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You, who most mothers bring problems into the home. They bring their emotions. Everybody has to like tiptoe around the mother's emo. Like, let's talk about women making a house a home. So, the last few years, I have been trying to find anything women are better than men at, anything. And my journey started a few years ago, um, when I sort of realized, and you don't realize this as a woman, and I think men must realize this earlier than women, that women have a lot of useless jobs. And essentially, I, I had to go through a red pilling of my life. And a lot of women go through this. Actually, they don't, because they're delusional. But where I realized that most of my accomplishments in life were merely because I was a woman, not because I was that talented, important, or special.
Now, I could go early into my life. I was really into sports, right? And so, I actually, I went to state for volleyball when I was a sophomore. My senior year, we went to super. We were one game away from going to state. We were regional champs for basketball. I went on to play, um, volleyball in college. I got freshman of the year, all conference, um, for volleyball. I transferred to another school. We made it to the NCAA's twice. Made it to 19th in the country for division three. I ended up going overseas playing semi-pro volleyball, semi-pro basketball also. Um, and so I obviously spent hundreds and hundreds of hours of my life playing volleyball and basketball. I really cared about the sport, and I think there were things that were good for me, you know, about it. Um, it taught me to follow instructions. It taught me to get along with people. It taught me to work towards a goal. But there was a day when I woke up and I realized all my brothers are more athletic than me, but they have less accolades because I'm in a fake league. It's all fake, right? It shouldn't exist. If we really were having sports based on merit, none of this would be here.
And I also had to reflect back on my sales career. Um, I wasn't even not the best at sales, but I remember like kind of walking into the office and some of the men making comments that I was getting special treatment at the time. I thought that I was just super smart and hardworking because I do work hard and I do try. I think it's apparent to the audience that I do try at things if you've been watching me for a while. But in all honesty, I don't think I would have been given the best sales territory at the time if I wasn't a 22-year-old hottie. If I may, if I may say so, my, I was a little chubby hottie, but I was still a hottie, you know what I mean? Who's not a little hot at 20, 22, you know, as a woman?
So, I kept going, right? I kept going and I went overseas. I played volleyball semi-pro and I had one of the biggest YouTube channels in the United States when I started my YouTube. I, I got on Piers Morgan. I got, but I started kind of looking at my male, um, counterparts, right? And my male counterparts, like, one, let's say, is Terrence Popp. He covers a lot of the same issues as me. I've made more money online than Terrence. Even though Terrence is a 30-year war, like he's a veteran. He is not. He doesn't just talk about the system. He's lived it, right? He, his ex-wife killed his [ __ ] dog. Who knows more about these issues than Terrence? And a lot of times, he'll help me out. He'll give me like, we, he helped me prep for my debate with Anna, and a lot of the best lines were really from him or from Nuke, right? So, you know, there's a point where I'm like, do you know what? I think a lot of the, it's not really fair, but as a young woman, you're entered into the high status and men just have to work 10 times as hard to get the same things that you do. And it doesn't mean we hate women. Um, it doesn't mean we can really change the system or you shouldn't accept opportunities that come your way. But we do have to be real about the fact that as women, we're just kind of given things, you know?
And this kind of goes for all the, I'm going to use conservative commentators just because I'm in this industry and I know all of them. Candace Owens, not nearly as smart as Ben Shapiro, her male counterpart, right? She's, um, kind of lost in this conspiracy theory nonsense. Even if you're kind of buying that, um, you know, Ben Shapiro had to be a high-end lawyer. She just was a black girl with conservative ideas, you know? And that's kind of Brett Cooper, same thing. You know, all the women in media, I'm not special or different. All women, it's just, you know, it's like a different, it's kind of like the Special Olympics. Everyone knows we're not as good, but it's still kind of inspiring to see women go, you know? It's kind of inspiring to see the guy with the one leg like hobble across the finish line. Do you know what I mean? Like, it's still nice to see, you know? So, I'm not saying we eliminate it completely, but we have to be aware that that's where we're at in life. You know, this isn't to hate women. It's not to say that some women aren't there because of merit. Um, but it's really just the only women, and I was thinking about, um, Trump's press secretaries. The only press secretary I thought was that good was that fat ugly one. Do you know what I'm talking about? I was like, do you know what? She might be there on merit, but if they're not fat and ugly, I mean, look at this. You know, you know, I mean, you're probably being given special treatment, you know? And again, it's, it's really, it's not to say that we, there's no talent. It's just to say that, you know, we're kind of being given help.
