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I'm in a relationship with a girlfriend, and she's, you know, she's great. And I'm, I'm not perfect either. But say she's having a mood, and, uh, and I don't want to get necessarily sucked into that mood because I'm responsible for my own stuff. And it's difficult not to get sucked into what? So, how, give me something. And I'll go, honestly, I'm sure there's more that I can mine from what you said. I'm going to get your CDs and I'm just going to listen to it over and over.
>> [laughter]
>> Give me something real practical. Do, do I take three deep breaths? Or?
>> First, we will give you a clear understanding of exactly what's happening to you and why you feel the way you do. And then we'll give you some practical words that you can say to yourself, which will set your tone in the right way. And then we'll give you some things that you could say to her that won't cause her to kill you.
>> Yeah, I, I've said some of those things and that's why I'm asking.
>> Well, you know,
>> Well, you're responsible for your own happiness.
>> No.
>> Yeah. Yeah.
>> No, I wasn't that stupid. But that's what I'm, that's what you, that's the first thing you want to say, and it's not going to work. So,
>> Here's a basis of understanding. A mother said to us one day as we were guiding her away from cowtowing to her son. She said, "Won't my son feel abandoned if I take your approach?" And we said, "We're not asking you to take your attention away from this person. We're encouraging you to give 100% of your attention to the positive aspects, and no one feels abandoned." In other words, we're not asking you to ignore your girlfriend. In fact, we want you to give her your undivided attention. We just want you to give your attention to who she really is, not who she's being in this moment.
So, here's the most interesting thing, and we touched on this already. So, let's say she's having one of her moods, and it is exaggerating your desire for her autonomy. Your, it's exaggerating your desire for her to find her happy balance. It's exaggerating your desire to be in a happy moment here and now. And so this thing that's going on with her and things like that have caused you to put, literally, her, the new and improved version of her, the happy, uplifted, aligned version of her, into your vibrational escrow. And now the reason that you feel so bad is because she, in her behavior, and because of your attention to her behavior, so that you're not strongly connected to this, because you dabble in both aspects of her, she can call you here. So, as you look over your shoulder at who she is being, rather than forward to who she really is in your vibrational escrow, you feel the ripping apart of you, and it's because of her.
Now, what's really helpful is if, in the middle of that awareness, if you could say to yourself, "I would not be feeling this discord if this specific relationship had not caused me to be something that now this specific relationship seems to be keeping me from being." In other words, that's why it is so annoying. That's why relationships are so intense because they cause your expansion, but they're also, if you let them be, the reason that you don't take to your expansion, which is what makes it extra, extra uncomfortable. So now you get that, you understand that completely. So now, understanding that will really help because you know how, if you're watching a child learning to walk, you don't say when the child falls down, "Get up, you little dummy."
>> [laughter]
>> There's a softness in your awareness because you understand that they're finding their balance. And so when your girlfriend, or anyone, is not who she really is, you don't have this knee-jerk reaction to it because you're able to see who she really is.
Now, here's the thing that we really want you to hear because it sounds like she's pulling you back from what you've become. But we want you to know that if you really have practiced your book of positive aspects, if you've been appreciating, if you've been looking deliberately while she's sleeping, while she's not with you, while she's meditating, while she's happy, if you've been looking at the times that are easier, at who she really is, then this will be the most active part of your physical human vibration, and she will not be able to call you so easily back there. All she is doing is being a representative of that end of the stick, which you must be beating fairly frequently, or you wouldn't be able to be called there so easily. You see?
And so now, understanding all of that, let's say she sucked you back into the negative, and you're there with her commiserating, and you feel rotten in it. So you could say to her, "I love you so much that I've given up who I really am to come here and complain with you." Now, that's the truth of what's happening. And it kind of is.
>> Yeah.
>> But then say to her, "But there's a part of me that, even though I want to be here to comfort or to even commiserate or even to agree because you're wise and you're not without making a good point here, I can feel that I'm making a choice that, in the long run, is not going to be good for us. If I keep doing this, in time, I'm going to resent being here because I don't feel good in this conversation."
>> And that really is the truth of it. In other words, in time, it just wears thin.
>> [applause]
>> And then you could say something like, "You know, we're not so different. We, I know we are so much the same, but you are more intense in that things matter more to you." And say to her, "And I love you for that because I know we're expanding because of the intensity that you live, but I'm not wired that way. And when I try to be like that, I can feel that it pulls me apart. And then you misunderstand and think that I'm mad at you. And I'm not mad at you. I'm mad at me for not being who I am. I want to love you under all conditions. And I hate it more than words can tell when I resent you because I want to love you. I don't want to resent you. But when I feel bad and I think you're the reason I feel bad, then I resent you. It's just that simple. So, I'm working on it, Seth. I'm working on it. I'm going to reach the place where no matter how you're feeling, I'm going to feel good because I want to stand as someone who calls you toward feeling good."
And then say to her, "And I know you think that what I'm saying is I'm stronger and I'm better. And that's not anything that I'm saying about this. It isn't about who's right and who's wrong. Because I don't deny that you're making good points. They're just not good points that feel good to me. You're just making a lot of factual good points that are accurate and true that don't feel good to me. And I've decided that the world's full of truths that I don't want to vibrate with and truths that I do. And so I'm just sifting here."
And then make a long list about then, because she's revved up, you've got her attention, but you've made her feel like you think you're superior to her. In other words, that's the way she's translating it because she's over there and you're over there. And that's the way that that will translate. So then you want to say some things that now bring her closer to who she really is. So you say, "I can't even find words to describe to you how much I want to be with you." And nothing, I can't think of anything that makes me feel worse than me even making a small decision about not being with you.
Say to her, "When I walk out of the room or when I try to block out what you're saying, I think the reason it feels so bad is because it defies the most important thing that's in my vibrational escrow, and that is this relationship with you. I can't think of anything that is of a higher priority for me than my relationship with you." Now, doesn't that sound good? Wouldn't she want to hear that? "I can't think of anything that is a higher priority for me than my relationship with you." Magical words that every girl wants to hear. "Nothing is more important to me than my relationship with you, except this one little thing. If I'm not feeling good, I don't have anything to give you. So, I'm just not going to go there. It doesn't mean I'm not loving you. I'm just not going to go there."
