Women See You As DIFFERENT From LOSER Men When You Do THIS...

So, what winds up happening is that all these guys that have never had an original thought in their life, as a result, they're very low status and they're trapped inside their head. They're stuck in their [ __ ] head. Okay? They are trapped inside their mind. And what is their mind scanning for all the time? What's their mind scanning for? Safety. What else? Danger. Validation. Validation. Huge. What else? Safety and validation. What else? Oh, that was approval. Approval. What else? Social value. Uh, yeah. Looking like little ways that they can leech. What else? I'm horny. Yeah. Like Yeah. Like at the lowest level when he's drunk, he just wants to discharge in anything. Okay. What else? Told what to do. Yeah. Being told do victim, etc., etc. Right.

So now that guy comes up. What does he look like? What does he look like? He walks up and he's like, "Hey, uh, what's your name?" Uh, right. Like either it's either he's grabby because he's a pervert or he's uh he's um boring, he's stifled, he's approval seeking, right? So then what you do is like massively separating yourself out of this. Okay? It's this total absolute [ __ ] that [ __ ] separation from that. So everything that you're doing is designed to be: I'm not that. I'm not that that thing that you hate. I'm not. Okay. That thing that you have shoved away for the last 20 years. I'm not. Okay. And then what happens is it triggers a pursuit mechanism that usually a man would have. Okay? It triggers pedestalization. It triggers them being nervous for your approval and it's a flipping of the buyer-seller dynamic. Okay?

But this is done via a specific play which is the more socially free play, more of an original thinker play, more mental bandwidth play, and because of that more social calibration play, therefore adding more comfort play. They're more comfortable around you because you're not going to do the weird thing. They can go eat dinner with you and you're not going to do the weird thing. Okay? Now, you'll be weird in a good way because you stand out. You have unique things about your personality. You're not just trying to fit in like an NPC. You'll be weird in the good way, but not weird in the taker way where someone who's been alone for so long has turned like that loneliness has metastasized into this like creepy cancer where they can't just be cool and enjoy a conversation. You're there truly enjoying the conversation. Repeat that after me. You're there truly enjoying the conversation. Okay, you enjoy hearing and also you are you are your biggest source the biggest source of entertainment of entertainment so you're just flow because you're in so much abundance you're so much in a flow so free that you're just entertaining yourself chatting freely with everybody assuming that everyone's your friend if they don't want to talk you're saying good to meet you and getting out of there not being weird about it giving them their space if they happen to not want to talk not personalizing it keeping in the positive flow energy always moving up.

And then what happens as you move along that play is is for someone who's open-minded for the most free flowing, fun, emotionally aware, socially calibrated, high status person in the room. And because what happens is when you do this, what do you think happens to your status? Goes way up in the environment, right? It goes way up. I'm sitting here right now in Dallas, Texas. I'm going to be running a free event right out here in Dallas, Texas. I'm also going to be running them all over Texas in Houston as well. If you like to make more cash, get spiritually tapped in and learn incredible social skills. Meet me in person, build a network, go out at night together, get a ton of personal feedback from me, all for free. Then click the link below or click the link right in my bio and we will set it up to where you can come out and meet up for free, do a free event. It's going to be amazing. I'll see you out here in Texas.

What Sid is showing you here is how to separate yourself from the drones. The this locust swarm of losers. Okay, this locust they're like uh uh uh and then it's like this bird comes along like a magical dragon from like the never ending story and it's like and she just jumps right just riding through the like all the locusts like just swarm away and just in your party let's go. Now the other thing is they're always sensing whose frame they want to be in. Whose frame they want say whose frame they want to merge into. Say that. Whose frame they want to merge and whose emotions they want to be regulated by. Whose emotions they want to be regulated. Freaking massive. Okay?

It's everything. So listen close. So in other words, you have a certain outlook of life, right? That outlook should be a lot like Captain Jack Sparrow. You know Captain Jack Sparrow, right? What does he look like? How does Captain Jack Sparrow, Let me just move in slightly. How does Captain Jack Sparrow move around? Right? It's like problems happen. What's he do? Brush them haters off. Brush them haters off. Brush them haters off. Right? It's all just winning. Say, "Winning upon winning upon winning upon winning. Upon winning." Say, "You're going to win so much." Win off. You're going to get sick of winning. You're going to get sick of winning. You're going to say, "Owen, I I'm sick of winning. I'm sick of winning." And I'm going to say, "You're going to keep winning." You're going to keep winning. Okay? You know, you know. So look, so basically, okay, it's like it's just brush your haters off, right? It's just wins, wins, wins, wins. All we do is win, win, win. Okay, it's just winning winning.

So in other So there's no depression. There's no anxiety. Okay, that's for losers. That's the locust warm. I'm a loser. It's just in the mind, guys. You don't actually have to win. Do you guys understand that? Do you understand that you don't actually have to win? Because you guys are probably like, "Oh my god, I I can only win. I'm not even winning." It's not that. It's the It's the feeling of winning, okay? Every every single thing is a joke. Every single thing is funny. No one's ever insulting you. It's all collaborative. Everyone's your friend. Everyone around you is your friend and you're just dancing, right?

