Why Compromised Men Never Benefit From DEFECTIVE Women - The Kosher Clinician

Cassie Jay, the young filmmaker, a young feminist filmmaker, came in and did her thing, made the movie. And during the process, her eyes were opened very much like my eyes were opened when I read Warren Pharaoh's work. It totally changed her world and the way she saw these issues. And at the end of it, of course, she declared she was no longer going to call herself a feminist after taking an honest look at what feminism was about. And it sort of progressed from there.

I've done a lot of things since then. I run XY Crew, which I think is a very vital thing to have men's spaces where women are not allowed to participate, where the guys can connect with each other. And then, recently, about a month ago, I started the weekly "Repairing the Manosphere" content, addressing what I see as a lot of gyocentrism and weakness in the manosphere.

Right. Uh, and that pretty much sums up the uh 40 years there in about 45 seconds.

Yeah. Yeah. You did an awesome job breaking that down, man. And, um, you're right. There is a lot of cognitive dissonance and a lot of confirmation bias in the clinical world, which, in essence, many times prevents men from actually being part of it. Sadly, our profession now has metastasized. It's a social justice ideology and wokeism, and that wokeism is not synonymous with healthy relationships. And, you know, you're right. There are some women that come into men's spaces that are genuine. But I would say that percentage is small. Many come into the space to co-opt men's spaces and to more or less push their own agenda and to circumvent the conversation so it goes back to them, because men keep forgetting that women, by nature, are highly solipsistic. A woman that's not solipsistic is a godly woman that's centered, but also she's practicing the virtues of godliness. But those women are far and few in between.

Because I was listening to your podcast, and I was like, man, me and Paul, I did these shows. One of the shows, "Never Bow," a year ago, but then "The Inner Sanctum of Masculinity," that was done about four years ago, and I was speaking something profound then, and I had an epiphany, Paul. Um, because I did grow up in church, grew up in the Pentecostal church. Um, but it was always this struggle for parishioners to call out maladaptive behaviors in women, and they always used men as a scapegoat to justify the pathology instead of standing on business and holding men and women accountable equally. And so because of that, now you're seeing marriage rates begin to drop. You're also seeing men leaving churches in greater masses because men, by nature, are communal. And there was a time men could coalesce together, you know, during war, during hunting, during war stories, during war trips, or whatever, and we could just coalesce together. But now, in many men's spaces, and even in the broader media, you know, it's like the coast. You know, I'm not against women being in men's shows, but the co-host or the host has got to be a woman, you know? And we never saw that. I didn't see that, you know? And so men got to tap dance and be careful. You got a woman dressed pretty with provocative clothes on, and the men sitting back, and I'm tired of it. Let men have their autonomy. Like "The View." "The View" is all women. I don't have a problem with that. They've got a right to have their show, and let men have their show without the influence of women. Go ahead. I know you're about to say something. Go ahead.

Well, no. I would I'm just going back to the church. I mean, I think for the past, I would say 30, at least 30 years, maybe more like 40 or 50 years, the safest thing that any clergy can do from the pulpit is to bash men and praise women. Uh, that's what they've been doing. And they've participated fully in this rift between men and women, the natural connection that we have to each other. The clergy has been just as responsible for creating more divide as the mental health profession, and the media, and our governance, and politicians, and especially higher education. All of these things have come together to force a wedge between men and women, and it is literally destroying our society.

Yeah. Yeah. It's destroying our society, man. And, you know, I've told some of my friends, and I said, I know they mean well, but I said there's got to be a devolution in order for this thing to evolve. And maybe it'll be the aliens when they do come, because, you know, the government's talking about, you know, they're going to run a probe on some of these modern women. They're going to find so much DNA in them that they're going to create hybrids.

Well, that'll give another chance for a woman to be a victim. This time, it's aliens. At least I could quit blaming human men for a little while.

I like that. I like that one. That's a good one, man. But listen, let's be clear. You've been married for, well, in a non-state-supported marriage for over for so many years. And I've been married. I mean, fortunately, I got married at a time before I heard the knowledge now, but I've been married to my wife for 33 years. And we had our ups and downs, but...

But yeah, ups and downs, but there was a time where I said, "You know what? Something is wrong, man." I was like you. I said, "Something is wrong." I grew up with three sisters, and my mom passed away last year. And I love my mom. Bless her heart. But I said, "Something is wrong." You know, my inner masculinity was saying something is wrong with the current culture that we live in because it's like I felt like I was always trying to do things to appease women instead of doing things and doing what's best for us. And then men have been conditioned to see women as sugar and spice and everything nice. And they're not. Women are human, just like men are human. They're not these benevolent creatures from outer space. They're just human beings. You know, they smell, they pass gas, they urinate, they defecate. They do just like you and I do. And but this deification of women is not tied into rationality because what it does, it keeps men in a stupor, and also it can keep men in a state of arrested development. I did shows years ago, and I used the concept. I said men should never fall in love because when you fall in love, you're really telegraphing your own destruction. The scripture was clear when it came down to Samson. He said, "Cast not thy strength to a woman." But when you love your woman within reason, you still love her, but your love for her never supersedes your greater calling, your greater purpose.

Yes. Scripture tells us with this that message with Samson, with David, with Herod. I mean, you go right down the line. The Bible is one allegory after another of men falling to women, losing their values, worshiping other gods. It is one story after another warning us against this, and yet we go into our church, and we hear kind of the exact opposite from the...

Yeah. Yeah. I totally agree. I agree with you 100%. AWOL. It's a new M.E.T.O.O. You know, Dr. Helen Smith and I did a show, and I would say it's not the new M.E.T.O.O. It's part of the new M.E.T.O.O. because men are saying now that there's a subsection that's walking away altogether. There's also a new awakening. You know, in the army, AWOL stood for Absence Without Leave. But now men are not asking for permission to walk away. They're just doing it. And it's having a cataclysmic effect on dating and relationships, but also the population. When did you begin to see, Paul, the precipitous decline of relationships and how men interface with women in general?

I think it was in the 80s for me when I noticed it the most. I came of age in the 70s. Men and women kind of liked each other back then. I mean, there were tensions, like always, because of our differences, but there was still a general atmosphere of acceptance between men and women, and there wasn't all this overt misandry and "men are pigs" and "men are trash." You hear a little bit of it, but it wasn't a prominent voice in the culture. The 80s was when the feminists came in and started taking over academia and over mental health training, all the education in the liberal arts. Feminists came in and started teaching everything from feminist theory, and then by the time we got into the mid-90s, it was on. There was an official war on men, end of story. It was declared: men are the problem. And that was one of the not just developmental stunting that happened, but there became a mentality that men didn't have problems; men are the problem.

Are the problem. Right. Right.

And that's even in our mental health. You look at what the APA is doing in these...

Yep. Yep. You're right.

That is it. Men don't have problems. They don't need help. They need to straighten up and fly right. They need to learn how to treat women with more respect. As though men don't do that. As though men don't bend over backwards all the time trying to be nice to women.

Uh, no. No. Here's that they look at the 1% of men that do terrible things and say that's all men.

Mhm.

Or on the other end of that, they'll look at the 1% that make it to the top and say they that all men have the power. The other 98% of men in between are totally invisible.

Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. And you, I'm glad you brought that out. You know, there's Tavis Smiley, he was a black commentator in conservative media. He said that when white America gets a cold, black America gets the flu. And I will argue that average white men and working-class white men and black men never had anything to do with rich white oligarchs that conspired in ivory towers to create policies that were that were more or less adversarial to men. You know, sometimes men look, you know, I'm Gen X. I came, I grew up. I was born in '71, and I'm like, I ain't have nothing to do with this. Why am I suffering for something I had nothing to do with? I didn't create policy. I didn't oppress no woman. I didn't beat no women. I ain't done none of that. But you mean to tell me that I'm part of the problem? Even sometimes in graduate school, and sometimes in school, they, you know, you have these liberal white men that say, you know, "Well, we need to do this." I'm like, "We?" What is "we"? I think I didn't create any policy. I was an innocent bystander. And so, you know, many times, Paul, people say that men lack emotional intelligence. I would argue that men have a lot of emotional intelligence because a lot of times...

All of it.

Right. Right. Right. Right. Men have a lot of emotional intelligence because...

We have to.

We have to. And so when I hear these women say, "I want a man to be emotional, in tune with his emotions, and he needs to understand me." "Happy wife, happy life" is emotional intelligence. "Mama knows best" is emotional intelligence. I had a family member tell me, he said, "Well, call, call my family member 'Boss Lady'." I said, "That would never be me." I wish I would call a woman "Boss Lady." I'm the man in my home. I talk the same way to you, I talk to my wife that way. Not being rude, but I'm just an open book. But so many men have been so conditioned, Paul. And it's an ego defense mechanism called introjection. Introjection is an ego defense mechanism where the man tends to internalize the talking points of his mother, and then he identifies with women's talking points. And then when he hears a worldview that's antithetical to that introjection, he projects out of anger because he's not used to it. That's why I came up with the moniker called DEATH. They deny the evidence. They become enraged when you present them with the evidence. They argue to ad hominem, or they fight or flee. And I'm sure you've experienced that as well.

