House of Prosperity - Session 4

That Mother Nature, God, the universe, they have heard us. They received the seed. You planted those seeds however long ago. And golden fruits with crowns are worth being patient for.

Pineapple season is coming. It's coming. Hello, gorgeous people. The house of prosperity. We have such a big call today. This one is really starting to move things. Um, I'm starting to see what I was hoping I was going to see in the program. So, we're going to be able to really start plugging in here. Some people are coming in in the middle of the night. Joining posts surgery. Oh my gosh. Taylor, I'm sending so much love to all the vibes. I just saw the pearl balloon on my stars.

Okay. So, okay. We're gonna actually start with that. We're going to start with that. Um, oh, Kimberly's here. I love you, Kimberly. Okay. So, this is what I want you to answer for me in the comment section. First of all, who has started documenting? And be really honest. If you're going to say yes, it's because you're really doing it in the top kind of way. If you're not really doing it, but you kind of say no. Okay. Yes means yes. You're satisfied. Who has started documenting their life more on social media, who has started really kind of showing up and saying like, this is what's going on.

Okay. So, what I want to know, those of you who are doing it, so we're going to start with people who are doing it, what are you noticing about doing it? What's happening? How are you feeling? So the people who are doing it are feeling fulfilled, feeling calm, it's changing the way I experience my world. Okay, only in stories for now. My life feels more dynamic. I feel so much more pure. I have been showing up differently. I'm more responsible for my day. More I'm more intentionally, more intentional. I'm more express. It opens me up to more joy and more magic. My energy is shifting at star speed. I'm feeling more connected to my life. I feel more connected. I feel more connected. It feels so different to how I normally post. I feel more free. I feel more vulnerable. I feel successful. I'm building the frequency of love for my life. I have more fun showing up. The satisfaction has increased. I'm very intentional. I'm satisfied. I've noticed literally I co-create moments of beauty and joy and magic throughout the day. The energy is lighter and more joyful and more playful. Um, it's for me. I'm not doing it for anyone else. I'm accepting myself more. I feel more connected, more accountability throughout my day. It's more potent when it's for me, like my diary. Um, I keep getting interrupted with beautiful moments that I want to capture. It helps me focus on positivity and presence. Um, I'm so lit up by it and it feels so easy and fun. I feel more present, more connected. I feel more in my truth. I feel free. I feel more engagement. I feel more happy. I I know how to share more. I'm feeling more me. I feel I feel new and it feels challenging. It feels easier to share. I feel freedom. I feel more joy. I feel connected to my own life. I'm embracing the positive aspects of my life. People are treating me differently, trying to get gain context clues. I feel raw. I feel more intentional. I'm noticing I'm more present and embodied. Feeling all my emotions closer to the surface. It's super fun. I feel more present. It feels liberating and more connected and more people are noticing and responding more and more and I love how I show up more conscious. It's also changing how present I am with my husband. I experience everything differently. Highlights the awareness, the aliveness, the authenticity. I'm more creative, more ownership. So fun and takes me into the God zone. I just feel so present. I feel so grateful. Things are changing. It feels like it's happening. It's so good. I feel I shift faster. My clients are shifting faster. It seems more authentic, more true rather than posting to prove. I'm feeling more open. I feel more. I understand the energetics better. Yes. To all of this.

Okay. So, I'm seeing magic in everything. This is what happens when you do it. This is how it feels when you're doing it for the right reasons. Now, I understand that there's a lot of people that have not done it, but it's okay because I'm going to I'm going to show you two things here. So for those of you who are doing it and you're doing it and you've started entering the realization like, wait a second, there is so much beauty here even more than I thought and when I when I talk about it this way, I remember it more or I realize how beautiful this is and I'm excited that I'm I'm going to actually document it and I'm going to get to remember this or I'm excited about how I'm going to share this or it's like everything feels more beautiful, more alive, more connected, more present, more more more. It's just like, wow, wow.

Now, why this is so powerful and why it's so beautiful is that we are really doing it for ourselves. This is not something that you're doing to make other people see you, other people get you, other people validate you, other people whatever you, other people pay you, other people whatever it it's it's not for that. And this is why it changes things. Let's say that I love this. Just the fact that I have this makes me so happy. And so I look at this often throughout my day. And then I tell myself, you know what? I'm going to let myself post about how much joy I have about this thing. And so just for for fun, I see a beautiful table. At some point, I take it out and I I I take I put it on the table and then I take a picture and then the picture is beautiful. And the picture seems so satisfying for me. I look at it and I'm like, gosh, I love this. And I'm doing my makeup a little later and I do my makeup and because I feel really good about my makeup, I figure, you know what? I'm going to do a live stream. I like my makeup today. I feel good about me. I'm going to go do a live stream. And then I do a a live stream and the live stream is banging.

So, how would I normally document my life? Well, I might just share the link to my replay and say, "Hey, watch this replay." But this day, I was connected to my beautiful makeup thing. Because I took a picture of it, I ended up doing my makeup. Because I did my makeup, I liked my makeup. Because I like my makeup, I ended up doing the live. There's a lot of because of that included. So, instead of just going, "Hey, look, watch live stream." I could take the beautiful picture of the compact that I took and I could say, "Does it ever happen to you to do your makeup in a way that's just you nail it and then you feel more like you want to be on a camera because you were like, well, let's not waste this space. This is what happened to me today." And so I went I decided to go live and it turned out that it's one of my best live streams I've ever done. and you write that on the picture of the makeup.

Now, because this part is relatable and it's real and it's true, because you took the picture of the makeup that you love, because you actually did your makeup, because you did the live stream, because you actually said something that is super true. All of the people that are watching you that are human beings just totally got the human part of you. They love the picture. It draws their eye because you took it from a place of God's own. You didn't take a picture to try to think of something. You took a picture because it was beautiful. And the thing that you posted was really real, really true, and resonated with a lot of people because that's how they also feel.

Now, how often do you see p do you see things me I'm posting? I'm on a video. I'm here. I'm there. You don't watch all of them. But if I had a story that said that and the next slide was like, "Do you want to check out my awesome makeup and also listen to this live stream that's banging? Here's the link." Because you felt something about the first thing, you might actually be like, "Let's check out the makeup." And if the energy on the live stream is good, you've already got a thought about how I think the live stream was good. So then you will watch it. This all happens in the most natural way. I took the picture for me. I did the makeup for me because I felt good about me. I went live because I felt good about me and I was live and the live was good. I'm excited to share about it. But because there's a story behind it, I didn't just go live because it was a compound effect. I share the compound effect. People relate to the human. Now because you relate to me, you watch the live stream, everything works because of all of that.

But here's what people do and how they will weaponize this. They'll say, "Oh, okay. So, I need to find a way to tell people why what about what I did today was important so that they'll want to watch the live stream." You've got to you got to create no like and trust. So, write something that has and then it becomes this like cerebral strategic thing that does not have the same energy at all and it just doesn't work and you can feel it. Especially if you your your your people that you're speaking to the most are intuitive. Like I wish I could shout from the rooftops intuitive people who are selling to intuitive people. If you do not believe that they can feel when you're not genuine, they're not intuitive. And if you can't pick up on the fact that they're not picking up on your facts because you're trying to strategize the strategy, then you're not intuitive either. You're losing your magic. The minute I go into my head and I'm like, "How do I get these people to want to watch my live stream?" Oh my gosh, I have lost the plot. If I don't already think you want to watch it, why am I even recording it?

