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Sometimes I translate womanes for you guys, take it to the deeper level, sometimes worse. But a lot of times on this channel, the point is to speak up for men because they don't have a voice. And when I've told that to people, you know, in my real life, especially men, they give me a puzzled look. "Speak up for men. What do you mean?"
I even told some movers. Uh, I don't know if I told you guys this story, but um, a couple few weeks ago when I moved, I told some movers what I did because they happened to see the setup and they're puzzled faces. You, you both of them, one was probably, I don't know, 55 in that range and the other one was probably 30, 35, and they both looked equally confused. But I will tell you, the 35-year-old looked very pleasantly surprised. I'm pretty good at reading people. I think he was pleasantly surprised. And then I ran into them again because they were moving somebody else in to the apartment complex. And they made sure to tell me that the younger guy was following my channel now. And he had a big smile on his face, ear to ear, and he said, "It's really good."
Now, it, it's not about me and my channel, and it was another person. What it is, is there's another man that figured out, "Oh, somebody cares. Somebody's standing up for us." Why am I going on about this today? Because we're going to cover a video today entitled "The Disposable Man." A lot of you guys sent it to me wanting uh my thoughts on it. And we have covered books on this channel like "The Manipulated Man" by Esther Var. Yes, YouTube, I said her name. We just, we just did a review of the book. We also did a book called "The Decline of the American Male," which, if my memory serves, was published in 1958. And wow, did that open my eyes to how long this has been going on and how they did it. How and when did this disposability start? Well, we might have to cover that book again, but today we're going to cover uh a doctor's take on the disposable man.
Welcome back to Far From Eden. I know you guys are wondering, how's she doing after she fell last week? I'm doing all right. I, I, I cannot complain. I was raised not to, but I am very grateful. There's nothing broken, etc. But this, it's, it's a little rough. I'm not going to lie, but I don't want you guys to worry. It's, it's rough. Um, I feel like I'm slipping behind on things. I, I have been able to reschedule, I'm pretty sure, all of the Zoom sessions with you guys that had been scheduled for last weekend. So, if some of you were trying to schedule for this Saturday and couldn't figure out why, it's cuz I blocked that day off to reschedule last Saturday. If you don't know what I'm talking about, there is, I have created a way that if you guys want to talk one-on-one with me about anything you're going through or or or anything really at all, you can go to www.calendley, that's C-A-L-E-N-D-L-Y.com/feminism on trial to schedule something.
Anyways, don't forget to like this video, subscribe to the channel if you haven't already. It's really important. This, every video is important to get out, but this video, men need to know. There's so many of you that think that you're the only ones and that you shouldn't feel the way you feel. And that's just not true. It's not true at all. Um, men are not, they're not the ones that generally are like celebrating any kind of victimhood. So, this can be very uncomfortable for a lot of you, and I, I get that. And it's not a bad thing at all. It's actually, um, speaks to your character.
So, this is Dr. Orion I. Pronunciation tricky, but I will have his original, um, video link in the description. And I know a lot of you guys already follow him. And if you don't, you should. He gives a lot of good information. And by the way, we're going to have somebody on next week that is, um, in the similar realm, but more on the describing what the female side is. So, that's a little teaser for you. Wonder if you can guess who it is. I'm super excited about that collaboration. All right, let's get started. I haven't seen this. You guys are going to see a raw reaction and thoughts coming out of me the instant he says what he's saying. And the reason I do that is because it, it adds to the authenticity of it all. I might say something wrong. I might reveal something about like, you know, also trying to address the audio issues and the sinking. So, hopefully, we've got that done. If not, we are working on it. So, so don't give up on me yet.
I figured everything out so far with this. I think I can do that. Okay. I'm Dr. Orion Teraban, and this is Psych Hacks: Better Living Through Psychology. And the topic of today's short talk is "The Disposable Man." This episode is likely going to rub some folks the wrong way. However, I've been sitting with these ideas for quite some time, and I think they're now ready for a wider audience. The message here will be difficult for some men to hear because it may cause them to question their identities in a deep, fundamental way.
Fish can't see the water. When you've been swimming in water your entire life, the element becomes invisible. On some level, it has to become invisible in order to navigate in that medium. And the properties of the water slowly become indistinguishable from the properties of the fish. And we can use the frog analogy where the frog is in the boiling water, but it's not boiling yet. Little bit, little bit, little bit, little bit. So, he doesn't even realize he's being boiled. Well, I would say, and I wonder if the doctor is going to also say that this is how they have gotten to this point with how they treat men. If they just started treating men like this in 1905, instantly we don't notice it. It's been a slow boil.
