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These are the standards, high value, high quality, high value, high standard, high value >> high value women that everyone respects and will do anything for.
She is not willing to initiate. She looks like a woman that doesn't give two chances. Does not apologize. She never dresses to impress. Will worship you and will literally chase you down.
This is really a how-to guide for making women into narcissists. Over the last 10 years, there's this internet subculture popular trend, dating coaches and influencers are telling women how to how to become a high value woman. And it's really just a how-to guide for becoming a narcissist.
According to them, all they need to do is change their mindset and change their lifestyle. And with that, they can then attract a high status man to support their soft life, which is really just them rejecting the hustle culture and the girl boss era cuz they realized they don't really want to work that hard. They just simply refuse to accept less than they know they deserve.
Signs of a high value woman, here it comes. She doesn't give more than she receives in relationships. She doesn't beg or try to convince a man to be with her, nor does she fight over men. She values herself enough to be single and at peace rather than insecure in a relationship. She's grateful and appreciates a man for being masculine. She has a mindset of abundance. What does that mean? She has a mindset of abundance and doesn't compromise her standards.
I hate this vague language. She's not desperate and always makes men work for her attention. Oh. Well, she sounds like a hoot and and half. Just the first one disqualifies any right for you to call yourself feminine. The essence of our femininity lies in our sacrifice for our our husband and our kids. Femininity is about that sacrifice. And so, a high-value woman doesn't give more than she receives in relationships. And then you want to step into your feminine energy? She doesn't beg or try to convince a man to be with her, nor does she fight over men. Intersexual competition is in our nature. No wonder you're single at 30 in that case.
This is all code for low agreeableness. Not to be insecure, that's emotionally stable. Wanting abundance, that's the extroversion with the ambition and the self-promotion. And doesn't compromise her standards, that's low agreeableness. Makes men work for her attention, the grandiosity of of narcissism. So, this is really a how-to guide for uh making women into narcissists. And that is what we have been doing for decades. We're fostering that low agreeableness in girls and women, and we're making them completely unfit to build long-term stable relationships.
She is only available for genuine effort and a man who's going to create momentum. She's not available for choppy communication. She's not available to go on a date with him and then not hear from him for a week. She's not available for someone who is just trying to get the most for the least.
Isn't that exactly what she's doing? The annoying thing is that they're really borrowing from traditionalists, from traditionalist influencers, but completely perverting it. Traditional women, they don't wear their boobs out. They don't have lip fillers. Traditionalism is about giving and sacrificing. These women don't care about building a life with someone. This is about putting on a costume to attract a man. It's a how-to guide for cluster B women to hide their crazy for just long enough to trick a man to attach to them. And then, of course, go on to treat him like a doormat.
What I find really hypocritical is that contrast this to the high-status men, the high-value men. They can't just put on a mindset and the right type of makeup. They have to earn it. They have to get a degree, typically. They don't become high-status in their 20s. They have to wait. His value isn't based on how he reacts and how he responds.
Three signs of a high-quality woman. First of all, she never dresses to impress. She dresses to express. Second, she always, and I mean always, respects her own boundaries. For example, a man will never find himself alone in a taxi with a high-quality woman after a night out at a nightclub. And third, she loves herself. Not in a narcissistic way.
Is there any other kind? Honestly, with this stuff, this modern self-care and empowerment movement, they just weaponized the concept of making yourself a priority into justifying low empathy, relational rigidity, and complete lack of compromise. That is what this is about. This is why I just hate that word boundaries. It doesn't mean what they think it means. What they're doing is playing a game of chess to artificially inflate their market value. But, this is just textbook demonstration of extremely low agreeableness, which is really just narcissism. And that is what narcissism is, low agreeableness, extroversion, and because in there is ambition and self-promotion, and getting that without any concern for other people. In a nutshell, that is what narcissism is because that will always look confident. Uh they're able to fake competence and that comes across as grandiosity. But it's really just self-promo- promotion without concern for anyone and they're usually quite emotionally stable. So this manifests here as hostility and a complete unwillingness to cooperate.
What a high-value woman looks like, she looks like a woman that has boundaries, like firm boundaries with men. She looks like a woman that doesn't give two chances.
This obsession with being slighted and disrespected and Richard refusal to tolerate any friction. Move on immediately without communication, without repair. It's classic. Narcissistic relationship pattern. People who have very low agreeableness, they just don't care.
Start setting firm boundaries. You need to start saying no.
