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Quasi here. Before you can do something, you must first be something. Ger wrote that. And the man wasn't some self-help guru selling a weekend seminar. He was one of the sharpest minds Europe ever produced. A poet and a statesman who spent his entire life studying how things actually come into being. He took everything he knew and boiled it down to that one line.
Being comes first. The doing is downstream of it. Almost everyone alive has this backwards. They believe you do the right things for long enough and eventually you turn into someone new. So they grind and hustle waking up at five to check the boxes and white knuckle their way through another year and they still can't understand why their life looks exactly the same as it did before.
Now Jim Carrey understood the real order of things. Back when he was broke and getting turned away at every single audition in Los Angeles, he wrote himself a check for $10 million and kept it folded up in his wallet. He wasn't doing that to hype himself up. He had already decided he was the kind of man who actually earns that. A few years later, Dumb and Dumber paid him exactly that figure right on time. The being came first and then the money caught up. Muhammad Ali was telling the whole world he was the greatest before he had ever a single title to back it up. He repeated it until it was true in his bones. and then his body went out and made everyone else believe it, too. That's the secret that nobody's willing to sell you because there is no 30-day program hiding inside of it. You don't do your way into a new identity. You become it first and the doing handles itself from there.
So, in today's video, I'm going to share with you how to truly enter the state of being and avoid the traps that constantly pull you into doing. This one principle, when properly applied, changed my life 8 years ago when I took the leap to quit my soul sucking 9 to5 and become an entrepreneur to support myself to gain freedom and eventually made over $8 million doing what I love. So guys, please stick around till the end of this video. Let's get started.
So what I'm about to share with you right now with these three paradigms, you have to understand this took me almost a decade to come to this conclusion, right? I've been studying this, teaching this, coaching our clients on this for a decade. And I've worked with over 2,000 clients. And it took me this long to arrive at this realization. Right? So, for over a decade, I've been learning about this process called identity shifting, which I believe is one of the most powerful ways to change someone's life permanently. A lot of the times you see transformational methods, uh, they fail because it's always focused on doing. You do a hypnosis, you do an affirmation, you do a meditation, you do some NLP. You try to do your way into being, but it's always one step removed, right? You're always near the thing, but never actually grasping the thing itself because the mind, the the logical mind likes to grasp onto straws to try and do something, to pretend to be busy so that it can escape being, right?
So, there are three main paradigms of existence. Joe Despensza actually talks about this a lot. For those of you who follow Joe Despensza stuff, he's amazing. He does some phenomenal work in this space. But at the lowest level, the most physical level, the most outcome or second order consequence level, we have the having, right? Everyone knows about this. That's the physical manifestation of what is wanted. The having by the time you see it is already complete. But most people try to slap their hands about on the water, try to have something different. A level above the having is what appears to cause the having. Right? So this is the doing. I do something then I get outcome. This is your classic, you know, massive action bro online guru advice. Go out and get what you want, which is definitely a step above staying stuck and focusing on having something. Right? Cuz when you're stuck focusing on having something, there is no flow of energy. The energy gets constipated in a way. The energy gets stuck and blocked because you are currently affirming to yourself that you do not already have the thing that you want. and you keep focusing, hoping and praying that it is going to come into being.
So, a lot of people they uh stay stuck in this state of apathy. When you move to doing, you have more courage. You're able to go out and do what's necessary to get what you want. But this then becomes a barrier because if the hardest working person was the most successful, well then, you know, you would get people who are doing laborous jobs being the wealthiest in the world. However, that's not the case. Why is that? Because it requires something called smart actions, right? There is always an element of luck, an element of courage, an element of someone stepping out of their comfort zone and acting on their intuition before they become very very successful. If you study the lives of every single successful person, there is always this element of uncertainty, this element of risk, right? this element of the feminine, the receptive energy, the unknown, stepping into the unknown and having these periods in your life where you don't know if you're going to make it, but then somehow they just magically pull through every single time. Right?
