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All right, I can't stand this. This is I just stumbled across more statistics the other day about men not having sex, Western men not having sex. The latest one I saw was that 30% of millennials, this isn't Gen Z, this is millennials, so that means men in their 30s, right? 30. God damn it, you [ __ ] [ __ ]. 30% of millennial men, Americans I believe, have not had sex, not once, in the last 12 months. 30%. One-third. That's millennials. You know, Gen Z men, it's even worse than 30%. Because if it's 30% for the goddamn millennials, I don't even want to know. I try to avoid these statistics now because they are so depressing and so horrible. One-third of men are not having sex at all.
Let me explain something, you [ __ ]. Way back, not way back, just 15, 20 years ago, okay? Back in the pickup artist days where I came out of, 15, 20 years. We used to make fun of Japanese men when the stats came out that Japanese men under 30, and I think it was, it wasn't 30%. It was like 27% I think was the number, hadn't had sex in a year. 27%. Better than 30%. And we said, "What the [ __ ] are wrong with these [ __ ] Japanese AFC [ __ ] bettas? What a bunch of goddamn losers. What the [ __ ] They're not having sex. They're in their 20s. What the [ __ ] is wrong with Japan now?" You [ __ ] are worse than Japan. As usual, the West becomes what it makes fun of. This is insanity.
And let me explain this to you. If you, cuz I know there are men listening to the sound of my voice right now who are in this category. God damn it. You haven't had sex in 12 months or more. If you have not had sex in 12 months, it is 100% your fault. It is your fault. It is not feminist's fault. It's not 304's fault. It's not Kamala Harris's fault. It's not your ex-wife's fault. It's your fault.
Now, if you're starting from zero, you haven't had sex in a while, you're trying online dating for the first time, and you're swiping and you're struggling, and it's like 2 or 3 months, and you haven't gotten laid yet, sure, then we could probably uh state that there is a percentage of fault with how women are today. As usual, Red Pill is not wrong. It's just if you spend too much time in Red Pill, it skews your [ __ ] head. So, if you're having trouble getting laid and it's been two or three months where you're trying to get laid and you haven't been laid yet, that's different. That's acceptable. I get that. I understand. I was there once. Understood? We're not talking about two or three months, [ __ ]. We're talking about 12 months. 12 months. You can get laid in 12 months. There's no [ __ ] excuse. I don't care how old you are. I don't care how fat you are. I don't care how ugly you are. I don't care what you think you look like. You can get laid. I know you can get laid.
This is [ __ ]. I mean, if I, if I hired a hitman, a professional assassin, if I wanted went on the dark web and gave some professional assassin some Monero and said, "Go kill Joe and you're Joe." And you believed to your satisfaction this was real. And I said, "You will kill him if he doesn't get laid in at least one year. And you can't pay a hooker. Hooker doesn't count. You can't pay a hooker. You must get laid with normal game, normal life, or maybe sugar daddy game. Maybe. Maybe I'll accept that." If I said that to you and you haven't had sex in 12 months, you know, you'd get laid. You would make it happen. This is [ __ ]. There's no excuse for this. None. You are not an incel. You are not involuntarily celibate. You're a cell. You're a vau cell. You're voluntarily celibate. There's no [ __ ] excuse to not have sex within 12 months. There's no [ __ ] excuse.
I wrote an entire book, a best-selling book, over 100,000 copies sold called The Unchained Man. You may have heard of it. And in that book, I said, and I said this in 2014 when I wrote that book, I said the core two foundations of happiness for a man. Women are different. Men, you're a man. Is one, money. You need some money. If you have no money and you're starving, you can't pay your bills, you won't be happy. And what, what was the number two? Sex. You need to get laid. If you're a man, I don't care what your [ __ ] excuses are. I don't care about what women do. I don't, I don't care about feminism. I don't care about thoughts and [ __ ] and 304s and all this other Red Pill [ __ ]. I don't care. I don't care. I don't care. I don't care. You need to have sex. However you want to do it. FBS, MLTR, Sugar Daddy, I don't care. I'm not a big fan of hookers, but I guess that's better than nothing for some of you [ __ ]. Fine. You need to have sex.
Women are different. As I've discussed in great detail in my books and my blogs, women can flip a switch and just say, "I don't want to have sex now." And they can flip a switch and not have sex for a year or two or three, and they're still kind of functional. You are not a woman. If you go without sex, you will not be 100% functional. How happy are you? How stress-free are you when you go a year without having sex, you [ __ ] [ __ ]?