For the whole time I've been doing this, I mean, and you can see it on full display across society right now. The last thing anybody wants to hear these days is the truth, which makes our job a good bit harder because there is a formidable resistance to understanding women's nature, the way they behave, and being honest about it. Because if you're honest about it, it means you hate women, which, of course, is not the truth. We have to be able to speak about these issues and to talk about them honestly, or there's never going to be a solution. And to be honest, I don't think there's going to be a solution to this until there's been some sort of social collapse that allows strong men to emerge and take control again. Because look, you don't have to like it. And I get why some women may not like hearing this, but without masculine dominance, there is no order, right? And the result is chaos.

Yes. Yes, sir. Yes, sir. Yes, sir. I, man, I've said it several times. My premise was this, Paul, that in order to have homogeneity, not only in relationships but life, the woman has to be disciplined. That the woman has to be disciplined. And then if she's disciplined, it creates order. If there's order, there's structure. And if there's structure, there's civility. But when I hear people talking about a community, you can't have a community without being disciplined. When I taught school, you know, the teachers, the principals say, "Well, why are these kids' grades not proper?" Well, they're not disciplined. The scriptures say, "If a man lacks discipline, he'll bring himself to poverty and shame." And that's what's happening now. There is no discipline, but also there is no accountability. And I would argue, Paul, that the greatest issue to that is the pathology that should be in the DSM-5 called SIMP. Simp, man.

Yeah. Well, and the thing is, we would have to diagnose 99% of the male population with that. I mean, it'd be great for third-party billing, but...

Yeah, that's true.

Not so good for society.

Yes, sir. Yes, sir. Yes, sir. When did you begin to see men simp like they are now? And I'm going to pull up a clip. Um, but when did men begin to simp the way they're simping now, man? When did they begin to simp in your opinion? Go ahead.

I think it's been about 200 years. I think it's been ever since we adopted the romantic model. And this is what I really try to stress to men and to anybody who will listen. This model of elevating a woman in importance and in effect making her the leader. She's the one that moral purity flows through, which of course is absolutely crazy. But...

It's crazy, right? That's been the model for about 200 years. And men have killed each other over insulting a woman with the truth. It is a pathology that got spread after the Industrial Revolution when people started getting married based on feelings instead of the interest of a family and a community. And feelings. It was to be real honest, it's about women's feelings. And that's why we have this high divorce rate. Women fall in love. They get infatuated. He's the best thing since sliced bread. And then after a year or so, the infatuation really starts to fade. And then they think, "Okay, well, I don't feel that way anymore. So the marriage has failed."

Yes, sir. Right. And now because he doesn't make me feel like this special princess every day, then it's a failed marriage. I need to destroy it, break the family apart, rip the children away from their father. And then we wonder why they score poorly in schools. They don't have masculine influence. They get masculinity from the school. They don't get it at home because the fathers have been run out.

You know, I think that's where it came from. It came from the romantic ethic. And we need to, you know, at some point, I don't know how it's going to happen or if it's going to happen until it collapses, but we need to get back to the idea that when you create a marriage and a family, you better be dealing with two grown-ups that are bringing something to the table.

Yes, sir.

And what do women say now? They say, "I am the table."

I am the table.

"It's all about me." So it's not about their children, it's not about their marriage, it's not about their husband, it's about me, me, me, right? And then we say, "Gee, what's going wrong?" Well, of course, when you base pair bonding on this asymmetrical relationship in which a woman, "If mama ain't happy, ain't nobody happy," right? Which is a threat narrative put into a marriage saying, "You better make that woman happy, or everybody's going to suffer."

Right. Right. Right.

So having relationships like that, based like that, is absolute insanity. And I think we're seeing it play out in a thousand different ways right now, on the streets, in our schools, in our governance, and everywhere you can imagine. We have this sort of "we must please woman" craziness dominating things.

Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, man. I agree with you 100%. You know, and I use this as a moniker, you know, even though the Marines came up with a term called "Simpify, Always Faithful." The modern man believes in simpocracy, man. Always tap dancing and doing what Big Mama says. And...

And if you question that, you better get ready to fight.

I'm there. I'm ready to fight. I'm a real fighter. Listen, I've been fighting. I've been fighting all my life, man. I fight. Um, I fight because my whole point is, I strongly believe, Paul, that when men subjugate themselves under women's emotions and under their opinion, that they're not serving the Most High. They're serving her emotions. And I would argue, Paul, that men should be more concerned about God's judgment than to be concerned about a woman's feelings. Because when he stands before the Most High, God told the man to lead the woman, not the woman's emotion to lead him. And it's gotten so bad now, Paul, that some of these women say that women created men. No, ma'am. No, no, you didn't. The original woman came out of man. A woman is just an incubator. Right now, Paul, you and I, if we are healthy, can impregnate a whole nation. We can start a whole nation without DNA. If we just got willing, we just need a willing vessel. Like the book says, we just need a willing vessel. Every man, right? You and I right now can impregnate 100 women that are ovulating, and they can all make babies, but a woman can't do that. So the God spark is not in the woman, but the God spark is in the man. But this deification of women, which is tied to a cultic feminism and witchcraft, puts the woman on top of the man, and the man is supposed to be subjugated to the woman. And the internet has been great for men because men there are waking up. They're waking up. They, you know, because I tell people, Paul, the reason why this whole conflation came together, I think it's tied to Dr. William Glasser's premise. Dr. William Glasser had talked about something called choice theory. He was a psychoanalyst, and he said that there are five elemental principles. I know you talk a lot about self-actualization with Abraham Maslow's hierarchy of needs. But the premise of choice theory says that even though choice theory has its limitations, that power, fun, freedom, belonging, and survival are the archetypes that help a man feel like he's thriving and living. Men have been devoid of power, fun, freedom, belonging, and survival. And now men are beginning to come back together to try to recapture that. And then on top of that, too, like I told people, people say, "Well, you know, the red pill hates women." No, no, the red pill doesn't hate women. The red pill was a response to the behaviors that women, that modern women, did to accost men. And that goes back to Dr. Irvin Yalom. Dr. Irvin Yalom talked about group therapy. Group therapy. I call it cybergroup therapy because Dr. Irvin Yalom says some key and important things. He said that examining the evidence was part of group therapy. Catharsis was part of group therapy. Correct recapitulation, which basically means to go back and correct the things of the past that held you, rendered you a slave to your own mind. Comparing the evidence was part of group therapy. So me actually created cybergroup therapy, comparing notes, comparing evidence, and coalescing together and realizing, "Hmm, I'm not crazy." I'm going to do the same thing. How would you respond to that? Go ahead.

Well, first thing I want to say is that I highly recommend both Yalom and Bill Glasser to anybody, even lay people. This is really great stuff. Bill Glasser's "Reality Therapy" book is one of the best things I've ever read. It really breaks it down. It's utterly useless when it comes to dealing with women, but it's very effective for men, 'cause we are sort of reality-oriented, you know, facts and figures and making logical decisions. But, you know, you mentioned guys getting right with God and making that the center of their existence. And I even tell guys that aren't believers, man, you better find something greater than yourself to get invested in. If a man is without something greater than himself, he is lost. And I really believe that. And those lost men ultimately start making her the something greater to be attached to, and she believes it.

Women have come to believe that they are God.

Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes, sir. I agree. I totally agree. And look, and that's not hating women. But we've got to be able to talk about this. Look at the advertising: "Because you deserve it." "Because you're the best." "Because you're everything." You know, men are just mere mortals. This is the message that we get, that women are somehow deities that are supposed to be worshipped. If you go through dating profiles, it'll absolutely turn your stomach. It'll turn...

What, what these... "I want a man that worships the ground I walk on."

Yes, sir. Yes, sir.

Well, lady, you don't need a man. You need therapy and some serious stuff to get over this incredible narcissism that's been ingrained into women by our singing culture. And this is why I try to tell women, "Oh, you just hate women." And look, I've got a lot more problems with men than I do with women. Women are just doing what we allowed them to do.

Yes, sir.

You can't be a kindergarten teacher and walk out of the classroom for two hours and expect it to be in the same shape as when you left. All these children unsupervised. We have bred women to think they're the be-all and end-all of everything. That they're the moral authority. That their edicts are to be obeyed. And look at the divorce rate. Look at what's happened to the American family that used to be stable.

Uh, it's not working. It's not working. It's not working, man. And I've seen so many defeated men in therapy, man. I see so many defeated men. I see women that are married to their husbands, putting them through psychological and physiological abuse, not giving them sex. They weaponize sex for their husbands. And so what we created, Paul, is a cascade of defective women. That came to my cipher. Defective women and compromised men. And the premise of that is that she's selfish, manipulative, entitled, lacks empathy, always the victim. And then the compromised man, which is the weak, the worst one, because simps are dangerous, man. They're weak. They are simps. They have no standards. They're people pleasers, and they are emotionally drained. And listen, Paul, I would argue that in your generation, as a young boy growing up in your dad's generation, what a man got back then was not hope. I came up with that term "HOLE." I didn't hear nobody else talking about that until about four years ago. But what my daddy got back then was a virgin wife, ready, no kids, and for the most part, she had a fear of God and she had emotional regulation. You got men now getting women that have sub-high body counts, multiple kids by multiple men, deletions ran through a lot of them, and they said they want a man to pay all bills. You got women like Vivica Fox that's old, Lisa Ray, old women saying they want a man to pay all bills. How would you respond to that?

