Marquett EXPOSES Why Successful Black Men Date Outside Their Race

Uh, shortly I'll play you guys the video that sparked this conversation, but if you don't mind, I'd like to just summarize it first and then dive into a couple pieces of it. So, there's a video that I uploaded on Instagram. It was of a, a clearly a white woman, and she was saying that black females will get with a white man to basically extort him and finesse him for his money, which I agree, that's often the case, not always the case. And they're very loud about it as well.

And she says, "White women will get with black men because they actually love the man. They, they actually want the man." And I think that in the absence of white women being very vocal about, "Hey, I'm here for the money. Hey, I'm here for the clout. Hey, I'm here for fill in the blank," which you really don't hear, you'd have to presume that they're there for the man. We do hear a number of white female perverts talking about the BBC. And so there's no doubt that there are those who are there for that. And you'll often hear black women and black beta males say, "Oh, they're fetishizing the black man."

Now, I think this is actually really fascinating because when we talk about fetishizing, we're talking about physical attractiveness. And all of the sudden we pretend as though 99.9% of relationships don't start, you know, authentic ones. They don't start on the basis of physical attraction. And so the concept of fetishizing is either exaggerated or, you know, it, it's not quite accurate. They're, they're suggesting that there's something wrong with the woman being attracted to that particular man sexually. No, that's about what you would expect. I say that to say the argument is a little bit weak, but we're going to dig in. And probably there are some, uh, white women who do fetishize black men. I actually think it's quite a small percentage. I think the greater tragedy, the greater tragedy are those rotunded, portly, overweight white women who end up linking up with a lot of black guys. And to me, that is almost like slavery because they're really using these black guys because they're getting a better deal than they deserve because the black male is down bad. And in those arrangements, I think the black male is using the overweight white woman in the same way that the average black female in an interracial relationship is using the white man. Hopefully, you're following this.

But there's a lot to talk about here and it's really a fascinating conversation because it could be so revealing of gender dynamics and, you know, racial and social, uh, elements involved therein. But you have some dishonest parties, namely the black female. Females in general. But, but in this case, a black female. Now, me personally, I love black women. And I don't just say that. But when I say black women, I'm not, maybe I'm not meaning what some of you guys are thinking. I'm not talking about the ones with the long fingernails. I'm not talking about the ones with the fake eyelashes, not the ones with the hair colored blue or whatever color they pick. I'm talking about the women that are authentically black. Not loud, not ghetto, but, but black. You know, they wear their hair natural. They might wear an afro. I don't really mess with the dreads too much because I don't, I don't trust the smell of them. I think you need to be able to clean in between each strand. That's just me though. But I wouldn't, I wouldn't DQ shorty. I might not approach her. But I ain't gonna DQ her if she try to slide on the big homie. I'm gonna see what it do. Um, I might even mess with a chick with some box braids. You dig? Yeah. Remind me when I was a kid. So, I like women who are black and they're authentically black. If it's a black chick with her hair bleached blonde or a black chick with a perm or or a wig or a lace front, to me, I'm an authentic man. If I want a blonde chick, I'll go get a blonde woman. Not even a white girl who's bleaching blond. No, I'll go one get one that it's grown out of her skull that way. But me, that's not my favorite. If I'm dealing with white chicks, I actually like the redheads. You heard me? I'm trying to slide on the redheads. Their body is never right, but I like the hair. I like the complexion as far as my white girls go. Or I'll take an Eastern European chick. The blonde ones really, I don't like to mess with them because they be like a little too pale in the wrong way, like pinkish. They're like the actual when you get natural blonde hair, the skin is a little more pink like than I like. So, you know, that's not me. But I don't discriminate. You hear me? I'm keeping my options open.

But I want to say this. Black women in general are not the most reliable characters, especially when it comes to self-examination and self-reflection. Now, when we're looking at the black man versus the black woman, the data indicates that the black woman has a lot fewer options. And even in the absence of the data, I think it's quite obvious. And it's not because she's not a beautiful woman, even though she hides much of it with all of this clown makeup, costume, and hair and all this other nonsense. And then has this attitude to boot. It's the masculine. I shouldn't say masculine because a woman cannot be masculine. She can only be dysfunctional. But I should say rather, it's her attempting to perform the identity of a man that is so repugnant that so many races of men stand back from her. H. And so this, the data indicates that she has the lowest number of options and her best option is her natural mate, the black man. She gets angry with the black man because unlike her, he has many options. And especially with any man, as you increase in income, you have even more options. So the way she's looking at it is, well, if I don't disparage him for going outside of the race, if I don't insult him and insult the women, then I'm not lobbying for my own interest. So they do it in a very utilitarian, for a utilitarian purpose. That they have so much vitriol when they see black men dating outside of the race, especially the most successful ones because those are the ones that they would prefer to have.

But what we also have to understand is this. The man who is more successful probably has more requirements of this woman, would make more demands of her, and he can ask for more. Men are fairly straightforward and simple creatures and we want peace. We want cooperation. We want support. Especially if you're very successful in a competitive industry, you want someone who can help, help you level up, someone who can give you good ideas and not be a complainer and a detractor from what you're doing. So often with the black female, they're built well, beautiful skin, full lips, nice bodies, pretty faces. They have all of the natural blessings, but it's the social conditioning. And there's no need to bring up slavery. It's the social conditioning that has poisoned them at a level to where their behavior and conduct is what limits them from getting the more successful black men.

There's a claim that successful black men opt for white women. When in actual fact, I think there's two things we've yet to consider. Number one, when you're more successful, you're in a higher income bracket and there just tends to be more Caucasians around you in general. So that's going to affect what you select from. Secondly, when you're more successful, you're going to want a woman to reflect your success and help grow it. I can't tell you the last time I met a woman who has no tattoos of any race, just in general, of any race. And then when you look at all of the factors that are just basically a reflection of being lower class, you're going to find black women carry those more often. And at some level, it is a reflection of socioeconomics because black people, men and women, are lower income than white people. And also remember, blacks are a minority within the United States. The foundational black American, about 10% of the population. This is also often overestimated. It's about 10%. You're a minority. And the further you go up in in income, you're even more a minority. So there are many clear reasons that a black male would end up with a Caucasian. But I think chief among those is the difference in behavior that you find between the black female average, not all, the average black female and the average white woman who dates black men.

Now, one of the appeals of the black man is that we are more masculine than all the other racial categories. No disrespect, just talking about fact. And when we talk about more masculine, we're talking about, we're not talking about the [ __ ] from Atlanta. We're talking about on the face of things, we're talking about stature. We're talking about conduct. We're talking about, like hip-hop music is martial music. So there are all of these things that you know give a more gruff, masculine exterior, which of course is appealing to women. So that man is looking for not a duplication of himself, masculinity, but rather a balance, a compliment. And the kind of white women that go for black men, they like tall men, strong men, masculine men. In some cases, they like men who have some sauce and some swag. And these are the things that they're coming and appreciating, not taking for granted. Whereas black women in my many encounters, and there, there have been waves and I want to share a little bit about that with you. But one, I don't think I've ever met, that I can recall, a white woman that when you meet her, she questions who you are or questions like if you actually are what you say you are. Whereas when you engage white, excuse me, black women, so often it's like they're looking to see if you're trying to fool them or finesse them or pretend that you're more than you are. They're like, they're very suspicious of you.

Also, another thing that I noticed about my encounters, just initial quick encounters with black women versus white women, and again, this is no promotion of white women over black women. Uh, in my case, in terms of, you know, women I've stuck with, it's been very much so skewed toward black women. I've encountered fewer black women, but I've stuck with a higher number of black women. Um, but for example, just recently in in Miami, kid you not, I'll just tell you this story really quickly. I go downstairs out of my building and I take maybe 10 steps out of the building. There's a black woman, you know, um, pro, like trying to get donations for like an international humanitarian this or that. And she starts talking to me and I say, "What are you selling?" Because she had on a uniform, so obviously she's selling something. She's trying to collect some money. She says, "We're taking donations for kids and what have you." I say, "Oh, that sounds really good. I have four charitable organizations that I've been with, uh, for quite some time and I'm not looking to expand. Uh, but I thank you." And then she says, "Uh, oh, well, where are you going?" or something to this effect. I said, "I'm going to get a smoothie." And she says, "Oh, will you buy me a smoothie?" I was like, "Aren't you at work right now?" She was like, "Well, I can take a little bit of time off." I was like, "Okay, for sure."

So, here's the thing. The very direct transactional of, "Will you buy me?" as opposed to, "Can I come along? Can I hang out?" Or, you know, the, the purchase seems to be what we're centered around. Meaning, maybe if there was no purchase, there would be no time spent. If there's no money spent, there's no time spent. And there's just like a, a lack of subtlety. And also with black women, and this is a matter of class, and I have a course called Boss University, and in it, I give a lesson on etiquette, and etiquette is hugely important. It really, without you telling someone what you do for a living, uh, your etiquette can indicate your class level, your education, your background. And black women will be very straightforward like, "Oh, well, what do you do?" or "How much do you earn?" or "How much does that cost?" This is impolite and this is low class. This is really behavior that you should never exhibit. Whereas, if you're a more sophisticated person, you're not interested in what the person does for a living. In other words, how they keep their lights on. You're more interested in, well, what do you do for fun? What do you do as a hobby? What are your philanthropic activities? Well, why is that? Well, the difference from a class perspective is that low-income or low-class people, the way they keep the lights on is their primary occupation in life. That's what consumes most of their time and their mental space, keeping the lights on, paying bills, earning to survive. Conversely, the, the leisure class, they spend most of their time or their thought on fun things. So, I want to go to the country club. I want to go golfing. I need another saber for fencing. Uh, where am I going to go on holiday? What charitable organizations do I want to support? What am I going to wear to the gala? And so their, the nature of their thinking is, is radically different. And keeping the lights on is something that's a given. It's an automatic that the lights are going to be on, the bills are going to be paid. So there's a lot less mental, uh, power given to that. And because that's a given, there's a lot less attention. It's less interesting, less important. What's more interesting is, well, what do you do for fun? What are your interests and hobbies? Whereas poor people don't have time for interests and hobbies. They don't have time to, to do a lot of leisure activities, to learn things, to read literature, etc. So, you can sense someone's class by the way they engage when a lot of this stuff is simply not taught. That's why I have Boss University to teach people, uh, these things that'll lift them up to the next level.

