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[Music] [Music] a [Music] hello and welcome to manifestors. We have a beautifully perfect and small group on the live right now, so this is amazing. And we wanted to dive right in. So, manifestors, where I want to begin the conversation and opening up, we really actually wanted to bring a different context inside of your calls. Because you guys are here to be your own authorities. Like, you're not looking for guidance or suggestions from us, or answers from us. You're looking for a source of understanding and a source of more activation and deeper activation. So, we really wanted to bring in that context and that knowingness and that deeper trust within yourself and to ask questions and go in the direction that you're really needing in this moment, so that we can best support you.
So, I wanted to start with the two realms that I really see manifestors in. And number one is the realm of that good girl. And this can bounce back and forth. You bounce back and forth. So, that good girl, that like, "How will I be accepted? How will I fit in? They're going to think I'm a little bit odd, so I'm just going to dim this down. I'll dial this back. I'll shift the conversation to this." And it ends up feeling very, very alone. You end up feeling very alone in your life, in your relationship, and even in your businesses because you're holding so much back. And for a manifestor, when you're holding that much back, you can't move forward in the big ways that you're really supposed to be moving.
So, we have the role of that good girl identity and that feeling of, "How do I remain in that mask or that energy or that facade of that good girl?" And then we have the opposite end of that, and that is the big rebel. The, "I don't care. I don't give a what. I am going to do my thing. I am going to go in this direction. I it doesn't matter if you come with me or you don't come with me. It doesn't matter if you see me or you don't see me. It doesn't matter if you understand me or you don't understand me. I'm moving."
Both of these are well, the initiator in that second one, that rebel, that wild, that like, "I know my direction and that's where I'm going," is your base energy. That good girl has been that conditioned understanding of who you're supposed to be. Now, there is a sweet spot because your fullest self will actually be able to be that big pusher forward, right? That, that the only design that's actually able to move things forward, to push forward, is you guys. So, you need that energy and that's how you're meant. That's exactly what you're meant to be.
However, that sweet spot of having the right people in your circle, the ones that do understand you, the people where you get to just be like, "And now I'm tired. That was some heavy lifting. And now you've got me, right?" Because we choose each other. It is this energy that if you go full-fledged in that push, push, push, you really are alone. And you're not meant to be alone. You're not meant to do it alone. You're not meant to raise your mission alone. You're not meant to activate alone. You're not meant to download alone. You're not meant to do any of it alone.
But you end up self-isolating because you want to push so far away from that good girl feeling. And oftentimes, asking for help or leaning into someone else feels like you're reverting back to that childhood where it was like, "I need to listen to people, right? I need their, this must mean I need their support." And that push against it where it just feels so, um, internally kind of like fake or like this isn't really who you are. You have to be that person or you have to dim it down.
So, where we want you to go forward is this, um, this grace area, right? This blending of, "How do I remain the most powerful version of me and make sure that I have this collection of people in my world that are my people?" And that's going to come from that softer energy and that ability, like I said in the video, to, um, have those bigger conversations, to allow people into your world, to open up this, this realm of trust. And when you start to do that in the most important places in your life, you get to actually be the highest version of yourself because you have people that can take the things that you're not supposed to be doing. And your energy just goes up and up, or stronger and stronger. And you're able to tap into these deeper inner knowings or these downloads. And you activate you being active as a channel in order to bring the next movement, mission, idea, concept forward.
So, this idea of doing it all by yourself is not your reality. It's not how you're born to be. It's not who you're born to be. And it is not you at your highest potentiality in alignment. Your highest definition of self is the right people. Now, when you're fearing this version, this really authentic version, you will dim down or you will again do things that will bring in the wrong people. That kind of, um, take you to this point of like, "I told you so," within yourself, right? "I told you so. I always have the wrong people in my, in, uh, my corner. It's the wrong ones." That is actually just you playing less than who you're supposed to be. It's that self-fulfilling prophecy where it's like, "I knew I couldn't trust anybody. H. I knew I'm going to have to do this by myself. Oh, I knew that person wasn't strong enough to hold me, or that team wasn't strong enough to hold me, or my clients don't really get what I'm saying when I go all in."
When you actually allow all of that out, but do it with mutual respect, because for you guys, the highest form of like recognition, or your love language, let's say, is respect. When you feel wholeheartedly respected, everything is soft in your life. You get to be soft. Everything feels safe. You can trust people because that respect is filled. And then you don't need to push against. And you don't need to go into that rebellious energy. And you also don't need to be fake. You don't need to be that good girl. You don't need to be a version of you that is not accurate, true, or even who you desire to be.
So, where we want to lead this conversation, and Melanie is going to jump in, is is really opening you up to this bigger idea of, "Now, how do I hold that respect for myself? How do I attract that level of respect in my world? And how do I hold that level of respect?" So, this is going to be in your loving relationships, in your business, your team, um, friendships. And again, it's not about how many people, it's about the right people. So, how do you become the highest version of yourself as a manifestor, as a thought provoker, as the one who's trailblazing in your world? How do you hold that energy of, "And I attract people that respect me, and I hold the energy, the capacity, and the growth to to be in that center point of respect?" You only get the respect when you're able to fully hold the respect of other people, right? When you are the version of you that, of course, people would respect you. Your identity is that. Your standards are that.
So, one of the things that is so wild is that the manifestor design type, to me, is the one I wish more people would be in. And it's always the one where less people show up. And I think it is because of that, like, "I'm the one that informs people here. I'm not here. I don't need your, your, you. I don't need another person to put me in a box. Don't tell me what I should do. Don't tell me what I need to do. Like, I don't want to know that." And so, what I wish manifestors knew is that that's not at all what we're here to do with you guys. We're not here to tell you who you should be. As a matter of fact, what we want to help you do is strategize world domination. Because ultimately, manifestors are the design that doesn't need to wait for an invitation or, uh, wait to respond. Like, there is, you don't need to wait for other people.
And so, although that is amazing, it's also very confusing because the majority of the population always has to take consideration of other people. So, when you come in with your very pure way of being that does not need to wait for other people, a lot of people misunderstand that. Like, you don't care about them. You don't value them. You don't think they matter. And so, they experience your very existence as a rebellion against them. "If you cared about me, you would have told me you were going there. You would have invited me there. You would, don't you care that I don't want to do that?" But, but I didn't tell you whether I was going or not. You're just decided to do it without me. That was that, we talked about doing that together. Now you're just going there without me. Like, there's a lot of, "You don't care about me," energy that comes towards the manifestor that's honestly really frustrating and angering for a manifestor because, like, "It's not about you. It's about me. Didn't you get the memo? I have huge things to do. I, I don't have a lot of time." And you're waiting. I don't know what you're waiting for, but I don't have that waiting thing. I want to move. I want to go. I want to find people who want to move. I want to find people who want to go.
And the fact is, because they don't, like, most manifestors don't know they're manifestors. Because when there is an invitation to come strategize world, you know, manifest a world domination, they're like, "I don't want another person telling me what they think I should do. I don't want to hear it." So, the big picture here is that how do you know that you're a manifestor when the whole world doesn't know what that means? And how do you use that to your advantage? That's really what we care to talk to you about during this session. It's not so much what do you need to do, it's more what do you need to know about other people's not knowing of you? What do you need to know about the difference that you are as opposed to everybody else? That's going to help you get people on your side in all of this.
