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Alrighty, boys. Welcome back to the show for men. Today's video, women's extreme behavior during divorce is more than just crazy. Let's jump into it. We're going to hear some more accountability dodging from women, I dare presume. If you want to watch the original, it's linked in the video description if you want to get severe brain damage. Let's jump into it.
>> Face that they put on. And either way, it feels like you're dealing with somebody that you don't know. The aggressive woman becomes aggressive, vindictive, angry, cruel. She weaponizes the kids. She makes accusations you never saw coming. Maybe she even gets a protection order that is completely bogus. And other women shut down completely. They go ice cold. They won't talk to you. They won't communicate. This is somebody you've known for the last 20, 30, 40 years. You guys share everything. And now she is silent. She won't even give you a reason why she wants to divorce.
I >> I mean, that one hits home, doesn't it? And I'm sure a lot of you guys uh watching my content have either experienced a maybe a girlfriend, a living girlfriend, or a wife uh completely rugpool you, and you're never going to know why. There's like a nuclear warhead goes off, a switch flicks, there's a drastic action like a move out um or a huge argument and a storm out and you never see or hear from them again. Only through if there's litigation, only through the means of lawyers, solicitors, attorneys. And that is one thing that really hits men four or six. And it's very understandable. And this main thing is abandonment and being discarded by somebody which you've invested heavily in over the years. Not saying men are the perfect uh creatures out there. We've all got our things that would maybe irritate somebody you live with. But for the most part and for by and large, I dare say most men out there who are married, uh they're doing their best. They're doing their best to keep somebody happy who a lot of the time just cannot be made happy. And eventually over time, and that that amount of time really depends on the woman's behavior and her reasonableness and her logic, which most women don't have in my honest opinion, things can spiral very quickly. Things will spiral to the point where you can't even communicate the woman. You might even not like her. I've had that experience. I was living with a woman. Couldn't stand her. Didn't want to talk to her. Couldn't stand couldn't stand the sight of her. uh just due to her uh behaviors uh lack of just respect, lack of respect, common decency uh and awareness of the impacts of things that were said and things that are done. Couldn't give a stuff like a child, like a teenager who was a spoiled brat. And so anyway, men get discarded. You put up with this [ __ ] for years. You get discarded ruthlessly. Uh, and very very quickly you're going to find yourself uh being litigated against. You might have promised each other you're not going to do it. Uh, if anything ever happens, you'll work it out between yourselves. I've tried to do that before. I've spoken to other men who have tried to do that before. Uh, and that isn't generally what they'll do. They'll go and seek legal advice because they want to they they think number one, you're trying to rip them off out of something in which they could get from using legal uh avenues. They don't want to be a reasonable person. They don't want to do things ethically uh and morally because in my honest opinion, most guys get absolutely dragged, their lives and their financial lives blown up. That's not reasonable and I'll die on that hill. It's not reasonable for someone to lose everything. 70%. Well, gee, man. 30% that's still 30% or something. It's everything because most of the time you got uh assets, you got you might have property if if that's something you've been able to do or you might have business and all that sort of [ __ ] What happens when a woman pulls a grenade pin? They're going to go after you. Uh they they're going to want a slice of that business. I've I've had women say this [ __ ] to me before. Uh divorced women uh who have done this to men. Stupidly they tell me these things when you're out monster hunting. the guy had a business. She goes, "I was with him the whole time he was building his business, you know, I was supporting him and I was encouraging him and I was really building him up, you know, I was really building him up and so I was entitled to get some of that business." And generally guys who are able to be successful and do things in business, they're pretty smart and pretty wy and know how to protect themselves. There was this one particular woman, she got nothing. She didn't get anything out of the business or anything like that. And I said to her, "Did you even work in it?" Like, "Did you have any capital, investments, um, strategic input, you know, decision- making ability? Like, did you do anything of