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Filming partner that I have. It's more just mutual, you know. It's a nice big thick toy, man, sort of deal. [laughter] Man going on. And, um, people really like to see. They really think of him more as a doll, even though he doesn't talk. I have created content where, you know, I'm [ __ ] him or like sucking him off and talking to the camera at the same time, being like, "Oh, maybe it might be like small dict that I'm talking to, or maybe it's like, I know that you've been watching Cupcorn behind my back, so here I brought in D." And people really like those. I'm planning on making more of those soon as well. But again, it's kind of hard to like get schedules down for [ __ ]. [laughter]
>> So, this is a real person though, not like our life, life realistic doll.
>> It just looks like a man toy. Okay. [laughter] All right. All right. Well, you never know. And I, I mean, we, we respect both. But >> I don't like, I don't love toys as much. Like when it comes to, I love riding, but I don't like riding on a toy. I, I can ride for like, ever though, when it comes to like an actual person. And that's mostly what I do, and people love it. So, >> Well, yeah. Yeah. And I think that, I mean, the thing is, is you, especially with your three different accounts, you know, whatever. It seems like you're very upfront because I do think, and it goes to a bit of what you said about when you were doing in-person and you had, um, like a bodyguard or whatever. There, there are these elements to sex work, whether it's purchasing on OnlyFans or meeting someone in a hotel room, where the, the sex worker is always in danger, always, you know, um, trying to get the bag and all these things. And we want sex workers to be safe. We want them to be respected, and we want them to get the bag, right? But on the flip side, there are so many creators, and I'm not going to name names, but I'm sure you know some bigger ones, >> um, who say things like, "Do you want to watch me get DPD?" Right. It's [ __ ] $75 or whatever, and you pay the 75 bucks, and it's 17 seconds of them with two toys, right? And it's like >> that. >> Yeah. And or or it's like, you ask for something specific and they are like, "Yes, but no, but here, buy this," and so you buy it, and it's nothing what. And so I think >> yeah, and also too, because of all the [ __ ] you know, in-person sex work, >> there's an element to to to someone being like, "Oh, I'm going to get [ __ ] robbed if I give this person." I think more people would buy from >> OnlyFans creators and also probably do in-person if there was some sort of, and again, like obviously regulation would be nice, but you shouldn't be able to say, "Yeah, it's a [ __ ] four, it's me and four dudes and I'm [ __ ] doing this or whatever," and you, and you grab it, and it's [ __ ] you buy it for >> scammy. >> Yeah, it's like four dildos, you know? >> I hate so much. I hate how it's like gotten to that point. And you know, there's, there's a lot of big names, games who had a large following and then had OnlyFans and then they have the chatters, and then these chatters are just selling whatever's, you know, and they'll even market things. Um, and I'll be honest, I tried chatters at one point.
>> Wait, what's what is a chatter? Like someone talking for you?