Because ultimately, like, 9% of the world is a manifestor, but you're not going to bump into a lot of people like you. And most of them are so mad. And they've just, they've just become rebels. They don't, they've forgotten they've got a cause. They're rebels without a cause. Like, they just don't know. They don't think it's worth it anymore. They've fought with people for too long to to go anywhere. Now they're just sick of asking for permission. And they're, they don't realize they're supposed to initiate their own things. They feel like everybody tells them no, so they've just given up on the whole thing.
So, the, the manifestors that continue to go to rebel against the status quo and continue to say, "I don't need anybody's permission. I'm doing this no matter what. I have a vision." Those people, they end up having their own businesses. They end up being the visionaries, the, the ones that really trailblaze, like Amy said, like they don't wait for anybody. They just go. And so, those are the people we're most interested in talking to, are the people who really do want to do massive things on the planet, but they keep bumping up against other designs that are quite frankly infuriated by the way you behave because it doesn't feel fair, or it feels too fast, or it feels not the way they would have done it. And you're having to face conversations that you're like, "I don't even want to be talking about this. Your, your need for me to be a certain way, of slowing me down, I, I don't know what to do. I don't know what to say. Like, I don't, I don't know what to say to please you. I just want to go and do my own thing."
So, what, what I found with my manifestor clients is the ones that really understood the concept of informing, it changed the game for them. Because it's such a difference to inform someone versus is asking for permission. Except people don't really know that. So, most people don't know the difference between, "I'm, I'm just going to let you know this is what I'm doing," and, "Is it okay with you if I go do this?" So, when manifestors are informing people, they're not asking for permission. And a lot of them, when, when they first find out about that, "Oh, you're supposed to inform people," they're like, "I don't want to ask anybody for permission." Because the story of my life is, I ask, and the answer is no. And so, I just don't even want to do that. Especially as a grown adult, it's like, "I, it triggers wounds of childhood." Like, "I'm just going to go out on my bike." "No, you can't. It's 7:00 at night. You're coming in. You're doing your homework." "I'm just going to take, you know, this this book to bed with me." "No, you're not. You're going to bed. You're done for the day." "I'm just going to go out for a walk." "No, you're not. You're five years old. Sit down." Like, "You're not going to do the thing you think you're just going to go do."
But the thing is, manifestors aren't really put on the planet to be parented. They're not really put on the planet to be led. They're not really, they're put on the planet to be built up, to be the change the world needs. And because most people don't know what a manifestor is, they don't know how to parent a manifestor. So, they always think that their children are very hard to handle and misbehaving and not listening to the rules. And it's like, "Well, yes, that's their superpower. How are you supposed to change things if everybody follows the rules?" That's literally the, the big conundrum of the manifestor. "I don't want to break the rules. I'm not here to upset anybody. I'm not a bad person. I'm not trying to not listen to you." That's not it. I just genuinely know that I'm supposed to be doing something else than what you're telling me. And that's such a, an important piece of the knowing.
So, as you move forward in your manifestor energy, knowing that most people don't know that you don't need to respond to anybody, gives you an edge. Because their lack of confidence in themselves and their actions, they're so used to it. And they're so used to seeing it in everybody else. That as soon as you show up in your, like, activator energy where you don't need permission, you immediately stand out as a leader. People watch you move and they're like, "I want what this person has. Like, how do they have that much confidence? How are they able to just take action on the things? How do they do that?" Like, "I want more of that." You don't need to really try hard when you're in your full alignment. People notice you. It's hard not to. You just have this energy about you.
Manifestors have the biggest aura. Like, your energy field goes the furthest out from anybody's. People feel you from far away with much less effort than anybody else. You don't need to generate, generate, generate. You don't need to be validated or seen. Literally, you're like, "I'm here." And that sometimes people love, sometimes people don't love. But when you know for a fact that you are here to initiate, to move people forward, and to inform, if you were to move away the thought that you are in any way, shape, or form asking for permission, but that you informing people makes them feel like you care about them.
What we realize is that the actual greatest gift manifestors have right now is social media. When my manifestor clients have understood social media, it has been the greatest possible thing. Your, your job is to not care about likes, not care about the algorithm, not care about views, not care about comments. People are watching you and they're not saying a freaking word. They're stunned. They're puzzled. They're triggered as hell. And they are just watching. And when they're ready, they're going to buy. They're going to buy. They're going to buy. They're going to buy. They're going to buy. But what you can't be doing is trying to do something you think they'll be happy with, something you think they want, something you think they'll buy, something you think they'll digest. None of that works. You can't even work with the algorithm. You have to be against the grain most of the time.
Because it's going to come to you like a feeling. "I've got a post. There's something I want to say." Anything you ever say on social media needs to be not, "I have a good idea," or, "I should post today," but, "There is something I have got to say. And if I don't say it, I'm literally going against myself. Like, I have to say it." Those are the posts that are going to get the most energy. So, you can actually work a lot less than most people because your work is so potent and it resonates so loud when you do post it. But you might not realize that because it doesn't always get the validation and the, the likes. People are literally stunned and and and triggered.
So, what helps the manifestor is to actually claim that you are here to do big things. That you are here to inform them about things that you know that no, nobody else knows. That you are connected to something that you can't explain. And that staying connected to your content, be having you as a guide, having you as a mentor, being in business with you, being in your project, being in your thing with you, means people have to surrender to what they're normally seeing in life. It's informing people how to interact with you. Which, honestly, in a human interaction, is a very odd thing. And is not something you typically say to someone. "Hi, I'm Melanie. I would just like to inform you, I'm a manifestor. I'm, I'm not the same as everybody else. I'm not going to ask you for permission. Sometimes I'll just get up when you don't expect me to and go do something, and you'll think I'm rude, but I'm not. I just got an urge. And also, I'm going to do this and this and this." And people are like, "Uh." Like, you wouldn't so much easily do that in front of a person. But online, you can totally do that.
And so, if some of you already give people a warning like, "This is how you handle me as a person in real life," that's cool. But what's amazing is on social media, people almost expect you to do that. "Here's how you interact with this page. Here's what to expect. Here's what you will get from me. Here's what you won't. Here's what to consider when you're reading my comment, my posts. Here's what to consider when sending me a private message. Here's what to consider. Let me just teach you how to use this page. How, what to think about when you're doing this and this." You actually very often can inform people about how to utilize the space, which changes their listening of you.
Ultimately, throughout time, the people who've led like the greatest movements, good and bad, were manifestors. Like, the people who led wars and stuff were manifestors. They were like, "People, this is what you're going to do." And people are like, "Okay." Like, that's the kind of power manifestor has. Now, this is not what we're hoping you're going to do within this program. What we're hoping is that you're going to understand the power of your voice and lead some sort of revolutionary change about something, whether it's, you know, relationships, or or business, or money, or nature, or well-being, or some sort of technology advancement, or whatever it is that you're passionate about. But that you're not going to go on the back burner with what you're doing because all your Manny Gen friends are having a million ideas and you just want to focus on the one thing and they're distracted. Or all your generator friends are, you know, working and and needing to make sure that the, the sacral hit is there, and you're like, "I don't know what you're talking about. I've already done it." Uh, you know, like, you're not, you're not waiting like everybody else is waiting. And that is important for you. And if people know that that's coming, they'll be able to engage with you a lot easier.
So, I'm going to give Amy the, the, the space because I've been talking a lot, and we'll kind of go back and forth. Oh my gosh, I love that so much. So, I wanted to come in with, um, to piggyback on that, is kind of like the social cues that you guys don't necessarily pick up because you are self, um, lack of a better word, but self-involved, right? Like, you really are in your zone of like, "What do I feel? What do I want? What do I, what am I doing next? What am I doing now? What am I picking up?" You're kind of like, your antennas at the top are like constantly grabbing stuff from source, downloading, channeling, things are coming through. So, your mind is very busy. There's a little less of like that social. You're picking up on body language and no, you may be a very energetic being, right? You connect with somebody's energy. We like, "I feel the vibe here," or "I feel something this," or "I feel that." But you're not necessarily constantly picking up on like a, a social cue, which can also make you feel even other, right? Even more like you are alone. You are the only one that is like this. And again, reverting to, "How do I fit in now?"