And just over the years, I've kind of, all the things they say that women are good at, I've just sort of kind of tackled them one by one. So, you know, when I first got into the space, everyone said women are great mothers and they're really nurturing and they just have this special attachment to children. And I thought about it and I'm like, well, if women love children so much, why do they keep sending them to daycare? And why do women keep signing up for anything else rather than be a mother? Women would rather solo travel than be a mother. Women would rather travel for work than stay home with their kids. Women would rather, like, I mean, like being an abuela. Like, I know a woman that chose being a nanny to other people's kids and putting her kids in dayc. Do you know what I mean? I'm like, why is it that I don't really see women get joy from watching kids? What I see them get joy from is the attention the kids get. You know what I mean? Like, you ever, like with your mother, when people come over, then all of the sudden she's like very loving with you and you're like, [ __ ] [ __ ] what the [ __ ] Do you know what I mean? It's like, you know, you're like posing for your mom's Facebook and you're like, why don't I get this attention off camera? Do you know what I mean? It's like the mothers will be [ __ ] to you behind the scene. Then they'll pick up the phone and they'll have a completely different voice and the kids are like, my. So, you know, it's just not what I'm seeing.
And I started looking into the stats and it turns out, and it didn't shock me at all. Mothers are more likely to be negligent towards their kids, abuse kids. Mothers are more likely to, like, I just don't really think women seem to be like loving in any way. Like, even to their boyfriends and their husbands, women just, they tend to like the wedding. And that's why, you know, I don't really care about women being married. Um, I think people just like having status. So all it is is status. It's like fighting for status because I'm like, what's the point of marriage if most of the women getting married aren't even wives? Like, they're like terrible wives because I just don't think women really have like love to give. Do you know what I mean? Like, I just don't see it. I don't see, I don't see women like loving towards their dogs. I don't see women being loving towards their children. And everyone fights there, they say it's just the women, you know? And I'm like, well, where do you want me to go? Because pretty much every girl I knew growing up, their dad was way cooler than their mom. Like, not even close. Not even close. Like, their dad was ch, even if the mother did like their best to like kill the dad's reputation. I remember there's one girl, my mom would always tell me like her dad was an alcoholic and abusive and blah blah blah blah blah. The mother of this girl ended up cheating, right? But even before that, you know, I'd met the mother, met the father, the dad was so chill. He was so chill. And I'm like, what did this man do? You know, the mother was kind of chill, too. But like, you could kind of see how she would, cuz women, it's like they're kind of chill, but like they're also, you're like, "Oh, I could see why you're like the worst ever." Do you know what I mean? Like, I could see why you torture everybody behind closed doors. The right good path. A little something towards your new house down payment. Pearl. Women are better at saying a lot at one time. That mean abs absolutely nothing. Yeah, that's another thing. Like I'm really tired. If even Myin says this, and I'd like to, someone should clip this and tag Myin because I think I've heard, you know, Myin say that women are more socially aware. I don't agree. I don't agree at all because when I look at women, um, women maybe say more. They're less like afraid to say things, but it's because we have tits and men, men let us get away with more. I don't think women are socially superior. I think men are better at reading a room. I think men are better at like picking up on signals. Like, have you ever seen a woman flirting with a guy who's just not interested? Like, I think men pick up on a woman not being interested way faster than vice versa. Um, maybe when men are younger, they don't pick up on it, but usually another dude will be like, "Hey, what the [ __ ] like, she doesn't like you, you stupid s, you know?" And then guys will learn.
$5 super soup. Thank you. Thank you. And I, you know, over the years, I just kept hearing these things that women are like good at. And every one of them, I just keep going through and I'm like, I don't think so. Like, they say women are better at accounting. Well, if women are better at like, they would say you should have a woman. I think I've heard Aaron Clary say that women are better at accounting. They're better at details. I don't think so. If women were better at details, like, I've never really known women that budget. They wouldn't have so much debt, right? I, I can't, I'm, I'm, I'm out of luck. I got nothing. I have nothing I can think of that we're good at.