>> Yes, someone talking for you. You know, I, my content's made and, you know, I, but again, I'm one girl. I am the product. It can be hard to like stretch in so many different places. I'm on so many different platforms. So, at one point I was like, "Let me try." And the way it went so south, and the way that I'm so protective over like my content and the way that my customers are speak to, I was like, "This is not it." Like, and I was upfront with my customers. I was like, "Listen, I tried something out." And they were so like, so respectful, and they were so sweet and so understanding. They were like, "Yeah, you know, like, it sounded like you, but at the same time, I didn't get like the full, the full experience." And so it's so disappointing. But, you know, at that point in time, I was doing so much. And I think at this point, it's better for me to be available less time of the day, and you get me when you get me. And I have my storefront where, and that's how I like about my storefront, I've created it, and I hope other girls do this, too. Um, I've created it to where there's a preview so you can make sure that you haven't already bought the video. So, pretty cool. And then I have hashtags. So, I let you know if it's censored or nude. I let you know what kind, if it's toy or a person. I let you know if it's gonna be dirty talk, if you're gonna be denied at the end. Everything on there is tagged. Like, it's so you cannot [ __ ] it up. And so, I don't want to see anyone with chargebacks because everything's perfect, too. That's my, that was my other thing is I didn't want to see chargebacks, which knock on wood, I haven't had any yet, >> but, you know, everything is so, it's your one-stop stroke shop. That's what it is. It's perfect. You don't need to talk to me. You don't need to go back and forth and be like, "I need this," and then wait 4 hours for me to respond. I'm asleep. I got to sleep. Here's my content. Get to it. You know, goons do it. You know, it is all there, ready for you. So, I think more girls should do that. It's kind of like, you know, similar to I want clips, but, you know, it's more, it's on OnlyFans. So, you know, more reach to more people. But that scam, that scammy [ __ ] is just >> it makes sex workers already have such difficulties. We don't need to be made to look worse. Like, God. And I, at the end of the day, like, I might seem like I don't respect men, but I do. I, I love men. I love good men. And at the end of the day, you're spending your money for an experience. Everyone deserves sexual release. Every single person deserves sexual release. Now, it should be done properly. Like, don't be a [ __ ] freak. [laughter] But, you know, you know, everyone deserves to feel good. And I'm not, I don't want, I'm not going to feel good if I waste my money. That's going to turn me off. And then that sucks. And I don't, I don't ever want to give someone that experience. So, it's really disappointing to see people do that, especially celebrities getting away with it back and forth. It's so annoying.
>> Well, first of all, the celebrity thing is [ __ ] crazy, right? And then you have, you have some people who are, are like, I don't know, we'll call them Instagram famous, who do stuff, whatever, and they're not upfront about, uh, they make you believe that this is going to be a thing. And obviously, I always point to like Bella Thorne, right? She's like, "Oh, you want to see my [ __ ] tits and my [ __ ] or whatever." And then you get like a hand tit and it's like, "Wait a minute.
>> What about the 2750?
>> Yeah.
>> Happening on the campsite I was on as well.
>> You can, I don't know if you can bleep names, [laughter] but >> sure if you want, >> but I mean, I'm fine with saying it because >> No, go for it. >> sucks. Um, but I was streamed on streaming, and you know, I'd like to consider myself that I was top model. I wasn't like the top 1%, but I was like a notch underneath that. You know, I was consistent. I was making really good money. But in came the Twitch streamers, and they brought in a very specific crowd of people who, first of all, like weren't used to spending, and second of all, a lot of them weren't very insy. Um, but the third thing that was like the my main issue, Amaranth. Oh my god. Amaranth, when I get you, Amaranth. No, I don't want to fight. But he literally was promising people, cuz there's gold shows, and you tip to get into the gold shows, and you are expecting to see something specific. She was like, "Yeah, I'm going to do this and this and this." They went in, they spent all this money, cuz of course she's going to upcharge up the ass, which understandable, understandable. I'm totally fine with that. [music]
>> Same scream. She, all the guys were like, "Oh, you should get a Lush," which is a remote control toy that you can tip, and it activates, and you know, a little moan, a little giggle, you know, whatever. She had the audacity to say, "No, I'm not getting that. All the other girls on here are faking it." D. So, you're going to come on to my campsite, our campsite collectively. I don't know it. I really don't stream anymore for these reasons, but you're going to come onto this campsite and then, first off, you know, make the website crash, and, you know, scam these men, and then you're going to like [ __ ] on all the girls who this is their livelihood. They're feeding their children. They're escaping bad situations, and you're going to [ __ ] on them. I, I'm not for it. I'm not for it. But that's the strong sense of justice type of autism that I've got. Maybe, maybe I'm just too good of a person.
>> Well, I mean, no, I think you're, you're correct. There's a lot of people that are getting scammed, right? There's a lot of people who are, and that's money that could go to you, or to someone else, or to someone who's actually providing the services that they claim.