Today, we're going to be discussing where the fish ends and the water begins. Most men that exist on this planet are brainwashed. I understand that word has some very serious connotations, but try as I might, I haven't been able to find a word that better describes men's predicament. It's a brainwashing that is supported in a million little ways across most cultures, and it's been going on for so long that its existence has been completely naturalized. Many people, including men, even believe that it constitutes a biological difference in much the same way that the social conditions in which women have historically operated have been mistaken for women's natural inferiority. It's such an accepted belief that when I say it out loud, it may not even provoke any surprise or astonishment.
So let me first present a more visible historical contrast to bring this belief into sharper focus. During the Second World War, the Japanese military adopted the practice of the divine wind, which is the literal translation of kamikaze. Kamikaze pilots were young men who were ordered to dive bomb American battleships. They would be killed in the process, but they might also be able to kill hundreds of their enemy in one fell swoop. While they lived, kamikaze pilots were very highly honored, and their memories were celebrated with all the martial pomp the Japanese military could muster.
>> Yeah, it's the part of the trick. It's like, oh, look, we're going to celebrate you. We're going to celebrate you. And then you won't notice that we're just using you and throwing you away and you're expendable. We're going to celebrate it. And nobody figured it out. And I would say that's true for all the people who went to war, went to war, World War I, World War II, particularly World War II, all the celebrations and everything. It's like, oh, wouldn't you want to be one of those soldiers? No. No.
>> Self-sacrifice in the service of others was established as the highest goal to which a man could attain. And who were these others? After all, it wasn't other men who were sheltered on the home front. It was women. This part doesn't get said out loud very often, but it's important to enunciate in order to logically complete the thought. Namely, self-sacrifice in the service of women was established as the highest goal to which a man could attain. Now, if you heard that last sentence and didn't think there was anything strange about it, let me ask you a follow-up question. Do you think the kamikaze pilots were brainwashed? That is, if you took away the propaganda and the indoctrination and the pomp and the honor and the glory, do you think that a healthy, functioning man would volunteer to throw his life away? And if it was voluntary, why would all the propaganda and indoctrination and pomp have been necessary? Survival is kind of the ultimate goal of all living things. To suggest that an individual would voluntarily surrender that goal despite the protoplasmic desire of every cell in his body to continue living without the presence of some overarching ideology, patriotism, love, freedom, the right thing to do is a bridge too far. And of course, it's easier for us westerners to consider the kamikaze indoctrination to be brainwashing because we don't share those cultural beliefs. It seems foreign and alien to us, but it probably wouldn't have to the Japanese at the time, and that in turn implies the existence of beliefs that seem perfectly reasonable to us that might be baffling and incomprehensible to those who do not share those beliefs. However, as we'll see, the more things change, the more things stay the same. In point of fact, men today are still raised to imitate the divine wind. This is the belief under which most men are brainwashed. That men are most useful as sacrifices. And
>> Okay, yes, God, that hit hard. Oh, they're raised to still accept the divine wind. Yes, they are. And in the Christian church, especially Protestant Christian church, evangelical, etc., how is it different? You, you're supposed to, what do they say? Sacrifice for your wife the way Jesus sacrificed for the church, etc. And it just ends up that he's really subservient and it's "happy wife, happy life," and "yes, dear, yes, dear," and just put up with it or what have you. Everything you do is wrong. She's right. It plays out there too in a big, big way. It, it, it's those men are very blinded because it's infiltrated the church. That was never the case before the 20th century, I would say, where it's like, yeah, that's your job. That's your job. Marriage is, you, you sacrifice yourself to that degree. That's, um, yeah.
>> The larger the sacrifice, the more useful they are considered to be.
>> This means that culture in a million insidious ways programs men to die, or at least to be willing to die when necessary so that their sacrifice might be useful to others, and in particular to women. To my mind, this by itself is a large part of why far more men commit suicide than women do. From a very young age, men are groomed for self-sacrifice in a way that women, who are instead instructed in their inherent value, just aren't. And a society in which one gender is systematically programmed to sacrifice for the good of the other, in my opinion, can't possibly be just and can't possibly be equal. Just imagine how different the world would look if young boys were taught that they had inherent worth.
>> Exactly. And that church used to teach that you are made in the image of God. That's not what they teach now. What can you do for women?