So now here's the big thing. We're not actually thinking about our people, meaning the God's own people. We're thinking of our people like the select few the Instagram algorithm has been showing my posts to lately. Plot twist. Your people are not the select few people the algorithm has been selecting for you lately before we've even had these conversations. Those are not your people. Those are the people that accidentally fell on your not so great social media presence up until now. Your people are the people that have been patiently waiting for you to emerge and to actually be yourself. They're they're somewhere lingering in the God zone. Close enough that they'll be able to feel the bat signal when you're ready and come, but far enough that when you're posting all this weird stuff, you're not burning them. Because if they saw some of the weird things you've attempted to do, they'd be like, "Uh-uh." But they haven't. You've been energetically protected. They're they're not seeing it. They're close enough that they'll get the bat signal, but they're not too close that they've seen you do things that are so out of character that they're like, "This is not my person." Cuz they are your people. So, you've it's been energetically protected. They're all there. They're just waiting for you to enter the god zone and get the signal. Ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding.

Okay. So, you no manipulation here. It doesn't work if you're trying to figure out how to make them do it. I should take a picture. You know what I'm going to do? Here's what I'm going to do. I'm going to take a picture of this makeup and then I'm going to do my makeup and then I'm going to tell them that my makeup is banging and because of that I did they should watch my live stream because that's the example Melanie gave in her program. Tomorrow 16 people have the same picture of the makeup compact and the story and the entire internet's like, Melanie and layer teaches her people strategy. She says there's no strategy but look, they're all doing the same thing. They've got makeup compacts and they're just showing people. This is not a thing. It's your real life. It's what really happened and it's actually seeing the little things and how they connect and how they create beauty.

So, let's continue. If you do the thing, the same thing, but this time you don't do it for you. So, you see this beautiful makeup compact and you think to yourself, "Gosh, that's so beautiful." And then maybe you take a picture of it, but probably not because it's yours. You see it every day. Why would you? So, you don't or you do, but then you're like, "Okay, well, I have a picture of a makeup compact in my phone. What am I supposed to do with that?" And then you do your makeup and your makeup looks good and it makes you feel like you want to go do a live stream. So, you do the live stream, but who cares about the makeup? You're not going to post the makeup. Nobody cares about makeup. Plus, it has nothing to do with the live stream. Don't post the makeup. And also, don't [clears throat] tell them that you thought your makeup looked banging. That's kind of what are they going to think? They'll probably think you're like full of yourself or something. So, let's not do that. Let's not tell them about that either. What What would really get them to want to watch it? Let's say let's see. Oh, what does Melanie Layer say? Oh, Melanie Anne say at Lar says she had a download. That's all. I just had a download. I'm I'm going live. You didn't have a download. Your lipstick is banging and you nailed your mascara. Let's be very honest. You suddenly feel inspired to put your face on the camera. You don't need to lie. You get to say, "Nailed my makeup. Want to be on camera." Feeling inspired. That will connect people to you more than what's the strategy? What are all the rich people saying? What are all the successful people saying? Oh my goodness. I just had the greatest download. That's not cool if it's not true. Doesn't work. You downloaded what? Plus, the people that are meant for you only feel the bat signal when you said something that's real. So, you say, "I just had a download." And the algorithm shows your not not download download to the people in the algorithm that are attracted to your not download post to try to get people to look at you because they're also trying to get stuff from everybody on the internet and you guys are all connected and then they watch and they do nothing and you say Ellen and layer strategy does not work. Nothing works. People don't care. Social media is dead. Entrepreneurship is dead and the whole thing's dead. And then someone else goes live and does very similar things, but they're all actually in the god zone with it. And then there's anger. Why does it work for them and not for me? They must be manipulating people. It must be a scam. They must be what's it called? Hypnotizing [clears throat] people with their stare. There's something about the way they're doing it.

So what we really want to do here is get clear on this. This doesn't matter to anybody unless it matters to you. So what does this mean? It will not matter to everybody no matter what. And it will not matter to anybody if it doesn't matter to you. If it matters to you then it matters. And you matter to the people you belong to. and you belong to the people who are just outside waiting for the bat signal for you to be an authentic person. So this is this matters because what starts to happen is as soon as you do what you feel like doing because you like it and you do what you feel like doing because you like it and you do what you feel like doing because you like it. And as you're doing what you're doing because it's real and it's true and you like it, the actual people feel the bat signal and you actually start receiving something that's real. you will feel so incredibly different because now you're actually receiving from doing something that you want. This is revolutionary because when you're doing when you're receiving something but you're doing something that you don't want, it's not quite the same satisfaction. It's like, okay, okay, it's working. It's working. Do it again tomorrow. But when you're doing something that you do like, you're like, wait, what? This I'm receiving from doing something I love. This is revolutionary.

Okay, we keep going. Now, let's say for example that I take a picture of this because I love this and I post it on my Facebook or my Instagram and the picture and the text makes me happy. And someone says, "Ah, I cannot believe that you purchased Christ. Those people, they're no good. That brand, it's terrible. I can't believe you buy that." If I posted it for me, I don't really care. But if I posted it for them, that could make me want to take it down. So, what's the point? I don't even want to post this anyway. I don't even want to be doing this anyway. I posted the makeup compact. I don't even use this. this. I bought it at the store because Melanie and Lair posted one and I figured that was the strategy behind the all the money. So, I bought this. I don't even use it. I took a picture of it for you because clearly that's what you want. I put I I bought this instead of buying my favorite almond milk because, you know, you got to cut cost somewhere if you're going to buy this. So, I've been drinking crappy almond milk just to have this for you. I take the picture and you're now in my inbox complaining about the brand. I quit. I'm out. No one's ever satisfied. I've had enough. That's it. It becomes completely exhausting because it's like, I don't even want to be doing this. And you are talking to me about the fact that I shouldn't be doing it, so why am I doing it? But when you love it and someone doesn't like it, you're like, I mean, I don't even know what to tell you. This is my makeup. I'm not really bothered about what you think about the brand. This is the makeup I use. So, you're welcome. I don't know. It's like a fart in the wind. Like, mine is gone. Like, it doesn't if it's it's mine. and it's like, "I don't like your I don't like your nail color." It's like, "Well, I'm obsessed with my nail color." But if you're like, "What's the nail color the internet wants me to have?" And then you choose it and they're like, "Don't love the nail color." You're like, "I didn't even want this nail color. I only chose red cuz Melanie Lair's wearing red. That must be the reason for all of her success. It's not it's not the color I wanted. Why did I choose this if it doesn't even work?" So every single thing you do because you think it's going to work when it doesn't work creates extreme frustration, bitterness, anger, it's not the vibe. It has to be what you want it to be because then when they don't like it, you go, "Well, sucks to be you. This is the best nail color in the world. This is the best makeup in the world. You are missing out and you're welcome." Like, I don't even know what to tell you. It doesn't matter. What makes it matter is that you're doing it for them and they don't get it. That's what makes it heavy.

Now, the power in all of this is that when you do it for you, you enjoy your life and the haters don't bother you so much. This is good. This is important for the internet. When you do it for them, it drains you and every time they don't like it, feels like a smack because you don't even want to be doing this in the first place. So, the energetics of this very important. The bigger picture is the more you anchor in what you love and how you love it and the way that it looks and the way that it feels and what happened and how good you feel and how grateful you are over and over and over again over and over and over again. You are compounding how you feel about your life in such a beautiful way that when someone has time in their day you are literally wondering how am I going to find the Instagram space to document all the beauty of today and someone is in your inbox saying I wouldn't have chosen that nail color. You're like, "Princess Consuela Banana Hammock 67, I really wish you to take the House of Prosperity program because I don't even have time to post all the blessings I have in my life." So, where you found the time to not like my nail color and make that a priority, I will never understand. But have a blessed day and I wish you an abundance of whatever color you prefer since this clearly is difficult for you to overcome as a general rule on the internet, people with offending offensive nail colors. So, best of luck. Like you, it would just make no sense.