So now it's like, wait, so I enter into this frame and I'm winning because half my brain is reserved to be in somebody else's frame. That's how they're feeling. Not me. Not you, but that's how they're feeling. Half their brain is reserved to be in somebody else's frame. So they enter so so they were in their reality before, but now they enter into your reality and all of a sudden it's like all we do is win, right? No matter what. And they're like, right, they start having fun, right? Because you're because your frame is so [ __ ] dialed, man. It's so dialed. Okay, it's so dialed. So now your frame is dialed. You're just winning, right? But it's like it's not just winning like winning a race. It's like winning. Like you just move and you're winning. Like you're just like and you're winning, right? You tell a joke and you're winning. You move over here, have fun, you're winning. And so what you do is you lower your criteria for win. Say that. Lower. And experience every movement as a win. Every word has a win. Every word is a win. Every word is a win. Every joke is a win. Every joke is a win. Being alive is a win. Feeling the vibe is a win. Feeling the vibe is a win. Feeling the vibe is a win. It's all a win. It's all a win. Cuz all we do is win. And like they would love that. Just that alone. If you just had them doing that, they like, okay, they'll love that, right? Win win win win.

And then from there, it's emotional regulation, right? So they So you know how they get popping off. I don't like this. Give me attention. I don't like that. And you're like, a baby. You know, right? And they're like, okay. Okay. It's like no me no. And you're like, oh. And they're like they like it, right? So it's the frame. Say the word frame. And emotional regulation. And emotional regulation. Okay.

So in effect, what's happening is you have the locust swarm of all these people with no frame. They have no frame. They've never engaged their mind a day in their freaking life. All they've tried to do is safety and fit in. Safety and fit in. Safety and fit in. Safety and fit in. Their personalities are dry, flavorless beef jerky. Okay? Dry flavorless beef jerky. It's just a It sucks. And it's like a beef jerky trying to be shoved. I'm like, "Eat the jerky. Eat the [ __ ] jerky." It's like jerky with like I don't know what's the most tasteless thing like watercress. It's jerky and watercress. Like eat the jerky and the fiber. You're like like that, right? Okay. And it's like all these people trying to shove this watercress jerky in their mouth and they hate it. They [ __ ] hate it. They [ __ ] hate it. Okay.

So what you're doing is you're separating from that because there could be a guy richer than you. There could be a guy with more money than you. But is he winning like that? How do they feel? Is he emotionally regulated like that? How do they feel? Does he have his own unique personality and jokes and vibes that they've never seen? How does it feel? Also, if you believe like what you guys don't realize, you don't understand this. You need to understand this. I am frame controlling you right now. I am frame controlling you. So, it's not just about, oh, I like self-help. Well, if you like self-help and it's really who you are, then just show that you like self-help and then they're going to love you. No. No. Everyone likes stuff. That doesn't mean you automatically get that kind of ROI on it. Okay? It's that I'm frame controlling you into liking self-help. Am I I am frame controlling you to like self-help. How am I doing that? How am I setting a frame to like self-help in this room or on a channel on the internet? How? Making it fun. Make it fun. What else? Being loud. Being loud. What else? Being extremely knowledgeable. Being knowledgeable in it. What else? Joking around. What else? Staying positive. And positive. What else? But notice that I'm not socially pigging off you for if what I'm saying is correct. And this is the biggest piece. Everyone is socially pinging off of everybody else to see if what they're doing is correct. Now, you want to be aware if you're making someone uncomfortable and the second that you would you say have a great night, you leave. Okay, that's called being polite. You [ __ ] leave if you ever someone's not comfortable. But as you're enjoying an interaction when it's consensual, then what you're doing is you're not seeking approval of your opinions or ideas.

It look at a guy like say Gary Vaynerchuk, right? He's got a high-pitched voice. Maybe one of the few gurus higher pitched voice than me. So Gary Vaynerchuk, right? Maybe not. We don't have to test that. But anyway, so Gary Vaynerchuk. What's he do when he comes out? How's he talk? How's he talk? "Hey, I'm Gary Vaynerchuk. We're all going to do AI. We're all going to post 9 million posts a day on social media. We all got to get on top of our social media. We got to get on top of the latest app. We got to do [ __ ] crypto. We're going to make a [ __ ] card. We're going to make a [ __ ] a [ __ ] uh what is it? Is it the uh Yeah. Yeah. Like all this [ __ ] right?" So you So watch how he's like hustle your [ __ ] face off, right? He believes so much what he's saying. He could be saying the same things that somebody else is saying, but people believe in it because he's not socially pinging. So, there's this magical combination where you're not socially pinging. And because you're not socially pinging, you're not doubting, which causes other people to go, "Wait, if he's not socially pinging, he has a higher sense of reality. He's not validating his reality as much as I am. Therefore, my sense of reality merges into this person's sense of reality."

Okay. Now in that sense of reality, what do you rate yourself? 10 or better than 10. What would you rate yourself? One. Say it loud. One. Say it loud. One. Say it louder. Good. Okay. So, you're rating yourself one. Right. So, in your reality, you're oneonone. You're the best. So, so what happens is they must enter into your frame. And if they do for for anything to meaningful to happen, if they do enter in your frame, what is your frame? I'm the best. And we have fun when now. Okay? We have fun when? Now. Okay. So, in other words, all these fun wild things start happening because your frame is strong. What if you're doing sales? When do we buy? Now. Okay. Why? Because that's your frame. So you so what you do is all that you do is you create a frame by having these qualities right any world leader who's very effective in front of it in front of millions of people all they do is this they go up in front of a crowd and they just do what me and sitter are doing including some bad ones to be honest with you right stop and think about this for a minute they go blah blah blah blah this is what a world leaders blah look at what Trump does okay blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah No. Oh no. Oh no. Now go vote. And they go and they go do it. Okay? But the the the unpinging powerful frame synchronizes the audience's mind into his frame. That is how social interaction has to be done to be meaningful and stand out from a regular person. Okay.