>> And that they're incurring harm, physical or emotional, is one of the most heinous transgressions that could occur in society, that they had a right to their lives, and that they weren't bound to do the right thing when the right thing conflicted with the right thing for them. And that they had an entitlement to service and protection from women simply on the basis of their gender. Trust me, the most destabilizing revolution in human history will occur precisely 25 years after we stop programming boys with the kamikaze script. If you're interested in taking your understanding to the next level, I would encourage you to check out The Captain's Quarters by monthly gift. Hope to see you aboard.
>> Okay.
>> Let's be clear. The kamikaze comparison is both literal and figurative. Today, at this very moment, men are being sent to war to die. To die for causes that they may not understand and for reasons from which they cannot possibly benefit. In this country, men are forced to enroll in selective service. A lot of American women don't even know that this program exists, but it doesn't seem to bother anyone.
>> That's true. I, I shared it on the channel, but it was a long time ago. Many, many subscribers ago, and I shared this was maybe two years ago. Two years ago. Okay. I shared that I went into the post office and I saw the pamphlet and I was like, "What? There's a, there's a pamphlet here saying, you know, do the right thing, etc." And I never knew. I, how ignorant can I be? Privilege where I, I had no idea that it was illegal not to sign up, that you wouldn't be able to register to vote, all of these things if you didn't sign up for selective service. And then it was like at 18, and it's like when I found out it wasn't like complete shock. I knew what selective service was. I knew that, you know, men were supposed to sign up and then it ended there. That's disgusting. That's, sorry, Lola's being crazy. That's disgusting of me. It's disgusting that they do that and require that and everything and shame you and propagandize you, but it's disgusting how separated from it I was. Don't need to worry about it. And then I realized how many men actually think about that when there are skirmishes going on around the world, which is my whole lifetime, and it's in their mind, especially now, it should be in your mind, you know, that the boots on the ground in Iran and all of these, you know, things that could pop off. But it's really a, a huge fear, especially if you're of the generation where, you know, your fathers went to war. Even if they weren't drafted, you see what happens to them. It's harder for them to fool us now cuz we have other ways of communicating with each other. But yeah, I wanted to confirm that it is disgusting how little we know about it. And I'm fairly well informed and I have been fairly well informed and I've paid attention to politics my whole entire life. So just imagine the average woman, what she actually knows about selective service and she doesn't think about it at all. Where are the mothers? Where are the mothers that have sons and they're signing their son up for this and they never ask a question? They never say, "Um, hm, I don't know. This is weird." If you have a son and a daughter and you have to sign up selective service for him, and are you also teaching your daughter feminism? Are you also teaching your daughter about, you know, the glass ceiling and the glass ceiling and the uh, the wage gap? Really? Really? Out of the same mouth? Yeah, they are.
>> Men or women? Why? Because we all just kind of believe that, yeah, men are the disposable sex. They're expendable. Like, I wonder how many fewer wars we would collectively have fought throughout history if the belligerents were forced to send women, that is the valued sex, into battle. Like, suddenly the conflict might not be so worth it. You know, however, men are also and more commonly expected to make a figurative self-sacrifice in the service of women. This has to do with giving up on his hopes, his dreams, his interests, his friends, his happiness, and the possibility of happiness if and when any of these things conflict with his duty to his woman.
>> Oh my god, that is so true. That is so true. I'm literally thinking in my mind all of these things that I have seen men in my life do or not do because of her, their dreams, their hopes, their hobbies. How many of you like, for example, like a musical instrument? It seems to be guitar is the, is the one that a lot of you guys talk about. How many of you were doing that and playing guitar or whatever, or and then you've been married a long time so not anymore, but does she still have her hobbies? Like, it really, it takes away, it demands everything of you. And in "The Decline of the American Male," it also talked about how career does that too. You have to be a company man. Why? Why would you have to be? Well, you need the big house, need to keep up with the Joneses. And who wants that?
>> They're told to grow up, man up, and step up. Not when action would be in their own self-interest, but when action would be beneficial to the interests of a woman with whom he is in a relationship. In fact, as I argue in my book, romantic relationships are probably the largest wealth redistribution program that has ever existed in the history of this planet. Whether that wealth is redistributed through taxes and social programs or through the material expectations of courtship and marriage is irrelevant.
>> Wow.