Now, I say that to say this. If you are an upper-class black man, do you want to end up with a black woman just because she's black? No. Especially if she's outside of your class, and that's more likely to be the case. Doesn't mean that there are not upper-class black women. There absolutely are. Now, what I encounter that's very challenging about upper-class black women is soon as they start moving up in the economic strata, all of a sudden they want to be white women. It's like, goddamn, you fool me. You fool me. Because now they're talking with a tone. It's like they changed their name to Chelsea. They're always wearing a tennis outfit and they want to like blend in with the whites instead of maintaining the self. And this is very common among females because they're herd animals. They're, they're far more likely to try to, uh, assimilate to that which is around them. This is not to say black guys don't do the same thing, but it appears that it's more frequent that a wealthy black man can maintain his identity while being wealthy or within a white majority. Whereas black females who end up in the higher income, uh, uh, economic strata, they seem to adopt the appearance and behaviors of Caucasians. So then it's like, well, [ __ ] why waste time with a black chick? Let's just get a white chick instead of a black chick who's acting like a white chick or trying to talk and look like a white chick. Why? Because all that's going to do is give me nappy roots. You heard me? She gonna have the straight hair, but the roots are nappy. I don't want to deal with that. I don't want to deal with that. Yeah, we gonna get deep. We gonna get deep today, ladies and saints.

Let me go ahead and take a pause for the calls, acknowledge some of the folks supporting the work. And, and there's a lot, um, to really go through here that I think is worth talking through. Um, especially because I'm talking about it as opposed to a woman or a black woman, because they're going to lie. Frankly, they're just going to lie. And it really saddens me because I understand their, their challenge and I understand their need to have a mate, but what you find often with women is that they're not interested in working for what they say they want. They're more so like, "I'mma kick back and let it come to me." Because the female being accustomed to being approached does not realize that as you go up in age, the reason that you're approached is starting to change slightly. You see, if you're a woman aged 18 to 24, when guys approach you, they're like, "Number one, I want to smash. But if we could stick together and ride it out, dope. Let's, let's try it out. But I for sure want to smash. But once the chick gets from 25 on up, guys are approaching you and it's like, I want to smash." And, and I probably am not trying to stay with you though, you know, especially as you're creeping up in that age. I still want to smash, but I'm not trying to stay with you. And what the woman is not able to assess very quickly. It takes years for her to figure it out. Is that every man is going to approach you want because he wants to smash. That's because we're all, we're visual characters, the male and the female, but even more so the male. We all approach you because we want to smash. But when you're within a certain age range, we want to smash and retain you and impregnate you and stick with you. Men are more lovers than women are, more romantic than women are. Women are the extractors. They're the receivers of love and romance. They're actually not romantic. When they say they, they like a guy who's romantic, like him being romantic, not her. Like Valentine's Day is about receiving, not giving, right? They're never thoughtful. They just love when you think of them. So anyways, the woman is used to receiving, receiving, and then as she starts moving up in age, she's waiting for Mr. Right to show up and sweep her off her feet, and it doesn't happen. And as time goes on, she becomes very resentful. And women are dishonest, fund. And I hate to, I really don't like saying that out loud because it sounds so bad, but it's true. They're dishonest. I'll hear women say, "I like being single. I love being single." And I'm just like, "Nah, sis. I just know that's not true. I just know that's not true." Because there is nothing like warm about coming home to an empty house. There's nothing warm about that.

Oh, do we have some mentally ill folks in the chat? And by the way, if you have an objection, feel free to come on, uh, send your, your three bucks via Venmo. The Venmo is right there at the bottom of the screen. We'll let you come on and express yourself. All you have to do is, uh, turn on your camera, refrain from cursing, don't use any slurs. So, women say that they're okay being alone, but it's, it's a lie. And women are all about looking good. Image, facade. That's why they have the makeup, everything fake. And the, the bizarre thing about women, and I'll tell you, there's a young lady I'd spoken to not terribly long ago, and I'll never forget this because it was really sad to me. Um, trying to remember how we first started engaging. I can't remember how we first started engaging, but for whatever reason, we're in contact. And then I said, "Hey, let's have a video chat." Um, and she says, "Okay, sure." And she had messaged me during the day. I was quite busy. And then it was toward the end of the day and she messages and says, "Hey, I'm about to go to bed." And I said, "Oh, hey, let's hop on the line for three minutes, have a quick chat." And then she says, "Oh, no. I, you know, I took my face off and I'm about to go to bed. I'll have to try it tomorrow or something like that." And for me, it's like, number one, I need you to put in effort because I have very little time in general. You cannot have a proper relationship if both of us are busy. You know, one of us can be busy, the other one can't be. One of us can be a narcissist, the other one can't be. So, I'm going to let you be the narcissist, and I will not be the narcissist. I'll be the busy one, and you won't be the busy one. Um, I'll be the breadwinner. You'll be the homemaker, but we, we cannot have certain things in contention. So, I do expect you to make accommodations for my schedule, and I'll make accommodations in other ways for you, but we'll, we'll, we'll rarely be equal. So I say, you know, I hear that, but I don't want to talk at length. I have four minutes. Let's touch base. And then she says, "Oh, well, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah." So then I just archive and she messages again and I say, "Hey, you know what? I appreciate you reaching out, but life moves pretty quickly, and frankly, I think you're a self-saboteur. I don't think you want the good things for yourself." And it just felt like a blown opportunity there. And I don't really want to play with, you know, I don't want to play around with people. And she says, "Oh, well, you know, I had taken off my makeup and I didn't have on any makeup and this and this and that and I'm not going to talk to someone that I'm first meeting with no makeup on." I said, "Was that the whole reason? There was no other reason." She was like, "Yeah, I took off all of my makeup. Like, I'm not going to talk to you like just looking all raw." I was like, "Let me understand. Are you saying that you were, you're not going to talk to someone because you have to show your true face? Like you're scared of your real face? And to me, this is extraordinary because women are more beautiful than men. Or at least that's what it's supposed to be, right? Women are supposed to be more beautiful than men. And this woman is telling me that her true face is apparently ugly to her. I'm like, yo, that's madness. Like, that's concerning. It's, it's scary because it makes me wonder like, well, number one, you're basically telling me that you would like to show me something that's not real. Number two, it makes me wonder, well, if I were to get you pregnant and we had a daughter, which is not what I'm looking to do, but we had a daughter. What are you going to raise my daughter to think that her face is not good enough unless she's painted it up like a clown? You couldn't teach my daughter self-esteem. And another thing with this woman is like she was behaving as though she has like all the time in the world to hook a man who's worth something, something when in actual fact we're in a transactional situation always. And we're all estimating, you know, how much rope we'll give someone. Now, if she was maybe 23, she'd have a lot more rope. I'd have more patience. If she was a virgin, she'd have more rope and I'd have more patience. But what women fail to do is look in the mirror. Most of them, I'll tell you about another one. They fail to look in the mirror and assess not only what their value is in general broadly, but what their value is in relation to the man they're trying to get. Now, if you're trying to get the guy who bags groceries at Publix, he may be patient with you. But if you're trying to get a man of substance and, you know, sophistication and so on, he doesn't need to be patient with you. And you also have to realize that you're not in low supply, you're in high supply. And I hate to have to say it, but it's the truth. I, I observe it every day. Women over 25 are just beating down the door. They're very aggressive, especially when you talk the 30s and they, they're in the 30s. They're really, they're trying to make a go of it. So, you're competing with other women who are quite ambitious about getting a man. And it's like, but you're still like fumbling the bag.

One thing I do want to make a note of, there was one woman, uh, from California. I want to make a special note because I was really impressed with her. Um, she's a, I think she's a hair stylist by trade and I saw her profile photo. She looked phenomenal. And I sent her a message. I'll, I often compliment people. It's something I really enjoy sharing a good word with people that'll hopefully, hopefully brighten their day. So, I love to compliment people, men and women. And so, I gave her a compliment just based on like, you know, how she had, uh, put that together. And, uh, she had messaged me back and this is an older woman, so I'm not complimenting for the purpose of flirting with people. I'm just complimenting as a genuine thing to lift someone up. She's an older lady. So, she kept messaging me back and forth, and I, I enjoy older women, especially when it's platonic. And then, uh, she eventually says, "Why are you messaging me?" Because, um, you're way out of my league. And I appreciated that she was living in reality at that level. Cuz most women will never consciously accept that. Uh, most women will never consciously say, "You're out of my league," to themsel or to you. They're going to lie. They're going to pretend. They're going to gaslight and they're just going to dive deeper into their narcissism.

And another thing I just want to put out there is, and you hear me mention age a lot because one of the things that I'm going to do with my training center, shout out to all the folks who support my training center. There may be a link in the description. This is what I really want you guys to take home from this lecture. This, this one point. Your family, your culture, your church, your school, damn near does not care about you because some of the most important lessons that you should receive were never imparted. Marquette, what do you mean? There's the male and the female child. You went through school and never one time had any class that was for males. You're a male. This is a class for you because your trajectory is different than a female's. Ladies, you never once had a class that was for females. You're a female. What you need to grow into is different than what a man has to grow into. And it requires a different skill set and different knowledge. Why is that? So, that's what we're putting the training center together for. I'll give you an example. There are many women right now. They're, uh, they're getting pregnant for the first time and they're taking, uh, B, I don't even know what the classes are called, but various types of classes. Classes that help with childbirth and understanding of classes about how to nurse a young infant. And this is all new knowledge to them. It wasn't passed on by their mothers. It wasn't passed on by the church. It wasn't passed on by their culture. Wasn't passed on by the public schools. And you would think, well, well, goddamn, every woman probably should have kids. And if not every woman, most of them are going to have kids. So why was this not a course in high school? How to take care of a baby, home economics, how to manage a household, how to be in relationship with a man, the difference in the female and male brain so that we can interact and not expect the other gender to behave like us.

