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So we're talking about the sex style today, and, um, with the springs in the birth chart, uh, it's considered one of the easy aspects, one of the good aspects, um, meaning easy that it doesn't, or it doesn't cause problems, it doesn't require anything of us. Um, so hard aspects are the aspects that call our attention to something that isn't working. They present us with problems, but the soft or easy aspects are things in our personality that are just working. We don't have to get them to work, we don't have to assert any energy, we don't have to learn anything, we don't have to come to know something. They require no insight. They're just parts of our personality that are, are in tune, just born with some things that work. Sometimes, sometimes we get lucky, and we all have some amount of hard aspects, some amount of difficult aspects. And this is one of the aspects that we don't think too much about. This is an aspect that doesn't call our attention to it because, well, we don't take note of it. It doesn't cause any roadblocks.
So planets that are sextile to each other are working. They are in a practical working relationship, and it's a practical relationship because it's two factors, it's two behaviors, two needs. Those are the planets in sextile that are working in such a way that we take into account the reality itself, the external world. So we don't omit, we don't look past. There's a good working relationship between two things, so we'll have a good outcome. And because of that, we don't tend to question it. We don't tend to to look at it like, "Hmm, you know, I have to go back to the drawing board." We just don't go back to the drawing board. We just draw very easily.
Now, planets in a sextile are not completely complacent. It's not like trines, which are like a super sextile. The trine lesson will be very similar to the sextile lesson. Sextiles do generate some amount of doing, but it's not the kind of doing that comes from conflict or friction or creates conflict or friction. We often associate sextiles with a little bit of elbow grease. We'll hear that quote a lot, "with just a little bit of elbow grease," or "with just a little bit of energy," because that is what brings the good stuff. But we can liken that kind of energy to the type of energy that we expend when we're doing something that we enjoy, and we're doing something that we love. We really don't feel regretful about that. We don't feel like we don't want to expend that energy. We're happy to do it. Say, when you are playing a sport that you love, that can require a massive amount of energy, but we're happy to expend it because we want to play that sport. Um, you know, if I'm out, uh, working with my horses, that takes a lot out of me. That's hauling hay and brushing horses and lifting hooves and a lot of physical labor, but I love to do it. It's not something that I associate with a problem that I want to get rid of.
So when we have sextiles, we are doing something and we are expending some amount of energy, but it's not in a way that we are trying to get out of it or we're trying to change it. We're trying to realize what's at the core of it. So I don't have to do this anymore. Um, it's positive energy expenditure. Trines, we really don't expend any amount of energy. They're so much in harmony with two, uh, pieces, uh, between the two of us. It's like we kind of float on air. Sextiles, it's like, initially, we have to, I think, early in our life is when sextiles require the tiniest bit of elbow grease, the tiniest bit of effort that we associate with a hard aspect, and then it's something that just turns on.
So let's liken it to, because we associate sextiles with skills, the sixth house, let's liken sextiles to learning something new. And let's say it's not complicated. Let's take, for example, uh, crochet. I don't actually crochet, but I would like to crochet. I do cross-stitch, I do embroidery, I do crewel. I don't do crochet, but crochet looks like a lot of fun. So say I want to learn crochet. It's not rocket science. I mean, probably most of us could learn crochet if we put the energy and the effort into it. I think most of us, even children, could learn how to crochet. I'm sure that to get really good at it, you do have to practice and maybe even have a bit of a natural hand for it, but it's something I think most of us could pick up. So say we all decide that we're going to learn to crochet. It's going to take a little bit to figure it out. It may take a few days of, you know, focusing and trying again, and it, for some of us, it might take a couple of weeks to learn it. But it is something that once we learn it, we know it. Same thing with riding a bike. It takes some effort to learn to ride the bike, but once we expend that effort, we never have to expend it again. There are a few things that are like that, but once we learn it, especially if it's like a body, a body memory, then we just know it.