So, what we really want to be doing here is making it that it would be absurd for someone to wreck your minute, your hour, your day with a comment because the thing they're [clears throat] commenting on you're obsessed with. Oh, I can't believe you drink that tea. I do daily. I can't believe you do that. This isn't good for you. You shouldn't do this. You shouldn't do that. You shouldn't do this. You shouldn't do that. Well, I'll do it twice tomorrow and I'll think of you as I cheers. You shouldn't You shouldn't drink that. You shouldn't put that in your this. You shouldn't do this. You shouldn't do this. Well, you're welcome. It doesn't matter. It's what I love. You take your all your power back. Now, here's what's happening. I'll do it twice tomorrow.

Now, here's the thing. when people don't do it. So, those of you who have been like, I haven't done it yet. I'm speaking to you. I want you to be just kind of tap into your body. I want you to tell me like, is it possible that one of the big reasons that you're not doing it is because the life that you have right now doesn't really represent the life that you want to show people. So, the feeling is kind of like, you know, right now, let's say I work a job I don't necessarily love. I've got a long commute. Um, I don't get to even wear what I'm wearing, what I love to wear. I don't get to do what I want to do. I don't have time for the things I want to do. But I know that very soon I will. I'm I'm going to build my coaching business. I'm going to build my entrepreneurship business. I'm going to start doing this. I'm going to start doing this. Maybe I'm sick. I'm not well. I'm recovering from an accident. I'm not at my best. I don't feel my best. I don't look my best. Whatever it is, but eventually I will, but just not right now. Is there something there? And if it isn't, then I like it. People are telling me other things as well. So, what I'm seeing here is so yes, yes, yes, yes, yes to all that. Also, a lot of people laughing. Uh, yes, exactly. Yes, exactly. Yes, exactly. Um, it's boring. I've held back because of this. No, I love my life.

Okay. So, why would you for you who loves your life? What is it that's in the way? If you could think of something. If I don't I don't feel any real connection to social media. The thing is this isn't social media. You're not feeling a connection to social media. I do not resonate with the term social media like everybody else. I feel like I am talking to you. I use social media like how I post in my family chat. I use social media like you. I only think of you. Like I if you if you could just imagine when I post something, it's it's that if we were in a friend group chat, I'd also want to say it. So let's say yesterday I had the most beautiful call because I had an alumni call with some of my women in House of Vote and there were women that have been with me for two years, three years, four years, 5 years. Like that is such a meaning meaningful thing to have clients that have been in my life for so long and then I had like the best call ever with my private client that's been with me for so many years and just like the best energy and the best vibe and the best like what's coming in the future and all the things like I was on walking on sunshine when I got off that call. That's that's what happened for me yesterday. I would totally put that in a friend chat. I'd text my mom that how was your day? Oh my gosh, today was amazing because of this and this. Then I went live and the live stream that I did it worked. It I I didn't know whether I should sleep on it or whether I should go live. Sacral said go live. I went I went on Zoom. I just single focused. I did the live stream when I emerged from my bubble. The comments were some of the best comments I've ever received on a live stream in my entire life. And I was so satisfied and so happy. That is something I would put in a friend group chat. I want to celebrate myself because I'm actually having the time of my life so much in my business that even my live streams on my personal page feel like master classes. Like I am in the God zone. I would say that to my friends because I believe that they'd be so happy for me if they knew what it meant for me. They would be so happy for me because they care about me to know that I my my clients that have been with me for years, our call went well and my my client like, "Oh my god, that call was amazing and I went live and I did the thing and it went really well." they would be happy for me. So these are the things. I don't see it like it's social media. I see it like the platform where I can text all my friends at the same time. I see it like the platform where I can speak to all my friends at the same time.

Okay. Um now if I don't know what to say, we're going to get there eventually. I I love my life, but I don't really feel like sharing it publicly right now. So the thing is it's not necessarily your life that you're sharing publicly. It doesn't have to be your life. It is your moments of satisfaction or the things that are in alignment with what makes you you. But I'm going to keep I'm going to we're going to keep it like this for now and in the end you you'll see if you want to do it. I'm wearing the same thing for two days. I'm working all day. I'm building my coaching business. Um I just posted my laundry on my bathroom floor and it was liberating. Um I've been documenting it all but only shared a few pieces on socials. I find myself feeling like it takes me too long to post. Mental hurdle. Okay. I feel like everything is integrating first. That's also perfect. Um, I didn't feel in the mood. I've never felt called to post on social media.

Okay. So some of you just aren't the social media type. And here's so here's where I want to go with this. When you don't really feel like doing it, it's becau it's usually because you're not and I'm saying usually because some of you I know will be like, "No, for me it's not this." But just listen to me. Just get out of your head and listen to me. You're not seeing that there are people in in this world that would just be completely enamored with whatever life it is that you have. It's like even just you got to do your laundry today. Okay, there is a new mom within the the streets around you. There is a new mom with a pile of laundry so tall on her washing machine. [clears throat] The the satisfaction she gets of you with your folded laundry is like, "Oh my gosh, this is what I need. I need to do my laundry." And if the way you post about having done your laundry is the human way, which is, is there anything more satisfying than this? And it's just a picture of all your laundry folded. Is there anything more satisfying than this? If you take your your messy floor, take a picture. Tidy everything up. Clean floor, take a picture. and just put them both in one next to the other and say, "This took two seconds and it entirely changed my state. This is your this is your inspiration to pick up the crap off your floor. It'll change your life." 1 2 3 go. If you unpack your groceries, there are people in a radius so close from you that literally ration groceries based on what they can have today because there's just not enough food, not enough money to go and buy all the food at once. To do a fridge restock would be satisfying, would be a vision board thing. Would be like I love this. If you're organized about something, if you got to do a full tank of gas this morning and just that feeling when you say fill her up, you know, you take a picture of your full tank of gas and you say was able to just grateful for a full tank of gas. It doesn't really matter what you're posting about to look like something. It's you anchoring in what what are you noticing about your life that's actually worth noticing? You know, you finished your coffee, you take a picture of your coffee mug, empty, and you say, "The last sip was warm. Feels like a triumph." Because there is a mom out there drinking lukewarm coffee who's been nursing the same cold coffee for 5 hours and when she sees that you finished your last sip and it was warm, it's like no distraction. If you drank an iced coffee and the ice is still intact at the bottom and you say that was so I drank that so fast the ice didn't even melt. Who can relate? That was delicious. What is it about your life that actually makes you go like it could even be I think Instagram stories are fun because they disappear and it doesn't feel like clutter. They disappear. So it's more the action of doing it unless they're trying to hoard it, you know. But you're going to see there's things that you do like I sometimes I get my eyebrow, you know, like you you you do your makeup and then like you have this moment where your eyebrow is just like perfect and then then you're so satisfied by your eyebrow and you kind of just want to take a picture of your eyebrow because like how did you just manage such satisfaction, perfection? And then you just take a picture of your eyebrow if you want and you say the moment where you nail one eyebrow. Then you do the other eyebrow and it doesn't look the same no matter how much you want it to. When you're done with the other one, it looks a bit like this. And then you take a picture of that one and you say, "This one didn't get the memo, so I'm going to focus on the other one. Focus on what makes you happy in this life." It doesn't need to be complicated. It's the real truth about how you see your life.