When a woman is talking to me, like I've seen people, I've seen people, uh, in my live chat recently, there's a black woman in my live chat and excuse me, in my, on my live stream and we're having a conversation and during the conversation, she was kind of going off of the, she wasn't making sense, let's just keep it simple. She wasn't making a lot of sense. But I don't expect women to make sense in general or to me as a man. They may make sense to each other, but sometimes they don't make sense. And, and that's how they are. But they keep, they'll keep talking though, you know, they, they're not making sense. They'll keep talking and people, guys in the chat, "Oh, you, you're sing for, you're." No, no. I'm being polite because she's conducting herself as a woman. She's a, she's a feminine female. They talk a lot. That's how they are. So, I got time. I'll let her keep going for a little bit. Eventually, we'll have to rein her in. And I think the reason that the weird males in the chat were astounded that I was letting her say things that don't make sense, whereas if it was a man, I'm like, "Hey buddy, what are you talking about? You sound foolish." And how to chop things down immediately. Is because women are not for logic. Women are not the, the, they don't chart courses to the, you know, the, they don't discover the new frontier. They're, they're not the innovators in business. This is not what they do. They tell long stories that have no punchline and no meaningful outcome. They express themselves. They care for people. They keep people, like groups together. They, you know, they want to make sure that you've eaten when you show up. They double check on your safety. These are the things that they're more inclined to do. And when you don't understand the differences, you have males expecting females to speak, think, and behave like men, or you have women expecting males to think, speak, and behave like women. And this is very common because the matriarchy is dominating.

Like me personally, I don't have many feelings. I, I maybe have like three feelings. Um, irritation every now and then, for sure. Uh, horniness every now and then. Do I only have two emotions? Oh, and happiness. That's it. That's I just cycle through those three, but mostly just through two of them. Happy or horny. The two H's. I'm just cycling between those two. That's it. Shorty got 30 emotions. You heard me? Depressed, bipolar, sad, mad, glad, ecstatic, lonely. She has a million emotions. And when women say things like, "Uh, you're not emotionally available." What they really mean is, "You don't match my emotions. You don't match my emotions." No, I never will. And I, I don't have any intention. And you shouldn't expect that. You should be thankful that I'm listening to you talk because I don't even find it to be interesting. That's an effort. I'm making an effort to listen to the nonsense that you're saying. When in actual fact, again, we need these courses because women need to understand how to leverage other relationships in their life. For example, you'll hear chicks say things like, "I want my man to be my best friend." I don't want to be your best friend. What are you thinking? I don't want to be your best friend at all. Like, how could I be your best friend? Do you like boxing? How, how could I be your best friend? Do you like, we don't like that many of the same things authentically. And I despise those chicks that are like, "Oh, yeah. I like football just like one of the guys." Well, stay over there, sis, because I don't need a, I don't need a tomboy. I need an actual female. You heard me? Like, I need a woman who likes the things that I don't like. I need a woman who wants to go in there and cook up a meal and is staring at me when I'm eating it to wait for me to say, "This is good." And then she feels, she feels like, yeah. Yeah. Like that's what I need. You hear me? Like the same feeling I get when, bang, I knock somebody out and I feel like I want to stand over them triumphant. I want her to be waiting for me to taste her food so she could be like, "Okay, okay. I did that. I did that." That's what I want. I don't want a chick that's over here like, "Oh yeah, so you want to watch the game? You know, how about those Lakers?" Like, nah, shorty, don't play, don't play like that with me. Don't play like that with me. Go watch, um, the hell do they watch? One of them werewolf shows or some true crime or what else do they watch? The, the Bridgertons. Go watch the Bridgertons. Don't, don't be in here trying to act like you really like what I like. No, don't even do that because here's the thing. I don't even want to spend that much time with you. Mark, you don't want to spend time with your woman? I do, but I also don't. Why? That's why a lot of you guys end up divorced. You end up broken up. Familiarity breeds contempt. You, you're around too much. You're too accessible. Like you guys are always playing patty cake. And this is beta male activity. Mark, quit. What do you mean? You're saying it's a beta male just because you like your wife? Nah, Brody. I'm saying when I go in the gym and I see you exercising with your, your old lady, or if I go for a run and I see you're jogging with your old lady, you're halfway. You're, you're a skittle guzzler. To me, you're a skittle guzzler. Marquette, what do you mean? I like exercising with my woman. That's cool, bro. But how could I go for a run with my old lady when she's 5'4" and I'm 6 foot? Just my natural stride is a lot longer and faster than hers. So, what am I going to run slowly and mess up my workout just to be stay connected? Like, no, I'm not going to do that. And she can't run fast enough to keep up. So, why would I do that? So the problem is that you guys get too connected. And understand this, real men are not about love. Like, I don't care anything about love. Love is great to have. It's phenomenal. But this is how I know the blacks are lost because you often hear them talk about like black love. No, forget black love. We need black family. It's about family, not love. Love is nonsense. There's a lot of women I've loved, but I would never ever ever stay with them because they're, you know, they kind of throw it off. They have various issues. Love you, but I love you from a distance. You know, family and love are different things. Love is what women want to be concerned with. That's cool. But a man is a pragmatist. He should be concerned about family.

I'm more so looking at shorty like peeping her diet like, "That's what you about to eat though? That's crazy. That's crazy." If we go out and I eat something that's like I shouldn't even be eating, but she eats it. I'm in my head I'm calculating like, "Okay, so I had a slice of chocolate cake. You had a slice of chocolate cake. I exercise every day. Do you?" No, you don't exercise every day. Okay, interesting. So, like you're going to get pregnant and be eating chocolate cake. Then when the kid arrives, then you're going to be feeding the kid chocolate cake and then making excuses for the kid being fat. Extraordinary. Yeah, I'm not in. I'm out. I'm out. So, there just so many fundamental things that we're not taught that are critical to us fulfilling the proper role of a woman or the proper role of a man. And we, we figure it out too late. I'll give you one last one before we, uh, acknowledge some of the folks supporting the work. Here, here's a really important thing. Why do women think that once they find the guy who's the right guy, then all of a sudden they're going to be able to change their life dramatically? Like, there's some women that I talk to them, "Hey, what are you up to?" "Oh, I'm, you know, going to meet up with so and so." "Okay." "Hey, what are you up to?" "Oh, I'm going to the gym." I'm like, "Damn, it's like 10 PM, shorty." "Hey, what are you up to?" "Oh, I'm gonna go have happy hour with so and so." "Hey, what are you up to?" "Oh, I'm at work." "Hey, what are you up to?" It's always something. You're moving and doing this and doing that. But in her mind, when you ask her, "Hey, do you plan to stay at home when you have kids?" "Oh, yeah, absolutely. I, I want to stay home with my kids. Like the first three years at least, maybe the first five. I want to be a stay-at-home full-time mom." And I'm like, "I don't know, shorty, you're, you're, you're in your early 30s or late 20s and you've been practicing being on the scene, constantly moving, being around a bunch of people. You know, you've had a life that's completely the opposite. What you're expecting me to believe is that you can do something radically different even though you have no practice and no experience." Do you guys see what I'm saying? They have no practice with staying inside the house for weeks on end. And the only time you go out, go to the grocery store, maybe go to a doctor's appointment, but otherwise you're at the house or you're taking the kid to the playground. It's a slow life. It's a slow life. Not a bunch of people around there. There's no alcohol. Oh, there's no happy hour. There's no social outlet. They don't have experience with it. But they expect that after 15 years of practicing the fast life, all of the sudden they can just do it. And here's the sad part is I don't think that they're lying to me. I think that they're lying to themselves.

But here's what I want you guys to understand. Check this out. And this is why I'm the greatest. Here's the kicker. A man. See, check this out. A woman in 2026 who goes from being in the working world to being a mother. That's a radical change. Radical. Radical, dude. A man who goes from being in the working world to being a father. Those are just centimeters of change. Marquette, what do you mean? All women tell us our whole life is they want us to be a provider. So once you get them pregnant, you continue doing what you've been doing, working a job, earning money, providing. Your life is fundamentally the same. You don't even expect to change it radically. You never even claim that and they don't expect that of you. But the woman is supposed to engage a radical change. She's supposed to go from working every day and being out in the world and among strangers and happy hour to being a stay-at-home mom and homemaker. That's a radical change. What training does she have? What conditioning does she have for that? None. And in many cases, she didn't even watch her parents do it. Come on now. Come on now. So, what I'm telling you is that the man is conditioned and well-practiced for what he said he would be, which is a provider. The woman has no practice for what she's saying she can be, a wife, mother. Come on now. Come on now. Yeah. Come on now. Especially if you are a boss, if you're a man who's running a business, you've been practicing being a leader. You've been practicing setting goals. You've been practicing helping other people get where they need to be. But a woman, she's not been practicing any of the things she says she can do. Come on. Come on. Come on now. I need a live audience. I need a live studio audience. What we talking about?

Anyways, let me acknowledge some of the folks. And let me tell you ladies something too. And I do this not to condemn you, not because I hate you. I do this because I love you and I want you to have better outcomes. Because as I said, to come home to a lonely house or to an empty house is a terrible thing. It's just. And when I say a lonely house, an empty house, that doesn't mean that your man is out on vacation. Doesn't mean he's out working. Doesn't mean he's out at another property. A lonely house is a house when there will be no man. You don't even have the expectation of a man showing up. You might have a husband who's out at another place for business. I don't care if he's gone two weeks, three weeks, two months. There's a different feeling that a human being has, especially a woman, when she knows, "My man is coming back. I have a man and he's coming back." There's a totally different feeling a woman has when she is alone, lonely, and there is no expectation of that changing. That's an everyday state. There's a different feeling a woman has when her man might not be there, but if anything becomes an issue, she can call and daddy coming running. There's a lack of stability and safety that a woman has to have when she knows that there's really no one you can call who's young and strong and going to come take care of whatever problem it is. That's a beautiful position to be a woman who is kept and cared for. You call a man and he's going to come solve whatever the problem is. It's a beautiful position as a woman to where anytime you get stuck, you can just call daddy. That's a beautiful position.