value?" I was just trying to ask, "Oh, no." But I was with him, right? He was stressed. And I'll try and encourage him to keep going. You know, you strong women behind every strong man's a strong woman. All that [ __ ] I said, "Well, so how are you entitled to anything?" "Oh, well, we're married." [laughter] So when it will go for guys uh just about for everything the main thing will be a house uh generally what will happen is uh happened to me it's happened to other guys generally it's the guy who puts in the most capital if not all the capital uh and maintains the mortgage for the most part when things bust up she wants a slice of that. Okay. She goes down the local um solicitor's office uh and they're telling her, "Yeah, you're entitled. You know that that's that's community property, blah blah blah blah blah." And so generally what happens to men is what you're going to have to do during that period. This is how it [ __ ] guys over massively, is they're not going to value it based on what you paid for it. So say, say you've been married for 15 years, you bought a I'm just going to use random numbers here, guys. All right? No reflection of actual market prices. Say you bought a house for $100,000. 20 years ago. All right, these are just rounded numbers just just as an example. And over that 20 years, you know, as you all know, property prices are heavily inflated, blah blah blah blah. It's worth $400,000. So, it's a a large capital gain. Obviously, it's illquid. It is you're not sitting in your bank account. You don't actually have that money. What what happens here is they revalued a house and say they they valued it then at 400,000 and then they'll go okay well you got to okay let's just for simplicity split that down the line. You got to give her 200 grand that you don't have. So what are you going to have to do? You're going to have to lever up the property and rebarorrow and reortgage the property at a highly inflated price after you've probably most likely paid your house off once. You probably got to go and do it again. And that's what really [ __ ] guys over. So people don't think about that equation. and you get stuck in a debt trap. Uh men are very emotional when it comes to the the the house. It's probably the biggest purchase you're ever going to make. You don't want to let it go. You're going to fight for it. There's a bit of pride involved. You know, there might be memories and attachments for whatever reason you want to keep it, whether you deny that or not. So, you'll do anything. You put yourself in a precarious financial decision. You might even have to at 40 and 50 years old. go back to the old family home and sleep in your old bloody bedroom that you used to sleep in to get back on your feet. Very common. So guys get rubbed out and that woman walks away with a liquid amount of money in her bank account. Most of them piss it up against the wall. Uh my mate Larry, he got done in for you guys have been asking about him. I'll give you a Larry update before I tell you about his situation. You guys, a lot of you guys might already know it, but uh Larry's update. I have been talking about him. For those you don't know Larry, really close friend of mine. I like to call Larry, he's like a crash test dummy, okay? When it comes to dating, he's got a heart of gold. He's got a heart of a lion. He never stops. As much as he gets frustrated, he keeps going and gets punched in the face. And that's good. He never gives up, right? He's going to die doing what he loves, getting punched in the nuts by women. And as I say to you guys, this isn't a channel about hating women and not dating and all that. We just talk about the realities of the male experience. That's all this channel is. Not trying to scare you or anything like that. I'm just talking about real [ __ ] So Larry's a crash test dummy. He's gotten some I don't know 45 year old woman. Uh he's about 43 or something anyway. So not too much of a big difference there. I don't know. She's some academic PhD. He thinks for whatever reason he thinks that's great. She makes far less money than him, but for whatever reason, he thinks she puts her off on a pedestal because she's got a PhD. Uh, she's Latin American, so I'm sure she's banging the absolute [ __ ] ass off him, and he is just getting um clung trapped. So, I don't hear from him. Um, because yeah, he's a single father. So, when he doesn't have his kids, he's with this woman, you know, 24/7 basically. Uh, so I call Larry a crash test dummy. Why is that? Think about you see those advertisements on on TV and there's the safety that go okay you know Volkswagen or Volvo whatever and they'd say oh this is the uh the safety test and they show the the slow motion uh motion capture of the car hitting the with a test dummy in it to show you the functionality of the airbags of that car hitting in like a [ __ ] brick wall at high speed and it's on some rail. Larry is that crash test dummy sitting in that