Now, I know that this seems like it's not important. I know that this seems like it's not it's not a big deal. But the thing is, it is a big deal because what you think about on a daily basis, how many thoughts you have on a daily basis is something like 10,000. And you don't actually feel them all or recognize them all. But the ones that you recognize the most are the ones that make you feel. The feeling thoughts. The thing with a feeling thought is that if you're in a not great place in your life, the thoughts that are going to trigger the feelings are more so the stress thoughts, the sad thoughts, the bad thoughts. So you could have 10,000 thoughts in a day and the only ones that you're going to notice are going to be the feeling thoughts. And the feeling thoughts that you're going to pick up are going to be the ones that are most representative of your emotional state. And so even if you had 7,000 positive thoughts, you might only recognize the 3,000 thoughts. And on those 3,000 thoughts, the 25 that made you feel the worst. What this actually starts doing is it starts making you choose on purpose what you're thinking about. Okay? So, it makes you say, "If I don't remember the thought, if I don't say to myself, I got a full tank of gas." It's not that you're not grateful for the tank of gas. It's just that the thought of being grateful for the tank of gas is gone already. It happened. It happened. You were happy. It's gone. But when you have the thought, my gosh, full tank of gas. Then you have the thought, I could post about the full tank of gas. Then you think to yourself, how would I represent the full tank of gas? Then you take a picture of your full tank of gas. And then you realize that in the background, it's beautiful, too. So you take a second picture that's got the snowy black background in in the background. And then you say, "Oh my gosh, beautiful drive, too. I didn't even notice how beautiful the drive was." Then you say, "Okay, let me get to where I'm going. I'm going to think about what I'm going to say about this tank of gas. The whole drive." Now, you're thinking about the gratitude for the tank of gas. You're thinking about the beautiful picture you took. You're wondering how you're going to say it. This gratitude for this full tank of gas. I could say just the feeling. You know, I I was in a I was in a master class with a mentor of mine who talked about the feeling inside when you say, "Fill it up." And it made me realize I didn't really do that. So, I did it. I said it. I said the words, "Fill it up." And it made me smile. It made me think of her. And it made me think of my youth and the amount of times I put $5 in my car in my gas tank. And I felt grateful. Oh, yeah. I think I'm going to go with that angle. Or or I could go with another angle. And I could just say like just just the the feeling it feels like when the needle goes even beyond full like so full. You know, I could go that angle. How long have you been thinking about the gratitude for the tank of gas now? Now you get to where you're going and you're like, "Okay, I don't want to forget. Let me post this thing." So, you get the picture, you put it in, and then you start to write. I am grateful for the tank of gas, and you start writing it. Now, you've got kinetic energy. Now, you're actually writing it out. So, you thought about it. You thought about posting it. You thought about what you would post. You took the picture. You like the picture. You chose another picture. You thought about what you would post. You gave yourself two, three options. You chose one. You sat down. You wrote it. You posted it. And then, every time someone comments on it, you're reminded of the tank of gas. Now, you've done this with a tank of gas, and you've done this with your coffee that you got to finish while it was still warm. And you do this with, "Oh my gosh, it's pomegranate season or your beautifully perfect sliced avocado or the one flickering candle." And you've really posted literally three or five things that have nothing to do with anything. Not your job, not your money, not how powerful you are or successful you are, none of it. But you have thought all day about what it is, how it feels, how you would document it. And then you're reminded non-stop when people when anyone writes on it or even just to check, I wonder if anyone looked at it. Then you look at it. Then you remind yourself again. Then you look through your things. Gosh, that was a good day. And you've just rewired your entire thoughts for so many minutes of your day. Because if you were not actively thinking of that, you would have probably been thinking of, "Oh, my windshield wip my windshield windshield's actually really dirty. Should have asked the person who put the gas in the tank to clean that." And I tipped them, too. I didn't even ask. Gosh, I was so distracted with everything. I don't even think about these things. I've got to go. Oh, great. And then this car put slush all over me. Where are the cops when you knew them persons driving like a maniac? Oh my gosh. Is that my ex? No. Okay. That was terrible. >> [sighs and gasps] >> What if it would have been my ex? What do I look like? Didn't do my makeup today. No live streams for me today. Okay, you could be thinking non-stop about a million things that are not good. Just because. So, social media is just the easiest way to document it because it's it's a picture. It's a thing. If you would rather do it with a family chat, then do it in a family chat. If you would rather do it here, do it here. But it what it starts to do is it starts to stretch your feelings about things further than just the moment you live them. Your gas tank now is something that as you're driving up towards the gas tank. And look, just the fact that we're having this conversation, I'm telling you, next time you go and you're you're going to go and fill your gas tank, you're going to think about what I said and you might say, "Fill it up and you might feel it and you might just want to post it in the group here." You might not want to do it on your personal page. Doesn't matter. But you come and you say, "I did, you know, I I I did it and I and I got it. I got the feeling. I felt it. But you'll feel it even before you get to the gas station. Then the while your gas is being filled, you'll think of all the way. You might actually write to us from the car while someone's filling up your gas tank. And then the whole time you're driving, you'll think about it and you will have stretched a feeling that you maybe take for granted and you will spanded across all this time. Then if it happens that someone comments from the group and says, "Oh my gosh, you did it. I did it, too." Now, every time something shows up in the comment section, you're going to feel it. And you could potentially feel joy all day from a full gas tank. We are stretching satisfaction. We are stretching joy. We are stretching success. Small things don't become what have you done for me lately? They become a temporal. Now, all of a sudden, when you have gas to put in your car, you smile. You think time to fill it up. And you tell people about it. Sometimes you tell your friends about it. If you're the passenger in the car with the friend and the friend needs a tank of gas, you say, "I want to tell you something. I want to I want to share something with you." It now starts to span across time. It's one of the stories you tell. Maybe you pass it down to your kids. Maybe you tell your kids. You fill it up. Fill it up. It's such an incredible feeling to get to just fill it up. And then maybe one day your kids when they give their their children's kids gift card, Christmas gift cards of a gas card, fill it up cuz they remember you used to say that to them. And then they pass it on. They pass it on. And one day they say to their kids, my mom always used to say, "Fill it up." And it's this one tiny piece. And you pass it down because of what it means, because of how it feels, because of the stories you tell. And it all starts with this one tiny little moment that stretched beyond a thought that you let go far and wide into the future in the past because it's my moment that created in the past that I continue to bring forward with me here that I use into the program that you decide to come that you pick it up that you try it on that becomes a part of your life that becomes a part of the way you help people stay grateful and then long after you're gone people say my mom used to say that's the path past, the present, the future all collapsing together in this incredible moment. And it happens with simple things and big things. But the more you do it with the simple things, the more you're going to realize the power of the big things. So a temporal coherence is about doing things that affect timelines in massive ways. When I fill the gas tank now and I say fill it up and I feel it, it changes the past for me because now the times in my life where I couldn't fill up the car actually make me realize how grateful I am for the fact that I can. So even the past feels different. Now the past feels nostalgic. The past feels like the gateway to my becoming. The part of me that could not afford gas created the part of me that's grateful for a full tank. We think in in terms of reaction because of that, but not but in a sense of like it it caused it like cause and effect instead of what's the right way to put it? It's like it doesn't define it, it creates it. Your your past doesn't define your present, but it creates it. This is why a temporal coherence is so powerful. Because if I thought the past created the present, then being able to put no gas in my car would create a pretty terri would make the present probably difficult. Like if I can't put gas in my car now, what's the future going to be? But it doesn't define it. It's because I couldn't put gas in my car and I had that feeling. Then when it came that I was able to put a full tank, the gratitude I felt was huge. So is it having no gas in my car that created that I'm grateful? No. Not in the sense of like you need to have this in order to have that. It's not like it's defining that. It's more just it all makes sense now. It was part of the story. It was set up that way. It doesn't define it, but it's because of that, which is such a tiny little energetic shift. But when you start looking at life like that, you realize that you can't just look at your past and say, "Why did this happen?" One of the shares in this group today that really touched me and I said this is going to get clearer in the program is a share from Katherine in this group who was diagnosed with breast cancer last year and it really took her it really shook her because she was a health mentor coach like extraordinary woman who helped all her clients achieve pre prime health and all of a sudden she gets hit really hard chemotherapy lost all her hair couldn't work all the things and her all of her identity for so long is like this fitness person. And so now the thing that she's stuck with and what she shared with us in the group is like I'm trying to figure out now why and I'm stuck because like why would I have given a decade of my life to be this fitness person and all about health and then I'm given this like what what did I do wrong? like what did I not get? But that's not a temporal because it's missing a very important piece of the puzzle which is what she creates for the world that is to come. that is not being that is not being taken into consideration when we're wondering why why did the why why why would this be here if that was right or was that wrong if I'm now here but when you zoom out to the big picture it's like this woman did this and

This and this and this, and then this happened. And so, so she did this and this and this and this, and then this happened, and this happened. And then, because of that, and then you realize the whole story touched the whole story. It's not just this perfect, like, this makes sense, and then this makes sense, and this makes sense. It's like, sometimes it's the greatest plot twist that makes no sense that makes the best, most transformative life.