Now, the reason we have the training center is for the men is so that when they call you to solve the problem, you're a problem solver. You're not a dweeb or a beta male, which is really a female. Meaning that when she calls the problem, you're, she calls and says there's a problem. And you're now a part of the problem as opposed to the solution. Men have to have a higher tolerance and ability to deal with stress, to manage others, to manage the emotions of others. Come on now. Yeah, we going to talk about it. Yes, Lord. We getting into it today. And honestly, I am consistently shocked at the, the, the casual cavalier way in which women will engage men of consequence. If you're a woman and you meet a man who's really worth something, listen, you better throw yourself at him. You better throw yourself at him. Full stop. And I say that because I've been around the world. I've seen what there is to what there is, uh, in terms of men. It's not looking good, sis. You acting like you about to see a guy like that every week. No, you're not. No, you're not. And let me tell you something else, babe. It's not about looking desperate. It's about you need to put in the amount of effort to secure the big bag. If you have a big goal, you have to put in big effort. Marquette, what do you mean? A man who's worthwhile is going to take care of you for the rest of your life. He's going to take care of your kids for the rest of their life. He's going to put his life behind your life. You're looking for a lifetime security package. That's a hell of a, like men deliver a lot. That's a hell of a deliverable. Saying I'm going to take care of you for the rest of your life and any kid you pop out as well. So you're asking for a lot. Ladies, you want to do to take care of you for the rest of your life. For that to get that, you should probably be putting in a lot of effort. You should probably be putting in a lot of effort. And the reason is of the men who you encounter, some don't want to do it. Some don't want to take care of you for the rest of your life. They just want to smash. Some don't might not like you. Some may say that they want to take care of you for the rest of your life and they're lying. Some may want to take care of you for the rest of your life, but they can't. They don't have the means. They don't have the, uh, emotional intelligence and the, the income. So, when you encounter the real deal, you better act like it. And here's the worst thing. Women are used to turning men down. When you get a high caliber man, he might not shoot you down, but you might send him a message. If he didn't reply, he saw the message. He saw the message and he was just kind of like, "Ah, eh, try something else. Try a different flavor."

Let me tell you guys something. And, and this one, gentlemen, I want you to take this one to the bank. This may not apply directly. So, you may have to modify the numbers. And I wish I had the numbers up in front of me, but let's say it like this. In fact, I'mma pull up the numbers real quick. So, let me see. Okay. So, I just did a Google query, um, and I asked.

What percentage of men in America make a certain percentage of money a year? Okay. So, um, it's point, so it's 0.1%, right? So, I had this conversation with a young lady, and I think this is a valid conversation to have. And this is why I say women have to be skilled. Not only skilled in what they can do in terms of cleaning and cooking, but also skilled in terms of how they take feedback, how they respond to the needs and anticipate the needs of their man, especially if he's a high-performing high performer.

So, check this out. And go ahead, keep on sending your comments, questions, highest intuition. We're gonna get to it. Keep on sending it in so it's loaded up when I uh take a pause. Check this out. There was a time and you know, I have the good fortune of dealing with really high-caliber women. Women who are sweet, women who are beautiful, they're intelligent, they're competent, they're loving, they're genuine, uh, they're, they're spiritual or religious. So, very blessed, but still, you always have to make sure you know people are on track. So, there was a breakdown I experienced, whether it was a breakdown in communication or a breakdown in something. So, I, I asked for something and then it didn't get done. And then I said, "Hey, what I asked you for was on your side of the responsibilities. You know, men and women, we do different things." She says, "Yes, I understand that, but this, this, and that." I said, "Okay, well, I consider that to have been a mistake and a failing on your part. Let me tell you this. My side of the equation is I provide for our lifestyle. I put the roof over our head. I put the food, I put the groceries in the refrigerator, and you put the food on the plate. When there's a breakdown on my side, you'll probably notice, right? Like, you know, if that money slow up, you probably notice. Um, so I take my job seriously, which is to make sure that the money's flowing. I expect you to take your job seriously. I do my job at a high level."

And then I told her, I said, "The data indicates that I'm in the 0.1% of earners in America. 0.1%. Okay? So that means that I'm doing my job better than 99% of men in the United States as measured by compensation. So, let me ask you this. Since we are here together, if we're in a relationship, we're equally yolked. Do you cook better than 99%? 99.9% of women in America? When you're cleaning, do you do it better than 99% of women in America? If I lined up a hundred women and I had them do fill in the blank, would you do whatever that task is better than 99 out of those hundred women?" Every time you do anything, you need to think of it like that because I outearn 99% of men. So, I'm doing my job better than 99% of men. You line up a hundred of them, there's only one that's on my level or higher. There's only one out of a hundred. So when I line up a hundred women, you better make sure that there's only one that can mess with you and all the other 99 are in the dirt.

So women often don't think like that. You know, they, they don't want to be conscious of competition, but you need to make them conscious and let them know like, hey, if I'm a high performer, that doesn't mean that you get to sit here in the lap of luxury and get Louis bags and all that. No, that's TV. That's social media. That's, that's, that's, that's not how this works. What you should be thinking is, if my man is in the 1% of earners, I need to be in the 1% of women. We need to be in the 1% of families. How do I hold it up on my side? How do I increase our family name? How do I get us into the 0.5? But most importantly, how do I outperform 99% of women every day that I walk this earth for my man? Come on now.

See, because the thing is, men, we, we get measured up a lot. We get measured up a lot. You know, a chick won't hesitate to call you broke. A chick will call you broke when you're not broke. That isn't, that isn't that crazy? A chick will call you broke when you're not broke. We get measured, assessed, and judged all the time. But women, not enough. And so what happens is a woman, she's been pretty her whole life and then she starts encountering a boss who's not a trick and then he's asking her like, and not rudely. I'm not coming at you like, "What do you bring to the table?" No, no. I'm just observing you. Cuz here, check this out. If you come into my home as a woman and I have dirty dishes and you know I'm doing all these different things around the house and you're at idle for more than 20 minutes, I expect to come back and either the dishes are clean or your sleeves is getting rolled up. Why is that? Because I can't wash my own dishes? Is that because I can't hire somebody? No. Is because I expect that your womanly instinct finds that that's something that you can do to contribute. And beyond contributing, I expect those dishes in there to bother you the same way it bothers my mother. I expect those dirty dishes to bother you the same way it bothers a good woman. You hear me? Come on now. Yes. I expect those dirty dishes to be cleaned up. Why? Because they're there and you're a woman. That's why. Come on now. Come on.

And you'll hear promiscuous women will say things like, "I don't live at your house. I'm not your maid." The fill in the blank was something foolish. But the truth is this. Only a promiscuous woman thinks like that. Because a woman who's not promiscuous, she's not dealing with a bunch of guys. So the guy that she is dealing with, she's interested and she cares about. Hello. The guy that she is dealing with, she wants to, you know, make sure things work out cuz she's still hopeful and optimistic. So, she's really putting in the full effort. And for women who are like, "Why do you guys care about body count?" Because the more bodies you got, the more likely you you're going to sit on my couch and leave those dirty dishes. The fewer bodies you have, the more likely you're going to get up and try to clean those dishes because you're thinking, "I really want this to work out." And you have every idea that it would work out because you've not been in a relationship where you, where it didn't work out. You're new to it. You're, you're overly optimistic. And that's what men appreciate. Come on now. Come on, man. Yeah. It's those women that that's been through too much. They always got a story of, you know, how guys ain't [ __ ]. And they know from experience. They not making it up. They know from experience. But here's the kicker. A woman will start dealing with you and she has all these past dudes in her head and she's assessing you, judging you, and fearful of you based on all these past dudes. Come on now.

Now, let me get, let me get racial with it. Let me get racial with it. Now, one of the things with my, my black chicks, because they're generally dating guys who are lower income, because black guys are lower income. And you see, black men probably are not getting mad when I say that because they're, they're fine with the facts. They're like, "Hey, if it applies, it applies. And if it doesn't, let it fly." You say anything about black women, they're like, "Nigga, I can't." You know, they, they get crazy with. So with black women, I'm anxious dealing with them cuz I know they probably dealt with some dirt ball black dude and now I have to deal with his baggage that he left. You heard me? You know, I have to deal with the fact that she's dealing with some dirt ball Pooky or Ray Ray and he did some ill-advised stuff and now she's suspicious of me. Whereas I'm completely the opposite. Like Pooky and Ray Ray been to jail five times, got jail tax, and he he's low-key a criminal. He done finessed her out of her her tax return and all this extra stuff. Never gives her any value back. Right now, she looking at me with with suspicion. She doesn't want to pay for anything because she thinks that I'm trying to finesse her or scam her when really it's like, if you pay for something for me, that's not me getting over on you cuz I don't need your money. Your money really is peanuts. If you pay for something for me, I just look at it as, okay, she's showing me that she wants to come to the table and make an offering. She wants to come to the table and earn her seat because it's very easy to get a free ride in a fancy car. It's effortless to go out on a date and get free food. You know, when a woman reaches in her purse, it tells you something. When a woman shows up and make makes a contribution, it tells you something about her. Uh-huh. Come on now.

You see, a lot of you guys, unfortunately, you ain't even had a chance to meet a woman that has a soul. You've never met a woman that has a soul. Now, I remember I was in Romania and I was in with a young lady there, some fresh water, you dig? I was dealing with some fresh water over. Now, she was definitely crazy. There's no doubt about that. I was in with some fresh water and there was some holiday in Romania. Baby girl then showed up with pots and pans and bags and I'm like, "Yo, what is that?" She was like, "Oh, my family had a a holiday celebration and it's a Romanian thing and so I wanted to bring you some so you could taste Romanian food." And my grandma was saying, "You should taste everything just so you kind of know what we eat here." And so I just brought a little bit of everything. And shorty got so much damn food. I'm like, "Yo, this is crazy." And not only is she unpacking the food, shorty's unpacking utensils and plates and the whole nine. She's like, "I wasn't sure if your Airbnb had everything that we need, so I just brought everything." And I'm over here like, "God damn."

