showing him like, "Oh, I wish I could go test drive that; so expensive though!" Like start mentioning it, and he'll—he'll say, "Oh, we should go look at it." You know, wear him down.

How many days should you go on—if he's not expressing what he wants for me aside from just dates? Put him under free food, ma'am; put him under free food. If he—if you met him on a dating app, nap, he's just—he's just looking for dinner because he's lonely. Okay? If you—not—if you didn't meet him on a dating app, he would have already told you what he wanted by now. Some people are just lonely and want to chew food across the table from another person and look good in public with an attractive woman. Okay? For free or at least for the cost of the meal. What you need to tell him is that you want to do something else besides certain dates; you want to go shopping. Tell them you want to go shopping and test them out, because I mean, you ain't got nothing to lose but free food. Sprinkle sprinkle. Okay, expensive. Thank you, ma'am. You says so true; you met yours at a Convention Center; he approached me. You haven't paid rent in months; I'm putting myself through school in the meantime. Good for you, ma'am. Sprinkle sprinkle. Good for you; that's good. Dating a man with a small income is like dating a man with a small PP. Sprinkle sprinkle. Can't do nothing for you. Okay, just here so you don't—Hey, so where do I go—so where do I go if those are escort places? You go to regular places in the daytime. Rich people do rich activities; they don't go to work; they don't punch no clock; they don't do 9-to-5 most of the time. They may have a meeting in the morning, then they're off playing golf; they may be at the gym, in the spa; they may be at the grocery store; they may be playing pickleball; they may be playing tennis; they may be at the Country Club; they may be having a brunch; they may be having a little uh, cocktail; they may be having drinks somewhere early; they may be doing lots of things like that; they're—they're out there playing life of leisure; they may be having their cars washed and detailed at a car wash, or they may be having like, you know, they may be going shopping, you know, like all that kind of stuff. The women are out there doing yoga, going to the gym, getting their nails and hair done; the men are out there playing golf, you know, um, maybe getting a haircut, maybe getting—going to the watch store to get their watch battery repaired, you know, all these types of places. The rich people are out during the daytime when everybody else is at work, because there's nobody there; it's very, you know, peaceful and, you know how when you go somewhere on the weekend everything is cram-packed; everybody's in line; traffic is crazy; and everybody's like crowded everywhere, because all those are the working crowd that are finally off work on the weekend. The rich play during the week, so you got to get out there during the week into daytime activities or at least early afternoon. Sprinkle sprinkle.

Okay, how and why does a provider turn into a Dusty after marriage? Um, well, honestly, I feel like if a provider turns into a Dusty after marriage, either their skill set is no longer quality and they can't level up, or they haven't been working on several streams of income, because a man that has financial intelligence will be working on several streams of income so that they will never become Dusty. Okay? Sprinkle sprinkle. In this day and age, you need more than one stream of income, so they need to—they need to work on that. Sprinkle sprinkle. They—they need to accomplish that; hopefully they will. Okay? They'll accomplish it if they're a true provider. All right. He said, what if he's a provider, but his ugliness level is intolerable? Tail is all this time—beauty and just a little ch [Music] unexpected; small to say—both a little scared; neither one [Music] girl. Beauty and the Beast, ma'am; that's what y'all can be for Halloween. All right? When you uh, take him to karaoke—somebody said karaoke—take them to karaoke and sing him that song. They got two—they got a couple versions; they got Ariana's version with—with John—John L, and then they got Selena with a p [Music] p. Go watch that; go watch that movie; go watch Beauty and the Beast; that'll help you. Y'all watch it together; pop popcorn. All right? I said John Legend; John Legend; John Legend; Ariana Grande have a version of that song, and also Selena and Pugo.

Do you ask for small gifts ASAP? You want thousands. Okay, just mention that you're used to it; just mention and expected. Say, "Oh my gosh, I can't wait to see you; what are you bringing me? I know you're going to bring me something nice." Insinuated, you know what I mean? So once you get them used to bringing you stuff—hold on, wipe this—once you get them used to bringing you stuff, they're going to be used to bringing you stuff. And I always say that, like, if you want a man to be a true provider, always have them bringing you stuff, no matter what. Oh, I'm so sorry, I forgot; can you bring—like, can you stop?

By the store and bring me some mints, or some gum, or you know, some batteries, or I don't know, something. Always make them stop and get you some favorite candy, batteries, a snack, I don't know, a drink, a bottle of something, I don't know, whatever y'all be telling people to stop, buy the store and bring, get them used to it first with small things, small gifts, and then you're going to get in the habit of saying yes and just automatically doing it. Before long, he's going to be calling and asking you if you need anything. Okay, so that's how you train them to start being more providing and want to buy you stuff and give you stuff. You start off real small; you get them in the habit of it. Before long, they going to be calling, asking you if you need something, then you can tell them what you want, what you need. Okay, what if they don't want to? Then you got the wrong man; then he ain't no provider. Next sprinkle sprinkle. Why y'all wasting time with men that aren't providing? Okay, dismiss them. Let me tell y'all something: if, if women start dismissing men who aren't providing, what are the men going to start to do? Figure out that they got to do what? Provide. So start dismissing them. Stop hanging on to something that you don't even want. Stop hanging on to something that's not doing nothing for you. Okay, you're not losing anything; all you're doing is making room for the next dude to come and provide. And I keep telling y'all this: if y'all keep hanging on to men who ain't doing nothing for you, you gonna miss the one who will. Uh oh, sprinkle sprinkle.

Uh, which two out of three would you choose for qualities in a man: power, freedom, and income? I already know income LOL. Um, I don't care about the power; I just want the freedom and the income. Anybody can get power; that's easy. Freedom and income so we can do what we want; that's where the real power is. Okay, exactly. Freedom and income. If you go for power, then most, a lot of people will want him because of the power. There's lots of rich men that don't have power; they're not, you know, a lot of women aren't after them. I mean, some are, but if you're in a position of power, you literally have more people, and you're probably going to have a different attitude. So I would say go for money, go for freedom; that's enough power. ER Arlin sprinkle sprinkle.

Sheir, you got a BBL in your 20s, you regret it, you're 30 now, it feels like this stops me from finding a provider. Should you get reduction or lose weight? Um, okay, so I, I don't know what type of BBL you had, just to live, you didn't get no implants or nothing back there. If I were you, um, I don't know if losing weight will make it go away. If it does, great, try that first because it's probably cheaper. If not, then get the reduction, if that's, if that's not how you want to look anymore. Okay. [Music] You said some wealthy men seem so unapproachable until you approach them. I found one yay. Sprinkle sprinkle. You found one. Are they providing for you? Man, they getting them bills paid. Okay, yeah. Sprinkle sprinkle. Okay, ma'am.

Sheer, what is your advice to a woman with high libido having trouble keeping it in check? Um, they have all sorts of stores and objects and toys and stuff like that for you. Sprinkle sprinkle. Um, you have to understand it's either one or two things. If it's just the physical need, then you don't need the person; you just need the quote-unquote physical relief. When you crave another person, you're craving the attention; you're craving the, um, other person's attention; you're craving feeling wanted; you're craving, you know, approval; you're craving whatever, whatever. If you need another person, until you can hold out and get the person that is truly going to value you, you know, there's other things you can do, but a lot of people, it's, it's not about that; it's about the attention from other people; it's about, you know, that. So you have to figure out what that's about. Yeah, and a lot of, a lot of women CH, just channel that energy into self-care, working out, you know, being creative, like weenie weenie says, channel that into something productive or release it in a way that doesn't have to involve another person if they're not providing for you. Okay. Sprinkle sprinkle.

You have a client who's been spending a lot on you; he's married, and he's already bought you Louis Vuitton shoes and give you 13, 100. How can I position myself to get him to secure me a better apartment? Just ask. If he already spending that, he's ready; just ask. Sprinkle sprinkle. All you got to do is ask for how much, however much it cost to move in and switch apartments. Get, get the information, get all the information you need of how much it's going to cost you and tell them how much you need. He's already doing that; he's trying to get close to something, and he thinks if you have a better apartment or whatever, whatever, you're more likely to stay with him longer, so that's the best thing he can do is get you an apartment. Oh, oh, sweet tooth, thank you. Sprinkle sprinkle.

How to straight up ask for 1,500 and he says yes? By looking so good that he's afraid to lose you. If he says no, okay, or say you know it's a special occasion, or maybe it's your near your birthday or some holiday, you know, tell you want it for Easter, I don't know, make up something, celebrate month anniversaries. If you've known each other for a month, oh my gosh, we've known each other for a whole month; it's our month anniversary. I don't [Music] know. I know someone who gets gifts on every month that they've been together from their band. Sprinkle sprinkle. Every month that they've been together, they do something special and they get a gift or, yeah, she gets a gift. So [Music] make sure that man likes you a lot more so you're not afraid to ask. If you're afraid to ask a man for that much money, he don't even like you, especially if he has money. Like if I, if I was dating somebody and they had money and I wanted some money or I wanted some shoes or I wanted Stu, I'm just gonna ask. Because if you say no, I'm G get in another way anyway. Sprinkle sprinkle. He should jump at the fact that he has enough money to impress you and do nice things for you and that you even liked him enough to risk losing him to ask. You know, you thought you were meant something more to him than he, than he thought, and maybe he'll take it as, you know, a compliment. If men take it as like, oh well, she just wants this and she just wants that, he's not taking you seriously anyway. He don't see you seriously anyway; he's not trying to impress you seriously anyway.

Okay, he said he only earns 90k, 93k a year, and you're in college, you're in college. Should you marry him? He's 48. I don't know, man. Here's my thing: he's 48; he's about to be 50; he's about to hit that midlife crisis, or he already has; that's probably why he's dating you. Um, 90k is that g to give you the lifestyle that you want? I think you need to get some paper and pen out or the calculator out, like I always do and figure it out, man. You need to figure that out out. Sprinkle sprinkle. Don't make me bust out my calculator. Let's bust it out because in this day and age, 93k when a 48-year-old man, let's see, 93,000 divided by 12, that is $7,750 a month. Okay, what kind of car do you want to be driving? Do you want a luxury vehicle? Okay, let's say you want a luxury vehicle; that's gonna be about $1,000 a month. All right, do you want to live in a nice neighborhood? Okay, what type of mortgage do you want to be paying? Four 4,000, $3,000 a month, $4,000? What kind of neighborhood you want to live in? High crime or low crime? So if you want to live in a decent house with a couple of bedrooms for the kids that y'all are going to have in the future, that's going to be about 3,000 plus of rent depending on where you live. I don't know where you live, man, so I'm just going to say 3,500 just to do an average okay, a month. Um, you GNA want some food, so let's do like, well, maybe 500 for food if you don't go out to eat, if you at, if you at home cooking and cleaning yourself. Okay, do you need maid service or no? You GNA do that yourself? Okay, all right. Um, let's do taxes, homeowners association fees; that's probably going to be about 10,000 in taxes plus another 1,500 for homeowners association fee. What else we got? Kids, oh my gosh, medical insurance. How much is medical insurance, girl? He don't have enough money to get married. Sprinkle sprinkle. I mean, unless he has savings and several streams of income, y'all kind of gonna be struggling. All right, let me see, I didn't even add, I didn't even add the kids yet; that's just the house, the car, taxes, you know what I'm saying? That's, y'all are going to be barely scraping by; y'gonna have money for vacation too?

