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Alrighty guys, welcome back to the channel. Bit of a different one today. This is a bit of an older one that I found. It's called How to Play a Player. The channel is linked in the video description if you want to watch this video without me interjecting. Let's jump in.
[singing and music]
"They are playing you for your assets or your personalities." Okay. Okay. Okay. I am 100% not wearing pants right now. So, that's really good. Okay.
"What's up, guys? It's Elizabeth and today I'm going to break down how to play a player. This is going to make the guy who seems absolutely impossible to get, no way you can ever talk to him, no way you can ever go out with him, wrapped around your fingers. And take it from someone who has been played like Flappy Bird. Take it from someone who's been played like Mario Kart like blue shell thrown at you looking ass."
"Let's go."
"I've had anybody watch this video and think I'm going to take any tips from this particular person. So what she's saying, I'm chasing after dudes that are way above me, my station in life. I'm not getting the result I want, but I'm going to tell you how to get back at them. Okay, let's do it."
"Experience. Like, if I could major in [ __ ] I probably should because of the amount of experience I have. So, let's get into it. So, don't hate the player, hate the game. This is just how it's going to go. So, the"
"I want to talk about one thing. women uh in my opinion, and this has been my anecdotal experience, they're not players in any shape, way, or form. They're just not. They don't have to learn how to be smooth, suave, play into, I guess, fantasies and the mysterious archetype that men need to do to be able to get women on the hook. They don't need to do any of that. They're just there. They just turn up. The guys come to them. That's it. Got these women thinking that they're play they're players. They're slaying you. Yas queen, you you're a slayer. Quite literally no effort required for a woman to get a bloke. No effort required whatsoever. All these videos tell me it's once again delusional women chasing men who are never never going to consider him for anything more than a recreational use. The human fleshlight treatment."
[laughter]
"Uh but it's a story as old as time. This video is 5 years old. This what she's talking about and the points I'm able to get out of this video couldn't be any more truer. 5 years on."
"First step to playing a player is you're going to have to catch their interest. And you might be like, "Okay, everybody's trying to catch their interest." So, this is a person that's been notoriously talked about amongst you and your friends. You might know someone that he's played. You might have heard tales about someone that he's played. But, you're going to play him. You're going to turn the tables. So, catches interest. It's like you're going fishing. You're going to want to like bait them in. I've never been fishing, so like"
[snorts]
"I actually don't know, but like we're just going to guess."
"Yeah. All right."
"You want them to bite onto something. You have to make yourself look like they're prey. Like this is National Geographic. You know what I'm saying?"
[laughter]
"I don't know if this is satire or what. Can't be serious. This person cannot be serious. Surely. Surely not."
[snorts]
"How do you get a guy on the hook? What's the easiest way to get a guy on the hook? Over sexualize yourself. Especially to a Chad Steo Bry. This guy's ears are going to prick up. He's going to be all about it. He's going to go, "Yep, low hanging fruit. That's back of the VN action up behind the local cricket pavilion or parked down the side of the cricket nets in between the bushes so people can't see what's going on.""
"that that's that's exactly what he's going to see if she goes and does that. It's hilarious though because the guys that these women are trying to play. These guys don't give a stuff. They carry on think they got some sort of superpowers to lock some guy in. And they don't because the guy is only there for one thing. and the guy who has options. The moment women start playing games, once he wakes up to it, he opens his eyes to it becomes very clear and apparent that's what's going on, he just drops them. Goes, you know what? Too hard. I don't like what she's up to. I'm going to throw her back in the pond and I'll go get another one. just jumps on a dating app and he's back swiping or he just goes back into his rotation or he goes into his phone and he's got 600 bloody girls numbers in there just starts texting them. That's the thing. You cannot play games with Chad Stea and Bry. He doesn't fall for it. He knows what you're doing. He doesn't care. That's the thing is that these women think that their Pani is all gold, right? It's made out of gold. It's this magic thing that men will do anything for. Maybe for men who don't have much option, and this isn't an insult, for for men who don't have much option or hope of being able to attract women, they they will do just about anything. They'll cut their left arm off to get a bit of action, a bit of company with a woman. As I said, guys who have an abundance of it, who know if that opportunity doesn't work out, he just can gets another one. There's no game you can play. There's literally no power. And that's why you got all these women saying, "Ah, you got these jerks playing me, ghosting me." Because you only had one thing he wanted and he got it and he disappeared. Or the latter holds true. You were trying to play games to stretch it out. He realized what you were doing. He dropped it."
