“You’re Not All That!” Let’s talk about it

Hello, hello, hello you guys. So, I'm back with another video today, and I'm going to be talking about why pretty girls get humbled on purpose. And I'm basically going to be talking about the psychology, um, and the sociological and cultural reasons why attractive women are specifically targeted for humbling attempts, especially by men. Right?

So, I'm going to be using data, and I'm going to be using anecdotal experiences as well. So, I'm I'm going to be talking about, you know, statistics on top of my own experiences or other women's experiences from what they've told me as well. So, without further ado, let's start. All right.

So, let's talk about the pretty girl problem. This is actually a pretty girl problem, right? Um, men will literally go out of their way to tell beautiful women that they're mid, you know, they're arrogant, they're not all that, right? They'll even go as far as to be like, "Oh, it's because of your body, or it's because of this, or it's because of makeup, or oh, take the makeup off, or blah blah blah blah." It's like, when you are actually attractive, and this is what I keep trying to tell people, right? when you're actually attractive, people have to go 20 times harder just to pull you off of the pedestal, right? Whether that be in groups, whether that be eight women against one woman, whether that be a man telling you, "Oh, you're not all that," or, uh, "You're highly mistaken. You thought you were attractive, you're not attractive." Like, and it's crazy, right? And this is how you know that men are liars as well. And I'm actually going to be making a video about that.

But men will sit here and see a booga wolf with a nice body, and they'll tell a booga wolf with a nice body that has a good personality that she's a 10, right? Or they might not say she's a 10, but they'll treat her with a form of privilege because, one, she has body privilege, and then two, she has a good personality to where she's not, you know, going against men. When you're an attractive woman, more times than not, you represent something that men cannot control, which is beauty. And beauty is a form of currency and social hierarchy, right? Men literally, for the most part, desire power. That's a fact. Beauty has its own form of power. And when men cannot control beauty, right? When men cannot control a form of power, I don't know what to tell you.

So honestly, right, uh, when they tell women that they're mid or they're arrogant or they're not all that, a spoiler alert, it's not about honesty. It's about control. It is. It is. So, first I'm going to be going into the psychology behind it. So, the reason why they use these psychological things and these terms is because of one, ego preservation, two, preempted negating, right? Um, and three, insecurity projection. So there's actually research that shows that men are more likely to undermine women they find attractive due to perceived power imbalance. So there there's actually a study on this. When men find women that are attractive that are confident, um, you know, they'll actually try to go out of their way to humble those women because it's like because they know that they're attracted to these women. They can't say that they're actually ugly. So now they have to come for a different route. Oh, well, you're mid, or you're not all that. Oh, it's your body. And and honestly, I've noticed that they do this time and time again, but just like I said, they'll tell the booga wolf that she's beautiful back to back to back, actually. And And it's so funny. It's so funny to me. It's so funny.

And honestly, the Black Pill community has a problem with this, too, because it's like when you have a group of men that have been being mistreated based on how they look, um, it's like, I don't know. It's it's really common sense. That's the equivalent of an unattractive woman coming up to an attractive woman and saying, "You're not all that." It's like, this isn't based on actual privilege. That's not based on actual data, or that's not based on actual lived experiences. That's based on your words. Your words against theirs. Oh, so scary. I'm not trying to be funny, but like they act like it's a spooky moment where it's like if they say something, it'll magically become the truth. They'll be like, "If I say it 20 times, maybe this will happen." Oh. And it's like, "No, no, she she still has privilege in a social hierarchy. It's that simple. It doesn't matter if you're butt hurt about that. I don't know what to tell some of you people. Some of you people want to get up here and cope about attractive people, and and honestly that's why I come back with these videos as well because I'm not going to allow you to cope on any level actually.

All right. So, it's not that, you know, attractive people think that they're better. It's that you can't stand that they don't need your approval to exist because they don't. Right? You could be one unattractive person that goes up to an attractive person and be like, "Uh, oh, I don't think you're all that." That's like those people that tell those beautiful celebrity women that are clearly symmetrical, that are clearly beautiful. Oh, she's not all that. She's a six. She's a five. Oh, she's not all that. She's not all that. And the moment [ __ ] started saying that Megan Fox wasn't all that, I knew [ __ ] had officially lost their [ __ ] marbles. And they actually used to call Megan Fox a transgender. So that just that just lets you know that men will go to the extreme extent to try to diminish a beautiful woman's attractiveness. Women do the same thing. There was literally a [ __ ] that said, "Oh, Holly Berry is mid." It was a couple of [ __ ] that said that. And it's just like the amount of cope is insane. Like I can't I literally cannot. Someone even said uh what's her name? They said that about Beyonce. They say that about any attractive woman, honestly. They literally do. They They do.