How do you still make time for your husband when you have a one-year-old? You're always so tired and feel guilty when someone else watches her. Okay. Sprinkle sprinkle. Take her with you. Sprinkle sprinkle. Take her with you. But it's a family now. Y'all ever seen them couples out with their kids? Take them with you; he's a dad now; you're a family now. Okay, take them with you; let his dad character develop. Okay, the reason why I say this is because if you have a man that's always like, okay, oh, I don't want to be with the kids, I don't want to do that, that's not a good father. Okay, y'all need to out together, and if he's not out together with you to go out with your child, make him want to spend time with you. Why is it the other way around? Why do you feel guilty? Why doesn't he feel guilty? Why doesn't he feel guilty for making time for you and that baby? Sprinkle sprinkle. Okay, thank you.

Amma, 24-year-old divorced, excited for fresh start, advice. Um, get up, look good, feel good, dress up, get up every day and go do something, get into some type of activity, go out during the daytime if you can, the rich side of town until you meet another one. If you're not trying to meet another one right away, go have fun, don't lay down when nothing broke, and keep your options open. Sprinkle sprinkle. I don't do one-on-one sessions anymore, Chris. I used to; there too many people would need them, and I would be telling them the same thing. Thank you GG for the sprinkle sprinkle. Okay, he said he wasn't feeling guilty during the baby making. Exactly, we don't need to cater to these men; they need to cater to us. You ask for a lot, give zero intim, you give zero intimacy. I think he's annoyed, and I've pushed him away now; he blocked me. Also, releasing arranged wife, Sr. Okay, he'll be back; just move on to the next one, ma'am. He'll be back; he'll circle back around once he get a, once he gets bored; he'll be back to start over and try again, especially, okay, the, the text him, the last text you need to text him is that you miss him. Okay, that leaves an open door for him to circle back around and start fresh with more money. Okay, and mean in the meantime, you shouldn't be dating other men, darling. He's already married; you're not taking him seriously. He's mad because he can't get what he wants from you or probably his wife. So the last message you need to send him is that you miss him so that he will circle back around, he get some money, all right, sprinkle sprinkle, and he'll have to start all over from scratch at that [Music] point.

Another way to attract a provider, like I said, hang out in areas where rich people hang out. Okay, do stuff that rich people do; get on the rich side. Now I know that's easier said than done, but everybody has to learn, everybody got to learn, you got to learn how to dress, walk, talk, mingle. Start small; just start small; it's very easy. I mean, I was doing it when I was young; just start small. Go to a little fundraiser, go to a little gala, go to a little fashion show, go do small things and ease your way into feeling however you need to feel, into being able to mingle in a confident manner. Just start off small; just go do little small things every week. Do something that's y'all's homework every week; do something where you're around people with money every we. If you don't have no time, make time; time is a luxury. If you want to live a luxurious lifestyle, you need to make the time. Find a shortcut, take a day off, take a personal day off, you know what I'm saying? Find somebody that will give you enough money to be able to take a day off, you know, or find some help temporarily so that you can, I mean, a lot of people have to make time for, for something. You'll make time for something dumb; why won't you make time to better yourself? You know what I mean? So make time for it; it don't matter; that's just like people saying I don't have time to go to the gym. I don't have time to go to the gym either; that's an excuse, but I can make time to go to the gym. Instead of being on here live for hours, I could be in the gym for 30 minutes and cut this short 30 minutes; that's my choice; everybody got a. So or I can get, I, I can multitask; I can get me one of them th Masters be sitting here working out while I'm talking to y'all. I think that's what I'mma do because I got one at home. Get me, get me a yoga ball and a th master and y'all G be, G be so anyway, but there's always a way to do stuff. Make the time, girl.

What's the best time for ladies to leave in am? Um, men like to go out to eat breakfast because I always see, because I don't have no job before I got this office, I was living a life of leisure; that's why, that's why I had gained weight; I was going everywhere eating; I would go to breakfast, lunch, shopping, you know, they a lot of them are out eating breakfast at the snazzy breakfast places. They have some bougie breakfast places; go to eat breakfast. Keep it light, girl; I was eat pancakes every day, girl. Get you some avocado toast instead. Okay, so go to breakfast, spxs, go to gyms; that's the part I skipped. Um, go shopping, go breakfast places, go to gyms, go to, um, well, I live near, I don't know what y'all live, I live near a Topgolf; I live near like a bunch of pickleball clubs; they're all in there. Okay, I was taking pickleball lessons for a second; nothing but luxury cars in the, in the parking lot of the pickleball club, and some pickleball clubs even have mixers where certain companies or like doctor's offices will invite everybody or C certain hospitals will invite all their doctors to play pickleball against each other in tournaments, and you can just show up and watch; they got a little bar in there; they got, y'all need to get in that pickleball; y'all need to go ahead and get to the tennis, to the golf course, to the Topgolf, somewhere. Get your little cute tennis skirts on, your little, your little cute socks and sneakers, your little sweater and get out there, ma'am. That's how you find a provider; you just be looking, girl. I'm telling you; that's what I used to be doing, but I wasn't looking for a provider; I was doing research for y'all, you know. I was approached a few times, of course, you know, because I still look good. Go get your car serviced; if you're, if you don't have a luxury car, go look around in luxury C uh parking lot, go sit in the service area; that's where they're all going to be sitting there waiting on their cars to be done, and the, the nicer the car dealership and the nicer the area and the nicer the luxury vehicle, you gonna find some quirky-looking people up in that service waiting room; you could tell they got money just how they dress, what they talking about on their phone or whatever, you know. Okay, so get out there; you gotta, you got to change your environment and change how you hang out because, you know, poor people hang out different than rich people hang out, you know what I'm saying? Rich people hang out and do activities; they're like, they do leisure stuff; they do this; they do that. Poor people hang out to get drunk and forget about that they got to work the next day. Poor people get out, dance, drink, and you know, uh, risk it all, lie, and all this kind of stuff; they try to get it all in on the weekend; that's how they socialize; they find other people that's doing the same stuff. No, you got to go do other stuff because when you do other stuff, it makes you look more well-rounded; it makes you look like a better partner; it makes them look like you got a little bit more freedom and you have more in common and that you'll fit in more in that environment if they should know want to talk to you or D you. But if you're not, if they don't think you have a lot in common because you're not in a place where they're at or meeting them like, you know, in their environment, they're, they're more, they're less likely to approach if they don't feel like they have anything in common with you or if they can't, they don't have an ice breaker or a conversation, you know. So gotta get out there; you got to get out of the comfort zone; go buy you, go to the little sports store, buy your little tennis shirt, some little cute shoes, learn how to, learn how to play pickleball or learn how to, you know, hit a golf ball and Topgolf or something, I don't know. Okay. Sprinkle sprinkle. [Music]

You said all women here wear flats or only have high heels. Okay, are they, where are you, where, where you at? Okay, the Coco Chanel. Sprinkle sprinkle. Which one of your books help you with confidence? Um, Two Pretty to Pay Bills and probably How to Lit Up, uh, Leveling Up to Your Best Life, How to Live a Life of Luxury and Comfort. That book will help you see things in a new perspective and build your confidence also, Two Pretty to Pay Bills. All my books literally do, but those two probably are the top to that I would say also. Sprinkle sprinkle. But those probably are the top two. Okay, yes. Providers, real providers with money, money, a lot of them are not online; they're out, they're out here. Okay, I can see them from here; I see them; I see golf; I see a golf store over there; they right there. I'm telling you, I'mma tell you what cars are in the parking lot: luxury vehicles, Range Rovers, [Music] Porsche, bunch of SUVs, Porsches. I see a boat over there onto the back of a c, then you got a boat, got, we probably got a l house too. All right, y'all at the wrong places; y'all sitting there at a bar; they over there getting golf club shopping, buying stuff for their boats; that's where they at. Okay, I can see him from here. Okay, go to the golf, go to the golf cart dealership where they sell golf carts and walk around, man. I don't know, let me see what else got. Sprinkle sprinkle. My cousin told me you're looking for a man, a country man. If you live in a country, you live in Texas, you live where there's a lot of land, go to happy hour at certain types of restaurant bars near where a lot of construction, like I don't even know what they're called, but I don't know the people that's in charge of the construction with the big trucks, the big expensive trucks, the King, the King Ranch trucks that cost more than some of these cars out here. You go over there, look for a parking lot full of King Ranch trucks; that's where your landowners are; that's where the oil people are; that's where the construction people are, and you don't got to be the best-looking chick to pull one of that for man, yeah, for it. You ain't got to be the best-looking, and some of those guys are millionaires but don't look like it, don't dress like it; they be wearing dirty boots, jeans, button-down shirts tucked in, plaid, whatever, I don't know what they, but you ain't got to be a perfect 10 with, you know, a perfect body to pull a man with money, especially if you live in Texas. Go get you a for man; they're gonna be sitting there eating some crawfish. Sprinkle sprinkle. What, I already, I already answered all my, okay, what, when is the right time?