[laughter]
"Women can't play these guys."
"You know what I'm saying?"
"Catch their interest and then start talking to them. They're normal people. their teens, you know, once you're talking to them."
"Also, guys, I just want to say merry Christmas. It's Christmas Day. So, for those of you out there who are watching me on Christmas Day, I want to extend that. Enjoy your holidays. Enjoy your break. Hopefully, you're recharging. Hope you have a laugh with me"
[laughter]
"because this stuff's funny."
"You know, mirror their actions. So if they leave you on delivered for 20 minutes, leave them on delivered for 25 minutes. It's going to make them go insane. So mirror their actions, but make sure to keep on oneupping them. So you're mirroring their actions. You're talking to them. You're going to go completely awol. You're not going to talk to them for a few days, maybe a week or two, depending on what level you are in your playing field. Like are you on varsity or JV? You know what I'm saying?"
"doesn't work. It just doesn't work. That's the thing. You just eradicate yourself. You the guy if you don't respond to the dude. You fall at the back of the pile. He's got plenty of other women going on. It just this just literally doesn't work. I've been a Steo. I've done these things. The moment they start doing this stuff, you lose interest in them. You stop responding to them, too. Like, oh, they didn't respond to you. You're not chasing them. You give stuff. You got five other girls you can message. Well, you know, if you jump back on the apps, you're gonna have a pretty good chance of getting another one on the hook. So, why bother chasing around some woman who's playing games and being annoying? And I think this is some sort of game, some sort of strategy. This only works on guys who don't have any abundance. I'm probably going to repeat this a number of times in this video because these women need to get it through their head. Men who can get your major selling point, i.e. action readily from other women are not going to value or chase you around. That's it. Only guys who are either completely hung up on a particular woman, massive crush on her or see her as the only option he can get and he doesn't want to get away. They're the ones who fall for all this stuff. They get turned inside out. They fall for all the games. I've tried to tell women this before. women I've remained friendly with over the years, they're telling me they're keeping it slow, they're matching the energy, they're doing all this stuff. I said, "Don't do that. If you want this guy and you think that he's a really good catch, you also need to put in effort. This is just you sitting there, you making no effort and the guy's going to chase you or you're actively showing and giving off the energy." Like people are smart. They pick up on energy, body language, whatever it may be, that you're playing some form of game. He's going to once again disqualify yourself. he's not going to deal with it. You need to put effort in. Well, they need to put effort. I know the women aren't watching me for advice. So, you're just going to stop talking to them. You're going to go awall, but you're going to post on your private story that only he's on or just your regular private story or your main story. Hell, you're going to put some lip gloss on. You're going to look like a badass [ __ ] You're going to thirst trap them. They're gonna swipe up or maybe they're just going to see it and they're gonna be like,"
"Why are you talking to me?"
"But you you're looking so fine. Like, come on. The goal of doing this is to make the illusion that you have a billion other guys hitting you up. There might not be a billion other guys hitting you up. There might be no other guys or girls hitting you up, but we're going to make it seem like that. Okay. Okay. So, there's a billion other people hitting you up. There's so many things you're doing. You're so busy. You're such a bad [ __ ] You're grinding. You're doing this. You're doing that. You're making the [ __ ] move. You're making the [ __ ] bag. You're going to get the [ __ ] done without them. And it's going to make them go crazy. Like, they're just going to want you a million times more. So, one of the main goals while playing a player is to always leave them wanting more. You want to build the climax. You want to get to that point and then just cut the"
"All right, that's great. Once again, she's daggling out the clunge, dangling it out there, waving it in front of his face, and then what pulls it away. Nothing more is going to piss a dude off than doing that. He's going to go, "You know what? Get stuffed. I know what you're doing. See you later."
