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So, today wanted to talk a little bit about the nature of women in this in in this one aspect. All right. I'm going to show you a couple of things and I'm just going to kind of go over with you something that took me some years to finally accept. All right.
All right, let's check this out. This is an article in from ABC 6. It's dated May 2nd of this year. It says, "Going to kill them all. Mother accused of setting fire to apartment with four kids inside." Check this out. New tonight, a Columbus woman's accused of setting an apartment on fire this morning. Investigators say Ala Hassan admitted to it and now faces aggravated arson and domestic violence by assault charges. The apartment's in the Hilltop, a block away from Wedgewood Middle School. Court documents reveal that four children told a witness their mom started the fire with a lighter and said she was going to kill them all. No one was injured and fire crews say the kids are now with children's services. Their mother is scheduled to be in court on Monday.
All right. So, the question is, you think there'll be a lot of think pieces written on this? New tonight, a Columbus woman's accused. I'm sorry about that. You think there'll be a lot of media medium articles or [snorts] essays? You think there'll be a nationwide call to re-evaluate whether black women are monsters and abuse their children, despite that the data suggests that the parent that does the most abuse tends to be female. All right. Are you going to call for that? I mean, we did this for black men, and nobody had any reservations about doing so. Not likely.
Now, this one we talked about already. This has been in the news. Right? This is the Stefon Diggs situation. And one of the things we noticed was that uh he was uh found not guilty. Right? But, this was the woman that accused him. And even though I'm not showing the name of her post, this is a woman reposting this clip from her case. Says, "This woman belongs in jail for lying." Now, you will get individual women who might say every now and again when something is completely out of pocket. But, I'm going to tell you what I'm talking about in a minute. But, just in case you don't remember, for the record, for the archive, let me go ahead and play a clip from the court case. Okay, I don't know why the volume. There we go. Let's try this again. Volume is a little low. Here we go.
So, when you say um he smacked. >> He smacked me with an open hand. Do you know which hand he used? Right hand, right side of my face. >> Know which part of your face got hit? The right side of my face. And then what happened? And then he. Can I have a second? Can I have a second? >> Now, just remember that tears can be weaponized and used very strategically. And I believe she's doing that here. Yes, you can have a um. Yes, you can take a minute. >> All right. When I went up to push his head, like block him, like like block him, he took his arm and he like came around my neck with the crook of his elbow around my neck and he began to choke me. Pressure on my neck. What is elbow? When you were asked questions about what happened on December 2nd, you lied. It did not change what happened on December 2nd. It did not change what happened on December 2nd. He choked and slapped me. Ms. Adams, I'm going to try my question again. Because you didn't think it was important. When you asked the questions of Dedham Police Officer Ellis on December 16th, you lied. I did not lie.
All right. So, a very short clip, but if you guys remember, right, I played uh great deal of uh detail there. There've been countless videos that have been made in the last few days illustrating how she misrepresented herself and that they were having a sexual affair throughout all of this. Um and then she was caught, you know, dancing a couple of days after this was supposed to have taken place. So, there was a lot of questions, right? So, she was uh he was ruled not guilty and uh lost quite a bit just at the accusation. Contracts, the whole deal. It said I think it was up to 69 million. But, we'll come back to that. Not the details in particular, but the reason I'm playing all of this.