Okay, Blue Wolf, ask when is the right time to let a man know that you expect your non-discretionary needs to be taken care of before I give them my number? Uh, tell them, just tell them before you even give it to them. I'm expensive. I mean, don't, don't play around the bush; don't beat around the bush. You know, I'm expensive, right? Like if you tell them right away, they can't be mad later, and they gonna have to comply or lose you because they know you to you were honest in the beginning. So before, before they ask you for your number or before you give them your number, say, before I give you my number, I have to tell you one thing; they're gonna be all scared, oh shoot, what is it? All right, you ready? Brace yourself. Do I want to know? Do you then like, tell me, I'm very expensive; I'm very high maintenance; I only like men who love to spoil and provide their women, for their women. You still want my number? Dot dot dot dot dot dot dot. Yes or no. He's only the that turn it down or he gonna take it and not call or he gonna take it and call and know his job when he makes the first call. All right, that's how you gotta do it because why waste time? Thank you, Black Godd. Sprinkle spr. Your provider husband hired an escort; what should you do? Girl, he spent money on another woman. Okay, go get a man who's gonna spend more money on you; you, I mean, you could cheat back if he's hiring escorts. The best thing you can do is cut him off in the bedroom; don't sleep with him no more, so he has to hire escorts from now on, and he ain't got no choice, and go get you another man. You could stay married to him, but you know, he, he's not trying to divorce you, probably. Make him buy you something new, something nice, something expensive. Cut him off in the bedroom so now he only has to go get escorts. Okay, don't give him no more options. Let me tell you something, ladies. If a man wants to go out and hire escorts, let him hire them, and now you're off limits; now you're the prize; now he can't touch you; now he has to pay his way back to your respect. Okay, a lot of y'all don't know how to play this game. Tell him to keep them escorts and keep them numbers handy because he gonna need them, but he's gonna be paying extra to keep you from leaving; that's all you got to do, and then you gonna find you something on the side; you gonna be too busy trying to find escorts because he can't get nothing from you. Sprinkle sprinkle. I mean, do you really want him back after that anyway or do you just want his money? I'm not focused on him; I'm focused on his money. Yep. All you got to do, go get tested, all that kind of stuff, don't touch him no more, and just keep collecting his money. All right. Sprinkle sprinkle. He said make him buy you a property. Okay, do something. If he's broke, you know, I'm sorry for you; it's time to go. If he's got money, make him pay, ma'am, and, and don't let them touch you no more. See, a lot of these women, a lot of these women are married to the men for the men. If you never marry the man for the man, you don't have to worry about none of that, why? Because you won't even care; you be like, okay, well, let her do, let her do her job; I'm not doing it no more; so good for her. [Music] Yeah, he makes 300k a year; you're wondering if the salary is worth, I mean, y'all could, y'all could probably live good on that; y'all could probably live comfortable on that, go on vacation, have nice things. Yeah, it depends on where you live though; you live in California or New York; I don't know; you live somewhere else like in the suburbs; you might be good. Oh, oh, chicken nugget. Sprinkle sprinkle. Thank you.

Why do dusties approach you? Have high value, and high-value men only look. Okay, we don't call them high-value men over here, manam; we call them providers; either they providing or they not. You can't be high value unless you providing, ining. Okay, so we don't label these men high value because the only value they have is that they are a provider. So go to where only men with money are able to get, take yourself out of environments where dusties can even get; you have to remove yourself from environments where dusties are. Okay, you think if I go over here into this Golf Galaxy, it's gonna be some dusties up in there? There's golf, there's a golf store over here; there's a hospital; I'm surrounded by money, baby. You think they gonna be over there in the golf store buying hundreds of dollar, $100 uh golf clubs at lunchtime? Think that's where they gonna be? Ain't no Dusty gonna approach you over there; that's where you be. All right. You think, you think a Dusty's gonna be on the B court or in a pickleball uh tournament with a bunch of other doctors? That's not where they at; go there. Okay, get your little outfits together and go. Stay away from dust; block Dusty online, then send Cash App requests as the response; don't send nothing else; tell them you AI, I don't know [Music] this the information I need to hear, girl. Let me tell you. Okay, so y'all, y'all remember when I started playing pickleball and stuff? I need get some outfits and clothes, so I wanted to go to the little sports store right to get me some little cute clothes. When I went in there, it was money everywhere. Okay, and you know, golf, tennis, like all, all the kind of clothes, all these mens were in there; they was some of them was even looking good. You all the parking lot was luxury vehicles. Okay, I was like, and they even had some good music playing in there, and some of them golf stores they have where you could take like a mini golf lesson or you could like take, uh, they have like the virtual golf screens or you can like test out a little Putter, and all the men be over there testing out the little golf clubs and Putters and stuff and, and they little shorts and whatnot, you know, they got money because they ain't at work. Go in there, walk around, play them, them, don't know what to do. Let's see what happened. Yes, luxury sports uh stores and nice areas, the rich areas. If you're constantly seeking male validation and attention sexually, what does it mean and how to resolve that? Um, it means that you only see yourself as valuable as a sex object; that's the only value that you see because if you're validating that with a man, that's the only way you feel valuable and wanted by a man; that means you only equate your sex with value instead of yourself. Okay, women who love themselves and value themselves don't seek out validation or sex from men. Okay, because they know they can get better treatment without doing any of that because they understand the value of themselves, what they, what they are, you know, what they represent. So for example, if a rich man that has money, a provider sees a woman and he says, oh, she's very nice-looking; she's very beautiful; I want to take her to the, um, the fundraiser gala or I want to take her to the country club; he's not going to say that about a woman who is dressed a certain way, showing everything.

And just, you know, looking quote-unquote vulgar to appeal to his lower half. Okay, that's not Country Club material; that's not, you know, pickle ball court material. Now, you can still look sexy, but classy. But that's not all you need to represent, you know? You think about yourself as a representative of yourself. If somebody saw you, how would they say that you are representing yourself? Are you representing yourself as only a sexual object? Are you representing yourself as someone fun, carefree, cute, sexy, you know, fun to be around? Are you representing yourself as someone who is unapproachable, standoffish? Like, how are you representing yourself when you go out in your clothing, your hair, your nails? Like, what is it saying? Like, if someone, if someone could not talk to you and they could only judge you by how you looked when you left your house and how you care for yourself, what would they think? That's because our first appearance is our first impression. Okay, that determines whether you get approached or not.

Another thing is, uh, when you have a conversation, if you're too flirty with a man, if you're too eager with a man, if you're trying to push yourself on him, he knows that you seek sexual validation because that's the only thing that's valuable about you in your own mind. So, very easy to read those types of women. They don't think that they have anything else but that, and that's all a man wants from them, so that's what they want to give them to please them because they're people pleasers, as well as seeking attention. And once that validation has been gotten, now the woman feels like—now listen to this—after you've gotten what you want from a man, or a man has given you the validation, thinking that you're cute and they slept with you, after you get that from a man, now you're back at square one. Now you're back at square one, and they don't want it no more because they already got it. So, what else do you have? What else? Let me tell you what else: class, style, confidence, options. Okay, so once you get that out of your system, you don't need it anymore; you don't need validation from it anymore because you already know everybody has that. Every woman has that. Every woman has that. All of them. Yeah, I got it; you got it. But that's not what makes you valuable. What makes you valuable is your own assessment of yourself, how you treat yourself, and how you present yourself to the world and how you expect other people to treat you. Oh, thank you, love. Super sticker. Thank you, ma'am. Sprinkle, sprinkle. So, a lot of women just need to create a better version of themselves so that they don't feel that's all that they have. Okay, okay. Your boyfriend makes 100K a year; you make 40K; your girl, dump, goodbye. Sprinkle, sprinkle. He's that old, and he still needs your money; he's still trying to build on your back, and you're 27? No, bam, goodbye. Why don't you go date a 55-year-old man who makes probably twice as much as that and keep all your money? Sprinkle, sprinkle. I mean, he, he's already close to 50; you might as well just, you know, round up. He's, he's 57, girl; round up to 55 and keep your money. Sprinkle, sprinkle. CU see, ain't about, don't split bills with no man who's about to turn 50. You going 50/50 with a man who's almost 50? Did that even sound right down? Sprinkle, sprinkle. So you're giving a man who's almost 50 years old the bragging rights of being with a 27-year-old who goes 50/50 with him? Is he a pimp, man? You, a 27-year-old, is clocking in, bringing a man who's almost 50 years old half the rent back, baby, and paying half the bill? What you look like? Because at 27, you got time to improve and change, ma'am. Whatever you looking like, go look better.