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"them off. It's going to make them go crazy. It's like when you finish your favorite show and it ends on a cliffhanger. Like you just want another season to come out. They just want to talk to"
"Oh, and the thing is too, guys who get plenty of action or have plenty of interactions with women, they don't put that much of a high value on it. So there is no cliffhanger. There isn't. You know, normally the mindset of be, okay, that's sort of one that got away. It's coming, it's becoming a bit too hard now, a bit too much effort. You know, I'll start fresh with another one because the amount of effort I'm going to put in with this one to try and convert it now she's playing games or going a will probably be the same or more than getting a new one. So, just go to a new one to you more. But if you're giving them everything they're wanting, if you're giving them everything they're asking for, you're just like every other girl that they've been playing. So you want to make yourself seem different. There's something else, too, that these women don't realize. So we want to do this insufferable stuff thinking that they're going to get this guy hooked. Like this guy is going to be addicted and he'll just do anything once she does these things. Some guys will go, "You know what? I can see what you're doing. I can see you're playing a game. You're messing around with me. You're making it harder than it needs to be. I'm going to persevere. I'm going to push through. I'm going to play your game. But once I get what I want, and you've made sure of that through your behavior that this is all I want from you, i.e. action, I'm gone. They don't realize that's what they're doing. They're putting the guy off. And they're making his decision even more solid. That is going to be drama before he even gets there. He's just going to persevere because he's already put effort and time in. Men don't like a sunk cost. He's going to get something out of it and he's gone. Kais say he's going to Jason Bournem."
"So after you've ignored them,"
[clears throat]
"hit them up again and act like nothing happened. Like act like no time went by. Act like you didn't actually ignore them. Be like, "Hey, what's up? What's up, B?" Just however you text, hit them up again. Like nothing ever happened. It's going to make them go insane. The next thing you're going to want to do is make a plan to hang out. But here's the spoiler alert. You're not actually going to hang out with them this time. You're going to flake. But here's the key."
"Don't be a [ __ ] Like don't flake 15 minutes before and like he or she's coming to pick you up or you guys are going to meet somewhere cuz that's just rude. You know, it's not being a player. It's just being"
"You could not give any worse advice to women. Do not flake on a Steo or a Bryce. Guess what? Because that's it. He's not going to chase or follow you up. He knows what you're doing. He's been through it a lot of times before. He knows the games. He knows the landscape. He knows the strategy. He's Chad GPT. He knows what's going on here. There probably isn't a faster way for her to be ghosted, blocked, and deleted than to do that. And these women, they're carrying on wondering why they don't have boyfriends. Dating's hard. I just want a nice guy. All the guys are players. Where are the good men? Well, these guys they're playing these toxic games with. Number one, they aren't the good men. They might be good people, but they're not the good men who are going to settle down and give her what she wants. Good man means simp. Good man means idiot who's plugged into society or cut his arm off for a woman. She's not going for them. She's going for the exact opposite of what they're here screaming for and playing toxic games to try and get one. It is only going to be temporary. You can't make it up."
