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Sex Party with your host Dustin Ripka. Hello and welcome to Sex Party. I'm your host Dustin Ribka. With me on the show this week is super popular cam star Jenna James. Jenna and I are going to talk about everything you'd want to know about the world of camming. Uh, being a cam girl, being a creator who's live for 10 hours a day sometimes. Uh, we talk about what it feels like to have an orgasm to come in front of 8,000 people who are probably jerking off, too. We also get into her buying a [ __ ] machine on Black Friday that gave her the most unexpected, profound, bonkers, hard orgasm on cam. She squirted multiple times. Uh, the audience went wild. We talk about her collabing with other women on cam and also collabing with her neighbor. Where the kamshaw is going. Is it a facial? Is it a cream pie? What does she prefer and does the audience get to choose? She also shares stories about what she is consistently getting requests for on cam as well as some of the more bonkers things that she has gotten requests for on cam. Believe me, you are not going to want to miss that insane piece of this. We talk about cam room etiquette and at the end of the episode, I talk to Jenna about whether or not she's going to push into mainstream porn. You guys are going to love this one. So, without further ado, please enjoy my conversation with Jenna James.
>> This week's conversation.
>> Jenna James, welcome to Sex Party. How are we feeling?
>> I'm doing good. Um, what is it like middle of the afternoon? I'm ready to start my day.
>> Yeah. Yeah, I'm the same way. Um,
>> I I if I don't have to be up early, I won't. I hate getting up early.
>> Um, so I totally get it. Totally understand.
>> I used to be very disciplined. I used to be up at like 5:00 a.m. and then go until 10 p.m. and go to the gym in the morning. But lately it's just like until 11. I love it. And then Yeah.
>> So, do you think there's a like truly a benefit of getting up that early? I mean, you can still get the same amount of [ __ ] done, right?
>> I feel like I get less done now that I get up late. When I used to get up at 5:00 a.m., this is when I went to school and was finishing my degree. Um, I would go to the gym and then go to the studio, get homework done, work on art pieces and things like that. Um, and then I still had like all of this time to do everything else. And it was like what, only 10:00 a.m. And I'm like, "Okay, now what?"
>> Oh my god. Yeah.
>> So, I feel like getting up that early actually does add a lot of time into your day in which I do miss cuz I'm not a late night owl. Like, I could be up till like 4:00 a.m. if I'm, you know, and get the same amount of hours, but, you know, once the sun hits the, you know, ground, I'm just like, I'm out. It's dark out. I'm done. Yeah. I don't know. I've just been in I've just been like a night person my whole life and it's like hard to switch. You know what I'm saying? Like it's so hard to like
>> go from being Batman to Superman. You know?
>> Feels. Yeah.
>> Yeah. It's [ __ ] ridiculous. I mean, I will say sometimes I wake up and I'm like, "Oh my god, I have so much time." But then usually by like 1:00 I'm like, "Everything is Well, not everything, but all this shit's done now. I'm exhausted. I need a nap." which totally takes away from, you know, whatever.
>> Um, they don't care. They're just like, "What the [ __ ] is going on?" So, full transparency, you and I met um this month, uh, well, actually, no, last month at AVN on the red carpet.
>> How How was your AVN experience?
>> My first AVN experience, um, it was amazing. Um, I feel like that whole flu thing was going around too. So, I was sick a little bit before and I was just a little groggy, but nonetheless, I think it was really fun and amazing.
>> Yeah.
>> Um, I did the Avia booth, which was great.
>> Um, I actually honestly for not being mainstream, I was very much in everything and I was pretty surprised about that. So, um, the awards were great. Uh, Meeting everybody was awesome. Uh, and yeah.
>> So, you you were on the red carpet. I know I asked you and I can't recall and even if I even if I could recall, we'll we'll do it again. Were you nominated for something? You you looked really cool. You had this rockstar [ __ ] vibe going.
>> Oh, thank you. Um,
>> uh, I was nominated for favorite Kim Girl.
>> Um, and hottest new creator. Okay, so those are two big [ __ ] Yeah. Yeah.
>> Um, what did it feel like to be nominated?
>> Crazy. Um, especially only being professionally in this industry for under a year.
>> Um, I remember looking at my phone and just like refreshing, refreshing until they came out. And then they came out and um I was just like in awe, you know, crying, screaming, throwing up.
>> Who did you um who did you text or call first?
>> Um my husband was currently with me. Um and he's like, "We got to go out. We got to celebrate. We got to do all of this." And I'm like, I'm already in my sweats. I'm like, "I want to stay here. And so we ended up going to Sushi. But um
>> yes, I
>> He's the one that told everybody. He's the one that just was like, "Oh my god, he's up for two more awards."
>> Dude, I love this guy already. He's [ __ ] [ __ ] cheerleader.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. And Sushi. And I'm hopefully there's some Saki involved. [ __ ]
>> I There should have been. I don't think I got any. I I honestly forget, but um I was more hyped about the uh the sushi rules, honestly. But
>> what's your
>> I think we did go out like drinking later that weekend.
>> Yeah, you have to celebrate. You have to celebrate. I
>> uh the podcast is nominated for the first time. I think I see, but I didn't I didn't realize they were out till late and I'm in Chicago, so it was like it was like 11 or 12 or something
>> and whatever. And I think I actually was like, "We're doing a shot." Like like I need the excuse. I would have done a shot anyway, but you know, whatever. I definitely came in here and like [ __ ] ripped a [ __ ] double shot or whatever. Um,
>> what's your what's your go-to sushi order? Like what are you are you like a do you get crazy with it or is it like more basic [ __ ] Nigiri rolls.
>> I love a good roll. Um, I'm not a fan of white fish. Um, I love salmon though and I always get like anything eel. I love eel. Um,
>> yeah. I like uh the individual slices and then just like any kind of eel roll, any kind of salmon roll. Um, but yeah,
>> they can't do white fish. No.
>> What is it?
>> It's a texture for me.