Okay, what are signs on a date that he sees you as worth spending on when he's spending, ma'? If he, if he spends a lot of money on you, a bottle of wine, is it a problem? You know how when the waitress comes by and says, "Oh, would you like the bottle?" She's like, "Yes, give us the bottle. Anything you want. Whatever you want." If he wants, if he's excited, if he's excited that you're there and he's like, "Anything you want. Anything you want. Do you want to go somewhere else after this? Whatever you need. Whatever you want." So, tell me about yourself. Yes, yes. You know, that attitude is what you want in a man when you're sitting across the table, chewing food. Okay, you want, you want that excitement. Yes, yes. Anything you want? What you—yes, the whole bottle of wine. Do you want anything else? Are you good? Okay, but tell me about yourself. You know, they'll be like, "Oh, you're so beautiful." Like, "Thank you. I wish I had some new clothes, though, because like these, I borrowed this from somebody, and you know, I just can't get anything on it." Oh, you need some clothes? Let me take you shopping. You know, always laugh, girl. The last laugh is your best friend when it comes to a man because they don't even care if you're lying; they just want to be able to do whatever they need to do to impress you, even if they're impressing a lie. So, this could be your shirt; this could be your outfit. Lie and say it's not. Oh, you need some new clothes, because they're on that first day, on that second day, they're eager to please; they're eager to impress. So, you always tell them something that they can fix or that they can render, you know, to impress you. Okay, hi. She, you're 27; you're looking to enhance your looks. You do get compliments on looks without makeup. Where can you learn about makeup to attract? On YouTube, they got all these makeup tutorials, girl. Go find one; click. That's how, that's how my daughter learned; that's how I learned: trial and error, YouTube videos. There's lots of makeup artists on makeup videos and makeup tutorials. Or if you, if you can go to, hire a makeup artist to come teach you how to do makeup if you got it like that. If not, YouTube, TikTok, Instagram; they all have makeup tutorials. You ain't never seen a makeup tutorial? Sprinkle, sprinkle. Get all the tools you need; get all the brushes. Make sure your skin care is on point because makeup looks bad if your skin ain't skinning. Okay, so get your skin care together; get your makeup together; learn how to do it step by step. There's beginner-friendly videos; all you got to do is click on beginner-friendly makeup videos, budget beginner-friendly makeup videos. There you go. Thank you, girl. Okay, Juliana, how, how to forgive yourself after cheating, girl? Was he dusty? Did you cheat because he was dusty? Sometimes it's, it's justifiable. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Sometimes it's justifiable, baby. Women don't cheat just to cheat. Why did you cheat? Did you cheat because you weren't getting attention? You wasn't getting no money? He was lacking? Like, why did you cheat? Men don't feel guilty for cheating. Sprinkle, sprinkle. So, why should you? You're, you're human; you messed up; get over it. Is, are you married, or you cheated on somebody with no ring on your finger? I don't understand. About to go on a date with a 42-year-old; you're 32. When asked about boys' job suggestion, huh? Okay, a rich man doesn't ask you about past boys. Okay, he's 42; you're 32; you're still saying boys? No, I don't think he's old enough, honestly, to be a provider. Um, y'all are just regular dating. Okay. Sprinkle, sprinkle. When I say regular dating, I mean he's probably gonna ask you to split a bill or go 50/50 in the future because y'all are too close to the same age, in my opinion. If he's not like that, like he needs to make substantially way more money than you do. So, whatever job you have, make sure he's making substantially way more money because otherwise he's gonna be looking for Barbara the Builder to help him. Okay, unless he's able to 100% fully provide for the lifestyle that you want to have in your future, I don't think you should take him seriously. But you know, get, get whatever you can get out of him. You don't tell him anything he doesn't need to know. Anybody you dated, they moved out the country. Okay, uh, job suggestions? Anything that makes way less than him to let him know that you ain't gonna pay for nothing. Okay. Sprinkle, sprinkle. That's it. Part-time receptionist, and your ex moved out the country. There you go. Or move cross-country; it don't even matter where they moved, just that they're gone and it was mutual. Okay. [Music] Sprinkle, sprinkle. Not all, not y'all what? Okay, I can't read that K what? Okay, so another way to, another where, another place you can attract providers, let look down, let me look down here, see what else I be right, right in the middle of it, man. There go, right there, jogging. Go jog; they go one right there, jogging, walking, jogging. Find a nice rich area with a nice park or a nice area where like there's nice sidewalks. Go on a little walk looking cute. If you do that every day at the same time, and you see one, about the third or fourth time, y'all gonna start talking. Okay, promise you, it's G. If you go, you gotta clock it, though, every day at the same time. When you see that one, y'all keep cross the path; y'all cross the path. Third day, y'all go like make eye contact, or day somebody gonna say hi. All right, so every day at the same time, time hit the park, go walking in rich areas. Thank you, Diana. Hello. She, do you think abstinence and celibacy is a, in a woman, gives her a stronger aura? Um, I'm sure it gives her a stronger sense of self and discipline, of course, and focus. I'm, I'm pretty sure it does that. Yes, and probably does give you a better aura because it's not being disrupted by someone else's energy. And the more that you fuel yourself with love, self-care, confidence, the better it's going to be. Okay, how do you make him get into a conversation with us, girl? Ask him a dumb question whenever y'all, like, jogging by each other each day. Drop something; act like you're tying your shoe. You know, they'll, they'll most likely speak to you first if you look good. Then they'll start asking you dumb stuff, like, "You look like you need some help." One of those days they'll be offering to help you. You know, you got to know how to play your role. Act like you're looking for something, like you drop something. The next time you see him, looking on the ground like, "Oh, what happened?" Oh, I think I lost an earring. Oh, oh really? Then he'll help you start looking for it. It ain't even lost; just take it off. Well, what kind of area was it? A diamond? Oh my gosh, they were expensive; my only pair. I'm sorry. Thank you so much for helping me. What's your name? Give him that eye contact; give him that glass skin gleam. Thank you. If you find it, if you just happen to see it, it's, "Oh well, give me your number; I'll call you if I find it." Really, girl? You gotta have a fake tear in your eye and everything because like men hate to see women cry, especially ones that, you know, can afford women. They like, "Well, I'll look around, and if I see it tomorrow, if I'll keep an eye out for it." Okay, there you go. Now you got, now he got your number; you might be getting some jewelry soon, and you gonna see them again the next day because you gonna be out there jogging at the same time. Got your number; jing past each other; have to say something; say something this time. Don't wear no earrings this time; like you gonna be looking at them, blank ears, knowing he got your number, seeing how good you look, something gonna happen; make it work; put it together. Okay, she doesn't have her earrings on. I feel so bad. Where is the earrings? I have her number; she's so cute; I see her every—let me just ask her out for, for coffee or lunch. Not coffee, CU; she gonna say no. She looks hot; maintenance; do no coffee; let's do lunch. That's how it's gonna happen. You said those aren't skits; that's real stuff, ma'am. The skit is pretending to lose the earring; the rest is real. Okay, a damsel in distress that looks good, frogging by you every couple of days, you trust her enough to believe whatever she's telling you because you just see her three times running, what you gonna do, sir? So, make sure they got some gray hair, though. Okay, gray hair means they, they [Music] care. [Music] Okay, where can you work to reach, re—where can you work to reach meet rich men? You can work at any sporting goods store in the rich area, like I told y'all, any boating store, any like leisure store, anywhere where men go buy stuff to go do leisure activities, you go work there. Um, hostesses in nice restaurants, but usually you're gonna probably meet him when he's out with another woman, but he might come back in there alone if you think you cute, said bar or something, you know what I'm saying? So, hostesses, leisure activity shops, golf shops, sport shops and nice areas. Okay, someone says, waitresses at Country Club restaurants. Um, you can volunteer at the hospitals and meet surgeons and doctors, perhaps, maybe. Um, you can volunteer here to do like coat checking or ticket checking at, um, fundraising events, and you meet a lot of people like that, and usually they'll let you join in after everybody's arrived. You can, um, like definitely meet them pretty much anywhere, but if you work there, just make sure that you are able to look attractive while you work and not just somewhere like in the back or wearing some type of thing that's covering it. Thank you, Lena. Tired of your 9-to-5, having trouble finding a new job, thinking to make feet content. Uh oh, Lena. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Well, ma'am, only you know what's best for you. Okay, why don't you test it out? I don't know what to tell you. Why don't you test it out before you quit your 9-to-5? Don't you test it out and see what with them feet gonna bring in? If they don't bring in nothing, then keep your job. Sprinkle, sprinkle. G, start a foot-only OnlyFans, only feet. Yep, only feet. Let me know how that go. Sprinkle, sprinkle. I would be getting creative with—y'all are funny. I'd have, I'd go get my toes done and have them paint my, my toes with like faces on them on the [Music] toenails. All right, well, have fun with that. Let me know how it goes; if you make some money, let me know. My feet look good too; I can get some extra streams of income too. Okay, should you sit at the bar during lunchtime at a restaurant? Yes, preferably around a hospital because you know doctors or and surgeons are going to be there; preferably around a golf course; preferably around a law office; preferably around somewhere where men with money are going to also lunch. Okay, don't just go to random places. If you go to, if, if, if you're not, if you can't find a place in a nice neighborhood, if it's kind of empty, go around nice buildings where you know men with money are going to go lunch. Okay, um, when I was younger, I used to go to this one place, my friend, we would sit there at the bar and eat, and like all, like it was near the medical center where all the hospitals were; everybody lunch break or after they get off, or after they get off out of surgery, all them to come in there; that we were right by a law, a law firm and and Medical Center. So, liar, I mean, liars, yeah, liars and more liars, doctors and lawyers, businessmen that have businesses in certain office buildings, they will come in there because the restaurant was right there, and while they were up working in their office, they could smell the food cooking. So, you know, that's where they going. Okay, so find restaurants near office buildings and the medical centers, law offices, law firms; you'll most likely run into some people with high-paying careers that have some money to spend. If you're at a provider and want a side piece for needs, should they have money too? Yes. Why, why? Why move backwards in life? Why not have the best of both? You know what I'm saying? So, here's the thing: you may have a provider, right? You may be providing; you may also have—whatever you said—you want a side piece; they need to have money too, man. Okay, because what you gonna look like getting caught with a dusty? If you get caught, you're gonna look stupid. If you get caught, at least you're leveling up or not embarrassed. Also, if you get pregnant, at least he got money for the baby, and also you can meet other people through him if he got money too, man, and you keep level it up. So, why would you move backwards? Never move backwards. If you have to cheat for needs and all this kind of stuff, go get you a toy and cheat with a toy; you don't need the whole person that goes with it unless you're just looking for validation. Okay, I don't even think it's cheating if it's a—you're looking for validation; you're not looking for the actual level up of the situation; you're not looking to benefit from the situation. Okay, the benefits have to be material. Okay, if they're not, you ain't benefiting in the real world. Spr—you're only benefiting mentally to satisfy the validation that you seek outside of self and whoever provided for you. So, get your money. Now, if you ain't got money, then bypass. Still, what about men who find it all that you are a beautiful woman but have never dated because you talk too much? Man, stop talking; shut up. How they gonna know that if you don't tell them? Oh, I think that's weird that you told me some stupid stuff that you shouldn't have told me. Okay, stop telling people everything. Why everybody got to know your business? Write a book and sell it if you gonna tell people all your life story. I'm serious. Why do people think it's weird that I'm weird? Because you are weird, man. You weird for telling them stuff that's none of their business, and on top of that, telling them for no reason. Someone says, "Get a journal." Exactly. That's like me going up to somebody and telling them something very random, even if they ask about it, I ain't got to tell them. Y'all gotta understand, not everything is everybody's business. What color underwear do you have on today, ma'am? Well, excuse me, sir. Why don't you guess? Make it a game. You ain't got to tell them the color of your underwear when they ask you; don't got to tell them the brand, the color, the size, where you got them from. You got to do all of that because that's what, literally, that's what y'all are doing when y'all be blabber-mouthing everything. You could even lie; say you ain't got on no underwear; see what happens then, you know? Because a lot of y'all just be talking too much. I don't understand; y'all understand? Y'all talk too much; y'all tell too much; y'all tell everything; so predictable. Remain a mystery. Guys can definitely tell if you're desperate. You give off a desperate look every time the door opens in a restaurant or a bar; you looking; that's desperate too. You sitting there looking like you wish somebody would come up to you; that's very desperate. People can tell desperation from a mile away versus confidence and someone who's living their best life. So, you gotta learn how to carry yourself, ladies. So, yeah, confidence attracts providers, definitely. Okay, insecurities do not attract providers; that's number one. So, you got, you have to be confident. You're insecure; it's not going to attract no provider, man. Okay, okay. As Asma says that she was masculine and she rebranded herself as feminine, but people don't buy it. Well, get around some new people that don't know you. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Get around some different people that don't know you, just like men do when men break up with a woman because they did them dirty or they were broke and dusty and they finally got their money up and did, you know, did right by themselves; they don't go around the same people; they go get some new people. Get some new people, and the old people, like if they're family members, if they, they don't have, they don't matter if they accept it or not; you ain't trying to date them. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Go get around some new people. Oh, okay. Lashalicious Lounge says that she's in her 20s and these men in their 20s are broke. What age group should you go for? Okay, and I was like, in my, in my 20s, I was dating men that had money; they always had to have money. Okay, so if they ain't got money in their 20s, then keep going up until you find someone with some money. When you find someone with some money that's willing to spend, then you stop; keep going up the age range until you meet somebody with some money. Okay, thank you, Gigi. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Some women in their 20s, they, men in their 30s, if they ain't got no money, they go for men in their 40s; men in their 40s ain't got no money, they, they go to the early 50s. Dating them doesn't mean you're going to marry them; it doesn't mean you have to be committed to them; it just means you're just gonna get their money. Okay, some of y'all think it's the, it's the end of the world. Look, you can date several; you can date a young one with some money; you can date the old one with some money; you don't have to choose; you can have, you have what you want. Okay, especially if you're not committed and don't tell them and they don't [Music] know. You asked for a business investment of three for marketing last week. Why, why y'all telling everybody? Okay, Jalia, don't tell them what it's for. Okay, don't tell them it's a business investment; just say, "I need some money for my business." Don't say nothing about no investment because that means he gonna be looking for a return. Like, "I need some—" be, be stupid and dumb. "I need some money to start a lash business; I'm gonna sell lashes." It can be a whole total lie. All right? See, see these lashes here? I gotta buy the boxes; I gotta buy the glue; I gotta buy the lashes, and it cost about this much money. I might really want to start selling stuff online; that's not a threat to no man. You got something to do; you ain't out there talking to other men; you got something to focus on; you ain't out there focusing on another man's bag. So, what he going to do? Give you that money to start whatever company you want, whether it's lashes or an investment to the company you already have; who cares? Lie sometimes. If you're running a successful company, a man ain't gonna invest in it; you gonna start making more money than him. So, lie about something stupid. Every woman that's trying to level up and have business, they should all have a little side hustle business that looks very feminine and that looks like it don't make no money. Okay, with you, a little lash cosmetics business or something like that. Whenever they say, "How's your business going?" Oh, not too good, but I'm trying each day, but I focus on it. Your real business is, is driving probably better than his, but y'all need a distraction business, ladies. Y'all need a decoy business; y'all need several streams of income anyway. You got a little decoy business; you get money for that decoy business; put it towards your real business. Okay. Sprinkle, sprinkle. It's chess, not checkers. And no matter what, a provider likes a woman that has some business about herself so she don't be all up in his business all the time trying to make him an emotional support animal. Okay, so if you're, if you're busy promoting your lashes, ordering your lashes and putting boxes together and packages together, you don't think you're out there doing it wrong; you ain't got time for no other man; you gotta get your lash business going. Meanwhile, you got a dropship company the whole time. Mhm, this packaging up there for props. What are you doing today? I got to put together some [Music] orders. Nope. So, women, get smart; it's chess, not checkers. Don't tell them everything; he's not your best friend; he's not your confidant; he is your ATM, your bank, your provider. Now, let me tell you, after years of investing, after years of being your provider and your, you know, and all of those things, then you know you can start opening it up a little bit because he's earned it. Okay, he's invested enough; he got, you know, he made you get some money; now you can tell them a little something. Don't tell them everything still; you can open up a little bit more, but not in the beginning. You don't tell people everything; let the mystery unfold. Men get bored of women who are an open book. I'm gonna tell you that. Men get super bored with women who are blabbermouth open books. You tell them your whole entire life story within two or three dates; you're boring now; there's nothing to discover about you; we know everything. Next. That's what, that's how men think. I don't want to, I, I don't care about your life story; this is what men will tell you. We don't care about your life story; we're not listening anyway. But if you're going to tell us everything, we can use it against you. We know your weaknesses; we know your flaws; we know your insecurities; we know everything about you; you're boring now; there's nothing new to discover. All all men want to do is sleep with you and toss you to the side because you told them everything. Remain a mystery; let them, let them drag it out of you; let them wonder about things; lie to them a few times. You know, uh oh, Malik, Maliki, how long you can lie about being a lawyer? Forever. You think they're really going to take an interest in your career if you just tell them you're a paralegal or a receptionist at a law firm? You think they're going to find that quite interesting? If you're not planning to marry that person, why do they, why do they need to know anyway? You can just say, "Oh, I work for a law, a law office doing like paperwork and stuff." Just like describe what it is, but don't describe it too much; they ain't gonna know what you're talking about. It's like, "Okay, that sounds good and boring, so I don't, I don't really care." What you want to eat? You know. Thank you, Cat. How to act on a first date with a man 30 years older who is obsessed with you? He's short but confident; he asked you for your card and when he saw you speak at a gala. Okay, girl, get that short man's money. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Tell him you want to go shopping. He's obsessed with you; he's gonna take you shopping. Any man that is obsessed with you will definitely take you shopping. So, maybe find a place, um, near a shopping center or a mall; go find a restaurant that's very near some shopping or a mall. Okay, and let me tell you what to do, the trick. So, even if the food is great, find something wrong with it, but not in a mean way, like, like order some food, just nibble on it; don't eat a lot of it; eat before you go. So, don't eat a lot of the food, and he's like, "Oh, what's wrong? You didn't like your food?" Or, "We can take—" No, it's fine; I'm just, you know, it just tastes a little different than I thought it; it's just a little different. So, look like the date was not impressive, but you like, you're enjoying the wine; you're enjoying his conversation with the food. He's like, "Oh, I'm so sorry you didn't like your food. I wish I could—" Oh, yeah, it's okay. Oh, oh, I saw this really cute store when we were, when I was driving up to the, um, the parking lot for the restaurant and some really cute stuff in the window. Oh, really? You want to go see it? Like, "Sure, yeah, I need a little walk around a little bit before I drive, you know, I had a glass of wine." So, get him to walk around the shopping center; get—don't like, he, he wants to make the date memorable. If he's obsessed with you, he wants to impress you. You didn't eat your food, so that was as well as he thought it was going to go, so now he has to buy you something. Okay. Sprinkle, spr—you say you got ADHD, so sometimes you say too little. Well, you need to have a script then.

