How To Get Him to Spend His Money On You

Hey y'all, so, so many of you guys have been asking me this question for years, and I have done videos telling you every way that I can think of for you to get him to spend his money on you. So, I am going to be giving some of those ways, and some different ways, some more creative ways. So, get your pens and notebooks, and now let's begin.

So, he had, okay, number one, y'all already know, you got to look better than him. Like, not just a couple of notches better than him, but way better than him. Okay? That's number one. Write that down and put a star next to it, and circle it, and say, "Guess what? This is the number one way to get a man to spend money on you: Look way better than him." When I say better, I mean look like you're out of his league. Look like that you would never be with him unless he was spending money on you. Write that down, because some of y'all keep forgetting that. Okay? Some of y'all are going and trying to get these guys to spend money on you that look better than you. Okay? So, make sure you know that first.

So, if y'all are, if y'all are dating, or if you're looking for a man, don't go for looks. Go for how much you think he's going to spend. When you are out and about and you're freestyling, do not go for looks. Go for how generous someone is towards you. Are they buying you drinks? Are they offering you things? Are they trying to please, please you? Go by that, not by how they look. Okay? Because you can go get anybody that looks good that's not going to spend on you. But if you're going to waste your time getting cute, driving on the other side of town or to a nice area, uh, to freestyle and then go for the cute guy, you just wasted your gas money, ma'am. Okay? So, make sure y'all know that. Okay?

Listen, listen. If y'all want certain guys to spend money on you, they're probably going to get the money from a different girl, okay? Or want something in return quickly. And a guarantee in a relationship is not always going to be there because they're so young and they have plenty of options. So, plus, they probably don't have enough money anyway if they're still that young. That's the kind of money you want anyway, right?

Let me get through the video first, so y'all start asking questions. I will definitely go back and answer your questions if you, you know, sent a donation. So, I appreciate the donation, but I'm going to answer them towards the end because I don't want to get, uh, interrupted, okay? Sprinkle, sprinkle. But I will answer, you know, later. So, stay for the whole video.

Um, another way to get him to spend money on you is to always give him problems for him to find the financial solution to. So, play dumb. You know, ask lots of questions and play them. You don't have to be young to play them. You can just be very, um, you know, unknowing of certain subjects. So, if, if you say, "Oh, well, I don't know what, what I'm supposed to do, and, you know, I think I need this done to my, uh, whatever car, air conditioner, whatever, but I'm not sure. Do you know anything about that?" And they'll be like, "Oh, you're so smart. Oh, you know, uh, well, I guess I'll, I'll try to figure it out or I'll call someone." And then they'll want to naturally take responsibility for it. For that, because you made them feel smart and like they know what they were doing and that they could help you. And if they can save you money by not having to call a, you know, someone to cheat you, instead, see, they're now, they're going to try to rescue you from being, you know, haggled and cheated. So, they're going to be like, "Well, it shouldn't cost more than this, and if you need my help, let me know." And then you can say, "Well, they told me the price and it's kind of expensive, so I'm not going to really be able to do anything, but oh my gosh, thank you for all your help and trying, you know, to help me get through this." And then they're going to take the next step to go ahead and give you some money. You get it? So, you have to play the role, okay? So, let them rescue you with solutions that they come up with, so they think it's their idea.

Another way to get him to spend money on you is, you got to have main character energy, okay? You got to have main character energy. That means you are the woman that they only see in the room whenever they walk in a room, you're the only woman everybody sees. Main character energy. You're the woman that people are adjusting to turn their head to look at. You're the woman that people are stopping what they're doing and turning to see. If you don't have main character energy, then most men won't spend on you because when you go somewhere with them and you walk in a room with them, they want you to bring that main character energy with you to rub off on them, okay? And then when they walk in the room, they feel like, you know, all that. They feel like they have made it. They've arrived. You know, they feel like they're a status symbol, or that you're a status symbol. So, you got to have main character energy, okay?

Now, I know a lot of people are basing main character energy on, you know, um, if you look perfect or not. You don't have to look perfect to have main character energy. I am far from perfect, but I still have it. And when I walk in a room, the room stops and stares, okay? Still had it for a long time, gonna keep having it, gonna have it forever. So, you got to have that. If you don't have it, then go, you better find out how to get it. So, yes, and I would say, I would take it even beyond confidence. I would say main character energy.

Okay, now when you are, let me go into what main character energy really is. Main character energy is taking the moment that you're in and making it your moment. And if you want to bring someone else into that, you make it y'all's moment, and the world will bend to you, okay? If you can, if you can show that man the world bends to you, he will spend up for you. Sprinkle, sprinkle. If you mesmerize everyone wherever you go, he's spending money because now that he sees how the world can be when he's with you, he's not going to want to let that go. And even if you are a beautiful woman and you don't have main character energy, it's not going to be the same. So, work on having main character energy. That means expect to be treated like a main character. Expect to be, you know, um, given things that a main character would be given. So, therefore, you're already expecting him to pay when you speak. You speak as if he's already paid. When you talk to him, you talk to him as if he's already solved your problem. You speak what you want into him. Like, "Oh, it's such a beautiful day outside. I, I really feel like going out and doing some shopping, and I think you, you want to take me, don't you?" It's like, "Yeah, I mean, we can go to the mall." He, he had said he's going to take you shopping, but he said, "Oh, yeah, well, we could go to the mall. There's a beautiful day. It is, isn't it?"

So, what you do now, this is where you can get stuff if you want it. So, you dress out. You dress like, you know, uh, like if it's hot outside, then, no. If it's cold outside, y'all, winter's coming. So, let's talk cold. Since if it's cold outside, don't wear a lot of things on your sleeves, and then he has to buy you something because you're freezing. You know, if you are going to walk around for a long time in a mall, wear some high, high heels so your feet can start hurting so he has to buy you shoes. Okay? Um, or, you know, I've said this in one of my old videos, get you an old pair of shoes and like, rig the heel so that it breaks while you're walking in the mall so he has to buy you another shoe. Okay? And when, when the thing happens, like, don't get all like upset. Look in his eyes like, like that little cat on Shrek, what's his name? Puss, Puss in Boots. You know how they have the little cat eye? Like, look into his eyes when you break your heel or you get cold. Be like, "My shoe broke." Wait, wait. Let him offer to buy you the shoes. Or, "It's so cold. Let me buy you a sweater." And then they're like, "But this matches the sweater. It's so cute, right?" And just, that's how you start them.

Now, if you're with someone that's not used to taking a woman shopping, you may have to ease them into the idea. And this is the perfect way to ease them into the idea. And always tell them to bring you something. And I said this in my older videos. I don't care if it's a pack of gum. I don't care if it's a candy from the store or a drink, like a bottled of water. I don't care what it is. But whenever he's on his way to see you, tell him to stop and bring you something. That way, you're making him get in the habit of thinking about you stopping to purchase you something or bring you something. And in the future, if you get him in this habit, he's going to automatically bring you something, or he's going to ask you if you need anything before he, you know, comes to pick you up or y'all meet. So, get him in the habit. Start small and build. So, build up to bigger things. So, like, if, if he's bought you, you know, countless nonchalant items by asking him every time, you know, y'all see each other, imagine what you're going to probably get for holidays, or your birthday, or on a date, you know, like a, a special occasion or whatever, whatever you're gonna get better than what he's, you know, bringing you from whatever errands you sent him on, okay? So, you got to make him get into the habit of wanting to do it. And when you receive the item, or whatever it is that you've asked him to get you, be so happy. Smile. If you want to give him a hug and a little kiss, you can do that. But give him the appreciation for the little bitty things that you're making him get into the habit of spending on you. So, when you ask for something, it's automatically going to be a yes, even if it's kind of expensive.

So, the next time y'all are at the mall and you see something you like, you all you got to do is use that same tone that you ask for the pack of gum, or "Stop and get me this on your way here," and it's going to trigger, and he's going to say yes. So, you're basically saying, "Okay, well, could you get me those pair of shoes? They are so cute, and I don't have any shoes, um, to wear to the such and such, you know?" And he's going to be so used to saying yes to you and giving you what you want and receiving that reward after he's giving given what he, you know, he's given to you, he's gonna just say yes, or he's gonna think about it, and then he gonna say yes. So, you definitely got to get him in that, um, mindset to say yes. So, you, you slowly practice, and before you know it, everything you ask for, you're gonna get it. Everything you ask for, you gonna get it. Are you gonna get some of it? Are you gonna get something similar? But it's going to be easier if you do this, okay?

Now, a lot of people don't know how to ask for things, and they don't know how to create this, you know, somebody called it conditioning. They don't know how to create this conditioning because they are too impatient. But let me tell you, sorry, if you are impatient, it's hard to condition someone. So, this is why in the beginning of dating, you spend a lot of time together, talking on the phone, you know, seeing each other, going out on dates, or whatever, so, so that you can condition him to get you to do stuff, okay? And make sure he has the money because it's easier to say yes when you have it, okay? Don't be doing is to broke people making life decisions at the gas station, you know, then you're like, "So, make sure they have the money."

So, a lot of y'all ladies don't know how to know how much money a man actually has. And because y'all are young, y'all don't really think about stuff like that. A man needs to have enough money to take care of his bills, your bills, and take you shopping, and have money left over to save, invest, and then do what he wants to do, okay? That's how much money they're supposed to have. And that makes giving much easier. And they need to have several streams of income, or at least a, you know, an income that's continuously increasing so that they don't care, you know, um, about spending money because they know it's, they're going to get it right back, okay? Anyway, and the only men that are going to say no are the men that don't have it, and or the men who think they have options. So, this is why I say the target is very important. Make sure you're the type of woman that is a main character. So, when people are, you know, when you're asking this man for something in a public place like the mall, and people are paying attention because you're main character, and he says no, now he's in the so far. They go, "Oh, he's." When they start taking out that phone, you know what they gonna do? They f to put it on one of them social medias because he f, he f say something crazy, right? So, main characters get this type of treatment. So, people are watching y'all a little bit closer because your main character. And if he says no to you, he's going to look cheap, broke. And the next man who thinks he might have a half a chance, you know, might have some hope in his heart, but he's going to have to tell you no in front of all those people and look broke and cheap. So, he's most likely going to say yes. And if you do it, sorry y'all, if you do it in front of, if you're asking for things in front of, um, younger people, or people that he doesn't want to look cheap in front of, you're most likely going to get a yes, okay?

And y'all, y'all youngsters, stop asking me if he's ugly. That's the point. Who cares? Don't y'all are so silly. Like, honestly, if he's ugly, close your eyes, ma'am. His credit card ain't ugly. Or go get you a cute man and do whatever y'all do over there. I mean, you can date cute men, but they're less likely going to pay all your bills and buy you stuff, okay? And if they do, they're also going to probably be buying another woman's stuff. And if they're not ready to commit and settle down with you and stuff like that, you know, you're going to have a life of wondering where he is and what he's doing. So, ugly brings you more peace, okay? Because you ain't worried. Like, this ugly, this ugly person is going to buy me whatever I want. I'm his status symbol. I know. So, all I got to do is ask. I mean, that's, don't, isn't that how strippers work? They go and find the ugliest one in the room and they give them all the attention, give them the status. And, okay, so just, we're, we're in reality here, okay? We're, we're about this money. We're about this quick lifestyle. Some of y'all gotta wait years and years and years to live in the type of lifestyle y'all want to live in because y'all are waiting on some cute guy to choose you and want to pay. So, that's another one. Stop being, uh, wasting your time being done, okay? Know who will spend on you and make sure you know that so that it's easier and faster for you to get what you want. Anyway, let's see.

Another way to get him to spend on you is to talk about what your friend gets. So, you got to compare yourself. You can even be an imaginary friend, it doesn't even exist. Going be like, "Oh, my friend's man took her to the mall yesterday and bought her this, this, this, this, and that. And she told that we should go, and they have really cute stuff at this store, and they have a sale. So, you know, do you want to go to the mall today?" I mean, uh, uh, he's a cute man. I mean, no, you're a cute girl, and he's not so cute. Or he may be older. And your main character energy, remember? So, he's going to want to go somewhere with you. He's going to want to say yes. He's going to want to see you.