And then explain to her this expansion thing that you're upon. Say to her, "It's going to be okay." Say to her, "You know, there's this sort of thing that happens where the more insecure you feel, the more strangled I feel. So then the more I want to be free, the more insecure you feel. So then the more insecure you feel, the more strangled I feel. The more strangled I feel, the more insecure you feel. And we've got to have a way of working this out. And I figured out what it is. If I can convince you that I'm not going anywhere and that I'm loving you no matter what's going on in the moment, and I stick around long enough that you understand that, then you'll stop holding so tight. And when you stop holding so tight, I won't be pulling so hard. And when I'm not pulling so hard, you won't be holding so tight. And when you're not holding so tight, I won't be pulling so hard. And then we'll all be in the same happy place, loving each other the way I believe we were born to be."
>> That's wonderful.
>> [applause]
>> Another thing that is very helpful to know, you can have these conversations in the privacy of your mind, and it will serve exactly the same purpose as if you say them out loud.
>> [applause]
>> Because as your vibration shifts, you'll align with who you are. And when you align with who you are, law of attraction won't match you up with one of her moods.
>> Gotcha.
>> And the only reason you could ever get matched up with one of her moods is because you're still over there in the "I know what I don't want" phase. We have enjoyed this interaction more than words can convey. It is exhilarating to come together with those like you who are coming more and more and every day to know who you are. We know that we have presented to you in a way that you have really heard it, a full picture of who you are. You have the sense of this non-physical you that is in the process of becoming. And it is our desire that as you are moving through your moments day by day, that you never lose conscious awareness of the two vibrational perspectives of you and you. Your emotions are all about that. The better you feel, the fuller you are. The worse you feel, the emptier you are. The better you feel, the more you are who you have become. The worse you feel, the more you're pinching it off and not allowing it right here and now. We want you to know that your negative emotion is not our negative emotion. When you feel negative emotion, it's not because source or Abraham or your inner being are disappointed in you. When you feel negative emotion, it's the simple dynamics of you choosing a frequency that's different from who you really are. Bless your guidance system that lets you know that. And let your dominant intent day by day be to fill yourself up with the energy of you. Praise yourself and others into alignment. Look for reasons to bask and appreciate. When you find yourself complaining, laugh and say, "Whatever am I doing using this as my excuse to rob myself of the energy and vitality and worthiness and wisdom of who I really am?" Be playful about it. There's no urgency anywhere because you can't get it wrong and you never get it done. And so as you're moving through your experiences, if you will adopt an attitude of appreciation for every rascal that is irritating you, and you will recognize that this rascal irritated you into an expansion that you aren't allowing yourself to experience right here and now. In the moment of that acknowledgment, your appreciation of the irritating rascal will become the dominant vibration within you. And from wherever you stand, you can begin to reap immediate benefits of all that you are. You see, you know, in your physical world that there is a fruit on a tree. But before the fruit could be there, ready to be eaten, the tree had to be planted, and the soil had to be tended to. And the tree needed its nutrition, and the fruit needed to ripen. And then eventually, you could pluck it and you could benefit by this very ripe fruit. What we want you to understand is that all of the fruits of all of your labors are ripe and ready for plucking.
>> You've done your work. You've done your step one. We've done our step two. Step three really is the going to the tree at the right time and plucking the ripe fruit. In other words, that's where you're at. Let all of your efforts be toward that step three process. Give up on the idea that you're not enough or that you're not in the right place or there's more that you have to learn. Give up those limiting ideas because none of that is true. You've done your work, and the universe is ready, as soon as today, to begin yielding to you the evidence of the good work that you've done. Life is supposed to feel good to you. It's supposed to feel good. It's supposed to be fun. It's supposed to be the ride on the river that you knew it would be. So let yourself enjoy the expansion that this life has, this express life, this explicit life, this specific life has caused you to experience. Let this specific life, which has produced a very specific fruit, let yourself go swiftly to the tree and begin enjoying the fruits of your labors. And understand, as you are devouring the deliciousness of those fruits one by one, that the appreciation that you feel as you are participating is shared by that which we are, because in your pleasure, we are fully present. Anything less than pleasure, you're out there on the raw and ragged edge on your own. In your pleasure, those goosebumps that ripple up and down you, that's us reveling in all that we have become. Those goosebumps are your conscious awareness of the appreciation we feel for your leading edge place in the expansion of all that is. There is great love here for you. And as always, we remain joyously and infinitely, eternally incomplete. Most people offer most of their vibration in response to what they are observing. So then, because observing good things makes you feel good, and observing bad things makes you feel bad, then you set out as individuals and as cultures, certainly as governments, you set out to try to control the circumstances because you've already proven to yourself that attention to that good feeling thing makes me feel good, and attention to that bad feeling thing makes me feel bad. So I guess we should just all, you say, control the circumstances so that we can feel good about more things. And then you battle endlessly about the way those conditions should be. Don't you? "This is my land." "No, this is my land." "No, this was my idea." "No, this was my idea." And as you scramble around battling with one another, without even meaning to, you hold yourselves outside of your vortex of creation. And you disallow, by your attention to what is, everything that you've put there, everything that you own, everything that you deserve, everything that you're worthy of, everything that's queued up for you, everything that has been assembled. All the cooperative components to everything that you've been asking for have already been assembled. You are the only missing component. So the question that we really want to get to the heart of, as we are chewing together today, is: Are you a cooperative or an uncooperative component? And here's an easy way to know it. If you're frisky, you're cooperative. If you're honory, you're uncooperative. If you're happy, you're cooperative. If you're unhappy, you're uncooperative. If you're joyful, you're cooperative. If you're pessimistic, you're not cooperative. If you're honory, you're not cooperative. If you're overwhelmed, you're not very cooperative. If you're fearful, you are so uncooperative. And many of you would say, "But I have reason for my fear." And we say, "Doesn't matter. You're uncooperative to your own cause." "But I have reason to feel this way. I've been watching CNN, and I, and I know what's going on. You want me to be oblivious?" And we say to that, "We want you to be oblivious to the things that make you feel honory, that make you feel fearful, that make you feel unhappy, that make you feel pensive, that make you feel angry. We want you to be oblivious to them while you are aware of things that make you feel better." But we've never known anyone who could just withdraw your attention from something, because first of all, your attention to it is the reason it's close by. And the reason it's close by is the reason you're giving it your attention. Sort of a cycle of attraction. And have you noticed that cooperative components are being assembled around whatever attitude you have about anything? Do you know that you could pick some subject that you're really bothered by and start talking about it, and before you know it, other people, even strangers that you've never talked with about this before, would suddenly be talking to you about that. And then all kinds of evidence showing you that you are a cooperative component of unwanted things would begin showing up in your