What's really important in building your own self-awareness, and where I want to bring this to online, is provoking versus activating and your community. So, there is just naturally, you are born to provoke people. You will provoke people. You will definitely make them feel a certain way. And some of them will be the complete opposite feeling of you, right? Of where you're going, of what your mission is, and what your idea is, and what your thoughts are. And others will be like, "Oh my gosh, you just activated me. We want to move." Your self-awareness, your energy, and what you post online, in order to build the right community, to more activating content. We want your conversations. You can take this into person, into social events, into wherever you are going, activating conversation. There's a huge difference between that provoking conversation where either somebody feels like, "Okay, you're not paying any attention to me," or like, "Where is that coming from? Where that was, we were not having, we are not having the same conversation. I don't know where you're going with that, but that is not the same conversation of what were I thought was going on here." You are provoking them to feel a certain way. Your energy is big. It is filled the moment that you walk in the room. And it can be very intimidating, which again, provokes, provokes insecurities in people, provokes, provokes projections onto you, provokes immediate thoughts, conditions, doubts in people's minds. So, imagine in person and online, you're walking in, and immediately you're like, "I'm immediately provoking." That's just who I am. And provoking, my job is to now bring this with grace into activating a community, activating my community.
So, there's a softening here. And this is where manifestors, specifically female manifestors, like lean into that femininity, which just rockets yourself, your life, your magnetism, your businesses, your clients, your relationships. And now, instead of being like, "Okay, nobody gets me," you're like, "I have a whole community of people. Like, we are linking arms. This is it. Like, I dreamt of this moment." It's coming from that activating community concept. So, when you start to lead with awareness of this, your post, the way you show up, the what you're putting out, your launch of something, your conversation with somebody, uh, a one-to-one client interaction, somebody asking you for a link or, "Tell me more about this." Instead of you just being like, "Well, you know," and that provoking energy, that like, "Uh, don't you know how to figure that out? Don't you know how to find that? You're bothering me for what?" You go into an activating community feeling. And this deepens relationships and gets the people that jump on board with you from that feeling are like lifers. They're there for life. They, if they are not in your business world, they are raving about you anywhere and everywhere. So, all of a sudden, you have people coming in and they're like, "I heard about you from so and so." It increases this is your, um, like our, I'm trying to say, ROI, ROI, whatever that is. It's coming in, coming in, coming in, coming in from this feeling of this activating community.
So, when you start to write, when you start to connect with people, you soften for a minute. And this takes again, built-in awareness. Because either again, you're playing this good girl zone, we like, "How do I fit in?" That's definitely not activating community, right? That's blending in. You're blending in. When you are on the other side of that, of just being a provoker, "I am a rebel. I am a rebel without a cause." And I am here to rebel. When we lean into this, all of a sudden, you're like, "I get to do the thing that I want to do. I get to lead this mission. I get to provoke some interesting thoughts that are meaningful and have this incredible conversation. I get to activate people, bring something to them that they never thought about before. Go into these deep conversations that are important to you. The missions that you're leading behind the scenes, what you're bringing to your community online, right? Activating your community." And that's what builds the community. It brings the people into you. And those people, once they get into your world because of that, they do not, they, they won't leave. They become so loyal. And it's, it's an incredible way to grow. And also honors and respects your energy as a manifestor who has a lot of energy to go and then also needs that like recoup time where it's like, "Okay, all of a sudden, you need seven days off, and I am off, right?" And people love that. When you start to again, bring that into community building, "How do I still build a community when I don't need to be on? I don't need to be in a launch. I don't need to be on calls. How do I build the softest, most graceful community where people are still activated, but just on a completely different chapter inside of my book?"
And another really important piece of this puzzle is that most of the time, you've had to fight to be allowed to do what you want. And so, there's this like already belief that you're always going to have to fight from that beginning authority in your life of someone having authority over you and being allowed to say, "No, you can't have that. No, you can't do. You can't go there. No, you can't. No, you can't." You've got this built-in belief that you're always going to have to struggle to get what you want. And so, it's almost like you walk into the space with an anger that's already present and an expectation that if you don't take charge, it's just not going to work. And so, a lot of manifestors come off very bossy and very like dictatorial. And that's where we, this is why I want to really have this conversation of what I'm going to say right now. And it relates back to what I, I first said when I came on. Our desire is to really help you understand how you have so much freaking power. It's unbelievable. If you understand what the opportunities are that you have. Because here's the thing, what I explained before is that manifesting generators and generators and projectors all are waiting for something. You don't need to wait. But you know what this means? It means they're waiting for you. You're the one that gets to say things. People go, "Uh-huh," or "Uh-uh," to you. You're the one who gets to give some of these invitations. If you put your guard down, and you put the fight down, and you actually learn to communicate. Because this is the, the, the core power of the manifestor is that throat center, the ability to communicate with your voice, to manifest with your voice, to actually have all that power come from your, your throat center and be like, like this is, "I'm speaking change into the world."
And so, when you already believe it's not going to work, and you already believe people are going to fight you, and you're already bossy, a, even like as a, a manifestor, as we know what manifesting is to be, what are you going to end up manifesting? You're going to end up manifesting battles. You're going to end up manifesting people that are pushing against you. You're going to end up manifesting complicated conversations where people don't like it. So, if you actually understand your power, you get to invite people without waiting for an invitation. You get to tell people, "Hey, here's my idea," without waiting to respond to something. You're the actual initiator. You're the one most other designs are waiting for. Your power, your, your, your ideas, your movements, a lot of the time end up being brought to life by the generator. And the projectors are seeing all the problems in it. Like, as a team, it's extraordinary. And the manifestors often set the, the things in motion.
So, what I have found, I had a boyfriend that was a manifestor, and I, I contemplated this in hindsight, how this happened. Because this is the only person in my life that ever made me do things that I would have never done for anybody else. And like, I'm going to give you an example of this. There's one winter, he said to me, "I really, I'm stuck." He was studying this thing for finances, and he was like, "I'm trying to study this. I love you, but every time you talk, come interrupt me, I get really mad. And I'm trying not to be mad. I care about you, but I really want to study on this." And then he got really upset. And he didn't often get emotional, but this time he got emotional. And I was like, "Do you want to just tell me everything? I can feel like stuff's pent up." And he just started naming everything that was not satisfying him, that was not making him happy. Like, he just informed me of everything. And he was like, "It's stressing me that there's so much snow on our back porch, and I'm afraid that it's going to cave. Did you know that that much snow on a back porch can actually make the wood rot and it can break it? And I've been freaking out about that. I've been freaking out about this and this and this." And he told me everything. And I felt like after he'd said it, he felt better. And so, I said, "Okay, go study your things. I promise I won't bother you."