So, the best way to get men to spend money on you is to always make dates in places where you can shop or spend his money, okay? If you're always making dates to places where you're not going to be able to get any type of money or anything spent on you, that's, that's why you're not getting anything offered or spent. If your date, the place that you're going is not right next to a bank or an ATM, it's going to be harder for you to get cash, and he's going to put it off till the next day or tomorrow or next week. If you can't see the ATM sign out of the window of the restaurant, you know what I'm saying? So, strategically date in certain places where there's no excuse so you could come up with your little scenario and he can say, "Well, how much do you need?" "I want to really help you." Then you can give him the number. Like, "How much, you know, do you need?" Always double it. And then turn your head to notice the ATM outside of the window, or the, the bank sign across the street. But, "Oh my gosh, there's an ATM right there. Oh my gosh, there's a bank right there. You don't know how much this means to me. I was so worried how, you know, I was going to take care of this, and here you are. And I didn't, you know, I'm so glad. I'm going." And say, say, "I'm so glad, you know, you're gonna help me tonight or today. That means we ain't waiting no week. Look at the ATM right now. Let's go." Period. So, strategically plan your dates, your banks, ATMs, or shopping areas, okay? That way, if the date, so, okay, let's say you want him to take, take you shopping. You're on a date, and you're not too super excited. It's not going well because you're not going to let it go well, and you're going to be like this, like pouty. You're going to not really like your food that much, but you're going to try to be nice. You're going to be like, and you're going to keep looking out the window or at the shopping center. And he's like, "What are you looking at?" "Oh, they have a really cute dress in that window. It's so cute." It's like, "Oh, yeah, that is nice. That will look good on you." [Music] "Yeah, I think I should have got something else on the menu." So, now he knows that you don't like your food. The date's not going well because you have this awkward silence, you don't like your food, and you see this dress over there. What's he going to do? Well, you know, you know, "I'm sorry you didn't like your food, but, you know, you know, let's go over there. Let's go walk around over there. You want to try the dress on?" So, they're going to, they're going to offer you that because they want you to have a good date, a memorable date with it. And let me tell y'all something, ladies, when you have main character energy, that man will always remember you. That man will always remember you because having main character energy, you know, is something that men don't forget in a woman. They don't forget that ever. You can't forget it. That's, that's why it's main character. You know, you'll forget the name of a movie, but you'll remember the main character in the movie. You'll forget the title of the movie, the name of the movie, what the movie might have been about, how the movie ended, but you remember the main character in the movie. So, when you have main character energy, remember, they won't forget you, and they're more likely to spend on you. If you can't get main character energy, you need to fake it till you make it. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Okay? There's, that's that easy. If you can't, if you, if you think it's some type of miraculous magical thing, then fake it, okay, until you figure it out. Sprinkle, sprinkle.

Another way, another way to get a money, a man to spend on you, okay? If he is older, just ask. Just ask. You said, "Are you faking it?" "I don't know. Am I?" Someone says, "Am I faking main character?" "I don't know. Am I faking it?" That's the whole point. You can't tell. So, it doesn't matter. So, but you, "Am I still getting bills paid?" "Yep." So, guess what? Don't even matter. I hope y'all, I hope y'all realize that it doesn't matter as long as you appear to be main character energy. That's what main character energy is, okay? If you have the nerve to even say that you have main character energy, you got it. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Appreciate. Misunderstood. Appreciate that.

All right. Another way to get him to spend on you is to make it look like you need more. So, for example, if you know that you need some new furniture, and you invite someone to your home that could possibly buy you stuff, you make your furniture look as terrible as possible. You take some of the furniture out and go hide it, or you put sheets or stuff over it to make it look like it's tattered or something like that. Now, this is just the setup to get him to buy you some furniture, you know what I'm saying? And when, when, when you're trying to invite him over, like, be like, "You know what? I would invite you over, but my furniture is so gross. Um, so maybe another time." So, pretend like you don't like your furniture in your house. Like, start off doing that, and then, like, slowly let him, like, ease into begging. Like, "Oh, well, you know, I don't care about your furniture." "Well, not the mattress on the floor, though. That's going too far." That's, that's going too far. And then, like, "No, I don't really like my furniture. And plus, I don't have a lot of furniture. I really need to go furniture shopping before I invite anyone over." You might even get the furniture before you even invite him over if he likes you, you know what I'm saying? And so, if he's the kind of guy that has to come see your ugly furniture, then make sure you make it look as the worst you can make it look without really damaging it. And then, you know, don't want to stay there long. Like, "Okay, well, let's go." And, and then, like, drive by some furniture stores, or, you know, make sure you're going out to eat next door to a furniture store, okay? Or make sure, you know, because like, if you keep saying furniture around him, y'all know them cell phones be picking up, you know, stuff. And he's going to start getting ads for, you know, like, um, furniture stores. And you know, AI is gonna help you out a little bit. They gonna be like, "You know, furniture sale." He's gonna keep getting pop-up ads for furniture sales and stuff. He's like, "Hey, you know what? They have a sale at such and such furniture store. Maybe we should go help you pick out some furniture." And if he thinks he's helping you pick out furniture, he thinks you're going to invite him over more so you can get whole new furniture, okay? So, that's how you set that up. Or if y'all are married and live together and you want to replace the furniture that you already have, don't, don't spend time where the furniture is. Like, "I hate our furniture. Our furniture is ugly." Go in your room, or "Our furniture is ugly," and go in another room. You know, don't spend a lot of time with him on such furniture, or be like, um, "Such and such friend or such and such family member just got new furniture." You know, keep talking about it until they say, "Well, do you want to get some new furniture and stuff like that?" You, you know, so just mention it a lot. Don't spend a lot of time with the furniture. Say how ugly it is. And then, uh, definitely, you might get that upgrade from your husband or whatever, okay?

Should you ever, should you ever buy him something? If you want to, I mean, make sure it don't cost little, little nothing. All I mean, the amount of money that he's going to spend on you. Let's say he spends $1,000 on you, okay? You could spend about 40, 30. Okay? So, he always has to spend a lot more so that he looks masculine. You know, your gifts can be more thoughtful than they are expensive. A woman does not need to show off how much she loves a man by how much she spends on him. It's the thoughtfulness, okay? Plus, if you start to outshine him in the gift-giving department, then he can't really please you. So, you always give him a smaller, more thoughtful, less expensive gift. Again, not, don't try to compete with a man with gift-giving, okay? Because otherwise, he can't really impress you, okay? He said he started to give you so much, but stopped. Okay, well, then, mo, get another one. Or tell him what you want. I mean, all you got to do is tell him. It's pretty much easy, okay?

I'm going to answer that first question that came through, okay? Uh, several said good morning. Okay, okay. Then Finini, she says, "Your boyfriend cheated on you with his non-blood stepsister. She's ugly too. I with, oh, with, okay, your boyfriend cheated on you with his stepsister who, okay, that's non-blood. I moved in with him, then found out he cheated. He said he was sorry." To me, if you ain't got no money, I don't even know why you wasted your money to ask me that question. Because I really wouldn't care if he has money. If, if you don't have to work, if he's paying all the bills, and he cheated on you with his non-blood stepsister, that means you can go cheat on him with a man that got some money, and you, you'll be even. Or you can ask for a gift to make up for him cheating on you. And since it was his non-blood stepsister, you can get a lot of money, okay? Or you can get a nice, nice gift. So, flip the situation to get a gift, okay? Or money, or to go level up to find a better one. Sprinkle, sprinkle.

Um, okay, you wish people stop asking silly questions. Yes. "How do you join the second level up group?" Not, okay. Ask somebody in the first one. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Because I don't really run those groups. I'm not the, I'm not the main administrator there. Uh, I'll, I'll go in there every once in a while and post some stuff and say hello and stuff like that. But you're gonna have to ask them. I'm not really, uh, in charge of those, uh, small details, okay? Sparkles, I have an administrator for that. He used to give me so much, but then he stopped. Oh, ca, Sparkles, you know what? If he sees somebody else giving you something and stuff, maybe he'll start. Or maybe if he sees that, um, you're getting it from elsewhere, he'll start. Or if you just ask him, or tell him, "You used to do so much for me, now you up." And if you still look like and get some from somebody, then you know, he might start back up, ma'am. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Or if y'all have kids or friends, mention how your man used to do all these things for you, and now he doesn't. Or see a couple and they'll be like, "Oh, I love how he does so much for her." "I remember when you used to be like that." And then fawn over that, then look at him, okay? Then he'll more likely to want to do more, okay? But you got to remind them of how they used to be. "Oh, I remember when you used to do stuff like that for me. It was so sweet. I, what happened?" "Oh, well." "Oh, look how cute he, I mean, they are, anyway." He stopped giving and say you was ungrateful and too used to it, okay? Well, honestly, that's why you have to like be happy every fifth time they give you something. Like, every time they do something nice for you, you, you can be like regular happy, like, "Oh, thank you so much. You're so kind." And then on, like, when they do something really grand, then you give him, like, "Oh my gosh, thank you so much. You are so sweet. You're always thinking about me." Then give them a hug. So, you do have to appreciate when they do stuff for you, even if you're faking it, you know, main character energy. You got to fake it sometimes, even if you're like, if you don't like what they give you, or the gift that they're giving you, then pretend like you like it enough to say thank you, at least. And then just don't use it or wear it, okay?

Anyway, another way to make him spend money, okay? If you like, if you want some new, okay, married couples, if you want new dishes, new pots and pans that you don't want to pay for them, ma'am, have like, if it's not around the holidays, say, "We need new dishes, pots and pans because I want to have a, a dinner party and invite over your family or your friends and stuff like that." So, always make it about him. "I want to throw you a party, you know, but we need some new dishes or pans or plates or serving dishes." So, if y'all are trying to get some housewares, ladies, always say you want to do something for him. "I want to invite your parents over for a nice dinner, and our stuff is chipped, and we need new pots." And you know, so he'll be like, "Oh, really?" So, he might buy it, whatever set you want, if it's about him, okay? Now, I told y'all, I know y'all told y'all don't clean the other day, but I'm saying for like, for the holidays and, you know, dishes and stuff like that, if that's what y'all want, I, it could be something else. It could be like, you know, a TV. It could be like, um, like one of those faux fireplaces you can put in your bedroom. It could be anything that you want in addition to your, you know, your house. So, whatever it is, be like, "It's all, you know, it would be so fun if we had like a fireplace in the bedroom, and I saw these cute fireplaces online that you can order, and you can literally just plug them in and snuggle up together, you know, in winter, and it would be so cozy." You know, you set the scene. You start telling the story. You start promoting it like you're one of those, like ASMR videos, the cozy ASMR videos. You start talking in that voice, and like, "So, now he's imagining himself snuggled in a bed with, you know, a little fireplace in the room, with some like cozy socks on, and the bird chirping outside the window, and, you know, um, a cup of hot chocolate in his hand, and y'all snuggled up together in the winter months." Now, now he wants one. So, you pull him into what you want, and you tell him, "Look, this is how it could be." So, you paint a picture. Um, if you want a giant TV, or a projection, or whatever, whatever kind of upgrade you want on the appliances, you say, "You know, could you imagine watching the game on Sundays on a giant TV, and you eating some wings or nachos, and just good surround sound system?" And you know, paint the picture. He's more likely gonna say yes. Go get it, and you gonna be sitting up there watching your show, okay?