experience. This law of attraction is so consistent and will give you constant feedback about what's going on with you. So it is really true that you get what you think about. You are source energy, and a part of you came forth into this physical body. And when, in this physical body, sorting through contrast, you ask for something more, the larger part of you becomes it. And this is the story that you want to give your attention to. We want you to understand that when you get it that there is a vortex of creation that is spinning, that includes all that you are, that holds with it the energy of source, and when you take the time to line up with it, then you begin to understand that the only thing that is happening to you ever is that you are letting yourself be all that you've become, or not. That really is the only story that's going on. Because if life hadn't caused you to expand, you're not going, it would not make you feel negative emotion. The only reason that you ever feel negative emotion is because life caused you to cause the source within you to hold a different, broader, bolder, bigger, lovelier stance of being, and you, in your attention to whatever you're giving your attention to while you have negative emotion, is not letting you get up to speed with all that you have become. Creation. Everything that you feel, every emotion that you feel, and everything that is happening to you is happening only because of your relationship with who life has caused you to become and your allowing it or not. So rather than spending a lot of time talking about all of these points of attraction that could be going on, there are people who are sick with this disease, and people who are sick with that disease, and people who are having this trauma and this trauma. All kinds of things happening in the scope of human events. You look around, you see it all. But none of that is consequential. What is consequential is this vortex and your relationship to it. If your vortex is spinning, as it is, and you are holding yourself in fear or anger, you're so far from your vortex that there is a contradiction within you that has this really strong negative energy moving through you, and you don't feel good. When you get over into the vicinity of hope, closer to your vortex, you feel so much better because there's less resistance within you. And when you get into the vicinity of hope, your vortex will frequently take you in. And when you get in, oh, you're going to have a good ride. That's that feeling of elation. The best feeling in the world is moving into the vortex. The exhilaration that you feel, the feeling of passion. And of course, once you get into the vicinity of hope on several subjects, and your vortex takes you in, now inside this vortex, where you have clear view, now you begin to understand. You begin to know. You begin to believe and know. And that is an emotion that we don't have to tell you. You know, is sublime. That feeling of knowing your value and worthiness. So, here's the easiest way to explain this to you from a basis of universal laws. And as you understand this, then everything that you're living, or everything that you're watching anyone else live, will begin to make sense to you. So here's the best way of explaining this. You are more than you see here in these physical bodies. You are source energy. And before you came into these physical bodies, you were source energy. And even though you are here focused in these physical bodies, there is a larger part of you who is focused in the non-physical. Now, many of you have been calling that part of you God. But we want you to understand that there is a vibrational attitude of you that exists in the non-physical while you are here focused in this physical body, who is the holder of all that you have become. Certainly the holder of all that you were before you were born into this physical body, but the holder now of everything that you have expanded to since being here. In other words, when someone was rude to you, you wanted a nicer world. And when you ask your inner being, the source energy part of you embraced that idea and held the idea of it purely for the creation of it. When you don't have enough wellness in your body, and so you ask for more wellness, that non-physical part of you takes that idea and holds steady the vibrational attitude of that. Everything that you know that is now physically focused was at one time prior to the manifestation vibration. And vibration is the beginning of everything that you know that is manifested. So it is important to realize that when you don't have enough of something and you ask for more of it, you send forth, we're not kidding you, even a little bit, a vibrational rocket that the source energy part of you holds and becomes. That's why we can tell you unequivocally that when you ask, it is given every single time. When you ask, it is not just given. When you ask from your physical format and you send forth a rocket of desire, the non-physical part of you embraces that desire and becomes it. And because everything is vibrational before it is manifested, you have to understand that that vibrational beingness is done. In other words, the precursor to the manifestation is already in place. So now what happens is that law of attraction responds to this powerful vibrating force that is really who you are. You sometimes think that when you ask for more money, you are the creator of more money. But it is much bigger than that. You are the creator of you, a more prosperous you. When you ask for a relationship, you might think that you are the creator of a relationship. But what you are the creator of is you within the relationship that you are desiring. In other words, we cannot find a stronger way of saying this. And so, we're just going to leave it to you to hear it. We'll say it many, many, many times. You are the creator of your reality, which means you are the creator of you. You are the creator of you and your experience and your relationships and your body and your prosperity and your clarity. You are the creator of your relationship with everything that exists. You are the creator of your reality. And we, so in these hours that we are together today, want to draw your attention to this vortex of creation. Because every time you know what you don't want and you ask with greater clarity about what you do want, you add to this beingness that the source within you holds steady to. And law of attraction gathers. And these are the most important words you will ever hear: all cooperative components. So you have a vortex of creation, an assembly of all things wanted, circumstances and events, other people, attitude, information, everything that is necessary to satisfy the questions you're asking, the problems you're looking for solutions for, the creations you're creating, everything is being assembled for you. In fact, vibrationally speaking, it is done. If we can get you to accept the reality of this vibrational reality, and if we can attract your attention from the reality that you are counting as reality. In other words, you often don't want to count it until it's manifested. You don't want to count your money until it's in your bank. You don't want to count your lover till in your bed. You don't want to count your prosperity or well-being until it is manifested where all can see it. And we want you to learn to see through the eyes of source. We want you to come into, vibrationally speaking, your vortex of creation so that you can know your prosperity in the moment that it is a vibrational reality. And once we are able to, you might say, distract you from the reality that has so much of your attention and call you into the vibrational reality that is the precursor of your next reality, you're going to break loose into a whole new creating pattern. Things that have been log-jammed for a long time are going to loosen up for you. When you want something, let's say more money, and you are so aware of how much money you have, and so aware of what your debt-to-income ratio is, and so aware of what's going on in the economy, or so aware of the reality of what is right now, this red-hot. Even though you've asked for far more, and far more is queued up for you, and could come to you now, now, now, now, now, because it's done, done. All you have to do is find the vibrational equivalency to it, and it must pour into your experience in a way that you and others can see it. But you've got to be a vibrational match to it, not the absence of it. And the tricky thing about being the realest that you've been objectively trained to be is that when you truthfully tell it like it is right now, and train your vibration into that thought, which makes it that belief, which makes it that expectation, which makes it that point of attraction, you hold yourself away from your fortune that is waiting for you, only because of a little sloppy focusing, or maybe