Sextiles are like that, where early in our life, we may have to assert ourselves a little bit, but we don't have to again because it's something that just clicked within our psyche, within our personality. We just got the lesson, we just got the way to have success with these two factors within ourselves, or come to a satisfying outcome with these two planets, these two factors within ourselves. So they are, um, easy aspects that are not completely sedentary, I would say. And, uh, it's nice how we are growing and we can see how we are growing when we go through these, these aspects, the evolution of personality and of problem-solving and of breeding, breeding our creativity to reality. It's wonderful how we are developing at the sextile aspect in a way that we are, I'm sorry, I have random hairs in my mouth today. We are learning to work with the materials at hand. We're learning to take into account what there is. We're learning to combine, um, two factors, two needs, two ways of being, in such a way where it is productive. So production. Oh, my phone never rings. What is going on? Not going to pick that up because it's obviously not something I need to respond to. So we have a landline still, and the only calls we ever get to it are telemarketers. Um, so there's a, a, a way that we realize the factors at hand accurately, and the external factors, and taking all that into account, we make a good choice. We make a good effort, and that effort turns out, uh, very different from some other hard aspects where we are not taking into account either the external factors or the internal factors. We can be weighing heavy on one side or the other. Say, with a semi-sextile, with a semi-square, we could be concentrating on more of the external things, and the sextile, quadrat, the more internal things, and leaving other things out. And we don't have that problem with the sextile. It's like we are crossing the road, and we're realizing that if we want to get to the other side, we need to look both ways. We need to listen. We need to use all of our senses. We can't just decide, "I'm going to do this," and expect to have success with it. We're looking around. We are taking into account and testing the wind.
So they're a safe aspect in that we're not jumping into pools with no water. We're not going for something that's bigger than what we actually, it can realistically achieve. So these aren't very quiet aspects. We don't, uh, you know, associate them with big fanfare, but they are quiet aspects of building, is how I like to look at them, where we're building character, we're building the ability to bring our creativity, our creative vision, the kind of life that we want, bring that into reality. These are the easy, the small steps that we're taking, the things that are, [Music] I would say, operating in the background of our personality. Uh, and I say operating in the background because we don't tend to notice much if it isn't associated with friction or a problem. We tend to take it for granted. We tend to even just, just not notice it in, in ourselves. There are a few other, you know, types of aspects that are kind of in the middle of that, like quintiles. By quintiles, where we are [Music] at one end, kind of obsessed with development, but on the other end, realizing that we really do have something here that is working, that is naturally valuable, and that is making beautiful music together. Most aspects are not like that. The quintile series is a bit different, and that they combine a bit of the friction and the non-friction of easy and hard aspects. Sextiles are completely [Music] easy after we get that initial payoff from asserting ourselves where these two things are concerned. After we learn how to crochet, that is when we get to enjoy it for the rest of our life. Do we have any questions about that, about the sextile? Any comments or observations?
Yes, in terms of, so, you know, our hard aspects, um, are the ones that are causing friction, and so they're the ones that are going to, am I frozen? I mean, I can hear you even if you're screaming. Um, if we're freezing, I'll send you a link to join in about seven minutes. Okay, that may mean I didn't get a chance to go over to my parents' house. I'm at my house with my crappy connection. If we go out, look for the new link in about seven minutes, and then we'll restart. We'll just take a break. Um, what were you saying, Ada? Um, in terms of, so we're talking about hard aspects, uh, they're like, in relation to sextiles, the hard aspects are what causes friction, so that's kind of where our attention is going in terms of like, "Oh, we need to sort this out." Um, so even like, is it can it be harder to even get a handle on what our sextile aspects look or feel like? Because if we have other hard aspects, we might be trying to sort those out, but even like, not applying our sextile aspects to helping sort out our harder ones? If I don't know about not applying, because they are always consistently working, I think that it would be something that is operating well, as well as it could. And hopefully, we have a sextile or a trine, a good aspect in application to that hard aspect, because that really does show that this part of our personality that's working effortlessly is relating to that part that's not. And that can make it a lot easier, because that part that's not can eventually connect with a part of us that is having a lot of success. And it's like, it's like three friends. Say you have two friends that are sextile to each other, and they really like each other. They get along really, really, really well. But then we have this other friend over here that really wants to be friends with these other two friends. Say, you know, it's, it's, it's the planet, the square to the planets that are, one of the planets that are sextile. You know, he wants to be friends, but the planets that are sextile just have, um, it's just kind of their own thing, you know? They're their own two little group there. Well, eventually, maybe that friend that wants to be friends, but isn't allowed to be, you know, already part of that group, starts to operate in a way that is more in tune with how those other two friends are. They start to change. They start to make an effort. They start to realize what's not working, and then the other two friends allow them in. So the other two friends were always working, but now the other friend can join the group. So three is not a crowd, it's a party.