So that is the nonlinear realm through which reality is actually shaped. Okay? The reason circumstances can present itself for you to act, for you to be able to act is because there is another paradigm that most people neglect. This is the being paradigm. What does this mean? We will discuss this in depth in the next part of this video. But for now, I want you to understand that this is nonlinear and this is linear. What does that even mean? Something that's linear is X gives me Y, right? I'm doing something and then I'm getting something. I'm taking action. I'm getting something. I'm turning the key and my car is starting up and then I can drive myself to where I want to get to. The issue with staying stuck in this paradigm is you believe that everything is your personal responsibility. So you take the burden of your life in your hands as opposed to surrendering it to divine. When you step into this being, you get access to a power that is a lot more powerful than your personal ego will. Okay? So this is getting access to God will or outer intention. This is getting access to inner intention. my personal petty intention, my prefrontal cortex.
Okay, so there have been times in your life where you've experienced a state of flow of ease where things were just falling into place without you having to insist and it just felt like everything was magically just happening for you, right? Well, the reason was because you were in that state of being where you were ready to receive that thing and you trusted the uncertainty and you've completely surrendered into it. Typically, it was after something major happened, some kind of major revolution in your life or major upheaval in your life. Then the thing that you wanted showed up very swiftly or in in a flowy way without you needing to force it. Like all of those things were just falling into place. Our clients experience this all the time. There's a specific mechanism that actually allows this to happen which I'm going to share with you. Okay.
So, this is nonlinear meaning we can't logically explain how it happens. It doesn't go from A to B to C. It may just go from A to D to C. You know, a lot of the times you expect something to go a certain way, right? You think that, okay, I'm going to start my business and then I'm going to uh work really, really hard on my business. I'm going to run advertising and then I'm going to go on social media to try and get clients or, you know, I'm going to study trading and then I'm going to be successful. Well, for a lot of our successful clients who are traders, you know, they've worked really, really hard for like five to seven years trading, you know, just being slightly break even and slightly not, and then all of a sudden they have a 3mon stretch where they make 3 million, $4 million, right? All of a sudden they become an overnight success. You can see that the growth wasn't linear at all, right? The growth in this instance is not linear. It was stagnant, stagnant, stagnant, and then hockey stick growth. Right? You work hard for 10 years and then in the 11th year you become successful, right? Uh it's like the phenomenon of the entrepreneur who had seven failed businesses but then the eighth one made him a billionaire, right? How many times has that happened? So that's why true success is nonlinear. But we have this issue trusting the nonlinearity, the uncertainty. And that is that masculine part of us, the logical mind that's been programmed by society to to always expect an outcome from something. Right? If you look around you right now, we have been trained for instant gratification. Press a button, we get delivery from Amazon very, very quickly. We uh don't even need to wait for our favorite shows to come out anymore. It's streamed. It's right there, right now. You can press a button to deliver food to your house and eat junk food all you want. Right? Uh there's actually a great book on this um about how society has changed. It's called amusing ourselves to death and how it's going to change the structure of society because there is such an abundance of everything right now. We have access to amenities that the greatest monarch did not have access to a couple hundred years ago even 100 years ago. Right? So society is growing nonlinearly exponentially. Right? So because of that, we're getting wired more and more for instant gratification. We have social media that we just keep scrolling through, reels, etc. And it's ruining our reward system, right? So we're getting wired more for the doing rather than being and being patient and waiting. And that's why a lot of people are having trouble becoming profitable traders even, right?
So there is a quote from the Cabalian. It goes as above so below. When the being is in the right place, then the doing becomes more effective. But in actual fact, the doing will naturally take care of itself. So right now in your life, when you have an issue, what's the first thing you think of? What's in your focal what's in your focal point? What what's your focal point on what's your the center of your attention? What do I do to solve this problem? You never ask, who do I be for this problem to get solved spontaneously? Right? When you have a goal that you would like to reach, what's the natural thing you ask? What do I do to achieve that goal? When we start working with a client, a lot of the work first is in undoing the need, the craving for motion, right? We're constantly in motion. We're trying to move away from pain and move towards pleasure. There is always movement. But the greatest things in life happen when you are still. You are receptive when you are still. This is why Jesus Christ said, "Be still and know that I am." There is something magical about stillness. Okay? So, you constantly keep moving. You're trying to avoid pain. You're trying to move towards pleasure. You're surrounded in a world full of distractions and things that are trying to hijack your attention. How are you supposed to succeed? By learning to stay in being. Okay? By learning to stay in that chosen state of being. Okay?