"But um you're going to flake maybe a few hours before, maybe a day before, whenever you plan it. And their response is crucial to this step in playing the player because if they freak out on you, if they, you know, act really angry and flip out on you, it goes to show that they had no other plan that night and you can call them out and use it to your advantage because even though you have no other plan that night and they have no other plan that night, you need to act like this was just like it's no big deal. Like we were just going to go out. Even though in your head you're like, "Oh my god, I'm literally hanging out with him." Oh my [ __ ] god. Like I'm literally hanging out with him. You can't make it seem that way. You have to make it seem like, "Oh well, maybe next time. I'm busy. I'm worth the wait." So after you flake on them for the first time, maybe you have a streak with this person and"
"this is also what you call I'm not saying this woman don't know from bar of soap, but these kinds of women we call them blue ring octopuses. They're just drama. They're trouble. Avoid, avoid, avoid, stay away from them or you're going to get headaches."
"Sending"
"That's one, that's one point I also want to talk to guys about is a lot of the time, even from the get-go, from the start of even the dating phase, if you want to call it that, where you're trying to get in with a woman, she's making life hard for you. She's being rude. She's been a bit ch entitled. doesn't seem like she appreciates anything you do or your attention or any of the efforts you make. But guys go along with that thinking that's that's just women. That's what you got to push through. If you're getting that in what is supposed to be the most fun, carefree, easiest time that first three months, you need to look at what the future's going to look like. Even if you only go at them for a year or two, it's going to be miserable. But no, a lot of a lot of Larry's out there, a lot of Calvin's out there that latch on, take what they can get. Little Jack Russell following around its owner. GN streak be like, "Hit me up streaks. Don't hit me up. Only the real ones know." No, but maybe post on your private story that you're just watching Netflix or that you're doing something that isn't substantially important enough to flake on them because they're going to be like, why the hell would this [ __ ] not want to hang out with me? Like, I'm [ __ ] player McGee. Like, what? It's going to make them go insane because players are so used to having girls like fall for them and they're so used to like manipulating these people that they're going to be thrown for a [ __ ] trip, bro. So during this time, it's important to keep in mind that you're mirroring their mannerisms and how they talk to you, the delivering time."
"So So this woman's probably what, in her 20s, maybe. And while she's carrying on in a way that's over the top for her video, you got a lot of women out there who will watch this content and actually will do these things. There's a lot of content out there from women about the centering men and all that sort of jazz, playing mind games, manipulating them. So, you just need to be careful with who you're dealing with. How they leave you on red, their streaks, everything they're doing, mirror it and one up it. They say, "Hey, what's up?" You say, "Hey, what's up?" But you leave them on delivered for longer. You know what I mean? Like, you're going to want to match their vibe, if that makes sense. For now, don't change for anybody, though. Use popping. Hit them up and act like nothing happened again. We're doing it again. We're going through the cycle again. And be sincere. Be genuine. Apologize. Like, you're a player, but you're not an [ __ ] Even though they might be. In my experience, they have been, but oh well. You're going to apologize. You're going to make another plan. And you're going to hang out with them. Here's what's going to happen. You're going to hang out with them. You're going to go You're going to put some lip gloss on. You're going to put some mascara on. And you're going to go hang out with them. Do not If you're going to take one thing from this video, please just take this. Do not hook up with them. Do not [ __ ] hook up with them. Not the first time, not even the second time, maybe the third time. I mean, you"
"Wow, she's really showing restraint there. Third date. Third date. Wow. That's uh real high value."
[laughter]
"And that's the thing, you know, you get these types who are making themselves hard to get. Even that first date, if they really like a guy, they're going to be all over him. They're going to be jumping all over him. They're going to be able to control themselves. I can tell you that now. Women just aren't good at being players. All this sort of behavior does is allows them to manipulate men who don't have many options, but they're not going to get a player with this. And I don't even like the word player. They're not going to get a guy who has self-respect because and has a an IQ of over 50 and understands what is going on here purely from a self-respect perspective. You can do whatever you want, but if you want to make it more than just a one night stand, which you're worth more than, don't hook up with them the first time. It's not going to get you what you want. They are just going to feel satisfied. They're going to be like, "Okay, she tried to play me, but it didn't work because I'm a player and I have a loud fast car." That's a stupid. Don't hook up with them. The key to playing a player, and I'm going to say this again, get a pen out, get a pencil out, get a paper, get a note."
