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Hi. 5 months post breast augmentation here. All the plastic surgery I got done to stop looking like this and look like this instead. I was a part of the Looks Maxing community back in 2020. This is my skin without the beauty filter.
5 months post boob job and I am 99% sure that I'm going to get them redone. I am so excited. I have my first ever professional modeling gig tomorrow.
Top 10 reasons I moved from San Diego to Los Angeles. One, Peter Pan syndrome. It's everywhere in San Diego. I know.
S >> San Diego seems like a great place to get married and settle down and have some kids. But that's if you can find a guy who would rather get married and have kids than go to after parties until 10 a.m. for the rest of his life. Good luck.
>> That's the kind of men that you go after. Not all men are like that.
>> I don't know what's more true. That I'm a freaking idiot or that men are freaking weirdos. This is a quick reminder that your looks are always more important than a man. Why did I let him make me look like this? What did he do to me? Why are you talking like that?
>> Why wasn't I allowed to get Botox? I need Botox in my forehead and my crows feet today. Creepy pushy men that approached me in Beverly Hills. I went and did my little Equinox workout this morning and I was going and I was getting my creation lunch and I ordered my matcha and my juice. First thing I'm buying is a bodyguard and I'm giving him very strict instructions that if any man that I do not know even looks in my freaking direction, get him gone. Get rid of Do not let him get within a foot of me.
>> So guys, can you see the logic? She got so much plastic surgery done just so she can get more attention from him, just so she can find a husband. And now that she's getting more attention from men, she's annoyed by it. By the way, guys, stay till the end because there is a very interesting video at the end that I want you to see. And as always, if you enjoy my videos, consider subscribing.
>> Everyone thinks it's weird that me and all my friends all f in front of each other. It's not weird, it's fun. Live a little.
>> I am so annoyed. I had two dates planned for today. Both of them cancelled. A lot of people ask me why I don't date. The last man that I went on a date with didn't open my car door and I asked him why not and he said opening your car door is a privilege and it is earned.
>> How people's body counts have like frankly generally gone up.
>> It's pretty normalized yet it's still a negative thing for women to have and for men it's positive.
>> All women do is use men. Karen. Karen. I'm [ __ ] single as [ __ ] I've tried to use men and none of them are worth it. Okay? None of them are usable. They do not have what I need. So why would I use something that is useless?
>> From the start, you're so annoying. I don't understand how a man puts up with you. We're just going to skip this video.
>> Not proud of it. Woman enough to say it. I went to a sex party with my best friend. And since I was not doing anything at said party, when I left, I hit up two guys I was frequently seeing. And since they were both available, I saw one on the way home and then I had the other one waiting for me at home. Not proud of it, but woman enough to say it.
>> So what, ma'am? You think that just because you say that somehow it absolves you of doing it? You're still a 304, ma'am. So, I dated a man for 3 months who apparently did not find me attractive and then put me in the bro zone.
>> Yes, ma'am. I have said it a thousand times before. Men will sleep with women that are not as attractive as them.
>> What the [ __ ] Basically, this man and I, we met in February. Okay, February. It's May. We had our first date in February. That's a long time to be going on dates. And we went on some really good dates.
>> Girls, you have to stop playing hard to get with guys. How will they like me otherwise? But they do it, too. I am telling you, guys get so turned off by a girl who plays hard to get. What?
>> Unfortunately, ma'am, that's not true. It's something psychological. We all want what we can't have. I know it's strange, but that's how people are. Why do you think a guy would like a girl that shows zero interest in him? Because social media said it's cool. I promise I am helping you girls. Don't play hard to get with guys. Guys are simple. Tell them you like them and you're in.
>> Right after it happened, I was seeing this girl for 6 months. I call her up. And I'm like, "Hey, I just got I just got jumped. Come over, babe. She comes over to her credit, you know, helps me out, takes care of me." And by the way, I didn't cry. Got jumped. She saw me all weak, limping, whatever. She never she never
>> she sucks.
>> But we never argued. Immediately she started [ __ ] arguing with me
>> cuz everything bothered her after that,
>> right?
>> I've seen so many posts at the minute of men talking about the single women generation, mainly being like millennials and Gen X and how they're so incredibly baffled by why there are so many single moms everywhere these days. And I can tell you exactly why. If you are a man and you are wondering why that is, it is because of the way some of it is because of the way the men and boys of our generation were parented.
If >> no ma'am, it's because most women are stupid and don't know how to pick a good man. Ma'am, that's why they go after the bad boys. And when those guys treat them like [ __ ] or leave, then they become single mothers. Ma'am, that's it. If you are a man in your late 20s, early 30s and your idea of a first date or just to first meet with a girl that you've never met and the first time you ask to meet you ask her to come around to your house.
>> Hey,
>> straight to jail. Straight to jail. Do not pass girl.