I've said before that, you know, if you choose to be a [ __ ] because some men do this. Caleb, I've read your stuff. I understand beta male and alpha 2. I choose to be a beta male. I choose me a beta and I, I understand that I will never be as happy as you and I'll always have what it is and I'll go a long time without sex and, and when I have sex it'll be some girlfriend who runs my life and I'll hate it and but that's just I'm a [ __ ] and that's how I am. I have a brother who said this to me once. Okay, I get. I'm an individualism absolutist almost. So fine. Most of you are not reacting this way. Most of you say, "Hey man, [ __ ] you. I'm not having say don't call me a [ __ ] Why not? You [ __ ] You're a [ __ ] [ __ ]." There's no excuse for this. None.
One-third of men who haven't had sex in a year. And worse for Gen Z. Um, let me, let me tell you something. [sighs] I, you know, it's a good thing I don't live in the United States because then this, this would really get to me. I, I just, there's so many things I want to say right now. Trying to compose my thoughts for this podcast. I want to tell you something and I've mentioned this before. I'm going to go into more detail. I'm Generation X. Okay? No, I'm not a boomer. I like how millennials and Gen Z think boomer is anyone older than me. No. Boomers are much older than me. Gen X hates the boomers. We hate the [ __ ] boomers more than you do. They [ __ ] us more than they [ __ ] you. Go read some articles about the plight of Gen X economically because of the [ __ ] boomers. So, I'm not a boomer. I'm not even close to a boomer. I'm Generation X, the generation that no one talks about for some reason. All the news is boomers, millennials, and Gen Z. Like Gen X, like what, what the [ __ ]? What about us? We're in the middle of all this [ __ ]? Anyway, so uh Generation X, I, I am right in the middle of Gen X. I'm in my mid-50s. Okay, so that means that um Generation X basically right this second in 2026 means people in their 50s. All right, people in their 50s. I know anecdotally, but more than most people, a lot of people who are in Gen X, I grew up with these people. I have friends, co-workers. I know a lot of Gen X men, and a lot of Gen X women. A lot in their 50s. All different flavors of Gen X. Right-wing Gen X, left-wing Gen X, women, Gen X, men, Gen X, married, Gen X, single Gen X, okay? All these different flavors, all different types of Gen X. What is the one thing all these people have in common? And if you think through the people you know in your 50s, this is going to match what you know, too, because this is real. The one thing that these people in Gen X have in common, they're all getting laid. They're having sex. They're [ __ ]. Gen X was the last generation of people actually [ __ ] apparently. And even to this day, when I was in high school in the 80s, Gen X, it was something like 50% of teenagers had lost their virginity by the time they graduated high school. 50% of teenagers. And you guys think, well, how can I have sex? I live, hold my moment, and death. Teenagers in the 80s [ __ ] figured it out. Unfortunately, I wasn't one of them. I lost my J a little after, but I was with the other 50%. Gen X people are [ __ ]. It doesn't matter if they're men, women, not married, dating, single. Some men are doing the sugar daddy thing. Some men are [ __ ] their wives. Some men are cheating on their wives. Long-term monogamy does not work. Some women and same [laughter] different categories of men, but all the men that I know in their 50s, damn near to a tea, they're all getting laid on a regular basis. Unlike you [ __ ] pansy millennials and you [ __ ] [ __ ] Gen Z's. God damn it, you guys. [ __ ]
Now, that also applies to women, Gen Z women. So, you got Gen Z women who are married and [ __ ] their husbands. Gen Z women who have boyfriends and [ __ ] get [ __ ] with their boyfriends. Gen Z women who are cheating on their boyfriends and husbands because long-term monoga doesn't work. Even single, totally single, Gen Z, Jimmy, Gen X, Gen X women in their 50s, I know many of these women, they will tell me, "What I'll do is I don't want a boyfriend right now because blah blah whatever reason. And so what I'll do occasionally is when I'm horny, I'll go down to the bar. Women will do this. Gen X women. I'll go down the bar, have a few drinks, pick out a guy, go home, blah blah blah, take care of business, or I'll hop on Tinder, blah blah blah, he seems good enough, get laid, and then I'll get back to my life." They get [ __ ] laid. Gen X people get [ __ ] laid. All these Gen Z moms that you see on Facebook, "I'm so proud of Susie. My daughter just graduated college." Oh yeah, these Gen Z moms. Gen Z moms. God damn it. Gen X moms. These Gen X moms in their 50s on Facebook, they're getting [ __ ]. They're getting [ __ ] laid. They don't look like they're getting laid. They don't act like it on Facebook. When you go to these parties, they're not. They are getting [ __ ] laid. The men are getting laid. The women are. And they're in their goddamn 50s. What [ __ ] excuse do you have?