>> Even opting out doesn't protect men. The bachelor tax has just been rebranded as the tax advantages of filing jointly. In any case, single, married, or divorced, men's income is expected to at least partially support women in a way that women's income is never expected to do. This expectation both presupposes and in turn supports the belief that women are in some way entitled to men's wealth. And this is problematic because believing that one is entitled to another person's wealth is equivalent to believing that one is entitled to the labor that created that wealth. And believing that one is entitled to another person's labor is slavery.
>> So think about it this way. When you go to work and you do your job, who are you working for? He's right. The distribution of wealth, the redistribution of wealth. Clearly. Clearly. I've never thought about it that way. I've thought about it in like family court, but I never thought about it just in general. But he's 100% right. You, you would, you're going to work and even if you're a bachelor, even if you have walked away, your labor is going to us. And we're over here like, "I am woman, hear me roar." No, no, there's no roaring. It's "give me your money."
>> It's a partial slavery, to be sure, because it's proportional and indirect, which is why it can functionally operate in plain sight. But I would argue that slavery is so abominable that even partial forms of it should be called out. Now, when this episode goes public, I expect some measure of pushback from the audience. And frankly, I'm going to expect that most of the pushback that I receive will not come from women, but from men. Yeah, unfortunately, the brainwashing is that strong. And by the way, since he just said that, reminds me, please hit like on this video. Go to his original video, hit like on that. Let's get this information out there. The men need to know you're not disposable and you've been treated like that. It's not okay. It's not okay. You've been brainwashed to think that that's your whole reason. It's not. Your reason is not just pleasing us and supporting us and all of that. That is not why you're here. It's not why you were made.
>> This is because there is a not insignificant subset of men that has so deeply identified with this programming that it has been elevated to the status of an ideal sacrifice in the service of women. An ideal that is ingrained in the romantic imagination is not just a duty for these men. It's a source of pride. And the more they sacrifice, the more they feel entitled to feel proud of themselves. And I would argue that this is because these men suffer from a kind of Stockholm syndrome. They have not been able to escape this captive ideology. So they have imbued it with positive, even holy, i.e., divine wind attributes. Not only that, but for every man who believes that his self-sacrifice in the service of women is a source of pride, there is another man who is currently despairing because he has no woman to whom to offer his life as sacrifice.
>> That's how deep this programming is. There are.
>> And that's why when she files for divorce from you and you're so down and so depressed cuz you're trying to figure out what you did or what you didn't do. You know that country song, "It's not what he did, it's what he didn't do." It's like, he doesn't work for you. Stop having men jump through hoops and being the judge of it. We need to work together. Men and women work together. We serve each other. Well, in a, you know, ideal world, we serve each other. It is so off-balance right now. It's so off-balance. And they don't want us to call it out. Do you know what? This is the kind of stuff that YouTube does not like. This kind of stuff. It isn't the dating stuff and, oh, look at her and look at it. It's not that stuff. It's this stuff. It's this stuff. And when I tell you, you were made in the image of God. He made you. You serve him. You don't serve us. That's backwards. That's a reordering of God's natural order. And you don't have to be a believer to see that it's unnatural for, you know, men to sacrifice for women the way they are. It's unnatural. It's more than, it's wrong. Especially when we're over here acting like we're the victims of you. You're over here sacrificing your labor, sacrificing your lives, signing up to at least selective service. They could call me any time and force me to go over there for, for us. I don't think they're going to be able to do it. I don't think. What do the men? What do the men feel like they're going to fight for? What? What are they going to fight for? Their country, their president, their women, the families they don't have or that have been taken away from them? I guess these are young men. So, but I mean, didn't they raise the draft to like 42 or something?
>> Are men right now, right now who are depressed, hopeless, and self-loathing because they do not yet have a beneficiary for his impulse to self-sacrifice. They are soldiers in want of a war.
>> And I don't think we can say the same of the opposite sex.
>> No.
>> Now, this is not about demanding that women be kamikaze pilots as well. I don't want there to be any kamikaze pilots. Like, I would prefer that that role doesn't exist. That said, there are times when a person has to be willing to lay it on the line and to back up one's position with sweat and blood. Otherwise, how much do I truly value my values? However, if I'm going to do that, if I'm going to go all in, I'm going to do so in the service of my dreams and my values and my ideals, not for somebody else's. I reserve that right to myself.
>> Yes.
>> Another person's distress is not necessarily my responsibility.
