Single Moms Are The Ultimate L

What up, guys? Welcome to my reaction series. Today, we're going to watch women take more L's as usual.

So, today we're going to discuss dating as a single mother. So, in the past, single mothers knew that bringing a kid with them into the dating market required them to be humble. You know, almost beg, you could say. You know, I mean, that's why single mothers kind of got the reputation of being easy because in the past it would be like, look, I have a kid, but I'll gluck whenever. I'll do whatever you want. I'll just say yes because I know I'm damaged, right?

But now, now they don't really come in with the same respect that women used to. Those days are really gone because in 2025, single mothers are the most entitled women in the dating market. Can you imagine having to wait for sex with a single mother? That would be such an L. Women with two, three, or four or more kids on social media talking about what they will and they won't tolerate from a man. These women, they're completely delusional. Um, if a woman has a kid, she really, I would argue, should take what she can get and leave these standards behind.

But let's look at some of the single moms in the current dating market. So, let's see. We got like, can you imagine going on a date with a single mother and her telling you she's celibate? Okay, let's see. I'm a single mom to a 2-year-old, and let me tell you where I've gone wrong in every dating situation I've been in since becoming a mother. So, I've been in one and a half relationships since having my son. We're not going to talk about the half. We're just going to focus on the one. Number one mistake, no dating process. I feel like I want a family and I want a unit and I want to be loved so bad. I ignore the dating process when in reality, this is something that is so necessary. And upon reflection, I need it. I need a dating process. You need to be courted by a man. If you want a high-v valueue man, if you want a man to match your energy as a confident, successful woman, they need to court you.

In my last relationship that I just recently got out of, we met and then we're inseparable. Like basically living together. There was no dating process. There was no asking on a date. There was no grand gestures to show any type of courtship. And I feel like that's where the relation Oh, come on. Those are the best relationships. Squeeze. I met you two weeks ago. Now we're inseparable. It's called the [ __ ] it bucket. You just say [ __ ] it. Let's go. Went wrong because to me as a woman with a child, we're playing house at that point. So my emotions get 10 times more involved. And can you imagine though, I'd say for the kid, how damaging that is to a kid cuz, you know, I grew up with nannies. The nannies really wasn't I didn't love having the nannies around, but I would say the nannies and to be fair, some of them are really good, but it's just it's nothing like the parents, right? And um I'll tell you what though, what's better or what would be worse I would say is paying child support to a woman and now there's some random dude, some random string of rotating men around your kid. It sounds like death to me. I see why these men just like crash out and like kill their entire f I'm not saying they should. I It's wrong, but you kind of I could see how that would happen instead of truly slowing down and getting to know a person and getting to know what their intentions are, what their life is actually like, what their trauma.

Nah, do you know what? For a single mom, I'd say just have a [ __ ] phase. um slowing it down. Only the only guys that are going to sign up for taking it slow with the single mom are young men. And you do see that happening sometimes, the like under 25year-old guys. They're so desperate like for anything that they'll like take it slow with a single mom. But any guy over like 25, especially over 30, he's not going to take it slow. So, I would just have a [ __ ] phase. Um, give some really good gluck guck and hope for the best. That would be my recommendation to you. Good gluck guck will get you in the door, what their triggers are. Glock in desperation and really seeing if that person is going to be for me. I feel like no dating process just leads to failure. And a lot of the times I think as single mothers especially, we can want to rush into situations because of everything we have going on and we already are one step closer to a family because we do have a child. So it makes it difficult for myself. I have to slow down. I have to go through that dating process to truly get to know somebody. This could be months. And that's how they get stepdaddies to be fair. It is cuz a simple sign up. It's usually a younger guy or a guy that like doesn't realize how valuable he is. So, um, usually it's a guy that like refuses to do the dating app, you know, because the guys that want to win and they're like, I'm getting these hot women. They have a very different mentality is what I've noticed. They're not above anything. Like the guys that want to get the hot women, they're like, "Do I need to learn to ballroom? I guess I'm ballroom dancing." They're like, "Do I need to download Snapchat and take some gay Instagram pictures? I'm doing it. Am I going to have to start talking on TikTok? But the guys that tend to get God are the guys that like refuse to like go get professional pictures done cuz now all the dating everything's online, right? So, you're not really going to win unless you're maximizing that. Like the guys that refuse to take selfies like they just think they're above it and there's no problem being above it. But then you get stuck with the single moms who pray upon you, right?