>> You know, I, the first thing I, and and I say this [ __ ] every other episode a million times. They're sick of hearing it. But, >> you know, I don't go into OnlyFans that often, but when I do, I will spend some [ __ ] money, right? And it's just about the >> the the trust. And what would be nice is, and I used to ask this back in the day, is like, "Yeah, where's the menu?" And they'd be like, "Men?" I'd be like, "Yeah, show me what's available, right?" And like you said, it's very, very, even if you blur [ __ ] out, you want to show >> a [ __ ] either a a two-second video or at least like a [ __ ] screengrab so you know, one, it's real, and two, that you're not purchasing or whatever. And and that would be so much more, I feel like people would spend so much more. [snorts]
>> It's kind of like going into a restaurant and being >> Girls would hate that you say that actually. That's so funny because some girls are like, "This isn't a [ __ ] restaurant." Like, that's, I've seen that response so many times. But at the same time, one of the things that I do is it's kind of like a middle ground. Um, one of the first things when a customer subscribes, I'm immediately like, "What are you into? Tell me about yourself. Like, let me make sure we're a good fit because I'm not trying to force this in any way." And if you're, you know, like, if you just want to be subbed and look the ludes, that's fine. If you just want to be on the free pages and wait for something that you're going to like, that's fine. But if we're going to be chatting back and forth, I want to make sure that, you know, I'm able to give you the content that you're wanting. And then if they know, they know. And if they don't, they don't. And some people are just like, "Ask," and I'm like, "Got it." You know, like, very, very simple. Some people are like, "I just like you." I'm like, "No, you got to give me more than that." You know, that's one thing. If there's any men listening to this, don't say you just like me. Give me the cord. Give me the details. But, you know, I like to ask, you know, what are you into? Duh. And then maybe I'll send a voice note after. I voice notes save me time with texting. I'm not too much of a fan of texting generally, but, you know, I'll do it. But voice note, I can send something like, "I'm into this." It's also in my automated message. You know, I have a video at the top that says, "I'm in, my name is this, I'm into this." So, that also saves a ton of time. But, you know, I'll tell them, "Hey, I have this, I have this, I have this, and you can ask me for custom, and I would love to make it for you." And, um, it's, it's that easy, you know, it's that simple. But for me, menus can be a little hard because there's add-ons when it comes to customs and stuff like that for video calls, and it, it's ever-changing. You know, one day I'm like, I might not be super into wanting to change my hair, so I'm going to upcharge a little bit for that. If you want me to change my hairstyle, I just, you washed and dried it. I don't want to throw it into like full-blown, you know, braids. But, you know, I still think there's like, there's ways that you can go about it to make it easier for both sides. For sure.
>> Yeah. Well, I mean, and and we're getting close to the end of the episode. I want to make sure I get all this stuff in. So, like, uh, >> you know, there's a couple questions I've been hanging on to, and I think that you're, I, you seem incredibly organized when it comes to all of it. Not only from like a logistical standpoint, but from a psychological standpoint, a business standpoint, like all kind of mixed. I think that that is really, really profound and again, it goes back to your your [ __ ] Goonar [laughter] innovation. Um, one, the voice note thing, what a hack. I've said this before, but in any situation in life, I think sending a voice note to someone on Instagram, to someone on a dating app, like what a hack that is. [ __ ] Like, do they actually hear your voice? Like, first of all, I'm real, and second of all, if they like your voice, you're right >> tree with it, you know, lean back, but really, I'm just like eating Doritos and I'm like in [laughter] sweat, sweat [laughter] they, they love it still. They would love me in any, any format. >> Totally. And and it works. It works for everyone. And I think, you know, knowing what you want, gooner or not, knowing what you want, uh, is confidence, and a voice note is confidence. It's saying, "This is who I am. I'm not afraid to whatever." So, I think >> if you're listening, guys, send voice notes to everyone. I'm not [ __ ] horrid [ __ ] I'm just saying voice notes are an upgrade. That's all I'm saying.