>> It's not. It's not. And our feelings are not your responsibility. You don't serve us. You serve your values, your ideals, your principles. That's what you serve. And how is that any different than what I said? That's what you're here for. It's, and, and in doing so, if you do those things and it happens to also protect women and families because that was the whole idea in the first place that you had a legacy that you have, you know, children and that she is offering something, but I don't see it. In World War II, I don't see it. You, you might be under the impression that, oh, that was trades and it was so great. No, it wasn't. No, that was soft life. That was an expectation of soft life and us cracking the whip on you to go be a company man and, you know, keep up with the Joneses. And if you're wondering, that I got this from "The Decline of the American Male" and it was published in 1958. It's incredibly hard to find. I'm so lucky that I found an actual book from then. And so all I can say is if you're interested in finding that book, look like in antique bookstores. Just look on eBay. Maybe it's not going to be on Amazon. A lot of these sorts of books are not on Amazon. Men's rights and all that sort of thing. It's, this is what you're not supposed to talk about. In fact, I keep thinking about it because the Southern Poverty Law Center is, you know, being investigated and everything for shady business, what have you. Not going to go into all of that. But I do know that for example, um, like Paul Elum was on there at one point. A lot of men's rights groups are on their list of being a terrorist. If you speak up for men's rights and you say this sort of stuff, that makes you a terrorist. Think about what that gives them the power to do.
To demonstrate how reasonable men suddenly become with respect to this idea, just swap the gender of the person who happens to be in distress.
>> Right?
>> Like, it's possible that I would die to protect Kyle from the other side of town. But before I did so, I would have some questions. Questions like, what did Kyle do to get himself involved in such a dangerous predicament? Why isn't Kyle able to protect himself? Why? What would I hope to gain from fighting his battles? And why do I feel motivated to protect Kyle from the consequences of his decisions? What's more, I don't think I would feel particularly guilty for not getting involved in Kyle's situation depending on the answers to those questions. However, turn Kyle into Carla, and the situation feels much different.
>> Oh, yeah.
>> Throw the possibility of honor into the mix, and you're off to the races. In my estimation, that kind of high-sounding language is poor recompense for a life cut short. In any case, when men do feel guilty for not getting involved, when like Cain, they feel ashamed that their sacrifice has been rejected by women as insufficient, that's the programming speaking. And the solution is for men to recognize it as such and to turn away from death and sacrifice and toward life and abundance and prosperity. Like, I am going to take the radical position that my life is no less valuable than a woman's.
>> How dare you? You sound like a terrorist, doctor. Are you a terrorist? Because you said such a controversial thing. Can you believe that? That is controversial. That should wake you up. If nothing else does, think about that for a second. Stew on that for a second. That statement that he just said is what will maybe get this whole video demonetized. I don't know yet till I upload it. I, that's the reality of it. This is the message they don't want out there. This one, not the hypergamy. You can't talk about nature. You can't talk about our nature. That's another thing you can't talk about. But you also can't talk about this. You can't talk about that men are valuable. Try to say that to a woman, too. Like when I've said that to women, well, women blah blah blah. Can you stop talking about women for a second and all the great things or how can we just say men are valuable and stop throwing them away, even if it's just not the worst scenario? Anything like he said, this is why men unalive themselves because one, they've given everything they have and it's never enough. It's never going to be enough. That's the thing. It's never enough.
>> Or that my hopes and dreams are any less valuable than a woman's. I like my life.
>> I'm just going to say that those hopes and dreams kind of built Western society. So, there's that. Maybe we should, maybe as women, it would be smart actually to let the men follow their agenda. Let the men, you know, and see how I'm saying the language, let them, let get out of the way. Stop being used. Wouldn't that mean that the state would be using us to get you to do the divine wind thing? That's what I've been saying. State uses us to attack you and throw you away. Two reasons. It's advantageous to them if they want a war somewhere. And secondly, because well, your type is the exact type that to start to go, "Wait a second, I don't, I don't think this is okay," and start to ask some serious questions and actually maybe be able to do something about it. And that's all I'll say about that right now. I, I, I really do. I want to live a long and happy and healthy life. I am not convinced simply as an accident of my birth that I should be a vessel of self-sacrifice for the other gender.
>> No.
>> Furthermore, I'm going to argue what most women implicitly understand, namely that a life without honor, which is not the same thing as a life with dishonor, that a life without honor is preferable to a death with honor. Life, my brothers, is a precious thing. Women will say this. They will say, "What do you mean? Men have all the honor. I mean, like they have male privilege and they get all these things and they want to chain us in the kitchen barefoot and pregnant and all that. What do you mean? Men already have honor."