I would say, "Finding another man." That's my response to that. It's like, you know, and again, we go back to men being the problem, is that these are qualities that men are now claiming to be attracted to. You hear guys say, "Oh, I like a feisty woman. I like one that's difficult." You know, and they're attracted to like borderline traits in women. Borderline traits, the love bombing, hypersexuality. All this stuff, they consider these things to be great attractors.

And so it's like, yeah, we could, and you're right. I'm looking at your graphic here: selfish, manipulative, entitled. They lack empathy. They're always the victim. Except, of course, when they're the strong, powerful, independent woman that don't need no man, right? Then they're not the victim for five minutes. And until you challenge them on that, then they're the victim again.

Right. But this is what men have created with weakness.

Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, man. And a lot of it comes from single-parent homes. It comes from the lack of having men in male spaces teaching and guiding boys. And a lot of men just don't have... I've had men, Paul, that I did therapy with when I was trying to lead them to the promised land. They had a simp psychosis. They had a simp psychosis, and they left therapy, man. They left therapy and got mad at me.

Yep.

And I'm trying to help them. They were saying, "If I listen to this guy, I'm going to be alone the rest of my life." And they don't know that if they embraced healthy habits, not only would they probably not end up alone, they would end up with a much higher quality woman if they were listening to you. But with men, any sense of something getting in between them and whatever woman they're attracted to, including her red flags, they just dismiss it all.

Yep. Yep. Yep. And, uh, they end up being saboteurs of their own ignorance, man. But a lot of men are waking up. Gen Z is waking up. And I said that Gen Z, and shout out to my man, St. James Palmer, for the $40 super chat. And also shout out to my man, Ray Johnson at St. James Palmer. Ray Johnson are the number one sponsors of the stream.

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All right. So, um, Gen Z is the new paragon of excellence, Paul.

Yes, sir.

Gen Z, the males.

The males are right. Right. Yeah. Yeah. Gen Z, Paul, is saying, "We ain't going to simp no more." And I want to show you something. I want to show you something.

So, when I did the show with Dr. Helen Smith, I called it... I created two terms. I created two terms, and I try to contextualize it from the psychological. And one was called the unconscious simp. And that stood for, Paul, supplementing irrational male patterns of behavior. That's the unconscious simp. He's an unconscious simp because he doesn't know any better. He doesn't know because he's been clinically introjected. That's his ego defense mechanism. So he supplements irrational male patterns of behavior, meaning, "If mama's not happy, nobody's happy." "I got to pay all the bills," working herself to the bone to please a woman. Protect women at all costs, even if he loses life. She's a queen. Mama knows best. That's the unconscious simp. But the next one is something called the conscious simp. Adam was a conscious simp. What he did, he sacrificed important masculine principles because he was more concerned about her feelings instead of being concerned about his moral imperative or his sovereignty as a man. What do you think about those concepts?

Well, I think, I think what we have, and again, I agree totally. Adam's original sin was that he let his wife lead.

Right. That's right. That's right.

That was the original sin. Now, we have a new original sin now, and it's called being male.

Right.

The feminists have actually used the original sin model and placed it onto masculinity. This is how they get away with declaring us defective at birth. But I agree that a lot of simping is unconscious, and it's just training, sort of brainwashing, especially into the romantic ethic. But there are what I would call the conscious simps. They're more like the very active white knights. These are the guys that you'll see come into social media threads, say a woman murdered her children, and some guy will show up and say, "Her husband made her do it."

Right.

"It's all his fault."

All his fault, right?

I... And these guys are really what I call the real form of toxic masculinity. But masculinity, really, I think it's a misnomer to say toxic masculinity. It's an oxymoron because if you have one, you don't have the other. But if there is a form of toxic masculinity, it's simp. It is perpetuating this model where women are the be-all and end-all of everything. Men have no agency. They have no values that women don't give them.

Mh. Uh, and that, whether it's conscious or unconscious, it's eating away at the souls of men and has been for 200 years.

For 200 years, right? And I love something you talked about, romanticism, and that was so profound. Um, because I was telling somebody when I did my show, "Never Bow." Um, in many African traditions, men never will bow. Maybe even some Asian cultures. The bowing is more or less in some European cultures, but it's more of a European construct for the most part, in some cultures, not all.

Yep.

And this knighthood, you know, when men would bow to chivalry years ago, it was still defective, but the women were better. They were better women because men had a greater locus of control. They could control the situation better. They had more power, and they had an infrastructure that supported chivalry. But now men are being chivalrous to women that don't honor them, don't respect them, Paul. And the dirty word that many don't like: obey. And they struggle. And so dealing with modern women in modern times, man, has made a lot of men say, "Listen, American women just offer less, or average women offer less. And before I labor myself trying to prove who I am and give my best, I'm just going to check out." Not because they don't love women, not because they don't want relationships, and not because they don't understand that there are some decent women. It's so far and few in between. How about you respond? Go ahead.

Well, I that could just as well stand for all in AWOL. And I don't mean to say that every woman is like this, because there are some decent women in the world. But the standard, I mean, a lot of people are responding, the correct one is, "Enough women are like that."

Enough women are like that. Right? You have enough women in this culture that subscribe to these ethics, and they pat men on the head, which is apparently all a lot of these white knights are looking for. They're looking for a little pat on the head. But I agree with you in that this was a European custom. This came out of the English and the French, and the French were a little bit later in holding on and letting go of some of this stuff. They still wanted dowries past the point that the British did. But the point is, ethnicity doesn't matter. Anything doesn't matter at this point in Western culture.

I don't care who you are.

I agree.

You're tied into this ethic. You're either... or you're a slave to it. One of you. And I think that's honestly one of the few places that I don't want to say I'm happy to see it, but it's one of the few places that black men and white men can truly connect on.

No, I totally agree. Right.

Because we live in that experience.

We live in that experience. Right. Right. Right. I'm with a great woman 24 years now, but I still see that BS out there every day.

Uh, have to deal with it in some way or another. It is, uh, we have fallen as a culture because of this romantic ethic, and now we call it feminism. Feminism is just dressed-up chivalry. It's all about women being more important, and their needs, and their wants, and their values taking precedence over everything.

I think we make a mistake to dwell too much on feminism and not enough on the romantic ethic. I love that.

Because that's what's driving.

That's a, that's a, that's an excellent point. Right. I love that. Right. Because even though feminism is looming over the horizon, you can control that. But if you can't control your mind, if you're a conscious simp and an unconscious simp, you're actually exacerbating the problem because you don't realize that you're part of the problem due to your cognitive dissonance. And, you know, and that's why when I hear men say, you know, "We've got to save the community. We've got to save." No, I'm not saving nothing. You're going to serve me upfront. What I've learned in relationships, Paul, is that if you don't demand that women serve in any capacity, then they'll make your masculinity cheap. I got another t-shirt, and guys, get your AWOL t-shirts called "Masculinity is Expensive." Too many men have made that masculinity cheap to the point it's been compromised, and they don't respect it. Most people respect things that they find of value, but men have learned to compromise their masculinity, and they don't offer anything. I'm going to show you this clip real quick, Paul. Hold tight.

All right.

All right. Hold tight. Now, when you listen to some of the vitriolic language of these women, they were all nasty women. You know that. The "I'm a nasty woman."

Yeah, they're proud of it.

They're proud of it. Go ahead, Paul. Go ahead, man.

Uh, yeah, I'm very familiar with these quotes. And, you know, you hear women all the time, and a lot of men say feminism is about equality.

It's not.

No. No. It's it was never about equality. It was always about superiority. It was always about privilege and entitlement.

And this is, I've got to point out, every last one of those women in that picture was white. This is where we, we, this is where this horrible twisting, and you take a bad ethic to begin with, romantic chivalry, and then you hand it to liberal educated idiots, and they turn it into, "I want to see a man beaten to a bloody pulp with a high heel shoved in his mouth like an apple in the mouth of a pig."

Right.

Yeah. That's a real equalitarian message there. I'm really getting those vibes real strong.

Right. Right. This woman says it was caused by abuse of me. And that's, and that's, and that was it was cupcake.

Everything bad was caused by men.

Right. And Mr. Paul, you remember that song back in the day, man, called "Everybody Plays the Fool Sometime"?

Everybody plays the fool sometime, man. That's that, that's part of that paranoid persecution where it's always the man's fault. It's always men's fault. Or when women do come in trying to talk about what they want for a relationship, they somehow always try to co-opt it and to benefit them. And I'm like, "Listen, if you're going to be part of my kingdom, you have to be born again. I'm going to dictate the relationship. You can have say. I'm not saying you won't have autonomy. I'm not saying that sometimes I might defer if what you're saying makes a lot of sense, because women have intrinsic talents that they can bring to the relationship, but I'm not going to be on my knees drooling every time you say something, 'Yes, dear.' I'm not doing that." I know men right now, man. I got a friend I talked to yesterday, man, and his testosterone is low because he's worked the night shift driving trucks, and he knows what's going on. He's a conscious simp. He knows that his behavior is adversarial to his mind, but he keeps doing it because he's so been psychologically programmed. Frederick Douglass said that it's easier to repair damaged children than it is to repair broken men.