And then, I don't know what happened, but my generator, my Manny Gen sacral authority just said, "Uh-huh," to everything he wished would be done. I shoveled the freaking balcony. It took me three hours. I'm not even joking. One of the things that frustrated him was like, he missed the feeling of just being able to open the fridge and have lunch. I went out to the store, I bought all the ingredients, I made something like three pounds of soup and put it in every single Tupperware that we could have. I fixed every problem. You guys, every single problem. In pure Manny Gen, like, I'm cooking, and I'm shoveling the balcony, and then I'm fixing the tile in the bathtub, and I'm good. And I've changed the light, and I've also changed the oil in your car, and your front tire is no longer flat. And I did this, and I also did that. And like, I did everything. And he came out of that room, he had studied for his thing, and I had done everything. And our relationship went so well for a short time because everything was just perfect. We were not meant for each other, and we were the worst, worst, worst. But when I look back in hindsight, I've often wondered why we went into that magical zone during that one time. And all that happened is he informed me, and manifestor energy, what he genuinely cared about. And I responded in Manny Gen energy to what I genuinely wanted to fix for him. That's the power of the manifestor.
If he had told me, "You go shovel the balcony," I would have said, "Uh-uh." If he would have said, "Make me soup," I would have said, "Uh-uh." And he usually would do that. Why is this like that? "Uh-uh." "I wanted, I wanted to go do this." "Uh-uh." "I want this." "Uh-uh." So, I made him really angry because the way he spoke to me made me just want to "uh-uh" everything. And I made him mad because everything he wanted, he got "uh-uh." He didn't know how to communicate to me. And he only got sacral "no"s from me. And so, when you learn and you understand like the way I communicate to these people engages their sacral. The way I say what I'm going to say is where their "uh-huh" comes from. And if I say it this other way, an "uh-uh" comes. So, it's not like, "What am I allowed to do and what am I not allowed to do?" It's like, "Can I utilize this genius to actually activate the yes energy in people?" Because I don't need to wait for anything. I don't need to be invited. I don't need anything. I can do whatever I want. So, how about I learn how to communicate with people and get the responses I want? Let me tap into that yes energy. All the compliments. Oh, I'm in my manifestor energy right now. My throat's lit up. I've got the, I've got the head, the crown going. Anyway, so this is the thing to start thinking about and to contemplate as you're contemplating world domination for the most wonderful reasons. Is like, if I'm the leading energy that everyone is responding to, then can I let go of my story that I'm always going to get a "no"? Can I put down the need to boss people? And can I instead open my, my genius and see like, who, who do I have around me? And how do I speak to these people in a way where we actually are going to activate change in this world? How do I invite the projectors? How do I present things for the generators and the Manny Jens to respond to? I am the one. Like, I have it to do that. So, let me, let me do. Let me figure out when I'm informing a way that's going to get me what I desire. And that puts you in a much stronger position of power.
Oh my gosh, that was so good. So, I want to bring that in because as females, I can only imagine how that conversation could have gone or potentially has gone for female manifestors. Imagine you're so annoyed and you are angry, and all of that anger is being built up. And your partner's like, "What's wrong?" And you're like, "Nothing. Nothing." "What's wrong?" Oh, when you want to know what's wrong, how many times of all of a sudden you have gone into, "Provoke. I am provoked, and I am about to provoke you. Here is my list of everything that's wrong." Of things that can't necessarily be fixed, right? Melanie, that moment was so perfect because they weren't, they weren't about you, from the sounds of it, but they were about fixable moments. I can only imagine. And what happens for so many manifestor females is that urge to just be like, "I want you to feel all of the anger that I am feeling. So, I am going to make sure through my words that you feel as angry as I feel right now." This also happens online through online messaging. Sometimes a manifestor will get so angry and just go post something or say something that is a match in that provoking energy to other people feeling that same feeling of anger.
So, the processing of anger is obviously so important. And then again, think of community, think of unity, think of connection. There may be, "I need to be by myself," instead of, "Oh, this is the opportunity where I get to make you feel like a match of how I feel." Enp, that's what's wrong. So, really looking at you and your relationship. And what I actually wrote down is, um, "What are you afraid to say?" What are you afraid to say? Like, what's really on your heart? Because if we actually go through that list of, it's probably not really those things. It's probably something that's very vulnerable and sensitive on your heart. How you have felt avoided, how you have felt, um, you know, out of your power, like you have felt like there's no communication there, you felt like there's no intimacy. Whatever the thing is that you are feeling, it's actually so much deeper than that list of. So, there's always something that you are afraid to say. And mostly because it's been that rejection throughout childhood where there's no safe space to say something. "I don't know how to." And it just ends up into this big mess. And I didn't even mean for it to be like that. And I felt that at the beginning, and now I'm feeling a million times worse because now everybody's crying, right? And things feel like your fault. They feel like your fault.
So, when we come back to this big mission and coming forward and and building these relationships that are so loyal and so unique and so special to you and feel like that trust factor is a million percent there, you have to come deeper into yourself and say like, "What am I afraid to say?" And in that contemplation, "How do I say it in a way that it's not anybody else's fault, but I'm able to tie this back to my mission, to my movement, to my big thinking, to my dream, to my vision, to where we're going? Where we're going?" You can use that, "Where we're going," for for your relationship, for your parenthood, for your business, for your team, for your clients, for your online presence. "Where are we going?" And often times, that fear in your heart is going to be the thing that when you get it out, and when you build that courage to say it, like, "That's the mission. That's the missing piece." And it's not about again, people commenting in. It's about, "Oh, I'm in your world. Let's go. We're here." That is the piece that that brings people in to be like, "Okay, I get you. I get you." And that's again, that feeling that you're afraid to, that won't happen. They won't get it. So, you find a way to to bring in all of these other items that aren't really the root of it, instead of just saying what you're afraid to say.
So, again, in your building of this and bringing this to the bigger context of your business, is like, let's contemplate like, "How do you say it? What are you afraid to say? What are you afraid to do? What are you afraid to show?" Bring this into your relationship. "What's what's going on where I feel this anger and what am I afraid to say that truly comes from my heart that brings the closeness together that I'm afraid to feel like I am the only one feeling this? I'm the only one thinking this. There's no solution. And now I'm going to be even more alone than I already feel." Because those are the moments that create the community, the unity, the feeling of other people being like, "Oh, wait, you do need me. You do love me, right?" And that's that mutual respect that builds and builds and builds where your community feels just as valuable as you feel to them. Your partner feels just as valuable and respected as you feel to them, right? We're meeting eye to eye. Even though you are the mover, you are the one going first, you are the one going forward, you are the one bringing this to life, people want to feel like they're there with you, not that they're an outcast or not that they're pushed to the corner.
So, I think bringing that in is like, it's really that deeper reflection for you guys. Like, "What are you actually afraid to say that you know is the thing you need to say?" And I think a big part of this is like, "I also, I'm afraid that if I say it and I get a no, I'll be mad." It's like, "I'm already expecting that I'm going to get pushed back, so I don't, I don't want to say it." Or, "I, I want people to, I want people to come with me and do the things, but I feel like if I say this, I'm going to lose these people. If I say this, they're not going to like me. And then I'm going to lose my followers. I'm going to lose my potential clients. I've got to be careful as to not lose people." And so, that disempowered feeling again, triggers the, the past. It triggers being a little kid and being like, "I'm controlling my behavior and I'm controlling my identity so that other people like me and don't leave me or don't punish me or don't, whatever it is."