>> Okay. Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. I mean, because it's not just a visual game. It's definitely a texture game, too.
>> And there's and there's levels to that [ __ ] I remember when I first started eating sushi, I couldn't eat any like salmon row, like salmon egg. Now I'm like, give me all the salmon row. Give it give it to me. Whatever.
>> Yeah. No, I love I'm a sushi obsessive, so you're in good company.
>> Oh, really?
>> Yes. I [ __ ] I I It's like unhealthy almost the amount of time. Like I think about sushi way too much. So, let's put it
>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. If I could if I could afford to eat it every day, would
>> Yeah. Yeah. For sure. Um, okay. So, let's say there's some people in the audience, because I'm sure there's some people in the audience now who are here because they know who you are. They're excited. They're your fans.
>> They voted for you in both categories. I'm sure, right? Multiple times daily. They love you, right? But let's say
>> there's some people in the audience who don't know who you are and they're like, "Dude, shut the [ __ ] up and let her talk." Which I'm going to do. Can you talk about who you are and what it is that you do?
>> Yeah. Um, I'm sure many people don't know who I am yet. I'm sure a handful of people do. Um, and I think a lot of those are bands that are into live cams. Um, and because that's what I do. I'm a I'm a top model on strip chat and um I do live cams for like 10 hours a day sometimes. Um I do do my clips and scenes. I've been getting more into like producing my own kind of artistic thing around it
>> and working with different people. Um, but yeah, I mostly do the cams. I love it. I love talking to chat, you know. I love having like a live stream vibe and then getting hot and spicy later into it.
>> Yeah. Yeah. I mean, lately I've been having more cam girls, cam artists, whatever we're we're calling. I mean, I think because I mean there is such a there's such an art form to sex work, but also cam is very special because it is live. It is. You can see them pouring in or pouring out or both, you know.
>> And you there Cam seems to be the place where
>> some of the most interesting like requests come from on the show. Like I just feel like people maybe it's cuz they can turn their camera on and go one-on-one with you and they can they can do whatever. Like we've had a lot of people on the show who have talked about some crazy crazy things. Um,
>> what was it about camming that that drew you in that was like, okay, this is interesting. I enjoy this.
>> I think at first it was the fast return, but even then it wasn't that fast of a return for me because I wasn't doing it professionally. It was more of like an aspect to promote
>> um my subscription sites. Um, and it was it slowly turned into something else of interacting with people oneon- one. Um, being in the moment rather than like knowing I got to go edit and clip something later.
>> Yeah.
>> Cuz that's just I feel like if that was the case and I kept doing that forever and more more so focused on that, my love for it would have died pretty quickly
>> rather than I'd like to like spread it out. But um the love of doing cams mostly came from just seeing new people every day and also the same kind of people every day, you know. So I get to have I have one uh user that has been with me since the beginning of being on strip chat and he's still here and he still comes around. Um I'm sure I'll see the other ones eventually. they always come back, but this guy I see every single day and it's great. And um I think it's just a whole different type of connection that I enjoy.
>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Um so Okay. What would you say? Well, why why is strip chat your number one? cuz there's there are so many different um cam cam I mean there's so many different camp sites and everybody seems to have a favorite and for different reasons but you you mentioned strip chat you said it was your primary
>> cam site why why strip chat
>> um well I think I have everything on strip chat now even like um my collab clips and everything and
>> Oh wow okay
>> I think I only have one other clip store um in which is not very updated but Everything is on strip chat and I think
>> every cam model will say finding the right platform that works for you because there's different types of users that will go to different sites.
>> Yeah.
>> You know, um whereas I don't know, can I name drop here?
>> Yeah.
>> Okay. So, it's like not to say anything, you know, wrong or things about the sites, but um streaming is definitely more catered to people that are in one-on- ones or do privates. And I typically see a different kind of um clientele over there. And ChatterBait's more of a freebie kind of tube site of just like people will tend to be lurking and never like growing a connection. and where all of these features that strip chat has of like a subscription, tears, fan clubs, things like that, um, games on there, um, it just seems more personal and meeting somebody and connecting with them and then keeping them on the site and only is returned, you know, monetarily through you, you know.
>> Yeah. So, um it just has everything in that platform and also the owners and um the team at Ship Chat is just so they honestly are a huge part of my success because they advocate and want to see me grow so they will help and keep pushing me and it's just so nice that they care so much about their models. Like they care so much more than I have seen.
>> Yeah.
>> And it's just it's great. They have like this whole community discord for models to communicate and talk and we can bring it up to technical teams of things that we suggest or want and it's I've never had that kind of like support through any other site honestly.
>> Like half the sites don't even know it exists because there's so many users.
>> Yeah.
>> Well, yeah. Especially like I mean watch this name drop. Like especially [ __ ] Only Fans. Like they don't have [ __ ] for [ __ ] And like there's no model support, no model anything. There's no support for anyone over there. So,
>> I totally understand. Also,
>> strip chat threw a [ __ ] banging party with Holly Randall in Hollywood during Axbiz. So much fun. They took over at Dave and Busters for [ __ ] sake.
>> That was incredible.
>> Didn't realize I could have that. Like the only other time I've had that much fun at Dave and Busters, I was like blacked out drunk, you know? You know,
>> I mean, there was also an option to do that there too. I mean, I I didn't get blacked out, but like
>> what was what was cool about that party
>> was they gave you there was like food everywhere. All the games were free. There was a [ __ ] DJ and a band at one point, right?
>> Red carpet, the whole nine.
>> And they gave you drink tickets. And coming from like a nightlife background, I thought it was so brilliant. Like, well, how has no one ever thought of this? It gave you two drink tickets, but then two hours in, you would think that it would flip to Cash Bar. No, no, no. It flipped to [ __ ] open bar, but only after two hours, which is like money. Oh, dude.
>> So much fun. So much fun.