Ma'am, sprink sprinkle. You need to have a script. You got to remember that script on what to say, but don't make it sound like you rehearsed it.

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Okay, he say it's so boring going shopping with the guy, not when he's spending the money on something that you want. And if he doesn't like shopping, he'll just give you money to go shopping by yourself the next time. That's a that's a whole another video. The first time you go shopping, he wants to be seen in public with you; he wants to impress you; he wants to show you he got money, so he's going on to take you shopping. If the next couple of times, he might just give you the money to go shopping. You know what I'm saying? Okay, sprinkle.

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Sprinkle. He said, "If you marry a great man because of me, I'm invited to the wedding." Sprinkle sprinkle. Thank you, girl. I've been invited to so many weddings because of my channel, but I haven't been able to go to some of them, or most of them, but I do appreciate that. Thank you, ma'am. You said you attract guys, but you struggle keeping them. That's because you're not supposed to keep them; men are supposed to keep you. You got the wrong ones, sprinkle sprinkle. Wrong targets. You see how that lady in the uh comment before says this man was obsessed with her? That's how that's what you need to find. You you you heard how he was short, so you you're choosing the wrong targets. You need to attract someone who's obsessed with you and likes you way more than they have to keep you. You don't got to keep them. Okay.

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He said, "You will invite me and pay for tickets, outfits, and everything." Okay, then I might just come then. Sprinkle sprinkle. You paying for everything, I'll be there, maybe maybe. He said, "You've been in a relationship for three months and you haven't slept with him yet. He keeps saying I don't show enough affection. Is it time?" Okay, ma'am, do you still work or pay bills? If you still clocking in and paying bills and you're in a relationship with a man for three months, is he rich? It ain't time to throw down unless you are—all your credit card bills are paid off, you ain't got no car note, and you don't have to work if you don't want to, and you got a stack in your savings. It ain't time to throw down until all that has been checked off the list. You have a list; where's your standards, man? Did he do all of the above? Then keep—then make that list out. Tell them I don't feel comfortable. Tell them you don't feel comfortable giving yourself to any man unless you are—you feel safe and secure physically, financially, and mentally. In order to achieve that, make a list of what you need done. You know, I don't feel right sleeping with a man that I've been with—I have all these credit cards. You know, tell them that. So make your list and get it checked off before anything happens; otherwise, nothing will happen. Sprinkle sprinkle. He waited three months; he ain't gonna give up now. Make the list. You got a DM from a famous celebrity. How can you go about this to work in your favor? Make sure it's the real person first. If you're sure it's the real person, then treat them like everybody else. Make-up, chase, man. I don't think that they get special privilege. You know why? Because they're still men, and they still want to chase; otherwise, just be a pig mea or a groupie. You know what I'm saying? If they like you, they'll chase. Okay, let me ask you a question, and I'm not trying to like say anything like—if if they're a celebrity and they DM a couple of women and they wait to see who DMs back or who's going to be a pikm show or who's going to be a groupie, where do you want to stand in that group? After he done texted all the groupies and Pik mishes that then responded and and like blew up his DMs, there's one missing; who is that? Why hasn't the other one texted me back? What she doing? Let me go check her feed; let me go look what she's doing. Other ones are easy, so GI treat them normal like you would treat any normal man and make them chase. You'll be the one to stand out before the group; other groupies will. And when he's done with all the other groupies, he'll come right back to you and say, "Okay, she must be about something." You know, they gon try again. So definitely keep your standards high for anybody. All right, spring spring. You say you can't send Super Chats, well, didn't send cash app; it's on the screen. Sprinkle sprinkle. I don't know why they're not letting you. There could be certain words that you're using that won't—that they won't allow, so change your vocabulary and reword what you're—whatever you're trying to type. Make it more appropriate or something, or use abbreviations. I don't know. On the screen, baby, it's on the screen. See right here. How do you get your boyfriend to listen and do what you want him to do? Take him to the dog trainer since you think he's an emotional support pit that's going to follow command. Ma'am, you can't get nobody to do what you want them to do; they got to want to do it for you. Okay, if he doesn't like you enough to do what you need him to do, then he don't like you. Just understand this: he don't like you; he don't want to do what you want him to do; he knows you gonna stay; he knows you ain't going nowhere, so why should he? This what you do: you go get another man that's gonna do what you need him to do, and now you have two. And when you feel like you can let that one go, let them go. Find somebody that wants to do what you want to do, not someone you gotta struggle with and fight and figure out how to make them obey like a dog. There's a man out there that will love to do whatever you need him to do. Okay, thoughts on posting bikini pics while in a committed relationship? Girl, you ain't married. Posting pics, sprinkle sprinkle. Where your ring at? Do you still clock in? Posting pics. Thank you, Ma J. Sprinkle sprinkle. Your advice got you a guy paying for everything. Okay, Ma J. Sprinkle sprinkle. All right, if you go to the beach in a bikini, everybody gonna see you. What if they take a picture and put it up on social media? Just because you're in a committed relationship with no marriage license, hopefully you got other options. Don't mean you could stop posting. Like, why do women stop living for themselves when they—when some man decides to call them their girlfriend? Man, I'm I'm gonna need rings, houses, land, cars before any of those things are even considered. You know what? Has this man done to make you not want to post pics of yourself on social media that you would normally post? Has he given you something that that you can't give yourself? Huh? You better you better reassess that. Sprinkle sprinkle. He said, "How are you honored and have an answer on the spot?" I just I just know these things. I just okay. An Juna, your older boyfriend is a neuroscientist, and he likes when we have fun and I take his mind off work. How do I get him to like me a lot more if we meet once a week at his house? What if you meet—oh, somebody just had a flat. If you meet once a week at his house, he needs to be taking you on dates. Sprinkle sprinkle. You don't meet him at your house no more. Meet him—at least make him take you somewhere on a date. Stop meeting at his house. He don't want to be seen in public with you, ma. If he's not taking you out to show you off, he don't want to be seen in public with you. Tell him to take you on a proper date. That's how he's going to like you more—when you start knowing your value, your self-worth, and holding him accountable for taking you out on a date, courting you properly. You don't show up at no man's house. I don't care if he's a neuroscientist; he's doing an experiment to see how much you do not like yourself, girl. Go out. Tell them to take you out. Tell them to get tickets to something, something. Thank you, princess. How to ask a provider for money via text or phone? He has been sending less lately due to problems. Okay, um, get somebody else, ma'am. If he ain't got it, he ain't got it. How you gonna take what he ain't got? Sprinkle sprinkle. Obviously, he got to pay his credit card bill. Some people ain't got it like that. Okay, on to the next. Where's your number two? Where's your where's your backup? Got to have a backup man. When they start running out of money, you got to give them time to pay them credit cards off. Okay, when he finishes, he'll be back. Okay, so to to and Juna, girl, make him take you on dates. That's how you make them like you more—by knowing your value. Okay, if you don't look cute, you better find a way to look cute, that way he'll want to take you out in public. All right, you got to look cute, that way they want to take you out and they're not just trying to get you to their house. All right, what is this? Hold on, hold on. All right, thank you, Jo Mo. Tips on building a roster of providers? Go out every night until you have about three—two or three. When you find one, go out the next night and find number two, and okay, if you found one, you can find another one in that same week, that same night, or that same month because you're looking good enough to pull. Okay, so soon as you find one, you will start immediately working on the CLE immediately. How? And then you keep them, and you make sure you tell them that you're busy at different times so you can see each one of them. You keep—get your a little—get your a little planner. I even have the sprinkle sprinkle Planner on my uh Zazzle account. I even have sprinkle sprinkle Planner on my Zazzle account. I think in the in the comments, I don't know; I'll link it later, but just get you any planner; it don't even matter. Write down the times and dates whatever with these people. Just do it like—okay, there you go. I go out with him, then the next day go out with him, then the next day go out with him. Tell him I got Bible study this day. Tell him you got pickle ball study uh lessons, tennis lessons this day, that way he he he can't disturb you because you're on the court. This way he can't disturb you because you know your phone got to turn off—you know, in the church. I don't know whatever y'all be doing, but make something up and have it on the schedule. Have a strict schedule. I can see that person Tuesday, I can see that person Wednesday. This person thinks I'm here; this person thinks I'm here. Do not stir. Basically, make sure you're going on different sides of town or different circles of people so you'll never run—never really run into each other. The chances will be low. Okay, that's it. Uh, rich man expected you to chase, ask for coffee date, girl. Okay, so did you meet them online, ma'am? Sprinkle sprinkle. Okay, when you meet these men online, it's all the same questions. They want you to chase; they want to take you to cheap coffee, and they want you to send them pics. Did you meet them online? Has he spent any money on you? Okay, K, stop meeting me online. What if husband can't afford providing anymore? Then find a boyfriend who can. All right, there you go, but I told y'all have a backup, have somebody else.