And so, the idea for the manifestor is to actually see, it's if you could imagine where the authority line is on the planet, like where, where is it? Who are you responding to? Who are you waiting for? Who are you? You're actually only, when you're a little kid, you have an authority over you. But as soon as you're an adult, you have, there is no authority. Like, it's God. That's it. It's you and God. And so, there is nobody that you have got to please. Your, your most important job is to not play small from the beginning. And that's the hardest thing. Because some people do that. Manifestors will do that. They'll start a little smaller. They'll start trying to build something while still speaking a little smaller. They'll constantly be met with their fears that people are going to leave them. Playing small, playing small, until this moment where it feels like everything has got to break down, and they lose everything they built on not real foundations. Everything that they built trying to be liked, trying to be accepted, trying to be palatable, that eventually breaks. And then they have this like, like, "I'm unleashed" moment. And I'm never going to hold myself back again. And then there's this like big breakthrough in their lives where they realize, "Okay, I'm not, I don't need to ask permission from anybody." And there's two ways that that goes. It either goes with anger, and it's like burning everything down to the ground, or it comes with a huge awareness of their power and their right to be themselves. And then a leader emerges.
And so, if you can imagine, you, you're allowed to say everything. It's just, you're going to create something for someone to respond to. So, instead of seeing it like, "They won't like me," if you understood your power, really, you would zoom up above the authority line. You would, you would say, "It's not about them liking or not liking me. It's about, am I going to get a uh-huh?" It's more strategy than avoidance. It's more productive and proactive than defense and tactics to avoid feelings. It's like, "Will, if I present this this way, am I going to get a uh-huh?" No? Okay. I need to go meditate. I need to go pray. I need to go for a walk. I need to go scream naked in the forest. Like, I need to get this energy out of me. I need to get this sacred rage out of the way. Because when I go back with my urge, which will come because they always do, when I get this next urge, I want to make sure that as I present it, I get an "aha." Because that's my job. My job is to present with an urge and get an "uh-huh." Present with my urge and get an "uh-huh." And and get the projectors to say, "Oh, you know what? I'm in." And get the Manny Jens and Jens to say, "Uh-huh. Yeah." Like, if you can get that, there's nothing that you can't be creating.
So, a lot of times in business, what works really well for manifestors are challenging other people to to do things and creating movements. So, rather than getting them to choose you, or rather than getting them to come and just learn from you, have this like, "I'm going to, when you work with me, we're going to have challenges. You're going to go and you're going to take action. I'm going to really activate that action inside of you. I'm going to tell you what you're going to go do. You're going to come back. We're going to create a movement." And a lot
Of people are basically following through on what you're informing them on the planet. You're watching your vision be made manifest through people who are saying, "Uh-huh, I'm going to give that a shot." "Uh-huh, yeah, I like that. I'm going to try it on." Or, "Yes, I accept this invitation. I'm going to try it on."
So, a lot of challenges, a lot of putting invitations out there and saying things for people to respond to. Not just trying to make it like magnetizing people like a Manny Jen or working hard enough that someone recognizes your credentials, or trying to see things in people and help them like it. Depending on who raised you, those might be like passed-down traits. But ultimately, your thing is to inform and get people to move and be the and be responsible for a movement where, in your world, people move, whatever that looks like.
Same thing in friendships. Like, when you meet a friend for the first time, don't be afraid to inform them. Like, "This is the kind of friendship I crave. This is what I'm looking for." When you're meeting a partner, it's like, "This is the kind of family life I want to build. This is the kind of life I want to build. This is what I'm looking for. This is what I'm creating. I'm looking for a partner that wants that."
Because when we look at what Amy said, like the "us," the "we," this is what makes the manifestor stop feeling alone. It's when you're so transparent with your mission and people come in because of your mission. You can then consider that there's always an ally in the room with you. You're saying, you know, speaking to entrepreneurs, you're saying, "We are becoming more confident. We are becoming more wealthy. We are becoming more wise."
We are becoming. You're speaking into your relationship. You're saying, "We are becoming more free. We are becoming more financially free. We have better communication. We are going to have these opportunities." You're speaking to your friends. "We're going to have a good time. We're going to go there." And because they know what your vision is, it's not like, "Whoa, I didn't think that's what we were doing." It's from the beginning, "Yeah, I'm in. Yes, that's what we're doing."
And so, it's a lot easier to inform people. And you're like, "Oh, by the way, I'm doing this." Because it's like, "Well, that's in alignment with the vision." So people are like, "Uh-huh." "Oh, and by the way, I did this. And by the way, I bought this. And by the way, I booked this. And by the way, I did this. And I said this. And I chose this." And it's like, "Oh yeah, that's totally in alignment with the mission."
And so, it's not so hard to create content. It's not so hard to create conversation. It's not so hard to create connection when you're with the right people. And that's what Amy was saying at the beginning. Like, it has to be the right people. Because you inform the wrong person that you did the right thing for your mission, and they will say, "No, I, what do you mean? That's not the mission I'm on." And you're like, "Well, I should have informed you that that's the mission you were on."
Because you know you're intertwined with me, and so that means you're on a mission whether you like it or not. And I did not inform you which mission you were on. And you're going to get, "Uh-uh, uh-uh, uh-uh." Which makes you feel mad. And then you feel like you're being controlled. And then those relationships burn and die.
And then you add on top of that, whatever lines and profiles you have. Like, I know Julia here's a 3/5 manifestor. And it's like, the burning down of the relationships is a very common thing for a 3-line. And the feline leadership projections are a very real thing. And you couple that with being a manifestor that might forget to inform in a certain way. And you're getting, "Uh-uh, and you're not this, and we're done." And it's like, "What is happening?"
And so, it's so, it's such a powerful thing when you realize the level of power that you have. And that you were not meant to adapt based on other people's response. You were not supposed to change based on their reaction. Like, my, my boyfriend was a 4/1 manifestor, fixed fate manifestor. And I'm over here as a 3/5 Manny Gen. There is nothing fixed about me. I'd change my fate if I could. Like, there is nothing permanent about me. And he's like, "This is the plan." I'm like, "Great, I changed it." Like, it was for sure not going to work.
So you've got to have the right people. You've got to have the right people. Because it's got to be, "We are on board for the same mission." So I'm not going to upset you by taking action on something before you knew about it. It's more like, you're going to be excited and you're going to want to know how it went. The right people create the right environment, always, for the manifestor. So important.
Yeah, imagine going on a date with somebody and they were like, "Oh yeah, uh, you know, like, I really want five kids." And you're like, "Yeah, okay, cool." And you just kind of, you don't really say, like, "You know what? I have some big business goals. I have some big personal goals. I have some big life goals. Like, I do not want five kids." You just think that in your head. And then all of a sudden, everything else is great. And you're like, "Okay, well, like, maybe I could convince them later that like five kids won't be the plan."
But they thought you were in agreement with the plan. The five kids was very open and transparent at the very beginning. And in your head, you were like, "Okay, well, I'm just not going to say that. Maybe later. Maybe later we can figure this out." And then all of a sudden, your biggest hurdle becomes, "Well, you don't want kids, and they want five." And they were like, "But, but remember our first date when I was like, 'Five kids?' and you were like, 'Cool?' I thought that meant, 'Yeah, you know.'"
And in your head, you're like, "I think I could change his mind later. I think I could figure this out later." There becomes this, um, unintentional, like, not from an evil place or bad place, but there becomes this manipulation tactic that you guys figure out that you're like, "Okay, well, like, if I just get them in this vibe, and then I say this, and then we could probably go from there." Or like, "I heard what they said, but like, I think, I think I could do it differently. I think we could bring this to a different direction."
And then all of a sudden, you get really stuck. And you get really angry because it doesn't align with where you wanted to go in the very beginning. And they create a lot of resistance in you getting to where you want to go. So that person could eventually come around and be like, "You know what? I agree. No kids. Let's do this thing. We're going to be so happy." But it could take you years and years and years of working on that. That person could also be like, "No, after 10 years of us being together, and we could not agree on this decision, I still want those five kids. And I'm going to go have those five kids, whether it's you or not. I wish it was you, but it doesn't feel like this is going to work, right? It doesn't feel like you're coming with."