So there's a part of ourself that is like not in tune with the other parts of ourselves when we have a hard aspect, and we, we want to get all of them to be in harmony. All of our planets are friends, and we don't have enemies within us, because we all do. We all have friends and enemies within ourselves, and then we project that out onto other people into the world. And, um, we're really just, uh, living in a mirror. If we are not waking up and realizing we're living in a foggy mirror, smoking mirrors, if we aren't really realizing where things are coming from, and where a lot of the reactions that people are giving us are really coming from. And there could be some things that are, you know, are not, you know, just coming from internal things. Sometimes people can just show up and, you know, like blast us or like, "What the hell? Where did that come from?" I don't even know that person. But for the most part, the, uh, the events in our life are very much related to our inner attitudes and our behaviors and our actions, and how we're treating other people, and how we are acting out our beliefs. So, well, sextiles are where we're acting things out in a way that people don't have a problem with us, and we don't have a problem with ourselves. And so, no, usually we're not going to see them operating. There's something that I think are, I think our easy aspects are things that we need to become aware of through astrology, just as much as our hard aspects, because our easy aspects, this is something that we may not even understand how awesome it is within us. You know, like when you have a friend that does something really, really well, and you're like, "I, I wish I could draw like that. I mean, oh my god, how do you do that?" And like, "I don't know, I just do it. I, it's, I don't even know why you're complimenting me." Um, those could be, those are how our easy aspects work. It's something that we may not even be taking responsibility for, and it's like something that's awesome about us. There's something that we may not even be grateful for. So I think that they're wonderful to look at and, and, and then to really, uh, ponder on and really look at, say, you know, where am I seeing this show up? You know, what I sho, I saw it show up this morning when I was kind to my daughter, and I saw it show up later when I helped a bird back into a tree. And we can start really see these things happening. Yeah, that was a good question, Stacy. Did you have something? Oh, I, you may have answered it, but I was going to ask, um, if you, like, I know, um, certain aspects can be difficult, like, um, I don't know, uh, well, but well, sorry, like, um, Moon square Jupiter can be a difficult aspect, but if it's, um, in the semi-sextile, that's so, or pardon me, a sextile, that's okay. It is going to bring, yes, all aspects are like this. It can bring naturally difficult relationships between planets into a working relationship in our personality. So we're like, uh, we're like archetypally, yes, Moon and Jupiter can be exacerbating. They can be, uh, uh, you know, kind of, uh, dramatizing. Um, we can eat too much and gorge on too much with Moon Jupiter stuff. But in a sextile, we see that there is a very practical working relationship. That's not too much and it's not too little. It's not contributing to overness or underneath. And Jupiter is very much an overness planet. So it's, uh, it's a happy, uh, a happy way that we act these two things out. So there's a good amount of generosity that's coming to the Moon, optimism, feeling the glass half full, having more of a baseline feeling of, you know, what, maybe today wasn't the best day, but tomorrow is another day. Yeah, it brings those two planets into a very, very workable relationship. And aspects are like that. We can, and that was something we talked about in our very first lesson in this aspects class, about natural and accidental, uh, angles. And if you haven't seen that, that is on this playlist. I'll send this playlist out again if everybody doesn't have it. It's the very first lesson on the playlist. Um, but we can have planets that are natural in a very difficult relationship. Say, Sun and Uranus are naturally opposite to each other, or Mars and Saturn, who are naturally square to each other. We can have these in our personality working extremely well if they come into, say, a sextile or a trine. Sometimes a conjunction. Not always. Conjunctions aren't always easy aspects. We associate them with easy aspects. I don't think they always are. Uh, so, yeah, that's an important thing to consider is, do we have an archetypal, an archival relationship that is most difficult or challenging, or, you know, uh, descriptive of, you know, what it is, uh, I'm want to say, in in the broad sense, like, like, say, um, the natural relationship, the natural archetype of relationship between Mars and Saturn, that gives us this idea, this this broad idea that we have to work hard if we want to become something. We have