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Yo, what is going on guys? Got a video for you here today from Griffin Mind about modern women learning that men have quit dating. These women are absolutely cooked, guys.
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Does anybody else feel like there's this weird shift happening right now? Like I don't know if it's my algorithm tricking me into thinking it is because I'm seeing a lot of content like this, which could be the case, but I just feel like there's this sort of feminine awakening of so many women just being over it. That is not a feminine awakening. That is a rude awakening. Men have left these women behind and they have no idea what to do with themselves. But one thing is for certain guys, they are not quote unquote over it. Like I know so many women now that are so bored of trying to find a partner to like live up to the standard of love and relationships and care and everything that they give inside of a relationship that they just can't seem to meet somebody who can reciprocate what they give that they're just like, "I'm done. I'm over it. I'm happier on my own." Anybody else feeling like this is happening? Cuz I'm here for it.
These women decided to go and have their fun. They lived the quote unquote baddy lifestyle and now they are shocked that the only men available to them are the ones that they can't stand. I'm sure increasing their standards yet again will work out just fine for them.
Day in the life of a selfish woman. I'm 32 years old with no desire to get married or have children. And people often ask me if I met the right person, would I change my mind? The answer is no. I won't. Not wanting to be a mother has less to do with finding the right person than it does living a life free from avoidable stress. Although the thought of trying to co-parent with a man where I have to shoulder the majority of the emotional and physical labor sounds like a nightmare. No one is immune to life's challenges. But at 32, I finally feel like I'm at a place where I can do what I want when I want without answering to anyone. With all of the free time she has, she's decided to use it by moving around her phone to document her morning routine as she tries to justify why she doesn't want kids even though nobody cares and nobody asks. And it feels [ __ ] awesome. Having a child would completely change that. And for what? Being a mother is really hard and I don't want to work hard. The idea of hard work has been glamorized by the institutions and people, mainly men, that benefit from a woman's labor the most. So, I'll gladly take the easy way out if it means I don't have to stress about raising a child in a broken system that only rewards the smallest subset of the population if they fit neatly into a mold. And even then, what's really the reward? Most people don't have the privilege of self-actualization because they're forced to live paycheck to paycheck, grinding away at unfulfilling jobs for just a few weeks of freedom a year if they're lucky. Considering all of the horrible stuff she just said, it's probably a massive blessing that this woman doesn't have kids. Her mindset is absolutely deplorable.
If I ever do choose to partner again, that person will share the sentiment that being a selfish woman isn't a flaw. It's a conscious rejection of the societal expectation that women must sacrifice themselves for others to be worthy or valuable. And being selfish is a wonderful thing a woman can be.
You know, guys, I would wager that this woman is going to be whistling a different tune as she gets closer to 40. By that point, she'll be begging a dude to let her cook and clean for him.
Why aren't you dating? Why aren't you out meeting people? Well, because I am stuck in a town where everybody has kind of been with everybody. Um, that's weird. So, I don't really want to join in on the love triangle that is going on around here. I got myself into one before and so that didn't work out very well if you can't tell. So, also if I date outside of this town, um, then I would have to do like a long-distance relationship. It's rather difficult to believe that women are repeatedly asking her why she is single. It sounds a lot more like she wants to complain about being single. A lot of people can't do those because I can't really go anywhere. My children's father decided to reside here. So, for convenient reasons, I moved here as well. Um, so yeah, the dating life is not for me. I'd rather just be alone and enjoy the time that I do have with my children at this age.
And I want to end with being an adult is ghetto. We're in the trenches. It's just ghetto around here. Being an adult is ghetto. If you ever refer to yourself as adult as ghetto, then you have failed the test of becoming an adult in my opinion. That has to be one of the dumbest phrases I think I've ever heard.
So, there's this trend with women saying to the men, um, "Oh, I can't pay the mortgage this month." And all the men's just saying, "Well, you never pay the mortgage." Well, I don't understand. Where's all these men that's just paying people's mortgages? I don't get it. I've never had a boyfriend or partner just pay the whole rent or pay everything, pay the mortgage. I don't know. I don't I must be doing something wrong. I need to find me one of these mortgage men. She's been in so many horrible relationships that the mere idea of a man providing a home for a woman is so outlandish it makes her question reality itself.
