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So, there is something really strange and really powerful that is built into the way that people work, especially women, that almost nobody ever talks about. And if you want to be able to get women extremely quickly and with the lowest amount of effort possible, this is something that you have to understand.
So this thing, this strange thing that's built into the way that people work, it's built into human nature; it's actually called the God gap. And what it essentially means is that throughout history, in every culture, women have always looked up to something that was higher than them. And that something could have been God; it could have been a king; it could have been a tribal leader; it could have even been a warrior. But it was in fact always something or someone that was above them—something that was above the women, not just stronger than them, but more in some deep way. Okay, so a guy who was higher valued than the women in some sort of way, a guy who was more capable, who was more certain, who was more dominant.
Now here's what's wild: If you fast forward all the way to today, okay, even in the modern world, when we say that we live in modern times, this instinct, or this God gap so to speak, that women are looking for, it still exists. It hasn't gone anywhere. In fact, it is still baked or hardwired deep into female nature, and it is something that you absolutely cannot reason with; you cannot argue it away. And women do not even choose consciously to feel it; it is something that is unconscious; it is all primal; it is all happening beneath the surface. Okay, it's just the way that women are built; it's the way they're wired; it's the way that they are programmed. Okay, and it's like anything else in life: Once you understand the programming, you basically have all the cheat codes to getting exactly what you want. Okay. Okay.
So to make this really simple, to put this really simply, every woman out there has an instinctual, very instinctual, very deep need to feel that the man that she is with, or the man that she's attracted to, or that she would like to do something with, she has to feel on an instinctual level that that man is above her in some way. Okay. Now, when I say that, I don't mean a man who is controlling her or a man who is hurting her, but simply a man that she can look up to; okay, a man that she admires, a man that has this quote-unquote God gap. Okay, and this is a guy that she has to be able to trust that he knows exactly what he's doing. Okay, if you look at the ancient kings, ancient warriors of the past, if you look at tribal leaders, right, all these figures, they're all men who knew what they were doing; okay, they were very, very good at what they did. And so she has to know that, essentially, you're a guy who's not lost, you're not guessing, you're not doubting yourself every 5 seconds, and that you were higher value than she is. Okay, and this doesn't have anything to do with money or muscles or some act that you're putting on where you're trying to, you know, fake being an alpha male or something like that. What this actually is is about how a woman feels when she is around you. Okay. If a woman feels, when she is around you, like you are a man who is higher value than her, if she feels like you are a man who she can look up to and admire, if she feels like you're a man who's going somewhere, a man who has a clear mind, you know, a man who has purpose and direction, that is what drives her absolutely crazy; that's what women look for at the end of the day, on a primal and biological level. Okay. But if a woman is around you and she doesn't feel that, if she senses that you are unsure of yourself, that you're unsure of your life, your direction, where things are going, if you are essentially a director who doesn't know how to direct his own movie, if she senses that you are passive or that you're seeking her approval, that's when the switch flips, and that's when her attraction dries up. And it's not because women are inherently mean or shallow; it's simply because without admiration, there can be no desire. Okay. Without this quote-unquote God gap, there can never be any desire; there can never be any attraction. Okay.
Essentially, what this means is that a woman has to see you in some way almost like a quote-unquote god, uh, uh, uh, to her. Okay, not necessarily, you know, an actual god, but she has to see you, in other words, as being above her, okay, in the same way that she would see like a king or something like that being above, you know, a peasant or, you know, an average person in terms of, you know, value. Okay, and I didn't make these rules; okay, I didn't make any of these rules; this is just the way that it is; this is female nature; it is what it is; women are wired this way; this is what turns them on; this is what makes them attracted to you. Okay. And if you really think about it, if a woman doesn't admire you, she can never desire you. Okay. And the weird thing about this is that women instinctually, on a primal and biological level, their body and their mind literally will not allow them to become attracted to a man who does not have this. Okay, they literally, it literally cannot happen, like on a biological level, on a physical level. A woman cannot be attracted or become attracted to a man who doesn't have this quote-unquote God gap, who doesn't have this, this admiration, who's not the type of man that women would admire. Okay. And the reason why is because their mind just simply blocks it off. Okay. A woman might like you; she might say that you're sweet; she might say that you're a nice guy. Okay, this is the typical line that women say when, you know, their friends are asking them why they didn't go with, you know, Joe Schmo, who is, you know, a really, really nice guy. You know, they'll always say, "Oh, he was such a nice guy, you know, but," and then there's always the "but." And it's because he didn't have that X factor; he didn't have that God gap; he didn't have that thing that makes women admire him; he didn't have that, you know, whatever it is that makes women essentially look up to him. Okay. Okay. And women might, you know, like a guy; they might say that you're sweet, for example, and they might even stick around a little bit out of guilt or just out of habit or out of not wanting to be shamed by other people. But eventually, what will happen is women will leave because they cannot be attracted to a guy who they do not admire. Okay. And this is the unfortunate reality of female nature and the way that it works. Okay. This is essentially what the God gap is at the end of the day, what it means, and the key takeaway here is very simple. Okay. Women are wired, on a biological, primal level, to look up to the man that they submit to. Okay. A woman cannot submit to you if she does not admire you, if she does not look up to you in the same way that, uh, you know, an average person would look up to a king or something. So to put this simply, in order for a woman to be truly attracted to you 110%, she has to look up to you in a deep emotional and even spiritual way. Okay. She has to look up to you almost like you are some kind of god or a king or something. Okay. And if she can't, if a woman cannot look up to you in this way, if you do not have, you know, a handful of certain traits and qualities and behaviors that you do that cause a woman to look up to you in this way, that cause a woman to admire you as being essentially higher value than she is, if she cannot do that, she'll never be able to feel safe giving herself to you or submitting to you, and therefore she'll never be able to be attracted to you. Okay. Women instinctually, because of, you know, in terms of survival, they cannot be attracted to men that they do not admire, men that they do not look up to in the same way that you would look up to a king. Okay. And it's just the way that it is. If you look at the majority of men out there, the reason why women are not attracted to them is because they don't have the certain factors or traits; they don't display the certain qualities or behaviors that cause women to admire them, that cause women to look up to them in the way that they would look up to a king or something. Okay, or a warrior or a tribal leader. Okay. And so this thing, this, this God gap so to speak, this is what has to exist anytime you want to attract women. And if you want to attract them in the most powerful way possible, this quote-unquote God gap has to exist; there has to be this gap in value in terms of what your value is and what her value is. Okay. In other words, if you imagine two pedestals, okay, you always have to be on the higher pedestal; you have to be on a higher pedestal than she is; in other words, you have to be seen in a way that she is looking up to you and admiring you. Okay. And if she's not, if she doesn't, then attraction simply is not possible. Okay. So that's—hope you guys enjoyed this one, and as always, until next time, thanks for watching.