Then the next day, she was like, "Hey, um, I want you to meet my dad." I was like, "All right, for sure." I'm thinking she means like in a month or two, you know, like next trip or something. She's like, "Hey, I want you to meet my dad." I was like, "All right, for sure." She was like, "Okay, great. Uh, 3:00 he'll be around. Can we do three o'clock?" I guess so. Now, mind you, here's the kicker. Her dad speaks no English at all. So, we're, we're out in uh, in Iași, second largest uh city in Romania. So, we're out in Iași. We're, you know, we get some gelato and we're about to meet up with her dad. I was like, "What flavor he messed with?" Oh, okay. Yeah. Yeah. Give me one of them in the cone. Yeah. So, we get the ball, some some gelato. We see him and I shake his hand. I say my name. He says his name. We walking silence. She's just eating eating ice cream. Then eventually he's like, "Hey, nice to meet you." Not in English. And then he goes on, "Well, Marquet, well, why does she want you to meet her dad?" Because if a woman has a family and has a soul and is not a slore when she deals with men, her family's curious and they're good people. They want to meet him cuz she's not going out with 30 [ __ ] every week that she met on Tinder who are complete strangers and are meaningless cuz she's just extracting stuff from them. Come on now. Come on now. Are, are you with me? Are you with me? Half of y'all are in the chat right now. Probably about 80% of y'all. It's 2026. Probably about 80% of y'all are in the chat right now like, "Damn, this [ __ ] met her dad. Never met abroad's dad." And then sometimes you might meet her mom because it chicks out here ain't got no daddy. You might meet her mom and then the mom is foul, rude, and disrespectful. Hold on. You meet her mom. Her mom is foul, rude, and disrespectful. Why? Cuz her mom is a jaded slore. Come on now.

So I talked to shorty's mom because when she wanted to stay the night with me in Romania, I had to talk to her mom. I had to tell her, "Mom, she gonna be with me. You know, I'm going to take care of her, make sure she's fed, and tend to her and all the rest of it." And mom was like, "That sounds good. What time you want to have her back?" Okay. And and mom told me this, and this is, this is a different, this is a different level. Mom said to me, "If you have any problem with her, this is, this is different." She said, "If you have any problem with her, just call us. We'll come get her." You know, just call us. We'll come get her. Don't even send her on the Uber or anything. Just call us. We'll come get her. Which is basically saying, hey, we understand life happens. We love our daughter. We, we don't want anything to happen to her. We don't want her to leave out with a stranger in an Uber. We don't want her to be distraught out in the world in public or take a taxi. If anything goes wrong, just call us. We, we'll come get her. No problem. You see, most of you guys have dealt with a bunch of chicks. You never met their mother or their father. And sometimes it's because the girl don't have a soul. In other cases, because the parents are are kind of wicked or incompetent. And these are the things that we're training in our uh, in the training center that we're currently funding. And the reason that we really want to start with the youth is because though there may be adult women listening to me right now thinking, "Man, that sounds good. Man, that sounds good." It's one of those things where yes, it does sound good and it is in fact good, but they may not be able to practice it. They may not be able to execute on it.

So, I always tell people, you know, there's levels to this. Like, you know, they're, they're the saints. are the people who really do the good behaviors. Then there's people who know what is right. They comprehend, but they can't do it. You know, they know it's wrong to drink alcohol. They know it's wrong to, you know, do fill in the blank, but they can't do what's right. And then there's the wicked, the people who don't care. Your sexy reds, your Cardi B's, your Jeffrey Epstein's, your Donald Trump's, those characters. So, one thing we know is best is in teaching the youth. We are planting seeds that will benefit everyone. You know, it, it's a beautiful thing when we can teach a a young female what her life trajectory is and make sure she's prepared for it. Teach a young man what the expectations of the world are on him. Hey, people will judge you. They will assess you. They will measure you. They will criticize you. They will expect you to provide. Being broke is not an option. And let me teach you how to get your bag together. Let me teach you how to be disciplined. Let me raise you up from a child waking up early knowing that you have to set a goal for every single day. Let me teach you how to cope with with anger, depression, and all of these different emotions. And let me teach you how to help your woman cope with her different feelings. And let me teach you what reasonable expectations are of a woman.

So, you know, with the women, I encounter so many of them. They come to me broken. And frankly, most of them stay broken. You know, they're, they're women who, right now, perfectly good women. They're dating guys who are broke. And the guy's not broke because he can't get a job. He's broke because he won't get a job. There's perfectly good women that are with a man who has been working on something, trying to figure it out. Well, look, sis, there has to be a time limit on that. I'm an entrepreneur. I know about not being able to make ends meet. I know about, you know, going broke, maxing out cards, trying to make a dream happen, but there still has to be a time limit. And every guy can't pull it off. And as a woman, we have to teach them when they're coming up, the females, we have to teach them, how do you assess what a real man is? How do you assess if a man knows how to manage his finances? How do you refrain from being a financial burden on a man? Come on now. Come on now.

And that's another problem with these chicks have too much experience. Now imagine a chick is dealing with bosses, you know, custom dresses and, you know, all these gifts. She used to living in a big house. They don't never have to share bathrooms. You heard me? You know, you got his and her sinks. We talking his and her bathrooms, his and her bedrooms. Like life is different. Then she ends up dealing with an everyday guy. That's going to be a burden to that, that everyday guy because she forgot what it feels like to have to think before you buy. She forgot what it feels like to have to, you know, plan out expenses as opposed to just pay for it. A woman with experience is not a good thing. It's a bad thing. A man with experience is a great thing. So, we want our females to be raised up so they can be very efficient in getting into a relationship. That's the best thing for them. We want our young men to be raised up and understand the real world and be able to operate in it. Right. What are some fundamental things that are critical for men and women fulfilling their respective roles? Uh, I say number one, uh, for the woman is to know how to make a home without, um, dominating. When I say make a home, it's to make a, a living space comfortable for everyone. Uh, without being, uh, oppressive within the living space. Now, sometimes women are so oppressive within the living space, you don't even want to go home. You'll, you'll see this sometimes on, uh, social media. Men will come off, come home from work and they'll sit in the car for a little bit, 20, 30 minutes, an hour, just sit in the car decompressing because when they go into the home, the woman's presence is too big and she's a bit of a bother as opposed to you come home and then she helps you. And you know, in home economics, this used to be a course when America was a little bit more decent of a place. It would be a course in high school and home was a course for women and it would teach you up until the 1950s that when your man comes home, you ask him what his day was like and you listen and you don't make him too concerned with the trivial things that occurred in your day. And the important thing for this to work because women are about expressing. You have to have girlfriends. You have to have a family, you know, a sister, an aunt, cousins that you can engage in womanly conversations with. The problem is that our society is so destroyed and so much is broken that women try to engage men in womanly conversations, gossip, negativity, and they're kind of prone to gossip. And I really don't like when they engage me in gossip. It is a, a turnoff. So, I always try to say and remember this this Q phrase, which is say, "What's the good news?" You ask her, "What's the good news?" and then shut the conversation down and and maybe she'll talk about those things not at all or with her girlfriends. But yeah, those are critical pieces.

He writes, "Also, I plan to have two wives. How do I get my first?" Well, getting your first wife is the simple part, but the key is the characteristics of your first wife. The more logical and rational and truly loving, uh, that she is and just an open person, like less jealous, um, more understanding. And most of all, the most important trait with your first wife is that she has to really love and believe in you. And you know, every man should be a king in his home. And if your woman really views you as a king, she'll allow you to have what is fit for a king. So many women say that they love a man, but they don't. They love what he provides. They love themself. They don't love the man. When you love the man at a level, if he wants a second wife, the woman's going to try to figure out how can she want a second wife for him. You know, it's like on your birthday, they're supposed to get you what you want, right? And a woman who really loves you wants you to feel like it's your birthday every day. So, with that first wife, you really need to look out for those characteristics. and fundamentally that she understands what a male is, the true nature of a male, not what they want the nature to be, but what it actually is.

There's a young lady, black woman, I think she was probably in her mid-30s, uh, just from the feeling I got. She came on my live stream the other day, and she said something that I thought was fairly ludicrous. Uh, she said that if there were no laws at all, no legal consequences for males physically taking advantage of females, that there wouldn't be a significant uptick in this behavior. And I was like, "Oh, you don't understand males. I'm sorry, love. You, you don't understand males. That's not the real world." 100%. If there was no consequence whatsoever, there are a lot of guys who would give it a shot. No doubt about it. She said, "No, I don't think that's true." Well, then you don't understand males. Full stop. You do not understand 50% of the population. You see, and I gave her the example, if you look at war, you find that instances of males physically taking advantage of females in conquered territories, it's hugely high. Why? Because they're in a lawless environment and they think they can get away with it, so they do it. That's just the truth of the world that we're in. And at some level, male nature and women often project. They would never think of physically taking advantage because they can't. So it's, it's not an instinct and they're projecting onto the male a softness in nature which is not core and inherent to the male gentleman.

F. he writes, "My current female is down for everything except polygyny, so she will have to go." Pretty much that's pretty much what it is. Uh, shout out to Luis. He writes, "Peace and saying grateful for grateful for this life. Would you say a North Indian woman who was raised in Toronto or a Mexican woman raised in Guadalajara? Excuse me. Both want to be the main girl spot. Sass in Los Angeles." Listen. Both can be the main spot. Both can be work it out. Uh, Sha Power Play Solutions writes, "Tuition Seattle Saints drip trip is driving the women crazy. Peace to the Saints." Shout out to the Saints who are on the drip trip. They got some gorgeous suits and yes, suits are going to do it because suits signal status and position and wealth. Uh, shout out to Patrick supporting the work. Now, also acknowledge Saul came in supporting via PayPal. Appreciate you. Shout out to Melvin came in via Venmo writes tuition. Shout out to Caleb writes, "Peace of Saints."

"I went through this with a young woman this past year. Met her mom, dad, friends. Seemed like she was trying to parade me around her whole family and friends. It'd be like that. And the key is for it to be for the right reasons. You know, that that is the key. It should be for the right reasons and you can only hope that the people around her, especially the women, are civilized. Often they're not, uh, they're negative and, you know, that's just something you have to endure."