By the way, that's a hack. So, for you guys who are millennials or Gen Z and you want to get laid, here's a real easy hack. Go [ __ ] a Gen X woman. Go [ __ ] a Gen X woman who's in her early 50s and is not fat yet because [snorts] not all older women are fat. Most of them are in America. I don't know why you're still living in the United States, but well, that's another conversation. Find a Gen X woman in her 50s who's like 51, 52, 53 who isn't fat yet. Bro, bro, she will ride your [ __ ] like a pony. She will ride your [ __ ] into the goddamn sunset. Who cares? But she has, she has wrinkles on her neck. And who gives a [ __ ]? THAT'S BETTER THAN NOT HAVING SEX for 12 months. I would far rather you be getting laid by some 52-year-old who [ __ ] the [ __ ] out of you, rides your [ __ ] into the goddamn oblivion instead of you just not having sex for 12 months saying 304s and the whatever podcast said and Fresh and Fit said, well, those are the guys not getting laid. The guys on the internet say, well, Fresh and Fit and 304 is the whatever podcast. Those are the guys who aren't getting laid. Why you want to be like them? Stop making excuses. I would far rather get laid to those chicks. It's, it's [laughter] h I'm trying to control myself. Good thing I, I am spiritually awakened because I, I'd be much more angry about this. [laughter]
Something else about women in their 50s, Gen X women who actually like having sex can't get pregnant. Hallelujah. Hallelujah. Uh, I've said this many times when I was on a first date. I'm on, going on a first date with a woman and she says, "Oh, by the way, just so you know, I," and they say it all embarrassingly like it's a bad thing. "By the way, I just, I, I can't have children. I got my tubes tied or I had endometriosis or whatever reason I had a hysterectomy." I'm like, "I love you. Let's go back to my place right now, [ __ ] Hallelujah. That's awesome." I lost my virginity to a much older woman in her 40s who couldn't get pregnant. It was [ __ ] great. I [ __ ] the [ __ ] out of her for a year. It was the best thing on earth. Can you, are you insane? I love it when women can't get pregnant. Holy [ __ ] [ __ ]. As soon as I realize that you're SD free, you're SD free, I'm gonna come a tidal wave into you. You understand? Every [ __ ] day. It's awesome. It's just win win win with Gen X chicks. [laughter]
And again, I'm going to get red pill guys. Oh, they're, they're 50, their ovaries are dried up. And those again, the guys that say their ovaries are dried up. Anyone over 30, their ovaries, cuz Rolo Tamasi said, nothing against Rolo, these guys, but spending too much time in Red Pill, these are the guys who aren't getting laid. The guys who make fun of women over 30 because their ovaries are dried up or whatever the [ __ ] they say now. God knows they say, "I don't pay attention to this world anymore." But whatever they say, these are the [ __ ] beta male [ __ ] pansies who aren't getting laid. These are not the men you want to emulate. You want to ignore these men and go get [ __ ]. Get laid. Fine, you [ __ ] Red Pill pansy. While you're bitching about dried up ovaries. Great. I'm going to be having unprotected sex with your mom on your bed while you're not home. I've done it. I've done it with more than one mom. You have no idea what your mom in her 50s is doing. You have no idea. You know what she's doing? Guys like me. And while you're bitching about this, what are you gonna do? What are you doing about this? If you're not having sex, what are you doing? You're jerking off to porn, aren't you? Is that a high value man? Is that what a high value man does? Is jerk off to porn while guys like me are [ __ ] your mom. Is that a high value man, Mr. High? You're on Pornhub jerking it like a [ __ ] incel, but you're not. You're a vel. Yes, I've done this. I've done it. I'm not kidding. I can tell you all kinds of stories. I can't tell you most of them. Join the untained actor table. I can more give you more specifics. This is just stupid. You have to stop being a [ __ ] [ __ ] and take care of this part of your life.
Is online dating a little harder than it used to be? Yes. Is day game a little harder than it used to be? Yes. Are women in general a little more difficult than they were maybe in the 90s or the 80s? Unquestionably true. Does that mean it makes sense in any universe for you to not have sex for 12 [ __ ] months? No. That is on you. That is your choice that you're making. You are being a [ __ ] [ __ ]. Period. End of story. No excuses. 12 months. I didn't say two or three. Two, three, four. I'll give you on two or three or four. I'll give you that one. Okay. See, I'm benevolent. See, I'm a nice guy. If you're struggling getting laid, it's been 2, three, four months. I hear you. I understand. I used to be you. I get it. 12 months, that's on you, you [ __ ] [ __ ]. Stop. You can't just not have sex and you're a man. I don't care how old you are. I don't care how ugly you are. You can't be saying, "Well, the Chads are but Caleb, the X% of women on Tinder go for the X% of men." And you quote all this [ __ ] Red Pill [ __ ]. As I've said 10,000 times, Red Pill is a door you pass through, not a house you live in. You go through Red Pill, which you need to do. Yes. Read Rolo's book. Yes. Once. Just once. Okay. Read it, understand it, then move past it and go to Alpha Male 2.0. Go to that where you're actually getting laid.
