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What if I told you that all women are attracted to Bad Boys? I remember a long time ago, before I understood the psychology behind attraction, I would see Bad Boys in school hooking up with the hottest girls, and I never understood why this happens. If you look at almost any Hollywood movie, you always see the bad boy getting the girl in the end. The movie rarely ends with the nice guy getting the girl. In fact, if you really think about it, it would almost seem out of place for the nice guy to get the girl.
Most girls will tell you that they want a guy who is nice and caring, and while many of them do, there is no way to escape the fact that girls are attracted to the bad boy. Maybe you're thinking to yourself, "Why is that?" What happens inside the brain that causes some women to go for a guy who treats them poorly and seems to do everything wrong from the nice guy's point of view? When filling out a questionnaire, a girl would say she wants a man who is nice and caring, but when meeting the guy face to face, something very interesting happens. In the real world, the girl's subconscious mind takes over, and most attraction occurs on the subconscious level.
The two major factors that attract girls more than anything else are confidence and masculinity. As guys, we're biologically hardwired to be attracted to physical beauty, and girls are hardwired to be attracted to confidence and masculinity. When a girl meets a guy face to face, her subconscious takes over and causes her to become attracted to these two traits, and it just so happens that the Bad Boys display these traits almost exclusively. The problem is that many guys are nice, and due to various factors, they find it difficult to play the bad boy role naturally, which can make it difficult to attract girls. Every guy has an inner bad boy waiting to be Unleashed, and there are several ways to play the part without hurting anyone's feelings.
I remember in school the bad boys would always have the hottest girlfriends, and it was hard to understand why this happens. It was almost like the more the guy would be rude to the girl, the more she would become attracted to him, like a magnet. What if you could be the bad boy without actually being rude or unethical? Being a bad boy has absolutely nothing to do with treating girls poorly, and once you have a girlfriend, you should always treat her like a princess. But if you want to keep the attraction as high as possible, you need to understand the psychology of the bad boy and use it to your advantage. Imagine how attractive you would be if you offered all of the benefits of the nice guy along with the attractive traits of the bad boy. The good news is that it's much easier to do than you think, and with enough practice, you can build the traits of the bad boy into your character, so you can still be yourself, but just an enhanced version.
One of the major traits of the bad boy is breaking the rules, but you don't have to break them in a bad way. Something that I never understood when I was younger was why girls always seemed to be more attracted to guys who had been arrested and served time in jail. Logically, this wouldn't make sense, right? I mean, why would a girl choose the loser who is always in and out of jail over the guy who's nice and has never been arrested for ridiculous crimes? If you're old enough to go to high school, then you're old enough to know that your eyes aren't lying to you. The reason why girls can get attracted to guys who have been in jail is because these guys are displaying one of the traits of the bad boy, which is breaking the rules. Most people never question the rules of society.
If you look at the famous bodybuilder Ziz, who became an internet legend when he passed away, this was one of his obvious traits. This guy would start doing push-ups in the middle of a crosswalk, even when it wasn't time to cross, because he dared to break the rules. A bad boy isn't afraid to break social norms in a good way, and most importantly, he is not afraid to be different in front of others. This is one of the reasons why millions of people were attracted to Ziz and why he will be remembered forever.
The second trait of the bad boy is the opposite of being needy. Girls are attracted to bad boys because they represent a challenge, and since girls are looking for excitement, the thrill of getting the bad boy gives their self-esteem a boost. A bad boy is never needy, but he is mysterious. The best way to not be needy is to do what you want to do and don't ask for the girl's approval unless it makes sense to do so. One of the biggest turnoffs for most girls is a guy who is needy and clingy because there is no challenge there, and put simply, the roller coaster doesn't look nearly as fun.
The third psychological trait of the bad boy is cocky, but instead of being cocky in a bad way, which is common among guys who treat girls poorly, you can be cocky in a way that is funny. Subconsciously, girls are attracted to cocky guys because the cockiness is an exaggerated display of confidence. To play this role without looking ridiculous, all that you need to do is be cocky in funny ways.
The fourth trait of the bad boy, and this one is very important, is never giving weight to the opinions of others unless they are from people who you're very close to and care about deeply. To do this, you must carry out your mission regardless of criticism and opinions from others. A great example is what I'm doing here on YouTube. With the explosion of growth the channel has received lately, it receives about 100 comments per day, and a very small percentage of these comments are things that wouldn't make you feel very good if you read them out loud. But at the end of the day, these are just opinions from other people, and they have no effect on me or my mission. Day after day, I just stay focused and keep trying to help and entertain you guys. And to play the role of the bad boy, you should do the same and never let the opinions of others have an effect on you.
The fifth trait of the bad boy is assertiveness in saying no. If someone says something to you that you don't agree with, disagree when you know you're right. Also, when you say no to something, don't always give an explanation.
The sixth and final trait of the bad boy is being a leader. Subconsciously, girls are attracted to leaders and not followers. Rather than asking a girl where she wants to eat, take the lead and decide where to go. When you're around other people in an unfamiliar situation, don't wait for others to make the first move. Bad boys are naturally leaders, and they do their own thing. Bad boys are also naturally confident, and if there's one trait that girls find attractive more than anything else, it's confidence. And by increasing your personal confidence, all of the other traits of the bad boy will come much more naturally.
The world we live in, at times, can be really weird, and it almost never seems to work the way you would think it's supposed to work. You have probably heard the saying, "Nice guys finish last," and if you want to attract anyone, it's true. Subconsciously, girls view the actions of a nice guy as signs of weakness, and such actions can make you seem out of control, shy, and needy. The good news is that you don't have to treat girls poorly to avoid being the nice guy. Instead, you can blend the bad boy and the nice guy together, which results in a guy who is confident, caring, and masculine, but not afraid to lead the way, break the rules, and ignore the opinions of haters. Contrary to popular belief, you don't have to get arrested and serve time in jail to become more attractive. And once you understand the psychology of the bad boy, the sky is the limit to what you can achieve. With that said, you guys are the best, and until next time, thanks for watching.