There was a, a young lady I was dealing with, uh, great attitude on her, like really. And this is an important story to tell for the women and the men. Um, really good attitude on her. There's only one complaint I'd ever have about her in terms of actually related to her and her conduct. Only one complaint I would ever have. Um, because if I say I'm going to do something or I want you to do something, I really want it done or I at least want you to offer it. Um, so there's that, but aside from that, you know, great characteristics, very compliant, very positive and loving and genuine and giving. Um, but she had colleagues at her job that would just be haters, super haters, which is fine. You know, when you have success, you're going to have haters. Anyways, I was out with a young lady on holiday some time ago, quite some time ago, and she was telling me with what her like hater colleagues were saying, "Oh, you know, like this guy is a ladies man. This guy has all these women are interested in him. Like, why do you want to date a man that's in the public eye? Like, you're always going to have competition." And she's telling me what they're saying, which is fine, every now and then, but it's like it was too consistent in her conversation. And I think we all know that every drop wears away a stone. And what I'm not going to do is I'm never going to have my assets at risk. And so I'm always going to make sure that I, I utilize every strategy possible to protect my assets. And if I have an asset that is at risk, uh, and I can't maintain it, I'm gonna let go of it. And so I, I basically told her, I said, "Hey, look, I appreciate you telling me that in as much as you're, you're transparent and I like that and you're expressing yourself, I get that. But this has been consistent over X amount of time." And I, me personally, I don't like to be around negative people. If I were you, I wouldn't want to be around these people, especially someone who's speaking ill of somebody that I love and respect. And I just can't imagine that, you know, with this number of people around you feeding you negativity, whether it's based on jealousy or what have you, I just can't imagine that that's good brain food. So, we're done here. I imagine she was maybe shocked about that, but there's no other, there was no other way to proceed because I am no fool. I teach about this stuff in the Big Game Conference. By the way, do we do have a Big Game Conference coming up in, I think it's June. Yeah, it's in June. Uh, the dates are on pieceofsaints.com. I advise you to get your tickets, uh, before they run out. They always do because this conference I host at Burton Plantation. It's a little bit of a smaller one. We also have the football game with it. So, it's pretty cool. But anyways, the things I teach at Big Game Conference are like, if you don't like a number of people around her or they don't like you, you got to go. You can't remove and or replace them or any significant number of them. So, in all likelihood, you are going to get removed or replaced sooner. So, you might as well just accelerate the process. You might as well. Huh? And this is what's out there. And the funny thing is, if a woman is around a lot of women who are single and miserable, cuz women, unfortunately, not entirely good people. They're actually trying to lower her back down to their status because just imagine, imagine like you have two women, right? This is female nature. You got two women. One woman makes a come up. She's dating a guy who's has status. He's well-known and he's wealthy. He's taking her on trips. She's able to get gifts and like rare things that this girl couldn't even imagine. So what's she going to do? She going to start hating cuz her friend is started accelerating. And now when they have conversations, the conver, she doesn't like how the conversation goes, right? Because this girl, you know, Christmas is coming up and this girl is talking about, "Oh, I saw these nice Adidas that I want to buy. I'm going to save up, you know, like 5% of every check and I'm going to get those Adidas for Christmas." And then this girl is like, "Oh yeah, that's dope. That's dope. Yeah, I got five pairs of those." Like my man got me five pairs of them cuz I wasn't around and he had saw them and he didn't know which color I wanted and he had texted me and I didn't reply, so he just bought me five pairs. She's like, "They're great shoes. You're going to love them when you finally get one after you keep saving and saving and saving and saving and saving and saving and saving and saving and saving and then then you'll be able to get one pair. But until then, I'll enjoy my five pairs. They're great. You're going to love them." She doesn't even realize that the things she's saying about her true life are sending this girl over the edge. Oh, it's making her berserk. And so all she can do is hate, but disguise it as love. You heard me? She's hating and disguising it as love. And that's gonna, that's gonna tear you down because women, as I said, they're her animals. So, it's gonna wear her down. Believe that. Oh, yeah. It's gonna wear her down. Yes, sir. Re Bobby and there's nothing you can do, little buddy. So, don't fight it. Shout out to heels in supporting the work. Came in by a demo. Master acknowledge Ken writes, "Peace to the Saints." Shout out to Ahmed writes, "Peace to the Saints, making my name known." Shout out to the big homie. I appreciate you. Shout out to the real ones. Shout out to uh Tommy writes, "Peace to the Saints. How do I deal with my older sister's arrogant boyfriend who has become too comfortable recently and has started belittling me?" Well, number one, I think location, location, location. It's like, if you don't like this fella, I wouldn't be around him. Me personally, if I don't like someone, I stay from around them. And what my grandmother told me, and I think I wrote this in the black box for all of you, is my grandmother said, you know, if you can't whoop him, don't get involved with him. You know, if you going to open your mouth, make sure that you know you can whoop him. So, if I were you, I would stay out of the environment with old boy. And if your sister respects you and old boy is not a bad person, I would just come at him man to man like, "Let me holl at you, partner. I feel like you've been talking reckless." like don't do that respectfully, you know, and get an understanding. If you think you could whoop them, you know, tell them the same thing and then let them know and if you do, there'll be consequences and go on from there. But, you know, the best way to do it is, uh, remove yourself from the situation and keep it peaceful. He further writes, uh, "Should I address it immediately before he?" Yeah, absolutely. "Or just stay away from it," writes, "or completely ignore in favor of keeping peace with my sister?" Well, I'd be curious as to like how old you are and if you live with her and like how much you care, what the nature of your relationship is with your sister. Does she, how much does she value your opinion? There are a lot of things involved, but generally speaking, no one should be belittling anyone. That, that's a sign of someone who's not a good person, somebody who's negative. It's never my instinct to belittle people. It's actually my instinct to compliment people. The only time you see me belittling people is if they come at me sideways. Then it's, yeah. Then it's a wrap. You heard me? It's a wrap. But otherwise, my goal is to be complimentary, to lift people up. Why? Cuz I feel exalted. I feel elevated. I want you guys in the sky with me. Someone who's being negative, that's a reflection of them. Probably not a good person. Or he doesn't like you for some reason. And that's worth finding out. Shout out to Justin. He writes, "Peace of the Saints. The saving and saving and saving bit make me chuckle for the top-tier game. #SassinCarolina. Yiddy." Yeah, I mean, and listen, and that will have shorty mad cuz she got to save up for the kicks. Old girl's husband bought her the kicks off RIP. Now, here's the thing. If her and her home girl were both saving, then saving doesn't hurt. But when she has to save and her home girl can get it because she has a man, then that's when all of a sudden there's a problem. All the sudden he's a bad, bad man. Shout out to Joshua supporting the work. Came in using the Stripe link in the description of the video. Appreciate you. Yes, indeedy. Okay, carrying on. Let's go ahead and get to this work here. Let's get to this wizard. So, I wanted to show you guys this video right here. Pop this up for you. Once it starts playing, if you'd confirm that the AV is good by hitting populating an alpha one into the chat, I'd appreciate it. Here we go. Where's the volume? There we go.

>> This one out.

>> Y'all get with a white man for his money.

>> Oh.

>> You bold with it. Talk about it. Flaunt it. There's a whole woman viral on Facebook and TikTok because she's with this white man and she's literally clearly stating this. She got with him for her. She was shaking ass before she got with him and now she's with him and I feel bad for him. It's like, boo.

>> Okay, that's how you want to live.

>> The reason why black women get with white men and the reason why white women get with black men, uh,

>> Oh.

>> It's different.

>> Uh.

>> Oh.

>> Now, I got to break this up if you guys don't mind. So, I agree with her. You often see these black females who are with white guys are flaunting it and it's mostly very tacky, distasteful, and sad, but they're flaunting the fact that they're there for the money. And I can also concede in my dealings with black women as an adult, especially when I'm getting inbound interest, it's is because of the money or or the clout. And it's really quite sad. And this is not obviously it's not all black women. And then of course there are levels to it. For example, in the state of Florida, and this isn't only black women, Latinos will pull the same stuff, right? White chicks will pull the same stuff, but there's levels to it. When I was in, uh, first coming into Florida a week, maybe two weeks ago, I'm on the freeway and it was traffic and there's like two women in a car and they're trying to pull up next to me to like get my attention like while we're on the freeway in slow traffic, which unfortunately in Florida I've experienced a few times just in two weeks being here. So, it's like the level of financial thirst is a lot higher here than other places you might encounter black women. Not to say that they don't like or appreciate a wealthy man, but there's a higher level of thirst. I trust the Latinas are, you know, not much better, but we're having to be having a black and white conversation right now. But I say all that to say this, part of it, we have to acknowledge that it's not necessarily because the woman is black or even because of black American culture, but it is a direct function of economics. Black females are of the poorest females in the United States. So, of course, you're going to expect them to utilize strategies that lift them out of their perceived poverty. Same thing is true in the developing world, right? That's why passport bros can go to Colombia or the Philippines or Brazil or La Republicana and get a bad chick. Well, it's a function of economics. These women are gold diggers, too. And they're just trying to get the guy who has not only perhaps more money than their countrymen, but also has access to the big bank, which is the land of opportunity, the United States. So, women are always using economic strategies, but there's just higher, um, there's more weight and more, uh, need, you know, in certain contexts. In the third world, there's more need. So, you have even more attractive women are willing to go for guys who are even less appealing if they're American, if they come from a developed country, if they have more money than the other guys that live in that third world country. And in the United States, black women are the lowest income and perceive themselves to be in great need. Now, the funny thing about black chicks who are broke is they'll call dudes broke while they're broke. It, it's just extraordinary. It's like a woman never believes that she is broke. Women don't believe that a broke woman is a concept. And at some level, it makes sense in as much as they do have an ATM between their legs. They have an actual ATM between their legs. So, they never believe that they're actually broke. But they'll call a dude broke in a second. It's really insane. But this is one of the things, in fact, I say this is the most critical thing that must be healed in the black culture, which is a very lower-class culture. And the heroes of the culture are very lower-class. Your sexy reds, your Suki Hanas, your Nicki Minaj, your Cardi B. These women probably should receive capital punishment for the poisons that they're reinforcing in the society. And it's not only these women that are guilty. You also have a number of rappers that are guilty because these characters will make songs and talk about what they're buying the chick and getting her a bag and paying her rent. I mean, that's the most insane concept on earth is paying a woman's rent. It's like, why would you do that? I don't understand at any level except that you're a beta male peon. And for those of you who are watching and wondering, can you be rich and be a beta male? Absolutely. Most of them are. Most men are beta males, but definitely the rich guys, because there's a good number of guys who went and got the money so they could get some honey. Come on now. They got the money just so they could get the honey. They didn't get the money because they love to hustle. Me, I love to hustle. I love to hustle. That's why when chicks ask me, like if a chick ever hits me up on DM and she's like, "What do you enjoy doing?" Making products, serving the marketplace. That's what I enjoy doing. Yes, indeed. I like putting out products that people use. Like Risom, for example, I got a couple messages pending on Risom. It's a phenomenal platform where people can make money, can change people's lives. I love the fact I can put money in other people's pocket. And I even more love the fact that I've created a communications platform that I think is where the future is heading, uh, in terms of transactional communication, but it's a product that many people get to use. I love creating products and adding value to the marketplace. I, I just love to hustle. I love to hustle. I don't love what the money can get me. I actually love the process of hustling. There's not many people like that. You know, if you have that wiring as a man, you're blessed. You're truly blessed. If you're a woman and you can get a man who has that wire and you're truly blessed because you never be broke. That man could lose a job. Oh, you gonna be back on, baby. Give it a couple months. You gonna be all right. Believe that. You dig?