>> Honestly, I saw it was probably the most enjoyable industry party that I have been to. um like I'm sure we went to all of them of the white party um the red party and all of these things that these companies throw and it just seems like it's the same thing over and over and over. Um and it was so refreshing to actually have an activity to do with the people around you and not feel pressured to do it.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> And it wasn't just like weird awkward mingling in which you're lurking around. Um, so it was fun and it made me like feel more connected inside of the people that did attend.
>> Yeah. Yeah. And I got my ass whooped in air hockey so bad. It's like I I'm actually still embarrassed. So
>> really, what's your favorite um arcade game or one that you're really good at?
>> H So depending on the day. Um yeah,
>> but like I'm old school. Like I love I'm a Mortal Kombat guy. I couldn't find it there because it was probably like phased out because it's old. But like um there's some new version I'm sure they could roll. But like I'm a classic kind of guy. Like a Mortal Kombat is my [ __ ] jam. Uh
>> I did a lot of like the um like you know the gun the alien whatever.
>> Yeah.
>> I thought I was good at ski ball but like that's not real.
>> [ __ ] up bad. Like real bad. But I always I had an ex who was like really competitive with air hockey and we used to just like
>> you know right and like whatever and I thought okay
>> I'm I'm going to play this person in air hockey. I'm just going to whoop their ass. I lost and I [ __ ] you not I I have to be honest like I lost seven games in a row.
>> Oh my god.
>> Yeah. No, it was [ __ ] terrible. So terrible. Yeah. Um, it was really bad. And so, yeah, but no, I mean, yeah, Strip Chat knows how to throw a party, obviously, and we love Holly Randall. She's OG and so like teamed up with her. Um,
>> and it's interesting what you say about the different sites for different things because it does seem true like if you want a certain thing, you go to Jerkmate. If you want, you know, whatever, you go to um,
>> you know, you go to like like like you said, like ChatterBait. And I know a lot of people have been on the show. They started their they're like mainstream porn stars now, but they started their careers, you know, on camps.
>> Yeah. Like Chatter Chatterbait, Jerkmate, [ __ ] strip chat, all of that. Mhm.
>> Um what so and then what's crazy is like just the psychology of like running a room on cam. It just to me is so fascinating because you have to appeal to all these different people's things, but then the ones who like what you're doing will congregate and like start echoing each other's requests or whatever. So what is your typical room like? Like what kind of stuff are you doing? Well, I usually do the same kind of show two times a day.
>> Um, that way, you know, if somebody's like in the East Coast, they can see me earlier or later and whatever. I'm getting I'm marketing towards different people in different areas. Yeah.
>> Um, but we usually just sit out and chat and hang out. Um, some models might say I do a lot for free, but I guess I do it for free because I love it. Um, and it just comes naturally, but I do a lot of dirty talking and addressing inside of the public chat, which is mostly just teasing.
>> Yeah.
>> Um, and then we go into like a ticket show where all like the naughty stuff happens.
>> Um, and which piqus people's interest and want to join and things like that. Um, there's some days where I'm really lazy and I'll just play video games and talk to people.
>> Some days we don't even like get naughty at all. But um some days it's all jokes and nothing else. And then there's days where people just don't talk. And that I think gets to a lot of people's heads and how to navigate that.
>> Um because it does get frustrating. But I I would say it's different every day.
>> You know, you never know what you're going to expect.
>> Yeah. So is it is it you usually in like lingerie or or something or a bikini or something or what do you do usually?
>> Honestly, I would Um,
>> the jit factor.
>> The tit factor. Yeah,
>> possible episode title.
>> Push-up bra. Yeah, I love wearing my push-up bra. Um um and usually that's just what brings people's in and they're like, but um and then like um but usually I just like I I'm fully clothed. and don't get unclothed um unless we're in a ticket show.
>> Mhm.
>> Um and it's like it's eight tokens. You can see my holes for eight tokens. That's like 5 cents. Okay.
>> Yeah. Come on, guys.
>> But as like as a model, you have to learn how your site pushes you and the algorithms behind it and which is a very much um
>> trial and error. So like I'm going to close things off for eight tokens because that's going to push to more people because it's a lower amount, you know.
>> Yeah. Yeah,
>> if everybody's coming in and seeing what it's doing because they're like, "Oh, I can afford this." You know? So,
>> so
>> there's never a dull moment.
>> No, I I doubt you seem like someone who would be like just a blast to hang out with in general. So, you know,
>> there's times I crash out on Kim, though. There's sometimes crash out on Kim. I
>> know, but you're human, too. Come on. You know,
>> true.
>> Yeah. Um, okay. So, you said some models say that you give away too much like in an unticked show. So, it's like that's basically like them saying like you're showing too much tit the tit factor and and like you know dirty talking or something like that.
>> I mean, every model is going to do something differently and that's just what works for them, right?
>> Yeah.
>> Um I know I know a majority would never PM on the side or give a dirty talking request through something for free. Mhm.
>> Um,
>> and
>> honestly, I just get bored sometimes and I will just do it.
>> Yeah. And and it's also like a fun factor for me like just reaching out to somebody in my room that's for free and just being like, "Hey, what are you doing here? What's your name?" Blah, blah, blah. Um, but some models don't work that way and that's that's totally okay. Yeah. Um, I found that it brings me more joy when I interact more even if you know other people charge for it.
>> Yeah. I mean, it also shows that I think that you you're like you're into it. You know what I'm saying? And that's like an important
>> No, I'm in it for the love of the game. Okay.
>> Okay. But Okay. And I'm not outing I'm not any I'm not [ __ ] outing anybody, right? But some people will just say that [ __ ] right? And like,
>> yeah,
>> you can tell it's all in the eyes, guys. You can you can you can tell if someone's like really into it and really not. And like you seem like someone who would be really into it. And obviously to [ __ ] No one's doing anything for 10 hours if they don't enjoy it. So, there's that. Well, I mean, you know what I mean.
>> Well, okay. Well, the thing is, maybe this is too much TMI, but I guess it it works for their show. Um,
>> sure. I don't remember the last time I masturbated off cam.
>> Um, really?