So the key I want you to take away from this is I'm not saying completely cease doing. But your focus needs to shift from immediately escaping into doing to first asking who am I being? Who must I become? What version of myself do I need to channel in order for me to effortlessly experience the thing that I want. So be first do after. If you would like to become a profitable trader and experience the outcome of consistent profits, ask who would the profitable trading version that's making 20,000, $40,000, $60,000 a month consistently? Who would that version be? Okay, who would I be if I had that? And one of our clients made a 100k profit month just by embodying the ideal self, right? By shifting into being first and then the doing follows. Okay, this is the same way I became a profitable trader. Last month we I did around 40k in trading profits with options and I made that shift by starting officially starting to trade swing trading day trading in July of last year. Right? My first month I made around 5K. My second month around like 15 and then third month I had a $40,000 month and then ever since then I've been hovering from 5 to 15k a month and at the peak I'll make around 40. Right? Why is that possible for someone who has never traded before? Well, I didn't seek trading. It found me. I attracted it, right? I meaning I stepped into the right state of being where I asked like, "Hey, I no longer want to be dependent on my business for income. I would like to use this business to actually serve people and serve clients and get them amazing results, but I can do that if I'm passively earning income from something else that takes care of my lifestyle expenses. And as long as that happens, I'm good. You know, I can really use this as a craft as something that I choose to do rather than I need to do. You know, as soon as I made that intention, I literally attracted uh my barber telling me like, "Hey, I'm trading options. Like, this is the options method that I learned." And that piqued my interest, right? There's a reason that piqu my interest because I was receptive to it at that point. I was in that state of being, that nonlinear realm of uncertainty of not knowing which direction I should take. And then I pivoted there and then I became profitable.
So you will notice a lot of the greatest things that have happened in your life you have attracted rather than forced or pursued or chased. The more you chase something, the further it runs away from you. So being staying in the state of being is actually attraction. This is how you use the law of attraction. This is attract and doing is pursue. Right? That is the nature of the masculine feminine, right? The feminine nature is attract. Be attractive and attract. The masculine nature is always pursue, fight, battle. There needs to be a balance of both. That's why I'm not saying completely give up doing. I'm saying spend more of your time focusing on being. Be first, do after. And you will notice that you will have more leverage. Your actions will be more fruitful. The things that you do, they will be more fruitful. Okay? You will need to do less and you will achieve more. And you will start to wonder, "Oh my god, was it this easy? Could it really be this simple?" I'm not joking you. You will literally begin to wonder like, "This is insane. This is so easy. This is so simple." And that's how it's meant to be. One of our clients, John, literally came on the call and he was like, "Dude, I've been struggling my whole life with like trying to set up different sources of income and now everything is falling into place. Everything is falling into place. I met the right person who set me up for different Airbnbs that I'm invested in and I've tried for years to make this happen but it hasn't. But now all of a sudden things are magically falling into place. Could it be this easy? It will be unbelievable to you. It is supposed to be simple. It is supposed to be effortless and it is supposed to be easy. Okay. Sometimes it will feel like there is a lot of friction. That means there are blockages that you are dealing with, hidden blockages within you that you are dealing with that you need to deal with to get to that part where it is easy, where it is simple, where it does fall into place. Okay.