So as that manifestor, to get really aware that when you're more clear and transparent from the very beginning, you actually have higher chances of going in the direction with the people that really want to be there. So again, imagine you have a friendship or that relationship, and you're like, "You guys plan a vacation together. You're going somewhere." And you're like, "Okay, we're so going. Like, this is going to be the vacation of relaxation. We are hitting the spas. We are hitting the silent spas. At that, like, we are coming back relaxed, glowing, like infused. We are doing that." And the person's like, "I am in 100%." You go do the exact thing that you just said.
Versus, "Okay, we're planning a trip to Miami. Usually, Miami means party and late nights. But like, I think when we get there, I'm going to convince them. Like, okay, we planned one spa a day or one spa appointment. I think we're like, we'll go with it. And for sure, I'll just keep plugging that in. Like, no, no, no. Why, why don't we spend more time today at the spa? Why don't we book tomorrow morning? Why don't we keep going?" The person's like, "No, that wasn't the plan." And you're like, "Yeah, like, you know, wouldn't it feel so nice to get back and just feel so refreshed instead of so exhausted?" And they're like, "Well, I see your point, but like, wasn't really what I thought we were going on vacation to Miami for." So, and you're like, "This is so annoying."
So when you're just so transparent at the very beginning, it's like, "Okay, I get it. Let's do this. We're on." And when you actually think about casting that vision, how easy that becomes. Because again, the right Manny Jens and Jens are going to be like, "Uh-huh, that sounds amazing. I've never been on a vacation where I come back feeling more rested than when I left. Every time I come back as a or as a projector, every time I come back, I feel more exhausted than when I left."
You're inviting. You're casting this vision where people get to say, "Uh-huh, uh-huh," or get to be like, "I never thought about that. That sounds amazing. I would never go do that myself, but since you're, you're bringing it up, yes, please sign me up. Let's do this." You have to be so big in in what that vision is and just speak it. And the right people are like, "Yes, yes, yes." And that leaves so much more peace for you. Because then you're not going to have the ones that somehow sneak in there and they're like, "Well, I thought you're like, well, how did you think that when it literally, I literally said this. This is all what I'm talking about. This is all we've talked about. Where did that come from?"
But it is important to also remember that most people, like Manny Jens, for example, will change their mind. Yeah, their sacral, "Uh-uh," will kick in. They'll be like, "Uh-huh." Then later, they'll be like, "Uh-uh." And so, it is sometimes the in the way that you express things. What I found is like using the actual words, "I want to inform you about exactly what I want for this trip. I want to inform you about exactly what I see for this relationship because I think it's important that you know from the beginning what my intentions are with this."
That's not how a man Jen speaks. They don't want to commit to anything. They'll be like, "Well, right now, my vibe is this." And so, what you might actually see is so many people talk like that that you pick up the language when that's not what you mean. And so, you could go on a first date with a person that says, "I want to inform you that I have absolutely no desire to get married whatsoever. As a matter of fact, my dream is a polyamorous relationship in which I travel with different concubines of mine, and we end up in different places, different vacations. I close my phone. I don't hear from you. Then I miss you. Then I come meet you somewhere else. Like, that's my vision of a relationship."
And so, some people will literally, when they're infatuated by the person in front of them, go, "Uh-huh, I could get behind that." Manifestors will be like, "No way in hell. Like, I would like to inform you that this is not at all ever going to work." But there are some design types that might see that as an invitation that feels like a yes, or feel like there's a response based on the charm or the way that it's presented, where it's yes in language. And then once the experience arrives, then it's no in language.
That doesn't exist for manifestors. You already know what your mission is. When someone speaks to you something that's not it, you know exactly. It's a no. So it feels very odd when people don't get what you're saying. It feels really odd when people change their minds. It feels really odd when they present you something and then next, next thing, change it.
So being so transparent, but the fear is, it feels like you're asking for permission. So you would say, you know, "I want to get married." And it feels like what you're saying is, "Will you marry me?" But that's not what you're saying. You're saying, "I just want to be really clear. I am looking to get married. I don't date for dating. I date to marry." And so, "I'm not saying you need to marry me tomorrow, but I do want to inform you that if you have absolutely no intention of getting married, I'm probably not the right person for you." Saying it with that kind of certainty. Yeah, it is scary.
Yeah, you might get Manny Jen, "Uh-uh." But you're not speaking. You're not speaking that necessarily. There will be people who are like, "Uh-huh, that's exactly the confidence I'm looking for." There are people going to be like, "This is the invitation I've been waiting for. I haven't been wanting to date until I got someone that was going to invite me clearly into a solid relationship." You might get a manifestor in front of you that's like, "This is everything I've ever dreamed of. Where have you been all my life? I've never met another manifestor that speaks so clearly." Yes. You might feel, see a reflector that goes, "This is a surprise, and I'm pleasantly surprised. And I say yes. Let's go to the chapel tomorrow." Like, "There's all, or give me 28 days, but I think we're good."
But there's all kinds of different responses that you're going to get. But the most typical one that you're used to is that the more you're bold with what you're saying, the more you get a no. So you found defense mechanisms and tactics to get a yes now, and then hope for a yes later. But you get, you experience so much anger every time that doesn't work out. It's not the best strategy. It's an immediate gratification strategy that doesn't actually pay off long term.
You're looking for long-term strategy. Everyone in my life knows the memo. Instead of everyone in my life likes me and hopefully will get the memo later when I feel it's a right time to tell them that the memo has changed. So starting from the beginning with that informing energy, your relationships last a lot longer. They're a lot more sturdy. And you get a lot less mad. Yeah, that's huge.
And I think also, I think it's important too, like manifestors will have new missions. But it's not like the changing of the mind, right? It's not like the generator like, "Uh, uh-uh." Like, "Today feels like uh-uh." You're going to have like, "I don't have the energy to do that today." Very different. Where it's like, "Yeah, can't do that today. Not doing that today." But it's not that you don't want to do the thing. It's just not today, or tomorrow, or for the next five days, right? When you get back into that bigger energy and that ready-to-move energy, you're back like, "Okay, what was that thing I needed to do seven days ago? Five days ago? Three days ago? Let's go do it."
And for for some of you, again, depending on your profiles, you will be kind of in this lane of like, "I know what this big mission is. I know where I'm going. I know my purpose." For some of you, it will like compound over time. And there may be new missions. All of a sudden, you get very involved with writing a book, and you didn't think, you know, five years ago that you would ever be writing a book. But you're like, "I now know that this book is my mission right now." And that doesn't mean that your mission before is, is like, in the garbage and it's toast and done. It just means there's breaks. Like, there can be breaks, and you come back to it, or builds on top of each other.
Again, some manifestors, I have found, are like, "So focused. And like, we're here. We're going there. That's it. I don't need to think about anything else. Like, I know what I'm born to do." And other manifestors will be like, "We kind of have these waves of like, we're super in it. We're growing it. The mission is clear. I'm like, that's it." And then of a sudden, it like kind of dwindles out a little bit. But it never disappears. And you don't change your mind where you're like, "Oh, remember that thing? Like, that's embarrassing. Like, can't believe I did that." It's like, "Yeah, that's actually part of where I'm going now. Time to resurface what I put down three years ago. Let's bring that one back. That was a great idea." Or it's like, "Oh, just need to pause from that. As some, for some reason, I'm called over here."