"What is it? Don't put out because all that shows is that these particular women who carry on like this thinking that they've got all the answers is just a clench. If you were to take that away and you were to do a quick assessment, a quick return on investment analysis, you know, you get a piece of paper, you get your pen out, you start writing down what am I getting out of this interaction with this woman apart from potentially some action. So, you got pros and you got cons. On the left hand side, you'll write down, okay, clunge. And then after that, there's nothing. And on the right hand side, you've got a whole myriad of dumpsterifier things you had to put up with. Attitude, games, manipulating tendencies, disrespect, over entitlement, flakiness, the list goes on. Uh probably debt, personal loans or credit card debt, either one. Car loans, the list goes on. I I could probably write 100 things. And that's not me trying to be some woman hater. I'm just telling you that's what it is. Especially these types, one thing to offer, 50 other things that make him an absolute liability from the get- go. And then I'll tell you one other thing, guys. If you do hook up with a woman and you get that postnut clarity and you realize you don't want to be there, you're looking at all the different windows in the building, looking at the air vents, you're trying to find a way to escape. You're like, h, you look out the window, you go, it's only four stories, you know, would I break both my legs or would I break one leg or will I just break my ankle if I jump out and try to escape? What if I jump in that bush? Will that, you know, will that bush be soft and will that cushion my fall out of this window so I can get out of here? That's when you know no value at all apart from that one thing."
"No, I get a [ __ ] Get a dick."
"One other thing. One other thing I'll say as well to dudes or men to tell if it's worth your while. Just have a cheeky wank before you date. Half an hour before you go, an hour before you go. See if you still actually want to go. Or if you're thinking, "Oh, you know what? Actually wouldn't mind staying in, jumping on the PlayStation with the boys, playing some Battlefield 6." That'll tell you everything. Cheeky wank. That will uh that'll reveal all."
[laughter]
"I don't care. Always leave them wanting more. Okay. So, you just got home from going out with them, whatever you guys decided to do. You're like, Oh my god, like I just hung out with them. Don't text them. Don't be like, I had fun. Don't Don't be like, let's do this again. Unless they text you, then be like, oh my god, yeah, like kiss emoji, like whatever. Just text however you want. But don't text them after. This is crucial because players won't text you. So, it's rare that they're going to text you after that. So, if you text it, it's just going to make you seem vulnerable. is going to put a soft side up that we don't want to show yet."
"Yeah. Don't be feminine in any way. Okay. So, let's give the guy the idea that you didn't like him or just not interested in him and then wonder why the guy isn't chasing you. So, you made yourself hard to get. You made yourself hard to even want to be around. So, the guy goes, "You know what? I'm getting the vibe here. She ain't interested. I'm dropping it." Then they go, "He didn't try hard enough. He wasn't persistent enough. Can you make You can't make it up."
"Because we bad [ __ ] You heard?"
"No."
"And here's the thing for males specifically. I'm not really talking about females cuz I don't have much I don't have any experience with that. But with males, their blood is pumping to their dicks, not their brains. So they're thinking like their sex drive. Especially players, especially horny [ __ ] teens."
"All right, guys. You need to understand, ladies. Ladies, this is how men will work up until they're probably 50 years old or beyond. It never goes away. You need to understand that they're not catching up on first dates, have a nice conversation, and buy you dinner. They're thinking about if they're going to get you into bed or not. They're thinking about if there's going to be potential of leading anywhere like that. They're just saying get it. They'll never understand how a man man operates. He's walking around with a loaded gun in his pants. A bazooka grenade launcher 24/7 ready to go. Especially, let's say between 80 18 and or 16, but let's say because we're we're talking about adults here, 18 to 30, just about most of what a guy does in his life is going to be rotated around wasting time chasing women or trying to impress women to potentially get some action. Endless hours on dating apps, countless hours on dating apps, pursuing women. I'd love to know how much money the average man would spend over say the ages of 18 to 30 if they're out there trying to womanize or get action or even just date without success. I'd love to know what the average is. Oh, it has to be thousands. Thousands and thousands. Trust me, they're not thinking about common sense like you are because you watch this video and you're getting that two cents with it. So, there's two ways that it can go from this point. You can ghost them completely and move on to your next person."