So, when you're an attractive woman, unfortunately, that's a part of the experience as well. The consistent people trying to humble you thing, that is a real lived experience that's going to be consistent, especially if you're an attractive person with confidence. And this is kind of like why I feel like attractive people shouldn't be humble. I do not believe they should be humble because it's like if I'm going to be chastised for a lived experience that I didn't ask for anyway, I might as well not be humble because when I'm humble, you [ __ ] still think [ __ ] are on that type of timing. So, it's like I don't have nothing to say to you [ __ ] I'm not sugar coating [ __ ] for y'all, and I'm not changing myself to make you feel better about your life. And that's kind of like how you have to look at the dynamics of the world. I'm not changing myself to make you feel better. If you want to dismantle a system, then by all means, we can team up. But if you want to be on a hierarchy and all this other [ __ ] then [ __ ] [ __ ] you. Literally, because some [ __ ] just want that. They just want to flip the tables, and they just want to be the one that's benefiting, and they want to complain about the issues and not actually [ __ ] change the problem. That's kind of like what I have a problem with certain people when they're just like, "Oh, uh, you're benefiting from this, this, this, this, this, and that." But when that person goes and gets work done, they act like they're oblivious to all these problems that they were once complaining about. So it's like, "Oh, [ __ ] you really didn't want to change the issue. You just wanted to assimilate, and you wanted to benefit from the issue."

So actually, attractive people, there's nothing wrong with you, actually. Because it's so weird how they'll try to humble attractive people and make you feel bad for all of these things that are happening, but then they'll try to humble you as a person that is naturally born attractive, and then in the same breath they'll try to be thirsty and go under the knife and hard max into oblivion. Oh, I'm hard maxing. I'm hard maxing. I'm hard maxing. I'm hard maxing. Okay, you're hard maxing, and then after you hard max, now you feel like you're better than attractive people. But before when you were ugly, you were still trying to humble attractive people. And this is why I don't like surgery sales at all. That's why I don't like surgery sales. Um, there are some people that do get surgery, and they mind their [ __ ] business and they go on with their lives. You know, I don't I don't have a problem with those type of people. The people that I have a problem with are the ones that try to humble attractive people. They damage their confidence and self-esteem. And then these [ __ ] ass [ __ ] want to go under the knife and assimilate into an aesthetic that attractive people naturally have. That's the problem that I have with them weird ass [ __ ]

All right. So, the next point that I want to bring up is I have the numbers to back all of this up. Right? So, the top 10 to 20% of women get 80 to 90% of male attention. Right? These women report higher rates of nagging. So, uh, the comments of you're not all that or objectifying comments like, "Oh, you're so sexy. You're so beautiful. You're so cute." So, women that are at the top 10 to 20% actually report higher rates of nagging, which means they report that men are talking the most [ __ ] to them, saying, "You're not all that. You're mid. It's just because of your body. uh you thought you was all that, etc. etc. etc." So there's actually a study that shows this. So it's kind of funny how men are exposing themselves, and this shows that like no matter what a person is saying, whenever you look at the data and you look at human nature and psychology, it always exposes everybody, so everyone is at like an even playing field, so they're forced to be themselves. That's kind of like what I do with my content. So, I'm gaming women up that are attractive as well, so they're gamed up and and they're not oblivious to this, right? That that's why I'm doing it. I am a super villain. I really am, honestly.