because you don't understand the laws of the universe. Scientists are talking a lot, especially these days, about how much of your consciousness, they're calling it brain, you are actually utilizing, and they've determined that it's not that much. And we want you to understand that your brain is not a storage cabinet. It's not where your experiences have been stored. You are a transmitting and receiving mechanism. You are a vibrational interpreter. And your consciousness is about vibration. So when you focus yourself on some subject, on some condition, on some reality, on something that is important to you, as you give your attention to it, you offer a vibration. Whether you call it thought or energy or belief, it's all vibration. It's all what you are doing with your focusing mechanism here and now. And the only thing that you ever need to hear or understand or practice, the only thing that matters in order for you to fulfill your reason for being and to live happily ever after, you got to understand the relationship between the non-physical vibration that is you, that is always vibrating, and you in your physical form. In other words, it's the matching or the mismatching of the vibrational frequencies of these two important perspectives that equal you. If you were really tuned in to who you are, there would be one frequency. It's the frequency of who you are, not a frequency of wanted and belief. When you want something that you doubt, you've got two frequencies going on. And the reason that you have two frequencies going on is because in the moment you identify something as a desire, the larger part of you becomes fixated on that desire. So when the larger part of you is focused upon what you want, but you are in any moment in time focused upon its absence or its unlikelihoodness. So when you get it that you are an extension of source, and that in every moment you have a relationship with that source, then life becomes easier because your guidance becomes clearer. And when your guidance is clear, and we want to be very clear about what that guidance is about, it's not about someone thinking you should do something different, or that you should be something different. It's about you having to find who you want to be, and the guidance within you just helping you feel the path of most allowance, which is the same thing as the path of least resistance to that. You're sort of following what we're getting at. You are the one who has sifted through life, who has defined who you really are and what you really want. And then the source within you is just holding that frequency steady so that you can feel your way to it. So we want you to understand that through your life, you have defined, even without words, often at every level of your being, improvements. You were born to do that. You came into this physical time-space reality with a very clear intention of sifting through in order to determine your personal preferences and improvements. But that's only a small part of the equation, because defining it and being a vibrational match to it are two different things. And your words, no matter how much you say the words of what you want, the universe is not hearing your words. The universe is responding to your vibration. An easy way to understand that is the universe isn't listening to what you say you want. The universe is responding to your vibrational practice about it. So if you really want something, but you really doubt it, and the dominant vibration within you is "it's not working and I don't know how to make it work," and the feeling within you is one of being lost about it, the universe cannot deliver to you a path that's going to be an easy path to it because you've got a frequency going on that is making it not possible for you to realize the path. Seth, you want to know about Seth? Seth told Rob and Jane and Jerry and Esther, especially Jerry, devoured those books later on, that you create your own reality. Those were the words that Jane coined in response to what Seth was transmitting to her. You create your own reality. And today, we would like to say to you that yes, indeed, you create your own reality. But there's a word that we would like to insert that will make it easier for you to understand. You create your perception of reality. You create your perspective of reality. You create your vibrational ability to see reality. You realize reality based upon what you are doing vibrationally. So, have you ever watched a documentary, or have you ever been in the experience yourself where you were an eyewitness to something that someone else was an eyewitness to? And since you were an eyewitness to it, you have a perspective of what happened. And as you explain your perspective, you're sure you're right because you saw what you saw. You perceived it. And then someone else explained what they saw. And what they saw was something different than what you saw. And you're sure they're lying because what you saw is very valid and real to you. If there is anything that we would like to present to you in a way, and find enough analogies and examples to help you really get it, something that would serve you better than all other things put together that you will ever hear from us or anyone else, it would be that your perspective is uniquely yours. And if you could give up your determination to explain yourself in enough different ways to get other people to see it the way you see it, oh, life would begin being sweet for you right now. If you could just accept that everybody gets to create their version of reality, and that you will waste your life in trying to get them to accept your version, because the life that they have lived and the vibration that they're offering is the reason that they see it as they see it, can live in the same community and have two very different lives. And what most of you say is, "Well, of course we live different lives. That guy lives in a mansion and I don't. Of course, his perspective is different than mine. That guy inherited money from his daddy and I didn't. Of course, we have different perspectives. That person was born da da da da da da da da da." As you try to explain why you are not all living the same, you miss the only point that matters. You have different perceptions of reality over which you have complete control. But most humans do not exercise any control over your perception of reality because you're so busy dividing and defining and cataloging and pigeonholing reality into different piles and placing judgment upon it. Oh, that's a bad thing. Let's put all those bad things over there. And those bad things over there. And they're different in their badness, but they still, they're bad things. And as you spend that natural time defining whether you want it or not, you also, without meaning to, practice the vibrational frequency of the very things that you put in the bad piles. And then, because it's part of your vibration, it prevents you from discovering the good piles because your vibration's all wrapped up in what's in the bad piles. And then, we love you so much. You know what's coming next after that statement. And then you look to something outside of you to make the difference. You look for someone else to fix it. It started with your mother or your father or someone up close to you. "Please change this condition. There is a, a condition in my reality that I see that I don't like. And when I look at that condition, I feel bad. And I don't want to feel bad." That's the first thing you knew about yourself. You don't like feeling bad. So when you're looking at a condition and you feel bad, and you associate feeling bad with that condition, then of course it's logical. We get it why you want that condition to change. But you are not the boss of those conditions. You are not the creator of someone else's reality. You cannot control the conditions. You are the creator of your own reality. So in your physical format, have you run across the concept or the notion of unconditional love? Been hearing it. A lot of people talk about it. Hardly anybody gets it. Most think that unconditional love means look at a condition that is horrible and love it. So you need a lot of practice at that. But you can't look at unwanted and be a vibrational match to wanted. So you're never able to accomplish that. That's what makes you want to define things and explain things. But we want you to understand that what unconditional love is. We're going to make it easier for you. Unconditional love. Unconditional clarity. Unconditional appreciation. Unconditional alignment. Because love and appreciation and clarity and eagerness and all of those words that describe good feeling, they all mean alignment with source. And that's what love is. Alignment, pure alignment, non-resistance. So unconditional love or clarity is about being in love or clarity. We have enjoyed this interaction immensely. But the words unconditional