Uh oh, Britney says she wants your man to put a down payment on your car. You want him to pay the note. He's taking too long. Will this insult his masculinity? Well, you can, like, if he asks, or, okay, here's the thing. If he starts bragging on something that he's done for you, or if he, you know, if he offers you something, or if he asks you if there's anything that you want or he can do for you, always say that. Always say that until he does it, okay? If he asks you what you want for Christmas, tell him that. Okay? Until you have what you want, keep repeating the same thing. So, when he says, "Oh, the Christmas holidays, or the holidays are coming up, what do you want for Christmas?" "A car down payment." "No, really." "Okay, car notes for three months, six months." "Oh, no, besides that." "Car insurance." "No, no, besides that." "Car notes and the car down payment." Like, don't let him get away from the car, okay? So, he's going to be, "Okay, well, how much do you need?" He's going to, because the, if you don't ask for anything else, then he's going to have to literally consider it. And if he gives you something else, just look at it and throw it down. "Thanks." Okay, sprinkle, sparkle. So, then when he asks you where you're going, like, get dressed. And like, it could be the Christmas holiday, it could be Christmas Eve, it could be the day after Christmas, and you like, he didn't give you what you wanted. Get dressed and like, and he's like, "Where are you going?" "I'm going to the car dealership to look around." Then wait and pause and see if he, say he gonna go with you. And what he doesn't, is go by yourself. And make sure it's a luxury dealership. And make sure you look good. So, you might run into a man with some money, ma. If, if he follows you on social media and stuff, post up, you test driving it, smiling. Find you the cutest car salesman you can, and make sure he up in the picture with you. And be like, "You get home, be all excited." And he thinks that you, so you gonna get the car? "Oh, no, not yet. I'm still thinking about it. I might have to go back a few times because I saw some other cars that I..." Now you think you know, you going to be frequenting the car dealership, and that cute salesman, you going to get discount. Um, he gonna work some paperwork at, so your payment or your, um, you know, down payment can be low. You know, you finagling it because he can't do his job as a man by going to give you the down payment. So, you got to go work your jelly to get what you need, ma'am. That's all you got to do. Main character energy, exactly. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Every time you go back to the dealership, make sure he see you leave the house looking sexier and sexier, but not too sexy, classy sexy, okay?

Okay, y'all, stop asking me dumb questions. I told y'all, don't ask me no questions about no man in their 20s trying to get married unless, unless you ready for it to wait years and years to get what you want. Life, y'all crazy for marrying anything in their 20s unless you a man and you older and you got money to spend, okay? Any woman who's marrying a man in their 20s, unless they have family money or rich already, I'm not going to do. I'm not down for the struggle, okay? That's what I'm trying to tell y'all. If y'all are down for the struggle, marry, marry a man for who, whatever reason. If you are not down for the struggle, marry for lifestyle and what you want, okay? Don't marry no guys in their 20s. It's going to take 20 years to get you the bare minimum, or, you know, the norm. Some of y'all grew up in middle class or upper middle, upper middle class, you know, neighborhoods and things like that, and you, if you're dealing with a 20-something year old man, it's going to get, it's going to be like 15 to 20 years before you can get to that status that you just left from. So, what are you doing? You're not supposed to go from good to worse. Supposed to go to good to better, okay? Good to better, not good to worse. Anyway, that's how I think. I'm not getting ready to go, you know, some people live with their parents and they have really nice houses and all this kind of stuff, and then they have to, they marry somebody in their 20s, and they have to downgrade. No, we, I feel like when you leave your parents' house, it should at least be something better that you like, and an upgrade, rather than, you know, or at least living the type of lifestyle you want to live. So, I don't know. I'm not going, I'm not going backwards in life. Not even if it's, you know, sorry, just not doing it. Like, "Where are we going? Where are you living?" "No, thanks. I'm good here." You know what I'm saying? So, I know some people fall in love and they think, "Oh, it doesn't matter. I'll be poor with the man that I love." What happens when that, that honeymoon stage wears off, and y'all are just poor? He ain't going to look the same. He ain't going to look the same, and he's, you're not going to feel the same about him when you need the money, when the bills start getting late, or when you need stuff that you can't get. He's not going to look as cute. You're not going to be as in love if he can't do nothing for you. He going to wear off. So, the best way to, you know, I would say, don't, don't ever consider marriage from a man in his 20s. He's not ready financially unless he's rich already or comes from a lot of money.

And you that have access to it. How can you get your man to take you on more dates? Fool him. And then when he gets there, he is the date, ma'am. Sometimes, like, sometimes if you're in a relationship already, you got to fool people into going on dates. So, you're going to be like, "You know what? Let's go to, you know, this store. You know, I, I need to pick up a few things." Or, "Let's go, you know, to this place, and then next door will be this cool place." And you'll be like, "Oh, let's go here. This sounds fun." Or, "Let's go there. That sounds fun." But you, you got to be strategic. And then he'll end up spending on you and having a good time. Y'all be on literally a date when y'all went out to run errands. So, start off as errands and end up on a date, and you can get him to pay for the stuff on the errands and take you on a date. You said if he's rich in his 20s, that's fine. If he's marrying in his 20s, he's gonna be cheating in his 20s too, especially if he is rich. So, have fun with that. And also, make sure he can buy you some good makeup gifts to make sure that you stay married to him, okay?

How do you make a provider with lots of money move out of his mommy's house? Don't sleep with him in there. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Tell him, "I'm only gonna sleep with, I'm only sleeping with you in your own house, or our house if y'all get married." Don't give them none. You gonna be moving that quick, okay? When I quit, sh, I can't. I can't live like that, okay? Y'all, if y'all don't want to be put in timeout, uh, stop. Type. Don't type in any type of caps because that's annoying to like other viewers, and it's kind of rude. So, if y'all are wondering why y'all are being put in timed out, it's because of that. So, sprinkle, sprinkle. Let's see. Let me see. I'm going to read the, okay, Jana, did I miss your question? Okay, you said, "Your boyfriend says he don't like holidays and didn't get you anything for last Christmas. Should I go about it?" Girl, hope hopefully your other man will bring you something for Christmas because if your boyfriend don't like holidays, then guess what? You don't like sex. Sprinkle, sprinkle. When he, when he asks you for something, tell him, "I don't like sex, just like you don't like Christmas." And guess what? He going Christmas shopping, ma'am. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Y'all gotta pull, y'all gotta, y'all know what men value, y'all know. So, why don't y'all use it? I mean, that's common sense, man. If you don't give me no Christmas present, you ain't getting nothing no time of year ever, okay? If you don't like Christmas, you need to like Christmas Eve, okay? That ain't Christmas. You can give you the present the day before. Sprinkle, sprinkle.

"You're starting maid service, but you're on the fence about the prices. Do you, um, think guys would pay $300 an hour since I'm practically naked?" Girl, that's still too much. Sprinkle, sprinkle. I mean, if you naked, I would charge way more than that, girl. And why would you start a naked maid service? I'm sorry, I'm sorry. I'm not judging. Sprinkle, sprinkle. At least put on something skimpy. You can still get paid. Because first of all, if you're starting a naked maid service, what's going to stop them from doing this while you clean and zooming in when you being over? What's gonna stop it, man? So, I mean, you naked maid service? No. Skimpily dressed, maybe. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Uh oh, Haley. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Appreciate that. No, no to the naked. Tell him wear some clothes.

"All right, how do you convince him to pay for your trip to South Africa?" Tell him that that's where you've always wanted to go. It's your dream come true. It's your main goal. And just lie and hype it up to that's like you're, if he pays for you to do that, he'd be doing something that would totally change your life forever, and that you would forever be grateful. And just make up some stuff. Like, do your research and be like, "I wanted to visit, like, I want to visit this place. I want to go see this place. This is all my dream come true." And, you know, "If I don't do it this year, I'll never have a chance to do it again." Just make it seem like he's your only opportunity to go. And whenever he asks you if you need something or offers you something, always say that. Just like I said about the car payment earlier, like, always say, "Oh, trip to South Africa, you know?" But if that's what you want, and talk about it to everyone until he finally gives you the money to go. And shut up, okay? Sparkle, sparkle. Got you. Gotta let it get annoying. There you go. Mhm.

Okay, so another way to make men pay for you, okay? Ladies, before you even get on a date or in a relationship, it has to be known that you're a lady, and you like men who are a charming, polite, generous, and a gentleman. Now, don't, don't put this on no online dating profile. Speak this with your own words, you know, when you speak to them on the phone and things like that. And try to meet people in person instead of online because no, um, so when, when they say, "Well, what are you looking for?" I know I tell y'all, try to be vague when you answer that. The best thing you can say when you're trying to get men to spend on you is, "I'm looking for someone, you know, I'm looking for, you know, a gentleman. I'm looking for someone who knows how to treat a lady. I'm looking for someone who is not afraid to be generous when it's appropriate." When it's appropriate, keyword. That means you're not looking for a sugar daddy, but I'm looking for someone who have the money to spend when he want to spend it, okay? So, add that little last part in, "when it's appropriate," and leave it just like that. If you look like you deserve all of that, he ain't going to have no problem with it because he already know somebody else gonna do it if you don't. So, don't be, don't be afraid to say that, you know, early on so that y'all both don't have to waste your time. If he

Ain't trying to do any of that. You have some men that date as a challenge to see how least amount of money they can spend, and you don't want to be that experiment. So you need to say it early on, like straight up. That way, whatever restaurant y'all are going to, whatever date y'all are going on, he knows he needs to impress you.

And if he says, "Well, you know, I'm, I'm so sorry, I'm not going to be that person for you," act like it's no big deal. Like, "Oh, don't worry about it. It's, it's perfectly fine. You know, um, I don't feel like if that's not who you are, you shouldn't, you shouldn't be forced into that." And then just be, just be very nice and calm and gentle about it and just, "And I appreciate your honesty."

So he's going to leave feeling broke, cheap, and stupid, like his plan didn't work. And now he's got to go find somebody with a, you know, of lower quality. That's what he, that's what he's feeling like he has to go do now. He feels like he's got to go downgrade. So you're literally messing with his mind, like mentally, because you just basically told him he's got to go find a downgrade. Like, "Uh, okay. I, I'm going to try this again with somebody else and see if it works."

And if enough women, you know, speak their minds, you know, and tell men, you know, in the beginning of dating or, you know, relationships, that what they want in a man, they can stop wasting so much time. And the men can start realizing that no woman wants no cheap, broke dude that can't do anything for them. Okay? So you're going to, you're going to help women as a whole. And you're also going to allow that man to see that he needs to downgrade his, you know, um, the type of woman that he's attracted to is the type of woman he can't afford.

So either he's going to start to try to afford it, or he's going to try to stop, um, acting the way he's acting and, you know, start being the type of man that she wants. Or she's going to, or he's going to stop wasting her time and let someone else, you know, date her who's ready. Okay? Okay. Anywho, how do you maintain a relationship? You feel like our spark is dying? Um, how does he maintain the relationship with you? If you're the woman and you're asking me this question, that's why, that's why the relationship dies. Sprinkle, sprinkle. If he lets it die, then somebody else can bring it back alive. Man, y'all are doing everything backwards and wrong. If he lets the relationship, that's his, his fault. That ain't your job, ma'am.

If you look good, you think you're the prize. If he had to work to get you in the first place, you got to work to keep you too. If he ain't working to keep you, somebody else is or trying to get you. Either way, that ain't your job, ma'am. That's why is that the woman's job? Why ain't that the man's job? Why can't the man feel that the relationship is slipping? Because he don't care, which means it's not valuable to him, right? So let it, let it slip. And when he sees that you're no longer even, you know, interested, he can't get your attention, then he's got to start all over. Which means he's got to spend more money if he ever wants it back. The same way. If not, he already knows if you still look good, you can get it from somebody else. So that's not your job, man.

He said women need to have more audacity. Exactly. Main character energy. What? Where is that? If you're watching a movie and you see that the relationship, uh, between a couple is not, whose fault is it? Okay. Sprinkle, sprinkle. What do you? Let me see. These men have the audacity to ask you to sleep with them? What? Yeah. Do women need? Women need to stop thinking about other people so much, then start thinking more about themselves. Because if your man ain't even thinking about you, and you thinking about how you can make y'all's relationship better, that's why it ain't like it is or should be. Because you ain't thinking about you. That means he's probably not thinking about you. So why should anybody think about you? Think about yourself, ma'am.

You said, "How to get approached by rich dudes?" At the bar, sitting next next to him, plop down right on next to him, smelling good. Okay, that's all you got. Sit right next to him, smelling good. Find one that's already sitting down and plop down right next to him and smell good. Sip your hair, elongate your neck. It shows that you're vulnerable. So for example, I hope I have no double chin today, but, you know, I'm gonna go ahead and get y'all that. The side. Say you're the man at the bar right here. I'm gonna sit down. Like, when you expose your neck, you're vulnerable. And if you smell good, he's sniffing you. Neck like he like a vampire. What's your name? You know what I'm saying? You're appealing to his animalistic nature, his smell. And, you know, you're exposing your jugular. Pfft. Like, come on. Get it. That's all you gotta do. Expose your neck and smell good and sit down right next to him. Like, he like, you won't even see him.