This is the next one. All right. This is The Sun, UK edition. This is dated uh March of 2026. It says "Grave liar, six sick woman who used dating apps to meet 10, actually other reports say 11, men right? before falsely crying grape. Jailed." Right? There she is there. So, basically she falsely accused 11 men of grape. And this is highly problematic. Right? But it says Stacey Sharples, 31, trawled dating sites to meet men, often going back to their homes, then calling the cops and incorrectly alleging she had been raped. Right? And she is again. Sick woman pleaded guilty to 10 counts of perverting the course of justice at Bolton Crown Court on Monday. During her trial, the court heard how Sharples would search dating sites like Plenty of Fish, Badoo, and Facebook dating looking for victims. After she left their homes, she would often call the police and report she had been raped, even in some cases where no sexual activity had even taken place. Sharples at of Farnsworth or Farnworth, Bolton, claimed she was abused by nine men behind a library in Failsworth on Boxing Day. She had three more false claims in 2017, four in 2018, and 11 in 2019. I'm going to read that again. She made three more false claims in 2017, four in 2018, and 11 in 2019. She denied 19 charges of perverting justice in April 2024, but admitted 10 counts last month. Um at Bolton Crown uh Crown Court. Nine offenses were left on file. Sharples was jailed for 4 and 1/2 years on Wednesday. And Judge Clark told her last week, hold on. Excuse me. Um told her last week, "Every one of these men are entirely innocent of any criminal behavior. Right? Their lives have been blighted by these allegations. It was all a wicked pack of lies." He also branded Sharples a sexual predator for her allegations, which devastated many victims' lives. One victim told The Sun he met Sharples in 2019 on Badoo, where he uh where her profile had a topless picture. He said her messages said she was after one thing. She was in my house for about 20 minutes. We kissed. Then she said she didn't want to kiss anymore. I said no problem. Got her a taxi home. Then she phoned and said I really hurt her. Sharples rang uh police and claimed the 40-year-old builder raped or excuse me, craved and attacked [music] her. 12 cops arrested him at the Salford flat at a Salford flat. He's been 2 days in cells and lost his job. He was later told he he faced no further action. Nine of the men falsely accused by Sharples provided impact statements to the court detailing the impact of the allegations including family breakdowns and losing their jobs. Right? Reece Lockett's statement said, "My life was turned upside down on the day I was falsely accused. My mom and dad disowned me. My partner of 5 years left me. I lost my part-time job." Detective Sergeant Steven Gilliand of Greater Manchester Police, who investigated the case, said, "In the course of its investigation, the evidence continued to demonstrate that the reports were untrue." He also paid tribute to the courage of the men who were victims of her false allegations, who have endured an experience no one would ever wish to go through. Gilliand added, "We took the allegations made by Sharples seriously, explored all lines of inquiry, and swiftly made arrests or interviewed all the men she accused."
See, this is part of the problem. Right? At the mere accusation, men are taken to jail. Right? Men are Men are dealt with. And the court of public opinion holds them guilty regardless. He says, "We gave her multiple opportunities to provide further explanation or information to us after interviews with the men and subsequent evidence uncovered didn't align with her first recollection as we understand that trauma can impact how victims and survivors recount their experiences. I'll be the first one to say that this woman has psychological issues. I'll be the first one. But I will also add that what I think is also happening on top of that is the enjoyment at being able to flex and make things happen to anyone she chooses. This is a This is a This is a an ability that people get drunk on. The power of it. We've given one demographic the power to accuse anyone of anything. Most particularly men. And without evidence, without pushback, we act as if this is true simply because the accusation is made. And even after innocence is proven even in a court of law or at least to the police's satisfaction men are often still treated by family, friends, employers, so on and so forth as if they were guilty simply because the accusation has been made. See? Says ultimately as the evidence continued to demonstrate that the reports were untrue coupled with the desire for justice from some of the men who had been falsely accused, it was right that we followed the evidence and pursued the individual who had actually committed a criminal offense. I would like to pay tribute to the strength of these men who have endured and experienced no one whatever wish to go through and done so with dignity. I hope they feel a sense of justice for what happened to them today. Now. Right?
There we go. So, that's her. Right? Said she accused over 11 men. Now, this last one is going to be a little different. Comes from a different source, but so far we've looked at a mother who tried to kill her kids by burning up the the she they were in. We saw the false accusations you know towards Stefon Diggs. Thankfully he was proven not guilty. Uh despite no evidence and clear case of this woman misrepresenting herself. We saw a woman accuse over 11 men of rape. Right? And we're going to get to this last one.
Now this one is a couple of minutes. This is a brother who is quite frustrated at the current state of affairs. Shout out to Passport OG. He played this on his show a little while back. And I was moved by this brother's testimony. He talks about his experience with his ex and his kids. But there's also a little something in what he describes in his story that caught my attention. Let's check this out.