I mean, sure, assertiveness is healthy and very agreeable people who need to learn to stand up for themselves and there are many of those endlessly self-sacrificing. This is clearly not her problem. You need to move on if you feel like you're disrespected. No more giving chances, no more playing nice. This is how you get the life that you want, especially with men. This is how you get the man that you want.
I mean, this turns extroverted assertiveness into pure manipulation, using social power to extract a specific lifestyle and then disguising it as a femininity. The audacity of these women.
The universe is always testing you to see if you're going to take disrespect. And when you allow disrespect, it'll send you more of that so that you learn your lesson.
The claim that the universe is always testing you, it's a that's magical thinking to think like that she is the center of the cosmos, which is it is assuming that external events are orchestrated only for her personal character development. Oh my god, she's promoting aggressive, inflexible demands for all women regardless of their personality because they supposedly just deserve it.
A high-value woman has high standards that she does not apologize for nor does she ever make exceptions on. It doesn't matter how long she's been dating someone, how long she's known someone, regardless of the situation, she will always uphold her standards.
So she just argues for this unforgiving, punitive approach where any perceived slight results in immediate termination. How does she uphold those standards? She walks away the second they are not met. She always puts herself in a position where she can walk away, where she has the conviction to walk away. When her standards are not met, there's no arguing, there's no fighting, she simply walks away. Her absence is her upholding her standards. This she treats herself kind of like Harvard University where she knows the power of a Harvard degree, aka her presence. She knows what comes with that reputation, what comes with being at Harvard, and she does not take that lightly. She doesn't let just anyone into Harvard. In fact, she has thousands of applicants, right? But she's very selective with who she lets in and the second someone isn't upholding the standards of the institution or of her standards, they are immediately no longer in her life.
She treats herself like Harvard University. I mean, this is pure main character syndrome. Upholding the standards of the institution, are you Are you joking? I just people are just to be discarded. This crazy.
Let's talk about everything that's changed in my life after becoming a high-value woman, after being a party girl who didn't respect herself, who always got cheated on.
She just realized she was a party girl. She just realized that oh, men don't want the long-term relationship with a party girl. So now suddenly she puts on the costume, pretends to be innocent, but that's too late. If you really want to Worth is decided by the market. If you're already 30 and watching these videos, you're not a high-value woman. If you really want to define what a high-value woman is, she's young, she she's innocent, and she exudes the nature of a nurturer. That's what she is. That's what borderline girls pretend to be. They put on this fake overly sweet persona and they smile a lot and they're playful, and they pull you in and they have this kindergarten teacher aura. They do that for a little while and then the dragon appears. All of this is just really cos playing innocence in your 30s. It is not charming. Girls, it's not charming.
Girls with high standards get treated exactly how they deserve. From the first meet they make it crystal clear who they are, what they're about, what they're going to tolerate, what they're not going to tolerate. And I am telling you, I am telling you, they get treated way better than everyone else. These are the girls who do not allow any toxicity. They don't allow anything low value or any disrespect in their space. They don't negotiate their worth or make excuses for people's bad behavior. They simply just remove themselves from the situation that does not serve them.
Why? Because they're women? This is where we see feminism. So for those who think that feminism is dying on the grapevine, wrong. It's right here. Feminism advocates for the moral superiority of women and for men to live to serve women. That is visible right here. It's just morphed from boss girl hustle culture into this. At the bottom, what will always give it away is this kind of centrism. That's what we see here. Call it what you will. That will be visible and that is what allows them this entitled behavior. I think just feminism's reaction to what's going on in the manosphere. It's a new route to put a costume on low value women, lure men into their trap, and then drain him like a vampire. Treating men with the same consideration as the as a gum stuck under their shoe. And that is in its essence feminist. That is what these women are doing. How do they think this is going to go long term? Well, if men didn't want this, then it wouldn't work. But it only works if that man wants a short-term relationship. This is literally how to date like a man who just wants to sleep with pretty women dressed up in fake femininity. And then when they talk about men being high value, it's really only about what those men have the ability to give you. And that was it. Good day. I'm happy to record here from our country house in in Norway. And I love it here. It's my favorite place on Earth. And I just found this came across this today and thought I would torture you with the same. You know, if I have to go through through it. And I hope you got some something out of it. Please let me know what you think in the comments. And if you're listening on audio, please leave a rating and a review if you have time. Like and subscribe on your way out and visit the Substack. There's a lot of stuff there. I do Google Meets. Uh I do exclusive lives with cool people. And it's really it's really worth it. All my articles are on there. So, if you're ever looking for a source or or something, it's there. Um and I hope to see you next time. Have a nice day.