Now, your sugar daddy has decreased the amounts of gifts, but steady planning nice dates and now a trip. You want more cash, though. Um, remind him of the time when you were getting gifts and cash and say, "Oh, you know what, May? So happy. You know, when you used to give me all those beautiful gifts? You know, I love those gifts so much. I would always call my friend or my mom and tell her the nice thing you did." Like, play him up in the past and remind him how happy those things made you. And maybe he'll start doing it again. Even if you got to make up a whole fake story about it. "You remember that one thing that you bought me? You know, I love that so much. I used to get so many compliments. You really have good taste when you used to pick out, you know, gifts for me. That was so romantic." Like, play it up. "Like, you remember this necklace you bought me? I love it so much. I mean, I just love receiving, you know, little tokens of your love. They're like love, my little treasures. And they were so sweet. And every time I wear them or look at them, I think about you." You're going to be getting. Yes, ma'am.

How do you stay locked into your goals and focus only on what exactly you want, even in horrible environments for the time being? Um, the best way to do that is to immerse yourself into whatever you're trying to accomplish. Okay? So immerse yourself in it. That means everything you do, see, touch, has to do with whatever your goals are. Okay? Immerse yourself in your goals to where you make your lifestyle your goals. Y'all know how like on social media, everyone has like a certain aesthetic and they immerse their lifestyle and whatever aesthetic that is, whether it's their decor, how they dress, you know, the type of, you know, uh, music they listen to or whatever. Immerse your goals into that and only focus on that. And everything else will seem medial, or you won't pay as much attention to everything else when you're more focused. Okay? So find things to help your focus.

A potential you just met invited you to his company cruise and y'all want to dinner. So far, should I accept the offer or make him put in more work? Company cruise? He's been bigging. What date? Okay, are you getting your own suite or your own room? Because if y'all gonna share a room and a little old bitty, uh, cruise, the answer is no. You need your own room. Only if he can get you your own room. That way you can disappear. He'll never find you on that big old ship if you want to. That's the deal. Get your own room. Because y'all know how easy it is if y'all ever been on a cruise before, y'all know how easy it is to miss, miss people if you want to. If y'all are in separate rooms, sprinkle, sprinkle. Get your own room. Okay? Okay.

Another way to make them spend more money, focus on something more expensive that you that he, you know, he's gonna say no to, and then compromise to what you really want. Okay? So think big, then get cash and give them whiplash. That means you don't know what hit them. So y'all know, y'all know that lyric. So ask for something way bigger and more expensive and then settle for what it is that you really wanted in the first place. [Laughter] [Music]

Okay, how can we attract a really attractive guy? That's easy. Anybody can get a cute guy, but does he have money? Like, you ain't cute unless you got money to me no more. Like, I'm not 16, 17, 18, 19 years old no more. You got to have some money to look good to me. Cute and broke don't go together. You can't even be cute if you're broke. You just got good genes, that's it. Okay? I don't, I, I don't speak young. I don't speak Pish. I don't speak young. Sorry. Oh, Aliso, sprinkle, sprinkle. You said I look skinny yesterday. Y'all said I was fat. Today I look skinny. Y'all make up y'all's mind. I'm just gonna go with I look good. Okay?

Okay, another way to get him to spend money on you, show him a picture. Okay? So if y'all are into wigs, makeup, and hair, and y'all got the type of man that will definitely spend money on those services for you, show him a picture of when you were looking like, and like, be looking a little bit more plain. When you show him the photo. So like, let's say that y'all meet and y'all, you're just looking like your everyday look, right? Like natural or whatever, or you got all some makeup. You look good, you look, you know, you look pretty. But show him a picture of you when you got all the fixings. And if he likes what you're looking like in that picture, and he'll, he'll be like, "Well, oh, you should, you should get your hair done like that again," or "You should, you know, dress like that again," or "I wish I could." That stuff costs money. But how much does it cost? Because now he thinks he got a bad bitch and he thinks everywhere he goes, that's gonna be in his arm, or he's gonna pay. Oh, how much is it? Then give him the price.

What's the best marriage advice for a young married woman? Don't become the maid or the domestic help. Remain the wife. Sprinkle, sprinkle. That's the best advice I can give you. Don't become the domestic help. Be, remain the wife. Now, never ever come to domestic help. Stay who you already are. If that's not what you already are, now, if you already domestic him, don't continue to be the domestic. How to work on being confident when I'm not? Okay, fake it. Fake main character energy. That's all you got to do. Fake it till you make it, man. If you don't know how to fake it, then I can't tell you how to make it.

So he said he's rich and very handsome and gets lots of female attention. How can I attract him? By attracting the ugly one with more money? Sprinkle, sprinkle. Or attracting one that looks good but not as good with more money? Or attracting one that has way more money and you don't care how he looks? Make sure he sees it. If you don't even know that you exist, then you still got to have that main character energy, man. Main character energy lets anyone see you. Um, or notice. I won't, I really won't say see because everybody, anybody can see. But main character energy gets anyone to notice you. Okay? So have that. And if y'all don't know what main character energy is, I explained it earlier in the video. It's whatever, wherever you go, people stop and acknowledge your presence. Whatever you're doing, people stop and acknowledge your presence. Whether it's a pause, a stare, you know, a smile, you command the attention of the room. Okay? That's main character energy. Get some. That's how you, that's how you get them to notice you. Stop asking me dumb questions, y'all. And when I say dumb questions, I mean like, y'all know what this channel is about. Don't play dumb. E. Real deal. Sprinkles, sprinkles. Appreciate that. He said I missed a Super Chat. Let me see. Hold on. Let me go scroll over there. Okay. [Music]

Okay, Mandy says, "How do you get him to give a birthday gift?" Um, tell him it's your birthday. If he don't give it to you, then that's not your man no more. All right? Okay. Nikki says, "Your friend is a germaphobe. I saw her provider pick and eat his own booger and went to kiss her. He is being possessive, aggressive because he's withholding sex. Should I tell her?" Oh, she is withholding sex. Um, if you tell her, it really doesn't matter because she's probably not giving him anything anyway. And if she's a germaphobe, she's probably not even bothered with him. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Because especially women, most women who are germaphobes, they don't deal too closely with men unless they need something. Okay. Al, sprinkle, sprinkle. What's the best marriage advice for a young married woman? Okay, I already answered that. Um, I already answered that. What am I drinking? Um, oh, iced coffee. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Appreciate that.

Okay, another way to get money, work on a project that you're creating for whatever reason. So it doesn't have to be anything major, just something that you need funding for. And don't call it an investment. I keep telling women, the stupidest thing they can do is tell a man and or ask a man to invest. And know, gift, gift me something, not an investment. Gift me. It can be a little bit at a time so it doesn't look suspicious on the tax or whatever. Just give me a little bit at a time towards what I'm trying to create. You know, so you can say, "Well, I'm starting a business." It doesn't even really matter if the business is going to be super successful or not. You just have these men, especially men that have money, like to see you doing something. Whatever it is. A lot of women start eyelash businesses online, or they sell, you know, cups or whatever. I don't know. Whatever, whatever shops y'all, you create online or whatever. Buy a little inventory and, you know, do something small and start off very small. But he doesn't know the cost of everything. He doesn't know how much packaging costs. He doesn't know any of that unless he's like trying to get into your business. And then that's none of his business. So just say, "I want to start a little company and I want to, you know, start off really small, but need a little bit of money to start with." And, you know, "Maybe each month I can, you know, invest a little bit more and more into my business." And blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. So now this is how you can get him to give you monthly money to help grow something that you're creating. And it's not like that money is going towards like purses or clothes that are going to be out of style in a year from now. He's literally helping you create something for yourself and he's, he can feel good about it. And you're going to grow your own business if it's a real business, or you're going to grow your savings account. Either way, a man likes to give a woman money who's doing something positive. So create a positive thing that you're doing and he will most likely give you money. Okay, sprinkle, sprinkle. Um, oh, sprinkle, sprinkle. Le, appreciate that, girl.

Now, let's see. What to do or say on first date while texting to meet to get money? Um, honestly, you know, you're gonna get money if he's ugly, ma'am. Or if you're way out of his league. You already know that conversation is very, very soon. So all you do is make sure wherever you're going is next to the bank or the ATM. Whatever restaurant you choose, whatever date location you choose, make sure it's with eyesight of an ATM. Okay? That way, when you're sitting down for dinner, start coming up with some scenarios that only cash can fix. Sprinkle, sprinkle. But make yourself seem like the victim, not like you're irresponsible. Things that could not be avoided. Okay? So allow yourself to be the damsel in distress and allow him to offer to help you financially. And then all of a sudden, "Oh my God, there's an ATM right there. We can go right after dinner." Okay? That's how. Sprinkle, sprinkle. And I already said that in more detail earlier in the video. So watch the video from the beginning and you'll get more details on that.

Someone asking me, "What do you do if a rich married man approaches you?" And they've asked me a thousand times. Let me tell y'all something. If you ask me that question a million times, you already know what you want to do, ma'am. So go do it. Do y'all see the psychology in this? If you have, if you have spammed someone's comments about a rich married man approaching you and you're asking me what to do, you already know what you want to do. So go do it. Main character energy. Do what they want, ma'am. Sprinkle, sprinkle. They don't ask permission, ma'am.

How do you get main character energy and not focus on dusty? As a 19-year-old, avoid the dust and the crust and get to the money. Okay? Use your imagination, man. Imagine your life in 10 years from this moment. If you were to deal with dusties versus dealing with men who can pay bills, buy you nice things, and get you to the point where you want to be, instead of having to wait or guess or hope or work from potential. So it's up to you. How do you see your life? That's how, that's the people that you're going to deal with. You know, however you see your life in 10 years, those are the people that you need to start gravitating towards who can get you there or who is going to be best for your path on the way there. You're not going to deal with no dusties if you see yourself living the best life. You're not going to deal with no dust if you see yourself living, you know, large. You're not gonna deal with them. You know why? Because how they gonna get you that? That's how you avoid it. By making your own goals, setting your own personal standards and your own life and not straying from it. That's it. That's how you avoid dusty. You choose to avoid them. You choose to go places they don't go or they can't afford to go. You choose to only talk and deal with people that can get you to the next level that you trying to get to. That's it. It's not like the dusties are these zombies that if they touch you, you catch their dusty disease. No, it's like this. I'm gonna avoid these type of dusty guys by not putting myself in the position, or I'm not going to deal with them if they are in my presence. I'm not dealing with them. Or I'm not going to even, you know, bother with, you know, that type of person if they can't help improve my life. So it's a personal choice that you need to make. And if you don't, then it's your own fault. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Make the choice, ma. It's up to you. That's how you avoid it by consciously avoiding it. Sprinkle, sprinkle.

Should you control the conversation? If he's ugly and very nervous and that masculine? Well, control it in a way that seems feminine. Like, ask him more questions and allow him to talk a little bit more. Find where his comfort zone is. Like, everybody has a comfort zone of what they're comfortable talking about. So find his and let him expand on that. Okay?

You've been paying for the hotel since he quit his job. You don't want to anymore. He used to pay at the start. How can I bring? Girl, he lost his job, he lost his woman, ma'am. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Give him two weeks and he can't find another one, then he loses his woman. Sprinkle, sprinkle. All right, you got two weeks, sir, otherwise you're gonna lose more than your job. Okay.

Oh, sheir, you got more this year than ever when dating and wanted to say thank you. I use your tips. Didn't know these games before. Bought all your books and now my real goal is living with a provider. Oh, oh, sprinkle, sprinkle. Miss Roof, appreciate that, girl. Well, you know what? It's all, you know, thank you for saying that, but it's all up to you as an individual to create your own standards and make sure you don't stray from them. You know, I just help y'all know that it's okay to do so. And I'm happy that it's helping so many people live their best life and not settle for what they probably would have settled for. They, you know, what would be a hilarious movie if my channel or, you know, if I didn't, if my channel was not giving this type of information, how many pic nishas and, uh, women would still be paying for their bro dusty and stuff like that versus how many are not? It would be a huge difference. People's lives would totally be different.