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Okay, you didn't meet him online. Okay, so what he sees you as is disposable. If he—that's all he wants, you're disposable, so decline that date and say, "You know what, it was really nice knowing you, but I don't really do coffee dates. If you would like to go to lunch or dinner, please let me know." Know your value, man, and don't send them no pictures, girl. Okay, you want to be one of the many pictures in his phone? No thanks. So hold on, you said experiment is czy. Okay, do you know how many women that men do the same thing to in that exact order? Let's go on the coffee date, send me some pics, girl. He be dating 100 people; he's dating several because if he thought you were special, he wouldn't ask you for any of those things; he wouldn't take you to coffee, and he wouldn't ask you for sexy pics. That's just what he is used to asking every chick, so why would you even pay attention to that? And if he's bold enough to ask you for sexy pics and take you for some bean juice, you should be bold enough to send him a Cash App, a Venmo request, or ask him to take you shopping or something if he's that bold, because I—that's funny to me, like you want to take me to drink bean juice and you want sexy pictures of me? Okay, well, take me shopping; give me some money. Here's my here's my wish list. Have all this stuff delivered before I go sip bean juice with with you, ma'am, sir. Have have all these things for me before I go sit sit bean juice with you. CU. If he's rich and he likes you a lot, he wants to impress you. That don't sound like he's trying to impress you at all; it sounds like he wants you to try to impress him, and so therefore you already know he's not going to be generous because he doesn't think he has to be, so that's the man that's not going to get no money, so and bypass him. Altogether. Hold on, what the heck? Hold on. Yeah, everything that's on my Level Up Cosmetics website is what we have in stock. Some of the stuff is not coming back; I only do some certain releases, and it's only a one-time release, so some of the stuff ain't coming back, and I'll just put it in what you call it—I'll just take it off. Wait, so see what's up there; just type in whatever you're looking for. A lot of new stuff is there too, like if you just type in lip gloss, all the lip glosses will pop up; type in lip liner or eyeliner, that stuff will pop up. I'm trying to do something. Hold on, y'all. I have to get this done real quick, trying to multitask. All right, you stuck to your standards. Thanks for teaching me. Oh, thank you, thank you, Miss Kabibi. Yes, always stick to your standards. Don't deal with men who don't know your value, because they'll treat you like trash. If you treat yourself like trash, if you agree to a trash date and trash activities like sending sexy pics and sipping bean juice, then they just gonna label you trash. Don't label yourself that by accepting a DM. Okay, remember rich men like to eat at uh fast-food restaurants too, but that don't mean they will not splurge for a five-star restaurant. Okay, he's trying to see if you fast food or five-star—which one? How are you going to react? Okay, bean juice is coffee—coffee beans. Okay, like we got to break it down to what people are really doing. What is your value? And that's why I break stuff down so y'all can understand it. When I say somebody invites you to go chew food across a table from them, it ain't worth—it's not worth that much, baby. Somebody takes you to sip on some $4 bean juice, some $5 bean juice, that's nothing; that's not impressive. They got to do more. What does a 70-year-old man want with a 25-year-old? To to feel like he's still young and he still got it—an illusion, an a a delusion. But if he's got the money—does he have money? Is that 70-year-old got money? If not, then he's really delusional. Okay, kiss my Jumpman. Sprinkle sprinkle. He said, "You're single for three years. Do you lie about it?" If he asks, of course, and it just—if you just lie and he don't have to ask, you're fine. If he brings it up, just like, "Oh, you know, you know," just lie and say you're in a long-distance relationship, but you recently ended things because he um decided to move out of the country and it wasn't working. So it looks like you had somebody, but you really weren't physical with them. You know what I mean? So you can lie like, "Oh, I was recently in a long-distance relationship, but we decided to end things because he had to move abroad, but you know it was nice having someone to talk to, and every once in a while, you know, we would go on vacation or meet up." Basically, you're saying somebody thought you were nice enough to be their girlfriend, paid for vacations, took you out, but it was long distance. Distance means you aren't out there doing everything or everybody, and that you know—just lie. Just make up something that they need to hear to get them to move on from the stupid question. Okay, because you know what? I never ask people about that, like when I was young and I was dating; I didn't ask nobody about no none of the exes. I didn't care; I didn't care what they was doing. You know why? Cuz I still don't care. Okay, I don't know why people think about like—why do they ask dumb questions like, "Oh, how why are you single or how long have you been single?" I don't care how long you've been single; you here on this date, you got some money, you trying to take somebody shopping, you trying to pay some bills; I don't care about that other stuff. You know, I'm I'm not here to care about what you did a month ago or two weeks ago. I don't care, long as you're legal and they want it by the the law, we good. Okay, like I don't even know why people ask those dumb questions on dates; you're just going to get a lie anyway if the person is smart. So if the person is smart, if if you're a smart woman and a man asks you—you know they're gonna get a lie, so they should just avoid the questions and get—you know, get to talking about something that's valuable and worth something. Sprinkle sprinkle. Okay, you said my body is built like a bean bag. Okay, with money, a rich bean bag. Well, I'm sorry that the only furniture that you know are bean bags. I know that's what you're sitting on and growing up on and probably play your video games on. You should be making money with—um, if that's if that's what you like, sir. Sprinkle sprinkle. Uh oh, Queen Caro, jealous, insecure, and possessive, aggressive colleagues at work. Since you're level up, any suggestion? Start your own business, man. Start your own business. I was talking about that earlier. I don't know if this is on TikTok or on here, but attractive women, they cannot deal with ugly women in the workplace because the ugly women are afraid to lose their jobs, and I'm telling them women, if you're ugly, your jobs are safe. Okay, because a pretty woman will quit a job without no notice because she'll find a man, a sugar daddy; it'll be her birthday weekend, and she knows she can secure another job like that. She's not going to take your job; your job is secure. An ugly woman's job is always secure because they are always gonna be there, rain or shine. A pretty woman will quit her job because they couldn't get their hair done. A pretty woman will quit her job because it's her birthday. A pretty woman will quit her job cuz somebody told her to quit her job so they can take her on vacation. Your job is safe, ladies, haters, insecure, ugly women; your job is safe. The pretty woman ain't going to take it; in fact, she'll probably be gone before you get your next raise after you've been there for about 20, 30 years. She's gonna be gone in about one or two years. Okay, she's not a threat; she's just moving through and collecting her dollars along the way before she gets to the next bag. Okay, sprinkle sprinkle. So nasty women, nasty colleagues out there giving pretty women a hard time in the workplace, your job is secure. Do not worry; she don't want it; she wants the boss; she wants the owner, or she is just there temporarily until she finds a man that can pay them bills or start her own business. Don't worry. You said, "I quit when it was a nice day." Exactly. We don't take them stuff seriously like y'all do. Okay, because we know we can get some more—plenty more than that elsewhere. So y'all need to understand that. I wish y'all would pass that along to all y'all ugly, p-bisha friends and who did it and why and barber the build. Tell them we don't want y'all's jobs; we don't want y'all's positions; that's y'all's—y'all can keep it; we we don't want to have gray hair still clocking in, man. We we in it to win it. All right, so y'all can have it. Don't don't be don't be getting mad at these pretty women; they're just passing through; they'll be gone; they'll be gone soon. Y'all—some of these men, they be sad when the pretty women leave. "Oh, she's gone; she's quit." They be still trying to call her and take her to lunch. Work, we still be trying to call them. Huh. Oh, princess. MAF mathness. Sprinkle sprinkle. You got back with your provider a month and a half, and I think it's getting boring for us. Any recommendations on activities to do? Okay, get away from each other; go do something on your own. You know why? Y'all always stuck together. Sprinkle sprinkle. Um, a time apart from whoever you're with is healthy. You know, you need to have some business about whatever you're doing, like have something separate. And if you want to do some activities together, make sure it's fun and y'all both like it. Whatever it is, you know, learn something new together; that's always fun. If they're willing to learn something new, like a like like learn how to like take some type of lessons; do like the little paint and wine thing. Just do all the boring stuff, you know, that couples do, but make sure it's fun because you're both learning something together. Um, go shopping. I don't know; take some type of lessons together; that's always fun. And if that doesn't work, then you know, um, just be happy and be be understanding that couples don't always have to be doing stuff. Like, once you're in a committed relationship, just be comfortable, as long as you look good and he knows that you got several options, just let it be. Y'all don't always have to be doing something. I think so many couples don't realize that you don't always have to be doing something unless you are just a busybody. Just relax, take a break, read a magazine, you know, decorate a room. I don't know; they have—stop putting so much emphasis on "We have to be doing something." Sometimes doing nothing is doing something; being peaceful in the relationship that you have. Okay, and if you're bored, that's a self-problem; you need to go find some business; you need to go do something; you need to find a hobby; you need to do something; start a business; find a hobby; have some friends; go to brunch; go do something. This shirt—I got this in the same store I had my jean jacket from yesterday—Love Always Boutique. I think I got the last one though; they had it in black too; they might have one in black. So it's Love Always Boutique; how they have an online store too. How to self-control when you really want it? Um, honestly, you need to find somebody you really don't want it from, so that self-control is not a problem. Sprinkle sprinkle. Let me tell you that will change the entire game. If you're dating guys you don't want—let me see what you say. If you don't really want it from these guys, it's going to change everything about the whole dynamic of the relationship, and you end up with a lot of lot of money, lot of gifts, lot of everything. So if you're in a relationship with a man or you're—if there's a guy that you really want, you're not in it for the right reason. I'm just saying you're just in it for the sexual gratification. Okay, so that's lust; you really lust him. Make sure he got some money if you gonna lay down with him; that's all I'm telling you. Okay, you said I should do shoe cam. If I did it, it would be anonymous; y'all wouldn't know whose feet it was. Maybe I should—that's a good idea. Okay, testing these perfumes. Oh, that one smells good. What's this? I can't read it; too light. What? Love Love Fest. Okay, why do I like this one? Okay, smells really good. Put that one on the side. All right, he says, "She can't even see her feet standing up," that you you should go on OnlyFans, sir; at least make some money insulting people about weight. Okay, Aurora, hold on. People just use that as inspo now to get to get skinny. How to self-control when you really want it? I didn't miss that one; I said go find a man you really don't want, and and I said if you really want it, go get it, but make sure he got some money and don't expect him to take you seriously after that; that's what I said. So or go visit you a little uh adult toy store. I don't know; whatever. I'm telling you, like you really want it, make sure he got some money; don't be wanted from no dust. If he if he's got money, great; you might not see him no more if you if you give in, but if you really wanted it, it might be worth it to you for that one time. So you you you decide if that's really worth it. All you wanted was one time; maybe one or two. You said you don't even want to kiss me. Okay, let me see; I miss—let me see if I missed the Super Chat. Hold on. Okay, you're 30, married to a 60-year-old, working two jobs. Good for you; keep working unless you—working them two jobs—then, girl, what's wrong with you? Who's working them two jobs? You or him? He said, "You are the best from London, UK." Thank you, Natasha. Sprinkle sprinkle. I appreciate you, Aurora. I answered your question; go rewind and listen; don't sleep with him there. Okay, I answered your question twice; y'all need to start listening. Let me see; I'm going back to see what I missed. Hold [Music] on; I don't see some of these up here; some of y'all didn't come through. Yeah, I already answered all of those. Thank you, Le angel. Thank you, ma'am. Sprinkle sprinkle. How do you stop second-guessing yourself and remove insecurities? By being the main character of your life. Everybody has insecurities; either you either you let them affect your life or you don't; either you move past them or you stay in them; that's the choice. There's people out there that look worse than whoever—there's people out there that look worse than me, worse than you, that's still getting what they want. Okay, where's their insecurities? People are only—people only react to your insecurities when you react to your insecurities. Okay, if you don't have any insecurities, nobody sees any insecurities in you, so therefore they are gone. Just move past them and have main character energy. People treat you how you treat yourself; remember that. How to convince a man to take you on a world world tour? I don't think I would want to go on a world tour with a man, honestly, but if that's what you want, you got to get him excited about it. Start sending him like links and videos and stuff like that of all these cool places you want to go, and then say—when he asks you what you want for your birthday or for Christmas—we tell him I want a world tour. But honestly, that's all you got to do; just start sending them little—make it into a reality little by little, then you can get what you want. Emma, you said, "Why do people think 304 or you know the H word is an insult?" It just means you don't want men and only want money, because they're insulted by it; they're insulted by the fact that you don't want them; you just want their money, so they're trying to deflect. Is 300,000 enough for a provider in this economy? It depends on the type of lifestyle that you want and where you live. Like I said, get—bust out the calculator; get—do your—