to expend energy. There will be obstacles there. There will be things that we have to surmount. We may feel that we're behind, but if we just keep working, we just apply ourselves, we will get there. That's the typical archetypal story of what it is to rise to the top. Most of us have that expectation that if I want to be the best, then I'm gonna have to work hard. I'm gonna have to apply myself. I'm gonna have to really assert myself. That is the, the typical human story. But say, in someone's, uh, natal chart, they have a sextile between Mars and Saturn. Hey, good, if you can get it, because our idea is, um, if I just assert myself a little bit, then I rise to the top. I have success. If I work, I'll get what I want. But they are not like the square between Mars and Saturn, like slaving away and feeling like I'm still never getting ahead, and there's so many external issues that are standing in the way, and I can't just make a move without having all of these things to consider. And so it implies burden. We don't have burden with Mars sextile to Saturn. Saturn is not a burden. So where we will have here, other people say, you know, "I, I just, you know, feel like I just have to work so hard." You know, this, the sextile person may genuinely think, "Well, I just work smart." So they just don't, don't think that, uh, that's a difficult thing. I once heard somebody with a, um, a chart that was almost all sextiles and trines, very, very few hard aspects. I heard this person say once that relationships are easy. I don't know why people have such issues with relationships. Relationships are easy because that's her experience. But we can see somebody else who has a chart with like, very difficult relations, uh, relationship issues, like hard aspects from Venus to Pluto, or Moon to Pluto, or Uranus, or stuff, and a very different experience.
So sextiles are wonderful. They are aspects that do have us recognizing opportunities and acting on those opportunities, not in grand ways, but in ways that can help us to gain more footing. They are also aspects that imply organization between two parts of our personality rather than disorganization. So disorganization is, uh, where we kind of, you know, can feel frenetic, or we don't have our head screwed on straight, or we can even have, you know, short-term memory issues between those two planets. I have a few of those in my chart. But organization is where, you know, things just work beautifully together. When, when things are organized, think about how organization makes us feel. Oh, I love it when I get my house organized. I'll spend like two, three solid days and get everything exactly as it should be. It doesn't stay like that forever because I have a Moon to Uranus, you know, it kind of goes like this. But it's, uh, it's a wonderful feeling. I feel like, oh, you know what? I can just sit back and worry about other things. I can do things that I normally wouldn't even give myself permission to do because I don't have this weight of, "I have to do housework" on my shoulders. And when you feel it, when you're sitting in a nice, organized, clean house, you just feel good. So that's how our sextiles make us feel. We feel like we're not, uh, not needing to, to clean anything up in this area of our psyche, or this area of our life is just very well organized. Um, so it would be like, uh, my conservatory. It's the only consistently organized room that I have. The rest, you know, I do pretty good. I do pretty good, but I'm not perfect. That is a perfectly consistently organized room because it doesn't require anything of me. It's easy to keep it organized. It has a stone floor. I just sweep it or blow it out. I just water the plants. There's nothing in there I don't want to deal with. So it's a very good example of a part of my life that really just never gets messy. And we all have those little pockets in our life. We all have those little gifts that, uh, I think oftentimes we just take for granted. And if we look around and really notice, "Hey, what is it that I do without thinking about it, and it comes out well? What is it that I do, uh, easily, and I always have success?" A lot of times, I think that we need to really take a look at those things and start to capitalize on those little things that we do because that's where we specialize. That's what we, we may say, "I have a knack for organizing closets," let's say. And we don't even think much about this, but we really ponder it and start to look around and think, "You know what? I think this is something that could open a door for me." And, you know what? I will bet you that you can get a job organizing closets. I will bet you that that exists somewhere. So there's a, a knack that we have with sextiles, and I think it's important that when we recognize it, we pat ourselves on the back and then put it to use. Because oftentimes, we're not, a lot of times we're not using our easy aspects. We're just focusing on trying to fix the difficult ones.