All right. So, also, when you look at uh Reddit threads or comment screenshots of women saying, uh, you know, when I post a selfie, men flood my DMs to tell me I'm not as hot as I think I am, or you know uh men. And then when you look at um what is it called? Even when you look at average women, right? Average women, they complain differently. They say that men are just polite or they ignore me, right? Uh, they don't go out of their way to attack me. That's what a lot of average women are saying. So, when you're attractive, I will admit men do go out of your out of their way to humble you. And this is what I've been talking about since the beginning of my [ __ ] videos. When I said 22 cope phrases that unattractive people use against attractive people, that is a [ __ ] fact. When the more attractive you are, the harder they go. That's how it is. The higher you get up on the scale of attractiveness, the harder they go for the humbling tactics. They have to. And I And it's so weird because it's like, bro, if you were so thirsty to get cosmetic surgery, why do you have to feel like you have to humble an attractive person that was naturally born with the aesthetics that you actually want? That doesn't make logical sense to me because it's like, you're going to take your bunk ass and you're going to go under the knife. You're going to get all this work done, probably look like a [ __ ] freak of nature since you want to talk about attractive people and then look like an uncanny version of an attractive person and then talk [ __ ] about attractive people and be like, "I mogged you into oblivion." No, you don't. You're not mogging [ __ ] Attractive people are mogging your entire [ __ ] bloodline. [ __ ] out of here.

All right. So, I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sick of I'm tired of being nice to people. This this is a form of tit for tat. If you're not going to be nice to attractive people, I'm not being nice to you. I I don't know what to tell you. I'm not doing it. It's not no one-sided boohoo [ __ ] going on over here. You You either level the [ __ ] up or you shut the [ __ ] up, right? You either accept the way that you are and you don't bother people or you level up because you don't like how you look or whatever. Whatever. It's that simple. You only got two options. Or you dismantle the privilege systems. If you're saying that it's impossible to dismantle a system, then you either adapt to the system or you level the [ __ ] up and shut the [ __ ] up. I I don't know what to tell some of you [ __ ]

All right. So, it's it's strategic, right? So, they try to humble attractive women to control her. So, um, when we're looking at psychology, the tactic is uh if I lower your self-esteem, I become the one who defines you. So, I'm the one that gets to validate you, right? So, there's actually a study that also shows that men don't do this to average women or conventionally unattractive women because they don't perceive power in them. And I love psychology. I love psychology so much because it it it exposes the dynamics. And this [ __ ] is so hilarious. If you are a person that wants to understand human nature, I suggest you look into psychology, look into human analysis, human nature, um, all of that. It's going to expose why things are happening to you, and it and it's going to even the playing field. I love psychology.

So, basically, right, pretty equals social power. And some men want to strip that away. It's that simple. It's literally that simple. There's no no complexities to it. It's that simple. All right.

So, I'm going to be bringing up why pretty women stay silent or they shrink. Um, a lot of attractive women have the fear of being labeled as conceited. That's a fact. And that's kind of like what I talk about in my thing when it's like you try to humble yourself as an attractive person, you try to dress down, you try to make people feel comfortable. And the point, the thing is, no matter how much you try to shrink yourself, it's not going to work. And that's what I'm trying to get attractive women to see. It doesn't work. I've done it. I've done it. I did the whole I'm conscious and I'm a laid-back, down-to-earth attractive woman. You know what people still came up to me and said when I was rocking crystals and [ __ ] all because of my aesthetic? They were like, "Oh, I was afraid to talk to you because I thought you were going to be stuck up and and diss me." And it's like, I'm dressed as down as possible. I'm not wearing makeup. I look as earthly as possible. Whatever the [ __ ] you want to call it, right? Homely, earthly, whatever. I looked like, you know, a conscious hippie person. I don't know how to explain it. And I was still getting that same reaction. So because of that, I feel like, you know, I've seen even when you're an attractive person that tries to humble yourself, how they're telling you to humble yourself, it doesn't [ __ ] work because they will still go out of their way to tell you that you're stuck up. They will do it. They will literally do it. You could be as humble as you want to be if but if you have the aesthetics in the face and the jawline, they're still going to tell you to humble yourself. It it doesn't matter what you do when you're attractive. People don't want you to exist when you're attractive. That's really what it boils down to.

So, another reason why, you know, pretty women will stay silent and shrink is because of the exhaustion of constant criticism. That is also a thing. That is a thing. You could go on a live stream panel or you could try to interact with people and talk about your experiences, and then here comes some airheaded fat ugly [ __ ] Oh, you don't have that experience. You're lying. Oh, I'm I'm about to humble her real quick. It's just like Uh, you know what? Let me not say that. Let me not say that. Let me not say that. Let me not say that. I am not promoting that. I'm not going to promote that. I'm not going to promote that. I was going to say something in Blackpill as a diss that people use when they say it's over for you and then they say the other thing and then I'm like, you know what? Let me not say that. Let me not say that.

