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So, there's a video that I uploaded on Instagram. It was of a a clearly a white woman and she was saying that black females will get with a white man to basically extort him and finesse him for his money, which I agree that's often the case, not always the case. And they're very loud about it as well. And she says white women will get with black men because they actually love the man. They they actually want the man. And I think that in the absence of white women being very vocal about, "Hey, I'm here for the money. Hey, I'm here for the cloud. Hey, I'm here for filling in the blank." which you really don't hear, you'd have to presume that they're there for the man. We do hear a number of white female perverts talking about the BBC. And so there's no doubt that there those who are there for that. And you'll often hear black women and black beta males say, "Oh, they're fetishizing the black man."
Now, I think this is actually really fascinating because when we talk about fetishizing, we're talking about physical attractiveness. And all of the sudden, we pretend as though 99.9% of relationships don't start, you know, authentic ones, they don't start on the basis of physical attraction. And so so [clears throat] the concept of fetishizing is either exaggerated or, you know, it it it's not quite accurate. They're they're suggesting that there's something wrong with the woman being attracted to that particular man sexually. No, that's about what you would expect. I say that to say the argument is a little bit weak, but we're going to dig in and probably there are some uh white women who do fetishize black men. I actually think it's quite a small percentage. I think the greater tragedy trage the greater tragedy are those rotund, portly, overweight white women who end up linking up with a lot of black guys. And to me, that is almost like slavery cuz they're really using these black guys because they're getting a better deal than they deserve because the black male is down bad. And in those arrangements, I think the black male is using the overweight white woman in the same way that the average black female in an interracial relationship is using the white man. Hopefully you're following this. But there's a lot to talk about here and it's really a fascinating conversation because it could be so revealing of gender dynamics and you know, racial and social uh elements involved therein.
But you have some dishonest parties, namely the black female. Females in general, but but in this case, the black female. I mean, personally I love black women. And I don't just say that. But when I say black women, I'm not maybe I'm not meaning what some of you guys are thinking. I'm not talking about the ones with the long fingernails. I'm not talking about the ones with the fake eyelashes, not the ones with the hair colored blue or whatever color they pick. I'm talking about the women that are authentically black. Not loud, not ghetto, but but black. You know, they wear their hair natural. They might wear an afro. I don't really mess with the dreads too much because I don't I don't trust the smell of them. I think you need to be able to clean in between each strand. That's just me though, but I wouldn't I wouldn't DQ shorty. I might not approach her, but I ain't going to DQ her. If she try to slide on the big homie, I'mma see what it do. Um I might even mess with a chick with some box braids. You dig? Yeah, remind me when I was a kid. So, I like women who are black and they're authentically black. If it's a black chick with her hair bleached blonde or a black chick with a perm, or or a wig, or a lace front, to me, I'm an authentic man. If I want a blonde chick, I'll go get a blonde woman. Not even a white girl who's bleaching blonde. No, I'll go one get one that is growing out of her skull that way. But me, that's not my favorite. If I'm dealing with white chicks, I actually like the redheads. You hear me? I'm trying to slide on the redheads. Their body is never right, but I like the hair, I like the complexion as far as my white girls go. Or I'll take an Eastern European chick. The blonde ones really I don't like to mess with them cuz they be like a little too pale in the wrong way, like pinkish. They're like the actual when you get natural blonde hair, the skin is a little more pink like than I like. So, you know, that's not me. But I don't discriminate. You hear me? I'm keeping my options open.
But I want to say this. Black women in general are not the most reliable characters, especially when it comes to self-examination and self-reflection. Now, when we're looking at the black man versus the black woman, the data indicates that the black woman has a lot fewer options. And even in the absence of the data, I think it's quite obvious. And it's not because she's not a beautiful woman, even though she hides much of it with all of this clown makeup costume and hair and all this other nonsense, and then has this attitude to boot. It's the masculine I shouldn't say masculine cuz a woman cannot be masculine. She can only be dysfunctional. But I should say rather it's her attempting to perform the identity of a man that is so repugnant that so many races of men stand back from her. Mhm? And so, this the data indicates that she has the lowest number of options, and her best option is her natural mate, the black man. She gets angry with the black man because unlike her, he has many options. And especially with any man as you increase in income you have even more options. So the way she's looking at it is well if I don't disparage him for going outside of the race, if I don't insult him and insult the women then I'm not lobbying for my own interest. So they do it in a very utilitarian for utilitarian purpose that they have so much vitriol when they see black men dating outside of the race especially the most successful ones because those are the ones that they would prefer to have.
But what we also have to understand is this. The man who is more successful probably has more requirements of his woman, would make more demands of her and he can ask for more. Men are fairly straightforward and simple creatures and we want peace, we want cooperation, we want support. Especially if you're very successful in a competitive industry, you want someone who can help help you level up, someone who can give you good ideas and not be a complainer and a detractor from what you're doing. So often with the black female they're built well, beautiful skin, full lips, nice bodies, pretty faces. They have all of the natural blessings but it's the social conditioning and there's no need to bring up slavery. It's the social conditioning that has poisoned them at a level to where their behavior and conduct is what limits them from getting the more successful black men. There's a claim that successful black men opt for white women when in actual fact I think there's two things we've yet to consider. Number one, when you're more successful you're in a higher income bracket and there just tends to be more Caucasians around you in general so that's going to affect what you select from. Secondly when you're more successful you're to want a woman to reflect your success and help grow it. I can't tell you the last time I met a woman who has no tattoos. Of any race, just in general, any race. And then, when you look at all of the factors that are just basically a reflection of being lower class, you're going to find black women carry those more often and at some level it is a reflection of socioeconomics because black people, men and women, are lower income than white people. And also remember, blacks are minority within the United States, the foundational black American, about 10% of the population. This is also often overestimated, it's about 10%. You're a minority and the further you go up in in income, you're even more minority. So, there are many clear reasons that a black male would end up with a Caucasian. But I think chief among those is the difference in behavior that you find between the black female average, not all, the average black female, and the average white woman who dates black men.