So your frame is strong and then what happens as a result is this. Okay, if during the course of your life you've spent your life scanning for safety, what is your how are you going to sound when you talk? If your whole life you're scanning for safety, are you going to have accents and flash and [ __ ] spice when you talk or is it going to be generic? Generic. Okay, so what's happening is here's what someone sounds like who spent their life trying to fit in. "Hi, my name's Fred. I like you and I hope something will happen." Okay, people at a high level, they talk kind of weird, right? Look at Trump. How's he talk? What's he sound like? Who can imitate it? I can't even imitate it. Huge. Yeah, it's huge. It's amazing. Fantastic. The best ever. Or even my I would date my own daughter if I could. Okay? Right. He says that, right? He's like like my daughter's so great. I would I wish I could date her. Like it's crazy. It's [ __ ] crazy. But okay, we are the best. Like all that kind of stuff, right? So that's why he brings pride back cuz he tells the country we're the best. Okay. So he But you see how he talks a bit different. Yeah. How do I talk? That's a bit different. Do you guys hear all the little pops and and inflections and things like that? What I'm doing is I'm going into what's natural to me and I'm releasing it. So, this is actually how I talk in my own head, but y'all are not necessarily talking how you talk in your own head. Or if you do talk generic in your own head, it's cuz you're brainwashed. You've been brainwashed into just like I think this, I think that. Look, and I hate to bring politics in it, but in far leftism, to be fair, uh left or the right can cause this phenomenon. Just depends who's more extreme in the moment. Happens to be left now. Could totally be the rightwing later. By the way, like in the 90s there was a lot of stuff like that. Um, but you'll see like they don't even have a thought of their own. They're just like a series of political talking points. Like I believe the latest thing, I promote the latest thing. That was the joke that a lot of right-wing people said. They said that they called it the next trendy thing. Right? So that is a that's a very extreme example of what's the next trendy thing that I'm supposed to think as a part of me being part of this weird cult. Okay. But so that's a very far version of being within a cult where you just think whatever you're told to think like getting your marching orders from CNN or whatever MSNBC or whatever it was, right? Like uh Rachel Madau is going to tell you like she's going to tell you what's up, right? She's going to tell you what's what. But you know, Trump does it too, but there's just different degrees of it.

So then from there, um a lesser version of that extremity would be like yes, like like hey, how's it going? It's like it's always at the center. Imagine it like you're in a tribe and there's a bunch of lions on the outside of the of a group of humans, right? Like imagine that we are here, right? And there's lions on the outside. The boring version of talking is like staying at the center here and kind of um not being willing to take a risk. Okay? It's like it's like, "Hi there, I'm Fred. What's your name? What do you do? Where are you from?" Boring, boring, boring, boring, boring. Okay? So standing out is something that happens more when you take that risk. Okay? That way you talk, that inflection that you're using, that pop, that accent, that thought that you just release to the person you're talking to. Okay?

So now let's think again about what this does to the person who you're talking to. In effect, what it does is it shows them that you have a working brain. You have a working brain which generates strength. Say strength. Strength and safety. Safety. Okay. So, they say, "Oh, like people just naturally want to feel safe and they naturally move towards strength." Look, I've seen this because I've run organizations and when we when we get weak, rats from a sinking ship, guys. Okay? It's like you're on the boat and your best friend has got uh a little escape boat. He's got the piggy bank from under your bed. He's got your girlfriend and he's paddling away going, "Thanks for the memory. He's got your girlfriend. He's got your piggy bank. See you later." Right? And you're like, "I thought we're friends." Right? And they're like, you know, we are all the best. Right? That really does happen. It's happened to me many times like people that I was brothers with, like girlfriends, all sorts of stuff. Because you're strong, you go weak. They do what's called an flip, which is reticular activation system. Their select to focus lips. They previously saw only the good things about you. Now they only see the bad things about you as a survival mechanism to preserve their own safety. So when you're showing strength and safety, people gravitate around it.

So now look at I'm showing you this cuz I'm going to get you doing it. But do you see how when I go out and I socialize, if I have this kind of projection, which you know somebody watching the video at home can never hear it. For somebody watching this at home, how loud is how much saturation boy do we have in the room? How loud? Okay? Right. So, yeah, the ceilings are basically vibrating, right? But I don't have to push to do it. It's not like I'm yelling, right? So, it's I'm just opening the throat because I feel relaxed. So, that's kind of moving around, but I also have variability in my tone. We've done exercises like that, like stretch, shotgun, sacato, right? Stretch, shotgun, staccato, you know, things like that, right? So, you see like there's there's natural pops, accentuations, accents, um, kind of variability in the tone, but also it's congruent. So, I'm not try Here's the main key. I'm not stifled and then going hi like that. I'm not say I'm not controlling it. I'm not controlling it. I am releasing it. I am releasing it. Just for Just remind Jamon, say release the Kraken. Release the Kraken. Say the Kraken. The Kraken. Release the Kraken. Release the Kraken. Okay. So, in other words, I don't know why I think that's wrong. But anyway, the point is like you'll notice that even when you're in a state of release, you can say Kraken the way was it was it Liam Niss? Who was the guy that said release the Kraken? Who was it in the movie? Was it Liam Niss? and he has like like a Scottish type Irish accent. He's like, "Release the Kraken." Okay, I can't talk with that accent what I'm going to say to control. I'll say, "Release the Kraken. Release the Kraken." Right? That's That's why white boys have a stereotype that like, "Release the Kraken." Like they dance, "Release the Kraken. Release the Kraken. Release the Kraken. Release the Kraken." Right? Like they're kind of like that. So like, "Release." Say it. Release the Kraken. The Kraken. the Kraken. The Kraken. The Kraken. The Kraken. Okay. So, in other words, like when you release it, it actually it actually allows you to have access to some of your thoughts.