And I agree with that entirely. And I want to say one other thing about the comment that it's all because of abusive men.

Right.

One of the worst problems we have is that this mentality, the victim mentality, it's always somebody else's fault, is exactly what has fostered this lack of maturity and accountability in women. When you hand them a free pass to say everything that's bad is all men's fault, they never have to look in a mirror with that. Every shortcoming they have, every deficiency, every problem they cause in their own life, they ultimately blame on somebody else. And it causes emotional stunting in women. And it's why so many of them emotionally aren't more than 10 or 12 years old. And again...

It's true. It's true.

It's... And I'd argue the same thing is true about a lot of men, too.

That's true.

They'll enable this stuff. But a man who enables a woman to project blame, to never be accountable, he's not mature either.

I totally agree. I totally...

He's not in control of his life.

Right. I, I, I totally agree, brother. I agree with you a million percent. 100%. Everything you said is number bars and it's true. And that's why I said, Paul, like the Amalekites in the Old Testament. You know, they got to die. Sometimes God says he had to, like he killed the giants and Nephilim in Genesis. He had to kill them off. And I'm not talking about literally killing people. You just got to let them die off. They got to die off. Like these men-hating, feminist men-hating feminists. They got to die off. You know what, Paul? I want to address this, this, this "Color Purple" narrative that's always been perpetuated against not only black men, but white men in general, but especially in the black community. This nebulous premise that all men of that generation were abusive. They hurt women. They didn't have any agency. They didn't have a voice. They were barefoot and pregnant. It's always a victim mindset, but they don't talk about how many times, "Well, Granddad was cheating on Grandma." But guess what? Grandma was married, too. Some of those women were grandmothers that were married to other men, and they were cheating. My granddaddy was one of them. My granddaddy, bless his soul, he's dead now, you know. But my granddaddy was knocking down the neighbor's wife down the street. She was married. She knew he and she knew that my Grandma was married. And she rolled in the car with my Grandma.

Hey, man.

What can you say?

She rolled in the car with my Grandma, man. But we don't talk about that. We don't talk about how Dad, Grand... How we talk about... They don't talk about how Granddad would bring his check to Grandma, and she would spend it. Now, sometimes you have two things. Sometimes Granddad would spend it and give her the money and give her the check, and she would spend it based on his expectations. Or sometimes he would just give her the whole check and then ask anything, and he just assumed that she would use it righteously. How would you respond to that? Go ahead.

Well, I think it's a call to action for men. One, quit giving your paycheck over to your wife. That is a bad practice. Uh, I think men need to be accountable and responsible for their own lives, their own finances. And when a guy just goes out and he works 10, 12 hours on a construction site every day, and then shows up at home just long enough to hand her the check, and then he's back out the door going to do more work.

He's going to come home one day and figure out that she ain't spending the money on behalf of the family.

Right. Right. She's spending it on herself. Uh, there may be necessities she's taken care of, but this is not a tenable. It's 2026, guys. Uh, women have insisted, and I know this causes some conflict with some of my Christian brothers, but I'm going to say it anyway. Women have demanded and received the ability to work, to become educated, to become fully functioning, independent people. It may not be the healthiest thing that's happened for society, but it happened. The days of saying, "Look, you need to put all that down and just come here and be a dependent on me, and let me give you all the money and you manage it."

That is not a smart approach.

It's not a smart approach at all. It doesn't make any sense anymore. Women need to have expectations that they bring, and their value may be labor. You know, it is labor, taking care of children, running a home. Those things are important. But just having a baby is not enough. And right, and just putting a DVD in the player, Spongebob, and sticking your kid in front of it is not bringing real value to your home.

Right.

Women need to show up with material value. We have dowry for thousands of years. Yes, sir. And there's a reason for that. Because they were building a family. It wasn't building a playground for a woman. It was actually building a family that contributed to the society around them. And even in the name of God, building a marriage that serves God. Now we have marriages that serve women. And the only way to get it out of there is to quit serving them.

They need to show up and do some service themselves.

Yes, sir. Right. Right. I was talking to a guy, man, he works in law enforcement, and we were talking, and he was talking about how he works and worked long hours. The wife don't cook. She barely cooks. And then she expects him to help her with the chores, too.

Oh, yeah. Well, you know what? I could replace her with DoorDash. I mean, if you can be replaced with DoorDash and a broom...

Right.

Maybe you ain't bringing that much to this situation.

Right. Right. Let me, let me play this whole type. Hey, you know, I'm going to address something.

Paul. You know, in the old school, cuz you know, a lot of this mess is Marxism. In the old school, and listen, let me be real careful how I say this, cuz a lot of people use the word partner interchangeably. It's highly innocuous. They mean nothing by it. But I think words have meaning, and it's dangerous. I'm going to tell you why. I didn't hear the word partner until I was in graduate school. I'm like, what a partner? I'm like, what is a partner? And I realized the partner actually came out of out of the alphabet movement. But but but but partner is tied into egalitarian relationships. And what it does, Paul, it softens uh the structure and the authority and the sovereignty of the man in the home. So they went from husband and wife to spouse to partner because partner sounds less um draconian than husband, right? You Sarah said that Abra Sarah called Abraham her Lord and calling him her Lord wasn't it didn't mean she was a slave, it just meant she had high reverence. But you got women there, Paul, in the marriage vows, they won't even say obey. They won't even say it. They won't even utter it out of their mouths.

Go ahead, brother. >> Well, no, I I think you're absolutely right. We have this is what we've created for ourselves. Now, I I view this again, maybe with a little bit different uh angle in terms of partnership. >> Um, I believe in equal valuing. >> I think her certainly in God's eyes, that my wife's soul is just as important as mine. Uh, I I I don't see a difference there. Um, but in terms of of partnership, the word doesn't bother me uh as much. I I don't give it a lot of power in my life. Sometimes I refer to her as my partner, but one basic doesn't change. >> And this is we have a lot of talk from guys about leadership in the home. >> And the importance of leadership in the home. >> Right. >> And what I found was that by selecting well to begin with, by screening out the trash, and there's a ton of trash, and I wheeled a bunch of it to the curb before I found my wife. >> But still, in my relationship ship, I am the absolute guardian of the respect that's practiced there. Yes, sir. I do not tolerate disrespect in any form or fashion. Not out of myself and not out of her. I'm the one that has to set that standard. So, in that respect, she's not a partner. >> That that's that's the part I'm talking about. I don't believe in partnership of power. If you want if you mean partnership of assistant, then that's fine. I don't care about that. But but what they this is what I've learned. I've seen, Paul, a lot of times. They want a husband when it comes down to duty, but they want a partner when it comes down to power. >> And they want a servant when it comes down to money. >> Yeah. Right. They want a servant when it comes down to money. And so you you have you have so many men, man, they have they have minimized their masculinity. They don't even know how much work they have. I tell men when I travel abroad. I was in Brazil. I was in Dr. um I haven't been to Africa yet, but how the women treat men over there, I'm not saying foreign women are perfect, but they are conditioned better and they treat their men like they reverence their men. You know, they show high esteem to their men. And sometime their men are nowhere near as as as as prominent as you and I. But you got I I had a guy one time, he was a neurosurgeon, Paul. He made almost a million dollars a year. He didn't get no no he got he got sloppy sex from his wife. Not the not the not the good kind. Uh, he got he got the starfish John sex. Uh, she didn't keep the house clean. She didn't cook. And this dumb simp kept paying bills. Uh, he kept giving her power. And in that pres perspective, I I never understood, Paul, how men will fight grown men to the death, but they're afraid of women. And and I realized that it's psychological manipulation. And what a lot of women don't want, they don't want men to come into their evolution. They don't want men to know how much power that they have. Because um, the opposite of hate is indifference. And if men begin to be more indifferent and just don't care, then the women actually lose power. They don't have no power but the power that you give them. How would you respond?

>> And we're watching them lose it right now. You know, you're right about Gen Z men. They're not putting up with this stuff. None of them. Uh, they they are really intensely anti-feminist. And you know, you see clips all the time, young men, some woman attacks them. That guy doesn't know anything about chivalry anymore. He'll >> put her down right quick. >> He'll put he'll put her down quick. Don't think nothing of it. >> And I think that's what women need. Not that they need to be hit, but they need to expect that men will take care of themselves, >> right? And that you'll get a lot less violence from women that way. If they have the expectation that this guy's going to, you know, smack me in the mouth, uh, if I go after him, they're going to quit going after him. Another thing I want to say, especially about the money, is that we're we're beginning to finally fight the war, the ent what I call the entitlement wars. >> Yes, sir. >> Challenging women's entitlement. I wonder how many men after four or five dates with a woman where they have covered everything would have the guts to pick up the dinner check and hand it to her and say, "Why don't you take care of this one?" >> Right. Right. >> And I would say probably 98% of men would never dream of doing it. >> And they would consider you less of a man >> if you did. Even though she might be a CPA pulling in 300k a year, >> right? And he's a construction worker. Uh, he still thinks it's on him to do it. >> Right. Right. Right. >> I think we got to wage a war on women's entitlement. And that means when a woman hits a man, he needs to hit her back. He needs to defend himself. And I don't care. I know that upsets a lot of people. >> Equal rights. Equal left. >> I equal rights is equal left. You put yourself in a man's place, you'll get treated like a man. >> That's right. Right. And when you you want to show up every night for dinner in a nice restaurant, bring your purse.