Now, back to this white woman. This white woman.

>> We get with men to love them.

>> Oh.

>> And we help build them.

>> Y'all get with white men to take from them.

>> And have a success that you never earned.

>> Yeah. I'm going to need some replies to this one. Look here, sis. You know, y'all got to speak up on this.

Now, here's the thing. I feel really well-positioned to comment on this. I did not comment on it because I really didn't want to, uh, I didn't want to cause, I didn't want to sway anyone's perspective. I just wanted to hear from the audience. But I am fortunate enough to have been at a, a crossroads where I've had my fair share of white women. My fair share of black women. And I guess I can weigh in on this. I guess I can weigh in on it. I do want to look at some of the comments, too. Black women building a man up. It's happened before. It's happened before. You know what? As I think about it, I, I've had my fair share of lazy white ones and my fair share of lazy black ones. I've had my fair share of productive, um, white ones and productive black ones. So, I think they're almost equal, but certainly the whites, the white girls are beating out the the black girls a little bit. Uh, in as much as for sure, I've never ever ever gotten the feeling from a white woman that's approached me or that I've dealt with, I've never gotten the feeling that I had to be a provider. It's always felt optional. It always felt optional. It always felt like, I'm about you. And if you can provide, dope. And if you can't, it is what it is. I'm about you. I'm for you. I never, ever, ever one time felt like I had to be a provider with a white chick. Never one time felt that. Absolutely not. And in terms of being supported, I've been supported by all of them. But I say the difference in the nature of the support is that the black woman always put the feeling in you that you had to be a provider, that she was always doing you a favor. It didn't ever feel like you were one. Meaning that the white chick will make you feel like, and I'm saying generally, the white one will make you feel like the money circulates from her to you, but it comes right back to her when she gives it to you. So, it, it's just like you guys are one and it's just circulating within you all and the wealth and abundance is just, it's just soul to soul swirling around and you guys are eventually going to lift up. You're going to blast off. The black chicks, it's like it was a very painful thing for them to take a dollar out of their pocket and turn it over to you like, oh, like it hurt. Like every bit of it hurt like they were getting multiple sclerosis just having to hand over a dollar to you. Um, it just seemed like everything in their, their black soul did not want that to happen. Um, but that's not every black woman. I'm just saying on the extreme side, like meaning like the, the, the lowest quality black chick and the lowest quality white chick. The lowest quality black chick was unfortunately lower. Um, but in terms of the high quality, the high quality white chick and the high quality black chick, they were about the same, except the black chick was maybe, I'd say a little higher. And I'm saying black, but she's really Afro-Latina. If I'm being honest with you, if I'm keeping it a bean with you, she's Afro-Latina. So, she, she identifies as black, but she's a little on the paler side. Definitely thick. Definitely thick. That was probably the black side, but yeah. So, if you just had to go based on merit and you had never heard of, you know, any of this black empowerment stuff, if you're just going solely based on merit and you just want the best deal for you as an individual and you had to reach into a, a bag with your eyes closed and there's a white box or you have to reach into a box, not a bag. There's a white box and a black box. You have to reach in with your eyes closed and pull out something that's going to benefit you the most. And you have no allegiance to race or anything like that, you probably gonna want to reach in that white box. You probably gonna want to reach in that white box. You probably are. Now, that is not to drag black women through the dirt. That is to say, you must do better. You absolutely must. And black women are probably watching this like, "Well, you ain't anyways."

Well, most of them are, and I agree with you. Most of these dudes aren't worth much. So you need to crowd around the ones that are that are worth something and make sure that when you get to that level, you can uh you can add value. And the claim of he date white girls or he like white girls or you shouldn't be dating white girls, that's not going to get the job done, sis. The only thing that's going to keep him away from white girls because as long as white girls have vaginas between their legs, which which I trust that they do, all of them. I checked in some cases. um men are going to see see what to do. So the only reason you are going to be able to keep a man or get a man or prevent him from going over to that side is to perform. And that does not consist of complaining or deriding the white woman. You have to perform. You have to stop being a gold digger. You have to stop being so transactional. You have to be willing to contribute.

Um, and the funny thing with black women, too, and I have to put this out there, is so many of them come from poverty. So many of them didn't have their father. Um, but their standards are so high. And I'm just like, damn. You expect me to do things that your father didn't do for you? You expect me to do things that your father didn't do for your mother? Where'd you get these standards from? Like, you expect me to pay for all this stuff? Like, where's your dad at? Like, why do I have to pay your rent? If you can't pay your rent, your dad doesn't want to pay your rent. Hasn't he known you your whole life? So, black women have to, and this is why I try to write down so many of the standards and just like spread it across the earth so that we can have realistic expectations when we engage one another because women will say, "Oh, well, I expect a man to court me." Well, that was a thing in the past, but remember this. In the past, when men had to go all out of their way to court a woman, those women were virgins. Are you a virgin? Women wear white at their wedding day to symbolize purity. Most of them should be wearing gray or black cuz they're not pure at all. None of them. They most of them shouldn't even be getting married. Like they shouldn't even have a wedding day. And if they did, they shouldn't be wearing white cuz that's a lie. So what they want is they want to benefit from the old rules, but they don't want any of the accountability from the old rules. The accountability of being a virgin. The accountability of being a woman who stays at home most of the time. The accountability of being subject to your man even if he raises a hand to you and not taking your personal business, your family business outside of the home. They don't want to abide by the old rules because in the old rules, you're gonna you you gonna get this work. So, they want to abide by the parts of the old rules that benefit them instead of the whole code of conduct. And that's a part of the deceptive narcissistic nature of the female, which is inherent. And there's levels. And your goal is to find a woman that ranks low in narcissism, high in being caring. Huh? low in deception, high in cooking skills, willingness to clean, you know, high in being able to listen and uh take feedback. Come on now.

Now, back to this white woman. >> Point this one out. >> Y'all get with a white man for his money. >> Bold with it. Yeah, they they do. They brag about it. >> There's a whole woman viral on Facebook and Tik Tok because she's with this white man and she's literally clearly stating this. She got with him for her. She was shaking ass when she got with him and now she's with him and I feel bad for him. It's like boooo. >> I don't feel bad for him though. >> Okay, that's how you want to live. >> The reason why black women get with white men >> and the reason why white women get with black men, it's different. We get with men to love them and we help build them. >> Y'all get with white men to take from them >> and have a success that you never earned. >> Damn. Yeah. I'm gonna need some replies to this one. Look here, sis. You know, y'all got to speak up on this one now. Don't don't don't just swipe through this one now. I need some responses. I need some responses.

>> And let me point. >> You know, what she's saying is so powerful. And if it was if it was completely uh if it was completely ludicrous, I wouldn't be re reacting to this. If it was completely ludicrous and baseless, you wouldn't have 1,242 replies to it. If it was completely ludicrous, just the response rate alone lets you know that she was she was saying something valid. And this was only posted uh posted this before I went for my workout. So, she's saying something valid for sure. Now, let's take a look at um at what people have responded. This fellow writes, let me make sure this is enlarged so that you guys can see it. This fellow writes, "Oh, yeah, and by the way, if there's any ladies who want to come on, send your three bucks via via Vinmo and you can come on. Express your your perspective on this." And I think a woman's perspective is very valuable here. He writes, "I think black women are more aggressive and talk about using men. White women are more quiet about it." And I think that's a good point, which is to say women use men. Full stop. Oh yeah, absolutely. Women use men generally speaking. But yes, black women are shameless about it, very tacky and low class about it. And and it's really an embarrassment to all of us, all of us black people. The way they talk about it like that, it's really sick and sad. Uh so I agree and apparently a lot of other people agree because there's 510 likes on that, which is to say women broadly use men, black women brag about it, which is really devious when you think about bragging about doing something bad. It just shows that you're you're a real dirt bag, doesn't it?