>> So, I think there's also this kink for me of being watched and knowing that 8,000 people are watching me and jerking it to me and being like, that is so hot.
>> And there's also another factor of like there's this group of individuals that are really into it every stream to edge me to get to there. Mhm.
>> And I think, you know, I'm going on there basically now just to come.
>> Okay.
>> And I love that. Okay. And there's there's some kind of like pleasure inside of that of a kink that I didn't even realize until recently. Yeah.
>> Um and you know, just logging on and into your job.
>> The job's the second factor for me at this point.
>> Yeah. You got to get that nut. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. You gotta get that nut.
>> Yeah, exactly,
>> Jenna. Yeah. Um, yeah. I mean, I think so. Yeah, it sounds like it [ __ ] became like a like a a kink or a fetish at this point, which is great for everybody else. Um, do you remember the first time you came on cam?
>> No, honestly, I have memories of a goldfish at this point. Um um I can tell you the first time Well, I recently got a [ __ ] machine um maybe six six months ago.
>> I was like, "Okay, you know, I'm just going to
>> go all in."
>> Oh yeah, go all in. I think it was like maybe it was Black Friday sale or something and I was like, "Okay, this makes sense to get it." Um
>> and I can tell you the first time that I remember coming from the [ __ ] Machine and that shit's always different. Okay, tell me that story. So, you buy Okay. Black Friday [ __ ] machine sale. Amazing.
>> Amazing. Right. So, you're like, I I I've been thinking about this. I'm a cam girl. I don't have one yet.
>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
>> So, then you find the one you want. You look at the reviews. You ask your friends, right?
>> I just bought it. I was like, you know, I have every single Leven toy. I have their whole freaking line at this point. Um, and I was like, it's the only one I don't have and this one I want. And so I got it and we used it. Um, and everybody was super excited for it.
>> Um, it is
>> I'm not a squirter.
>> Okay. I don't do the water works. Um, but this one it could definitely get me there.
>> And it happened maybe twice and water sports person. It doesn't work for me.
>> Wow. Okay. So,
>> but it was it was amazing. It was life-changing.
>> So, the first time you used it was on cam.
>> Yeah.
>> [ __ ]
>> You can't masturbate with this thing.
>> I mean,
>> I wouldn't.
>> Okay. So, you So, you hook this thing up. You're excited. You You go into like a ticketed show, right?
>> Yeah.
>> I'm sure you teased it in the general.
>> I don't even know if I I think we just went right into the ticket show because I was way too excited.
>> Yeah. Um
>> yeah.
>> Okay. So you assume the position, you hit the button and then what happens?
>> Well, no actually. So I hook it up. So the way in which Leven's toys work, especially for cam girls, because they are toys you can use for longdistance play. Okay.
>> Um you can hook them up to the software. So strip chat has a software to read Loveven's toys in which every tip
>> activates the toy.
>> Okay. So they are tipping and basically are playing with me as this thing's going off.
>> Um so it's very interesting to see how people use it and if people have used it before and then they kind of get like all confused of how it works or whatever. Um
>> and yeah, so they're doing the work there.
>> Okay. So it's like pay for pump.
>> Pay for pump. Yeah. At the tip factory for sure. at the tit factory. The tit factor pay for p. I mean Jesus the episode titles are just writing themselves. We love an episode like this. So they pay and then sudden obviously then someone goes crazy
>> and
>> Oh yeah,
>> you're just getting rocked, right? Yeah.
>> From the front or from the back the first time?
>> Um I think it was the front. Um in my cam room I very much focus on angles and experience in that way. Um it's more of like a cinematic factor of like
>> Yeah.
>> Um but the only one I knew how to set up at that point is just kind of like far away. So um did it from the front and yeah it was life-changing. It was great.
>> Okay. Wait a minute. Wait a second. Okay. So this is happening and like a couple minutes go by or is it longer than that? Well, I'm I'm sure it just went like done. Um, but that did not stop us for the last 3 hours.
>> Okay. So, in in your head, this is your first time using this thing and they're going [ __ ] crazy that way before. Yeah.
>> Right. And so, they're just going nuts just like throwing money, right?
>> Yeah.
>> And this thing is like pounding you out and then you're like, "Oh my god, I'm going to [ __ ] come." And then you squirt.
>> Yeah, basically that was the first time. Um and that was that was crazy. It doesn't happen too much anymore. Um now it is a luxury to get it out
>> respectfully.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Um but then again, like I have still so many more toys that people like. Um, it's interesting to see certain clients come in. Yeah. For people or regulars come in and they like specific toys and specific angles, so I know exactly what to get out for them.
>> Especially if they're longtime like viewers and stuff. Um, but that one that one's one of my favorites to get out for sure. The [ __ ] [ __ ]
>> Yeah. So,
>> it's a [ __ ] to carry around though. I would not bring it anywhere.
>> Yeah. No, you got to keep that [ __ ] in the studio. Yeah.
>> Yeah. Um, so what does it take for you? Did like just a bunch of people requesting and paying for you to get that thing out?
>> Um, it's more of a tip item menu. Um,
>> my my item menus are cheaper than most, but I guess again I'm in it for the love of the game.
>> Yeah.
>> But yeah, they just they tip to get it out. Maybe if I'm feeling really freaky, I'll be like putting it out for free of like Yeah. Well, I mean that's again that says a lot why you're so successful in getting nominated for things is because you know you can tell that you enjoy it and even if you even if you enjoyed it but you let the factor of like no one's no one's tipping or not going to stop you from at least going in that direction. I feel like you know
>> right? Sorry I get distracted by my cat coming in even though you think
>> No, it's okay. It's okay. Um, okay. So, what are the most cuz you go you can go oneonone with somebody and like they can activate their video and like all the things.
>> What are the most common requests you get just overall like on strip chat on cam?
>> Um, I would say with a private
>> uh let's do private first and then I'll ask about public.
>> Okay. Um I privates are very different cuz they're very specific, but often it's just um I feel like at this point people are very eager just to get off and not wait for the ticket show.