>> Let me ask you a question, Paul, cuz I want you to add nuance to that cuz some people might say, Paul say, uh, I'm not going to pay anything. Now, there's a difference between being the primary provider and sometime also she taking care of things as well. You're not saying you don't take care of your woman. You're not saying you don't mind taking her to dinner. You're talking about women that have entitlement issues. Am I clear?

>> Well, I'm talking about the general contract between men and women, right? >> This one of you've you've got to show up as a man, be be prepared to take care of me, whatever I want. I need my nails done. I need this and that. I need you to take care of it. Men need to stop doing that. And and I I'm not saying I I certainly contribute to my home. This place is mine. and and I take care of my wife and and I expect her to take care of me in many ways. >> That's right. >> So, no, this is not about I want a 50/50 down the line. She pays for half, I pay for half, >> right? >> People work out different arrangements, but this general attitude of you owe me. And that's what women bring to the table now. Their their wants and needs and their wish list from Tiffany's and you need to get me this, you need to get me that. That mentality is sick, >> right? >> It's it's totally mentally unhealthy. It creates to relationship breakdowns, but men enable it. So, what I'm suggesting is, and I agree with your commenter there, Diane, if a woman acts like a man, treat her like a man, right? >> Uh, that's what I recommend. And and when they when they act like women, when they when they're feminine, uh, when they bring that energy, and by feminine, I mean connected to men in positive ways. >> Right. Right. Right. Right. >> Bringing their willingness to roll up their sleeves and do whatever to make a marriage work or a relationship. Right. Right. Right. Right. I >> buddy, I love those women. I've got one and I wouldn't do without one. >> Yep. Yep. Yep. These women that show up with wants and needs and and say, "I am the prize." They got to go, man.

>> Listen, everything you said, brother, is a mouthful, man. Listen, my wife, when we I cut the grass, she ain't she she don't have to worry about that. But there are times my wife will get out there and get dirty with me. I cut the grass. She'll help me wash the car cuz I'm 6'5. She's a hobbit. Uh, she's about 5 feet, but I'm 6'5, 6'6. I'm a little stiff. But she'll get out there and get clean, get dirty with me, man. You know, she'll get dirty with me. She don't mind going to war with me. And guess what? I don't mind going hard in the paint. But but a lot of women now are so so selfish that they don't think they have to add anything um to the relationship. And that causes a lot of problems. Because this is what I've learned, Paul, in relationships where women have to earn the relationship or there's some visceral fear that that man might leave her, she's more dedicated to the relationship. It reinforces her to work harder. But if you just give it to her without demanding anything in return, then she'll never respect it. Go ahead, brother.

>> Well, I I I think that's spot on. 100%. And the way I play it out is that I wake up every day prepared to let it go. If that's what it takes to maintain my self-respect and uh to maintain a healthy relationship is to get out of it. Uh, I believe fully that anybody you can't lose will destroy you. >> That's right. That's right. That's right. >> Men need to wake up every day prepared to go it alone. Doesn't mean you want to. It doesn't mean you're trying to make that happen. You're trying to keep things together. But if if she knows you won't leave, no matter what she does, she will never respect you. >> She'll never respect you. Right. I totally agree, man. I I totally agree. And the biggest issue that we have now, Paul, is a condition, a term I I utilize called taxation without representation. Um, I call it the commodification of subjugation. Men are being taxed without being represented. You know, >> sure, there is no representation in the relationship. He's paying. Listen, he ain't paying a regular tax. Paul, modern men, Paul, are paying what I call the whole tax. They are paying the whole tax. The whole tax, Paul. >> Yes. They And they pay through the nose. I mean, people are hesitant to look at the numbers here, but we spend about 421 billion annually on entitlement spending for women, >> right? Uh, for women's bad choices, and that is a tax. Men pay the great lion share of tax money. Women use the greatest lion share of tax money. And it's been that way for decades. >> And at the same time, we managed to maintain a culture in which women are running around saying, "I don't need a man." No, you you don't need a man. You got the government to go take his money and give it to you. It's like, so you don't need him, but you still are looking to men, >> right, >> to take care of you no matter what you say, >> right? And you know what I find so crazy, man, to the women that talk trash, you know, we, you know, I can do it. Listen, you might not need a man for a relationship, but you need mankind. I need mankind. Paul need mankind. We all need mankind. There are there are certain things I can't do and Paul can't do. I don't know how to create an infrastructure using civil engineering. I don't know how to do it. And I'm sure Paul, maybe you know how to do it, but I don't know how to do it. I don't know how to build. >> Not me. >> Right. I don't know how to do it. But somehow we made the world so easy for women now that women think they're superior to men. They say, "I don't need a man, but you still need a man to come do certain services to your home." You might not need a man for a relationship because you might got a rabbit or a bullet, but you still need a man. And something >> if men disappeared, it'd take about what six or eight hours before the power grid would go down, right? You know, you know, one of the things that men have done and they've done so well at it is they built a world in which women can intellectually detach from what keeps them alive. They sit in nice air-conditioned offices or air-conditioned homes. They do light work. Most of women's work is administrative liberal arts stuff. They are detached and disconnected from the dangerous and brutal underbelly of maintaining a society. They they they they they flush the toilet and they think it's the poop fairy coming and grabbing everything and and taking it out. And they don't understand that there's men down there with wrenches and hammers and saws and and >> building this and maintaining this civilization that's so magnificent and have done so well at it that women can convince themselves that they don't need a man. They would die shortly without men. Right. >> Absolutely. They It is not survivable for women without I I totally agree and I'm glad you said that because it it bought something. Uh, tell me what you think about this, Paul. I created a term and I I know you're an intellectual man and you you're it's going to make a lot of sense. I created a term because I'm very ingenious. But I said, Paul, that men and women both, and you got to hear me clearly, have prize-worthy elements. But watch this. But the man is the master prize consistent with theology where the Bible said the woman was made for man and um and woman is um and woman came out of man. So man is the master prize, but the woman is his special prize. The term I created is called the prize catcher. Him being the master prize. She being caught by or being seen as his special prize. The master prize catches his special prize. She's his special prize. He's her catch. He is the prize catcher. What do you think about that?

>> I like it. Uh, I like it. And it's not only theologically sound, it's biologically sound. It's sound in any way you can interpret this. >> Look, sad reality. Again, if you have a problem with it, take it up with God or take it up with Darwin or or whoever you want to get mad at about this. But men are the main job of women is to create more men. >> Yes, >> that is their job is to create more men and yes they create more women too which we need and they are prizes in certain ways but >> civilization >> is built and maintained by men. >> Yes. >> Uh, and so there create more men that makes men the master prize. It does. And it may not feel fair. I I could imagine if I was a woman hearing this saying, you know, you're you're the lesser of the two prizes. A lot of women are going to reject that out of hand. Doesn't mean it's not true, >> right? No. No. It it it definitely doesn't mean it's not true. I mean, I would tell them get mad at God. You know, you know, the Bible that's like me and you saying that we're the prize over God. We're not the prize over God. We're made we're made to serve God. But woman was made to serve God and man. Woman serve man on the front end. Man serve woman on the back end. And the greatest gift that a man can give a woman, Paul, is his life. Greater love have no man than this that a man would lay down his life for a friend. That's the greatest gift that a man can give a woman. That's that's the greatest form of simplify, you know, and I know the Marines use it for something different, but my point is always faithful. And you know, for a man to lay his life down and most men don't mind doing it. The problem is now masculine is so cheap, men don't demand anything. There was a black guy that lost his life in Arcana, Texas, trying to break up a domestic dispute, but now he's dead. Yep. >> So many men have died, Paul, trying to defend the honor of a woman. Like you said, based on that nonsense called chivalry. Let me show you something real quick. Um, because this proves my point um about what you were saying about romanticism and um, hold tight. Romanticism and um, and why men need to get out of their whole tight. This guy I'm talking to sent me money for groceries, $300, cuz I didn't have any food. Then I get a text from him later asking me to cook him dinner. Told him no because I'm not his wife and I only cook for my kids and my husband and he's neither of them. Now I'm blocked shaking my head. Like who asks a woman to cook for them before he puts a ring on it? Oh yeah.

>> Feminists are mainly white middle-class female liberals who have no idea how the real world works and yet want to advise you on how to live in it. You can now wait till 40 to have a baby. Freeze your face. Work in an air-conditioned office spending money you don't have. Marry someone to pay it off. Divorce him. Put him on alimony and child support. Get a Roomba. Abort your kid. Have unprotected sex on camera. Get paid for it. Order any cooked food to your door. Get a self-driving car. And then complain to men that they caused you to be lazy and fat. You win. You guys will never be happy until men are nothing but empty shells. Feminism has empowered women to destroy this country through the death of a thousand cuts. Feminism is not about equality. It's about insidious domination. It has been a slow creep to where women are complaining about their non-existent oppression. I am curious to know feminist plan when men refuse to stop providing, protecting, and maintaining the civilization you enjoy corrupting. Feminists are about to around and find out.