It's like it's the girl, it's the girl who had, who started her job when she was, started her business when she was 12 years old to help her parents out of a bankruptcy, where they used to rummage through change to try to put gas enough in the car, like five bucks. There's five bucks of five bucks of gas in the car, and she's the one later on, and then she ends up sleeping in her car and doesn't have enough money to drive back home. So she rations gas for heat. And this is the same girl who teaches in a program that she channels on the month she hits $100 million in her business and teaches people about filling up the car with gas. How does it make sense? How does that make sense? It doesn't. It doesn't. That's not the typical. That's not the way. It's, that's not what makes sense. It's the art of it. It's the duality of it. It's the woe of it. Like hot, cold, hot, cold, light, dark. What you expect, what you don't expect. It's the, it's the peaks and valleys. It's the plot twist.

But we will get stuck here if we don't realize that it goes far into the future. And the fact is, the future is so important because we don't know what comes next. What's difficult is sometimes we achieve things and we're like, "Well, I think I've done everything that I'm supposed to be to, to do." Like, I've, maybe you've had kids already. You've already been, you're already married. You've got your partner. You've got your career. Feels like there's a lot less that needs to be written, that needs to be created, and you're just trying to figure out how to make the last pieces fit. But that's never what it is. That would only be in expecting that life is going to stay exactly like this with little bits added. It's going to continue to morph. It's going to continue to evolve, if you allow it to.

So, how we source through a temporal coherence is that we are having thoughts that we realize are actually pulling us both into the future and the past in our lives at once. It's bridging all of me at once. This bridges all of me at once. Like it could, what would be crazy in a story line like this is like, somehow I have this, I end up doing these huge things, and I end up having my hand in like the [clears throat] oil company, in the oil companies in the world, and I redefine how the gases or whatever it is. And it's like, I'm the fill, the, I'm the fill the tank girl, like I'm the fill it up girl. How on earth does that happen? Like, I don't know how that would happen now. And I wouldn't force it because any other story I could talk to you about. I could talk about red peppers and chicken on the barbecue, Kevin and I cooking. That makes no sense. The story is so beautiful. And then I could just say, and then imagine we inherit a broccoli factory or something. And it's like, it could be a broccoli factory. It could be that I have my hand in the gas industry. It could be that I somehow inherit the Extended Stay America chain where I literally used to live in the hotels of Kevin. It could be, it could be that I become the, the, the gosh, there's so many, there's so many, the next person that is in charge of Facebook. I could revolutionize Facebook Live. I could, um, I could create something like, I, yeah, Honda Civic dealership, like I could end up revolutionizing or getting Honda Civic as a client, or, or not Honda Civic, but Honda as a client. I could, um, oh my gosh, I could, I could end up inheriting all the Canadian Tires or buying all the Canadian Tires after I slept in those parking lots. Like, you just don't know all the places where it could be. But then when it happens, you're like, "I could own a pineapple farm." Like all the places that it could be. I could end up manufacturing snow, you know, like creating snowflakes for ski hills. We, we just, we don't realize how the story is going to be written. But when you let things matter, if I were to suddenly be the one that takes over Dole, the pineapple plantation, people would go crazy. How on earth, what are the odds of this? Like, the odds are not all that crazy if I've felt it this deeply in my life, if I've been so connected to it.

So why does this relate to money? You'll realize that it's very difficult for you or for anyone to generate massive amounts of money if there's no meaning, if there's no connection, if there's no people. Like, what makes any company work is the people, the meaning, the vision. It doesn't really work any other way. Like, it's for people. Like, what made Amazon work is like people wanting things delivered to their door today. It's about people. Take away people's desire to have things brought to them today, and Amazon doesn't work. What makes Uber work? Every one of us knows what it feels like to wait for a cab in an area where there's no cabs. It's the worst. Or when, when you know it's a busy weekend in the city, and it's not like more cabs just manifest out of nowhere. There's the same amount of cabs, no matter what. It's just you're waiting for a cab. All of a sudden, on Uber, it's like every person who's just in the mood to make extra cash on a Saturday can be an extra Uber driver if they've ever driven for Uber. Like, you could do double the amount. Some people could say, "I only drive Ubers on busy weekends." And all of a sudden, you get a person that want, that's grateful to be there, and that you know is hoping for more business, and they're not, they're, you know, whatever it is. And it's like the connection, people having access to a place where they could drive you. How incredible. Airbnb, you know, "Come stay on my couch, pay me. I'm going away. You can stay at my house, just pay me." Like, you think of all the ways that it was like people.

So, when you think of social media, what's it about? Staying connected to your friends, technology, the phones, being able to look at each, look, look at the phone, like all the phones, phone, Android, Apple, all these things. It's just looking. When you think of all the stores that exist, like HomeSense, Michaels, all these chains, what are they for? Together for people who love to do arts and crafts, people who love to decorate, people who love to decorate for the holidays, people who care, people who want this, who want that. It's all about people. It's all about people. How do we know? How do we, how do we give our lives to helping people when we could help them with everything or anything? Oh, the best thing to do is to do something you love. Notice all the things that you would be like, "Oh my gosh, Melanie, of course, of course you could end up touching the oil industry or pineapple industry or the whatever industry." But when I was like 15, if someone would have said to me, "And then later on in life, you end up owning pineapple fields all over Hawaii," I'd have been like, "Why?" Not how, why. You'll find out now. I wouldn't ask how. I'd just know why. The how always finds you. If why is in the god zone, the why is in your soul. That's where it is. If I manufactured snowflakes for a living, I wouldn't wonder how. I'd just, I'd just love why. Because why has been being built my whole life. How will only show up when I need it.

This is the thing we end up realizing. Like, one of my favorite examples of this is Vanessa. [clears throat] So Vanessa, Alpha Team. I've known Vanessa my whole life because my mom, so it actually started with our grandmothers. My grandmother brought her grandmother a coat and needed her to tailor it. They met this way, and my, my grandmother brought my mom, and her grandmother had her mom, and the moms became, they became best friends. Ann and Sue became best friends. They grew up together in England. They, they were best friends. And then when they were 18, they wanted to be nannies and they wanted to travel. The Montreal nightlife was spectacular. And so they decided to leave England together and come be nannies in Montreal together. And my mom met my dad at a nightclub, and Sue met her, her husband at the car dealership where she got a job. And then they both decided to stay in Canada. And then I come into the world, and Vanessa comes into the world. But our moms grow up, they grow different. My mom goes back home quite a little bit, but she falls in love with like Santorini. She wants to travel to places once that she's never been before. She loves Bahamas. She loves, she loves different things. But Sue falls in love with Cuba. Falls in love and ends up going to Cuba every winter with Vanessa. So, by the time Vanessa is like 14, 15 years old, she speaks Spanish. How the heck does Vanessa speak Spanish? She's a French Canadian from a British Italian mom. There's no reason for her to speak Spanish. But all of a sudden, she speaks fluent Spanish. And because they've traveled so much, she realizes she wants to be in the hospitality industry. She'd love to work in hotels. And then maybe she could travel. And then maybe her mom could come, and her mom could come and visit her, and they could travel together. That's the dream. That's what we're going to do. Let's.