>> Mhm.
>> Um
>> um it's very rare that I get weird requests. Um, but they do happen. Um, I would say in public, in public, it's just like dirty talking, honestly.
>> Okay.
>> It's not much request. It's more of a vibe. It feels like a huge like viewer orgy.
>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. It [ __ ] sounds like a viewer orgy for sure.
>> Yeah.
>> Um, well, you did bring up that was going to be my next question. It was like the weirdest. And again, like I I don't king shame. I know you don't king shame either, but what is like the most bizarre kind of bonkers request that you've got anywhere on on camp?
>> I had I have two that come to mind. one, I had a viewer that would continuously come back and and it is a hard topic, but um I don't know if it was a kink or something. I was very new to this. I was very new to of like why this kink what it is for them psych psych psychologically for this.
>> Mhm. um in which I never knew how to respond in the oneonone. Okay. But this guy would Can I go into details?
>> Yeah, we have an
>> I know. And there's been worse ones as to what is it like something somebody put that on them. Um that wasn't on the my campsite, but that has been a weird one.
>> Okay.
>> Yeah, it's a hard one, especially like for a male to hear that. And I bet you feel that. I bet you feel that right now.
>> Well, yeah, but I'm also wondering like Okay. or is that like
>> I think it's like a prolonged he keeps doing it
>> which um he eventually become infertile and like getting to know him more personally. Yeah.
>> Um he didn't feel like he deserved to come. So I guess it gets to a point where you just like nothing comes out, nothing's produced or whatever.
>> Um
>> I think still to this day I don't know the whole details behind of why he did it.
>> Yeah. But I guess he trusted me enough to do it with him. Um,
>> that's insane. Like
>> it's Yeah, it is insane.
>> It's interesting that everybody comes to me for dummy mommy [ __ ] and I'm not I get the tattoos and like the Aries kind of like aura.
>> Sure.
>> Um, but I am not.
>> Okay.
>> Okay. Okay. Well, hold on. Hold that thought before we get to that cuz I I'll ask you a second. But like um so they would do whatever act it was that was
>> Mhm.
>> Cuz when I think like someone like actually go like
>> like uh whatever, right? So like they they were like
>> that was more of just like a picture.
>> Oh,
>> and that was a different instance. That was a different person. But those are the two weird ones that I've gotten.
>> Yeah.
>> Um
>> but the one before that would
>> Yes. He would jerk off.
>> Um he would feel it. Nothing would come out.
>> Oh man. Well, you know,
>> I'm just like, okay.
>> Yeah. What's crazy about that is if that's your kink, eventually you're not going to be able to do it because eventually, you know, you're going to achieve the like the chemical whatever. I think you'll still be able to feel the sensation, but then again, like I didn't look too much into that kink as to why.
>> Um I think at that point I'm just like not going to do that.
>> Yeah,
>> you don't want to see that.
>> Every time I ask that question, this is what I mean about Cam. Like Cam is like it's different cuz I'll ask you that question on other stuff >> once we get there, but like it's just different in Cam. I don't know. There's just a different kind of vibe that's going on in Cam. And I think it's cuz it's in real time. There's just something about
>> Yeah. And it's with the person one on one and it's like they're getting like how much porn can you find a I guess like it's just or like feeling not worthy to come in a way and
>> you know so it depends on the model's limits as well.
>> Um I'm at a hard limit where I just can't do anything mommy anymore. I just can't. So, I think there's certain requests that you just can't find in clips or tubes um or studios and which that's why they come to cams or they just have like a fascination with, you know, the girl that's on camera and wants to have it from them.
>> Yeah, for sure. For sure. Okay. So, you're so you so you're more of of submissive then.
>> Oh, yeah. Um I am in real time. Yes. Like in my own personal sex life, yes. I love being a pillow princess. Okay. Okay.
>> Um on Cam, I love to play this role of being um degraded, which is interesting, but I think it works well.
>> Tell me why it's interesting. Um, I think from what I've seen, a lot of the users that come into my room are more alpha domy kind of thing
>> and which they maybe are shy to express this side of them inside of their own personal sex lives to their partners. Yeah.
>> Um, their wives, their girlfriends, their hookups or whatever. And it's a space for them to actually use that degrading kink in real time with somebody that's comfortable with using it. Mhm.
>> Um, of course there's a limit for myself and what I will and will not say, but you know, saying of like uh, you know, like a kumla or like things like that like Yeah. Um, I definitely give them that kind of experience and it works well.
>> Yeah,
>> I love acting stupid and, you know, begging for it on cam.
>> Okay. Okay. So, yeah, that I mean that that tracks like that tracks like a submissive kind of
>> um
>> so there's more of like a real factor of like who I am outside of this and bringing it
>> but altering it a little bit inside of Cam.
>> Yeah,
>> cuz I would never love to be degraded in bed with my husband, you know, like no, don't do that.
>> But I could definitely do it and act this role.
>> Yeah.
>> In a sense online. Yeah. So, does that like the the more you push it, when you go to your limits of being like degraded, demean, that kind of thing, like is that does that get you off? Like, do you are you coming from that
>> or is it more a role you're playing?
>> No, it's more of a role and you specifically find that in the one-on- ones, kind of like the guys that just want to get off and whatever and they want to use that. Yeah.
>> Um, I think when the ones that stick around to the ticket show, they love they're the ones that just love pleasuring women and want to see me get off. Yeah. you know, um the degrading ones, it's typically the my quick privates and things like that.
>> Um
>> and it's it's nice cuz I get to have like different things that I'm into in different lights at different points in my session,
>> you know? Like I'm not bringing this like degrading factor inside of our ticket show because that's not like the vibe anymore, you know?
>> Yeah. Yeah.
>> So, I think being a cam girl is also like reading the room.
>> Yeah. I mean, Jesus, right? Like it's and and and that's what's crazy is like when I mean you said like 8,000 people, right? And like what a power there is to like be getting off to 8,000 people [ __ ] getting off or whatever, but at the same time it's 8,000 people who,
>> you know, might be broken up into different categories of Avengers teams who want different things, you know, you know, or whatever.