Now, last point I want to make is this. When you feel safe, your mind will let you turn circuitry on that you didn't have access to before. So in a weird way volume and projection in effect what's happening is that by me putting volume over the room that is telling my brain this room is safe. This room welcomes me being a leader or having hierarchy in this room. So right now this is easy for me cuz I'm running the seminar and all of you are kind of egging me on. Even things like clapping when you clap for somebody here just clap for me right now. Right. Okay. Right. What's that? Pause. What's that tell my brain? I'm saying it's saying to my brain, we give you permission to turn on the upper circuitry. That's what it's saying. We give you permission to turn on the upper circuitry of your brain to hold frame to be confident to release the kraken. Okay, that's really what that's saying. Okay, the clap means release the kraken. That's really what it means, right? It means be you. Be your fuller self. Right? So in here, this is [ __ ] easy. This is a joke, okay? Because you guys are here for me. But can I walk out on the street and keep this level of release? That's your million-dollar question, right? Any [ __ ] guru can sit there in amongst their followers while their followers like, "We worship the guru. We love the guru. Yes, guru Owen, show us the Kraken." Okay, anybody can do that [ __ ] The question is, can I do that without you guys here on the street alone on a [ __ ] Tuesday when nobody nobody to give me that approval? Can I generate that approval for myself which then switches on the brain circuitry? It switches it on. Okay.

So, and by the way, you'll notice that the more that I work from this state, the more energy I get. You guys notice that? The more that you work in a state of release, the more energy you get. So, if you're an entrepreneur or an entrepreneur within your business, man, you get an advantage when you know this stuff because you're gaining energy off work. People will just go, "How do they do it? There's so much energy. How do how do they accomplish this much in a day?" You do it from a state of release. In other words, you're taking off the [ __ ] parking brake and all gas. All break, no gas. Or sorry, all gas, no break. Okay? Circ betrayed me. So, basically what you do, okay, so basically what you do is come on in. So, here's what you do. Okay? In effect, what's happening is you've got to initiate this without the approval. You've got to initiate this without what? So, in other words, without social like, okay, never bother someone. Say that. Never bother someone. Okay. Within the context, you're not bothering somebody. Having a positive consensual social interaction then without needing like constant validation how great you are, you have a conversation. That's what I mean. Obviously, if someone doesn't want to talk to you, leave. Okay. Say, if someone doesn't want to talk to me, if someone doesn't want to talk to me, I leave. I leave. Okay. All right. So, bas Okay. Say, "Have a great night." Say that. Have a great night. And leave. That's what you always do. Any issue? Have a great night. Politely and eject.

Now, from there, can you make yourself believe that you have that approval? Now, look at what I've showed you. Say the word active active state control. control. So active state control means rather than just interpreting every social interaction through the default lens, you choose the lens. Okay? So say rather rather than interpreting than interpreting social responses social responses through a default lens through a default lens I I actively actively choose the lens the lens. So here's an example of a default lens. Here's an example of a lens. Default lens is they didn't like me. I suck. A chosen lens could be I took action. So I'm a thousand out of 10. Say that. I took action. I took action, which is thousand out of 10. Okay. So if you say if you realize almost nobody talks to anyone anymore, everyone's on their phone. Everyone's dating from the internet, which sucks. and no one's having real conversations anymore. And you had the fortitude to actually try to connect to another human being in real life, sober by the way, and with calibration and sensitivity to where they're coming from and calibration to them and and making sure they're comfortable and you have the courage to do that. That's a thousand out of 10. As opposed to, oh, I didn't get the result that I want. I will [ __ ] cry like a [ __ ] little baby. Instead, you actually say, no, I'm choosing uh right now I'm choosing to view this as positive. Right? So what happens is then every social interaction that you have what's happening in your state going up. It's going up. Right? So what you do is say thousand out of 1000 say who the [ __ ] would have the balls to do that and then say find something funny about it. Yeah. So you're actively controlling your state.

