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>> Be here.
>> How old are you?
>> 29.
All right. So, why do you why do you agree with this boss chick bad chick energy?
>> Well, I think that I'm on the way to becoming this kind of person.
>> Okay.
>> And I would like to say that I practice Buddhism. Um, and in this Buddhism that I practice, we believe that women can be Buddhas. Um, and I don't necessarily like being called a [ __ ].
>> Make up the words. So, we're gonna go with what I'm doing.
>> And this isn't about spiritual enlightenment or the Buddha. This is about getting money and being a boss chick or a bad [ __ ].
>> Yeah. Yeah.
>> Are you on that path? because I don't think that's synonymous with Buddhism, but I could be wrong.
>> Um, so I think I am on the path.
>> Why? Why do you want to Why do you want to Why do you want to be a boss anything and a Buddhist?
>> Make it make sense. It's like a Muslim pork.
>> I think those are two different things. So being
>> a boss and a Buddhist, you can definitely make them align.
>> Uh-huh. Right. What is the ultimate what is the what is the ultimate goal of becoming a Buddhist?
>> To be happy.
>> Uh-huh. Spiritually or or material possession.
>> Uh to be happy.
>> Remember I got three black belts. I know plenty of Buddhists.
>> So come on. Yeah, I do. So you can't [ __ ] me. Come on. Let's do it.
>> Buddhism doesn't line. Buddhism and materialism don't tend to line up very well.
>> No, but you can ask for things that are materialist,
>> right? But that you can ask for things. Okay, ma'am. I'm trying to fit a square peg in a round hole. Have a nice day. Not the same [ __ ]. Just say I want to be on I want to be on Instagram. Buddhist out here getting paper. I'M A BUDDHIST OUT HERE GETTING PAPER, SON. Buddha in this [ __ ]. I'm a bad I'm a boss Buddhist. You're going to go [ __ ] viral.
>> You
>> I'll make you famous.
>> He's a bad chick. Boss Buddhist. Hello. How are you?
>> Hi.
>> I'm good.
>> 40.
>> 40.
>> Mhm.
>> Okay. So, why do you agree with this boss chick bad [ __ ] energy philosophy?
>> To be quite honest, I don't really agree. I just really wanted to join and say hi to be quite honest.
>> Okay. Well, hi. I'm trying to get women who agree with this stuff so I can get on down the path.
>> Freckle face.
>> Oh my god. Hello.
>> Hi. How are you?
>> How are you?
>> I'm good.
>> How old are you? I'm 32.
>> Okay. All right. So, why do you agree with this B boss chick bad [ __ ] energy thing?
>> Why does it make sense?
>> Because
>> Because we have women out here who can be boss women and wives at the same time,
>> such as
>> myself. Uhhuh. I I'll take it for you. You can be boss. What does your husband do?
>> My husband.
>> You're boring out.
>> You're you're something's going on with your connection. Not I got five bars over here.
>> Can you hear me?
>> We're getting there. Okay.
>> You say your husband does what?
>> My husband was keeping my kids. He now works for the city.
>> Oh, you're keeping your kids?
>> Our kids? Yes.
>> Oh, well then you just explain it. So, you had a stay-at-home husband.
>> Uh-huh. And he work he now works for the city.
>> Now, he has to where the kids are yours, not his.
>> They're both of ours.
>> But that's not what you initially said. So, do you think boss chicks or bad [ __ ] get men of value?
>> Yes,
>> they do. They get they get men who the men respect and admire.
>> Yes.
>> In what way? In what way do you say the average boss chick or bad [ __ ] gets a man that other men of value admire? that other men of value admire.
>> Yeah. Because other men of value who are men of value would admire other men of value.
>> There that would that's a bunch of [ __ ]. Other men of value. That's it's like that you use a derived equation. Um, if you're a man of value, then a man of value will value a man of value.
>> I don't know any man of value that value a stay-at-home dad. Really?
>> No.
>> Okay.
>> They call them beta.
>> Beta.
>> Okay.
>> There's no I mean I'm just saying. So I'm telling you that you said they're my kids, not ours. So it sounds like you got the dick, not him. And he was a stay-at-home husband. Fine. It works for you. But those kind of men tend to be they don't rank high amongst other men. Okay. So,
>> you're trying to say that when he goes out in the world, he can stand out with his chest out cuz he's cuz he's Mr. Mom. That not how that work in our world. It may work for y'all.
>> Mhm.
>> Do you think that Do you think uh a boss chick can get a man that can be valued, admired among other men? In general, I know it can happen, but is that generally what happens? Um, no.
>> All right. So then why would you accept a lesser man?
>> I don't I don't accept a lesser.
>> Okay. Why accept a is it worth being a boss chick in general? If you have to in general accept less men.
>> No.
>> Then what's the what's the what's the what's the what's the advantage in general
>> to be a team
>> who's leading
>> to have a man and a woman
>> okay to be a team
>> to have a man and a woman working at the same time making a man who's leading
>> sorry go ahead
>> your team granted and you're working at the same time granted but my question is this who's leading Tim,
>> explain.
>> Um, I feel like personally as a woman of that makes good money, I value what my husband says and I lead by his example.
>> Okay. Okay. I'mma tell you why that's why that surprised me is because when you said he stays home with my kids
>> that was a Freudian. So I think you're saying what sounds good but I think that you lead cuz you have dominance. They're your kids. And women who typically are in partnership or damn sure women who follow their men say my our children.
>> Sure. Okay.
>> So,
>> I'll give you that. I said my kids and not our kids.
>> As long as it works for you. It's not But here's the thing. I think it can work in oneoff cases. But would you would you say that this is a formula to build a successful community, a successful city, state, nation? If we had more women who um put in the work to be of equal value and be able to put in and get out the same thing, then I think it would make our community better. Do we do women do women typically do that? Put an equal value with no uh girl push-ups? Meaning women have to do the same thing men would have to do. You got to put in equal value.
>> No, but then there also women who don't want a man, right? Like they're women who don't want that.
>> We're talking We're trying to see. I'm asking I'm just going back and seeing if this is the formula for a better society or a more productive society or at least what society are we going to get because to me it sounds as though the women who are getting the outcomes you're talking about get it because you get to do girl push-ups and you get advantages. You don't have to put in the same effort as men but you get to claim same effort. Then you get to then these women get with men who are lesser men. But when men have to do the hard work, we get with lesser women and that's not a problem for us. It's the natural order. See, what you're talking about is a flipped order and it doesn't build a strong anything. It can work in small doses, but it doesn't build a strong city, state, nation, country, society. But it can't work for women who are willing to accept men that they have to leave, which is like that other I'm going to have to pay all the bills cuz you make all the money, right?
>> No, we we both make money. We both make money.
>> Most of the money.
>> But I mean, I'm responsible for paying the bills. But yes, we both work.
>> Well, when he was staying at home though, who was making the lion share of money?
>> I was the main I was the bread winner. Me.
>> I was the man. Well, and I'll be honest, man. You You know, it it could work. I I know I have friends who've done this before, but I'll tell you, the men who I've known whose wives are like highpowered attorneys and things like that, this may not be your situation, but a lot of times these men were out there cheating. Um, because they had to feel like men somewhere. And I that sounds bad because when we were going to work like damn you getting to drive this car, that car. This guy was always messing. Anyway, oh well. Appreciate it though. Good conversation.
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