All right. All right. So, another reason why pretty women will stay silent or shrink is because they get punished for their confidence. You do get punished for your confidence. People will tell you, "Oh, you're not all that." It it honestly is exhausting. It doesn't matter which way you go. When you're attractive, you're still going to find yourself getting humbled. Like, it's it doesn't matter. It's the equivalent of when white people are like, "Oh, I don't feel like I have white privilege." But somebody's gonna come and they're still going to say, "Oh, you have white privilege." It's the equivalent of that. It doesn't matter what you do. It doesn't matter what you do. You could prove yourself with solidarity. You could prove yourself to being laid down and back to earth and whatever the [ __ ] you want to call it, but somebody is still going to accuse you of having this privilege because it it extends the aesthetics of what you're wearing. It's because of how you look. And that's why it's the same when it comes to attractiveness. You could wear crystals. You could wear your hair messy. You could look as down to earth. You could look like a bum. But if you have the jawline and the facial definition and the facial harmony and balance and certain features that these people want, yeah, you're going to be categorized with groups of people based on how you look. And this is why I talk about lookism. It affects how you experience interactions with people. Always. Always. How you look is always going to change, you know, your experiences with people.

So when you're average and confident, people cheer you on, right? They do. And I'm not saying, okay, so let me say this, right? When you are beautiful and attractive, people do cheer you on, too. But it's it's not as much as like how you see in the comment section of like a woman that is overweight and she's unattractive in the face on top of being overweight and then you see like she has 500,000 comments. I've never had 500,000 comments, but I've seen some big unattractive women with 500,000 comments, and they'll be like, "You go, girl. Period. Period. You're so gorgeous. You're so pretty." blah blah blah blah. When women compliment attractive women, that actually takes a lot of courage because most women are competitive. So that's why, you know, with certain compliments, I do, you know, know that they're real. But yeah, when you're unattractive, you're going to get way more compliments from women than men, actually. And and that and that dynamic isn't talked about a lot, right? Because women will try to flip it. Undesirable women will try to flip it. They'll try to act like when you are attractive, you get more compliments from women. And that's a form of social climbing that they use. That's not a real thing, right? It's really not a real thing. When you're attractive as a woman, you get compliments here and there from women or women that are also equally as attractive as you, right? Those are the only women that are going to give you compliments when you're attractive because they're already attractive. They feel comfortable in their attractiveness. So they it, you know, it's easier for them to give out a compliment to an attractive woman. But when a woman has like 500,000 comments from only women and there is no man in sight, you know for a fact. I I don't even got to explain that. I I feel like I don't even got to explain that. I really don't. Like you call it what you want. Say I'm being mean. I don't care.

All right. So my advice to any attractive woman. Um, I feel like if you, you know, clap back, don't give people what they want, right? You could say, "Thanks for your unsolicited insecurity dump." Or you could even be like, "Uh, if I'm not all that, why are you still here?" Or, you know, "Your opinion didn't add value." like just you got to learn how

To diss some of these men that try to humble you because there's no there's no getting around that experience as an attractive woman, right? It's always going to be uh men that do that. And honestly, that's actually a form of trying to gain sexual access, too. I feel like that's not talked about a lot—where men feel like if they nag you or they try to humble you enough, then you don't understand how attractive you are. Then that's when they'll try to swoop in and try to start a relationship with you or have access to having sex with you. Because if they make you feel insecure, then that diminishes your confidence. And when you don't have confidence as an attractive woman, it's easier for you to sleep with men that you have uh more privilege over.

Yeah, exactly. And this is why I exposed these dynamics because I feel like attractive women need to know them—cuz there's some attractive women that don't know these dynamics, but there's a lot of attractive women that do know these dynamics as well. But yeah, whenever average women get on the internet and they're just like, "Oh, uh, men don't try to humble me." Are are you sure about that? So, you don't have one experience with a [ __ ] trying to humble you? Not Not one. Not one. Not one.

Exactly. Exactly. Like if all attractive women just came together and took a notepad and they and they started comparing and contrasting notes and was like, "This happened to me. This happened to me. This happened to me," we would get a a more accurate, you know, example of what attractive experiences actually look like because there's not, you know, there's attractive people that speak out about these experiences, but then when they do, people hit them with the, "Oh, you're just complaining because uh you think the world revolves around you and stuff." So then, you know, those people go silent. So, we need more attractive people speaking up about this stuff.