Volkswagen, but he doesn't see he doesn't see the wall there. He's driving at a high speed just smoking a durry, smoking a siggy, looking out the window with his [ __ ] sunnies on his aviators, thinking life's [ __ ] great. He doesn't see that wall. I see it every time. He hits it every time. He doesn't see it. Oh, [ __ ] [laughter] Anyway, that's a Larry update. But overall, he's going good. You guys have been asking in the comments, so that's where he is. Guys, before I keep going, actually, uh, consider subbing, liking, sharing, all that sort of stuff. If you want to contact me or support the channel, uh, you can book in or schedule a private call. I'll do 30 or 60 minute calls. I've been speaking to a lot of you guys. It's been great. Uh, and I do have the locals uh, which is a few bucks a month and uh, it's off platform. There's a link in the video description and you get access to some of my old comedy videos, probably about 150 of them that are no longer on YouTube, that can't be found anywhere else. And that supports my work. If you don't want to do any of that, I appreciate you guys who are here watching right now because you guys make this happen. You make this channel thrive by watching my videos every day. So, I really appreciate that. So, Larry, I'll tell you quickly, Larry's circumstance. Larry's a real person. He's not made up. No, he's not me, okay? Someone very close to me. He did all the right things, all the good things. Like, he had the worst one of probably one of the worst experience I've seen or heard. Probably the worst they're saying. And I saw it in slow time, slow motion. I worked with him. I helped him through his divorce. And that was only shortly after my divorce. So basically, I've been through too. And he's someone I care about dearly. So I really felt every punch and every every twist and turn that he felt during that process. You know, I was there with him, helping him out because he wasn't capable of managing it himself. He was coming to me for help and I was more than happy to help him. Um, but so so Larry is this guy. So he bought a house mid 2000s um out of Victoria. So those you aren't um from Australia. We do home and land packages u in developing suburbs or new suburbs when they're setting them up. He bought one out there for like 300 grand. I'm talking a four bedroomedroom house like 700 squares. Uh you know it's one of those home and land things but it was built quite well. He hasn't had much problems with it. Long story short, uh he had to leverage up to the current valuation of I think it was about $950,000. Just think about that. He paid the house off by the time he was 36. Divorced at 38. He paid the house off like [ __ ] easy street. Busted his ass. He's not some mega huge earner. He he worked a sales job and then on the weekends he was driving like a truck around for a nursery you know delivering rocks and uh you know tambar and [ __ ] like that to to customers and he was doing that for years and years and he paid the house off. Just after he pays the house off he busts his wife cheating and it just blew up from there. Uh and more or less the financial settlement was she more or less got everything. He paid her out about $500 or $600,000 uh plus some superanuation which is pension. So she's walked away with pretty close to three quarters of a million dollars. Now this woman's a complete lump, doesn't work. Has no skills. She's only recently started working because she has to. Uh she was able to buy herself uh she got some help from her parents. They gave her a chunk of money because they didn't want her living with them as a liability. She now owns a home worth a million dollar outright. Larry paid for most of that and her parents gave her a few hundred thousand dollars, just paid for it. So this absolute train wreck life is is set on easy street because of him. This guy is now indebted up to his eyeballs looking down the barrel uh of work until he drops. Living [snorts] in a a small apartment, I [ __ ] you not. Uh kids have been turned against him more or less very heavily. Uh they don't want to go and see him much. He's he's has a son and a daughter. daughter wants nothing to do with him. Son, I think seeing through it a little bit, they're teenagers now. Son seeing through it a little bit and wants to spend time with his dad, which is good. But I dare say if that it's a horrible, heart-wrenching thing seeing that his daughter wants nothing to do with him and gives him attitude and see the impact on him. So anyway, that this is real [ __ ] that I'm talking about that guys deal with.
Let's just continue though. >> Either way, whether she's become a crazy aggressor or a crazy ice queen, you're left lying awake at 3:00 in the morning wondering what the heck happened. was what happened to the woman that you knew? How did she become somebody that you don't even recognize? Do you even matter at all to her? Did any of this ever matter? And maybe is this even her?