Bro, I don't know how to put it, man. Like I never thought like a woman would like stop you from being a father, [ __ ] Like I never I never saw this coming, man. Like I've tried everything I needed to do, bro, to change my life around. Now so I can be a better father for my son, bro. I don't KNOW WHAT TO DO ANYMORE, MAN. I don't went to the court, BRO. I DON'T WENT AND FILED A LEGITIMIZATION, BRO. SHE MISSED THE COURT DATE, BRO. Had me in the courtroom for 2 hours, bro, on the Zoom, bro. And then the dude get on there like, "Damn, [ __ ] if you If she ain't here next time, we going to drop this mug." Like Then y'all got Bro, I don't know what to do, bro. Like I tried to bend over backwards. I tried to be a be a punk. Like scary. Like act like the weakest dude I can be to get this girl to act nice to me and give me time with my son, bro. I don't understand this, dog. Then I got my own mom, bro. She like my own mom, bro, teaming up with my my son mom, bro, to keep me away from my son, dog. Keeping me away from my son. Bringing him over my mom's house and not telling me She not telling me, bro. I I don't get it. I DON'T DRINK. I DON'T SMOKE. I DON'T CLUB. I DON'T DO NONE OF THIS STUFF, BRO. I don't have a job, so I'm available. I'm an entrepreneur, bro, and I cannot get time with my son, bro, and it's eating me up, bro. And I don't know what to do, man. And I got to file a whole another legitimization case just so I can try to get this GIRL AND THEY I FILED it and I I put the serve thing. I did everything right, bro. Apparently, she never got served. But they made sure whenever something happened with me, I get served. Last time I saw my son, he like he's like, "Why didn't you come to my birthday party, man?" LIKE, "BRO, YOUR MOM TRIED TO GET ME LOCKED UP, MAN. I DON'T DO NOTHING TO HER, BRO. I DON'T I DON'T FIGHT HER. I DON'T SWING AT HER. I DON'T CUSS AT HER. I DON'T DO NOTHING TO HER, BRO. I DON'T DO NONE OF THAT. She's just mad cuz I'm not there. I'm not doing whatever I'm supposed to do, bro. I'm trying to do everything I'M SUPPOSED TO DO TO BE A BETTER FATHER, BRO. It's like these women, man, it's like they fight THEY TRY TO PAINT A PICTURE LIKE YOU'RE JUST THE WORST DUDE IN THE WORLD, BRO. They try to make it seem like you're the same dude that you was 5 YEARS AGO AFTER YOU DON'T MADE ALL THESE CHANGES SO THEY CAN KEEP TELLING THEIR FRIENDS WHY THEY DON'T KEEP YOU AROUND, WHY THEY DON'T LET you see your son, why they keep your son away from you, bro. This is the most evilest thing I've ever seen a human being do. Consistent years I've given money every single month every single 2 weeks ON A SCHEDULE AND STILL if she GET MAD, I CAN'T see him, bro. AND IT'S LIKE THE WORLD IS SEXIST. It's like the world let these women walk around and tell their way with the kids and wonder why these kids grow up and they shooting y'all. Wonder why these kids 16 years old catching murder charges.
All right. All right. Now, I hope that brother finds some support. Truly do. That moved me the first time I saw that because I can't. It's not just that it happened to him, but how many different men talk about the same thing. And there are a variety of, you know, that as far as the emotional response, it's all over the spectrum. Some are completely stoic. Some, you know, reach the points he does, but there's everything in between. Right? But the two things that stood out to me. One, of course, was the the the the nature of the system itself. You know, he talks about how when it came to him being served, uh there was no hesitation about it. When it came to her being served, um it was optional. Right? And they were even going to drop the case that he filed simply because she didn't show up. I don't know how many different types of of court hearings that you that rule like that. You get sued, you just don't show up, it goes away. That's interesting. Right? So, I felt for him on that. And of course, I felt for him just in terms of not being able to see his kids. But the thing that the reason I played it in this particular show is he said something that I really didn't expect. He said that his baby mama and his mother will collude to make sure that the mother can see his son. But she will participate in making sure he can't. His own mother will go behind his back, you know, maintain a relationship with the baby mother, keep the son away from her son, just so she can have access. And you might wonder why would I play this collection of videos or or or these issues, right? You got one woman who tried to kill four kids, you got another one who falsely accused an NFL player, a famous one. You got another woman that falsely accused 11 men of rape. And then you got this situation here where his mother and his ex have colluded to keep him from his son while the mother can engage in a relationship with the grandson, grandchild. Right?