>> Ma'am, that's the kind of persona that you embody from the way that you look, from your nails, the way that you talk, how much makeup you have on your face. For most guys that are smart, they just see you as a good time, ma'am. They don't see you as wife material, ma'am. But you will never understand that. You would think that I'm just a hater. I'm a misogynist. No, ma'am. I I'm telling you the truth. Just from your appearance, men will make a certain opinion about you. them.
>> Do not collect £200 straight to Why do you think at your big fat age of 30 that I want to sit in your house?
>> It's because of the way that you look, ma'am. Your lips, your nails, your hair, your makeup, everything suggests that you are a 304. Ma'am, this is the honest truth. You can call me a hater. I'm just telling you the truth, ma'am.
>> Sentence for life. life sentence. I'm sorry. Everyone's always talking about like a woman meeting a bear in the woods or meeting a man in the woods, but like has anyone asked like a man, would you rather meet a bigger man than you who's psychotic in the woods or a bear?
>> No, ma'am. We We don't ask stupid questions like that, ma'am. Because we're logical. We're not emotional like you. So, we don't need to ask stupid questions like this, ma'am. We're just going to skip this video because he's very stupid.
>> I deleted Hinge. Remind me to never like a man again. All they do is rob your time, sanity, and your looks.
>> By the way, guys, this is the woman that I've I've featured previously in multiple videos saying, "Date younger men cuz they're better." And now, ma'am, you're disappointed in old men. Oh, it's probably because you dated the younger men and they just slept with you and then ghosted you. They didn't actually want a relationship with you. Women like this don't even understand that video after video that they make, they just prove me right.
>> In today's market, a man who earns over a million a year, like would you would you care how old he is?
>> I do care. Yeah.
>> What's the age range that you would have?
>> U maximum of like 30.
>> Maximum is 30. So earns a million maximum 30 years old. Does he have to be attractive?
>> Yeah.
>> What are the things that he has to have?
>> Um he should be there for me. He should understand me and he should definitely have good.
>> You all know what that means, guys. He should be there for me. Meaning when she feels sad, he should be able to buy me something to make me happier,
>> good hygiene.
>> A 30-year-old, attractive guy who uh understands you and has all these emotional things going on that earns a million dollars a year. Do you have any idea how rare that guy is?
>> Mhm. He doesn't exist.
>> Is that a fact? I mean, like, do we know that for sure? What percentage of 30 year olds do you think fall into that bracket?
>> 0. Why would that man who is in a 0.1 want a woman who is a six who is a currently aude
>> I don't know there are men who appreciate that I do
>> this is like
>> no ma'am there are men who lie to you that they appreciate that you do only fans and then there are simps sims aren't men ma'am
>> like you are lit literally living in fantasy land for you to think that you would only settle for a man who's a millionaire and who's 30 years old is such a level of delusion that I think it's almost a mental illness.
>> Did the other guy have it?
>> Yes. Yes, you're right, my guy. It is. It is. This is why I'm making this video so you see how prevalent mental illness is uh uh to women in their 30s in the USA, in the UK, in Englishspeaking countries. It's so prevalent, guys. any idea that you just had with the waiter in the bathroom during your date and the guy's like still your waiter so he's like bringing you
>> Yeah, it was like it was out of a movie. It was crazy.
>> So he was my server at a restaurant
>> and I was out on a date and I knew a friend that worked at that restaurant. So I texted her, I go, "Who is this guy? He's so hot." And as a joke I said tell him to meet me in the bathroom. I'm washing my hands. He walks in and we from the back while the guy was still at the table.
>> Oh my god.
>> Remember guys, you didn't see any red flag in that woman and you made her your wife. Okay. Okay. Keep telling yourself that.
>> Yeah. So imagine it started like that and then it started to deteriorate. There was cheating in the beginning on his end. That was the root of the issue I think in our relationship. And I felt like I spent the majority of my relationship trying to prove myself. I remember the day we got engaged. We didn't even have like do you know what I mean? It was just it was falling apart as it was. Like just to give you an idea, we had in Costa Rica twice in two years.
>> Wow.
>> And then we would leave and like go to like Vegas. We'd have once.
>> I'm married with a kid and I have more than
>> It was so sad. It made me feel so sad.
>> Yearning. Bring back yearning. Bring back yearning. Why aren't we yearning? Why aren't the men yearning?
>> Why are you so loud? Why are you shouting, ma'am? You think that guys will yearn for a woman that is as loud as you? You actually believe that?
>> Why are the men yearing? Yearn.
>> I'll tell you why men don't yearn for women anymore. I've seen countless videos like this one pop up.