love are not just a goal for you to accomplish. It is also the process by which to accomplish it all. In the sentence, unconditional love means love. We've enjoyed this interaction immensely. It means, do you know what it means? Can you feel what it means? It means withdrawing your attention from the condition that prevents the love. Unconditional love means there are conditions that you love, and there are conditions that you don't love. But when you train yourself to sift and sort for the best conditions, you train yourself to be a conditional liver. You're looking at conditions, and if there are good conditions, you feel wonderful. Well, if they're not good conditions, you feel terrible. But then you have no control because your reality is full of conditions. Have you noticed there are conditions everywhere? Don't turn on the television. Whatever you do, it will bring a myriad of conditions to you. The television news networks, they scour the planet for things that they know will frighten you. And they dramatize them, and they put them on 24-hour cycles, and they put music behind them. They bring them right into your living room, and they say, "Practice unconditional love." And we say, "You just can't look at that stuff without the opinion of your source about it rising in a vibrational frequency that will let you know where you are in relationship with it." You see, so unconditional love means you got to decide that first and foremost, you want to be in alignment. And if it requires withdrawing your attention from conditions that don't allow your alignment, then so be it. That's what unconditional love is. It's caring more about love than about pursuing the conditions. It's about caring more about alignment or love, appreciation, clarity, than being right. That's hard to take, isn't it? When you decided to come forth into this physical body, you did not say, "I'll go forth. I'll be born, splat, and I will find the right way of living, and I will convince others to come that way with me." You didn't say anything like that. You said, "Oh, what a wonderful world this is. The diversity of this time-space reality will provide for me the most wonderful format for new ideas to be born within me that can be realized by me. Not new ideas that can be born within me that I will then take everyone else by the hand and show them the error of their ways and the rightness of my ways." Not one of you said that. You were aligned with source then. Felt a lot better before that happened. If this condition were different than it is, then I would feel better. Maybe so. But if your feeling better is contingent upon that condition changing right before your eyes, you're in deep doodoo because there is a momentum to all things. Things don't just happen. There is a momentum about them. Law of attraction and momentum are the same word. Law of attraction says that which is likened to itself is drawn. So when you give your attention to something, you activate a vibration within you about it, and things like that then are coming to you. And once you cross the 17-second mark, you've got some momentum going. Once you are 17, 17 seconds, 17 seconds, and you cross the 68-second mark, you've got enough momentum going that without a conscious decision about it, it's going to take off for a little while until you sleep. And the nice thing about sleeping is when you sleep, momentum stops. You can pick it right up, and usually do, the next day, but you don't have to. We want to teach you to control your alignment with your broader perspective, because that's where your happiness is. The success that you're seeking is alignment. But then we have to say to you that once you consistently find that alignment, the conditions of your life will meld and mold and become vibrational matches to the frequency that you are predominantly offering. We're eager to talk with you about anything that matters to you. There is nothing that is off limits here. It is our absolute expectation that there will be a big-time vibrational energy adjustment for each of you if you want it. In other words, that's what happens in these forums because we stand in a place of vibrational alignment with who you really are. And in this atmosphere, it's really conducive to you finding the atmosphere that puts you in that state of allowing that movement from vibration into reality. And do you sort of get it that it's a realizing thing? That it's a realizing thing. It's a timing thing. It's being in the right place at the right time, which is a realizing thing. In other words, if you get an impulse to go somewhere and you hold back because of some responsibility that you feel about something else, so you don't go, that's not good timing. But if you feel a passion, compelling desire to move in the direction of something and you go, you will rendezvous with all that you were feeling as you felt that compelling, passionate impulse to go. So, we're talking about vibration. Yeah. Blah blah blah blah blah. We know how you feel about that. And we're talking about law of attraction. Law of attraction. Important to understand when you're talking about vibration. Blah blah blah blah blah. You know about law of attraction. Tired of talking about law of attraction and vibration. But now we are talking about vibration and law of attraction and momentum. Esther's standing at the top of the hill in San Francisco looking down. She can't believe cars actually drive on those hills. Imagine your car's perched up there. You take it out of gear, the parking brakes off, and you say, "I wonder what would happen if I just bumped this car just a little bit. Wonder what would happen." Well, you don't wonder very long because you know what would happen because you know about gravity. You know about the momentum in gravity, don't you? So, you bump it a little and it starts to move, and then you think, "Oh, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. Never mind." And you stand right out in front of it and you let it bump up against you, and it stops right there. Easy to stop momentum in the early stages, isn't it? But you wouldn't want to be down there at the bottom of that hill, trying to, "Never mind, never mind, I didn't mean it," because once momentum gets going, manifestation ensues in a way that your scientists and your doctors and your statisticians and all of you who are aware of reality, as you call it, you say, "Oh, that momentum, that momentum makes this unstoppable." And we say, "Well, really, there is no momentum that is not changeable, but it is so much easier to do it in the early, subtle stages than it is after momentum ensues." So that's what we want to talk about. We want to talk about vibration. We don't want to talk about law of attraction. We want to talk about momentum. We want to talk about your guidance system. And we want you to leave this gathering all full of yourself, determined that you're going to do the thing, the only thing that matters, which is tend to your vibrational atmosphere. Do whatever it takes to get yourself in that good feeling place where you are allowing what you want to flow in. But here's the piece. Here's the piece that if you can hear this, ah, you're going to live happily ever after. It's not just creating the atmosphere that allows it to turn from thoughts to things, because that's you focused upon the outcome, isn't it? Oh yeah, if I can get that outcome, I'm willing to do it. We want you to take your eye off the manifested outcome just for a little while. That manifested, park it in the garage, put it in your bed, put it in the bank manifestation that you're looking for. We want you to step away from that big-time manifested outcome that you're looking for and focus upon an easy-to-achieve in this moment manifested outcome of, "Ooh, that thought just feels good." Because the emotion that you feel when you accomplish this atmosphere that is conducive to allowing your desires to flow seamlessly, non-resisted into your reality, feels so good as it's happening. It's the emotion we want you to go for, because the emotion you can accomplish now. The other outcome is going to take a little bit more momentum. And when you're looking for the big outcome, we love you so much. You know what's coming next. You usually peter out. You usually don't maintain your stance. If you say, "I'll be happy." And a lot of you do. "I'll be happy when I move into my dream house. And I'll be happy when I find my lover. And I'll be happy when I get enough money. I'll be happy when the kids leave home." Well, I'll be happy. I'll be happy. I'll be happy when. And we say, you're holding yourself in a place of suspended not-happiness if your happiness is dependent upon those conditions. So you've been hearing people talk about unconditional love for a long time, but hardly anybody gets it. Most everybody's living a very conditional love. "I'll be happy. I'll feel love. I'll feel good. I'll."