>> Yeah.
>> It's like you have to read the room, I would imagine.
>> Yeah. And sometimes it's hard um because maybe what works for the day is not going to work for later in the show and maybe if there's some aspect that's being like brought into it or trickles down later on then it fails. Like it's
>> it's hard to navigate. Um
>> and it's all strategy. Um but ultimately at the end of the day is to come have everybody come.
>> Yeah, of course. Um, okay. Um, so on on cam, like do you find that sometimes there you have these really big shows and then other times it's just like no one's around or is it consistently pretty big?
>> Um, I can say that in the summer it is because, you know, dopamine's flowing, everybody's wanting to have a good time, you know, off from college or things like that. Just
>> summer is more of a time as us as us humans, we like to spend money and experience things rather than winter times.
>> Yeah.
>> Um I've heard February, this is my first full year as like a camp model and seeing all the seasons. Um
>> February is definitely one of the slowest months. Um in which if nobody is, you know, tipping or talking inside of my off or I'll just be like, "Okay, I'm going to just do whatever today." And so if you guys stick around, you guys stick around. Um, but otherwise I'll go and focus on something else. Um, but I feel like I lost track of the question.
>> No, I just want But some people say like sometimes like you can never pinpoint, you know, how big a show is going to be based on the last show.
>> That's true. Yes. Um, and I think that's also another strategy as a cam model of like knowing what times do work for you.
>> Yeah. like from I know that from 1 to 4 I need to be online because it sets me up for the day and it reaches my goal.
>> Yeah.
>> Um I never miss from that time frame because I know that's my busiest whether I choose to keep going after that. Um
>> it's a hit or miss of what it could happen but I just know from certain times that it will be busy.
>> Yeah. Um, then again, knowing certain events that are happening, like after the Super Bowl, everybody's drunk, they want to get online, they want to end their day. Um, so that also is another strategy, but um, sometimes it's unexpected to just having a dead room. Yeah.
>> You don't know why.
>> Did you tear it up after the Super Bowl? Did you make a bunch of money? I
>> think it was during the Super Bowl.
>> I bet that game was kind of slow. I was I was hearing about like um the halftime show and I'm like, "Okay, slay." Um I think after the game ended, I had one regular come in um that I see often. He was so He was drunk. He was pissed off that the Seahawks lost,
>> right?
>> Wait, the Seahawks won.
>> The Seahawks won? Oh, yeah. That that they won and that the Patriots lost cuz he's a Patriots fan. Ah,
>> and he was saying something about like [ __ ] Chris Hemsworth or something and I'm just like what are you talking about and it's just like he got so mad and he's like [ __ ] I don't care my credit card's going to like deal with this to and wanted to like have fun and drunk. I don't know.
>> That's hilarious. Wow. Um,
>> but definitely a little bit after the the um the Super Bowl I got a hit of it, but I think I was more in the middle.
>> Yeah. I don't know. Wonder what Chris Hemsworth had to do with anything. Why are you Why are you bitching about Thor, bro?
>> I I don't know. And uh everybody everybody in the chat was confused.
>> I bet was like, "Okay."
>> Yeah. Um, so on cam, how crazy has it gotten? Like just is it toys? Is it you masturbating? Have you done like girl girl stuff? Have you done like partnered stuff with with the partners? Like how how nuts has it got?
>> Um, yeah. I think this is a whole story that I love sharing. My husband does um come online with me. I think when we first introduced him,
>> um, we wanted to keep the separation of me being in a relationship because we didn't want to ruin the fantasy of for other people.
>> Sure.
>> Um, so we gave him the role of a neighbor.
>> Okay. Everybody, it's neighbor is pretty typical inside of porn.
>> Yeah. But I think what gets me about this story is we created such lore for him and it's gotten to the extent of lore that we brought one of our mutual friends inside the ticket show too and she played the role of his girlfriend and then this girlfriend got so pissed off that he comes over to collabs with me that she needed to be involved and now she's pissed off every time he comes over here.
>> Oh my god.
>> And that's why we don't see her anymore. Oh
>> yeah.
>> So, still to this day, he is believed to be the neighbor.
>> Um,
>> somehow this neighbor comes into every group show and I'm just surprised how nobody's figured it out yet. U, maybe they have and they don't want to ruin their own illusion.
>> Yeah.
>> But, um, yeah, I my collabs on stream are very strategic of what would work for me
>> and especially other people. there's another top model on there um who's grown to be one of my best friends and every time that we do a collab together it just it completely blows the site up at this point. Um and just the dynamic and energy really works whereas some other ones don't really hit. Um but it's still something I'm trying to explore in 2026 of more collab streams.
>> Yeah. Yeah.
>> Yeah. Yeah.
No, I think that's that's awesome. That's fascinating. So, okay. When the neighbor comes over like and so they're they're paying to watch you have sex with or for the neighbor to you or whatever, right?
Like, is it do you give them a choice of like where the come shot goes or is it all like predetermined?
Sometimes, sometimes. Um, I knew it was a good question. Yeah. Yeah.
Yeah. Um, there's times depends how you really got to roll with the flow of how things are going inside those shows. Mhm.
Um, and cuz it's hard to set up goals and items and things to do and whatever, and you're really just like running with how chat is interacting with it.
Um, typically I do the rule of whoever's the highest tipper can tip the come shot.
Okay. Okay.
With limitation obviously, but um, that's usually how it is. But I don't know, some of those shows are just all so different.
Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I feel like you mean no pun intended. I feel like it would be a very fluid situation because you would want to because you I mean, that was a good one. That was a good one.
But you know, there's like a lot of things happening, right?
Yeah.
And it's hard for me to just keep track of it of what's going on. Um, yeah, you're getting. So it's hard to like hold on, I got to read this.
Oh yeah. No, it's like I'm getting and all of a sudden I'm an IT technician and then I'm just doing moderation and then it's just like I'm the cameraman as well and I'm like, it's a lot. It's a lot.