So I was, yeah, I actually have quite a few styles in my chart as well, and it's actually the most common aspect. And I used to, I guess that's laziness on my part. I used to, when I used to search for, um, the aspects and the how, which ones are powerful, which ones are weak, a lot of the times people would say that the sextile was a weak aspect, and they would more talk about the, say, the conjunctions or the oppositions. So I used to dismiss the sextiles when it comes to ability. So say, for example, you'll say something like, um, I don't know, like a Sun opposite Uranus, or a Sun conjunct Uranus. When you have the sextile, does it give you a maybe a different level of ability, or, or how do I put it? Not this opportunity? Yes, in that area, absolutely. Yeah, absolutely. Can I ask where your accent, what region is your accent from? Oh, sorry. Um, can you actually understand me? Some people, absolutely. I'm from London. Oh, okay. Sorry. Yeah. Oh, fabulous. I'm just always curious. I love accents. I'm very curious when I hear one. Um, so interesting. I didn't pick up that, pick that up myself. Um, but yeah, it's interesting how London has so many regional accents just itself. The UK is so interesting to me because it's such a small place, but the accents are so regional. I mean, just county to county, it's fascinating to me. It could be mixed too. I find that that, uh, it's a very human thing to pick up on accents very easily, and we don't even know that we are. So, yeah, so interesting. Um, so yes, I think there's something to that, Michelle, in that they are considered by most astrologers weak aspects because they don't, they, they don't have the power of a, let me say, of a hard aspect to move us. But they have this, uh, I would say, quiet ability that when you look at them in a cumulative effect, I mean, to have a chart that's mostly sextiles, that's a good thing. That's talking about having, um, you know, most of our voices being able to work together. And they're probably linked by trines as well, if most things are sextile, there's probably some other good aspects there. Yeah, so there's, um, there's less of an ambition that we associate because we aren't, um, acting out of lack when we have a lot of easy aspects. And I think that it can be cultural too, how we interpret these things. That in this day and age, we tend to interpret the aspects that have us doing things, have us earning, have a succeeding, have us trying. We really see those as very beneficial to us. But say, if you are in a more Buddhist mindset or a Zen mindset, the easy aspects that have us just enjoying things for what they are, and, um, is spending more time, I would say, not trying, and rather being, that's something that's considered better, better. So I think that we can look at these things a number of different ways. Um, but yeah, I think that that they are considered mild or weak, uh, by the majority of astrologers, and I guess I would classify it as a mild or weak aspect myself. I think most of the easy aspects, I would say that about them. I think that what, what I heard someone say was that sometimes when you have too many sextiles or trines, you need to kick up the, um, the backside, basically, because sometimes you get a bit too complacent. Um, so you kind of need to be aware of the fact that maybe, you know, you take life, maybe a little bit too, like, but your approach to life is probably a little bit, I don't know, a little bit too chill. It can be, some people can, can, uh, report that. Yeah, um, and I think that we have a mix. Most of us have a mix of easy and soft ass, of easy and hard aspects for a reason, because that's, uh, I think that's the average. That's like the, the normal human life is that we will have, uh, some things that, yeah, we do kind of sit back on our heels, but other things that make us really charge ahead. So, um, when we do have a chart that lacks the hard aspects, it's something that we will have to, I mean, to make strides to have better success, to say, if we want more money, to have more money, it's something that we'll have to exert ourselves to do consciously, because there's no unconscious problems. There's nothing internally that's driving that growth. So with the easy aspects, I think it's all about recognition. It's all about, you know, looking at that map, looking at that birth chart, and then taking stock, stock of what we