Research—that's what that's what the internet is for. Do your research. How? Go look. Go find your dream house. Go find your dream car. Look up the taxes on that house. Look up the neighborhood fees for that house, the homeowners association fees, average monthly bills, how much food costs if you're just going to go shopping. If you're gonna go out to eat, put that in there. See how much it's going to cost you to live a month, and then do that times 12. That means maybe no room for vacation, or make sure you add savings in there or something. Then you see if it's enough, because a lot of people, they think it sounds like enough, but then it don't be okay. Okay, but if it's in your area, if stuff is cheap, it might be enough. Like if you live in the middle of nowhere and the cost of living is low, then it might be enough. It might be nice, it might be a lot. But if you live in a major city, if you, you know, if you want to do certain things, to live in certain neighborhoods, you want to raise your kids in a good environment with good school systems, you got to factor all that in. If that's just enough, or if you're only going to date him for a little while, then sure, that's enough. That's enough just to date somebody, but is it enough to get married and start a family with? That's up to you and where you live and what the cost of living is in your city or your state. Okay, gotta bust out the calculator and do that math.

You do think most dusties are under 35? Yeah, most dusties are young. They haven't gotten their lives together yet. They're still chasing women instead of chasing money. He said, "How can you know if he's a provider from first meeting?" When he starts providing. When he starts paying for stuff that's for you—not just dinner. I'm talking about like everything. If he offers to take you shopping, if he asks if you want something, if you need something, to let him know, and he actually delivers it. If you send him a wish list, a gift list, a cart, he'll pay for it; he'll send you like money in your Cash App, whatever. That's how you know he's a provider, because he wants to provide. You can't tell right away unless he is providing, because men can lie and say that they're going to do A, B, C, and D and never do it, and you may mistake them for wanting to be a provider, but that doesn't mean that they're providing. So you can't tell a provider until they start providing. Just because they're rich doesn't mean they're a provider. Okay, so until they start providing, that's the only way you can tell. [Music] Sprinkle sprinkle.

So another way to attract a provider—I said this, I kind of mentioned this earlier—having shared interests or a shared hobby is the easiest way, because it's an ice breaker. They're easier to approach you if y'all have more in common, from, you know, just knowing that y'all doing the same type of activities. So I always say, join something, and you will definitely be able to attract many providers. Okay, sprinkle. [Music] Sprinkle. What if you always get comments from his family? 'Cause my mom is a provider, and he pays all my bills. Your man is a provider, girl. I don't care about his family's rude comments as long as them bills paid. They can say whatever they want; that's their problem, not yours. Why are you gonna make their problem and their issue yours? You're getting stuff paid for—good. It's like, "I'm so sorry you feel that way," not my problem. That's not your problem, man. Stop, stop trying to make other people's problems your problems. Who cares? Let them hate; let them be mad. You ain't mad; you're not hating. You're getting all your bills paid for; you're winning.

Okay. He said, "How can I have self-confidence when I'm a normal girl?" Girl, get in there and put on some makeup, do your hair, get on some highlight, get you some lashes, or get you some mascara, get your little lip gloss, okay? Spray on some perfume, get you a cute outfit on, and go be the best-looking regular, normal girl you can be. Stop accepting yourself as mediocre. Okay? Whatever you label yourself, that's what you're gonna be. You're gonna blend into the background; you're gonna blend into the wall behind you. What are you gonna do? What are you gonna do to stand out and not be a quote-unquote normal, average? You know, you can always shine and sparkle. You can look good; you can catch some eyes. Level up. Level up your appearance. Thank you, Shaquila. You went to a bar or many hot servers; none approached, even though I leveled up mentally. I think five seven, should I lose weight, girl? Servers, girl, I know you trolling. Sprinkle sprinkle. I know you trolling, girl. They can't afford nothing; they barely surviving if they servers. What you doing? What you want, some free food? You get that online. All you gotta do is go get on a date app if you want to eat free; at least they gonna be able to pay for it. Sprinkle sprinkle. Okay, if you trolling, that was hilarious. Gary almost got me. All right, thank you for the sprinkle sprinkle. I appreciate you. Oh, maybe she meant that she was competing against the other servers. Okay, let me reread this because, girl, I got scared for a minute. Okay, let me reread it. I went to a bar; there are many hot servers. No, I went to a bar; there were many hot servers; none approached, even though I'm leveled up mentally. She said she's thick, five seven; should she lose weight or how to compete? Okay, so she's in a club, but the servers that work in the club are cute, and she's trying to compete with the workers in the club. Okay, this is what I'm getting; is that correct? Okay, if you're in a club or at the bar and all the women look better than you, go somewhere else, or you look better than them. That's number one. Okay? If you are trying to compete with women that look better than you, then you need to look good, as good as them or better than them. If not, you need to go to an environment where you're the best-looking thing there. Okay. Sprinkle sprinkle. That's what you got to do. Remember what I, I, I told y'all in the beginning of the video, you could be a five and still pull a provider, why? Because if you go somewhere where there are men who have money but are twos or threes, and you're a good five or six, they're gonna like you; they're going to spend money; they're gonna think you're pretty. Okay, so you gotta, you gotta get in where you fit in. Until you get to the look and the size that you want, you're going to have to go where you look better than whoever else is in there. Sprinkle sprinkle. Okay, uglies and H and hooks get tricked. What am I doing wrong? What you have the boyfriend with a provider mindset, but slowed down and expects me to...girl, leave that fool. Sprinkle sprinkle. Don't, don't fall into the dusty trap. That's a dusty; okay, that's a dusty. Don't fall into the dusty trap. Do not, do not provide. That's a grown, able-bodied man. Go get you another man that's going to give you what you want. Okay. Why do women always try to do this? That's not your responsibility; that's a man. Okay? Don't baby him; that's a grown man. He's, he's gonna start expecting it. Next time, he's gonna get comfortable; he's gonna start talking crazy. "Oh, I don't need no job; my woman can hold me down. I can talk crazy at work; I don't have to show up. I'm gonna take today off; it's a beautiful day. Oh, my woman got me." I'mma hold...no. Don't ever hold no grown, able-bodied man down. Send him back to his mama; dismiss him. Tell him he needs to find a way; tell him he needs to downsize; tell him he needs to do this, sell a car, whatever. Do not ever, because he gonna expect it again, and he's going to handicap himself, and you gonna turn him into a dusty, so don't do it. Okay. You said you're not the nanny. Exactly. I don't care what he's expecting; he better go expect to find another stream of income. Okay? There are people out here working two and three jobs. He can't find one? He can't find two? Nope. Don't feel sorry for him; tell him to go out and find two jobs. There are women out here with kids working two jobs. What, what, what's his excuse, darling? Now, do not fall for it. If you're ugly enough to fall for that, you need to go level up, man.