>> Not really. Um, as I say to guys, I'm going to repeat it every day because there's new guys coming in here or there's guys that, you know, watch my videos and, you know, gives them a lot of value to know you're not alone. Most guys going through this. Now, look at that. That's number one. That's what a catfish that photo is. Look at the bottom right there. She's looking [ __ ] all right. Like I'll I'll probably [ __ ] swipe right on that on the dating app. I'll take it on. Why not? That's sort of been my field between 5 to seven. I'll take it. No dramas. Look what you're getting on screen. That's what [ __ ] rocks up. [laughter] Oh, hey. I'm here, Gman. I'm like, whoa, okay. Danny DeVito [ __ ] rocks up the penguin. Anyway, back onto my serious topic. Most guys are lying awake in bed. Yeah, she's right. But she won't know it. She'll never experience this. The absolute soul crushing abandonment and seeing your future disappear. Uh if you're a family man, which many of you are, uh that all disintegrates. You know, most men, they love their families, live for their families, uh they get that uh what's the word? Motivation in life to achieve and strive because they want to give the best life to their children and the family unit. that all gets taken away, disrupted, [ __ ] all the work you've put in just absolutely torpedoed. Guys get very [ __ ] despondent. Understandably, you might lose your house or you, as I said, you get 500,000, a million dollars in debt, more up to your neck because you tried to keep the home for the kids to live in or whatever it might be, whatever you're doing. You can't eat, you can't sleep, you might be hitting substances because uh you're trying to cope. You might be eating. Uh you might be overeating. Uh some people do that. I don't think you can eat a lot of the time here because you're so stressed your anxiety reading. Smoking cigarettes uh chain smoking uh cigarettes one after the other. I used to do that. I know a lot of guys do that if they're a smoker. You just you just wire it up, right? You're just going hard for it. It's a bit of a circularity that because cigarettes actually make you more stressed. So you just keep feeding the beast. Uh you can't sleep, you can't really function at work. uh you know, if you don't have a tolerant workplace and they don't care about your situation, you're going to really struggle and you're scared. You don't know what's going to happen to you. So, yeah, you can't sleep. But women aren't going to understand that because most don't have the skin in the game that men have. And isn't just about money. People are wondering, "Oh, I'm going to see my kids. What's the uh what's going to happen to them? How are they going to cope?" Women don't think about this [ __ ] They just want to [ __ ] uh pick up and and take whatever they can and [ __ ] off and they'll work it out. They don't consider people's feelings. They don't consider the impacts on a family. They don't consider the impact on the husband even if they've lost interest in him. You're married to the guy for [ __ ] 20 years, 15 years, 10, whatever it is. Slept in bed beside him. You promised each other stuff and you're going to [ __ ] do treat him like that. And most guys cannot understandably reconcile that behavior. You just you just it just makes no sense to it's very hurtful and it takes a lot of time for men to get over. Like it is abs it is abandonment discarding. That's all I can say. It isn't so much the woman left and you were so much in love uh that you know you're just lovesick and you're for lawn and all this sort of stuff. Yeah, sure. Maybe at the start maybe, but it's more the treatment of how you were valued as nothing but [ __ ] and that hurts and that's traumatic.
>> True face and you just missed it. You didn't see it. Somehow all of these years you deluded yourself into thinking she was somebody else. And that the answer that many men's brains keep landing on is maybe she is just an awful person. Maybe this is who she really is and always has been and she's just hid it so well all of this time. And then the fear starts to trickle in. Maybe all women are like this. How can you ever trust somebody again after something like this? And that that answer that she's just crazy, that she's bad, that she's terrible, that this is the real her. It probably feels true. You have so much evidence that it is true.