So, Vanessa's mom invests. "We're going to get you an amazing education, and we're going to get you a job where you can basically live in a beautiful, warm country, and I can come visit. It's perfect." At this point, Sue left her home when she was younger. She doesn't care about traveling. It's in her body. She knows she'll still stay connected to home. It's all perfect. We're going to do that. Well, Vanessa falls in love at a young age with a boy in Cuba, falls in love. Love of her life. That doesn't work out. So now she speaks Spanish, though. She speaks Spanish. It opens the world to her. She could work wherever she wants. Her mom was happy to invest heavily in her education so she could work from wherever the world. Fast forward. Vanessa meets Vic in Ibiza. He is Mexican. They're in Spain, and they fall in love, and they end up traveling Paris, Dubai, all things together. They fall in love, and they get married. And so Vanessa is now Vanessa Vargas. She is just bought a property in Mexico, and her mom and his parents are co-buying it with them, and her mom will be able to travel with her daughter in Mexico, and Vanessa will actually have space and time, and she won't be working in the hotel industry. She'll be working with Alpha Fem. How did all that happen? But she had to go to Cuba, and she had to fall in love with a Cuban, and she had to learn Spanish at a very young age, and she had to decide that she was going to travel, and her mom needed to want this, and that she wanted this, and, and all of a sudden, the real husband that was coming also needed her to speak Spanish. She was going to end up somewhere where her mom could come and visit. It was going to happen. But not the way she thought, not the way you think, not the way I thought.

And it all doesn't make sense because if some, if I, if you would have told me when I was 14, "You know, one day Vanessa works for you, except she lives in Mexico half the year because, you know, she marries a Mexican guy." Makes sense because she'll be fluent in Spanish. I'd have been like, "Are we talking about the same person?" And she's working for me doing what? And how is she working for me if she's in Mexico? You'll see. How doesn't matter. Why does the work? Does all the work? All of it. It is not your job to figure out how. What I have found is it's our job to connect to why more deeply. If I don't care about the things I'm grateful for, if I don't let life touch me, if I'm, if I don't develop passions, if I don't learn new things, if I don't go where I'm called to go, if I don't be brave about the things that tell me, "This is what I'm supposed to do next," when they don't make sense. If I don't do those things, then I don't have a why about much, 'cause nothing really matters.

But how wild would it be if after this tomorrow, I get an email from Sephora and they're like, "You've been selected as our favorite client, and we'd like to give you a year supply of makeup." I'd freak out. But if I didn't talk about this, I'd be grateful. But this would take, this would make it nuts. This is how manifestation actually starts to be wild is that the more you care about things. When you manifest things that are connected to them, your life is amplified. How many people have found me and they're like, "You know, I was wondering whether or not to work with you, and then all of a sudden I saw a pineapple, or all of a sudden I saw this thing about going to Hawaii, and I thought of you." Or I saw this and it reminded me of this, or I saw this and it reminded me of this. Like, when it's connected, it feels like, "This is why. This is why."

It's, it's interesting for us because most of the people that are here with me today, you're self-made. You're not, you don't, and God-made. You're not, no one passed down to you their fortune or their vision or their business or their plan. And that makes it difficult to be a temporal, because your past is fractured. So this is something that I've often thought about that makes so much sense here with the atemporal concept. When you think of generational wealth, what really happens is that when a child is born, it's already expected to be wealthy. It's not a hope. It's not a wish. It's a plan. We have the money, we have the connections, we have the business, we have everything. We're going to teach you how to hold it and how to manage it. From before the kid's even born, the parents have planned for their children to have financial freedom. It's written in their past. It's written in their past, and it's planned for their future. So every step of their life, when they're being taught things, they're being taught because it's who they are, and it's who they become, and it's just the way it is. But for us, it's not like that. We're not taught how to make money right away. As a matter of fact, our, our parents, a lot of times, are teaching us different things because we don't, our parents aren't thinking, "Okay, our child is already going to be rich. We already know that because we've set them up financially for life. We've already got a company to pass down." They're saying, "I wonder who they'll be when they grow up. I wonder what they'll love. I wonder what they'll care about. I hope they'll be courageous enough. I hope, I hope they'll be, they'll be hardworking." These are all the things they pass down to us. These are not bad things, but they don't result in the same things.

The parents of the people. If you imagine like a prince, it's like, "We need an heir." Before there's even a baby, there's an heir in the universe. This baby is already your life. The whole life is planned. It will be the heir. It will be a baby. It will learn how to become a prince, and it will be king. This is the plan. Hasn't even happened yet. This child comes into the world already knowing that they were destined and born into being a king. It's a temporal coherence when it's like, "Now we're going to teach you manners. Now we're going to teach you languages. Now we're going to teach you this." It all makes sense. But maybe their parents don't think, "I wonder what they'll be when they grow up. I hope they'll have the courage to go for what they want. I hope they'll have the power to choose someone that's right for them." It's like they're going to get all of that chosen for them. So, what our parents wished for us was potentially true love, financial abundance, to find our passions. It's an amazing thing that someone wished that for us. But what's missing for us is, what are we meant to become? We get to decide. Doesn't really matter what it is. It's just the fact that we decide that it's happening. Because when a prince is seven years old, he's a kid. He's not a king. He's a kid, but he's still going to be a king. It doesn't matter. Doesn't matter that he's seven. Doesn't matter that he's lost his two front teeth and he's fishing for bogeys half the day. He's still going to be the king. When you're lost and you're not sure how you're going to do the thing that you're going to be doing in your life, it doesn't matter. You're still going to be whatever it is you decide in a temporal coherence.

And you can say, "I don't come from money." And you can put that as an atemporal thing. You can say, "I don't come from money. I don't have money. I don't have connections. I don't have access. It's not easy for me." And you can make that atemporal because it's something you say that defines the past, the present, and the future. When you say it, it spans across all the fields. "I don't know how to do those things. I don't know anybody. I don't have access to things. I don't know how to do those things. I've never done it. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know how." You can create that and recreate that across your entire timeline over and over and over and over and over and over again. So the thing that the pattern disruption creates when we do the whole gratitude thing is that we start writing new codes. I can care about something new tomorrow. I can develop a new passion tomorrow. I could start focusing on something new that changes the course of my life today. Something could happen now that makes me realize what I want to be when I grow up. Because every day that I see something new that I love and I anchor it and it becomes meaningful to me, I start expanding who I am.

Now, we are going to go much deeper into this, but I, how I want you to hold this vision and contemplate it is I want you to see like, if Dole Pineapple Plantation were to want to donate, give, sponsor a person in the world, a pineapple grant, who do you believe would be the number one person in the world with the most votes to receive it? No question. Why? Because of what they mean to me. If you had a grant to give about something and you found out that there was a person in this world that was literally living by the thing that you do, that you have, that you are, it would be almost impossible that you don't get connected to them somehow. If it were possible for, if, if there were suddenly a huge thing in Quebec where they started manufacturing snow and they needed it, they needed something about the snow. How many people probably share this with me on social media? "Oh my gosh, a big snowflake logo." How long would it take before I would see the machinery, the logo, the story? It would not take long at all. And if there was a way that if that, if that company were in any way, shape, or form looking for someone for training, for sales training, and I offered my services, and they knew my snowflake story, and I met with the owner, what are the chances that they'd choose me above anybody else with my dedication to the snowflake and the story and everything I would be able to genuinely carve as a thing, and then how much I would want this contract, and then be able to tell my audience, "Oh my gosh, I'm the one who manif." It's like, all of a sudden, these things start being, the odds of them happening to me are increasing massively.