I already know. What's my religion? Currency. The religious, the religion of currency. Okay? You know how in dollar it says "In God We Trust"? Did they put it on money? The heck. All right. I feel like I don't have a religion based on most of them are patriarchal. And I only use religion to to get what I want. Like, I'll quote something if it's good for my, you know, my pockets. But I don't really subscribe to any type of religion. Okay, sprinkle, sprinkle.

Okay, you are trash. Okay, Oliver. That name is trash. Sprinkle, sparkle. Okay, Shir, how to get money out of overly aggressive sexual guys? By asking for it. And then when you say no, when I mean, if they say no, then like, then I'm sorry, we can't do nothing. There's nothing I can do for you. Don't even want to do nothing for you. You turned me off. Tell them what your turn-ons are: shopping, spending money, having bills paid. That's the only way you can get turned on. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Oh, appreciate that, Rose Bud.

Okay, someone send Oliver a job application. I'm sure his mama already printed him out some, but he ain't filled them out yet. Or he, you know, he haven't gotten online. You know, get that party his day done that he promised her. We don't know. What do? Okay, Priscilla, hold on. Let me see what you got. Your boyfriend don't spoil you as much as he should. You start dating other guys too and tell him I'm single to married. If he finds out, girl, why are y'all asking me permission to tell a man the truth? If he ain't got a ring on your finger and he ain't paying all them bills, then who cares what he thinks? If somebody else is willing to do that, then your explanation is not necessary unless you know he's willing to change and do more. I'm, I'm not getting ready to sit up here and explain myself to somebody that is not even trying to do anything for me. No. If you, if he's not spoiling you and giving you what you want, and someone else is offering to do that, give him a chance first and tell him what you want. See if he's going to do it. And then, you know, you don't have no ring, you ain't married. Even if you are, you know, if that's what you feel like you want and someone's offering it to you, or you can give it to yourself, but you want to let someone gift you, then let them gift you. Okay? And I know husbands and guys are be like, "Well, you're supposed to say no to that." But, but sir, you're supposed to say yes to your wife. Okay? Because if she hears no too many times, she going to get tired of it and she going to want a yes from somewhere. So guess what? If it ain't from you, guess where it's gonna be from? Somewhere else. Oh, Norma, sprinkle, sprinkle. So you better figure out how to get it. If you're gonna say no, you better be figuring out how you're gonna say yes in a few, you know, the next time she asks. Okay?

Y'all Oliver must be a trash man. Oliver must be a waste management. He in here talking about everything is trash. You the expert, sir. Sprinkle, sprinkle. All right, so waste management. He's the waste management. How much garbage may it make? I mean, I'm sure they make a decent amount of living. But since he's the expert, I, I don't know how much garbage may make. Oliver, you said Oliver is AKA Oscar the Grouch. Your, that's his brother. All right.

You revamped your entire look to give a feminine, classy, but guys still think I'll sleep with them just because they have money but aren't spending. What to do? Um, have the ones that spend already. So it doesn't matter what they think because you, you are who you are. If you don't have, if you don't have men spending on you already, then who, you know, that's what you need to prioritize first. When you get men spending on you, it doesn't matter what other people think because you already got what you need. Okay, sprinkle, sprinkle. Other men to spend on you first. So that means focus on men who you know are going to spend. And when they start spending, then who cares what everybody else thinks? They not paying your bills. All right.

You said only simps do these activities. What activities? The ones that can't afford. Only simps do activities they can afford. Yeah, you know, it would be hard for dusty to do these activities if he had no money to do them. Then it would be simping. It ain't simping if you got it. Okay? That's the difference. That's how we know you broke. It's not simping if you got it. It's just normal. Men already know women like nice things. When men already know it turns them on. Men already know it makes them feel secure and safe when, when a woman feels comfortable financially. Men already know this. Broke men don't know this because they're always in survival mode. And they've never been with a woman who felt safe and secure because they're all in survival mode too. Everybody stays up in there. So guess what? What you don't understand? So get your pen and paper out. Let me teach you. You're in survival mode. Therefore, everything is an act of a simp. Because YouTube is trying to survive. And every little extra thing that someone chooses to do for their woman so that they can have the type of relationship that they need or want is an extravagance to you. So when you can get to the lifestyle where buying your woman a gift or paying her bills is not a simp move, then we might have something to talk about. Or y'all might have something to talk about in the comments. But until then, go figure out how you can get out of survival mode and get you some money, sir. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Go get you several streams of income. Go do something manly so that you don't have to sit up here and scream out simp because you broke. All right, bye.

Your man used to be loving, caring, calling me, texting me. Now he's colder. How can you bring him back? Completely not hot and cold, girl. Get you another one. If, if you got to do all this work to bring a man back to you, you doing too much work. Okay? Ain't nothing better than a new one. Frank, spro. A new one that's texting on his own. Y'all trying to go back and raise the dead. Y'all practicing necromancy. Okay? You want to go back and raise the dead. Somebody with money. Okay? Y'all going back trying to revive stuff that died. Look, ain't nothing better than something alive. If he's not alive for you and things are all that and he's not trying to do that for you, then why are you trying to revive a corpse, man? Leave him alone unless he pop out the ground, aie, and start chasing you. I don't know what to tell you. Even the zombies was chasing the woman. Okay, she has to do nothing. Go watch Thriller. Okay? You.

Okay, what do you do when y'all are so silly? How do you tell him? Let's see. What if a man lied to you about his age by 10 years, but he's generous and has a lot of money? Who cares? Sprinkle, sprinkle. Ain't nobody worried about no man's age. Worry about the bank account.

What do you do when you feel like you have low self-esteem or main character energy? Ma'am, it's gonna be the answer to any of those types of questions. Fake it till you make it. Okay, sprinkle, sprinkle.

You said, "How to date widowers?" The same way you date anybody. Uh, it depends on how long, how old they are. They're old, they're used to having a wife. You got to act like a wife, smh, but not cooking and cleaning and stuff. Okay? That way, that's how you get the ring. You gonna like old people that live long time with a spouse and now the spouse is all of a sudden gone. They need somebody to fill that, fill that void really quick. So be there for them. Be there for that ring. Okay? Don't date a widower or a divorced man because men appreciate more the first wife. No, they don't. Second wife, better life. What you talking about? Sprinkle, sprinkle. You're not a few young. Now you young. Younger.

Okay, how do you tell him to buy you a house? You gotta, you have to paint the picture to make him want to do it. Like, you need to, you need to give him all the things you can do with that house, how you can make money from having the house, how you've always wanted a certain house, how he can come over and visit if he wants, you know, if y'all aren't in that space to move in or live together. If y'all are talking about living together, then talk about all the stuff y'all can do, the parties y'all can have, that the people you can invite over. Just paint the picture to where he's going to say yes. So you need to make it more appealing to him, you know, and paint a picture in his imagination of what the house could mean for you, the relationship, y'all's future, or just, you know, uh, in terms of financial, uh, gain or whatever. So just paint the picture for him, you know? And if he's still saying no, then he probably can't afford it or doesn't want you enough to buy you a house. Okay.

If a guy's worried about your friends more than he's worried about you, then that's the wrong type of guy. Okay? Or he just wants to see what your friends look like or who you hang out with. So the best thing I can tell you is just say, "Oh, I have friends, but they're like childhood friends. We don't talk often." That means you're not meeting anybody anytime soon unless I go make some new friends. And the only type of people that want to be my friend are men. And sprinkle, sprinkle. So then he's gonna be like, "Okay with you not having no friends." Sprinkle, sprinkle.

Okay, what you know, your man's first wife is super bitter. She looked at me, he up and down. And then I said, "I don't work." Grace, Grace, you okay? She said, "I don't work." I know that's right. Sprinkle, sprinkle. I'm sorry, I was too fun not to laugh at. It's also funny because your name is Grace and you sound like you're really nice and proper and sweet. And then, like, you saying something like that, it's like hilarious. How, how can you respond to your husband from his bad? How can you separate your husband from his bad friends, girl? You can lie and say his friends came on to you. "Your friend sending me text messages." "Oh, I deleted them." "Asking me if I, you know, want to meet him." "I don't know, man." "I have no idea." "I never really had to deal with that." And like, the funny thing is, I never had to deal with that because they all just died because my husband. Oh, all his bad friends is in the grave. That's why it's better to get you an old man. They can't have no bad friends because if you're bad when you're old, that's, that's a hazard to your health. So it's like, okay, they drinking, smoking, and trying to party at what age? They feel off. I don't know how to do it with. I don't know how to separate young people. Uh, I don't know how to separate a young man from his bad friends. But to tell him that the other one is trying to holler because, you know, I didn't have to deal with that. They just died. We just went to the funeral. That's how we got rid of them. But goodbye, asses. The ass. The dust. The dust. So I don't know. I do know if you was dating an older man, you probably would had a problem. Okay. I mean, they weren't bad people. They were just bad influences or they just did things bad for them, you know what I'm saying? So, you know, everybody have their advice. Therefore, you know, that's, that's what happens when you get old. Oh, oh, and don't take care of yourself trying to be bad all the time. Okay.

Okay, oh, oh, that reminds me. Funeral. Okay, if you go to a funeral with a man, you can get so, so much afterwards because they have been faced with mortality. You can get so much after. Y'all go to a funeral, especially if it's someone that he knew, but not too close, like not a family member, but like a friend or something like that, or, you know, just somebody that wasn't like super, super close to them because then they'll be like, super grieving stage. So you want just like a friend or something like that, so you can get so much after you go to a funeral with a man. You know why? Okay. Funeral shopping. Fore. First of all, you ain't got underwear. So, okay, that's number one. Uh, number two is like, after the funeral, he's gonna feel like he's been faced with his mortality. He needs to do more. So you could start suggesting vacations, leveling up. You know, we got to live while we're here. We should, you know, we should get the house. We should get that car. You know, take him to a funeral to get him to start spending money because you ain't long. You can't take it with you. You can leave it to your kids, but you can't take it with you. Or you need to start enjoying more of the fruits of your labor. So they'll be less cheap, willing to spend and enjoy their lives with you if they have just seen someone's demise. So it's like, go to the funeral anyway. Um, or even if you don't know anyone that's passed away, if someone's passed away and you've like, just the story on social media or the news or whatever, just start talking and like, you know, "We should live our lives now because you never know. We should, we should have the best time." And then he might agree. And then that's how you can get him to spend money by telling him he should. Okay, sprinkle, sprinkle.

You said your live came up on my girlfriend's two-year phone. Thoughts? Your girlfriend knows. Knows what? Knows to watch she's smart. You got a smart one. Okay, she must think you're worth it if she's sitting here watching me to to help the relationship with you. As a compliment. Otherwise, she would just put you under dusty, your number file your number under dusty or dinner or, you know, P or whatever. You know, if you still in a relationship with her, count your blessings. Okay? And will she ask you for something? You know what to do. Give it to her. All right. She's your provider.

Friends flirt with you when we are out. And girl, that's normal. If they're not flirting with you, then you, you ain't the one, ma'am. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Don't flirt back unless you know, unless that, that's the one you really want. If, if your man's friends don't flirt with you and don't like you, you ain't cute. And also, it could, they could be testing you to see if you're loyal. So, you know, accept the compliment, but don't flirt back. Okay?