really want to be, what do we want to do, what kind of life do we really want? And then we have to form a conscious and rational, practical plan in order to get there. So we could liken it to, um, you know, starting, uh, uh, you know, wanting to build a building, and, um, you have to start with the blueprints yourself because it doesn't come with anything. So there's a lot of freedom in that, if you really think about it. Yeah, I agree. It does make sense. I think, I don't know if this is part of it, but I, I tend to, maybe I should not pay so much attention to what people's views are of me, but the only time I notice when I'm maybe recently good at something is when someone tells me, and I have to sort of play like, "Oh, am I, am I kind of good at this? Maybe I could, I push that a little?" So you're right. I think it's, I'm glad that I've obviously found this because it means I can now recognize what I potentially ended up, and maybe concentrate on that. Yeah, absolutely. Absolutely. Yeah, I think that that's a wonderful thing that our birth charts can show us is, what is it that we're just not recognizing that we could capitalize on? And our hard aspects are just making us totally capitalistic. So, um, yeah, really, really meditate on what comes easy to you, and because those are what we specialize at already. And I think a lot of times, um, if we haven't worked for something, if we haven't, you know, we don't feel like we've earned it, then a lot of times I feel like we don't, we can, we, we can't sell it, we can't spread it, we can't share that. When you absolutely can, because you're a natural. That reminds me of the movie The Natural, actually. Do you ever see that movie from the '80s with Robert Redford? He was so, so handsome in that movie. It was a baseball movie. Yeah, he was a natural. He just knew how to play. He just played, and he didn't have to earn anything for it. And most of us don't. There's something weird in the human psyche where if we don't feel like we've expended the energy, we haven't paid for it, then we won't accept the reward. But even accept the fact that you, you do have that ability. Sometimes people just do things. Absolutely. So I think recognizing that, uh, that's how we become conscious even of our easy aspects. Certainly, Stacy, I vaguely remember something like that, but I don't remember the context for it. Okay. I think that's how he got his baseball bat from the tree that was struck with lightning, and I think which, you know, kind of Uranian, but also I think it, the tree killed his dad. It was a Robert Redford movie, so I'm sure it was terribly tragic. I was, yeah, I did too. I saw it as a child too, and I was very confused. It was too adult for me. I didn't get it then. I saw it a few years later, and it kind of made more sense. Um, yeah, I think I was traumatized by that moment. Um, but to segue into what I was going to ask another question, um, well, how when you're looking at the two aspects that are in semi-sextile together, um, it seems like they show, um, opportunity and like things you have an aptitude for. How do you, like, if you were looking at one, like say, um, Sun sextile, um, Uranus, like what kind of opera, like what kind of opportunities or how do you pick out what? Well, we just look at what those, what do those planets mean? What are those planets? Uh, it makes it pretty obvious to pick apart the recipe. So the Sun is our expression, our happiness, causeless happiness, um, authenticity, the ability to, uh, really share our show. And Uranus is the reception of that. It's, it's the friends that we make. It's how we act on our friendships. So the way that we act on our ego and the way that we act on friendship, sociability, sharing, distribution of our talents and our ego, that is extremely successful. So there's a lot of opportunities for friendships. We're very marketable with that sextile. People will like us because the way that we present ourselves is in harmony in both ways. The way that we present ourselves at the Sun is in harmony with how we socialize, how we treat people, our idea of how we should be received. So we have an id, it's a successful idea of ourself that is borne out in reality. So we say with the square, it's a, oops, it's my low battery warning. It's a, it's a not as successful idea of ourselves because the way that we assert ourselves with the personality, the Sun, the way