feel alignment when that condition has manifested. And we say that is so backwards. If you need the condition before you can feel good, then what are you going to do about the conditions that haven't yet manifested? You got to find a way to unconditionally feel good. You got to find a way to unconditionally feel good.
So when you think a thought, law of attraction brings you another one like it. If you think that thought for 17 seconds and you begin to feel the momentum of that thought, think another thought, hold that thought there, another thought joins it and another and another until you have substantial momentum. And when you hold those thoughts about what you want without the contradictory thought of where is it, when's it going to come, I don't know how this is going to work out. When you aren't doing that, but you are just focused upon what you want, and we'll talk a lot today about how to accomplish that, then your thoughts proceed with law of attraction's help in an unwavering, unwling fashion.
But if you think about what you want a little and then you notice that it isn't there, while you're not thinking both of those thoughts at the same time because you can't, you're pretty fast at the way you think. I want it bad. I want it bad. I want it bad. I want it but I want it but. So I want it but you are introducing into your habit of thought into your atmosphere that you are creating what we are wanting to call the wobble factor. I want it but little wobble in the early stages of little desires. Sort of kind of want that and I sort of kind of don't believe it. And there's sort of kind of a little wobble here. But if you want it and doubt it a little and want it and doubt a little and want it and doubt a little and want it and doubt it, pretty soon those thoughts have grown in your habit of thought and now you've got a big time wobble going on, don't you? That big- time wobble going on is the one that we're talking about that then it takes so much effort. You try so hard. You really, really want to create your own reality. We know that you do. But we want to show you how to do it in a much easier fashion. We want to show you how to take the wobble out early on. We want to help you to understand what unconditional love, what unconditional alignment, unconditional wobblefreeness really is all about. It's about focus, but it's about focusing and feeling. And it's about finding a way to stop beating upon yourself for what's not done. It's about not beating up on anybody else for whatever is going on, too. It's about caring so much about your stability, about your alignment, about your alignment with who you are.
We've done a pretty good job here today, just now, of convincing you that your work is the art of allowing. the art of allowing yourself a frequency that allows what you've asked for to flow easily into your experience in perfect timing so that the path is just unfolding and unfolding and people will be watching you and they'll say, "Oh, what's going on with you? You feel like you got something good going on. You feeling ease or something. It's like you're not worried about anything anymore." And you say and really mean, there is nothing for me ever to worry about ever because things are always working out for me. They always have been, but now they really are because I'm out of my own way. Well, what do you mean? They'll say, "Well, it's a long story." Well, tell it to me. Well, there's this law. It's called law of attraction. And so, we talked to you about law of attraction. We told you it was a powerful law. And we said to you, you get what you think about whether you want it or not. And we said to you, you can tell by the way you feel whether what you are thinking about is what you want or whether it is the absence of what you want. And then we began to explain to you that there is a vibrational reality that is the precursor of all manifested reality. It's the vibrational version. It's the version you practice in your mind. It's the version that you practice through living of life. It's a vibrational version. You are spinning off this vortex. this vortex of powerful positive creation because when you know what you don't want, you know what you do want. If you're rude, you want to be nice. If someone is rude, you want them to be nice. If you have not enough of something, you want it. The contrast helps you launch these rockets all day, every day. And we want you to understand that there's a vibrational version of what you desire that is a reality. It is a vibrational reality that the source within you, that non-physical part of you, that part of you that remains non-physical, that continuous eternal non-physical part of you, that stands in non-physical support of everything that you are. That non-physical part of you stands with that vibrational reality that you have crafted in part before you even came into this physical body because there was certainly a trajectory who stands now as the further culmination of everything that you have asked for. everything that you have singularly or collectively asked for. There is a vibrational reality about your world the likes of which humans have not yet seen. But you have the potential of seeing any one of you as you begin to stop doing that thing you do that holds you in resistance to this vibrational reality and therefore begin to allow yourself to be a vibrational match to your own vibrational vortex of creation.
