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There is only one basic bottom line reason that a narcissist or an avoidant would just discard the relationship and move on, throw you away like it meant nothing, like it never existed. Some of them will even jump into a new relationship the very next day. They give you no closure and no answers. There's only one reason for that. I'm going to tell you what it is. It does not matter if they're an avoidant or a narcissist. There's only one basic reason for that.
But first, you can spend months going through all the gurus on this app and they're going to tell you it, you know, it depends on their disorder, the percentages, [music] uh they lack emotional maturity, or they don't want to face accountabilities. And some of that, if not all of that is true to some degree, but I'm going to save you months of research and just give you the bottom line.
We spend so much time looking into their illness, their traumatized children, and and researching all of that that we forget the fact that they are functioning human beings and they know exactly what they're doing. They know what they're doing is wrong. They hide it. They know what they're doing causes you to suffer. It causes pain and it destroys lives and they do it anyway.
So [music] here is the basic reason. These people are selfish, evil [ __ ] [ __ ] And that's it. They have no consideration for anyone else or anyone else's feelings. It's all about them, just them. They know what they're doing is wrong. They know that it hurts you, but they choose to do it anyway. That makes [music] them selfish [ __ ] [ __ ]