So, you know, back in London, you know, I would ask a lot of women what they bring to the table in relationships. And I wish I was as good at cooking now because a lot of women said they could cook back. Even I said I could cook back then. But it's not until you learn to cook that you realize you couldn't cook at all before. I thought I could cook because I could cook like three meals. Now I could cook like 20 meals, right? And, um, I'm like, I couldn't cook at all. But I'm still getting there. But do you know what I'm saying? So, um, I kept, I kept going, right? And this one thing I heard is that women make a house a home. And I'm like, what does that mean? A woman, you make a house a home. Okay. You, who most mothers bring problems into the home. They bring their emotions. Everybody has to like tiptoe around the mother's emo. Like, even earlier, I was thinking about it. I'm like, I can't even say that I was raised by nannies, right? That my mother worked and the nannies did that job without being scared of my mom. Isn't that crazy? Isn't that, isn't that insane? It's like, what? I can't even talk about it. So, that's really what mothers do. They bring in, and and it's all women, right? I, I certainly bring my emotions home to. I'm not special. I'm not different, right? But sometimes even I observe myself where I'm like, damn. But I just try to call, like I call, try to call it how I see it. So making a house a home. And I was thinking about when women decorate houses, like, it's just usually a bunch of useless [ __ ] that we don't need. It's like a bunch of kitchen appliances women don't need. It's a bunch of throat pillows we don't need. It's ways to decorate and make things look better, even though it serves practically the same purpose, right? Practically the same purpose. Um, and so I saw this guy on Instagram and he basically builds a man's dream home and I just thought to myself, I think that kids would like this house better than anything a woman would design. Okay. Okay. Wait, let me hold on. Keep going. If you remember kitchen appliances that are never used, feel free to add in black women being argumentative and coping again. Thank you for proving my point. It's just, yeah, it's, it's, it's just incredible. Thank you. I love it when black women come in and argue. They like come in, right? The black women come in and they say, "You're not all women. You're just talking about yourself. You're talking about yourself." And I'm like, "Really? Argumentative black woman right there? Right there. Thank you for proving my point. We do need those damn pillows. Women don't even realize when men aren't interested. Yeah. Like, I honestly, I don't, I don't think women read the room better. I don't think, I don't think anything. Right. I don't think anything.
So anyways, I saw this thing on Instagram and I'm like, if women make a house a home, then men make a house a [ __ ] kingdom or a castle because this is way cooler. And this is actually my dad designed something similar to this. And, um, this is like the coolest thing ever. Okay. >> Complicate everything. And men keep things simple. Barnaminiums are simple. And don't let a woman try to convince you that she wants to move out to the country. That's a lie. Why? You want some eggs? You want to build you a fancy chicken coop, Rachel? Is that what it is? And please don't get me started on horses. Horse and horse stalls. Uh-uh. Men want big shops like this. We want piranha iron workers, plasma tables. We want fork trucks. Like, by the way, I am forklift certified. Tell your mom. And did you know that the average vet bill for a horse is $1,000? Are you kidding me? Listen, if Michelle the Chvel needs a new motor in her and your horse has a broken leg, I'm putting your horse down. And why are women always washing towels? I don't get it. I'm clean. It's clean. It's basically clean forever. Who's with me on this one? Women want a formal dining room for what? What a waste of space. And don't ask me if I make my bed. I keep that thing in ready position. Tell your mom. It's exactly how I rolled out of it this morning. It's exactly how I'm getting back in. And I've got the perfect pillow to blanket ratio. I don't have to kick off a bunch of decorative pillows at night only to put it back on in the morning. That makes no sense. Guys, what am I missing? Put it down in the comments. Like, subscribe, and share this with your friends. >> Hold on. He's going to. He has more videos. This wasn't the one I thought it was. Here. >> Getting divorced. Time to build that barnaminium. Let's face it, guys. She was never going to live out in the country or a tin can like this, much less let you have a a half-acre pond with a death trap 1991 vintage jet ski. Hide your mom's a full-size gym and not a CrossFit gym. We might be divorced. Like, let's just be real. What, what would a kid rather have, right? What would a kid rather have? Would a kid rather have, um, would a, would a kid rather have throw pillows or the