Let's see. You said, "One thing about men, they gonna flirt with each other's woman." They sure will. Is having your own business a turnoff? Or if you're talking about it? Sprinkle, sprinkle. So here, if you're leading with it, yes, it's a turnoff. If they don't know what you're doing, if, if your business is something small, feminine, and non-threatening, they don't care. You know what I'm saying? Is, and anyway, whoever you're talking to needs to have more money anyway, or at least make it enough to pay them bills. You know, so I don't lead with what I do for a living. I never talk about what I do. Most people that know me in real life don't even know what I do for a living. Okay? They don't even know I have businesses or they just, they don't even know how much money I make because I don't talk about it. Why? Because it's none of their business. You know? So if you're a woman, you don't impress men with your job or career unless they're trying to build with you and build on your back. And you are a Barbie builder. You let them court you properly, pay for you, make sure that, you know, they know that they can afford you. If they want you in their future, somehow. You don't lead with your business. Your business is what keeps you busy when you're not with them. Your business is what you do in your spare time when they're not doing the most for you. It's none of their business. When a man dates you, he's not on a job interview and he's not interviewing you. He's trying to see if y'all are compatible enough to start a relationship. He don't care about your business as long as you're not doing something illegal or something that he doesn't agree with. It doesn't matter. You know? So don't lead with that. That's not who you are. You are not your business. That's something you choose to create and do to fill your time and stack the money that he's giving you and flip it. That's all it is. It's investing in yourself and growing whatever he's giving you. That's all that is. So you can think of it, your business like a garden. And if he's going to give you stuff to create a, a, a garden, your business is your harvest and how much you sold the harvest for, or, you know, how much you create from your garden. So if, if you got some flowers, you can sell roses. If you got some, you know, mint, some basil, some thyme, you can sell herbs at the farmer's market. Whatever. I'm just using it as a small example. So if he gives you money to start you a business, or if you already started your own business and he's giving you money, you can invest into your business. But don't lead with it. If you are highly successful and there's no way to avoid the, you know, telling him that you're the highly successful businesswoman, downplay it. Don't talk about it with him until you know he's secure as a man and you got him paying all your bills, you got him paying for everything. So he still already feels masculine and doesn't feel like you are wearing the pants. You know what I'm saying? So get him in the position to feel masculine before you go into a lot of detail about your businesses. Okay? That way, you already know he doesn't want you for your money and that he's still willing to pay them bills and all of that. Because most women who have money, they not, most women who already have money also want a man to still be a man to pay them bills. Okay? Just because a woman has enough money to pay her own bills doesn't mean that she wants to be with a man who won't pay all the bills. It's a masculine move and it's a turn-on. Otherwise, I can't hear you and I, I don't respect you. If you, if you're a woman and you have your own money and you are with a man, he should still be paying all the bills. If y'all are married and together, at least let him have that. And like most men don't, they, I don't, I'm not gonna say most men, some men don't understand that that's for them. It's not even for you. Allowing a man to pay all the bills in the house is for him so he could have some type of respect. It ain't for us. We can get five men to pay all the bills. We get two men to pay all the bills. We can pay all the bills. But we gave him that responsibility as a man so that he can have respect in his own home. Take it and shut up and appreciate it and pay them bills. And if you don't, if, if you're a man and you don't understand that, you ain't no man. You thought you was. Sprinkle, sprinkle.

Okay, another way to get money out of a man is to tell him that exact speech. If you need him paying bills and you trying to go from being a 50/50 chick and paying half these bills to have him paying all the bills, give him that speech I just told him, told y'all. Okay. Oh, thanks Natalie. Sprinkles for. If you tell a man you don't respect him if he got you up here paying bills, then he gonna figure it out. Unless you're just his roommate and that's all he's with you for, and he got you paying bills, sleeping with him, doing all this other stuff, and you ain't got no ring. Or if you do have a ring and you're his wife, you know, tell him the reason why you don't get the respect you think you deserve is because I'm sitting here paying these bills. This is your job. You still got a voice if you're the wife, because you still can say yes or no when he try to get some or when other things are concerned. You, you're wife on paper, man. You got a voice. Learn how to use it.

We are 20. You're building a house and two away from move. Didn't ask for money for any bill. We go out a ton and have fun and she's not satisfied. First of all, I'm not marrying no man in his 20s. Never too young. Second of all, if you're building a house, is it, is it her dream house? Do she want to live in that house for in 10 years from now? Or is it just y'all starter home? Are you going to be able to afford her the luxuries in life that she's going to want in 5 to 10 years from now? Now, if she gets pregnant in 5 to 10 years from now, are you going to be able to also afford a house, a baby, taxes, and whatever she needs if she decides to stop working? You know, if you don't know, then make sure you know how much and you know it is to maintain a woman and a new family and see if you're ready for that. Because it doesn't matter if she's satisfied. A woman is never satisfied. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Can you afford to to keep her? Is the question. Let me repeat that. A woman is never satisfied. So you asked the wrong question. The question is, can you afford to keep her happy? There's a difference between happiness and satisfaction. The reason why women are never satisfied is to keep men going, to keep them ambitious, to keep them thriving and striving. Because if we were satisfied and we just settled for whatever you bringing us, you wouldn't be bringing us nothing but what you, what you brought us when we first met you. And that's not gonna be enough to maintain the future. You know what I'm saying? So it has nothing to do with the woman being satisfied because she ain't never gonna be satisfied. It's not in her nature. But can you make her happy? Can you provide? Can you provide your family with what they need and may want long term? And if she decides not to work, can you provide enough to maintain? That's it. Sprinkle, sprinkle.

You're okay. Your husband is perfect, but he's always telling me, "What should I wear?" [ __ ] stuff you want. She wants you to wear [ __ ] stuff. Um, I don't know what to tell you. If you don't agree with wearing that type of stuff, don't wear it. Or wear it and make sure it's expensive so you can resell it later if you don't want it.