Now, if you've been listening to us for a while, you heard all of that. In fact, you've heard it and heard it and heard it. There was a book written, a New York Times best-selling book on every one of those topics that we just talked about. And the most recent one was the vortex. The vortex. We said to you, "Get in the vortex. Get in the vortex. Do your best to get in the vortex. Get in the vortex. Get in the vortex. Get in the vortex." And finally, you said, "How? You've convinced me that I want to be there. You've convinced me that it's the place to be. You've convinced me that when I am there, good things happen to me, but I'm not that sure how to get in." And we say, you do it by finding thoughts that feel good and practicing them until they are your chronic pattern. That's how you maintain that. So then we've moved a little beyond in explanation as we now have you convinced say yes or don't. Coercion is so satisfying and flies in the face of everything we know about law of attraction. So your vortex of creation is moving and gathering and the source within you is there with it and everything is queued up for your realization. But what does it take for you to be in a place where you realize and by realize we don't just mean you sort of see it in your mind. We mean you fully realize it. How does it move from a vibrational reality where you can feel it and sense it and be glad for it and oh that's a wonderful state of being? We want you all there all the time. But how does it move from that vibrational reality where you sense it, where you trust it, where you have faith about it and where you can now see it and hear it and smell it and taste it and touch it in the way that others can see it and hear it and smell it and taste it and touch it. How does it move from that vibrational reality that you are conjuring and creating all day every day into what you want to call real life experience? And that really is what the subject of the art of allowing is. It's really what the subject of understanding your point of attraction is. It's really about what the subject of waking up in the morning and realizing that while you slept, your momentum subsided. Oh, so good to know. Most of you don't receive the benefit of that subsided momentum because when you wake up, you pick up the subjects where they were yesterday and start talking about them again right away. Tweet, tweet, tweet, tweet, tweet, tweet, tweet. Blog. Let's see. Who can I call that hates that guy as much as I do? [laughter] We have enjoyed this interaction more than words can describe. And from our perspective, which is all knowing, we pronounce this the best of every subject that we talked about here today. [applause] You are powerful creators and life is supposed to be good for you and it is our absolute expectation that the evidence of that pushing the reset button is as soon for you as right now. There is great love here for you. And as always, we remain stubbornly eternally in the vortex. [applause]
You really mean it. When you say that my feeling good and my feeling bad is only about me related to me, >> you you could use a lot of different excuses. People say, "I'm sad because my lover left." And we say, "No, you're not. Oh, I'm sad because my lover left. We say, "No, you're not." They say, "Wait, I wasn't sad. My lover left. Now I'm sad. I'm sad because my lover left." No, you're you're sad because you're not in alignment with who you are. And you may be attributing it to that. But you have control. You don't have control over whether your lover leaves, but you have control over the direction of your thought. And the way you feel is about the direction of your thought. You have the ability to focus in ways that you have not exercised. Too many people are dependent on the behavior of too many others which you can't control. And then it puts you in this uncomfortable position of needing to be true control freaks in order to feel good. And then as your world gets bigger, you find that there are too many moving parts and you find less ability to control. And so then it all begins to break down as the moving parts become more numerous. where when you get it, when you decide early on or as soon as you can that you're going to stop trying to control the uncontrollable, which is everything that everybody else is doing, even doing with you. Stop trying to control the uncontrollable and control the only thing you can control, which is your relationship with your vortex. You'll be joyful. And then the cooperative components will come and match you and you'll find all kinds of people in your life lovely to be with and play with. You see, let's offer this one strong statement because we haven't said it before. Let law of attraction do all of the controlling and you just adjust your vibration. So, you have to stop looking at what you don't want and start looking at what you do want. But we've never known anybody who could just stop doing that. You have to start doing something else. And that's the whole point. You want to focus yourself into the vortex. And we know that the fast way in is to just care about how you feel. When you get in there, everything you want is in there.
>> So some of these processes that you describe feel like effort. And the effort doesn't feel good.
>> But you see, it always takes effort. And let's talk about why it takes effort. And let's just tell it like it is. Focus is effort because law of attraction will hold you to your dominant vibration. So if I've been beating the drum of I don't have enough money and I've been noticing evidence of not having enough money and in my noticing that I don't have enough money, I activate a vibration so it keeps me in that position of not having enough money. Then to think about having more money is not as easy as noticing that I don't have enough money. It takes effort to imagine beyond what is. That's really what we're talking about. It's easy. It's like it's easy to turn on the television and watch what they're offering. It's more difficult to think your own thought. It's easy to just hear what someone's saying to you. It's more difficult to guide the conversation in a more positive direction. It's easy to observe. It's more difficult to focus. And yet, there is so much more reward in focusing than there is in just observing. So most people have trained themselves. You have patterns of thought about money. You have patterns of thought about your body. You have patterns of thought about teachers. You have patterns of thought about government. You have patterns of thought about ecology. You have patterns of thought about medicine. You have patterns of thought about animals. You have patterns of thought about cats. You have patterns of thoughts about dogs. Some of you like dogs and don't like cats. Some of you like cats and don't like dogs. You have patterns of thoughts about all kinds of things. A pattern of thought just meaning a thought that you thought. Maybe your mother thought it and she thought it and spoke it and then you thought it and listened and then doesn't matter where the thought got started, but you've got an active vibration about a lot of different subjects. So let's say your active vibration about the subject of something that you want improvement in. Let's say your active thought is that we are in the middle of a financial crisis. And let's say that your active thought is that costs are going up and incomes are going down and the government is trying to fix it, but there are so many moving parts that they even the best of them are in a state of confusion. And so that's your active thought that you've talked about it, you've thought about it, you've listened, you've reasoned it out. That's your active thought. Well, it takes discipline to think a different thought. And many people would say, "It's not just that it takes discipline to think an improved thought, Abraham. I don't want to think an improved thought because I've been trained to tell it like it is. I've been trained to face reality, to tell the truth." So now this vibration, this reason that it's harder to think a different thought has many layers of reasons. My mother told me to always tell her exactly the truth. And I don't always do it, but I feel guilty every time I don't. So I I've trained myself into this thought. And now it's difficult to think a thought that's different. And we want to say, [gasps] oh, hear this. The only reason that it's harder to think the optimistic thought about the subject that you've been pessimistic about is because the habit of thought has a vibration active within you. And law of attraction's holding you there. Law of attraction's holding you there. Law of attraction is giving you other thoughts that match it. Law of attraction's bringing you to people who think the same thing. Law of attraction is bringing evidence to you to support your belief. In other words, of course, it's hard because reality has been formulating around it. And you believe your reality. And oh, did you just hear that? You believe that reality. And we want you to believe this reality. We want you to believe the vibrational reality. We want you to believe the reality of the whole of you. You see, and when these two realities merge, and the only way these, this is so good. The only way these two realities can merge is if you come this way into your vortex. Because your vortex is never going to merge with this reality. If the source within you would merge with sickness, your planet would be sick and dead soon. If the source within you would merge with economic decline, it would be over for you. In other words, there would be endedness. But that's not ever going to happen because the whole system is such that the source within you holds the leading edge position that is achieved by your asking from the contrast that you live. Are you getting that? When you know what you don't want, you ask for improvement. And improvement becomes the new order of the day. and the new ones being born and all the new energy coming in all come from that vantage point. We've all got a perpetual well-being thing going on here that no matter how negative any one of you get, you cannot disrupt the system. All you can do is pinch yourself off and have an unpleasant time for a while until you croak and then you're right back in the game again. You see,
>> and in those instances in which I actually feel good or bad, then it's about me to me.