So now that you understand this, let's get to the state of being. Like what does it mean to enter the right state of being? Cuz there's two main parts to it. So in this part of the video, what I want to do is share with you what it truly means to be in the state of being. Like what is it being even? Okay. So, what being is are two main things. It is what's known as your world view and self view. What does that mean? It's how you view the world around you. Is the world a good place or a bad place? And how you view yourself. Am I a good person or a bad person? Am I capable or am I not capable? Right? It's always a duality, a positive and a negative. So, how you view the world and how you view yourself. Now, one actually overrides the other. Can you guess what that is? Which one overrides the other one? Does the world view override the self view or does the self view override the world view? If you guessed self view overrides world view, then you are correct. Why? Because think about it this way. Let's say that you may look around you and think, "Oh my goodness, there is so much competition in this space. It's going to be really, really difficult to start a business. You know, this is a buyer market, not a sellers market." You might have all of these ideas. You may have consumed all of these ideas from society around you or social media. Which then leads you to maybe accept it as true. But you have a very strong sense of self-image. Okay? Your self-image is very strong where you believe it doesn't matter what's happening outside. If anyone can figure it out, it is me, right? I can figure it out. I've done it before and I can I'm truly passionate about this and it is worth committing my life to and I can do it. I believe in myself and my qualities. And so when you believe that to be true, then it doesn't matter what your worldview is because because you believe in your capabilities and your ability to figure it out. You will take the leap. You will take the plunge and you will inevitably figure it out. So do you see how your self view eventually overrides your worldview? But if you could get your worldview and self view all in one line, then that's the most important. That's the most effective way to go about it. The issue is you may consciously have a self view and a world view and there is a subconscious one or an unconscious program that's running in the background of how you actually view the world and how you actually view yourself. Those become exposed when you're on the journey itself, right? And you notice obstacles, you notice resistances and feelings that are building within you, emotions that are building within you. They start to come up to the surface. things you you've never noticed before.
So, I want to share with you one of our clients who had a big epiphany around this of being overdoing. Check this out. I'll pull it up over here. One of our clients, Matthew, posted this. He's a trader and he posted being overdoing. He took a full week off from trading in the middle of May. Longest real break he's ever taken in 5 years. Okay? And what he felt was peace, detachment, lower importance, and gratitude for his amazing life that exists without trading. So, for those of you who are trying to build a business or trying to increase your income or you have these hopes and dreams with trading, what's inevitably happened is you've placed that on a pedestal. Okay? You've placed that on a pedestal and it's controlled your life and you've been thinking about it ever since. You've never been able to unattach from it. What I've seen with working with six figure, five figure, even seven, eight figure traders that I've worked with is the ones who are the most successful, they know how to fully switch off, right? They don't put it on a pedestal. They set their alerts and they walk away and they treat it like a hobby. It's not life or death for them. They can take a break. They don't need to trade every day and they also happen to take two to three A+ setups every single week, right? No more than that. So, trading is no longer survival. It's optional expression. I I love it when our clients actually listen cuz they get results. He sat down with a 17-year Wall Street veteran who's traded independently for 9 years and learned about his structured swing system. step deeper into building something tangible outside of the screen. He's felt like nothing is forced and everything is aligned. And when you lower importance, he said when you lower importance, your clarity increases, which is very, very true. Now, you may look at this and be like, "Oh, he's not making $100,000 in a month right now. So, what's the point of looking at this?" It's not always about material results. I'm showing you what happens before material results come because I'm confident this client is going to crush it because of this epiphany he's had. Right? That's it. that that's all you need. This is how you become this is what it looks like before you become profitable. You get to a point where you unattach from the thing that you've valued, you've worshiped your whole life and you don't let it control your life. Okay?