"This is what a lot of a lot of players do. They ghost you. Maybe hit you up in a few months, maybe not."
"All right. So, what why would a guy do that? What What are the reasons why a guy would ghost without getting what he wants to get or if he does want to get? Let's talk about it. So, he might get the action and then realized, you know what? I didn't see anything else with her at that particular time that would make me worth make it worth me chasing her around. So, I'm done. It's over. I don't want to see her again. Move on to the next. As she was saying, does it make you a player? I don't know. Makes you more of a discerning gentleman. The woman said something or has acted in a certain way. This is I think with women like this, this is probably going to be the most the highest occurrence to put a guy off, to get just ghosted, just saying something obnoxious. I've I've gone on dates with women who sort of act like this, just over the top, living in delusion land, just saying whole bunch of matter of dumb [ __ ] even well into their 30s, where they just say one thing and you go, "You know what? This is never going anywhere. never going to speak to you again after I leave this interaction. Generally, it's some sort of obnoxious [ __ ] test or something like that they'll do. You just go, "Nah, not putting up with that, especially from substandard." I wouldn't recommend ghosting if you're new to this. It's a pretty advanced skill set. Like, you can ghost them or you have cracked the player's code. Congratulations. welcome to they're actually a real person with real feelings and you can get to know them and build a relationship."
"So they're a real person with real feelings but you've manipulated the whole interaction. You've played games uh to get your outcome. So really you've manufactured something that wasn't existing in the first place. It wasn't really going to go there and it probably isn't going to go much further. Awesome. and you cut the [ __ ] essentially. However, it's rare because"
[cheering]
"people don't really change from like weeks. It's going to take a long time for them to grow. However, snakes do have a soft side to their stomach. So, do have a soft side that they might be able to show you. But it's important to keep in mind that if you've had a friend or if you had, you know, anybody who has told you that this guy or girl hurt them, the probability of them hurting you is so high. Like for example, if a guy leaves his girlfriend for you, you're flattered. You're like, I'm that [ __ ] I took your man and I kept mine, too. You're you're playing City Girls. You're blasting it the [ __ ] up. What's going to stop that same guy from leaving you for another girl? Cuz new toys are always shinier. You know what I mean? Like"
"that's interesting. So, women get some of their own, flip out, have to come up with some strategy to try and get some guy to stick around, but he's never going to. How many women out there would be on the dating market right now, say they're looking for a good man, but they're actively throwing the guy back into the pond for whatever reason. You guys know what I'm talking about. If you're out there um going on dates, you might get a one date in, two dates in, or a few weeks in, and it blows up or it fizzles out, she's found another option, she stops talking to you, they're very hypocritical. All they say is they just want a nice guy to go out with. But then we have women here on the internet giving tips to women on how to get guys who they probably shouldn't be chasing in the first place. That is going to end in tears. The guy is not going to settle down. Crack the code. Eh, crack the code. Yeah. And as I said the women don't change at any age. You got women to this one here maybe early 20s, mid20s, I don't know. I can't really work it out with the makeup and stuff. They're still carrying on stupidly like this in their 40s and beyond. It doesn't change. The body gets older, but they just do the same things. Anyway, guys, I'll leave it there. Thank you very much for watching. I hope you have a great day. Enjoyed my Christmas rant today. Once again, I hope you're having a relaxing time and just enjoying the festive season. Once again, if you want to support the channel, check out the links in the video description, a pin comment for the PayPal link, the locals, and the calls. Thank you very much. See you in the next one."