Like guys, it's interesting. I have a friend, a relative actually, who's not very big into social media and I've just seen him start posting and he's really cool. He's got really cool hobbies, but men are the worst marketers. Women can catfish the hell out of themselves, but men, they don't even put like their hobbies on their profiles and stuff. And women love hobbies. Like, you go get a guitar, we're just like in love. I don't know what it is. We're st We're dumb. A guy could have $2 million. We're like, eh? And we see a guy playing guitar on the street. We're like, that one. I want that one. Whim, we're not logical beings, right? But this guy now, and he's really interesting. He dirt bikes. He He does all this cool stuff, but he documents none of it because he thinks he's too cool. And now the hot women are like DMing him, right? And he's like, "What?" But you see, before he would be the type to get guy because he doesn't know the options he has because he's bad marketing, right? Women are the best marketers. Um, most of the time you can just cap copy the strategies women do. Why are you above facetune? You know what I mean? They facetune the hell out of their pictures. But I what do I do? I'm a woman. This is just my this is just what I've noticed, you know? Anyways, I'll continue long and I've traditionally never been that type of person. And so that's something I'm going to be implementing because I am super open to date and super open to meeting somebody who is going to be for me. I've done so much reflection over the past couple years. So let me know.

All right, let's see the comments. They say the men say crazy alert. The woman not a single mom but deaf make another part. I don't even care to date anymore because I have a child. Um, and on top of that, make sure you like the person. Do not worry about at all if they like you. You are likable and the prize. You know, honestly, I got to be honest. In America, men are the prize, but women have the leverage, unfortunately.

All right, here we go. who how do you approach dating as someone in their late 20s who has a child, doesn't want anymore, um but is entering this dating world where everyone is just now kind of hitting the phase where they're like, I want to meet someone. I want to settle down. I want to start a family. It's really tricky because on one hand I need I would tell the single mom to go for like a divorced guy that's older because there are so many guys that had their kid, they got screwed in divorce court, they're done, they're cooked, done out of the market. Um like if they just got off child support, you are not going to convince them to come back in the game. be with someone, you know, like ultimately long term who wants to be a because, you know, they'll be a parent like essentially like a parent figure to my son and that scares a lot of people. Maybe if you got a young Wait till your son's older on its own. Um, but also I need someone who's okay with not having, I guess, kids of their own, biological kids of their own. You're like, "Yeah, how do you do it?" Like, "How do you approach it?" I would go for the men. I would tell her, "Go for the men that got got." So, the guys that married young, um, usually early early to late 20s and just took a massive L and they're done. They're done. Um, they'll have another girlfriend, but no more kids. You made a lot of those. So, all right, let's see this one. Okay. Single mom, three beautiful kids, dating for the first time. God first always. You can't God first and dating as a single mother. They don't they contradict. They contradict each other.

Okay. So, I wanted to come on and kind of just introduce myself. I have been told by my daughter who's 15 like you don't just go on TikTok and talk. Well, I'm still learning and I'm not good with all the edits and the cuts and the clips and so if I come on here and do my makeup, would you be honest? Would would or wouldn't. Be honest in the comments. Would or wouldn't. It's going to take forever and I'm like I don't know how to do that. So, I'll make it short and sweet. Um, my name's Amber. I'm 35 years old. I have three kids. Um, I am a single mom. I was married for 15 years and I've been divorced almost 2 years now. Um, I married my high school sweetheart and I thought that that was my story and I thought that that would be my forever. And um, turns out God had different plans for me. Yeah. When you do something ungodly, like get divorced, blaming God isn't really the best way to go about it, you know. So, here I am trying to navigate um singleness and motherhood um being the only one um taking care of my kids right now. So, it is a beautiful crazy mess that we live over here. Um, on top of all of that, there has been um, you know, dating for the first time in my life basically cuz when you meet your person at 16, that life doesn't really exist. Um, translation, I'm about to get pumped and dumped really bad. Mhm. Good luck. So that has been a whole another story in itself. Um on this page I like to share life in general and navigating through the dating world has been um kind of present and prevalent in my life. um how to take care of three kids who are all three so special and beautiful but also so different in their own ways and seeking out uh motherhood support through that and advice and tips. Um weight loss is another thing. Uh over the last year and a half I've lost almost 160 pounds. So, uh, yeah, translation, I didn't care enough to be thin for my husband, but now that I'm getting pumped and dumped, I'm thinking I got to lose the weight, so maybe I can get called back to offer support to women who are on a weight loss journey. And you're still fat. Keep working though. Keep working going through that as well. So, those are kind of the things that I'm looking to do on this page. and then just to build a community of support through this crazy life that we are all just trying to figure out. Um I believe in God. Um I love Jesus and I believe with you know the father, the son and the holy spirit like you can get through anything. And if anyone can attest to that it's me. Yeah.

