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Let's dive into this connection and see what is going on between you and the person on your mind. I just want to get an overall energy spirit of what is going on between the collective, the person watching this right now and their person. What is going on? Let's see if this resonates. Make sure that you subscribe, like the video, and comment. It really helps my little channel, right? What have we got?
First of all, we have separation. So, you are at the moment not talking to your person. All right. I feel that so much happened here between you guys. So much. I've got a lot of arguments, a lot of disagreements, a lot of you wanting one thing, they wanting something completely different. One of you was very goal-orientated, and the relationship wasn't a priority. I got a lot of sleepless nights, a lot of this person could have been quite aggressive as well, maybe in the way they acted or when you guys had arguments. I'm seeing broken things around the house, kind of thing. It could have been you as well. I feel that their job was a priority. Someone here and the other person wanted family. That was the difference here is what I've got. And that's the third wheel. Work, their goals were more of a priority. I feel that you tried to connect more with this person, but no, they weren't having any of this.
So, let's get more into this aggressiveness is what I'm picking up. Why was this person? Where's this aggression coming from? Where's the aggression? The strength. This person felt that they didn't have enough strength to deal with work or their responsibilities and the relationship at the same time, and this was really getting to them mentally, and this is why they were, I don't know, breaking things around the house every time there was a disagreement; very toxic energy, extremely, for a lot of you. I'm also picking up they could have some sort of addiction, maybe a drinking problem, gambling, drugs, I don't know, but I just feel that that that also didn't help the situation. Nothing else. I think that's pretty much it.
Then we got the hermit at the bottom of the deck. I do feel you guys are in no contact. Give me more about the no contact situation. Just work. This person is just constantly doing things all the time to distract them from what you wanted or to distract them from the family or to distract them from their mental health, to distract them from dealing with this addiction of some kind or toxic. It could be unhealthy patterns. It could be past traumas. It doesn't have to be addiction. But I do feel that whatever this is that's causing this aggression, that's causing this disagreement or was causing during your relationship, really keeps them literally trapped as you can see in that card there. They're very much the kind of person that it's going to be okay. I don't need to do anything. What are you worried about? Why are we even having this conversation? You know what I mean? And they just left things at that. A lot of aggressiveness again is is what I'm getting.
What about the collective here with the family? Cuz I feel that you are the one that wanted the family. I feel that you were the one that tried to keep the family, or maybe you wanted kids, or maybe there were children involved, or maybe you just wanted that happily ever after with this person. The Queen of Wands, this is your energy. You really wanted the love, the commitment, the family dynamic, the being together, the Empress. Maybe you did want to be, or maybe you were the mother in this relationship, either mothering him or looking after him, or you felt that you you had to literally do everything to keep the family together. Maybe this is your husband. Maybe you are the wife, or maybe this whole situation is because of a past relationship that this person was in. Maybe this empress, and maybe this is their childhood. Maybe this is their mother. Maybe this is the way they were brought up and they're bringing that into this dynamic here. Or it could be a past relationship. No, it's a cycle that hasn't stopped. This is how they were, nothing else. This is how they were brought up. So they brought all of this into this connection really.
What is going to happen now between these two? What is next? Let's see what is next between these two. What is next? Nine of Wands. What is next? A lot has already happened, and I feel that you have been through so many of those sticks behind you. You've got literally one left before it's a burden before the nine goes into the 10 of Wands, which is that burdened energy. I feel that you try to keep your head up. And to be fair, I don't even know how you're still standing. You've got that nine of wands is like, I'm going to keep going, and I can do this, and even if one more thing happens you can still carry on, but I think you're at your last straw here with this particular energy. Maybe you guys are still in contact, but there's that distance. What's the point? They don't communicate. They don't really open up. So the hermit can also represent that it's not always no contact. It's just when they do talk it's like they don't talk. What's the point? Or maybe you guys there's just no nothing there. We've got the sun here.
So, I feel that maybe what's next, you're going to start focusing on yourself, your happiness, where you're going, focusing on what's coming ahead for you. I feel that you're detaching from this situation and just focusing on yourself, from where you are going, better days, your happiness, your self-worth, your self-esteem. That's what you're focusing on. You're I don't feel that you're focused on this connection as much as you used to. You want to try and understand all of this. There's something about you here that's trying to understand where all of this is coming from. The Empress, you're trying to understand, or maybe you are being understanding because this is how his mother used to do it, or maybe this is due to his past wife. I feel you're too understanding in this situation. This is the thing. I do feel you are going to walk if you haven't already because of the realization that there's still something going on here with the ex, with the other woman, or you've come to realize that this is already ingrained in him so deeply that he's never going to change. And maybe that's the Ace of Swords. Maybe that's the awareness that you had and you're like, now I'm emotionally detached from this. I'm going to focus on myself. Whether you guys are still together, it doesn't matter. You're still going to keep moving forward, and I think that is the best option for you.
What is the advice for the collective about this situation? What is the advice? Four of Pentacles. Don't hang on too tightly to this because it will turn into a massive burden. There's your 10 of Wands. So although you're trying to be understanding, or this is past burden, this is the thing. This has been going on for way too long. Your best course of action is to do what you are doing, which is focusing on moving forward, detaching. You already know where this is coming from, but you can't keep making excuses for their behavior because it's starting to affect your mental health.
Will there be a change in this energy? Will they end up changing? Five of Pentacles. All right. They need help, and you need to take this into a whole different direction. I don't feel that you can help this energy. I feel that they need to get help because they can't keep being the victim without reaching out and asking for help. All right. So, that's pretty much what I've got.