Fellow writes, uh, that's sometimes worse when they don't have when they don't even have anything to say for themselves. Okay. Uh, this is a woman who believes herself to be black. Right here, she writes, "A white woman talking down." And see, this is the important thing to understand. I really want you guys to understand this piece. So, she writes, "A white woman talking down on black women." Now, this is so important. This is what's wrong with women today in gen in general. Telling the truth is not talking down on you. Being critical, criticizing or giving feedback is not talking down. And this is fatherless behavior because if you weren't raised around a real man, I shouldn't even say fatherless. This is behavior that results from not being around a masculine man. You were never disciplined. And so if you were never disciplined, when you receive discipline or feedback, then it seems like punishment from a female mind that has not been developed with a masculine balance to it with with a masculine externality balancing that inherent female emotionalism. So this female is lying saying that she's talking down on black women. She's not talking down on black women. She is shining a light on black women. And I can testify. And that this woman writing this comment, dirt bag. Total dirt bag. And I'll show you in a second. A white woman talking down on black women from the black men. Black women whom the black man came from is insane. I think there should be a period there. Also, yeah, that should be a period. There should be a capital. Also, switching up verbiage, referring to a black woman as boooo. I'm not sure at that time she was referring to a black woman, but who cares? Anyways, I love y'all black women and men. Now, the question is, you love black men and women. Do you have a black man whom uh you're with and you are honoring him and you've given him children? We'll take a look. We should be able to tell from your profile. Don't continue to let others get in between us loving each other. That's a good message. Except this woman's not getting in between you. Black woman in that comment was accusing the white woman of trying to come in between the black woman and the black man. And this is what I told you earlier about women and their ruthless competition with each other. They don't want to see another woman do better than them, especially with regards to men. Cuz women mostly view themselves as sex objects. And if she would heed the words of the white woman, she'd probably come closer to the black man because the extractive nature that these black women exercise upon white men, they also will exercise upon black men. They target the white man because he's he's more financially empowered. So, he's a better target of extraction. But her nature and her skill set is still going to be utilized against the black man as well. H and when the white woman says we go in there cuz we love the black man, the one we're dealing with, I tend to think that that has some level of authenticity. And the reason that I say that is because you're going against a level of social norms. You're dating outside of your race. You're going to receive some level of sanction from whites in your family and in the society. So you're going against that when you don't have to. So there has to be some driving force. It's obviously not money in most cases. And the black man generally is the most downtrodden, if not viewed as the most downtrodden in the society. So you probably have significant level of emotions and driving force, especially if you're an attractive white woman dating a black man who's like an everyday guy, especially in that case. So, I I tend to think that there's that's factual that they're dealing with these guys because they love them or they're interested in them truly. I don't think that the the claims of black women hold up. I'll tell you what, let's be real here. A black woman saying that white women fetishize black men is the same as white guys on the internet calling chicks mud sharks when they date black men. It's just a strategy. It's a survival and protectionist strategy for the less desired counterpart uh of a given race to to try to give social sanction so that their their counterpart doesn't go and seek a better option than them. That's essentially what that is.

I acknowledge Carter came in supporting the work via Vinmo. Shout out to Teddy with the first baller alert. Teddy's a baller. Teddy's a baller. First baller alert. He write comes in at the $100 level on Vinmo. He writes, "Peace of the Saints." Just like the divevesttor who was found unal alive uh who talked bad about black men and was bragging about her white zatty uh and her soft life era saying the guy in the pic uh looked like a damn psychopath. You know what? I saw that and I even saw it said that black men were celebrating it. And I don't know if celebration is necessary. You might chuckle at a thing like that. out of celebration is necessary. But what these women don't realize is that, you know, though women talk of love and they talk of romance, it's mostly a strategy to extract from the man. Men actually feel the love. Women will talk of the love, they'll talk of the romance, but men feel it. Like we actually want to love a woman. And there's some of us who are, you know, kind of hopeless like these guys who pay pay to play with women. I don't understand that. like me, I can't really enjoy the woman unless the the love is there. You heard me? That's just me, though. But anyways, I think that this woman was dealing with a guy who was underdeveloped. And often the guys who are paying to play, they're underdeveloped. The passport bros, these are the guys are a little bit autistic. They lack social skills and they think that going abroad where their dollar goes farther is going to get them a woman. And you can't buy love. And in the absence of buying love, you know, you you're ending up with this being who is a blood sucker and a parasite and you're you're trying to pull love out, but it's like squeezing blood from a stone. And what happens is that in your disappointment, and then she starts, you know, revealing more of her attitude to you, more of that negativity, and then bro snapped. I'm not surprised at all.

So, this is a a black woman who wants to talk about white women coming in between black love. Then you might ask yourself, well, what kind of black woman is this? Is this a worthwhile black woman? And I think it's worth taking a look at her because, you know, frankly, there's certain things that are red flags and I'm I'm willing to point them out. So, here we go. Just got waxed. So, this cat, I'm assuming, refers to her getting her cat waxed. That's not appropriate conversation in general. Okay. I don't mind the braids. That's cool. We could work with that. But then you had to put on those eyelashes. Major turnoff. You um Yeah. Anyways, carrying on. So, there's that. I say that to say that her with this negative comment, she's not even a woman that anyone should want. Huh? Give me one second. And send your comments, questions, size tuition right now. Okay. carrying on. And I think it's really worth seeing how people reacted to this. And you'll also see a a a noticeable absence of black women in the chat. Gentleman writes, "She's completely correct. And I am a black woman. There's so many of us that are just selfish." Oh, wow. She she keeping it a bean out here. Um, let's see. And now the white man took her out. He's talking about that news that someone else had mentioned. Individual writes, "Based off of US history, this seems accurate." Oh, I agree. Person writes, "No lies detected."

Individual writes, "White women get with black men out of lust." Now, this is a very fascinating take and is very common as well. I'm not saying it's inaccurate. I think there's definitely a lot of uh white women that are chasing the sole pole, but I think that makes sense. Marco, what do you mean it makes sense? And mind you, I don't like promiscuous women. I don't like sexually driven women at all. Major turnoff for me. But human beings are animals. And our purpose, one of our purpose is to procreate. Being attracted to one another is a core thing in romance. That's that's what makes the relationship not platonic. It that's what makes it not a friendship. So it's a requirement that you're attracted. So, the idea that black men are more attractive or that white women are more attracted to black men, I don't find that to be a a mark in the negative column. I think it's a strange argument to make as though it's like some bad thing that they're sexually attracted to black men. Like, you're supposed to be like, when I walk out and if I decide to talk to a woman, you better believe that I'm attracted to her in that way. There have been some women that have approached me and they're engaging me or even women that I might end up talking to and then I remember like, "Oh, I don't even want to sleep with this woman. Nice to meet you. Nice to meet you." No, cuz cuz that's actually critical. This is critical. So, it's really weird that people act as though that's weird that the the white women want the black guy sexually. Like, duh. It's necessary. It's important. Makes no sense. Anyways, white women get with black men out of lust, not love or to build them up. Shout out to this brother. He's really trying to hold down his sisters. Uh, number one, it may start of lust. And I think the love will probably come. And I think the nature of many of them is to build based on my experience. And I've had women of all races come at me out of lust. I have no problem with that. I just don't like dealing with women who have high sex drive or are sexually focused. And unfortunately, it's too many of them. They've been exposed to too much.

He writes, "Black women don't care about white men, and when they do, it's only for his privileges." Okay, I'm curious to see what people said. Back to little buddy. Uh, this person writes, "So, black women don't lust over white dudes?" Yikes. You know, I don't think they do. Right. I must concede I've never heard black women like having conversations about white men being attractive respectfully. Um fre this is not to suggest that there are not attractive white women or she mean white men. This is just to say I've never heard like a real conversation between black women about such frequent writes typically black women lust over what's uh in white men's pockets versus in their pants. The brother is saying white women lust over us because of their infatuation of being with a black man physically. That's been going on since slavery. Nothing new. Yeah, I think that's about right. I don't think there's anything wrong with that. Okay. Not such an engaging conversation there to me.

This person writes, "That's a black woman's entire life goal. Sleep with a man for money. That's all they talk about." Like lowkey if you listen to their music. That's kind of true. I'm not going to lie to you. Uh, like one major red flag, if I hear a chick listening to any female rapper, it's a red flag. And women should not rap ever again. I have not heard a good female rapper since Lauren Hill. Lauren Hill was spitting some real rap, but every other female rapper is like, first off, their voice, for some reason, they feel like they got to sound like a dude. Me the Stallion feels like she needs to sound like a dude. So here she is in this deep grally voice like yeah and if he don't eat my butt and make me nut and I'm trying to make a come up. It's like all it is is about perversion and money. It's perversion money. Perversion money. That's it. And I even find it disgusting when you see a lot of these white females on social media are dancing or reacting or voicing these grotesque lyrics. It like Taliban time in the realest of ways. But I agree with Brody right here. He writes, "That's a black woman's entire life goal. Sleep with a man for money." Uh that's all they talk about. This is a fact. Uh your finances might be the first thing they ask you about. And unfortunately, I have had women uh make inquiries about that. And it's an awkward thing. It's a very awkward thing.

Bro, hit us with the meme. I'm Jaw writes, "She is trying to hit a point. However, even when research is cited, a lot of it reflects socially constructed." Okay, we sounded kind of liberal. I'm going to just skip that right there. I don't feel like reading all that woman talk. Uh Bernie writes, "I see now we're going to have to be in their business more often because staying in black people's business seems to be a trend." Uh no, I agree. They like to be in our business, but I wouldn't be surprised if baby has some black kids. And if you're a white person with black kids, well then black is in fact at that point your business. But also I think that she's probably been attacked quite a bit by black women and this may just be her reaction to such. Wouldn't be surprised at all. I remember one time and I'll tell you I was walking down the street in Baltimore, Maryland with a colleague. It was a colleague, gorgeous white woman whom I did end up eventually taking down like a hitman but at the time she was just a colleague. And I'm walking down the street and there's some black women in a beat up ass car. It's like a 87 Toyota hatchback. They're driving down the street and then as they get by us, they slow down, roll down the window. THEY'RE LIKE, "SELL OUT." AND THEN DRIVE OFF. I WAS LIKE, "GOD DAMN." And I was personally angered because I was like, I didn't even hit. Like if I would have hit, I would have felt fine. Like, yep, sign me up. I'm selling out. But I didn't even hit. I was like, you have you accused an innocent man. And the crazy thing, too, is this white girl was also thick, too. So, I was like, I know y'all hate this white girl. She's pretty and thick. Oh, I know y'all hate her. I know y'all hate her because y'all can't beat her at anything. Oh, I know y'all hate this girl. Oh, I know y'all hate her. Big man.