Well, the thing that took me a long time to accept about women's nature was the capacity right? As you see in the title, for feelings to matter more than truth. And by that, I'm not talking about the individual women in these cases. I'm talking about the public. I'm talking about the public the the public uh voice of women, the public perception of situations from women's standpoint, and how women in public respond to this. So, in other words, when it comes to the woman that tried to kill her four children, clearly there's a psychological break that happened. There's something that went on with her that went beyond the pale, that isn't normal. Right? How many women held her to the same standard they held Justin Fairfax? Or the guy in Shreveport who tried to kill his children, who did kill his children. She set the apartment on fire. You saw the burn marks on the apartment building, and tried to kill her four kids. Any think pieces? Any reflective videos? Any hatred extended to her or single mothers or any other way you want to frame whatever demographic the mother who tried to kill her kids is a part of? No. What you'll hear is a lot of silence. Now, don't get me wrong. You may get an individual woman here or there that will say something, but collectively will there be any acknowledgement that this is something that can happen to people, a mental break? Will there will there be any group apologies extended in any large scale to men for misframing something that can happen to anyone? Right?
What happened with Stephon Diggs? Just like with Amber Heard, right? Clearly caught out there lying. And and and whether we talk about Amber Heard or the situation with Diggs, any large-scale acknowledgement that she was out of line? Right? Cuz when he was first accused, I don't even watch football, and I heard all kinds of, you know, people, you know, guesstimating about what he did and how he did it and he deserved to lose his career. I heard all of this, all this rhetoric around how much of a monster he is. And now that he's found not guilty, you guys heard an overwhelming chorus of people coming forward to say they were wrong? And that he shouldn't have lost contracts behind this? That he was falsely accused or and well, better yet, that this is part of a legacy of black men who were able to be falsely accused and even lynched behind a woman's word? Any questions about a black woman on top of all of that? After all the rhetoric we rhetoric we've heard about how perfect black women are and what they do for black men, how sacrificial they are and black men are just ungrateful. And then you find a situation like this where this woman attempted to falsely accuse him and squeeze him for money. As a matter of fact, the lawyer even brought up in the case, she tried to get 5.5 million out of him to go away. Any think pieces about that? Any wide-scale apologies about that? Any acknowledgement that she was foul and lied? And the reason I brought up Amber Heard is because when that situation happened with Johnny Depp and he had a recording of her admitting not only to abusing him, but telling him nobody was going to believe him, the same women that accused Johnny Depp of being monsters and and suggested that all men were monsters because of situations like that got real quiet. Across the board. But this one is very specific to the black community when you talk about the Stefon Diggs situation. Because I've heard black women say, "Black women don't do that kind of [ __ ] That's what white women do. Falsely accuse They We don't do that." Word? Okay. Right?
Anybody saying anything to you all about the the woman that accused 11 men of of rape falsely? Any widespread media coverage on that? Maybe there is. I haven't run across it, but y'all tell me. But in this end situation, where this brother actually has to watch this situation unfold with his his ex keeping his son away, right? Turning his And he's already talking about turning turning the son against him, right? By not telling him about the birthday party, letting the son, you know, develop a an an antipathy toward his father for not being there, even though the father didn't even know and can't be there because she she tries to put him in jail, right? But to find out that his own mother is colluding with his ex to spend time with the grandson and leaving him out of it. The connecting fiber to all of this is that women in the public, you know, in the public's fear, will support this or at the very least not acknowledge it. But when a man does something, there's an outcry that all men are monsters. When a woman does the very same thing, silence. Or worse yet, they'll they'll lock arms and support her, knowing full well she's wrong. But I would argue that even the silence is a locking of arms of sorts of a sort. Cuz they won't acknowledge them. They won't acknowledge the truth of the situation. They've gaslit men and told us that men are the only ones that do these kinds of things, and when it becomes clear that a woman has done it, there's no response. So this is the problem when the next situation occurs, and human beings are what they are, so it's going to. When the next just and fair facts or whatever it is takes place, just like I've seen from my childhood on, we're going to see the same chorus of people stand up and point the finger at black men again. But when it's black women doing the same thing or something similar or something completely different but just as heinous, silence. And this kind of one-way treatment has grow has become so sickening that men are tired of it. And they're starting to withdraw from even engaging women. And this is going to be a problem that's more impactful than people give it credit for. All right?
But give me your thoughts. Let me know what you think about this, what your experiences of as a what your experiences have been. And I look forward to reading them. I'll let y'all later. Peace.