So, usually I just put it away and I'm just like, "Hey guys, this is what we're doing and you tip for it if you want."
So, where do where do they usually prefer the shot? Is it a facial thing? Is it a cream pie thing? Is it a tit thing?
I haven't done a cream pie one yet. Um, um, yeah, it's mostly a facial. Um, sometimes we hook up a POV cam.
Um, um, which should um, other times I set up more of an angle shots. Um, and it typically ends up usually being a base shot when I did my last collab and this was during AVN. I did the AVN kickoff stream.
Um, and I was with Marley, um, my other top model friend that I collab with. Um, the shot was.
Oh, nice. Okay.
So, it was a half facial.
Yeah. Yeah.
But, uh, that one was that that one cooked.
I bet. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, you know, it's I mean, I think what I think what you're doing is like it almost feels you mentioned the word cinematic earlier, and to me, you could tell that you do take care in in in like the aesthetic ways, in the horny ways, and like the fact they were talking about like, you know, the shot and the way that it, you know, is it aesthetic one way and the cameras to use and the lighting and like whatever. Like, so it's clearly obvious like I think what you're doing is like really innovative and and and like cinematic and you're clearly like still learning like what works and like I I could see you pushing into many many different areas. So sex party round of applause for that. We love that.
Thank you. Thank you. Um, I mean, I'm thinking at it as like a way of how porn is shot, you know, because you have certain angles in which you get a porn that are very like, you know, key to the plot, you know?
So, there's definitely different angles inside of my room that are like key to the show that need to happen. And I really thinking about like, you know, what what would somebody see on porn? How can I get this angle on cam and keep it like fluent rather than just like on a tripod or on top of my laptop? So, behind me right now is like there's a rig right here that can move up and down. There's one down here that can move up and down to the side and there's lights around. Um, and then I have this like little mini gobo right here.
So, I'm using like everything of like and switching to cams of how to do it. Yeah.
Yeah. Yeah. You're basically you're basically Quinton Tarantino of cam.
Yeah. Hell yeah.
Yeah. Putting tortilla porn. I don't know.
Yeah. We love that. We love it. Um, okay. So, where do you prefer your partner, you know, like the guy to come? Like, are you like a facial person? Are you a cream pie person? And this can be in in your work, this can be in real life, it doesn't matter. Where do you prefer it the most?
Well, I only do work with my husband. Um, and um, whether he does stuff on the side or not, it's his thing. Um, but um, where I prefer that is I don't know. Face shots are always hot. They're always like a good like after shot.
Mhm.
As a cream, I probably wouldn't be.
Yeah.
Um, I love a good face shot. There's one recently that I did and I was like, damn, I look really hot in that.
Yeah. Because it's like whereas like if it was on my stomach, it's like, okay, it's in the belly button and butt.
Yeah. I mean, well, first of all, facials are so like it's like a kind of demeaning thing, but also like there's an aesthetic to it that looks like super awesome. So, I totally I totally know what you mean. It's like a.
Yeah. Yeah.
But like in my personal life, um, personal life definitely inside of me. But it just doesn't look as hot like on cams and stuff.
Yeah. Yeah, even like the clips, it doesn't look as good unless you're like fabricating it, but.
Well, yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Um, there's a whole other process involved with that, you know. Yeah.
Yeah.
Um, okay. So, are you also doing like Only Fans and Fansley and like that or.
No. Um, I should be doing more. Um, but it is so hard being a onewoman show and being on cam for like 8 to 10 hours and then chatting and then making clips and then editing.
And I it's still a work in progress of how to get myself away from this one thing um and putting my basket somewhere else or my time into somewhere else. Um, I do do clips and I do collabs and it's at this point it's more of like an artistic expression.
Yeah.
Rather than like that's my main bread.
Um, and things that I want to explore or people that I want to work with.
Yeah.
Um, but I hope to do more in 2026. I recently found like this vlog style that I've been doing. Um, and I did this in AVN. Um, we ran around the Las Vegas strip. I was trying to find an outfit for the white party.
Nice.
And all three of us and we just ended up in different bathrooms and rating them.
I love that.
I ended up making it like a vlog style cuz you know like that Tik Tok where she's like I'm going to go in the Gucci store and then she rates it.
Yeah. Yeah.
It was basically that just with sex. Yeah. We love that.
Yeah. And it was like so I feel like I didn't have to like go fully into editing and stuff and it was just very like simple of how you would make a Tik Tok and I want to do more of that in 2026 if I'm doing more clips.
I mean again, it's it's it's innovative and I feel like you being on cam kind of plugs you into in real time like what people are into. And I mean, if you could just like flick on YouTube and look at or Tik Tok or Instagram and see, oh, what's popular? What if I did a porn version of that, you know, or whatever. Yeah. Smart. It's really smart.
Yeah. Yeah. I've been trying to um record streams in certain parts of it. Um, and putting them like the safer work versions up on Instagram and stuff as the recaps of my streams.
Nice.
Um, but live streams don't really sell very well. you know, they don't do very well on Only Fans. They maybe put him up on Pornhub or something, but um, yeah, those people just they want to be inside the cam. They don't want to see a recap of it.
Yeah, it's it's kind of Yeah. And I've seen a lot of people like record a live stream that is kind of wild like on their Only Fans and then for some reason they'll delete it or something. Maybe because like the person they worked with is no longer around or something. But like I've seen that a lot. I've seen a lot of a lot of girls like on Instagram like, "Hey, me and so and so are about to get it on like go to Only Fans and then yeah, they'll do it. They'll record it. They'll put it out but then like they'll delete it after a while. It's kind of weird. Yeah. I don't know what that's about.
Yeah. I mean, I've seen some cam girls do it in a way in which they have a whole team of like people recording with like cameras next to the stream as like an individual and then putting that into like a whole video itself.
Yeah, which is cool.
I wish I had the facilities for that, but it's only only if we had the cloning option, you know?