And this really is, you guys are the most tapped into divinity. You are really connected to these other-worldly energies. So it's not that you need to be thinking. It's not that you need to be like, "What do I do? And how do I do it? And how is this going to happen?" It is that you're more open. And when you get into those zones of that control, or that like, "How am I going to manipulate this?" or, "You know, what is this tactic that I'm going to use?" You tap out of that energy.
Because when we think of those energies, divinity, God, um, just channeling, angels, energetic worlds, whatever it is, it's like, that's so pure. And that's when we think of your alignment theme, it's peace. So we have anger, which is your anger will always stem when you start thinking of the how. And how am I going to get here? And how am I going to make this work in my favor? And how, you know, all of those questions, anger. And when we think of divinity and letting all of that come through, and that like holiness that's meant to come right into you so you could move. You're the only one that can actually hold it and do it. You're the most powerful ones.
When we think of your energy source and how you operate, it's like you need to allow yourself to be open to that. And again, that's that softening. That's the like, that's that pure zone and that pure energy and that peacefulness that you experience because you're actually in alignment with what's meant to come down the pipeline directly to you. And when you open yourself up to that, it's just like, you are the holiest. Like, you are the ones that are just like, "Let me just meditate and take five days and go into that silent retreat. And I know I'm going to come back with something. And I don't even know it. I need to think about what it is. I'm just going to be in peace." And that peace is like the biggest activator for you.
This is again why I really feel manifestors do so well on social media. Because when you understand the concept of, "It's not about your audience, it's about your reach." What you realize is every single person that you need is out there. Every single person that you want is out there. There is no lack. There is no need for you to try to change people's minds. There is no need for you to try to get the wrong people to change to be the right people. There's no need because there's more than enough people required for your vision to be made manifest on this planet. On the planet as it is. And your aura is so big that if you're not playing small, trying to not upset people, and you actually go all in and talk, your voice is going to be heard. Your people are going to find you. They're going to find you.
So it's more like on the internet, what does it matter if you don't post for three days? You, it's easier. It's like, "I'm off to like, I'm my energy's off today." No problem. Don't post. I'd rather you post nothing on a day where you're not, your energy isn't there, and the world feel nothing, than you post something on a day where you're off, and the world feel you're off. Like, the goal for you is that they get your point. And so only speak when the point is clear. That's what's the most important. Reshare old stuff on days when you're not feeling the vibe. Just reshare old things you wrote when you were in the zone. It's not about how often you show up. It's about how big you show up.
And you're not speaking to the people who are currently watching. You may sometimes have to speak through those people to get to the next people. You have to speak on top of those other people, next to those people, under those people. You're speaking through them. Like, you're getting your message across to who needs to hear it. You're not adapting it. You're not trying to get anything.
So when you're speaking to the masses, it's a lot easier to do that when you have a person that's in front of you, and you know this person. And that specific person needs to be an ally in life. Your strategy changes. Because now it's not like, "I'm speaking to the world and I'll attract my ideal people." It's like, "What about when your sister is a sacral Manny Jen? Like, you're not just going to be like, 'I'm speaking through you in hopes that a new sister emerges that's in alignment with what I think.' It's like, I have to collaborate with you. And your purpose isn't just to serve me on this planet. I have to find a way to coexist with you."
And so, it's in those moments that it's like, "Okay, how do I actually, like, I need to remember this person has a sacral authority. I have to remember this person responds to my energy. I have to remember that although, and this is why I I say it's so important for manifestors to do their work and to inform the planet and to be so big where they are, because then it's like, what does it matter that my sister doesn't want to do what I want to do when I literally have a multi-million billion dollar company with people all over the world walking together and doing exactly what I want and it's nonstop peace everywhere I am? Like, why am I going to be mad at my sister right now? Like, what does it matter? What do you want? What do you want to do? Can I get around that?"
Like, you'll find more peace in your body. It'll be easier for you to deal with people you genuinely love that want something different. And so, it's constantly remembering. Like, I could see this as that person's in my way and forcing me to not be able to get what I want. Or I could see it like, this person is different than me. Knowing human design and being like, "This person's getting an uh-uh, and there's nothing I'm going to do about it if I want to feel peace." What's going to give me more peace? To fight with the sacral fire? Or to get curious? To put my leader down, my leadership down for a minute, and go and dive into this person's world for today? Could I experience peace through their lens, just for today?
Where it becomes harder to do that is when you're not feeling at peace anywhere else in your life. You feel angry everywhere else. Now, it's like, "No, this is just another person representing where I feel stifled. This is just another person representing where I don't get what I want." And that's where the fight becomes stronger and stronger and stronger. But really, if you imagine like, you're the Buddha. Why are you fighting with your partner? You're the Buddha. You live in peace. There is no problem. You're okay. It's all good.
But when you're like, "Using your power to try to get what you want, and it's not working, and nothing's working." Now, next thing, you're speaking to a person there, saying no. It feels like you're at war. At war with your power. At war with your rights. At war with your life. And that's where it comes in. And that's where you end up putting up more of a fight than you need to be.
And I think what's really important about recognizing anger in your misalignment is that it's not outside of you. It's not created because somebody else not created. If only this happened, right? And it didn't happen. And it didn't go your way. It's actually internal reality. Your anger can always be shifted back into peace. And actually, if we just shift the language of that, your anger is showing you that you need to move towards peace. So instead of looking for outside of you, it's like, "Where do I get to create peace for myself?" Because that overflows everywhere else.
And you will begin to make decisions based off of the feeling of peace. You will be, you will then communicate with people based off the feeling of peace. And that also puts so much back into your own power. Rather, "If only they would have, I wouldn't be so angry." Like, "How can I shift that?" Where it's like, "Oh, if I utilize some emotional intelligence, if I stepped away, if I walked away in that moment, if I got something to eat for myself, you know, would I have experienced peace instead of anger?" And your personal power builds so much bigger.
So think of, um, like the Nintendo game Mario. You know, where like he hits the thing and then the mushroom comes off. He hits the block and then the mushroom comes down. And then he grows. It's like, that's what you're doing. You're just like, "Okay, I'm angry. Trying to get over here." But like, "I need to hit something." Which is hitting your own head to be like, "Wait a second. What's the piece?" The thing comes out. You grow bigger. You're not growing bigger to overpower somebody or do something that like, again, is is not used for your purest form. You're grabbing that to grow your personal power, which grows your aura, which gets you to where you want to go with more personal strength. And then onto the next level.
And so important. Like, when you're, when you're taking the concept of this program, this is like personal versus circumstantial power. So in your greatest ideal circumstance, you say, "In the world goes." That's your ideal perfect circumstance. But in a real life where people have sacral authorities and emotional authorities and splenic authorities and they're responding to all kinds of stuff, like, it's not always going to go that way. And so, it's like, "Do you compromise your peace every single time you don't get circumstantial power? Or are you able to see, this is totally not my ideal circumstance. How do I tap into peace anyway? How do I find the peace in this situation? How do I choose the peace in this situation? What would peace look like? Even though I can't have my ideal circumstance, we're not going to do what I wanted to do, but I, if I choose it, I can find peace in this. What would that look like? What would I be thinking about? What would I be choosing? How would I be doing this?" Instead of, "I so adamantly need to recreate the circumstance I want that I'm overriding my personal power to actually choose peace."
And that's what a lot of manifestors that don't know human design will do. They end up being super bossy and fight with people because rather than choosing the peace and making peace with peace, they're like, "No, there's got to be a way for me to get this circumstance. Right? There's just got to be a way for me to get this. There's just got to be a way for me to make it work. There's something I'm going to be able to tell you. There's something I'm going to be able to say. I've got to be able to make this happen." And then relationships break down and it gets really difficult.
