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What should I do if I want to share something with you, but I'm worried about how you're going to react?
You should tell me regardless, especially if it concerns our life and kids. If my reaction is challenging, then you have an opportunity to tell me that.
But, if you're regularly keeping things from me because of what you think my reaction will be, then you're stopping us from finding common ground or having the opportunity to become more connected. Even worse, you'll eventually feel isolated or find someone else to share with.