The video discusses the differences in dating approaches between men and women, particularly focusing on women's tendency to pursue 'bad boy' types despite clear red flags. The speaker recounts a personal experience where she told a man she had a crush on that she wouldn't have pursued him if she had known then what she knows now, calling him a "[ __ ] boy." The speaker then generalizes this to a common female dating pattern: recognizing a man as a player or 'bad boy' but believing they are special enough to be the one to change him, even when observing his behavior with multiple other women. This highlights a perceived disconnect in how men and women process relationship potential and red flags.

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This is the difference between men and women when it comes to dating.

Yesterday I'm on the phone with a guy that I had a huge crush on and I'm telling him that now that the dust has settled and the vision is clear, I'm telling him, you know, if I had known what I know now, I don't think I would have pursued you.

He's like, "What do you mean?" [music]

I was like, "You are the biggest [ __ ] boy I've ever met and you know that."

He's like, "Aubrey, what did you think was going to happen? We were going to get what? We were going to get married?"

They see the red flags. They know the guy is a bad boy. They know the guy is a player, but they think they're so special, they are going to be the one that's going to change him. Even though they saw that guy acting the same with 20 other women, they actually believe they're the special one that will change him.

She Thought She Was SPECIAL

was like, "You are the biggest [ __ ] boy

This is the difference between men and
women when it comes to dating. Yesterday
I'm on the phone with a guy that I had a
huge
crush on and I'm telling him that now
that the dust has settled and the vision
is clear, I'm telling him
you know, if I had known what I know
now,
I don't think I would have pursued you.
He's like, "What do you mean?" [music] I
was like, "You are the biggest [ __ ] boy
I've ever met and you know that."
He's like, "Aubrey,
what did you think was going to happen?
We were going to get what? We were going
to get married?"
>> They see the red flags. They know the
guy is a bad boy. They know the guy is a
player, but they think they're so
special,
they are going to be the one that's
going to change him.
Even though they saw that guy acting the
same with 20 other women,
they actually believe they're the
special one that will change him.

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She Thought She Was SPECIAL

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