>> It is. It is absolutely [ __ ] true. Like you're living you're living it. See this that's the thing with this divorce coach and and all this sort of thing. You get the female perspective and it removes accountability. Some of the [ __ ] that these women do, you would knock a guy [ __ ] out for it. That's it. There's no other way to say it. You'd have him outside in the car park. You would be trying your best to [ __ ] knock him on his ass. Some of the spiteful, most horrible, horrendous things that are done to men. Yeah. False TV charges, saying you're bloody touching kids and doing all this [ __ ] Horrible. Despicable. Do not there is no there is no excuse for doing that to anybody let alone someone you married to and probably supported you and uplifted your quality of life for such a long time. Such despicable coaching kids to say things to get the father in trouble. The kids don't know what they're doing or saying using the kids as a weapon. It's [ __ ] And they're going to say, "Oh no, she's just her central nervous system firing off. She's in protection mode." Now, she's showing you the true person who she is and what women are capable of. And a lot of them are capable of that. Capable of ripping the guts out of a guy who loved him or who still loves him. He sacrificed everything, his time, his freedom, his money, and he was happy to do it because he wanted to feel appreciated. This is his reward. complete clean out, discarding, and having everything you care and love and you're motivated for in life taken away from you or soured and poisoned.
>> And in a way, you're right. It's partly true, >> but it's not the whole truth. And if you only ever get this piece of the truth, you are you're in a risky position because you're likely to go down a path that is going to lead to bitterness, fear, and loneliness for the rest of your life. So, my goal for you in this video >> Hey guys. Yeah, don't be bitter and lonely. Uh, sorry. It's called It's called Experience. Uh, [sighs] just the Can you hear these birds outside? [ __ ] cockatos or something? Can you hear that [ __ ] I can't even hear myself think. Sorry. Bitter. Bitter is a funny word to use for men that have had their lives upended. It makes it really trivializes the impact and the experience that you have dealing through going through this [ __ ] tunnel of [ __ ] like Andy Defrain crawling out through the sas out of you know Shaw Shank Redemption. It's a long struggle. You get it's the worst time of your life and they want to just go and minimize it. Oh, you're bitter. Anyone who goes through that, most people are going to have trauma unless you got rocks in your head. And trauma isn't a bad thing. Trauma is muscle memory from a bad experience that'll make you if you get put in a similar experience be triggered into a state of risk awareness doesn't have to be bad risk analysis uh being if you've been through this and you especially if you're if you've been uh early days in dating you might be six months a year out from all this or even going through it you're not going to look at women as anything more than flesh lights like that's all it's going to be because most of them can't give you anything and you're going to be looking at you know where you're going to end up right you know what's going to happen at some point you're going to end up either living with a woman you don't like she doesn't like you'll get no sex you'll end up getting fleeced for all your cash so you start looking at them more like okay it's a huge risk what offsets the risk with these women and I dare say 95% of them you can't offset the risk in any way
>> is to show you the whole truth to just expand so that you can understand what's really going on behind behind this crazy behavior that she's showing up with. And I'm I'm not showing this I don't I don't want to share this with you for her sake. This is for your sake because I don't want you to spiral down into bitterness, into fear. I don't want you to have to live your life alone without love, without meaningful relationships. And I do not >> Yeah. So, you were in a meaningful loving relationship. You were completely discarded. These channels exist and she has a lot of customers because a lot of men are feeling this. This isn't a one-off scary thing that happened and you found a narcissist woman who, you know, really [ __ ] you over and get back out there and back on the horse, buddy. Like, this happens to a lot of men and they're still pedalling love. I want you back out there. I want you back in relationships and love. Get back out there into the slaughter house. [ __ ] hell.