>> Um, >> you know, whatever. Uh, the other part that I was thinking about, um, because I have a, a big question to ask you that's going to be a lot of fun. But so when you, so if you're sort of in this, this dominant, um, mindset normally, and then you do the, the boy-girl stuff, right? >> Uh, and it's more of a matched sort of equal playing field. Where >> So >> where would the guy come? Where do you prefer him to come? Like inside you, on your face, like what's off? Yeah. Yeah. Like what's off-limits? What's, what's, cuz this is, and this is fascinating because like >> do you consider like a facial like not in your wheelhouse because you're dominant, or is there a way to do it where it doesn't have to be demeaning? Is it like a tit come shot? What are we looking at?
>> For me, I'm a cream pie girly. I have been cream pie for like eight years. Like, if if you aren't coming inside of me, what's going on here? Like, do you like me at all at that [laughter] point? You know, I love, I love a cream pie. But I also love a cream pie because like >> I don't know. I'm a little, I'm just a little bit of a pervert. The gooner in me, like when I first discovered porn and stuff, almost every time. And I, I'll send that to, you know, my subs too, like that. But it's [music] and, you know, I, I'll do a couple facials here and there, but [music] depending. I got designated come rags around here somewhere, but [laughter] it can, it can be tough, you know, and with the cleanup, it's like, there's no evidence, so it's all inside of me, you know, if you're wanting something a little bit more sneaky. But I, I just love a cream pie. I would like >> to do more doggy. A lot of people, they're like, "We want to see you do doggy." But with the anatomy of myself and the person that I'm currently [ __ ], it's just, you can't force certain sex positions. And I know it would look great, guys. I'm sorry, but, you know, I look better riding, and you're going to love it because you have to. So, cream.
>> Well, yeah. And I think, you know, all of this is how you, how you, how you see it, the perception, right? And for you being, you know, in the in the more dominant space, like you can make a cream pie. Makes sense, right? Because you want that from them inside you, right? And also, I think it's amazing that you are like, "Yeah, I'll do a facial now and then or whatever, you know, in your own way." Yeah.
>> And it's still kind of a horny, hot thing, turns you on, or if you're in the mood for it, whatever. I love that you're open to to that, and you could make it your, your, your kind of, um, your kind of vibe, your kind of mode, however you, you like say. So, are you, will you say like, like in a, in a, in a back and forth with somebody who's on OnlyFans or or on, um, Sex Panther, or whatever it is, will you allow them to quote unquote like come inside you? Like, is that a thing? If it's like, um, like a sub, or more like a mutual, if it's sub, I can absolutely go that route. It can be the way of like, I do, I love Gunnar [ __ ] as well. Gunnar [ __ ], you've been pent up for hours [music] like months. That's like some of the best dick. It's going to be, it's [music] too forceful of a way, but like, you are not allowed to finish anywhere else. Like, lock the legs around, you know, I'll do a voice note giving all the details about it, and you know, even saying like [music] [laughter] yeah, you're going to fill it to the brim until you're, you know, deflated on the bed, you know, sort of deal. So, yeah, there's so many different ways. I mean, and even, you know, you could go the route of like, uh, home wrecking with it, too. You can do home wrecking and femdom at the same time. That's one of the things that I also do where it's like [music] that you're going to forget about her, or you're not going to be able to have sex with her because you're going to be, you're going to be empty. So, you know, there's so many different ways to go about it.
>> Yeah. Well, and the one that that's coming to mind now is like from a dominant space, it's like, "No, no, no, you owe me that kind of a thing. Like that's mine." Yeah.
>> Yeah. Come through. Absolutely. Cuz if I mean, if I want you to ruin it, I'm going to have you ruin it. If I want you to give yourself a facial, you're going to do that. But either way, I own your dick. I own your [ __ ]. I own your brain. And with some people, I own their wallet. So, [laughter] it's all mine. It's all for me.