Now if you don't actively control your state this mechanism of uh a downward spiral is so brutal guys. It is so freaking brutal and you will have the most horrible night of socializing you have ever conceptualized in your freaking life. Okay, so if you regularly go out, you will get two types of momentum. Say micro momentum. Micro momentum. Macro momentum. Macro. So m So micro momentum is momentum in a night. You'll get and if you're continually controlling your state actively, your state will go up and up and up and up based on only one criteria, which is what? Action. Say action. Action. Yeah. So, in other words, as long as you're taking action, your state goes up. But if you're not taking action, your state will go down, which would then compel you to take action. But if your state is only going up based on positive responses, and given that statistically, not every response is going to be as great as you might like. Then your state's going to go down and you're going to get nailed bad. You will get freaking nailed. Okay? So, in other words, what you're doing is you're controlling your state. As you get used to being in this mode, here's what you're going to find. Right now how you get in a state of momentum will be in a momentum spike will be your resting state in about half a year or two to a year. Okay. So the more that you go out say the more I go out the more the more I build the more I build synaptic pathways synaptic pathway to a higher state to a higher state. That's all that's happening. Okay. You're just building those pathways to a higher state. So you'll so I will know somebody who studies this stuff from 100 yards away. I can see somebody who studied that a 100 yards away. I'll go, "Hey." And they're like, "Owen." I'm like, "Yo, it's me. How do I know?" Because I can see that they're in a higher state. I can see they're extroverted. I can see they're social. I can see they don't have self-doubt. I can see that they have a strong frame. And I can see the originality, that one of one. Somebody who they'd miss you when you're gone. Somebody that people would feel it when you're gone. Somebody who's really themselves. But really yourself is not you in a stifled state. Really yourself is not you in a lazy state. Really yourself is not you in a depressed state. Really yourself is not you with the with the higher level circuitry turned off. The real you is a higher circuitry turned on which means you talk different. You say the word you move different. You move. Okay. But it's not about being me. It's about being you. Everyone's going to have their own version of moving different and their own version of being that OG. Right? I show you my version as this quirky speaker guy. Okay. I'm the quirky speaker. But you would also have your own version.

So how do we begin to elicit this? How do we begin to elicit it? We elicit it by getting into that state more often and shedding the shackles that are holding you back. Now I want you guys to observe and this is important that you're watching what is called a free associative speech right now. Say the word free associative speech. So this now I'm riffing on topics I know, but I can also riff like this on topics I don't know. By the way, I used to do jokes on my seminars where I would riff on the most random topics you'd ever seen for 2 to three hours. And the audience would be would be dying laughing. I'll spare it to you, but if you want to see it, you could ask me. I once did a a 2-hour speech on Birkenstocks where I incorporated the word Birkenstock for two to three hours with the same passion as the speech just to prove that I could do it. I could do a 10-hour version like that. It's just called free associated public speaking, right? That's why I don't run out of things to say when I go out. I'm free associating. Rather than being in a suppressed state and having the upper circuitry shut down and then memorizing a line or routine, we activate the upper circuitry. Why? Because it also means you're probably or a lot more likely to become a millionaire, right? You're a lot more likely to get rich when you turn on that part of your brain. But what we crave is control. We want to control. We don't want to be rejected. We don't want to be embarrassed. We don't want to have to let go. What is one of the most powerful spiritual teachings? Repeat this after me. Conscious conscious non non resistance. So in other words, if you're interacting rather than trying to control it, focus the mind initially in your night of accepting whatever reaction you get fully. Just say thousand out of 10. Who the [ __ ] would other boss do that? Find something funny about it and accept it. And the more that you just honestly accept it, you'll see as you just accept it, you'll stop worrying about the response because you accept it. You almost got to push yourself down a rock bottom of like maybe 10 or 15 interactions that were just like, "Oh, man." Right? And what happens is it's a bit like when you uh are kind of tiptoeing into a pool, right? And you're like, "Oh, it's cold. It's cold." But what happens when you just jump in? It suddenly becomes warm. And yeah, and you got to do the same thing. Don't tip, As long as you're trying to control everything, you're tippytoeing your way into the pool. You don't want to tippy toe your way in the pool. You want to just jump in. How do you do it? You just accept whatever. I'm me. I'm putting it out there. Respond as you will. Let the chips fall where they may. Say that back to me. Let the chips fall where they may. Yeah. And say, and be polite about it. And be polite about it. And say, "Have a great night." Have a great night. Yeah. Just be very polite about it. Have a great night. Right.