>> When you recognize how you feel, then you are taking responsibility for what's happening. In other words, when we first began expressing in this way, it was delightful to watch Esther because when something really wonderful would happen, she would say, "I did that."
>> And when something not wonderful would happen, she would say, "I did that." And there was something empowering about knowing that since she did it, she could do it a different way if she chooses to. But it's easy to forget because there are so many moving parts. It's so easy to give other people credit for the way they behave. [laughter]
>> That's sort of what feels logical to you, but it isn't logical because the way they're behaving to you always matches your expectation. people will raise or lower to the level of your expectation. And that's why sometimes it's hard to focus yourself into a new place. As we say, you've been thinking that way. You've been getting feedback, which is why you think that way, so you get feedback, which is why you think that way, which is so you get feedback. It's just a spiral of attraction. You see, but only when you care about how you feel. So you start directing your thoughts based upon how they feel rather than upon the reality. Esther will say, "Abraham, but it's true." Not so much anymore, but she tried it for a while. But Abraham, but it's true. You got to give me that. And we say, don't use the truth of something as your criteria for your focus. Because there are all kinds of things that are true that you don't want to keep active in your vibration. There is a rampant active vibration around the world and especially in your planet that said times are financially hard. And as long as you keep beating that drum, the stuff that's queued up for you in your escrow, in your vibrational reality, will be slowed down because your thinking that times are hard puts you in a place of disallowing them. Meanwhile, there are people who are accustomed to thriving in all times that are making out like bandits. And then you say, "That's wrong. You're not supposed to thrive in this hard economy. We're all supposed to suffer in this suffering economy." We say, "Hear what you're saying. You want to praise success everywhere you see it. You want to praise thriving everywhere you see it. You want to tune yourself to thriving, not to failing. You see, you can tell by the way you feel how the source within you is looking at it. Source within you is not worried about this economy. And when you do, you feel bad. But you don't feel bad because you're worrying about the economy. You feel bad because you're separating yourself from source who does not worry about the economy and using worrying about the economy as your excuse to separate yourself from source. You're not ever going to look at the absence of something that you want and feel good. It's just that simple. You cannot look at lack and be in alignment with who you are. You cannot criticize and be in alignment with who you are. You cannot be mad at somebody and be in alignment with who you are. You cannot be afraid of anything and be in alignment with who you are. A battle against anything is a battle against you.
>> Yes,
>> that's the best way of saying it. battle against anything is a battle against your alignment. That's it. That's it. That's the only thing you have to know. Oh, and think, while it's a little difficult to wrap your thoughts around this because it's not the way many of you have been thinking, we got to tell you, it's a whole lot easier than getting all those moving parts to line up.
So, let's see. So, Iraq is a mess. And they weren't a mess before, but now they're a mess. And maybe it's our fault that they're a mess, but they had problems and we wanted to straighten them out and and now we've just made it worse. But now Iran, right next to Iraq, they they've never gotten along with each other. And and I don't really understand why they've not gotten along with each other. It goes really far back deep. They probably don't even really know what it is, but they're sort of pitted against one another. And now it looks like we're sort of going to be swept into that. And then Israel, Israel, I don't really understand what's going on over there. And then the Palestinians, I don't know whose land it really was to begin with. And I don't know why they want to live there when there's so many other places that they could live. And I don't know why this little piece of land is so important to them. And I and I don't know why we're all so supportive of them and why we're not more supportive of that. I don't know how to get them talking to each other. It seems like if they could all just get along, but it doesn't look like they're going to get along. And we send emissaries over there and they don't seem to understand it. It's just too big. It goes too deep. And this is our uh 50th year of of really trying to involve ourselves in it. And it it is getting bigger and getting worse. And there have been many many hundreds of thousands of people that have died in this conflict. And I don't really understand what any of them thought about it. And I don't know what to do about it. And and I know that there are a lot of people that I love that are over there that are working on it and trying to do something about it. And I know they all have their perspective, but I don't know how broad their perspective really is. I don't know how much those soldiers that have gone to really fix it really understand about all I don't know how much they get to really talk to the people that are there. I don't really know what the Iraqi people are really thinking or feeling. I don't think they really like us very much. I think they would like us to leave and yet I think they're afraid that if we leave that things will get worse and and I don't know. I don't know. I thought I voted for someone who was going to do something different about it, but I don't know what he was dealing with. I don't know what who said to him when he got there. But it seems to me that what he said before he was elected and what he's doing after he was elected was not really the same thing. And I sure would like to talk to him about it, but I don't think there's much chance that I'm ever going to get to talk to him about it. I'm not even sure if he really has a clear idea of what to do about it. But there just so many. And we say just kill me now. [laughter] How you ever going to sort that all out? Now, let's talk about Michael Jackson's death. So, [laughter] how you going to sort that out? How you going to sort that out? How could you ever sort that out? And really, don't you just want to go in the vortex? Don't you Don't you want to just leave them all to whatever they're creating and just go into Now, here's what happens when you go into your vortex. When you see people afraid of bombs dropping on them, you ask for a world that is more peaceful. When you see children suffering, you ask for a better life for them. When you see intolerant people speaking only of one right way to live, you ask for a more diverse and understanding world, you have created something so magnificent in your vibrational reality. And all of your attention to all of that stuff that holds you apart from what you've created keeps you from being the whole being that you are. You see, trying to control the uncontrollable keeps you outside of your vortex. And these simple processes of wanting to feel good and reaching for the thought that does and reaching for the thought that does and reaching for the thought that does until it does and then holding to the thought that did feel good and holding to it and holding to it until you have activated and trained yourself into that vibration until you become a vibrational match to the better world that you are asking for. The better world cannot show itself to you. But in the moment you become a vibrational match to the better world that you're asking for, it'll show up here and here and here and here. You'll rendevous with those on the same wavelength. When you try to talk to anyone who's on a different wavelength, it's just blah blah blah blah blah. How unsatisfying. You express your truth, they express theirs. Nobody hears anybody. It's just more combat. Oh, we might as well just drop bombs on them because we don't understand them and they don't understand us. But when you get into the vortex, now cooperative components assemble.