>> That one's definitely getting. We're definitely going to clip that one. Um, okay. So, here at the, here at the end, um, I'm wondering, and I'll buy you some time to think, and I ask this question every episode. Well, not every episode, but I don't know, some episodes. Who >> the special ones. [laughter] What, um, what would you say is the one or two like, and again, we don't king-shame, we love all kink here, is you know >> stay, stay legal, stay consensual, guys, but >> with that in mind, what is maybe the one or two wildest >> most bonkers requests that you've had or stories that you've had around requests? Now, these ones are probably like, definitely some of them not allowed for sure, and I turn them down, but I actually surprisingly get a lot of people who want me to tell them to like themselves. Like, I get that a lot, a lot. And I'm like, "Listen, I'm not trying to get in with the legalities of it. That's why I stopped doing blackmail is cuz I'm like, there's too much legalities and I'm just like, not interested in that. If I wanted to be working for a law firm, I would be doing that. I almost [laughter] did. But, you know, I, I'm just also not that type. Like, I will be cruel to you in so many ways, but you don't have to go that route of being like, you know, yeah, okay, be gone.
>> Pretty extreme.
>> Sort of deal. Yeah. Um, I think another like crazy request. There's some very interesting ones for sure. Oh, I'm trying to think of another one. There's so many good ones. There's like people who want me to impersonate celebrities. Uh, I know a couple of girls on stream eight get asked to impersonate Kim Kardashian and like do the like nasally voice. I wasn't good at it. He didn't come back. Um, I get a lot of nail fetishes as well as like scratching pillows. My nails are kind of short right now, but they're natural and they grow really, really long. So, nail fetishes hitting up. Um, I get a lot of people who are just, you know, like wanting me to full take over their life as well. And that's one thing that I feel like some people might find weird. For me, it's a hard question because so many things are normal to me now, you know, and I've seen the craziest of the craziest. Um, but I have people where I've just like set up their entire like, you're only allowed to eat this, you work out this time, you're doing this, you're, you know, take time to spend with your friends this time, this time. So, that can be kind of intense. Um, but yeah, I've, I've probably one. I think one of the most, I, I do have a disturbing consistent show and I do think that so many more girls who are girlfriends of these guys. Now, not to like be calling out these guys for it, but who are girlfriends of these guys should be aware of is they will get on a show like, you can just call some girls like on stream and Sex Panel and stuff like that, and they will be like, jerking it on the bed, and then they'll immediately pan the camera to their girlfriend's sleeping face. That's one I don't [ __ ] with. So, I'm like, "World, listen." Like, think, think about who you're with because that's one thing that's like non-consensual, and I'm not a fan of it. And it's just like, so disrespectful. And I'll meet, I'll start yelling [laughter] the camera, too. I'm like, "Wake up. You're in danger." But, you know, there's, there's so many, there's so many different requests. All of them are kind of really normal to me, but those are kind of the most intense ones that I'm, some, some of them not [ __ ] with. So, those are >> No, we'll take it. We'll take [laughter] we'll take it. Um, so, okay, final, final question. Do you, do you see yourself transitioning ever into like mainstream porn in any way at all? Um, I know you probably get asked this a ton, but, you know, at the end, I think it's fun to leave it on on what could be coming, what's not, you know, whatever, however you want to. It's, um, it's been a recent thought, but for me, I really, if there was a group of girls or like different girls that I can find that are into Gooning, Joi, role plays, um, femdom stuff, I would get more into that. But when it comes to more mainstream porn, I'm very specific with who I [ __ ]. So, you know, I, I'm very much about like, I'm someone who really loves personality, and I can't get to know your personality for the most part in like 5 hours before, you know, flying out there and stuff like that. So, probably not like the mainstream really like [ __ ] stuff. I'll leave that to the pros and that side. [laughter] But for me, I think the things that people could be looking forward to is I have a green screen now, and I'm planning on making a lot more role plays, and, you know, renting out different spaces, and making a lot more cyber goon things, which I think could be really fun. Double body doubles of myself, and, you know, just more, more fun things. I try to make things that haven't been seen. It can be really hard because everything's made by AI now. You know, you can get whatever you want, but, you know, there's only one me, and only one of my personalities. So, I just want to make it more special for my people. I want them to have fresh content all the time. So, that's, that's what people can look forward to, you know? [snorts]
>> Well, we love it. Sage Killjoy, thank you so much for being with me on Sex Party. Let's tell these horny gooners. Maybe they're not gooners. Maybe they want to just check you out. Whatever. Um, >> let's tell them where they can find you on socials, but more importantly, let's tell them where they can, um, find you at all the other places and just like dump out like a briefcase or two like full of cash all over you.