Now we see this with big companies and we say, "Of course this makes sense. Of course this makes sense." But the thing we don't think about is people. What if when I post this, you have the same one? And you go, "Oh my gosh, Kimberly was like, 'I do.'" You, you see it and you're like, "I have that." And it creates a bond. I tell a story about a snowflake, and you have a story about a snowflake. I go through a difficult thing, and you go through the same difficult thing. I lived a long-distance relationship. You lived a long-distance relationship. Something happens in my life, it's something you've just overcome. Something happens in my life, it's something, or something happens in your life, it's something I've just overcome. All of a sudden, when you're thinking, "Who's the mentor I want to learn from?" It's like, it's the one that has so many things that resemble me. But how will you know? How will you know I drink my coffee like you drink your coffee? How will you know that I fill my tank up with gas and I say, "Fill it up"? How will you know that we have the same order at the coffee shop? How will you know that we use the same hair products? We have. You'll only ever know what matters to me if I talk about it. What if I don't talk about it? Because I don't think anybody ma, I don't think it matters to anybody. I don't think anybody cares.

You know, on one of my master classes, I did E3 Master Class in 2022. I talked about my, my grapefruit wipes, Neutrogena grapefruit wipes, and I talked about how even now, I always have grapefruit wipes with me. I wash my face with them still. Even though I have the most incredible, expensive program like face creams in the world, I still have my grapefruit wipes. And sometimes I just smell them just to remind me because when I used to sleep in my car, this is what I used to wash my face with. That year, I received something like 420 packages of grapefruit wipes. People were sending me grateful for wipes. Every time they saw them on the shelves, they saw them, they thought of me. Lifetime supply of Neutrogena paper wipes. It cleared the stores because when they saw it, they thought, "I want to send this to Melanie." Abundance.

When I first started being friends with Emanuel Deeper, and we used to work together, I got a contract in Hawaii, and she got to come, and she brought her mom, and her mom thought I was so funny because every time I got an American dollar bill, I used to get so excited, and I used to go, "I got a dollar! I got a dollar! I got a dollar! Hey, hey, hey." And so she was there for like 10 days or something. And every single day, whenever she got a dollar, she would give it to me just so I would sing the song. Well, when she left, I realized she'd given me a hundred bucks over the course of the week because every time she had a dollar in change, she gave it to me just so I'd sing, "$1." The things you actually bond with, that you appreciate, the things that you are, they, they come. They come no matter what. They become you, and they start to rewire the past, and they start to change the present, and they start to create the future.

So I am asking you to start signaling very loudly the things that touch you, not because you're trying to get something [clears throat], but because first of all, it changes your very way of being across time. It makes you present to the things you enjoy non-stop. It creates a compound effect of positivity in your mind and your brain and your nervous system. It puts you in a state of constant yes energy. And people start to get to know what you care about. I guarantee you, if when you, for an extended period of time, continue to celebrate a full tank of gas, it's a question of time before someone buys you a gas card. If you have a certain type of cream that you love, like I get, I receive, I have this nail oil and this hand cream that I love so much. It's Ame nail oil, and it's always gone. I, it's always sold out. But like a year or so ago, I was posting it all the time. It was, or two years ago, I was posting it all the time 'cause I used to wear it all the time, and I was almost out of mine, and I'd been looking everywhere for it. And all of a sudden, I got a present in the mail, and it was the oil with my hand cream. One of my clients sent it to me just because they saw I used it all the time, and they knew what to get me because they knew what would make me happy. Every time a client sends me flowers, it's the exact flowers that I love. I received birthday presents this year. They were Cartier. They were Chanel. They were Tiffany's. They were, it was all things from the brands that I'm constantly talking about. My, my client Jasmine got me a Louis Vuitton chain with snowflakes on it last year. My client Terra Marino, she's not my client anymore. She got for me a G spa facial, like my favorite products. Like, they know. I got orchids, my white orchids. Like, I have been an orchid fan for so long. First of all, it's the product that's in my face cream that makes my skin look like such glass magic. But on top of that, it's like a flower that I'm obsessed with. When I went to Paris, there were white orchids cascading everywhere in my room. I came home to my House of Oak clients on my birthday having filled my bedroom with orchids, and their names dangling off every orchid. Like, people get me what I love because they know that I love it. The Alpha Fem team got me a bouquet of 100 white roses, the way that I love them. It's, it's always done in the way that it's like, "This is, this is what I love." And they're like, "We know. We know." My client Cassie got me Chanel sunglasses. That's the first thing I ever bought for my sister. And the first luxury thing I ever bought in my entire life was a pair of Chanel sunglasses for my sister. And I don't even own a pair. I always say that. First pair of sunglasses. First luxury thing I ever bought for my sis, for in my life was a pair of Chanel sunglasses for my sister. I don't even own a pair. I do now. Cassie sent me a pair of Chanel sunglasses for my birthday. Now you own them. It matters. And then it means something. And the gift is like, "Oh my gosh." And that's how you let people in to make you feel like you matter because it's like you've given them a chance to know you, what you care about, what you love, what makes you feel happy, what makes you feel.

So sometimes you don't even know what you like. You don't, you're not even trying things. You don't even know what matters to you. I have a favorite everything. I have a favorite shampoo, and I have my favorite brands, and my favorite face wipes, and I have my favorite nail oils, and my favorite hand creams, and I have my favorite, and when I have them, I love them. I have my favorite mug in each house. I have my favorite thing. I'm so happy when this happens. I have my favorite songs. I have my favorite this. I have. And then people are like, "Yes. Exactly. Like, you got to get to know yourself, guys." Because when, when I open a brand new, this is my, this is my hair oil that I'm entirely obsessed with. I love this so much. Whenever I get a new one of these, like I take a million pictures of it just because the bottle just looks so exquisite, and I just take a little thing full and I put it in my hand like this, and I, I just put it in my hair, and I feel so happy, and I feel so happy about this. Well, the other day, I took my mom to the hotel. What does she do? She pulls out of her bag this. I said, "How did you know?" "When do you mean, how do I know? How about your Instagram stories?" Like, I know people. I get, I got as a gift my, a brand new gold toothbrush. My Aretteia toothbrush. I told everyone about that. It was so bougie. I got a new toothpaste. Aretteia gold-speckled toothpaste. People send me what I love.