So it's like choosing the peace within, not only just experiencing the peace when the circumstance outside of you is perfectly aligned. So beautiful. So beautiful. So I think in our next little bit of this, I would love for you guys, those that are manifestors here, to just kind of get whatever is off your chest, whatever is on your heart, where whatever has landed in like, "Oh, I've been playing small." Or "I've been giving too much of my energy to this, and it's been taking my peace, and I'm ready to reclaim." Like, let, let this be like a reclamation moment. Let this be a, "Let's get clear on my bigger mission. Let's get tapped into your higher source and where you're actually being called and led, not from your mind, but from your energy and from above. Let's let go of anything that isn't serving you and really shift this identity of self so that you can go out."
We do have a Q&A call for this, um, as well. But so that you can come back with some like, "Okay, I went out. We did this. I felt like this. I still have a question about this." And we can give you guys the best support to what is so personalized inside of your world. So if you do feel called, if you do feel comfortable to come in here, maybe take a minute or two and like, reclaim yourself. Reclaim your direction. Let's get excited about your mission. Like, come back into seeing your power and your aura in like, the purest form, in what it was born for. Or maybe you're like, after this, you're called to go have a conversation with somebody. Like, let's, let's get some initiating power going on in your own self and your own spirit so that after this call, you can go and be like, "All right, I got it. I'm back. I'm doing this. I'm going here. Having this conversation. Laying down these boundaries. Stepping into this for myself. Booking that silent retreat." Whatever it is for you. Like, let's get the energy going for you guys.
Ang, you want to come on up? If we're able to have you chat, can you hear me? Oh my God, gosh, what an honor to be here with you both. This has been so insightful, in so much awareness of the shadow side of being, the indoctrination of the conditioning, which is now the peeling out the layers. I've been on personal development for quite some time, and I just came through human design about a couple of years ago. Now I'm diving deeper into it with both of you, and I'm absolutely in awe because this has given me the liberation to really understand myself and how I operate, but also opening up the channels to understand my adult children. And aligning with them. They're both 3/5s, and I could see how they are so, so many openings. But for myself, it's wanting to dictate and the bossiness. Now, that surrendering of the softness has been my opening for me. And I really love to to claim my voice in opening up the pathways by authenticity, the self-power of learning thyself. So as a 2/4, then I am. I go deep into who I am, why I am, and everything about me. And this is now an opening too, like opening up those portals for others to learn thyselves. And I feel that that is such a big initiation. And I would love to couple this with essential oils, because I absolutely love essential oils. I've been using them for five years, and I want to be able to like share that with the world. And the domination of the world domination, like Melanie said, into knowing thyself. So thank you, thank you, thank you.
Oh my goodness, thank you. Thank you for coming up. Thank you for being here. Thank you for sharing. And what I loved so much is you coming into the authenticity, said the authenticity and your voice. And instead of that dictating energy, it's like that softening of like, "Oh, I get to get you. We get to know each other. We get to know each other." Like, that's what I heard. Like, you, by you knowing you, you're open to now knowing others, your children, and others. And really supporting that mission for people to know themselves, because you got to know you. And it's like, how easy it is for our own conditioning to then be passed down in the conditioning process, right? With our children and even the ones closest to us. And to open that up and just reveal yourself and your heart. And I felt so much excitement. And you, you used the word liberation, and I was like, "I feel that liberation and I feel that freedom from you." And just your own happiness and your personal peace. So thank you for sharing. I'm so excited about that and I look forward to our call next week for that to open up more of diving deeper into me. Thank you, Julia. But is hello? Well, first of all, thank you so much, both of you. Um, this was very healing and very in a, and very peaceful. Um, I actually realized in this call how much of this I have like em, have been embodying. How much I've been stepping into. Like a lot that you spoke about, I was like, "I feel that peace. I'm, I'm always honest upfront." Like, like right now, I just feel at peace and proud of myself after this call because, yeah, I feel like, "Okay, cool." And yeah, now there's just like a few questions that I'm just so excited to explore, um, next week. And where I feel like, "Okay, let me explore peace a little more that it doesn't feel boring, but to just like stretch more and feel peace when stretching." And yeah, like learning more how to step into that power. When I have stepped or have, have, um, all my life been like a people pleaser. And now I feel like that's gone. Like that's done. Partly because of your help and like the Matrix and both of you. Um, and yeah, now I'm just ready to explore that power in a way where I don't have to go into the rebel, right? And the people police. There isn't even an option anymore. So it's just like, "I declare." And I, I want to explore to own that power in that way that I feel it, where, yeah, but I, but I also don't know it yet because the people pleaser is like, I have just known that all my life. So it's just very new still. So I'm just very excited, honestly. And I feel so activated. Like there's so much energy in my body right now. W, like, I'm ready to create. Like after there's, I'm going to create, that's for sure. Yeah, I'm just, I'm just excited to explore that in in the most powerful way. Yeah. Thank you. This is so good. And I have a thought for you to contemplate. So being in peace is like when I have what I desire, I feel peace. When I go where I want to go, I feel peace. When I grow the way I want to grow, I feel peace. When I earn what I want to earn, I feel peace. When I love the way I want to love, I feel peace. And so, if you can imagine, like, a lot of the leaders in in, like, the manifestor leaders have led in war. What would it have looked like for them to lead in peace? What would it look like to expand, to change, to grow, to to lead, to still do those things, but to have chosen a path of peace rather than a path of war? What would that have looked like? Like, that could be a good contemplation.
Yes. And I've, I've actually done that. I'm, and I'm just leaning into that more, which, which is for me, just for inspiration for every other manifestor here or manifesting generator, is for me, the queen vibe, the queen vibe. Well, anyway, that like the queen, right? That in like, yeah, rather than like nagging or like, "Or I don't deserve it." It's this, "Of course I deserve it." Like desire-based communication. Like it's the queen. Like, "Of course I, you know." And and that's what I feel. But I feel like for me, it's the business. But yeah, I'm going to contemplate that. And yeah, thank you so much. Oh my gosh, I love this so much. And, um, I had the pleasure and honor of meeting Julia in person in Miami last year. And she just, you, like Julia, you literally radiate. You ooze just goddess. You really, really do. And I think your next level, like you have that down pat. I can only see you getting sexier and sexier and sexier with age and just like better and better and better. But like, I saw this during this call. I saw this version of you that was so, you are so wise, but like, you just let all of it out. And it was like wisdom overflow. And obviously, some of your content, I don't understand online, does the language difference. But I, when I, it is, you are warrior, and you are goddess, and you are a deep feminine too. And I think there's this wisdom that's ready to just, you to let it out. Thank you so much. Thank you.
Welcome. Thank you. You. Is there any other manifestor? I think on Zoom, we had our two manifestors. So we need to inform the manifestors that there is some value in this training because this is always what happens. Manny Jens are like, "Give me something to respond to." Generators are like, "Give me something to respond to." Projectors are like, "I accept the invitation." Manifestors are like, "Don't inform me about anything. That's my job." So I think that that'll be a great challenge for us is to get manifestors genuinely responding in a way to to come to something like this. But we believe and we hold space and we hope this served you greatly today on your missions. And thank you for being the pioneers, trailblazers, avant-garde that you are. You're amazing. And we look forward to answering your questions next week. Ask as many as you want on the chat. Just go for it. It's the advantage of having this whole thing to yourself. You just go, go, go, go, go. And we've got your back. Thank you for your presence. Amy, thank you for your brilliance, as always. And we shall see you on the internet.
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