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Hey guys, welcome back to my YouTube channel. Today, we are talking about five things that women cannot handle but men can. I think that most of you are going to agree with these, but either way, leave a comment, let me know. Okay, let's get right into it. These are not in any particular order.
Number one: Rejection. Women cannot handle rejection like men can. But if you think about it, men are trained from a young age to handle rejection because it really falls on them to approach women and ask them out on dates. Women do not experience this like, at all, especially when they're young, because they're the ones that are getting approached. They don't need to do that. It's because that's when they're most desired. So, for women, it's just what they live. They get approached and they're asked out on dates, so they become accustomed to being the one to pick, essentially, who they say yes to.
But I will say, time and time again, even if she is attracted to a man, a woman will most likely not approach. Like, 90% of the time. And there's a lot of missed opportunity because I always say that women would be successful 99% of the time if they just approached. But time and time again, women do not believe this from me when I say this. And I realized recently that it is because they, 99% in what they consider successful, is not the same as men. This is because men, and in my brain, if a woman says, "Sorry, no thank you, I have a boyfriend," that is not rejection. That is just circumstance. But women don't think the same. So if they approach a guy and he does the "no thank you" or "sorry, I have a girlfriend," she counts that as rejection. And to feel that rejection, women just cannot handle it.
For example, I just watched a video the other day of a man very kindly and gently letting a woman down because he has a girlfriend. And I did a stitch of the video. It's actually on my YouTube Shorts if you guys missed it. But the guy's on a, on a motorcycle. This man very kindly and gently let the woman down because he has a girlfriend. But this woman did not want that reason to stop him. She offered her number, um, she said that his girlfriend didn't need to know about it. And when he stood firm on his no, she was so offended that she questioned him. She asked him if he thought that she wasn't pretty and what was his problem. And then when that didn't work, she tried to reject him back by saying at the end that she actually didn't want to give him her number anyways. It's crazy, but that video is just another example of how a woman's ego just cannot handle rejection from a man.
Number two: Women cannot handle putting in more effort than a man, especially in the early dating stages. Um, I think this would feel like a slow death to most women. And I think this is because women equate his level of effort to her own level of worth, which means that she doesn't feel valuable when a man is not planning dates, paying for dates, and initiating phone calls and text messages. Now, I don't think that any man wants to or expects a woman to put in more effort than him when starting to date, especially, but he does want to see some amount of reciprocation as an indication that she's actually interested in him. Women, unfortunately, they just don't feel the same. Because he could be putting in effort, but if it's less than her, she believes leaving is the best thing because she knows her worth.
Men would never get a girlfriend if they couldn't handle putting in more effort than a woman. Think about it, guys. Think of the line, "If he wanted to, he would." It's all about a man putting in way more effort than her. And there's never a saying of, like, for women to put an effort that's kind of equal to that. But let's face it, men would never get a girlfriend if they couldn't handle putting in more effort than a woman. That's just how the balance goes. And I'm not saying that one way is better than the other. I'm just saying that it's a pretty clear example and pretty clear proof that women cannot handle putting in that a level of effort like men are expected to, time and time again.
Number three: This one's going to hit hard. It's the lack of attention. Women not only like attention, but I think they actually need attention. Whether they are born needing this or if it's a learned behavior, I'm not sure. But there are plenty of examples from women posting revealing pictures on social media, to getting free drinks from men when they go out, to having multiple men in her friend zone. All of these situations, plus many more, are to fill their need for attention. Whereas men, they don't need it. Uh, because I don't know, they don't get it. Most men actually feel pretty invisible to women, which is exactly why men don't do those things that women do.
Number Four: Women cannot handle a power dynamic that does not favor them within the relationship. Women like being put on a pedestal as a way to guarantee their control within the relationship. For many, many women, this is actually because she's pretty insecure and she thinks that this is a way to kind of secure the relationship because, well, if she's better than a man in a relationship, then he won't leave or do anything to hurt her, 'cause, you know, he doesn't want to risk losing the best thing that he has. I see this dynamic all the time in couples on social media where a woman gets treated as the princess, where her husband is always doing a thousand things for her. Women watching these videos just eat it up, but, you know, he's doing everything, but she's never doing anything back for him. Or I see the videos on social media where the wife is controlling her husband to the point at which he never sees his friends or no longer has hobbies that she doesn't approve of. This is obviously unhealthy because a much better way to feel secure in a relationship is to have shared values of trust and loyalty. But it is rare to find a woman that is confident enough to not need that power dynamic.
I think I saved the best one for last. Number five: Women cannot handle getting replaced by someone better than her after a breakup. This is even when that man is obviously in a much better relationship with somebody else and he is thriving. That woman has, has to find a way to position herself as better. Most women will not admit that her ex is better with someone else instead of her. She will say that he messed up the best thing he ever had. But the truth is the truth. That a lot of men will absolutely admit to after he's broken up with a woman, it's that it's not about who's better. It's more about the match. Not everyone is going to be good for everyone and anyone. And men just seem to have a much better understanding of this than women.
That's it, guys. That's the total five. If you agree or disagree with any of these, I'm very interested to know in the comments. Also, any ideas that you have that you want me to do a video on, please let me know, and you might see it next week. I'll see you guys later.