Now, one of the appeals of the black men is that we're more masculine than all the other racial categories. No disrespect, just talking about fact. And when we talk about more masculine, we're talking about we're not talking about the from Atlanta. We're talking about on the face of things. We're talking about stature, we're talking about conduct, we're talking about like hip hop music is martial music. So, there are all of these things that, you know, give a more gruff masculine exterior, which of course is appealing to women. So, that man is looking for not a duplication of himself masculinity, but rather a balance, a complement. And the kind of white women that go for black men, they like tall men, strong men, masculine men. In some cases, they like men who have some sauce and some swag. And these are the things that they're coming and appreciating, not taking for granted. Whereas black women, in my many encounters, and I there there have been waves, and I want to share a little bit about that with you, but one I don't think I've ever met, that I can recall, a white woman that when you meet her, she questions who you are, or questions like if you actually are what you say you are. Whereas when you engage white uh excuse me, black women, so often it's like they're looking to see if you're trying to fool them, or finesse them, or pretend that you're more than you are. They They're They're like they're very suspicious of you.
Also, another thing that I noticed about my encounters, just initial quick encounters with black women versus white women, and again, this is no promotion of white women over black women. Uh in my case, in terms of you know, women I've stuck with, it's been very much so skewed toward black women. I've encountered fewer black women, but I've stuck with a higher number of black women. Um but, for example just recently in in Miami, kid you not, I'll just tell you this story really quickly. I go downstairs out of my building, and then I take maybe 10 steps out of the building. There's a black woman, you know, um from like trying to get donations for like an international humanitarian, this or that. And she starts talking to me, and I say "What are you selling?" Because she had on a uniform, so obviously she's selling something, she's trying to collect some money. She says, "We're taking donations for kids, and what have you?" I say, "Oh, that sounds really good. I have four charitable organizations that I've been with uh for quite some time, and I'm not looking to expand. Uh but, I thank you." And then, she says, uh "Oh, well well, where are you going?" or something to this effect. I said, "I'm going to get a smoothie." And she said, "Oh, will you buy me a smoothie?" I was like, "Aren't you at work right now?" She was like, "Well, I can take a little bit of time off." I was like, "Okay, for sure."
So, here's the thing. The very direct transactional of will you buy me as opposed to can I come along, can I hang out, or you know, the the purchase seems to be what we're centered around. Meaning, maybe if there was no purchase, there would be no time spent. If there's no money spent, there's no time spent. And there's just like a a lack of subtlety. And also, with black women, and this is a matter of class, and I have a course called Boss University, and in it I give a lesson on etiquette, and etiquette is hugely important. It really, without you telling someone what you do for a living, uh your etiquette can indicate your class level, your education, your background. And black women will be very straightforward, like, "Oh, well, what do you do? How much do you earn? Or how much does that cost?" This is impolite, and this is low class. This is really behavior that you should never exhibit. Whereas, if you're a more sophisticated person, you're not interested in what the person does for a living. In other words, how they keep their lights on, you're more interested in well, what do you do for fun? What do you do as a hobby? What are your philanthropic activities? Well, why is that? Well, the difference from a class perspective is that low-income or low-class people, the way they keep the lights on is their primary occupation in life. That's what consumes most of their time and their mental space, keeping the lights on, paying bills, earning to survive. Conversely, the the leisure class, they spend most of their time or their thought on fun things. So, I want to go to the country club. I want to go golfing. I need another saber for fencing. Where am I going to go on holiday? What charitable organizations do I want to support? What am I going to wear to the gala? And so they're the nature of their thinking is is radically different and keeping the lights on is something that's a given. It's an automatic that the lights are going to be on, the bills are going to be paid. So, there's a lot less mental uh power given to that and because that's a given, there's a lot less attention. It's less interesting and less important. What's more interesting is well, what do you do for fun? What are your interests and hobbies? Whereas poor people don't have time for interests and hobbies. They don't have time to do a lot of leisure activities, to learn things, to read literature, etc. So, you can sense someone's class by the way they engage you and a lot of this stuff is simply not taught. That's why I have Boss University to teach people uh these things that will lift them up to the next level.
Now, I say that to say this. If you are an upper-class black man, do you want to end up with a black woman just because she's black? No, especially if she's outside of your class and that's more likely to be the case. Doesn't mean that there are not upper-class black women, there absolutely are. Now, what I encounter that's very challenging about upper-class black women is soon as they start moving up in the economic strata, all of a sudden, they want to be white women. It's like, "God damn, you fooled me. You fooled me." Because now they're talking with a tone. It's like they changed their name to Chelsea. They're always wearing a tennis outfit and they want to like blend in with the whites instead of maintaining the self. And this is very common among females because they're herd animals. They're they're far more likely to try to assimilate to that which is around them. This is not to say black guys don't do the same thing, but it appears that it's more frequent that a wealthy black man can maintain his identity while being wealthy or within a white majority, whereas black females who end up in the higher income uh economic strata, they seem to adopt the appearance and behaviors of Caucasians. So, then it's like, well, why waste time with a black chick? Let's just get a white chick instead of a black chick who's acting like a white chick or trying to talk and look like a white chick. Why? Cuz all that's going to do is give me nappy roots. You hear me? She going to have the straight hair, but the roots are nappy. I don't want to deal with that. I don't want to deal with that. Yeah, we we going to get deep.