uh oh sprinkle sprinkle you said only for the girls gay that's your name sprinkle sprinkle you say you scared to ever find your husband leave cheating you know you can't leave him okay well here's the thing you find him cheating then he can he can find you shopping with his card ma'am sprinkle sprinkle that's how you forgive he gotta pay I'm serious like you can't leave him so you might as well go shopping might as well we'll go get you what you want man throw everything throw everything on the counter every time you get mad get something more expensive and throw it on the counter you go I need the new phone here you go Chanel girl here I want that too and throw stuff on the counter say until you stop crying then when you home be like love my new hair my packages are arriving soon that I ordered online too you gonna forget all about his cheap girl this is Christmas oh only for the girls and guys thank you sprinkle sprinkle appreciate that you're make make make it Christmas with Make It Rain with his credit card or make it Christmas with his credit card okay if you if you fear that much he's GNA cheat on you if he ever cheats on you make sure your the next day is Christmas for you okay sprinkle sprinkle how do you deal with emotionally unavailable men making sure they are financially available sprinkle sprinkle are you financially available because I don't care about the emotional part in the that's not why I'm here sprinkle sprinkle if you are looking for emotionally available men how long are they going to be emotionally available for I'm asking I rather the financial available oh Kelly sprinkle sprinkle appreciate it okay so young women who are probably looking for an emotional connection with a man okay when you get all that stuff out of the way and realize that that doesn't stop them from doing whatever it is that you don't want them to do when you realize all of that and especially if you are 50-50 chick or someone who's doing the most for the least you're going to W you're going to get wise you're going to be like you know what because a man is emotionally available he's also going to be emotionally Avail available for the next chick so y'all got to think about this if you have a man that's emotionally unavailable it's better for you because that means he's not looking for someone to listen to him whine and cry and connect with emotionally and then sexually and and then all this kind of stuff because most of the time when a man is emotionally unavailable it allows them to be emotionally unavailable to most other people too and so it's less likely that he's going to form a connection with another person if he's emotionally unavailable type okay so if if you're about your money then that's the best type of man to have sprinkle sprinkle if you are trying to have you can create emotional the best way to create emotional connection with a man is to trigger him it doesn't even have to be positive sprinkle sprinkle okay another way to get them to spend on you and I said this in the beginning and I'm going to go I'm G to go go into more detail so look good enough to get spent on when you leave your house with him okay because there's nothing more embarrassing than going to the store with a woman and she looking like who did it and why and a man pull it out his wallet to pay so make sure you look good enough for him to want to spend on you in public ladies there you go put more effort into what you look like someone says know your targets of course don't try to get no cute young man to you know to take you shopping and pay your rent unless he offered it offered that to you that's more for the older or less attractive man because you know they're going to most likely say yes and you know that they can afford it and continuously afford it if they want to continuously date you now if you're young and attractive and you really like a woman and and you're a man and you're willing and you got money you're willing to pay then let her know that because most women are not going to just feel like you're going to do all of that because they're so used to men their own age not having enough so if you have enough and you're willing to do that if you're a younger guy let her know from the start by actions say I can do it and that way she'll take you more seriously okay what are my thoughts on waiting till marriage to cook and clean I'd rather you wait wait to cook and clean then do that thing sprinkle sprinkle appreciate appreciate that yes y'all women will be in there cooking and cleaning and making full course meals and won't sleep with a man and up there at the altar with little pee PE it don't or two minutes his full y'all just don't even know y'all up there with too many man y'all don't even know y'all up with y'all up there with bad in in the sack saying I do also but you know his favorite meal though and then the sad part is you GNA think it's good because you ain't never had nothing before and you going to be hooked on somebody that's terrible and never know nothing else better unless you go cheat so do I believe in it pick no so anyway can you take away sex if a guy is newly dating says he doesn't take care of women financially he buys gifts and flies to see me but he doesn't pay bills okay well that's why that's good because he doesn't live in your town so you can still date other men who will pay sprinkle sprinkle should you allow your man to put you in an apartment that couldn't comfortably afford on your own I hate my current apartment but it's affordable for me um only if you have enough Savings in order to pay a couple of months in advance in case something happens or or to move out somewhere that is more affordable before you move in so make sure you got something in your account that can get you out or continuously pay until you find a better solution if something should happen or Department also allow him to give you some money to start a business or have a second stream of income so that you can afford it okay so always put in place a way to afford whatever it is someone else is doing for you because without them then you can't live that life so you need to set it up to where without them if something should happen you still can live that same exact you know uh way so set up a business set up a savings um blah blah blah blah blah blah blah or whatever before you even move in that way it's guaranteed and you don't have to worry um and let him know like you know um I would like to have at least three or four months of money to afford the apartment in case something happens to us or you and then I also want to start a small business so that I can cover the extra cost if if you know if I want to stay here and that he'll think it's very responsible and probably agree with you unless he wants to control everything by having you in a predicament and if that's the case then get it from someone else get the money and the extra savings from another one okay or from yourself I don't know okay y'all like my skin this is okay y'all I'm wearing a bronzer highlighter from level up cosmetics in Bohemian Bohemian um or bronze so if y'all like what I'm looking like y'all just go click on the description bar and hit LevelUp cosmetics. us blink or just type in LevelUp cosmetics. us and go ahead and get you that little highlighter it's it's like in a um cute little black compact with a little lady on the front and it's a bronzing highlighter y'all need to go ahead and get that so y' skin can glow Sparkle Sparkle okay it is it's very Flawless and skin-like I've had it there for years and it's like one of the best sellers okay get it and also I'm wearing um well I'm wearing combination of the lipsticks but check out the lipsticks too y'all okay you want to have white a sex with a white guy older than you but you have a boyfriend what to do ma'am if he wanted to have sex with a white woman and he had a girlfriend what would he do why you asking me ask yourself what he do what would he do sprinkle sprinkle and guess what what's stopping you if you want to do something do it man' and I mean don't you have free will what's stopping it do you need permission I don't know you give yourself permission okay hi Shear keep saving the world sprinkle sprinkle appreciate that girl okay um you have a sugar daddy and he gave you herpes and has made you feel super insecure and angry but he's very generous what do you think girl I don't know make them pay for it I don't know Sparkle Sparkle sorry girl herpes you'd be pissed well I mean you could sue them can't you I don't know to tell you if you if you can sue him for that figure out how call the lawyer to ask I don't know I have no idea because I feel like a lot of people that have to deal with that that's why a lot of people ain't trying to kiss nobody don't don't kiss them stop kissing people unless they paying them bills okay I get you some fixed Vaper rub how should you should you tell him you're seeing other men because he doesn't support me financially no don't tell him nothing why you seeing him if he don't support you financially anyway he he should know that you're seeing a man if he's not financially supporting you if you look too good to even be with him he know he ain't gonna be there long if he doesn't financially support you so I mean who's wasting whose time okay who wasted who time oh you don't have sex with men you just take their money good for you ma'am that's how you do it sprinkle sprinkle someone says don't believe in karma and go exactly you it's up to you as an individual what you want to do whatever you let stop you from doing what you want to do if it makes sense and it's not the best thing for you then that's that makes sense but to to sit here and say oh I can't do that because this because of Karma and this that that that's you telling yourself not to do something that you want to do if that's what you want to do go do it ma'am because men don't care about no Karma men will sit there and do exactly what they want to do and don't even think about no Karma okay like you know what I can do it because I want do you think men and women are totally different y'all sit here scared they sitting here don't what they want y'all sitting here cooking and cleaning they sitting there making a mess and watching you clean y'all sitting here saying oh my gosh what are you doing why don't you love me why aren you financially I I mean why aren't you financially or emotionally available and they over here you know living their best life not caring and doing what they want and y'all are s y'all women are choosing to suffer like literally women choose to suffer because they've been conditioned to suffer condition yourself to get what you want to live the life you want and to make that man pay them bills okay why y'all do that instead of suffering so much because that's ridiculous y'all got to ask permission to do the normal stuff y'all got to ask permission to do stuff a man would do in a heartbeat why because you've been conditioned stop if you want to do something go do it ma'am make sure you're smart enough to get away with it you think you need to get away with or make sure you got enough money in your account if you need to do something you can do something make sure that you got everything covered if that's what you want to go do the difference between a man and a woman is that she's smart enough to cover herself and go do what she want to do and a man just gonna do what he want to do anyway because he know the woman is conditioned to suffer and so if part of taking that person and you know dealing with them is suffering in then he know that she's probably on board for it that's why I say make them pay for forgiveness that way you suffering while you shopping this on a card and you ain't suffering long because you're gaining you know what I'm saying so switch switch off your suffering mode and turn on you know you do what you want mode get what you want mode and worry about all that stuff when a man start worrying about it okay cuz y'all y'all sound as like y'all want to suffer like y'all in line to suffer like y'all need permission to even live main character energy ma'am sparle sple uh oh sparle sple an so if y'all are always in suffering mode this is why men is so easily to take advantage of you because you expect it you expect to suffer so when that's they GNA give you expect to thrive expect to get them bills paid expect to look good and that's what you going to get go go find a a video with a man talking all this stuff and see if the word Karma even comes up y'all is too much too much girl that's a way to keep y'all in line y'all haven't learned that keep y'all doing what expected suffer okay what to do when he doesn't give you money get the get his brother get his daddy or get another man to give you some money ma'am stop wasting your time with one that's like going to the ATM machine and it's empty man what you doing go to another one sprinkle sprinkle he said if Karma was real all men would be gone that's so true girl y'all sitting there trying to get money out of empty ATM machines or out of order ATM machine y'all asking me how to get money out of a ATM machine that won't give you know go to it find another one ma' sprinkle sprinkle you said how long do you wait to ask for money you start off giving them situations that you gonna need money very soon in and if they can't give it to you you you know you have no more reason to see them so literally just start talking about what you need first so that they can come up with ways that they that they can give it to you if not you know you need to look like that's the only reason you're there you need to look like look I'm the type of woman that you got to financially support otherwise we have nothing to talk about any further that's what you got to look like you got to look like when people see y'all together they already know why you there because he got money and he's spending if you don't look like that it's going to be hard to ask for anything if that's not the dynamic of the relationship you're G to be hard it's going to be hard for you to ask for anything if you don't look like you can ask so look like you can ask and then ask like um I know you're old and I'm young and cute and you're old and you know someone needs money that's that's as easy as that you don't ask that way but you just give them situations to help you with be like you know what I'mma need some extra help this month or else you know it's going to be hard for me to get out and you know for us to date because I'm going to be super busy trying to figure out how I'm going to take care my problems if they want to see you guess what they gonna solve your problems financially sprinkle sprinkle that's pretty much it if if you're not that valuable to them then it's going to be harder to find ways to get money from it make sure they're the right type of guy that wants to give you money [Music] MH sprinkle sprinkle what agrees who agrees with white men if better they do well you know what you know you know the best sex when all your bills is paid that's the best sex right after the one who paid them or right after you buy that new card he put in your name that's the best kind I don't care what race it is sprinkle sprinkle the one the one that gives you everything you want that's the best kind okay the direct after direct deposit ma'am yes otherwise you know you just sitting over there you know if a woman is trying to figure out how to pay her bills or if her bills are being paid on time or if you gonna give her some money sooner or later she ain't concentrating on you she can't even concentrate enough to get the pleasure out of it so if you sitting there you know doing your thing sir and you ain't paying a thing then she's not even concentrating unless she trying to unless she already got somebody paying her bills and you're just a side side dude that she probably not going to take seriously I don't know we don't know he said it's true only medium ugly girls get approached by men is it true only medium ugly girl I don't know I have no idea you what type of men you know if I let me tell y'all something if I were a man and I was strategic it depends on what I'm looking for see men approach women at the moment by what they're looking for at the moment so if a man is looking to have sex with somebody real quick he's not going to choose the type of woman he wants to wife okay and if a woman wants to have sex with a man real quick she's not going to choose the type of man she wants as a husband okay so get that out of the way if a man approaches a woman because she looks like she has good credit she can afford to get on some paperwork and get the house that he then he looking to build with her you know what I'm saying if a if a man approaches a really pretty woman he already knows that he gonna have to do everything for her and keep her happy and satisfied and if he doesn't have the bank account to do that or the patience to do that he's not going to approach her if he's smart now most men who will approach extra beautiful women will just do it to boost their self-esteem and then not really follow up with them because they can't afford them so either way a confident man who has everything that he needs in order to uh do whatever he needs to do to keep anybody happy will go get exactly what he wants and not even think twice so you can tell a lot L about a man by the type of woman he chooses and what he chooses her [Music] for sprinkle sprinkle what about a man who's close with his family um if that's a problem in your relationship with getting him to spend then you need to bring that up as soon as you can in a nice way this is what I would say I can tell that you're extremely close to your family and I really admire that about you but in order for this relationship to work I'm going to also need you to be extremely uh comfortable with also fulfilling my needs so act like you don't mind him being so close to his family as long as you taking care of period and let him know that you're aware and observant that's also letting him know that you're aware and observant and that you're not going to be pushed aside because you can just go get another one okay you say you feel like you losing him he don't feel like like he losing you ma'am sprinkle sprinkle because y'all y'all think backwards look you feel like you losing him but he don't feel like he losing you you're doing everything wrong if you don't if he doesn't feel like he's losing you then he's not even worth it ma'am uh oh Ariana sprinkle sprinkle appreciate that girl it's always the woman that got to put in the work it's always the woman who suffers stop suffering you ain't you ain't losing him he losing you ma'am shut up y'all are so conditioned y'all are so conditioned to take the victim mentality y'all are so condition to say oh I'm doing shut up you're freeing yourself for a better one he's losing you you you getting ready to go get something better what are you talking about man no wonder these guys treat women so terrible look what y'all sound like I y'all are you got how do I how do I feel like I have a high self-esteem how do I feel like what do what do I do to put the the spark back in your relationship I feel like I'm losing him D y'all sound like a bunch of suffering sufferers shut up I feel I feel like he losing me I F to go get something better okay the spark is out of the relationship must be ready to find a better one or another one you know oh you know somebody wants to do this and do this and that should I do it I do it because I want to that's what I want to do I don't need permission I'm main character if you don't have no main character energy then you sitting there suffering playing the side role of somebody in a character in a background man main character energy stop suffering stop choosing to suffer change your words change your life okay shut up and stop suffering all of those women not just you all of the women who choose to say certain things and wonder why their life is the way it is oh I guess I'm slipping away from guess some about slipping something better you know he ain't paying attention to me no more guess what that means somebody else will never choose to suffer unless y'all unless that's what you really want to feel oh my gosh I what if he's watches this or oh my gosh what if what if he has a female what if you got a man friend what if you watch something else what if you see somebody in real life okay what if why isn't he worried about you why you always worried about him why you holding on for dear life and he don't even know something wrong shut up stop being the victim stop suffering and go live your life you said submissive cost money for real though you said what sheir is a true feminist not these people these bees that pay for me dinner oh my goodness who out here doing that this is their birthday um you said some emotional some women are too emotional and care a lot okay care a lot about who a person that don't care nothing for them a person that barely cares about them what who are you the care bearers okay are you even getting paid to [Music] care no if it's not beneficial to care it should you know you should get more out of them caring for you how do you tell him you've been to jail street cred guess what I got something to tell you I got some Street but I look good in my I look good in my mug shot sir sprinkle sprinkle you know I ain't gonna be caught looking like who did it and why in any situation that's how you tell them sprinkle sprinkle then you tell them the story and make it sound like an adventure as long as what you did was not disturbing enough for them to say uh I don't think that we should change in this day and era most people have a Muk shot especially if they're old they didn't got something something didn't