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Most people try to build confidence, but they're carrying shame for their past.
If you're trying to build an unshakable belief in yourself, you have to become delusionally, delusionally self-forgiving. Forgive yourself when you're off or when something doesn't go right. Forgive yourself when you freeze. Forgive yourself when you're not the version that you wish you were in a situation.
And most of all, view your past as a fun game, nothing more. It was hilarious and it was fun. That's it.
Self-forgiveness is not weakness, it is access. Self-forgiveness is how you keep your system clean enough to take bold action because no one can perform while secretly punishing themselves. Real confidence only lives in a body that feels safe with itself.