>> This black woman who was cared for by her boyfriend for a year after surgery decided to leave him because she felt he wasn't romantic enough, which drew widespread criticism. The woman underwent a serious brain operation and could not afford a professional caregiver during recovery. Her boyfriend quit his job and became her full-time caretaker for an entire year. During that time, he handled all daily care, including feeding her, helping with rehabilitation, and even cleaning her bodily waste. After a year of recovery, the woman's health improved, but the financial damage remained because the man had not worked for so long, he fell behind on bills and accumulated debt. To recover financially, he is now working three jobs to cover basic living expenses. The woman has since complained that her boyfriend is no longer romantic. She said he is always busy with work and does not take her out on dates, leading her to question whether she should stay in the relationship. Some people argue that many people can take someone on dates, but very few would give up a year of their life to do what he did. Others believe the woman leaving might actually be a relief for the man, allowing him to move on from a relationship that no longer values his sacrifice. What would you think if your girlfriend did the same thing? One sentence from this woman sent the internet into a war after she said this about black men. Why she's not your sister.

>> What happened to men just shedding the and going to work every time. It's a podcast. It's a meme. It's a stream. Take your ass to work. Y'all talk too damn much about nothing about how y'all ain't giving the one money. We don't want to hear it. Okay.

>> What do you think about that level of disrespect, Paul? >> No entitlement to any of this at all. My goodness. >> What do you think about that level of disrespect? Go ahead, brother.

>> Well, first I want to take the opportunity. You play that great clip from Pearl Davis. Uh, I got shameless plug here. I'll be interviewing Pearl for my podcast next week on Wednesday night at 8:00. Paul Elim on YouTube. Anybody want to check that out? It's going to be interesting. >> Yes, sir. >> Uh, but yeah, the the moral bankruptcy in this is really just staggering. And and this is what I see from most men. You know, I recently I talked to a guy took care of his wife through two rounds of cancer. And I mean, 24/7, took care of everything, cleaned the house, cooked, uh, cleaned up after her, worked, paid all the bills, did everything, took her to all her medical appointments, >> went through two rounds of cancer with her, and then he had a heart attack >> and she said, "I'm not taking care of you. Get out." >> Oh my goodness. Are you serious? >> I am dead serious. >> Oh my goodness, man. Paul, come on, brother. >> Yeah. And it is >> we are being and we we volunteer for it. So again, I'm not trying to rescue the men from this, but the exploitation here is just shameless. It's like shameless, right? >> You're here to take care of me. I don't care what it cost you. I don't care if it cost your career. I don't care if you get in debt. I don't care if if you don't have a nickel to your name when you're done taking care of me. You owe it to me. And then when you break yourself taking care of me, I'm going to get rid of you. That is evil. >> That's evil. >> It's evil, >> right? >> And it's just again, you know, this last woman you had on there said, you know, she thinks that men ought to shut up and and they don't want to hear it. Well, too bad. Mhm. >> Uh, because you're going to be hearing it. The internet is the big game changer. I think it's the big game changer.

>> You you mentioned that earlier. You know, it used to be in socially that if I were to say what I believed in social circles before the internet, I would just get shut down and ostracized, right? And so we we were forced into silence about this forever. >> Oh, but all of a sudden we got this thing like a public public square now. And anybody can talk that wants to. Oh my god. That moment that we became that society with the internet. I believe it was game over for women at that point. They're just now starting to figure it out. And you can see it in Gen Z men who aren't even interested in. >> They're not even interested. And listen, I feel so I mean, you know, I got good girls, man. You know, they're virginal good girls. You know, I'm I'm hoping, you know, I can lick my girls up over some good men. Um, but but man, Paul, listen, if I was a single man, again, brother, I would never look at the typical American woman. I would argue, Paul, that less than 10% are even worthy of being wise. I would say 10 to 20%. What would you say? >> You're a very generous man. >> I'm very >> Yes. You're very I think it's less than five. >> You think it's less than five? Okay. >> Yeah. Less than five women. Uh, no, no, less than five less than 5% less than >> Wow. Wow. >> But I think it's less than 5% of men anymore that are suitable for good, healthy relationships. So again, it's not a slant on women. It's it's what we've come to. But yeah, this this entitlement, I think that it's game over for them. >> And in that sense, it isn't a wall. It's I'm discharged. I got my walking papers. I'm done here. >> Right. Right. Right. Right. Right. Right. >> No coming back. Yes, sir. You guys are these are And I'm happy to see it. I'm happy. Young men saying, "I'm not signing up for any of this narcissistic garbage out of women. I'm not going on dates that that feel like job interviews and be scrutinized and then handed the bill for it." Right. I mean, it's like at least on a job interview, they don't charge you anything. But >> they don't charge you nothing. Right. >> Women do. >> You got to pay to apply. >> You got to pay. Well, listen. It's gotten so bad now, Paul. The these new generation of women say you got to pay them a cash app. >> Yes. Oh my. >> You got to cash app them, Paul. Before you get >> They come with a tap pad. Here you go, baby. Just tap that card right there. Let's let's get this transaction done and they'll get mad at you if you call relationships transactional. >> Oh no, it's it's definitely transactional. That's why I call the whole flation. Um, you you're getting more for less. And I didn't hear no, you know, bigger podcasters were saying that. I had a show with my friend Peaceful Life. Shout out to him. And uh, and he believe in the merits of peace. And he he was talking about relationship capitalism. And then I paired that with Hovlation. Uh, because hopeflation says that I'm going to give you less but I'm demanding more. Look at what your grandmother got and what your grandfather got and what your father got in general. Most men back then got women that were virgins. They got virginal women. I mean, if they were virgin wife ready, no kids, and they understood the assignment. Men now are not getting that. If you get a woman with men were under five, you got a unicorn. That's a unicorn. You know, you got I'm I've heard guys Paul tell me about women that this they say if a woman got 30 bodies, that's low. I want you to listen to this whole tight.

>> wanted a good black man. >> Right. >> Now, too many grown women saying hookup culture is okay. Yeah, baby. Get get what you need to get. They already ruined their lives. Don't let these grown 30, 40, 50-year-old single, bitter, jaded women ruin these young 20-some year olds that actually still have a shot. These young 18-year-olds that still have a shot. >> That's how I feel. >> And that's the problem. There are too many women that are out here ruining the shop for young women because we're not being honest. We're saying, "No, baby. You can you can be sexually liberated. You can go on this sex walk. You can feel good inside of your body. You can do whatever you want." What What life do they have that you want? The women that are saying this, >> they're single and jaded and bitter. The majority. Are there exceptions to the rule? Yes, of course there are. There's always an exception to the rule. But we don't speak to the exception. We speak to the majority. And the majority of women are getting used up and recycled by a bunch of different men that are never going to wife them. They don't want to marry the man that is actually good for them because he doesn't look good. And the fact that the four sixes is what matters the most to a woman in 2026. That's the problem. The is the the measuring stick is so low. >> I just feel like people Yes. What you're saying is you understand that that's not what people do. >> I ain't going to tell people what should anything. All I'm saying is if you choose to be a sexually liberated woman, the odds of you marrying being chosen by a high value, high earning masculine man is a steep decrease. The more men you've slept with, the odds are even worse. That's just what it is. And >> now I like what you're saying, Paul. That's what some traditional conservative women, and I think she means well, but I think we got to be careful truncating men based on high value, based on money. I couldn't agree more. U man, >> I think it's disrespectful to some degree. Paul, go ahead. >> I I, you know, we got to get through the code speak. High value man means more of this. You're >> right. >> It's like you're going to take better care of me. And this is why I I'm not particularly more trustful of conservative women uh than I am liberal women. Uh, because they're feminists. >> Yes. >> To a core. To a core. So many of these women that are anti-feminist, they're saying, "Oh, feminism's terrible. Women have done this, but I want a high value man to to romance me and take care of me." They're running on the same script. >> And when push comes to shove, they're feminists. >> You know, they don't want to give up. I watch them on Fox News. They talk about being anti-feminist and but they don't want to give up that power. They don't want to get the power up and and that's the and that's the that's the key defining point or they want the relationship on their terms while proclaiming themselves to be godly women. True women of God do things based on godly principles. She follows she follows the man leadership. But you're correct. You got a generation of simps that don't know how to lead. They won't lead. They're afraid to lead. Listen how this woman disrespect her husband. Paul, hold on.

>> That proved what most masculine men knew. And the internet went crazy. >> Four Keeps TV. >> Boy, you ain't gonna do [ __ ] for shutting hell up and keep paying these bills like you always do. >> I'm going to make some um dinner. The guys kept putting the rest of my stuff together, so I'm going to cook for them. >> [ __ ] you, man. You going to cook for them. >> These men is working late. You know what time it is? I'm going to feed these men. They ain't eat [ __ ] >> Okay, them [ __ ] to the game. They working for money, bro. >> Come on, dude. You know it's called hospitality. Like, be real. Don't start with that insecure ass [ __ ] That ain't hospitality. You doing too much. >> Y'all um y'all eat tacos? >> N boy n y I'm going to cook y'all something like these men doing me a favor. >> You cook some [ __ ] if you want. >> Boy, you ain't going to do [ __ ] for shut the hell up and keep paying these bills like you always do. Don't forget who run this [ __ ] Hell you talking about [ __ ] on my phone. You >> say that's a bias. I >> and the question is, is she right? >> Apparent apparent cuz I promise you, Paul, this didn't start overnight, brother. This this didn't start overnight. This is this this He saw the red flags early on, >> but he chose to ignore them, in my opinion. Go ahead.