And what'll happen is if instead of being, oh, it's not working. Oh, I'm not good anymore. [ __ ] heart. My [ __ ] mom. Where's my [ __ ] mom? Okay, I'm stopping on this, but basically it's like my mom. Okay, instead of this [ __ ] [ __ ] like these [ __ ] people do, go into conscious non-resistance, which they teach in the baga, the da jing, echartole. It's actually written in not so many words in the Bible. It's what allows you to connect to reality directly. And it means the cup runth over. Here's what will happen. Okay? When you're in resistance and you need a certain response, you will have a taker energy. They will feel it. When you need a response, they will feel a taker energy because it implies that they have more value than you and that you're in scarcity and you're bringing nothing and that you and that you need to be placated. So, it's a full-time job to plate you cuz you needed something. So, there's no energetic space just to be for them to be for them to be who they are and to perhaps step into you. So, you're not leaving that space. So instead, what you do is be in non-resistance. And maybe a couple interactions don't go quite the way you want, but you fully accept that you're in non-resistance. Once you accept it, then what's going to happen is you're going to feel this shift in energy and the energy is going to begin to move out and you're going to feel like a Care Bear. You ever seen the Care Bears? Yep. It's like, right, they shoot like the bad guys all negative and it's like ah then they become like loving and cuddly because you had the care what's it called? Care Bear share. What is it? Care Bear. Care Bear stare. What is it? It's been I don't know. I'm I should know this. Care Bear some [ __ ] right? Care Bear some [ __ ] right? Okay. So So you want So rather than trying to take, you give. And the way that you give is you go to conscious resistance. What that does is it stops cycling the energy into this nonreceptive mode where they're not like you're putting out. You're like, you're like, uh, and then they don't receive and then then you get nothing back. So, they actually drain your soul. By the way, say they drain your soul. They actually do. Have you ever noticed after a night, a bad night out, like the way I'm describing, it feels like your soul got drained out your body? It literally drain your soul out of your [ __ ] body. So, what you got to do is ground yourself and bring back your soul. So what happens is you just go into conscious non-resistance which tells the energy to stop flowing into someone who may not send it back to you and instead you start cycling it in yourself as you which is like tapping into God metaphorically or real depending on your beliefs. I'm not trying to push them. So now what you're doing is you're you're moving from trying to get from the world which can never plate you to the degree you want. Every spiritual teaching teaches this. And then you're now tapping in and the energy is cycling within you and the energy is emanating out of you. And much like the sun where the plants lean into the sun, you will begin to see how the energy is act or people are beginning to move towards you and you could be physically unattractive, short, bald, fat, acne covered, weird in a wheelchair in my case and people will be magnetically drawn to you the same way that plants are to the sun because it's a circling energy. So you see everybody's insecure about their looks, their height, their wheelchair in my case, balding all these insecurities that they have. Look, it's cool to like like maybe at some point in my life I'll like look maxed or whatever for my own fun, but nobody can say that I didn't do it as a fat old bull guy in a wheelchair for decades. Okay, so I've never maybe I'll do that as like a self-respect thing, but it's not an attraction thing. That what's an attraction thing is energetic. Okay. And a lot of very good-looking or rich people don't understand the energy and they shoot themselves in the foot. So when you understand energy which is based on conscious non-resistance which cycles the energy within you which makes you comfortable in yourself which then gives you the feeling of safety to actually perceive the world accurately which means you'll start to have some original opinions. You'll start to have some original jokes because you're not just how do I get safety? How do I take safety from the world? Because you give yourself safety. You'll become an original. You'll become an OG, not a jag like just another guy, but an original gangster. Okay, metaphorically, you become OG. You'll be your own [ __ ] person. And you'll be strong in your own frame. As a result, in the same way, remember what I said, booga, waab, booga, booga, booga, people go in frame. You'll begin to communicate in a way where you're not pinging from them. They will begin to ping from you because you do not ping from them. It's actually how hypnosis works, guys. You know how you can hypnotize someone? They just go they and then suddenly they think they're a chicken. They guys, pause and think. Hypnos, there is this thing called hypnosis where people believe they're a [ __ ] chicken. Okay, there's also a thing called magic where you can go like that and it looks like a pen disappeared. Okay, repeat this after me. We don't believe what we see. We see what we believe. So, if you actually understand how slight of hand works, slight of hand is basically just moving something quickly away. But if you can prime the person's belief to believe it's about to disappear just by like quickly putting it away, the brain will it'll it'll literally look like the [ __ ] thing disappeared. It's crazy. Okay. So, if you're like, "I'm crazy confident. I'm oneonone. I'm the best." You in the same way that it looks like a pen disappeared, you will look more attractive. You will actually look like a 10 to that person because they will f they will modify their perception of you based on what? RA. Say it. R. Yeah. They basically do what's called a positive positive re flip also known also known as the halo effect okay and then what happens you start building a lot of social proof social proof starts to build around you get mate choice copying you get other you get all this social proof then maybe you've got a good funnel in your Instagram you've got a cool party and then this radiant person is in is get is inviting them out and someone whose approval is not easy to get by the way you more exclusive. Not everybody gets your energy. You've got to make sure that interaction you're chatting for a bit. In a lot of cases, you want to kind of pull back, you know, like watch this. Okay, we're talking now. Okay, we're talking. Watch the effect. Okay, what happens? You got to let him feel it. The a lot of we build it in absence. Okay. It's like when you're having sex, you don't just go like that, right? You pull back. You tease, right? You're licking, right? You just go the whole time. What do you do? What do you do? Right. On a peak of of that, you go you pull back, right? You just go like that, right? I mean, maybe at a certain point, but then, but there'd be a buildup to that point, right? And the buildup would be by pulling back. So, there's a there's a pullback factor, and then that further amplifies the desire for that attention. So, when you know that you've really got it, like you got it like that, like in that moment, you got it like that. You know that you do, that's when you go and you walk off, chatter their people, and then they're like, and then now they're stuck with the lame dudes. They're stuck with the lames, right? Enjoy the lames. Okay? Enjoy the lames. Okay? And then they strategize on how to get you to come back doing whatever it takes. Whatever it takes to get you to come back and hold your attention forever. Whatever it takes. Whatever it takes, they want to do it. Because imagine you just want something 10 out of 10 level. What would you do to get it if you want a 10 out of 10 level? Whatever it takes. What would you do if you want 10 out of 10 level? Whatever it takes. So you've got to be that person that they want a 10 out of 10 level. And whatever it takes. And that's where you get to the fun stuff. Okay. That's where things become very fun very fast. And your frame is that things move fast. So as a result they slide in that frame often times. Okay, that is how it is done when you're a regular person who's not 6'4, not a mued up jaw and the full hair and the private jet. This is how you use personality. But here's the best part. What I have noticed is that personality will exceed the looks of money thing almost every time. Because it's an area, here's why it works. It's an area that few men have optimized for and therefore it is a blue ocean. Say the word blue ocean. Blue ocean. That's what nobody's getting. Okay. If everyone did this, it wouldn't work anymore. I mean, it would kind of work, but it wouldn't work in the same dramatic way that it works now. Okay.