So, there are two biggest obstacles to you stepping into that right state of being and actually accepting it to be true in the unconscious or your subconscious. Okay. The first biggest obstacle is this is something external. These are pendulums. This concept was put forward by a Russian quantum physicist known by Vadimm Zealand in the book Reality Transurfing. I quote that book all the time. It's one of the most powerful books I've read. Completely changed my life. It's based on quantum physics. In that book, he talked about this concept called pendulums. What is a pendulum? A pendulum forms when a collective like-minded energy takes hold in a particular in a group of people in a sports team, religious groups, people who are supporting a common idea. And a lot of the times you'll notice riots happening and then people will engage in these riots and do something destructive. But then they'll you confront them. They're like, I don't know why I did that. I got lost in the moment. Right? So these pendulums, they are able to hijack your consciousness because you value something so much. So what causes you to get hooked by pendulums is the second biggest obstacle, which is importance. What does that mean? If something is very very important to you, you will start to notice that things that maybe anger you or trigger you all of a sudden start to show up on your feed. Why? Because the pendulums know. The pendulums know your behavior. And like a moth to a flame, it it it seeks it out. It seeks out something that's important to you. So if I have a chart here of importances of three different areas of your life. Let's say this this bar chart is your health and this shaded bar chart there's a reason why I shaded it is your wealth and this is let's say your relationships. You can see that health and relationships have equal footing but then wealth becomes too important. Maybe trading is too important to you. You value it too much. You really want to prove something. You really want to provide for your family. You really want to become successful with it. So it becomes super super important. Now, what happens when something becomes super super super super super important? Can you guess what happens? Pendulums come in and try to play you around. They tug on your strings and they try to mess you about. Okay? So, when something is too important and you put it on a pedestal, it has no choice but to look down upon you. You create artificial imbalances in the field of nature whereby you drive the thing away. Putting something on a pedestal means I really want it. means my state of being right now is I'm not good enough to have it. When you actually claim something, all of the things that you have in your life right now, in a way, it feels like you've taken it for granted, but you've accepted that you are actually worthy and deserving of it. So, you don't try to chase after these things cuz you already have it. It's already in the bag. So, the thing that you want in your life, if you can assume that it's already in the bag and you don't elevate it in importance, guess what's going to happen? It is going to become yours. Right? So when trading starts to feel like another thing that you do like taking out the trash or doing the g you know getting groceries or making yourself a sandwich when it becomes normalized like that and it's not so important right the profits and the losses don't feel so emotionally turbulent to you that's when you become a profitable trader. When your business doesn't become so emotionally titillating to you whereby something happens, it makes you feel emotionally low or high. It's just another thing. It's just another day at work, right? You just put one foot in front of the other. One day you lift your head up and all of the goals and dreams that you've had, they've become realized without you needing to insist on it. That is how you step into pure being. Okay? When you step into pure being, you've already assumed that that reality that you want to experience, it has already happened. You don't need to pursue it. You don't need to chase after it internally. As above, so below. As within, so without. Because internally, unconsciously, you've accepted the worldview and self- view that's necessary to be true. It inevitably shows up in your external reality. I am living proof of this. My clients are living proof of this. So if you apply this, you will get results. There is literally, it's just a matter of time. You just need to be able to patiently wait and not change your mind and not flip-flop. That's it.
So when you get triggered, how do you respond? Key number one, how do you respond? Do you respond immediately jumping into action and trying to solve the problem? Or can you switch that response to watching and feeling what's happening within the body and surrendering that feeling? Because if you can do that and the feeling gets surrendered, you lower the importance. Guess what? You don't even need to find the solution. The solution will show itself to you. All you need to do is lower importance by changing your response to the things that are happening. So many times things have happened that have triggered me. I use that as a trigger to wake up and send to my attention. Instead of giving it my attention and instead of trying to like solve it immediately, I send to my attention and I watch it. Right? Number two, don't run away. Don't run away. Run through it. When you feel something that you don't want to feel, something is unwanted, unpleasant, your natural reaction is to find a distraction from that thing. So, if you probably notice like maybe you eat have this tendency to eat junk food. I struggle with this a long time. When I feel anxious, I'll eat a lot of dessert and sweet stuff to find comfort and I'll watch television to find comfort. I'm trying to escape the feeling in consuming an unreasonable amount of calories and watching television, right? I'm trying to escape my problems instead of dealing with the feeling that's coming up. So, so many times we try to escape our issues, our feelings by running away from them through distractions. Use that again as a trigger to run through them. Accept it. Ask for more of it. Give it a mental hug. When you can do this, you're performing a process called the surrender method where you've released the energy of the thing where it no longer bothers you. And when that cloud has been lifted, the things that it was blocking you from achieving all of a sudden will show up. Okay?
So, apply these. Let me know in the comments what your thoughts are. And if you've been following the channel for a while, you've probably been using these methods. I love hearing your wins. So, let me know below. But I hope this was helpful. I actually made a comprehensive video on identity shifting. You can find it right here. All you need to do is click right here. I made it earlier this year and it contains a document to allow you to reprogram yourself. Click right here and you're going to go into the whole process of identity shifting and staying in that state of being where you become successful. Okay? So, I'm rooting for you. Thank you so much for watching and thank you for being a member of this wonderful community. Let's uh keep crushing it and I'll see you in this next video right now. Thanks.