>> Well, yeah. I mean, again, the fact that he's even still talking to her, >> right? >> Uh, I mean, that phone should have gone dead the moment her mouth started running. >> Right. Right. >> U but this is unfortunately men have come to expect this as the new normal. In a sense, it it it is kind of a new normal. Uh, which is why I have very little sympathy for men because they put up with this. And I look I I I say this as somebody I sed the first half of my adult life. I was total man. Terrible. >> But uh >> but at some point, where is your self-respect? >> Where's your self-respect? Right. >> And a guy that is allowing a woman to talk to him like that and still paying her bills, man. You you whatever he gets, he's got coming to him. >> Well, but they're they're compromised men, you They probably raised by single moms. A lot of them they're compromised. I'm I'm going to say this. I know you got to go. I'm going to play this little small clip and I know you got to go. I enjoy this. I'm looking forward to doing the show with you at some point, too. >> Absolutely. I would love that. >> I would argue that the the average man has never had an orgasm. You say, "What do you mean by that? That's stupid." Well, I'm going to explain it. The average man has never been stimulated by a feminine woman that was kind. That's what I'm talking about. I'm talking I'm not talking about a physical orgasm. I'm talking about a mental orgasm where he's been around raw femininity that makes him feel good. And so what happening now is that men are beginning to go abroad and go overseas to get that raw femininity. And what's happening, Dr. Smith, when these men come back, they're actually having a catharsis because they've never gotten that.

>> Here's why she is afraid. >> Babe, be honest. How many women have you been with before me? What's your number? >> Five. Two serious relationships, three casual dates. What about you? What is your number? >> Why does that matter? The past is the past. Stop being so insecure. It's different for guys. You shouldn't ask a woman that question. >> So, you want my history, but yours is a secret? >> Huh? >> Sarah, when I buy a used car, I ask for the Carfax. I need to know the mileage and the accidents. I don't buy a car blindly, and I definitely don't marry blindly. >> Did you just compare me to a used car? I am a human being. My past makes me who I am. If you loved me, you wouldn't care about my history. >> You are applying for the position of wife. >> In the real world, no CEO hires an employee without checking the resume. If you hide your resume, it's usually because you're unqualified for the job. YOU ARE A MISOGYNIST. YOU VERIFY EVERYTHING. WHERE IS THE TRUST? >> Trust is earned. Data is verified.

>> So, one of the biggest issues, guys, with this whole body count situation, the body count um thing is that women don't primarily understand male psychology. U men by nature are wired to conquer. Men by nature are wired to protect the things they love. And the whole issue with the sexual revolution is that the sexual revolution told women that they can live like men, act like men, and assume that all men are sleeping around with a multiple women. But that's not the case. And when that happens, a lot of times women have what's called a cognitive break because they understand at a very visceral level that their behavior is bad, but they don't want to deal with the consequences. This is another keeping it kosher, keeping it raw with kosher moment and which truth is stranger THAN FICTION. EVERY BROTHER, WOULD YOU TELL ANOTHER BROTHER AND SAY, "I SHOULD HAVE LISTENED TO HER." GOD HELP ME. OLD SAINTS, Y'ALL FORGIVE ME. BUT I GOT TO TELL YOU, THESE HOES AIN'T LOYAL. >> PASTOR JAMAL, >> I'll forever submit. >> This is what we talked about, Paul. Listen to this. >> I'll forever submit to you. I'll forever submit to you, Miles. I'll forever respect you, Miles. I'll forever honor you, Miles, as the head of our home. and no other. There is no other there is no one no plans of hell will ever prosper in our marriage. And whoever holds me not to be a wife that is a Proverbs 31 woman. >> Amen. >> I will become that woman that builds the home as I follow you as you follow Christ. That is the only thing that we will do in our household. And I promise and I vow that in heaven they hear on earth I declare and decree I shall be a submissive wife.

>> Now now look at the difference Paul between that woman's demeanor. That's a woman that hasn't had a lot of trauma. She's probably a virgin. She haven't been ran through. You know her her eyes ain't looking like >> good father. >> Good father. Right. Her eyes are not spinning like some on the Twilight Zone for all that DNA in her brain. Uh, cuz and and so women that's why I say Paul that if a woman doesn't have emotional regulation, I if she doesn't understand structure and order taught by her father because the father is the is the bridegroom, the he's the groomer, but then the husband is the bridegroom, the father, the husband continues the traditions of the father. Now women don't like the term Paul when when it says a man is supposed to groom or teach his wife, they don't like that train, but but we all are trainable. Uh, men have to be trained by master teachers and we all get trained when we go to school, but somehow when it comes down to her husband training them or grooming them, it's a problem. That woman because she hasn't been ran through, compare bond with a man. She has a higher chance of pair bonding through orgasm, but women that have had several partners, a lot of times probably have what's called oxytocin abuse. You know, they burnt out and you're not getting nothing special. You know what I find so crazy, Paul? They want to wear white dresses and be treated like princess and treated special. You're not special. >> You know that white dress does not look good with that run-through stare you got on your face. >> It just doesn't match. >> Right. Right. Right. What do you think about that clip real quick before you go, brother?

>> Um, that I it is refreshing to know that there are still some people out there that get it. Uh, and it's encouraging. I wish it was the standard, but the reason we're watching that is because it's the exception. Unfortunately, >> it's it's a rare exception. >> It's a very rare exception. Uh, God bless that woman and that man uh for setting things up the way they're supposed to be set up. Uh, I I love the fact that she embraced her submission as a form of strength, >> which is what it is. >> It is a form of strength, right? And and look, people can get mad all they want to, but look, we all train each other how we're going to >> we all train each other. I 100% agree. Right. >> That that's part of being a human being. We we show people how we're willing to be treated, how we're not willing to be treated, what we'll tolerate, what we won't tolerate. We literally train everybody how to treat us. And you can be offended by that. But again, you know, take it up with God, take it up with Darwin, take it up with with another way that you can make sense of it. But this is what we do.

>> You said something before you go, Paul. You said that you were a recovering S. And you said that you found you found you had to go through S.P. recovery. Uh, you know, you you had to say, "God, grant me surrender, help the things I cannot change with the knowledge and courage to know the difference." Tell tell the audience real quick about your simp story and when did you have your existentialist moment?

>> Um, it it really came for me after I got red-pilled. Uh, this is I got first red-pilled in '93. It was probably 2004, 2005 before I finally digested uh that red pill. But I came to a decision that I was never going to do anything ever again the same way with women. I was through trying to impress them, through taking care of them in the in the ways that they that modern women want to be taken care of, which is basically being indulgent and pampering them in whining and dining. Uh, not I'm not talking about taking care of them in the way of building a home. I'm talking about taking care of their childish side, which is what women have have come to expect in this culture. And I got fed up with myself. If I looked back at how I behaved with women, the way I just threw my own self-respect, I threw friendships under the bus. If a guy said anything negative about some terrible woman I was with, I would get rid of him. >> Uh, and I looked back at that and I looked at myself in disgust at my own life and said, "What is wrong with you? Where is your spine? >> Where's your spine? Right. >> Yeah. Why you've been and it something clicked in me in the early 2000s that is like this has got to change. I can't live this way anymore. Right. >> And I've been a monster ever since. >> You you definitely you definitely you definitely been a monster, man. Have you gotten death threats, Paul, being this um um >> Oh, yeah. I've had a few. >> How do you How do you How do you deal with it? >> I got lots of guns. What do you say? What do you say? Peace be still. Peace be still. >> Yes. Yes. Yes. No. Look, you know, people mouth off on the internet. I've gotten threatening emails and stuff like that. And we did a conference back in '14 in in the Detroit area and people phoned in death threats that they were going to shoot up the hotel we were in and kill hotel employees. That stuff happens. >> You know, speaking the truth is a dangerous business. Uh, it is we have a history in America of killing people who speak the truth all the way back to Jesus. >> This is what we do is we don't like people that speak the truth. >> I I would rather live on my feet >> like that and tell the truth and risk it. Uh, I don't know how much risk there really is, but there's some. >> Um, but I'd rather live that way. I'm too old now to care. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. When you Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. You about Yeah. I feel the same way. Once you get a certain age, I'm about dead anyway. So, I'm going to die fighting. >> It's like, come on. We'll we'll take us both down. >> Right. Right. Right. Right. Right. Right. What would be your closing comments and young man moving forward, man? Um, after >> I'm just I want to say thank you for doing this. I've really enjoyed the conversation. I'd like to to extend it and do it again sometime. I would obviously would like to encourage people to come to my YouTube channel at Paulum. Yes. >> And to uh get on to the new podcast. We're talking about this stuff in depth every week on Wednesday nights at 8:00. Uh, we've had great shows so far. Going to have a we'll have another one again when you come back and do my show. Uh, these are the conversations we want to have is about men living autonomous lives with dignity, with self-respect. I believe with a relationship with God uh being at the core of that. But for men who aren't believers, I respect you, too. >> But again, I encourage you, find something more important than you to live for. >> Man, I I totally agree, brother. >> Yeah. And do that and things will work out right. And just as long as that something more important to you isn't a woman. Uh, because if you make another one another single human being your higher power, you're totally lost. >> Yes, sir. Yes, sir. Yes, sir. >> There's no hope in that. It's a waste. >> And you know what? Thank you, man. I know you got to go, man. And I appreciate it, man. I see so many women I see so many women, man. Um, they drunk the Kool-Aid, they didn't reproduce. They wear the mask like they're happy, but they're really sad. But anyway, thank you, man. You've been very gracious with your time. I know you got to go. We'll be we'll be talking on the back end, man, at some point. Be good, brother. >> Sounds good. Thank you. Take care. >> Yes, sir. God bless, brother. All right. Be good. All right, guys. That's my man Paul Edom, man. This is a powerful show, guys. I hope you guys enjoyed the show. Um, yeah, he subscribed. No doubt, man. Um, and guys, go check out Paul Edom. Paul Edum is a is a OG. And, um, and we do these guys these shows, guys, because we want to see you men win. And guys, listen, don't forget to get your shirt. I'm trying to get special orders. And this is a new moniker that I created called Awall. Uh, American women offers less. And it basically says that uh, American women um that that we're not