Do you have to be laid? Do you have to get laid like me? Let's talk about that really quick. I have had sex at least twice a week on average every week without fail for the past 19, not 19, 18 years going back to 2008. I started in 2007. I wasn't getting laid twice a week in 2007. By 2008, yes I was, every week. There's only been two exceptions to that and both those exceptions were more than 15 years ago. And, and, and, and I am uglier and fatter and older than most of you watching this video or listening to this podcast. That's why I see these guys. I haven't had sex in a year now. Do you have to be like me? Am I saying you need to have sex twice a week for the rest of your life without, without fail? No. No, you don't. Cuz I'm going to get those comments. Well, not everyone could do it like you and you have money. Stop and think rationally for a minute. I agree that there's two ends of the spectrum, right? You're on one end of the spectrum. You haven't had sex in 12 months plus because you're a [ __ ] puss. You're not incel. You're a [ __ ]. You're a pansy piece of [ __ ]. So, that's one end of the spectrum. All right. I'm on the other extreme end of the spectrum. I have a lot of sex. I have more sex than Red Pill guys, pickup artists, celebrities. That's a fact. I have a lot of sex. Okay, so two ends of the spectrum. Do I, do I think you need to be all the way over like me? No. But don't you think if you haven't had sex in 12 [ __ ] months that you should be about two or three notches a little more toward my end of the spectrum and a little way from where you are? Two, three notches. You don't think so? You're insane. I'm not saying you get laid twice a week for the rest of your life. You need to get laid at least occasionally. And if you haven't had sex, like one-third of American men, you're not anywhere near that zone. You need to be getting laid semi-regularly. I don't know what the exact number is. People, every man's different. Twice a month? Once a month? [ __ ] Once every other month is better than not the last 12 months, you [ __ ] pansy.
For the first time in my life, and I realize we live in the middle of a coll, I should say you live in the middle of a collapsing civilization. I realize that a collapsing culture because you dumb [ __ ] have been voting for the lesser of two evils for 40 years and you keep doing it. I understand all this. You know, I, I realized this a few days ago and I was horrible to think it, but I, this is what, this is my honest feelings about this. I'm embarrassed to be a man now. One-third of Western men aren't having sex. We made fun of Japanese men when it was 27% of a small segment. One-third of men under 40 plus one more than 30% for Gen Z are not having sex. I'm embarrassed to be a man. Back in the 80s, it was a good thing to be a man. It was great to be a man. 70s, 60s, it was great to be a man in the 70s. You can be proud to be a man in the 70s. 60s, proud to be a man. 90s, first half of the 90s was okay. Toward the end of the 90s, that's when things started to go south. Was the '90s? I've written about this in my books. When, when it's common knowledge now that one-third of men, Western men, are not having sex, I'm embarrassed to be one of you. That's how I feel.
I'll end with this. I live in Dubai and Paraguay. Live in two different countries. Let me tell you something, okay? Men in Dubai getting laid. Now, they may not be getting laid the way I would endorse getting laid. A lot of sugar daddy stuff going on here and things like that, okay? A lot of older men, younger women, but they're getting laid. Guys in Dubai are getting laid. The only exception would be like the migrant workers who, you know, work in the camps and they, they're bust to work. And if you exclude those, I'm talking about the normal western guys, guys like you and me. Guys are getting laid in Dubai. Now, I hate Dubai, okay? I live in Paraguay, opposite of Dubai. Let me tell you something. Guys in Paraguay getting laid left and [ __ ] right. And those of you who are smart enough to move to Paraguay, you know, you can, you can relate to all the stories. Dudes in Paraguay be getting [ __ ] laid. Dudes in their 20s and 30s. I've said this many times. One of the most common things you'll see in Paraguay is a guy walking down in the mall with his girlfriend and the girlfriend is cute. Cute 10. No, that's Dubai. No tens in Paraguay, but they're cute. Full of cuties. Sevens, eights, nines. Okay. Cute girl holding her boyfriend's hand. And the boyfriend is a sch slubby, dumbass, dorky beta. And he's banging the cute girl, unlike you guys who are not having sex with anybody. And as I keep saying, if you hate Dubai and Paraguay, there's another 22 countries that are less bad than the collapsing USA, Cuka Canada, suicidal Europe, authoritarian Australia. Get the [ __ ] out of these countries. There is no excuse for this behavior. It is the worst thing you could possibly do for yourself as a man to not have sex. And I don't give a [ __ ] what your excuses are. You're a [ __ ] [ __ ] until you start having sex. Period. End of story. I'm right about this. Prove me wrong. You can't.