So, three kids and you want to date God in a godly way. Again, I'd really just recommend a glut luck. I would just recommend giving it away. Um, until one guy sticks around long enough and you say, "Hey, what are we doing here?" And that's what I don't recommend if you're a single mom. I do not recommend dating in a godly way. I don't I don't really recommend that. You can pull purity on guys till like 25. After 25. Only pretty unintelligent guys are going to believe you. I do. You know what? I was talking to this guy the other day and he's like, "Yeah, my my girlfriend I took her virginity." And I'm like, "Oh, well, how old was she when she met you?" And he's like, "Oh, she was 24." And I'm like, "Okay, where'd she go to school?" and it was a big state school. And I'm like, uhhuh. And I'm like, okay. So, she went to a big state school. When do you think women start wanting to have sex? How old do you think? Like, you know, the average is 16. So, that means half lose it before it's like the earliest I knew of was like 15, 14. So, you're telling me in a decade of having a sex drive, she's only been with you? No back? He's like, "Well, I could tell." And I'm like, "Uh-huh. She didn't do anything with no back door, no nothing with other guys." Mhm. I'm glad you guys buy that stuff because somebody's got to save these hoes. I'm so glad you guys I seriously I am so happy that you guys buy this stuff because somebody's got to do it.

Um, all right. Now we got this lovely woman here. Like a single mom convinced another guy I know that she'd only been with three people. Okay. Okay, being a single mom is honestly like a really hard place to be because the second that um one I have trust issues so you're lying. Um and then secondly, like my brain immediately is just like why? I have nothing to offer you. Like my gas light is on. My change oil notification just came on. I'm fairly certain that my tag has expired. Um I Yeah, you do have nothing to offer except the glut clock. Get to gluting. Do you know what I mean? It's like you're right. Um maybe another kid for him. But basically, yeah, you're there for glut clock. So, do that well enough, you might find a second husband. Mhm. My toenail polish is grown out. My heels are crusty. I'm surviving off of my kids' leftover chicken nuggets and coffee from the day before. What about that is appealing to anybody ever? So, I'll just That's why women question you if you treat them too well. They're like, "Um, have you seen my life?" Be here dying alone. Yeah. And she would still She's still hot enough to get some takers. So don't don't have a revenge fantasy cuz women just like for example I know people just tell me their dating stories right because of who I what I do. So what happens is every guy has like got a sweet spot that he knows he just can run through. For example, um there's one person I know in a major city and he said that he started dating 40 year old women after his divorce because I think he's 60s maybe and he's like you know what it was terrible these like they would have all these expectations and he's like what I found was I just need to run through the 50year-old women because they don't they have a little money they've recovered from their divorce and their dreams have died and they just get right to it. So the women just graduate into the next like you could say alphas or guys who have figured out a play that works like you know because some guys like their play is single mothers they just run through the single mothers some guys you know their play is like Asian women and they have a couple things with the Asian you know some guys it's white women so for example this guy front I mean he's just running through the 50-year-old women they get their sex they can go back and live in in their house with the money they got from their ex-husband. They're chilling. They're good.