>> Not want you to fall into the trap of believing her and blaming yourself. taking all of this on you either because I've seen way too many men go down that path that leads to despair and pain and depression. I also want you to be able to protect yourself during this process. It's difficult. This is such a difficult time, especially if she's weaponizing the kids, if she's making a play for all of your money, your future security. I want you to be able to defend yourself, to protect yourself, and stand up for yourself regardless of how she's coming at this. And you can't do that if you only understand part of what's going on. So, by the end of this video, you're going to understand exactly why she's behaving this way, and most importantly, how that impacts you and the choices that you make next. Beyond divorce, better beyond divorce. BBD. Let's get a bit of a BBC. How about that for you BBC's out there? [laughter] So, this is a certified life coach, by the way. Whatever that means, I guess. I am. Hey, guys. I'm a certified [ __ ] life coach. I don't know where I got my certification from, but I'm going to say I've done it. A life coach, guys. Ah, it's bloody shocking, isn't it? Trying to get guys plugged back in and and disregarding their experiences. If you go look at all their videos, it's more or less the same thing. Why has this woman treated you so bad? Why she hurt you so bad? And why you shouldn't let it ruin your life going forward? I don't think it ruins men's life. And I think women, this is the standard position. If you're not in a relationship, then your life's bad. Like, your life's not good and you're bitter and you're going to be alone. Guys, living on your own is [ __ ] pretty good. I understand there's different personality types. And I think most people, yeah, you like to have the thought that idealization that you have this great person, you live with them, and you make your life great together. Most people aren't going to get that. I know it's it's out there. Most people aren't going to get it. If you're a single guy coming out of divorce, right? You're single now. uh you're divorced. I want you guys to think back to the time when the first time you realized you were free. You've walked onto the beach. You're ready to frame. Morgan Freeman's there waiting for you right at the end of the movie. You're not going back to Shaw Shank, are you? You're there in your linen shirt in the [ __ ] sun sanding your boat. How [ __ ] good is that? How good is that? You're waking up on a Saturday morning. You don't have anyone rushing out of bed to do bloody chores and go shopping and do this, that, and the other things you don't want to do. You do it at your own pace. You're not on someone else's schedule. Your money is yours. Sure, you might have paid out a massive lump sum to [ __ ] get the thing off your back, but it's done. Now you can start building again. Your bank account starts piling up because men are simple creatures. Most men, you don't spend much. You'd have to make a concerted and concentrated effort to try and spend all your pay. If I wouldn't be able to spend all my pay, even if I wanted to, I'd have to buy stupid things to do it. And I don't make heaps of money, guys. I wouldn't be able to [ __ ] do it because I live a simple life. You start seeing your bank account grow. You have full control over it. You don't have someone pestering you for large expenses. Uh, what are some of the main expenses that people will get when they're in a relationship? Holidays. Women have this thing with travel. They have to always go different places and it always has to be super expensive. And I don't give a [ __ ] about the cost. Obviously, depending on your budget, they're going to max out what you guys can afford if you're together. Generally, most of that money in the savings account comes through your hard work. Yeah, sure. Some women might contribute, but definitely not to the level that a man does. And so, you're going and you might get hit a milestone with saving. And then what? You got to go and spend $25,000 on a trip to [ __ ] I don't know, Amsterdam or something. Or you're going around uh Europe, Kiki, and all this sort of [ __ ] They want to go, you want to go to Japan, they want to go all around on the bullet train and do this and that and go all the major cities. Uh they want to go to Dubai. They want to check out that. They want to go and go out for dinners and meals, everything to nice, restaurants, cafes, expensive sightseeing, all of that. Now, I have nothing against holidays, guys, but for me, going, if you're a guy who's ambitious and you want to build your net worth, going and dropping 20, 30K on a couple of weeks holiday, uh, I can't see the sense in it. You go and eat food somewhere else. Just stay at home and eat the [ __ ] food, [laughter] but that's me, right? So, you're not spending these things anymore. You're not being harassed to update furniture, uh, to interior decorate, uh, renovations you don't need just because they want to change, they're bored, they want a little project. All these things, you know, men can live in a house that's [ __ ] 70 years old. Keep it clean like a drill sergeant. You got one plate, one fork, one knife, one spoon. You don't need [ __ ] Life becomes very simple. So, it's not about being bitter and alone. You can still date. You can you can [ __ ] get married whoever the [ __ ] you want. I'm just some guy on the