that we assert Uranus, which is the right to be ourselves and our autonomy, and how we deal with people at large, our network, friends, a lot of our way that we socialize and distribute that social power, these two things are in conflict. So we find that we can have more issues of selfishness, of, um, asserting ourselves in a way that is counter to, uh, to ultimately being accepted, because we, we see ourselves as, you know, extremely individual with that square ex, you know, I, it's a very libertarian idea of ourselves with that square from Sun Uranus. But the square, the sextile from Sun to Uranus is much more like, "Yeah, I'm happy to work with others and, you know, blend with others, and, uh, even, uh, sometimes be told what to do or give an instruction." Yeah, that's fine. Other people have good things to offer. So it's a truly tolerant attitude that we have, because Uranus is tolerance, and we're seeing the intolerant side of Uranus very, very much lately. Um, it's always disguised as the tolerant side of Uranus, but it's, uh, it's just an interesting way that we perceive ourselves and, um, think ourselves up with the sextile that it just doesn't cause problems with our social system. We don't want to fight with people. We don't want our ego to be any louder or any quieter than anybody else's. Where with the square or the opposition, we can have decidedly different ideas, and a lot of those ideas are about how are we going to be perceived? How are we going to be received? With the sextile, we'd just assume, "Oh, you know, I'll do my best, and everybody makes mistakes, and I'll be received as well as anybody else will be." So we just don't have friction there. Wow, is the Sun in square to Uranus right now? Because it kind of feels like that. Oh, it's felt like that for about seven years, and we've got that until about 2032, then things should start to simmer down. But we're in a major phase of disruption, going out of the latter stages of the Age of Pisces and coming into the Age of Aquarius. It's going to be a bumpy ride. Ada, did you know something else? Um, I do, and I just wanted to kind of jump on Stacy's observation there because we were talking before about archetypal aspects, like kind of a long-term square. Yeah, good point. It just happening. And usually, I'm like, yeah, I'm like, most part, I'm easy-going. All these things, but that turns into complacency, and I don't see that line of, "Oh, I assume everyone has my laser and confidence also because it's a sextile Mars, Saturn, Uranus, oh boy." Yeah, so there's a lot of assumptions there. Yeah, when I come up against big overt externalized egos, it is a trigger for me because like, A, I can't match that, and B, like, I've got knowing that I have this energy and wanting it to also not trigger others because I realize those big egos are like, "Well, you have all this power, why aren't you using it like I am?" Like, "Because it's not very good for me." Right, right. Still needing those boundaries to know that yes, I do have really, really good energy. I need to be mindful about who I'm interacting with because naturally, I'm going to, if I feel comfortable and safe, I want to just hand it all over. But then I'm giving resources away because my Sun's in my second house. And so just trying to be like, "Oh, wow, gold mine. Be mindful of my energy." Because when the self-worth isn't there, I'm just get out and not understanding what specifically. So I'm just constantly like, "Why am I depleted? Why am I depleted?" It's not, it is exhaustible energy. It can regenerate very quickly. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Excellent. Yeah, that's an interesting, yeah, thank you for contributing that. Doesn't Uranus kind of want to do its own thing? Why would you want to just use your power because people are telling you to use it how they want you to? It can be, yeah. Um, well, because there's the ability to work with people or against people with the difficult aspects. We tend to assume that people are working against us, and so we want to, I mean, we're not just going to go along with that, so we're going to push back. But with the easy aspects, we assume that, you know, there will be cooperation, and that we will be cooperative as well, because that's how we'll be received. So, yeah, aspects, uh, give us a big clue about what is the idea about the world, ourselves, and about the world.