Now, can you imagine what your life is going to be like when the people who want to spoil you actually send you the things that you want, and they know you're happy because it's the thing that you want? You don't need to worry about not receiving it properly because you're actually shocked because it's what you love. You're constantly receiving things that you love. And because there's things that you love, you love more things. And because you're in gratitude, you tend to attract them. And then people connect with you because they're like, "What? I have the same nail oil. You like that? I like that. I feel like we're kindred spirits." Oh my gosh. My client Jenny, I guarantee you Jenny Khan is my client now because of our love for champagne. I just loved posting pictures of champagne. I don't think I've ever, ever, ever had more pleasure in my life than of taking pictures than buying pictures of champagne or taking pictures of champagne. And Jenny Khan is like, "Jenny Khan is champagne." And one of the first things I had done, this offer I had done this offer a few years ago, and it was like, "You pitch me what you would want me to sell to you." And she pitched me. She wanted a one-on-one call. She told me exactly what she wanted. She pitched me, and I said, "I'm in, like a dragon." [clears throat] You know? Yep. I'll, I'll invest. I'll invest time. You can pay me this, and I'll do that. You pitch me, and I respond. And we had our first ever coaching call. We just sat and drank champagne and talked, and it was like the first ever conversation. Now she's in House of Boat. She was in my three-line mastermind. She's now my sacral mastermind. Like, but I guarantee you champagne bonded us because that was it. But it's like so many people also said, "G, I don't, I, I don't drink champagne. I don't like champagne." It's like, "No." But then I post this, and they're like, "Oh, see, I love you because of this." And somebody else like, "I love the relationship you have with Kevin." And someone else says, "I love the relationship you have with your sister." And someone else says, "I love how you always post pictures of nature. I love the way you capture light. I love the way you take." It's Kasa. Kasa does hair oil. Um, I, I'll post a picture in the group. It's pretty good if you guys are looking for a oil. I think you will love it. I'll make a favorite things on my Instagram so you can see all my favorite things, and you can try some of them on. But this is what, what tends to happen. People are like, "I love the way you love this. I love that you also love this. I love this." And clients will choose me for the wildest things. I also have a thing with pineapples. I also have a thing with angel numbers. I love this. I love this. I love this. I love this. Or it's because they love my aesthetic for things that they watch, and then they find out that I have this cool offer that actually resonates with them, and they're like, "I was just following for the house aesthetics. I didn't expect that I'd end up in the god zone. I was just watching for the house aesthetics. I never thought I'd end up in Mission to Millions. I never thought I'd end up being in House Prosperity. I never thought I'd end up." You're going to get chosen for the wildest things. People are going to choose you for the wildest things. And if you take this on in your mind, you're going to start realizing it. And if you note it and you put it in your social media, like, "Highlight of my day, a client just hired me because they loved my pillows." You know, they just, my, one of my client, new client, new person started hiring me because in the middle of my Instagram stories about my business, I posted a picture of a latte, and I just learned how to do latte art, and they're obsessed, and then we started talking, and now they've hired me for blah, blah, blah. We're people. We're people.

If the head of Dole would probably choose me for a grant for pineapples, do you not think that Martha would not hire me for the person to help her through her marriage stuff? If she loves my relationship, my house, my style, my vibe, my hair, my nails, my laugh, my sense of humor. If we're a fit, who else am I going to choose? How do I know I'm a fit with you if I don't know you? And it's not just you posting about your hair oil. It's about the fact that this is the thing that made you happy today. People don't choose me because this is my hair oil. They choose me because my hair oil made it to my Instagram story. I'm so grateful. People don't choose me because I drink coffee. They choose me because the way I describe drinking it, they just hope I do it again tomorrow. It's not what I'm doing. It's who I am when I'm doing it. You have a you, and you're not developing you anymore. You don't know what you love the most. You don't think about what your little gratitudes. You don't think about what makes you smile, what makes you laugh. You, you don't think about the favorite way a client comes into your world, or your favorite way of getting paid, or your favorite thing that people say, or what makes you laugh. You don't think about these things because you don't think they matter. You think about how are you going to become something in the future, and how are you going to figure out how to do this, and how are you going to figure out how to do that, and none of that matters because when it comes to why, why just happens. If you know who you are and you know what you love, you will start attracting it. You will start seeing it in other people. Other people will start seeing it in you. You will start bonding with people over what you love, about what you like. It will become effortless. You'll get to do what you love, what, what you love to do. And people will love being with you while you do what you love to do. And if it just so happens that what you love to do is also your job, people will love to be with you and pay you to do what you love to do while you're loving doing it. And they get to hire you for doing it, and the abundance starts to become exponential. Prosperity comes to me always, always. Whether it comes in the thing that I would have bought this for myself, and instead my mom just brings it to me. "Here you go." I've been looking for that oil everywhere. There's almost none left. I can't even find it anywhere. I'm about to buy one that I don't even want to buy because it's not as good as mine. And all of a sudden, I get one in the mail. I, I don't even need to think about my next spa appointment because it's already booked. I got it for my birthday. I get to just go and just receive the spa appointment. And then what do I do with the money that I do receive? Because all the money I was going to spend on this, all the money I was going to spend on this, all the money I was going to spend on this, all the money I was going to spend on this, I have all that money now. What do I want to do with that money? What do I want to do? Because of the abundance I received, I can now treat myself to this that I thought was completely crazy. But what if the universe gives me all of this so that this becomes an easy yes? What if God frees up the funds for the thing I said, "If, if I ever, if at the end of the month I have a spare this, I'm going to do this." And then I receive all these things, I don't need to buy them, and then I have money at the end of the month. I'm like, "Oh my gosh, I'm going to do it." And then what if in doing that, I start to remember myself, and I start being more alive and more magnetic, and people start realizing that I'm here, and I'm, I'm here, and they start choosing me, and all of a sudden I start making money, and not because I'm trying to get them to buy it, but because they want to, they want to buy the thing that I sell, and they want to buy it from me. They want to hire me in the way that I love to do the job that I love to do. And they want me to be the one to do it. And I don't need to do anything. I just need to say yes because it's who I am. Because it's what I love. Because it's what happens for me. Because it's part of my becoming. Because the more this happens to me, the more I can show people that it happens for us. And if they care about me, then they'll care about us. And if they care about us, they'll care about themselves. They'll believe it's possible for them. If there's no us, then I will never be connected to them. Us is what creates a temporal coherence within people. As long as there is an us, we're connected for a very long time through time. I love you. That can last. I love us. That rewrites history before, before I even knew who you really were. I love us before we even knew each other. I love us. I love us and who it took for us to be before we even got here. And I love us now. And I love what we're building. And I love who we'll become. That's atemporal. That's how you feel about your kids. You don't just love them. You love us. You love your family. You love us. You love your, your group of people, whoever it is, you love us. It's a feeling of togetherness. Togetherness through time. It's atemporal.

So, this is what I want you to contemplate between now and our next call. Including more in what you love. Really being honest about what floats your boat. You might not care that your coffee is still warm by the time you finish it. That might not be it. Maybe something else. It's that you turned on the shower, and the water became hot so fast, and you were so grateful because you didn't have to wait in the cold at all. It became on super fast. It's the fact that your avocado was perfectly ripe, or that you nailed your sourdough bread, or you curled your hair perfectly, or you got your eyebrows just right. Or those are the things you've got to find them. You've got to look for them, and you've got to feel it. Did this get me even just a little bit? Can I let it get me even just a little bit? And then can I anchor it in? And can I let it expand? And what happens from there? So get out of your, of your head of like, "My life is boring." It's like, "Who cares? Someone else wishes they had something you have. Can you be grateful for it?" One of the first things I ever channeled on paper in my life was, "You have to learn to love." Not, "You have to learn to want what you have after you have it." You have to learn to want what you have after you have it. Because I knew how to want things before I had them. But as soon as I had them, I wanted something I didn't have. When I started loving the things I have after I have them, that changed things for me because I can love things that I don't have and feel like I have them when I do that. And that's what, what's coming next in our next session. So, start amplifying what you love. Notice it for you. Anchor it in as often as possible, wherever it feels right. Social media will make other people aware of it. It serves you. I promise. That doesn't feel right. Do it here. Do it in your diary. Do it in your family chat. But amplify what you love. Amplify how long you think about it for. Amplify how you think about it. How you do what you do. Represent it. Find ways more than just thinking about it. And I will see you on the next call. See you soon. That mother nature, God, the universe, they have heard us. They received seed. You planted those seeds however long ago. And golden fruits with crowns are worth being patient for. [music] [music] Pineapple season is coming.