How to remain detached while dating providers? Well, if you're dating several, you're not really going to attach to any of them unless you're attaching to their money. Okay? You're attaching to the idea that they are providing for you. Attach to an idea, or business idea, that you're going to, you know, grow from, you know, funding through their generosity. So detach from them, but attach to an idea of them helping you create something, um, unknowingly, by, you know, helping you stack up your savings account. Attach to the idea of what they can do for you, not them. This will make it easier to deal with them; you'll be less emotional, and you'll have your focus in mind. Okay. Sprinkle sprinkle. Let me see. I miss...okay, um, you went to...okay, I already answered your question about the bar. Thank you, ma'am. Go somewhere where you look better than the other women; that's what I said; that was the answer to you, Shaquila. Go somewhere where you look better than everybody there. Go find that, go find that place until you can compete wherever you trying to go. Go somewhere where you look better than anybody in there. Thank you. Sprinkle sprinkle. I just answered your question. Okay. Okay. If you're going to, um, if you're trying to attract a provider man, you need to go somewhere where older men are that are going to find you attractive with less competition. Okay. Thank you. [Music] You said, "Can sleeping and relaxing be a rich activity?" If you go to them IV, like vitamin, uh, what do you call those? IV vitamin drip spa places where people just hook up to the IV to get their vitamins, their hydration, or whatever, like chemicals that be keeping you, like, looking good and stuff. Go to one of them; men be hooked up to them things, too. If you want to sit and relax, and some of them, you know, go to you, the med spa, not the casino. I don't know where y'all be sometime. I don't know; I don't think I'd go to the casino. I go somewhere where there's like people that have, like, doing rich activities, not gambling money. Okay. Said, "Go to professional summit's with lots of rich men." [Music] Yep. Richmond texted you after disappearing for six months; what to do? Ask him when he's taking you shopping. Ask him if he has a boat. Ask him if he's taking you shopping. Ask him if, you know, ask them about how, what's he been doing? How's your life been? You got a boat? Okay, well, I would love to see you. Why don't you meet me at the mall? Girl, they gotta pay to get back in, man. They got to take you shopping; update you on their six-month, you know, hiatus while buying you stuff. [Music]

Okay. Okay, so we're going to talk about this because I see a lot of people trying to go to the wrong place. I don't know where y'all getting this information from. If y'all trying to find men with money, y'all can't go to the places where people are looking for escorts, unless you are one. No offense, if you are, then fine, frak with those places, but y'all gotta, y'all got to understand, go to places where people are doing activities of leisure, relaxing, enjoying life, enjoying their wealth. That's where you want to be, not places where people are looking for escorts. Okay? Please, God, do better. If you don't, if you don't have the wardrobe to do it, go get the wardrobe to do it. They got all the type of clothes you need on all the cheap websites, too. Okay? I'm, I'm, I'm not even joking. If you think you're not gonna fit in at the pickleball club, you're not gonna fit in at the tennis court, or not gonna fit in, you know, trying to at the Topgolf or whatever, you're not going to fit in, go find the wardrobe to do it; at least you'll be halfway there. You know, at least you'll be properly attired. Okay? Not every activity requires spandex and bodycon. [Music] He said, "How do you not give escort vibes?" By not hanging out where escorts hang out, by not looking like one, by not dressing like one, by going out during the daytime, doing rich activities, okay? Where people aren't going to see you as a sexual object but as the actual person that they have stuff in common with because they're doing the same activities. Okay. Someone says, "Dress classy." Yes, dress classy. Wear feminine colors. If you're going out, dress proper for the activity that you're doing. That's one thing you can tell when someone has Lenny; they're dressed properly for the activity that they're doing for that, that time. They don't wear the stuff everywhere unless they're just wearing a little quick era and getting back, but you got to dress for the activity that you're doing. So you got all these little cute outfits, sets, little skirts, little golf skirts, little tennis skirts everywhere you can click and find online for super cheap. Just go get some cute outfits. Go do some little rich activities outside. Get your, you know, get your little summer whites and your spring pastels and your little polo shirts and your tennis skirts and your little shoes and go out there into the real world during the daytime. Go see what's happening. Okay? Stop lounging at night in bars and hotels and cigar lounges and the places where men go to fulfill their lower needs and look for escorts. Stop going to them places if you're trying to find a real provider or some men like that's going to see you as more than a sexual being and that's all that they're gonna want from you. You got to go do something at the daytime; they have more in common with you if they see you out and about doing the same stuff they're doing. But if they see you out there at night, they're just going to label you, okay? That's just, that's just somebody looking for some, that's just an escort, that's just somebody that's going to believe my lies so I can get hit it and quit it. Now, oh, you need to be out there doing exactly what they're doing, having fun, and you, now you're more on their level, and they're not trying to see you as a sexual object to use. That's it. Stop trying to hang out and look like an escort. If that's not what you're doing, if you're not escorting, don't look like you're escorting, or do something else and find stuff in common that you have with certain people, and that's going to be the ice breaker and the conversation that's going to start. Mhm. Okay. How can you have a roster while living with a man? He don't want me going out often. Is that your husband, man? Because what he wants don't matter if he ain't your husband, and it still don't matter. But why are you listening to somebody that don't got no ring on your finger? Is he paying all your bills? Then why you listening to him? I don't care what he wants. You might want a ring; you might want a wedding. Are you getting it? Then who cares? Do what you want. Tell him you're going somewhere else. Tell him you're going to Bible study, to church. Tell them you're going to your grandma's house; tell them you're going to your sister's baby shower. Just lie; get out the house; do what you got to do. Okay? If he's not your husband, I don't know why he's telling you anything, and I don't even know why you listen. Just make up a lie, man. Say you're going somewhere; he does not want to join you at. Tell you're going to play Bingo. For girl, I saw this thing on TikTok; they having these women Bingo tournaments where you win a designer purse instead of cash. Tell them you're going to one of them and come back with one of your purses in your closet that you don't even know you already got. Okay? I won; just lie and go, go do something. Make sure it's, you know, you got a good lie going. Say you're going to the gym. I don't know. Do you wait to find a man while losing weight? I don't know how much weight you have to lose, but if you love yourself at any weight, your confident level is going to be high anyway, and what you can do is you can practice, and you can go out and see the type of men that are going to be attracted to you versus the men that are, are attracted to other ones. You can, it's a really good experiment to go out while you are losing weight so you can see exactly what's happening, and it also will motivate you more, and it also will teach you to love yourself at every size, and it will also teach you how men act, how they treat you, all this kind of stuff. Go out there and learn, learn and see people, watch, figure it out. Why wait? You might meet someone that likes you as you are at your current size now, and if even if you do continue to lose weight, they're probably going to treat you better anyway. Okay? Why are you waiting? What you gonna wait for? You know, I've had so many opportunities come my way when I was, uh, bigger. I could have said, "No, I'mma wait till I lose weight." No, but I took them; I took all of them, and I profited off of all of them. So don't, don't leave no money behind, baby. Sprinkle sprinkle. Get it where you get it, how you can. Why do males say that they want to marry women with high body counts? They don't even know. [Music] It, they just say that because that's an excuse to, to give them some type of value or worth, as if a woman's body count brings down her value. It doesn't. Their bank account is very low, so they got to bring you down to that level of their low bank account for you to think that they're better than you. A man is not better than any, a man is not better than a woman at all unless his bank account can make him feel better than her. If it can't, he's gonna use any technique to make her feel bad about herself, and these days women don't feel bad for doing what they want to do because that's not working anymore. Like, sir, rich men don't ask that question; only broke men ask that question because their bank account can't impress a woman, so they have to bring her down a couple of notches to make themselves look like they have something to offer, like that they're the prize. Man, you ain't the prize, no matter if the woman slept with a million men; you still ain't the prize if your bank account is up. Okay? So they're just trying to distract you from their low numbers on their bank account, man. Okay. You was having a conversation with a random man, and he said you need a man for...okay, you need a man for a man's perspective. I said, "I have my daddy." Oh, siren. Sprinkle sprinkle. You silly. Okay. So yes, like literally, you're not supposed to care what broke men think. All right. What gets them to get married? Oh, you should watch my video I did yesterday; it's literally about a man seeing you as a wife. Go watch that one. I did it yesterday; it's on the live videos, under my live videos, the one I did yesterday, have like a denim jacket with like bling on it. Go watch that one because I talk about it the whole video, or most of the video, but honestly, a man wants to marry a wife that represents him and is probably going to be a good mother who's not embarrassing to be seen out in public with and has nothing to do, it shouldn't have anything to do with being a domestic servant, someone he can provide for. What do you do while you're sitting at a bar? A load, look like you're enjoying your drink and the ambiance. Look like you're happy to be there. Look like you are there because you wanted a drink and you wanted to enjoy the ambiance of a bar. You need to look like you are there because you want to be there, not because you're waiting on someone to approach you. You sit confidently, have good posture, enjoy your drink or whatever it is you're drinking, and look good and actually look like you want to be there. Okay. Sprinkle sprinkle. You don't go, you're not there to look; you're there to enjoy, and when men see you enjoying life to the fullest, confident, enjoying the ambiance and the drink, "Oh, she looks like she's enjoying herself and like having a good time," we go say hi, you know? But if you're going to turn your head every time the door opens or if you're going to look up every time somebody passes by, it's giving off desperate energy, and you don't want to do that. You want to look like you're there because you want to be there. Okay. The sloy booty building system; that's a funny name. Sprinkle sprinkle. Okay, um, before intimacy, how do you continue to position yourself as an irreplaceable escape rather than just a temporary thrill? Okay. Sprinkle sprinkle. Um, honestly, if you are, if you want to be a temporary escape, you got to stroke their ego; you got to make them feel good to be in your presence. Every time you talk to them, their confident level has to go up a couple of notches. They got to feel like you really see them; they got to feel like, "Oh, dang, every time I'm around this woman, I feel like I could do anything." Sprinkle sprinkle. All right, so you gotta lie to them, basically. All right, that's my queue; I gotta go. Y'all, I have a little conference call by some business, back some business, but I gotta go, but I will see y'all later. Thank y'all so much. I got to pack up all my stuff; prepare; big things coming; you'll see, maybe, but y'all definitely, if y'all missed my live yesterday about how a man sees you as a wife, go watch that after this and comment, let me know what y'all think, and I will see y'all soon. 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This was one of my stationery sets that I received for my birthday from CJ Sparks. Thank you. Uh, I got a beautiful Voss, I got you some little cute, um, chair of decor, and I have all that on a video to thank everybody individually, but I have to get that edited and put up, so I will soon. Thank y'all, but I really do appreciate y'all's gifts. I even have on some shoes that one of my, um, subscribers from here sent me from my wish list. I'mma show them; I'm wearing them. So thank you. I have a whole video thanking everybody individually, so I will see y'all soon. Sprinkle sprinkle. You said, "Where is your letter, girl?" I got to write them. Are you signed up for the mail-out tier? Is your address on there? 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