So, in my opinion, I feel like being beautiful isn't the issue. Again, it's, you know, it's the societal thing. It It's not your fault for being attractive. That's the equivalent of blaming somebody uh for the race that they were born as. That's like telling somebody, "Oh, uh it's your fault that you were born as a white person." And it's like this person might be laidback. They might be down to earth. They might not even exhibit any of the negative qualities or stereotypes that are associated with them. But because they cannot control how they look, people are going to treat them based on how they look.

And honestly, this is why I feel like it's important to dismantle lookism because it affects like how people interact with each other on every [ __ ] level. But again, there are some people that, you know, um they don't really want to dismantle lookism itself. They just want to dismantle the aspects that they don't, you know, benefit from. So if they're unattractive, they feel like, well, if I just dismantle this one thing, then I'll feel better about myself. But they don't want to dismantle all these other things, which is so funny to me, right? Because it's it's showing you that even in human nature, people have a sense of comp competitive thinking and competition internalized in themselves and and they don't really want to switch places with other people. They don't actually want, you know, it to be like a even playing field because let's say if you're mixed race, right? I know a lot of other mixed race people that don't want to actually switch places with fully black people.

Oh yeah, I said it. I I said the quiet part out loud. Oh yeah, let's let's clock that real quick. Right. I know I know a lot of uh mixed race people behind closed doors that I know personally that have told me I would never want to switch places with a fully black person. So that lets you know that people are aware of the privilege dynamics and the systems in play. They do they they are aware of it. So when whenever people try to pretend like they don't understand that these dynamics exist, especially in society when it comes to lookism, I definitely feel like they're just it's a form of gaslighting because if you acknowledge this issue, then you're forced to acknowledge all these other issues. And there are people in the world that don't actually want to see the world, you know, in a better place. They don't, you know, they just want to benefit and they want to live the best life that they possibly can. So, you know, they don't care about, you know, certain issues and [ __ ] like that. And that's fine. That's their cup of tea. But yeah, I see through that [ __ ] too.

But yeah, if you're an attractive woman, don't let this type of [ __ ] get to you. Like, you really have to be vigilant mentally, and you have to know that when you're an attractive woman, women are going to become your enemy. Certain men are going to become your enemy. It's it's a lonely experience being attractive. It is. That is one thing that I can say. I don't know if anybody else feels this way, but I definitely feel like that. It is a lonely ass experience when you're attractive because it's like you have access to all of these things, but you still feel alone no matter what you do. It is lonely as [ __ ]

And then when it comes to the friendships, uh contrary to belief, right now I don't have no friends. Exactly. Like being an attractive woman is like it is a lonely thing. It really is. And that's just me being vulnerable, you know? Like um because it's like you're judged based on how you look. So people assume that you already have a bunch of friends. People assume that people are already doing all these good things for you. People assume that people are already treating you a certain type of way. That's the funniest part about the halo effect because it it creates a dynamic to where people are assuming that positive things are happening to you based on how you look and you could be having the most isolating time in your life. Yeah. So, it's it's pretty lonely in my opinion.

But I do want to recap on something that I definitely said when I said that people are basically complaining at the parts that they don't benefit from. That's why you have people that will complain about featurism and texturism and colorism, but if they're actually attractive, they don't care to dismantle attractive privilege because it's like, well, I benefit from being attractive and having a certain face, so I don't want to actually switch places with an unattractive person, but I do want to dismantle aspects that I don't benefit from. So, now I'm going to bring up other things. Oh, it's featurism that's the problem. It's texturism that's the problem. It's colorism that's the problem. But it's like people only want to dismantle things that they personally do not benefit from and they don't want to dismantle all things so everyone can be equal. That's what you have to think about. That's every human being. That's why I love human nature and I love psychology because it exposes that about humans. I'm just telling what the studies are saying, right? And I'm going off of like anecdotal experience from just observing my surroundings around me. It's like, let's say if you have a unattractive light-skinned woman that believes that it's featurism that's getting in her way of benefiting to the extreme of extent as a light-skinned woman. It's not that she really wants to dismantle colorism. The only reason why she's putting emphasis on featurism is because she's not benefiting fully from being a light-skinned woman as an attractive light-skinned woman would be benefiting. And that's how you know most people are full of [ __ ] because they want to benefit from everything. So they want to dismantle all the things that hold them back, but they don't want to dismantle everything to the point where everyone can be equal. But if you like this video, comment, like, and subscribe later.