happen long as you look good in your mug shot you good how do you handle him believing rumors about you as long as he believe in the rumor that he got to pay bills to get with me that's the only the rumor I you know I care about he believe that one sprinkle sprinkle you want you want to you want to be a part of you know my life as a grown man you got to pay bills and that's not a rumor make sure your rumors at least have some truth to some of them that way if he asks you about them you can correct him so I don't know what type of rumors they are but if he's getting information about you from other people he's messy anyway and he's not the type of man that you want to be with because he seems very feminine so you need like a real masculine man who don't even listen to rumors who do what he won't cuz he can you know what I'm saying because if you got a man that's always listening to rumors and gossiping and stuff he's most likely on the download anyway or not man enough for you somebody said y'all in high school exactly okay it's like we don't deal with those type of little boys you got some money that's that's why we dealing with what if they're bad rumors if they're not true then don't claim them just say well believe what you want stay unbothered you know what I'm saying for me if there's any rumors about anybody I'm staying unbothered because I'm still gonna get my money you still gonna pay these bills no matter who saying what sprinkle sprinkle main character energy ma'am main character energy what main character cares about rumors they still going to be the main character period and so do you believe it guess what bills still do you paying them then I don't care what you think or believe sprinkle sprinkle guess what I still need you to pay for this guess what I'm still need some money guess what you still taking me shopping all right do what you want so who cares about rumors if you going to deal with somebody that's going to believe rumors about you you're the stupid one okay think about that you gonna sit there and deal with somebody that believe rumors about you and or you want to deal with someone who believes rumors about you who's the dumb one sprinkle sprinkle you said but you don't want to feel stupid then don't feel stupid it's a choice you said women gossip and spirit look I don't know enough like you need to you need to surround yourself with people that don't care about that kind of stupid stuff okay people that lie and gossip and start rumor don't have enough money to spend sprinkle sprinkle so that's their form of entertainment they ain't got enough nice places to go they ain't got enough stuff to do that actually cost money so gossiping and starting rumors are free okay so if y'all are dealing with that Riff Raff you know that's y'all's Choice once again to suffer okay how to get a man to move you out and live with him uh tell them that tell them you're moving in Sparkle Sparkle let's see what he say guess what I'm moving in next week pause see what he say and and also tell him I ain't paying no bills either pause and ain't working pause if he don't say nothing you good spinkle spinkle then you like when I'm gonna get my key pause that's all you gotta do that's all you gotta do if he says no and all this kind of stuff I'm like okay that's fine then when he he invite you over don't go I don't feel like driving all the way over there I don't feel like doing that no I'm good you come over here oh no I don't feel like it no sorry then he gonna ask you to move in sprinkle if that's what you want still then you say no then it's like all then you then you put out your conditions well I'll move in only if blah blah blah BL BL here you go you said gossiping is a feminine trait it's a low class feminine trait yes or it's a trait that you have because you don't have anything else to do there find something else to replace it with and then your life will probably be better sprinkle sprinkle so here's my thing if you're dealing with a man who listens to rumors and gossip you ain't dealing with no man sorry because he could be reading a book he could be doing some type of uh business he could be uh learning how to flip his income or create more streams of income he could be working out he could be doing all the stuff besides listening to rumors and gossiping he could be doing anything else to better himself so if he's choosing that on purpose that's the kind of Life y'all are going to have in the future him listening to everything everybody else say and then believe in them and not believe in you do you really want a man like that if the answer is no then Dodge that bullet sir ma'am okay you told him that if he don't continue to pay your bills and move me in his house we're done well good for you ma'am guess you gonna know what happens when one way or another you gonna get what you want you said he mad he got mad that you don't care and now you moving in next week girl I told you stop caring that's when they start okay if you really want a good holiday gift this year ladies when when your man asks you what you want for Christmas or whatever holiday you say the big thing that you want hopefully you get that if you don't want anything major um definitely send him links to exactly what you want so you can get what you want if you have that type of man or if you're just starting to date and you're not sure how much he you know he will spend on you tell him oh just get me something that you really think you know I would like or just say but you don't have to get me anything but just if you really want to gift me just you know I like tell them what you like say in in a vague way say I I like jewelry and then you're going to see what you're worth you know what I'm saying especially if he's trying to impress you if he gonna bring you some cheap jewelry or he going to go and buy you something a little expensive or a lot expensive what is he gonna bring you so tell them you like jewelry don't tell them exactly what you want if you're new to dating him if you want to see how generous he is how what he thinks of you how long he plans to keep you in his life all this kind of stuff will determine what what he's going to spend so if you really want to know like oh I like jewelry I like this I like that jewelry see if he come with something good and if he doesn't then you know how he feels especially if he has money see what store he chooses see what type of jewelry he chooses for you and you'll know where you you know where this is hidden should you ask for gifts on the first date um before the first date ma'am especially if y'all have each other's phone numbers you tell them what you like and see if he show up with it if you don't tell them what you like continuously talk about the things that you like and want or need or may need in the future and see if he wants to give those things to you if not by the SEC the third day if you haven't gotten anything then he's not trying to give you nothing ma'am sprinkle sprinkle especially if you're keep talking about it especially if he's the correct Target if you're dealing with somebody your own age you know good luck unless you're older you might get it but like I'm if y'all are 20 something years old and y'all talking to 20 something years old it's not even worth wasting your breath or you're texting for a older man will bring you something ma'am if you're a wine connoisseur mention some type of wine that you like because he thinks y'all are both going to enjoy it at some point so you're more likely to get an expensive bottle of wine if you like flowers most men kind of feel like it's corny to bring women flowers unless it's like a special occasion plus you got to carry them flowers around on the whole date so um you can say some something like you you like perfume you like wine you like uh you know something that you can carry besides a big old thing of flowers unless you in high school or something flowers is like a status symbol walking down the hall with it or something like that I don't know but ask for things that you really enjoy that you can really enjoy some women like you know expensive candles or something like that I don't know um some women like um trinkets I don't know but tell them what you like tell them what you're into tell them if you collect something tell them you love wine tell them you love a certain brand of wine tell them you and see what he show up with and then the next State you know prepare him for what else you like and when you receive the gift then act like it's really a big deal and the praise that he gets from you and you know the attention and affection that he gets from you for bringing the gift he's going to want a repeat of it so he's going to bring you another gift so whatever it is let him know ahead of the date so that he's prepared and can actually bring it to you and whatever that is act like it's all all that and if it's not all that just say thank you anyway and smile and then just don't use it or act like you know you you're appreciative still but then you know if he asks you about it in the future be like oh you know it really wasn't my style but I really like love how it looks on my you know dressing table or something like that okay then he'll want to get you something else well I'm sorry you didn't like it what what do you want okay do you bring your man around females or family you know to be messy why would you do that see why would you choose to suffer go ahead ma'am y'all know y'all signed up for suffering for something strange reason you don't need permission to suffer that's all your own free will so that's all I'm saying if Society tells you you're supposed to do something and it leads to your suffering do you still do it if people expect you to be a certain way but it leads to your suffering do you still do it if you if you know something is going to happen if you introduce somebody to somebody else do you still introduce them I mean it's common sense right so use your brain and you can make the best decisions just by having common sense and thinking not following society's conditions upon women and their suffering be smart be smart choose you and choose what's best for you and your family and your relationship or whatever okay stop going by what society and how Society wants you to suffer it doesn't make any sense how do you think you're G to get money out of somebody if you're GNA keep choosing suffering you only pretend to suffer to get the money and then you suffer no more sprinkle sprinkle okay he said if a man had a hair transplant he gets arrogant so stupid girl he got his wig on his permanent wig he think he all that I got hair now y'all can't tell me nothing girl but you could tell the ones that got the hair transplant you could tell you can tell so this still ain't all that like we what can tell y'all got that good old block hairline looking like Frankenstein sprinkle sprinkle we can tell we just don't say that trying to be nice but we know we know the ones that got it the ones who ain't at it the ones who bald up under down on who used to be bald um but you know it's okay as long as you can afford to fix it just know we know most of us so anyway how do you tell your friend you're not introducing her to man because she sleeps with married man okay this is what I would say um you're not going to meet my my man because I don't trust you and you look better than me and I don't trust my man that's that's all you need to tell when you when you choose not to introduce first of all if you have a a friend that sleeps with married man you already think your man is gonna be attracted to her that's number one so you don't trust him first that's number one you don't trust your man number two you don't trust her either so what you really saying is you don't trust neither one sprinkle sprinkle but that's good because you shouldn't you shouldn't trust either one of them all you need to trust is that his money going into that account and paying for whatever you need him to pay for so it's a smart move especially if you don't trust him you already know what she G do if there's money involved if you look halfway [Music] decent sprinkle sprinkle so it's up to you like free will now how to not okay how do you explain it to her okay say you don't trust him don't blame it on her she already know you don't trust her especially if she look good so blame it on him so girl I don't trust him around no women I don't introduce him to nobody girl he flirting with everything I'm just after his money so you know tell her like that I take it as a compliment girl I understand don't worry all right can you give a gift if he's traveling and yes he gave me a gift already okay is it a special occasion or are you being pck me sham um if you're married like when you go to Walmart or to Target or whatever store and you pick him up you know a pair of ss or something that don't really count okay but if you're going out of your way to buy some man that you're not really with or married to a gift just CU he bought you one you're being Pik Misha is let him shine in the gift area you know what I'm saying because if you're going to make gifts common and a two-way thing that's when men start taking you for granted so your gift is oh my gosh thank you so much I really love what you got me I wear it every day and think of you you're you know I this is so so means so much to me uh I hope you bring me something good back when you return you don't go and get him another gift that's Pik meish girl you collect gifts ma'am collect then on a holiday look at all the gifts he done gave you and say okay he I can see where this is going and then you find a thoughtful gift that doesn't cost a lot to make him always think of you maybe something engraved maybe a little saying or like whatever y'all have quired during dating something that's meaningful versus expensive why because if he can buy you all those gifts he can buy himself a gift he don't need your money he needs to know that you care about him or you're paying attention and you have meaningful thoughts and you put a lot of thought into that gift so when he sees the gift he'll always think of you no matter what Okay so stop trying to buy these men and let them continue to gift you and only gift them on special occasions okay don't do too much a woman that does too much is seen as desperate all right if you got to buy somebody a gift you know buy yourself a gift buy your family member a gift but try not to buy him all these gifts because he bought you one unless it's a holiday or special occasion okay sometimes if I you know if I buy everybody something in my family or like the kids something and I buy me some stuff and it's like if it's something that a man can use too and I and I see uh my husband looking kind of sad cuz he didn't get nothing I just give it to him like oh I got you a t-shirt that was M but you know you can have it that's how married people do married people like I got you something even though they didn't really buy it for you like I thought about you after I didn't think about you go a $5 $10 t-shirt yeah everybody else got like shopping bags anyway but when you don't do too much that t-shirt is like gold okay I'm wear this and think of you okay you don't do too much the bare minimum is a lot okay that's how you got to do that because you could have not given him that t-shirt literally you could have not given him this you could have just let him look crazy look let him look sad but you got t-shirt you thought about me yeah we searched hours for that t-shirt he said that is you you anyway what if he's not that generous with money but he's generous with knowledge he helped me earn much more I only work from home now and I was are able to have my own cond okay well I mean if you were able to create knowledge I mean money with the knowledge he gave you great but you can get Knowledge from a book you got wisdom because you can get Knowledge from a book if you if whatever he told you you could got out of a book then he could you could be thankful for that but also he you know um he has to still do more if he wants to be your man thank you for teaching me how to go get what I really want Even though there's books that do the same thing but if you want anything else you you going have to give me some money too or do a little bit more or do something for me instead of telling me how to do it just go do it for me how about that okay he said he get he didn't get you the condo and you still work the hell his knowledge isn't the reason your job paid you money to save up for the yeah if you're appreciative of stuff you can learn online and Google then appreciate Google because you asked him a question he probably Googled it and copied and pasted you ma'am but honestly y'all are doing y'all are still doing too much for the least if you appre appreciate his knowledge say I appreciate your knowledge and I also like gifts sprinkle sprinkle oh thank you girl sprinkle sprinkle I like knowledge and Gifts you know not just the gift of knowledge but also some gifts you said thank him for being your mentor and get someone else oh that's so sweet thank you for being my mentor now I need to go find a sugar daddy or I need to find a man who likes to spend money on me or I need to find a man who likes to gift me but you know thanks for being a mentor would you ever have a mastermind what do you mean a mastermind would I ever have a mastermind for what what would I need a mastermind for I get everything I want okay you said a masterm okay how to ask him to pay bills bills when he starts talking about being together it's exactly that way well in order to be together you know you got to pay these bills cuz that's one of the requirements it takes to get some type of commitment commit to these bills you know if you start talking about being together okay okay that's so sweet you want to pay my bills a automatically assumed that's what he said oh you want to be together that is so sweet oh my gosh yes I've been waiting I've been waiting for you to say that yes so I can't wait for you to start paying all my bills and so I can quit my job oh my gosh thank you you automatically assume that that's what being together with him means especially if he got money if he has money automatically assumed he's paying bills oh my gosh I can't wait you're so yes I've been waiting for this oh my gosh so every month my bills are such and such and such and such I'm so glad that you want to take care of me being together means being taken care of I am so glad you really want to take care of me I'm going to get you a list of all my bills so that we can really you know be together with you know no issues nothing in the way if you start to back up hold up wait a minute then you already know he ain't serious okay well then he's going to risk losing you you're going to get totally turned off if he even wants a chance with you he gonna have to start all over and make sure he paying them bills for sure so either he's gonna just accept it and pay them and don't get into no type of relationship if he ain't paid no bills it's like no you know we can still date I'm just we're just not going to be in a committed relationship cuz that's what it requires y'all hear the cat kitty yes I know them dust got nerve don't they come here you and the cat said uhuh you better get your money come here no you play with the wires [Music] no anyway I'm about to go y'all but you know I hope y'all got some ideas on how to get this money from these guys okay and think about this you're not losing a man if he ain't paying your bills you're not losing anything if you're not gaining anything while being there already are you're freeing up your time your energy and your life for somebody who wants to give you what you want so when I tell you ladies to stop choosing to suffer that's exactly what I mean stop choosing to be with someone that you don't have stop choosing to be with someone that you're not getting anything from stop choosing to be with someone that can't improve your life stop suffering if you can't get money out of the man you're sleeping with you are suffering if you can't get money out of a man you ain't sleeping with who want to sleep with you you are suffering so choose not to suffer choose men that want to give you something instead of trying to challenge yourself in some strange competition that you think that you're going to win but at the end of the day you're putting in more effort when you could just be getting paid all right and living the life that you want to live doing the least and getting the most that's how you're supposed to live that's a life that allows you to be happy that's a life that allows you to have Leisure that's a life to allows you to not have to answer to no one if you don't want to and you know if you have kids to raise your kids and be available and be there for them don't pick somebody based on their looks don't choose to suffer because someone told you that's what you're supposed to do choose the life you want to live and then make sure you live it the best that you can all right and remember no life is perfect nobody's perfect but you still got free will and you have the option not to suffer okay nobody wants to suffer with no Dusty uh oh God is w appreciate that so you choose you give yourself permission have that main character energy know the type of man that's going to pay don't set yourself up for failure or suffering and be smart in the decisions that you make that's technically it and have some common sense okay common sense all right I'll see y'all on the next oh and thank you everybody who donated I really appreciate you guys love the cat thank you everybody that donated and ask good questions thank y'all for asking good 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