Wow, thank you so much. I wish I was a teenager still, but unfortunately I'm 25 years old and I feel like this is about the time in your life where you know your frontal lobe develops and you start asking questions like what am I doing with my life? What's next? What is the meaning of any of this honestly? Like true deep existential crisis questions going on right now. Where have the last seven years of my life gone? Am I just going to continue making videos saying, "Look at how hot I am on the internet?" This idea that a modern woman's brain doesn't fully develop until she's 25 is just absurd and it needs to stop. What this woman is doing is passing for deep existential thoughts by modern women's standards forever. Like look at my body. Look how hot I am. That's kind of cool. It's kind of cool that I make money doing videos like this and posting pictures and videos of my buddy on the internet. Like that's kind of cool. But also, what's next for this woman? Nothing is next. The second she decided to create spicy content was the day she sealed her own fate. This is why getting into that business is so completely stupid.
Walking home and I can't stop thinking to myself that at 21 years old, I really thought that 28 was so old. I was like, "Oh my god, 28, you're like a mom with kids. You have a home. You have your finances put together. Your career is all together." You are looking at 28, no boyfriend, no kid, no house, finances are still a mess, and my career is still unknown. These women were warned repeatedly that the lifestyle that they chose would end in complete and utter ruin, but they decided to do it anyway. And now they are shocked that their lives didn't turn out the way they had planned.
Why is it that when you are a woman in your 40s and you go out, the first thing that people ask is, "Are you married and do you have children? Why is it normal to expect that? And when I say no, I'm single and I don't have children. People look at me like I have leprosy or something like it is okay that I am a woman in my 40s and I don't have children by choice. I'm happy and I'm okay with that and everyone else should be too. So yeah, all you have to do is look at the blank expression on their face and that fake smile and you can tell that they are the exact opposite of happy. And she's just frustrated because people are reminding her of something that she doesn't want to actually think about.
No worries. I mean, I want someone who I can go out, have some fun with, you know, life of the party, per se. Makes sense. So, is she someone that's your type? Uh, not really. Not really, to be honest. Okay. And why not? Um, the face is a bit wrinkly. Damn. Oh [ __ ] Oh [ __ ] He right. That was so crazy the other girl had to pop her balloon. I get what he's saying, but he ain't had to say it. To be fair, men are entitled to their preferences. And if the shoe was on the other foot, that woman would be picking apart everything about his physical appearance.
What men fail to realize is that women have friendships with other women that have them raising their standards. Women friendships have raised the bar so much for what we expect in relationships because we go out on dates, we do fun adventures, we go on trips, we surprise each other, we get each other flowers. So, it's like, why would I accept less from a man when I have women in my circle that would do this for me and they're not getting anything sexual out of me? So, a man that wants something sexual out of me can't even fathom planning a date from start to finish. Women are raising the bar for other women straight the
And even though these women are raising the bar, they still refuse to date each other.
I have anxiety, depression, OCD, BPD, FOMO, and social anxiety for sure. I have so many guys hanging me up on my DMs. It's crazy. Like athletes, rappers, actors, content machine. But I know better than to go for them. Wait, wait, what do you mean? Well, they have so many beautiful girls hitting them up constantly. But I know that's not a problem for you. Oh, so you ignore their DMs. No, I still get piped down by them. Oh, that sounds fun. But it doesn't turn into anything serious. Listen, I've had my fun. I'm not looking for that anymore. What modern women don't realize is when they say they had their fun. That's just code for how they are incapable of respecting any man who enters into their life. And that's the polite way of saying that particular code.
So, you're at least single? No, I have a sugar daddy. We would have to keep our relationship private, but just for a couple of years until he dies. Okay. Okay. Well, now I have a question for you. Cats or dogs? Dogs? I don't really like cats. Ew, you're disgusting. How do you not like cats? What are you, a psychopath? Even if that was a skit, that is still strangely accurate. The man is expected to meet in almost impossible fashion, and the woman can end things over something as completely meaningless as pet preferences. Men do need that space more than women in a lot of circumstances.
You know what pisses me off the most about this whole conversation is women are told their entire lives to accommodate for men being slower than we are. Like when we're younger it's oh girls mature faster than boys and you know boys will be boys. Boys are so silly. Men can't take care of themselves. Men can't clean up after themselves. Men can't remember birthdays or doctor's appointments. And yet society affords their helplessness and uselessness with positions of power, with more money, with more promotions, with more opportunities. It is absolutely astounding how there are women out there who think that men are incapable of feeding and washing themselves. Wait until they find out that we actually know how to walk and use our thumbs.
But anyway, guys, we are going to be leaving today's episode there. As always, don't forget to subscribe to the channel if you are new here. Drop a comment and I will see you all in the next one. Make sure you take care of yourselves.