Saying all, but a majority of American women don't really give men anything of value. You know, we know there are some good ones. If you're a good woman, we're not talking about you. U, but they offer less. So guys, put in your orders for your Awol t-shirts. We got another great show coming up tomorrow with my man David Anderson, hopefully, um, talking about um static blackness, another condition, another psychological condition that's impacted a lot of folks. And guys, um, I want to send a special shout out to um, once again, St. James Palmer for being the number one sponsor, father with brother Ray Johnson always showing love. And guys, don't let those brothers be the only one that support the stream on tonight. Um, don't let those guys be the only ones to um, um, to support the stream. So, um, we going to sign off. Actually, I'm going to play a little bit this clip of Dr. Helen Smith. Hold on for a minute. Hold tight.

He feels bad after the fact, but he has very poorest boundaries. And many times the conscious Dr. Smith has what's called, if I ever write a book, I'm going to put this in my book, too. Um, the next one, conscious. He's been conditioned, conscious. He's been conditioned through a concept called introjection. And introjection, uh, is something that happens a lot of times with young boys when they're being raised by women. So that's the unconscious. He supplements an irrational male pattern of behavior. And what it does, it creates a disbalance of power. And then the next one Dr. Smith is called, cuz I'm going, if I ever write a book, I'm going to put this in my book too. Um, the next one is called, it's called the conscious s. The conscious s understands what's going on. Um, Adam was a conscious s. You know, he knew that, you know, he shouldn't allow his wife's um emotions to get the best of him, but he did. So the conscious, what he does, he sacrifices important masculine principles to appease the woman. He's aware of what he's doing, but he does it anyway because he doesn't want to make her upset. So you got the unconscious S, many times raised in single parent homes by mothers, and then you got the conscious simp that knows what he's doing. He feels bad after the fact, but he has very poorest boundaries, and many times the conscious Dr. Smith has what's called a a insecure attachment style. His, his, his attachment style is very insecure. So therefore, u, he doesn't have bound boundaries. He want to make everybody happy. And this is very problematic in relationships because in healthy relationships there are boundaries. What do you think about that?

>> Oh, I think you're absolutely right about a lot of those things. And I talked to a lot of the men for my new book, and they um talk about being raised by say a single mom, and a lot of men have internalized their, have internalized the single mother's way of emotional, um, you know, they've internalized what it is to be a woman because they don't have that father figure in the home to show them. What do dads show them? We know that dads show uh boys how to have boundaries and how to act as a man and how to deal with anger and how to um, you know, just how to act and behave in the world. And a lot of those boys don't see that. All they see is a feminine way of behaving. And one of the guys I talked to was telling me about how he see men out there screaming and carrying on like women. And he sees young boys acting the same way because they're not really around those role models, whether that be at school, whether that be at home, where they can see how would you act as a man. So, I think you're, I think you're right. There are a lot of men out there, and I think, singing, I mean, I think they also, people plate women because they don't want any trouble, and the, you have to be strong enough to deal with trouble. You have to, as a man, trouble, you just have to understand, and I think men do have a hard time. Like um, there's a saying in a Psychology Today article that said that men will do anything, they will contort themselves in any way psychologically, so that they don't get a woman angry, and I think we need to change that because yes, >> we are so afraid of making a woman angry. Even people yell at me for making a woman angry. I'm sorry. >> Right, so what if a woman's angry? We need to learn to tolerate that. We've tried. We've actually, people go on that, "Oh, women can't show anger." My god, I've never seen so many angry people in my life. These women today are the angriest people I've ever seen. >> Yes, ma'am. Yes, ma'am. >> And man out and do anything and hit a man or whatever. And men are just taught to retreat. And I think that's a very difficult combination with women going forward with their anger. Women are being taught to act like the men that they think they should be, not what men truly are. Most men I know are fairly gentlemen, or they're a bigger man has learned to be more of a gentleman, right? That's true. Very free to attack people to and to yell out. Society says that's okay, but if a man shows the least anger, somehow he's, you know, an abuser, he's horrible. And I think we're so afraid of male anger, and we're so conditioning of female anger and saying that that's okay in our society, because we are trying to empower, empower women in this false empowerment. It's not empowerment. >> It's about driving men away. And I think that's what your shows are about. They're about how women are driving men away, and men are treating, and >> they're just doing their own thing. But at the same time, it's driving people apart, and it makes for a, you know, it makes for a, for a very difficult society, and we don't trust each other anymore. And I think it's harmful and, and it's sad. >> And I think also, Dr. Smith, uh, if you look at, and guys, go check out Dr. Smith's book. His, put, put the link. Dr. Smith, do you have the link to your books? I'm going, the guys, go get your books, and uh, and I can, I can put it up for you. But, but this has been going on since the advent of the '9s, the '80s with Oprah and Dr. Field and Sally Jesse Raphael. So, so that's why I say it haven't gotten better, it's gotten worse. So, so, so when you see a cancer metastasize, and it's not that you don't, it's not that you're saying that, you know, I'm going to hope that the cancer goes away. You just realize that is it is what it is, and you going to do an existentialist crisis, and there's nothing you can do about it. And so, what a lot of men say, in order for the crisis, the crisis to change, then we can either burn the cancer out or we got to start all over again. And that's why a lot of men are saying we to start all over again. Maybe the next generation will get it. Cuz men want, see, men want to be happy. They want relationships. They want, they want marriages. But this new generation of men now, they don't care about this stuff. >> They don't care. And I've talked to the young men, and there's two chapters in my book. And um, this is the new book. It's his side. And >> this side. Yes. >> Young, middle-aged, and older men. And two of the chapters in there are about young men, particularly, for there's a chapter on regular uh guys, and then there's a chapter on fraternity men. And all of these guys, these young men in their early 20s, they understand what's happening. When I talk to them, they know, and they all say that their girlfriends are liberal, but they really do understand what's happening. And a lot of these guys are like really wondering if they even should get married to these types of women. And so, I think before they didn't understand, now they do. And you know, I think that awareness and that education and helping men, like in the way you're trying to help men, I think that men are becoming more educated. And I think that bothers people because in our society, nobody wants men to get together. I think it's this denial of male space. We used to have male space where men could get together. They could talk through some of these problems. We don't have clubs for men anymore. There's a lot of things we don't have. And you know, a lot of men, everybody tells men to go to therapy for the mental health problems, but I'm like, you know, only 6% of men who are usually asked even want to go to therapy, right? And as we know, there aren't many therapists out there who are trained and understand what men are dealing with. >> Yes. Yes. Yes. And, and they don't care because many therapists are trained, actually, it's gotten so bad now, Dr. Smith. There was a, there was a lady, uh, and I think she was from England, I believe, and she was talking about how academia now is training women in, women intentionally and also men to be more towards the liberal side and not to be rational and objective in disseminating clinical treatment. And so, u, I'm going to try to get that later on my show as well, but it's basically talking about now they're not objective. They are trying to teach therapists to see things through the feminist theory lens or the duth model. They're not telling them to look at therapy objectively without bias, but they're trained >> basically to be social justice warriors. >> Yes. M continuing education class, I just get appalled talking about this kind of stuff about how you're supposed to be a social justice warrior. And I'm like, I'm not out there as a social justice warrior. I'm there out there trying to help somebody. What is their problem? And I think part of that is we've gone away from the individual. And men are more individualistic. The men I talked to for my book, they are more. >> We're going to end it here. Thank you guys for tuning in. Shout out to my man XL Pro in the house with that $10 super chat. Shout out to my dear brother XL Pro showing some love on tonight. Um, shout out to the number one sponsor, all the way from uh, all the way from from Rock, I almost say Rockaway, New York, my man St. James Farmer, and all the way from the West Coast, brother R. Johnson. Man, I really appreciate you guys for tuning in. Guys, I hope y'all enjoyed the show. Um, please hike the video. Go subscribe to Paul Edum. Um, I knew about Paul years ago. 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