>> No, men yearn for women. Just not for women like that, ma'am. That's the problem. They will yearn for a traditional softspoken lady, not an independent, loud boss be my for you page of women complaining that men aren't romantic anymore, that they don't chase or yearn like they used to. Basically pointing the finger at men, per usual. Here's the uncomfortable truth. Most modern women today are too busy trying to become the man they want to be with instead of becoming the woman a man would want to be with. We've got a whole generation of women operating in pure masculine energy and then wondering why masculine men aren't interested. You're out here being independent, being the boss, making your own money, claiming you don't need anyone. All of that is masculine energy. And a straight man isn't going to yearn for another man. Masculine energy doesn't yearn for masculine energy. It competes with it. But instead of taking the time to deeply reflect, we'd rather blame men and ask why don't they yearn anymore? I don't know who this creator is, but just try to imagine how she talks, how softly she talks, and how the how loud was the previous woman.
>> Why aren't we hurting? Why aren't the men yearning? I'm [ __ ] single as [ __ ]
>> And then she wonders why men don't yearn for her. And I don't know who this is. Maybe we Maybe she's just doing this for money. I don't care. This is how women should talk online, not yell.
>> Instead of asking ourselves, how do we become a woman worth yearning over? It's always the men's fault, never ours, right? But accountability is what separates women from girls. If you want a man to yearn for you, give him something to yearn for. Stop trying to be him and start embracing those feminine qualities you were inherently born with. Some days I'm like, I would absolutely love to like be in love and be with somebody again.
>> Okay.
>> And then most other days I'm like definitely absolutely not. Like I just want to be by myself with Margo.
>> Who's Margot, ma'am? Is that your dog or your kid? Cuz it's a very big difference, ma'am. Because most men don't want to date single mothers.
>> I can't be the only person to feel like this. Honestly, I would like to date. And then the other part of me is like, I have no time to date anyone. Like, I have one day a week for a couple of hours. And
>> okay, so it's clear she's a single mother. That's why she has no time.
>> That's no good. And then the other side of me, I'm like, well, I don't want to date. Like, I just want to spend all my time with Margot. And then the other part of me is like, well, if I don't date soon and I don't meet somebody, because I want to I want to be I want to know somebody for at least a year before I ever introduce them to Margo, so I know that it's serious. And I'm like, don't put yourself don't put any pressure on yourself. Like, it's not hard meeting people, but it's very hard to trust people now. And I think it's because I'm not only just thinking about myself, I'm thinking about Margot as well when it comes to thinking about men. And I just don't know why I feel so guilty for like ever wanting to bring another man that isn't her dad into her life. I feel like maybe I'm just not ready. I'm just not ready yet. And that's
>> ma'am. You wouldn't have any any of those problems if you would have chosen a good guy from the start or or a guy that you know you wouldn't break up with. Now you wouldn't be a single mother and now you wouldn't have all these problems and your daughter wouldn't have to grow up without a father. So maybe, just maybe, try blaming yourself, ma'am, for everything that is happening in your life. Ma'am,
>> why do you say a woman's past matters?
>> Do you think it does or it doesn't?
>> I think it's irrelevant.
>> Yes, ma'am. You think it's irrelevant, but we have studies that show that the more sexual partners a woman had before marriage, the higher the chances of divorce or that that marriage being unhappy? Ma'am,
>> really, doesn't everybody's past matter? Let me ask you this. Would you date a guy no matter what he's done in the past or are there certain things that he could have done in the past that would just eliminate him? There's certain things they could have done in the past, but unless it bothers me and our relationship, I don't need to know about it.
>> Exactly. And that's where
>> Okay, ma'am. So, just think about it that 95% of men are bothered if you had a high body count in your past, ma'am. They're bothered. Even though they won't say anything, they're still bothered, ma'am. And the 5% that aren't bothered, those are simps. Those aren't men. men
>> become subjective. Right? So the first premise is everybody's past does matter to an extent and you'll then individually decide whether this particular thing, this amount of previous partners is okay or it isn't. I don't believe.
>> Yes, my guy. But if you say that to a woman, you can't do that because you're a misogynist. How dare you try to judge a woman by her past? You can't because you're a misogynist. But women can judge men by every measure that they want. Everything
>> believe in making rules for society. I don't believe in making rules for women or women should be making rules for men. But I think men should have a very clear standard as to what they're willing to tolerate in a relationship.
>> True.
>> This is a true story. Okay.
>> Client of mine. He didn't ask for body count in the beginning and then he finds out a year into the relationship that it was shockingly high for him subjectively. He started crying and this is a guy who could have had a triple digit body count if you would have wanted to but he's Christian you know it's not his thing and so he then asked me what to do and I said hey listen there's no right or wrong if it doesn't bother you it doesn't bother you but clearly it's bothering you I said let it go I helped him with some reframes I said if this still bothers you in 4 weeks it means unconsciously you're not okay with it your unconscious is telling you that you're not okay with it and so four weeks go Hi, Miss David. This still bothers me. I'm doing therapy. I'm doing a retroactive jealousy course. What on earth is that exactly? If you don't like her past, she's not wrong, but you're not wrong either. Then just don't be with her. And that's what [ __ ] a lot of guys up. You have to individually decide whether you're okay with her past or not, but not lie to yourself. Hope you enjoyed this video, guys, and I'll see you on the next.