So, you know, like when you saw me out last night and I had you make these changes. Yeah. What would Stand up for one sec. Tell the audience quickly what the ch what it felt like when we went out, what it was like at the start, and then as you made that change, what it felt like by the end. I mean, louder. Well, first off, the haze. The haze just kind of goes away. And the mechanisms of judgement, embarrassment. How did I start? [ __ ] I'm just going to stay in this forever. Tell me the exact quote that you said. I'm never going to get out of this hell. Life is going to be like this forever and ever and ever. And then what' I tell you to do? Conscious non-resistance. Just let it happen. Accept it fully. What changes in responses and your behavior occurred? Well, I mean, I replicated what Owen was able to do at a much lower level to say the least. Yeah, because what I was doing was bonkers. But like would it would that be like way higher than what you could normally do? I feel like I can actually get somewhere now with my life. I I I I don't have to be the depressed, slightly suicidal kid with nobody liking me or what felt like nobody liking me. Keep going. I mean, I was I was at a point in my own life where people have told me, "You're a creep. You're disgusting." Straight up. I've had people tell me that one time. Somebody even punched me in the face. One time in the club, which that night I had. And what changed the energy now? Sorry, say it again. What's changing your energy now? Honestly, you. That's the point of the seminar. Yeah. Okay. So what's so what's change? But no like like having that that background in some type of spiritual growth and then having all the pieces fall in place and really that conscious non-acceptance like that really is the foundation non-resistance because conscious non-acceptance I mean if you're dependent on anything material somebody can take it away from you. You have no power so it has to come from within. And how do you feel your body as we made that shift? I'm gone. No. Yeah. You start to feel outflow. Sorry. Jesus. More like Jesus walking on water. Let's give Allah some respect. Yeah. But it's that's that's a strong statement, right? But describe the feeling of it so that people can know what they're shooting for. Yeah. I mean, it's you're completely fine and content with yourself. You don't need anything and you don't need anything from anybody. And it's just, yeah, you're the man overall. You got it. And uh I mean last night, literally somebody a non special community person came up to me and was like, "Bro, I see you just doing this left and right. That's

"respect." Yeah. People feel it. They feel the energy. Give me a hand, guys. That's awesome. Yeah. Tonight, we're going to build on it. It's going to get even better tonight. It's going to be awesome. Okay. Yeah.

And guys, let me say a last thing about it, then we're going to go on some transformation work. Um, society's got everybody all [ __ ] up. Society has everybody all [ __ ] up. Everybody should be operating from this frame. Okay? Or some some their own ver not my frame, but their own version of their frame.

My vision for America, what I'd love to see, I feel like in America, we're a lot as a whole, we're a lot closer to the ideal that we talked about here than a lot of more collectivist countries where people are really suppressed. I mean, I've had students that come from the east, the Far East, and like the it's like an anvil on their head of stifleness. It's like a weight. I've seen some students that come from like these countries and they're like, "You know what? I'm trying to get them out." And it's like pro it's like deep cult programming in their mind suppressing them at the highest of levels. Okay.

America by contrast is like the land of Little John. Okay? You know that kind of stuff, right? So we have that element, right? And so that's why in America there's the most invention. There's the most there's a lot of creativity and invention here because we have more of that. But what I think is going to have to happen is this country, we need a human awakening project. And that human awakening project, in my view, should incorporate um, I I think Christianity is the basis of the West. And I think that the without needing somebody to believe uh dogma, because I'm I believe what I believe, but I don't need you to believe what I believe, but just taking the lessons from it, like like the distilled things that anyone could implement would be powerful. But also even looking at uh the Da Jing, Eastern philosophy, not as a religion, but just to study the benefit of it, study personal growth and this kind of stuff where people would just wake up and they'd have that awakening of the upper circuitry in the mind, past the lower levels in Maslow's hierarchy of needs and into the higher parts of the mind. I think that if that happened, there would be less of this AI takeover nonsense going on. Um, I think we really need this right now, guys. And I think the emphasis on the human soul as AI comes out will be very important.

Look, I'm going to be honest with you. Even if you don't believe in the soul, now would be the time to maybe to start lying because there's going to be a bunch of little creatures coming out better than you at everything. And the soul will be your only claim of why you should exist by that point because it's going to be better than you at everything. So you're going to go, "I got a soul, though." Okay? And that's going to be like the one piece. So I'd really dive into that. Okay? But what's funny is when you do that and you actually think about what your soul is, you'll realize it's real. It's not a lie. It's not a joke. The soul is real. There is an essence to us that I believe happens that I believe goes on when we die. But I believe that we've got to switch it on. It has to be earned. So you don't just get to be an NPC your whole life on complete autopilot like a cow. And then this autopilot ego thing transcends. Okay? We have to actually build our soul.

And what you'll see is much like a bodybuilder who's like, you know, on a million gallons of steroids or whatever, right? Or an endurance runner who can run far, there's a strength of spirit that a lot of people have where their mind can stay locked into the kind of state that we're talking about here under pressure. And you know how I said that doing it here is easy, but doing it out with random people is hard. That's here in a room of validation, easy mode. Random people out, harder, for sure. And that's why I love to go out. By the way, even harder is when you're under siege, maybe a media fiasco, maybe rejections, maybe business going bad, maybe reputational damage, maybe a hard moment in business. And can you stay locked in? Because if any of you have any of you ever had a business crisis and your brain was just so seething with adrenaline and stress, you couldn't stay locked in? Okay, so you know that feeling, right? Imagine you can stay like this even under crisis. That is spiritual strength. Okay? Where you know you're a child of God. You know that you're here to experience this mission either way. And whether it's high or low, God chose for you and it's for you to embrace it and and to keep your faith.