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So controversial to date as a single mom. I actually don't think it's controversial. I think people are just like weird on the internet. And if you've seen the argument, maybe it's just on my for you page because I'm a single mom, but um if you've seen the argument of people going back and forth saying you're weird if you're dating as a single mom, don't feel weird. You're allowed to date. You're allowed to go out with your friends. You're allowed to go to the gym. You're allowed to do It's just so funny seeing again the women come after women who are single moms dating. First of all, they make him sound like, "Oh, let your body heal. select your, you know, can you not go 5 minutes without man? Who said who said in this argument that people were like doing that on dates? Like, so you guys just out of yourself? Like, you can't you can't keep it in your pants for more than five freaking minutes. I can go on a thousand dates and that's like not even something that enters my mind. So, all the people like, "Ew, ew, ew, ew, you can't go to dinner. Ew. I got invited to like the best seats at UFC the other night. Ew. No, no. Like, don't. You don't have to do that. Well, yeah. Okay. So, this is the there's a classic archetype of single mom that just doesn't really watch her kids. So, I don't know who is ends up watching them. Hopefully, the dad, but oftentimes the mother. Um, there's someone she pawns them off to, so she could still have a vibrant social life. Yeah. Uh, you can just go on dates, guys. And what about single dads? Are you telling them not to date? No. What about the baby guys that have a girlfriend when their their baby mas are like 4 months pregnant? Are we coming after them? No. Of course not. You guys never go after the men. You never go after the men. Well, the men usually when guys are single dads, they can date because the woman stole the kids. I honestly I don't know why women more women Don't give up custody or at least go 5050. That means half the week you can go be a hoe. Women want to be hoes anyway. You can you can go go 5050. Here are the children. Go be a hoe. Have fun. But women are so jealous of men. So it happens to the dad because the dad's generally a better parent. General, not always. So he starts, you know, um getting closer to the kids and then boom. And then the woman gets mad and then she's like, "I'll just take him." And also the argument is like, "How are you going to let how are you going to let another man around your your kid?" Who said that? Who said that? Do do you guys know what a date is? Like you just go out to dinner. You just go you just go hang out. Yeah, but where is he going to smash? I guess you could go to his place, but who's watching the kid? You talk. You don't have to bring your kid. You don't have to, you know, go all the way. I I've gone out with my friends. I've gone out to dinner. I've My kid didn't come with me. Luckily, you know, I have my parents that will watch him. Um I told you. I told you there's someone that's p She's pawning the kids off, too. His dad's not involved at all. But like, there's options, guys. And you don't have to put down single moms for like doing that. That's so mean and crazy. Like, what do you expect? They I literally saw comments like I don't think they should date till their kids nine. What? But then in the same breath and a lot of these women that I saw comments were like, "Well, I'm married, but I just don't think single moms should should go out." What if I told a married person like, "I don't think you should take time for you and your husband to go out to dinner." I spoke to a housewife I know and I asked her how often she went to events or like went out. She's like twice a month or worth like millions of dollars. Yeah, that's psychotic. Oh, sorry. I think she said once a month, actually. Nobody would say that. So, I don't know. I just think this is actually the stupidest argument ever. And you guys are being so mean to women. And I also saw people say I I think it's crazy the people that would date these women, too. What? Yeah. Honestly, I haven't had any issues people, you know, not wanting to go out with me. It's all the same guys that have been asking me out on dates for the last couple years. It's new guys. It's, you know, and this isn't even like me putting myself out there. This is just like like Instagram or like out in public like just life, like no dating apps. So yeah, you're kind of putting down like the entire population when you're like ew. And that's disgusting for the guys that would date them. Dude, it's it's just guys. It's just normal guys. It's not like lower tier of guys that would date a single mom. It's just like the same guys that would date anybody. But I don't know what it is. I don't know if people are like threatened by single moms. I don't know if it's people that are like we just wonder who's watching the children. And usually it's you're selfish. You want to do what you want to do and someone's got to take care of the kid for you. Now it's parents hate their husband or partner and they're like almost jealous that like, oh, at least we don't have to. We get our cute baby and our fun baby and our best friend baby, but then we also can go like out and find somebody that actually treats us.

Okay, what are the comments saying? Girl, there was once a show about pregnant and dating. I didn't date as a single mom. I wouldn't have met my now husband and had two more beautiful children. Um, I don't mean to be rude and the people hating, but it normally is people who didn't get asked out. If anyone is a stable, single, and attractive, then why shouldn't you go out? Are you talking about the mom getting dragged for dating as a single mom when the baby is three weeks old? Oh my gosh.

All right, um, that's all we got today, but essentially single mothers will continue to date and simps will continue to bail them out and they will continue to ask for traditional treatment and they will continue to get it. There's always a guy that signs up because of hopeflation. It's even hit Leonardo DiCaprio. He's dating a 27y old. Anyways guys, like the video on your way out, subscribe to the channel, ring that notification bell, and I'll catch you next time. Bye-bye.