>> And I would argue that the life of a man, literally or figuratively, is not any less precious on the basis of his gender. No.
>> There will be more peace and justice and equality in the world the more this is accepted as true. And as I said, this might be a tough sell for men because men like honor. Men like glory. So do I. However, my argument is that these words are too often used like bullfighter's capes. They lead men right into the sword. For instance, many men would proudly die for their women. That is no small thing. But just how many of these men would live for them? Like, how many of these men are healthy and they take care of themselves so that they can live for as long as possible, that they can have as many resources and be abundant and share with the women in their lives? How many of them are focused on that versus sacrificing what they currently have? As courageous as it is to die in the service of an ideal, it is often much harder to live in the service of that same ideal.
>> There are many men who are still living, but they're not alive because they're living for her happiness, which you can never accomplish ever. Ever. And what these men might be escaping through their sacrifice is an invitation to an even higher calling. An invitation not to death but to life, to be healthy and virtuous and strong and powerful and abundant and prosperous. Like these are classical virtues, the kind of virtues that existed before Christianity, which functionally argues through the example of Christ that self-sacrifice in the service of others is the highest ideal to which men can attain. My point in
>> Jesus says it's the uh ultimate form of love to sacrifice oneself for a friend. But it's been twisted. It's been twisted, sir. It has been very twisted. That is not calling for this treatment of men. That is not what Christianity expects. Like, I understand that a lot of men's rights people think that, but it's just not true. And I think they think that because of what modern Christianity looks like. And by modern, I mean even the past couple hundred years probably. But that's not what it was, uh, that's not what it was at its inception. And I, I understand that's not what church people are taught, but it doesn't mean it's not true.
>> Closing is not that this is entirely wrong. That's a very good thing. My point is that this ideal can be so easily exploited by others, and that men should be very clear about what exactly they are sacrificing and why.
>> Mhm.
>> Life demands more than death. It's often the harder choice, which is why men can be so loath to choose it. What do you think? Does this fit with your own experience? Let me know in the comments below.
>> Yes. Yes, sir. It does. It sure does. And I'm glad that I was able to add, you know, the female perspective. And it's, it's, I'm always like, dude, I hate to tell you, but it's worse than you think. It's worse than you think. Like I said, like I know what the women will say, and I know that it's, it's impossible. Now, I will also say, don't hate me for it, but the men are brainwashed. So are the women. The women are brainwashed to think that we are the victims and that we are entitled to something. They're brainwashing all of us. It's just that they're using the women to just make make men think that that's honorable to be disposable. It's not. It's not. And it's the, the whole, you know, kamikaze thing, that is, that is the extreme of it. But you're also sacrificing so much of yourselves in your life, in, in your marriage. You have a personality. You have goals. You have hobbies. You have opinions. And your differing opinion from her is not disrespect. It's not abuse. It's a different opinion, and it's at least, at least equally as valuable, but you're told no, it isn't. And you're made to feel like you failed because you didn't, what? Peel your skin off and give it to her? Like, what? What more can we possibly demand from you? And by we, I mean the state. I mean society. I mean other men who are so brainwashed and expect you to do this. Your father may have raised you to think this way because that's what they do. They brainwash people, and then those people pass it on. It's in the schools and everything. I bet you're thinking right now all these things like how they got you. But I hope you realize that, yeah, it's brainwashing, and you are valuable, and it isn't because a woman said so, and it isn't because the state said so, and it isn't because the church told you so. It's because it's inherently true. It's true. It's not based on your accomplishments. It's not based on, you know, how many successes you've had versus how many failures you've had. It's not based on that. You're inherently valuable. And men are never told this and they're never treated like it. I'm so glad he made this video. I'm so glad. And I didn't even think to look at how many people have seen it, but we need to push this out. Push his video out. Hype it up. Like it. Subscribe to his channel. Please hit the like on this video as well. Um, you know, clip it, whatever you want to do. Let's get the information out there and let's find out how much YouTube hates it. That'll be fun.
Anyways, you guys, let me know what you are thinking in the comments. Let me know if I'm off base. Let me know if you disagree or if you agree. So, it sounds crazy for me to tell you what I'm about to say. With everything, but it just means it's all the more, it's, it's, it's that much more needed. And that is, protect your peace, feed your souls. I love you guys. And I'll see you on the next one. Bye.