stuff this guy is going to show? >> Course, but we're still straight. Smoky old fashions at 10:00 a.m. Cheers. Oh, and her new boyfriend Chad. I guarantee he doesn't have a 4,500 foot shop with all the room for activities and toys. Right, Bigfoot? So, if you like this kind of lifestyle, maybe it's a sign to build a barnaminium. Or maybe it's just a major sign that you're a raging alcoholic and you have been the problem the entire time. And maybe you should get some major counseling, medication even. But just remember, it takes two to ruin a marriage. It's usually her and her mom. But let her know as many times as you can whenever you get the opportunity to actually. It does help. So, if you like this kind of content, like, subscribe. >> Look at this. Guy commented. He said, "I love my wife. I love my wife." >> How long will it take to fill up this pond? Let me give you some details. Rim to rim. On the length, we're 250 foot. And on the width, we're 80 foot. On the deep end, we're approximately 10 foot deep. And on the shallow end, >> women want these huge ass houses, right? And that take forever to maintain and take care of. Men just want the simplest thing. Like they say women are neater than men. I don't even think that. I don't think women are neater because if we were neater, like I think women will waste time cleaning things that don't need to be cleaned. The black girl saying, "I'm not just black." Well, the black is showing. The black is showing, right? You don't need a lot to to have the behaviors. You know what I mean? Yeah. Oh, wait. Wrong one. >> And we're about 4 foot deep. The surface area comes out to about 20,000 square foot. That's about half acre. And in the upstate of South Carolina, we have an evaporation rate of about 4,000 to 9,000 gallons a day. That's a lot. A well at about 11 gallons per minute. So, a real important factor is that we will not be losing any water to ground because we will be using this 36 mm liner. Now, that's about 2,800 lb. It got delivered on a semi-truck. Had to lift it off with the tea handler right there. And I have no idea how we're going to unroll it. Harambe or Punch, which was a sadder story, who cares? I built this barnaminium for less than $400,000 and I wasn't abandoned. The number one question I get, gosh, this thing is annoying to carry. No wonder why your mom got rid of you. The number one question I get is about the floor plan. Everybody wants to see my floor plan. Guys, I didn't have a floor plan. I drew this on the back of a napkin. Made a ton of mistakes. I've got 4500 square foot out there in the shop. That's where I run my business, Fab Solutions. And I have 3,000 square foot on the living quarters. It's two stories, by the way. I got a full gym on this side. On the other side is my office area. Upstairs, two studio apartments. Let's go take a look at mine. If you're new to the channel and you haven't seen my 750 foot executive suite, tell your mom. Here it is. Tongue and groove on the ceiling. Stained tongue and groove, black on the wall. Love it. Got the king-size bed. Got the full kitchen over here. Got the bathroom. Got plenty of loft space up there. But listen, guys, I post >> like imagine being a kid and you get to go in the loft. And like I think Kanye's kids were saying they liked his apartment better than Kim's house. These videos to be totally transparent and help you with your build and help you live life on your terms to be happy and help others. So, if you like this kind of, if she's a nurse, parillegal, or a school teacher, she's definitely cheating on you. Let me show you your future. Come on, buddy. It'll be okay. So, while she's secretly looking for an attorney, you should be looking for land. Time to build that barnuminium. The first thing you're going to do is clear out the land. Kind of like she's clearing out your joint bank account right now. Barnaminiums are the most versatile way to build because of that wide span, just like your mom. There's really no secret to a barnaminium build. The only real secret is that credit card you don't know about that she has maxed out to $8,000. That's marital asset, by the way. And if she's posting pictures like this at the gym, all of a sudden, she's already found an apartment. So, build yourself a badass gym and your own apartment. An apartment that has no pictures on the wall, just animal heads, big screen TV, and some guns. A simp. >> And how amazing. You could go to a family event and not have to take a bunch of pictures. Oh my god. But wouldn't that be amazing? Oh my god. For the, like I don't know. He's so pro surrogacy. It just sounds like heaven on earth. >> Bathroom with an enclosed shower so nobody can hear you cry. Keep your closet and your laundry in the bathroom because it just makes sense. >> That, that sounds amazing. >> Hey, divorce sucks. I hear you, bud. But listen, when she comes home drunk at 3:30 a.m. and you got a problem with it, that's considered controlling. You better watch yourself, bud.