I do. Oh, no. We're not going to bring that up. We had Okay, full transparency. We had kind of a dark conversation before we started recording and I'm not going to bring it up here, but it has to do with current events in the world uh potentially that took place on an island. And we'll leave it at that. Um, yeah, sorry for bringing up.
No, it's okay. It's okay. I mean, I have an editor. We could edit it out anyway, but what the ever.
Um, well, I want to ask you, what advice would you have for a dude I'm going to switch this up because usually I maybe I'll ask the other one, too. What advice would you have for a dude who's new to camming? They want to come in and they want to like throw some money around. They don't know what's up. They don't know the rapport. They maybe maybe they want to be a little demeaning and Maybe they want to be demeaned. How do they go about anything on cam? like what's the rules of the road?
Um, I think anything with the men inside of this industry, it's going to be 10 times harder. And because the market of which who is watching porn is men, right?
Well, no, no, I meant like fans like let's say like they like they've never signed up for Chatterbait and like came and jerked off to to like a cam girl before. Like what advice do you have for them so they can be like polite and like get what they want without.
Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
Um, have fun. Don't demand.
Okay.
Don't just sit there and chat and demand and not tip your entertainer.
Um, the way then in which we see initiative of you wanting to build a connection with us is the way in which you respect us. Asking things before consent. Is this okay with you? Can we do this? What are your thoughts about it? This is really hot.
Um, you know, if a model expresses like dirty talking is okay in their chat room for free, great. Do that. Don't go over extreme, you know.
Um, yeah, don't be annoying. I think it's even just like the same like thing of how to treat somebody in real life and, you know, you want to treat them with respect and be polite. Um, yes, there's a little horniness around it, but like don't let your dick talk.
Yeah, don't let me talk.
I actually had somebody come in um the other day in which strip chat they used me as an ad, so I pop up under the hub or something.
Sure. You know,
um, a user came in and he's like, "Oh, I was on Pornhub and now I'm here, I guess." And he's like, "I couldn't I couldn't not sign up. Like, I need to know what this is about." out and he like signed up within like 5 minutes, got tokens and whatever and he was like the most respectful individual I have ever had that just immediately signed up and was new to camps.
Wow.
He never has been on a camp site before.
That's awesome.
It was crazy of like they if you can treat your model and your entertainer like a person like they're going to want to have more fun with you.
Gee, what a concept.
What a concept, right?
I know, right? Like don't be mean to your barista or they're gonna spit in your coffee.
Yeah. Or worse, right?
Yeah.
Piss in your coffee. Well, they they might like that though. They might like to spit in the coffee, too, dude. Maybe they're doing that on purpose.
Oh my god. Oh no. Oh my god. Well, I mean, everyone talks. This is what I love about porn and cam camming and all these things is like you're using it the wrong way, dude. Like you're, oh, my porn's not real. Cam's not real. Thank God. Like, use it to practice being nice and respectful and still being able to get your nut off. You know what I mean? Don't be a dick. Like, why? like reverse engineer all that you've been miss you know all the miss wrong whatever right.
Yes, definitely and I also think that depends on like the room in which you're going into where some of it is a fantasy and some of it is not some of it's a mix of both.
Um, and but no matter what room you go in every model's going to demand respect because you know that's just not how you treat people.
No, I know, right? Um, okay. Two final questions. One, can you give some advice to the girlies who might be listening or watching if we're still on YouTube at this point? Uh, on how like to start camming and like what are you know like what what's a good way in?
That is just anything with anything is just to start. Whether it's making Tik Toks, whether it's doing YouTube, whether it's cleaning your room, just start.
Um, and maybe you don't know how to do it first, but you will get an understanding of how um, the software in which your site, whoever you choose. Um, is on and how it works. Um, but I think the biggest thing is there's two big things. Money does not happen overnight, even if you have like a great success. Like, sure, you will see a pop off because you're new. Guys that have been on that site for ages are getting so excited when they get to see a new girl.
Yeah. um
Freshman class.
Yeah, exactly. So, um, even though there's a pop of return, there's going to be a pivot in which it slows down. And that's where you need to figure out strategy and keep going because it just it's not quick money. It's never quick money. And you got to operate yourself in your room like a coffee shop. You're open from X amount of hours, having fun for X amount of hours, whether it's slow, rainy, things like that. You you got to just hit the grind, you know.
Yeah.
But the most advice I have is just to start.
Well, I mean, Another sex party round of applause. I mean, you you nailed it so well. And then you gave like this emotional thing, too. Like, just start, right? But then here's some tangibles. love that.
Um, I could talk to you for hours. I'm gonna I'm gonna invite you back on the show once we stop recording because I I this is like I can't even believe it's been an hour. But um, final question.
Do you think that you'll ever do you have any desire to push into mainstream porn eventually?
Um, I have thought about it and if I did it I would do girl girl. Um, there's these political beliefs about working with other male talent as of right now.
Um, especially, you know, not being there's this maybe we say this conversation for the next time, but you know, I've never been one to being like but girls turn me on the most. So I'd rather do girl girl porn porn in mainstream. Um, but there's never a desire not to leave strip chat. I think I will always be on there whether it's for like three hours and I end up going up somewhere else or whatever. I I will definitely always stay with the cams in some fashion.
Yeah. No, we we love it. And uh, thank you so much for being on the show, Jenna James. Um, let's tell these horny partygoing sons of in the audience where not only can they find you like on social media like Instagram and Twitter and all the things if you're still on Twitter, wherever. Uh, but where they can find you online and just like dump out like barrels of cash like all over you.
Definitely. Um, well, you can find my Instagram uh my punk girlfriend. Punk spelled weird. P NK uh GF. um Twitter or X PNK girlfriend, regular girlfriend. Um, but mostly you can find me live oneonone and in real time at strip chat.com/jenna james. Made it easy for that one. I made it easy there.
Yeah. Well, we love it. We can't wait to have you back. But thank you so much for for being on the show with me this week.
Thank you so much for having me.
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