internet telling you my thoughts and experiences. If you get married again, you're going to have for me to be honest, she's it's going to be a [ __ ] good deal and and there's going to be no financial risk. They'd have to have far more net worth than me and they would have to be exposed to me. Not that I would ever take anyone's money, but that's the only way I think I would ever do it again, guys. It removes all financial destruction uh from me. If they changed the laws and you couldn't get done in as hard as you can now, yeah, maybe I'll think about it again. But I don't have blind faith in people. I've just seen too much carnage, been through it myself. You know, been on plenty of journeys with people who have experienced it. So being alone doesn't mean you're alone. You date women. You can [ __ ] bang them. Send them on their way, mate. You can you can date, you can you can have good times until eventually the women start squeezing you for, you know, more commitments and that and you just sort of push back a bit and they'll [ __ ] you off. they'll just they'll get rid of you. You know, have a good time. Do that. Get the best out of it. Have a girlfriend if you want. Doesn't mean you need to be alone. You sit in your room and you're staring at a [ __ ] brick wall. Women think if you're not married, you're this [ __ ] alone, miserable bastard. I dare say, guys, my rant today has been about how [ __ ] miserable men are. I'm trying to tell you some of the benefits. You guys that are having a rough time and you're you're right in that horrible period where you don't know what's going to happen. You don't [ __ ] You're scared. You're at the start of the process. You just started talking to lawyers and you start getting all these [ __ ] emails with her lawyers demanding [ __ ] and all this sort of stuff. Settlement letters. It gets [ __ ] scary. You don't know what's going to happen. If you're there, guys, it gets better. It just takes a bit of time. Please don't end yourself or do anything silly. It's a temporary problem. Please don't have a a permanent solution. Please don't do that. It gets better. Don't give people the satisfaction that they can drive you to that point. They they go on this mission to try to prove her wrong, right? They're like, "Wait, this this isn't right and you're right. What she's doing is not right." Especially if she's being aggressive about the kids or if she's just shutting down and not talking to you at all. And so they get caught up trying to prove to her that she's wrong, thinking that somehow they can just get her to see it, that she'll wake up and they'll be able to fix things. They'll be able to make things better. The problem is that the way she's showing up, whether it's aggression or the ice queen routine, it's not a character flaw. It's not like this is who she's really is and it's finally been released. This is a nervous system response.
>> Ah, [ __ ] guys. See, there we go. I've already just told you. No, it's who they are. It's ingrained in women. Women can be horrible, nasty people. There are some bloody great women out there. I'm not saying it's all of them, but it's built into their system. As I said, some of the things that have been said to me by women, no guy would dare say that, say that to my face without threat of a [ __ ] uppercut. And I'm not a tough big guy, fighter guy. I'm just telling you right now, some of the worst [ __ ] that's ever been said to me, women. Women who are supposed to love me. Uh, I'm sure you guys are the same that women can say some horrible, deep, cutting [ __ ] during arguments. I remember things that were said to me 10 years ago, 20 years ago. I still remember horrible things that women say because they're emotional and nasty. Horrible things because there's truth in them and they go for the throat. They go for those soft points. They see a weakness, they [ __ ] exploit it. It's in them. Too many men experience this, guys. That's what my channel's about. I'm bringing [ __ ] awareness. Excuse the language. I'm bringing the awareness to it that you're not alone. You It isn't just you and you had just the wrong one and there's all these great women out there and you just happen to pick the rotten apple out of the bunch. Most guys don't talk about it. They don't tell you what they're going through or what they've been through because they don't want to be shunned by society is being weak and you're not a man and blah blah blah blah blah. Every guy I have seen go through a divorce, every guy in my life, my personal life, has had this [ __ ] horrible experience. Nervous systems get stuffed. 100% hit rate. I'm telling you guys, I dare say it's close to 10 personal. I'm talking in my network, guys. I know, guys. I grew up with, relatives, whatever. have horribly dragged men through courts, done horrible things, drained bank accounts, abandoned men, cheated on them. Like, it's [ __ ] normal. Anyway, bit of a bit of a rant on this, you know? I just get sick of the accountability being removed from women in society. As I said, guys, if you're dealing with this sort of thing, as I said, please reach out to me. Send me an email if you're feeling really down. Don't go doing anything silly. Thanks for watching. You'll get through it. There's always a better life on the other side. But when you get to the other side, don't go getting clung trapped straight away again. Enjoy a bit of [ __ ] time out of Shaw Shank. Cheers.