And what happens is, let me tell you something. Those moments of crisis or reputational damage. If you choose to focus on the creator, not the creation. Okay? Say, "Creator." Creator, not the creation. Then if if you just stay there and you accept that there's ups and downs out here, but there's a tapping in right here. "I am the vine," quote unquote, not me, the quote. Then what you have is you stay there and you'll find that you actually pole vault into higher levels of consciousness. And that's what the the conscious non-resistance was was in effect. What happens? You get a rejection. You say, you choose to stay tapped in with that rejection and you feel the attachments to the world. Say, say, "Be in the world." "Be in the world, but not of the world." "Not of the world." If you know, you know where that quote comes from, right?

So, what happens is when you do that, the rejection or the hard part of life snips away the energetic threads to the world and pulls the energy back and then begins to cycle it within yourself and build a soul, so to speak, metaphorically or real, depending on your point of view. So what happens then? The soul is this kind of it's this sort of like what Eckhart Tolle would almost call like a present-to-the-moment blob in your brain. Okay? Like kind of dubbing it down here, right? It's like this present-to-the-moment blob in your brain that doesn't really need anything, so to speak, and just emanates out the energy of life and creation. You see what I'm saying here? It's like a screensaver, okay? To keep this like regular, right? Like you know the screensaver's got like these blobs on it going. It's almost like a piercing of the veil and this emanating fountain of the energy of creation, the energy of lightness, the energy of life. Okay? And what happens is you just tap into this spot and things just start creating, right? Whether you're a, you know, improvisational jazz artist and you're just sitting there and you and your boys are all or girls, whatever, are all in this gear and you're all just creating. You're just creating, creating, creating, creating. Maybe it could be your public speaking and just creating, creating, creating. Maybe you're out socializing and free associating, opening, chatting, teasing, moving, moving energy. That's why it's so fun and addictive to socialize. Okay?

So, you know, socializing when done from taking drugs and spending all your money on a table, getting high, and being up late, that's bad. That's not good for entrepreneurship. Socializing done this way is amazing for entrepreneurship because it teaches you how to wake the [ __ ] up. And it can it can show you the same skills you learn out can make you very creative and you can build products, you can build marketing because your your mind is tapped in. You're you're you're same animal, different beast. Say, "Animal." "Same animal, different beast." Different beast. And by the way, the real transcendent sports players like Tom Brady when he's down 28-3 and God has given him the position to come back and rather than getting down on himself, he stays with the creation. What happens? The energy, it starts to shift. There's an energetic shift. The Atlanta Falcons in the Super Bowl, um, they start to go, "Oh, shit." And they're not they're not in control anymore. And Tom just storms right down the field and brings energy to his entire team. And that's why a great founder has the capacity that we're talking about here and can bring energy and be a spark plug for their entire team to where like they're ready to lead a [ __ ] army.

Imagine you could be up here on stage just like this or out the way that I was showing you last night and you could do it anytime you want. Could you lead a team? Could you invent things? Yes. Could you get past fear? Would you have more energy? Could you crush it? Would you win and win and win and win and win? Yeah. So that's that's what I'm talking about, right? So we started this conversation about how to not be regular and another locus of a regular person. And I said it's a play based on the idea that you stand out. So now do you see why you can separate yourself from a chump? Now do you get it? Yeah. I think you get it. I think you guys totally get it. Okay.

So what I want to do is I want to have some transformation work and I want to show you the transformation that we can do. Okay. And by the way, do you guys see how I just like make dumb accents? Like I'll show you the transformation that we can do. What's driving that? Flows, momentum, tapping in the energy of creativity, and it's all coming out in sequence. And what you really want to do, in my view, is you want to live like this. Okay? You want to live like this and you want to strengthen your soul. Now, I didn't market this course as a soul-strengthening course because there's no niche for that. Okay? There's a lot of people in the lower circuitry of the brain. This course will solve your social challenges, attraction challenges, better than any course on earth. There's nothing even close on earth ever that will solve it better than this course. And that's how I get you in the door. But what's funny is, as Einstein would say, I think it is, "We can't solve the problem." Say that. "You can't solve the problem at the paradigm." "At the paradigm it was created at." It was created at. I think it was Einstein. Anyway, you see the point, right? So what we do is we go to a higher paradigm, and then we automatically solve lower paradigm. Like, if you can get this down, can you do well with attraction or social skills? Come on. Come on, dude. Okay? Like, it's like it ain't nothing, right? It's like it's like nothing.

So, what I try to do is I get you in this room based off the actual results that we will guaranteed to get tonight. But what I do is I want to take you to another paradigm. So, as we do these transformations, what I want you to notice is how we use things like volume, cadence, stretching, expanding. And as we do that, we see the transformation occurring. So, what we want to see is we want to see what someone looks like at the start when they're just another guy. And then we want to see what they look like as we've stretched and pulled. And so, we're doing exercises like using volume. We're doing We're doing exercises like getting the crowd to approve, but then removing approval and forcing them to sustain it. We're getting them to do things like being creative. We're getting them to repeat this after me: "Find your voice." "Find your voice." Yeah. That's really what it comes down to. You got to find your voice. Okay.

So, will this solve your attraction and social issues? Sure. I mean, yeah. Okay. Like, if you needed a dollar and I gave you a million dollars, you got a dollar. Okay. So, I solve it. I solve the basic stuff that I bring you in here for, um, really quick, but then we but I actually want to show you something a lot more powerful. Okay. So, I'm going to be bringing people out. You guys enjoy this little speech? Well, thank you very much. I appreciate it. Thank you.