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If she's not getting constant attention and validation from you, she feels incredibly insecure. Like you don't care anymore, and she disconnects emotionally. She abandons you before you can abandon or reject her.
So, if she feels ignored or undervalued, she might provoke a fight, stir up drama, or guilt trip you to get your attention back. She could become cold and distant, or even turn to someone else, feeling completely justified in cheating on you in her mind.
If you're not constantly supplying her with the attention she feels entitled to, then you're failing her. And it doesn't matter if you're going through something serious like grieving a loss or dealing with a serious health issue. If you're not there supporting her and validating her every need, she will emotionally disconnect from you.