>> Yes. All the money. Just fill up a house, a mansion for me. Give me the keys. [laughter] That'll be perfect. No, but you can find me on, I have so many. I've had to change my name so many times. Instagram, stop banning me. >> For real. Um, you can find me at the SageKilljoy on Instagram. You can find me at Sagekilljoy on OnlyFans. If you don't want to talk to me and you just want to go out to my stuff, Killjoy Collection 1L and Killjoy K for collection. You can check that out. It's also linked to my Sage Killjoy. Uh, you can find me on, I want clips, uh, under Sage Killjoy. Sex Panther, Sage Killjoy. I'm not going to respond to you on Instagram, and I'm not going to respond to you on Twitter. Don't even try because I don't look. Uh, but I'm so excited to have all my new horny little creatures join my cult. It's gonna be [laughter] gonna be perfect. And, you know, it was so nice talking to you. He's great.
>> Talk to him more. People like his stuff. Follow him on everything.
>> Thank you so, so much. That means a lot. And, um, yeah, uh, I will probably see you. I, I believe I heard from someone that you're going to be at one of these shows. I'm not going to say which one unless you want to, but I know you're going to be at something I'm going to be at. So, we'll have to do a little, a little interview with our mutual friend, maybe. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Um, but it's been, yeah. It's been amazing having you on the show. I'd love to have you back, so we'll have to set that up. But until then, >> I have so many more things to talk about.
>> Oh, yeah. We didn't even get to your like origin origin story, which is [ __ ] great. If we can get through a first episode without an origin story. Next time, we'll probably talk about, um, when I tried to stream on Kick, and I had someone bring in like thousands of people to my room and terrorize me.
>> Oh my god.
>> Yeah, that'll be a fun one. [laughter]
>> Yeah, we'll, we'll, we'll get you back for a part two like pronto. Yeah.
>> Sweet. Awesome. I'm so excited. Thank you.
>> For sure. Talk soon.
>> Huge thank you to my guest this week, Sage Killjoy, for being with me on the show. Make sure you go check her out on everything social media, right? But more importantly, take some of your hard-earned cash, go to her OnlyFans or one of her other platforms, spend some money, enjoy yourself. If you're into what she's doing, awesome. If you're not and you're curious, go drop a couple bucks. See what it feels like. Enjoy it. Isn't that the point of life to enjoy all these things? Sage will be back in the future. We're going to collab on some stuff. We definitely want to have her back for another full episode. Tons of stuff I did not get to ask her that I will ask her when we have her back. So, look forward to that. If you're loving guests like Sage, uh, and and and and more importantly, like if you're loving all the guests, if you're still on board with all my crazy nonsense, right? How can you show that love and also a desire to never miss a new episode every single Wednesday? Well, if you're listening to this on platforms like Apple and Spotify, you could leave a rating, you could leave a review. Those things mean a [ __ ] ton to me, right? But more importantly, my feelings aside, what you want to do, what you want to make sure you absolutely do, subscribe to the show, you never miss a new episode every single Wednesday, especially if you're subscribed or you think you're subscribed on Apple Podcast. They've been unsubscribing people to certain shows for some reason. So, go to Apple Podcast, go to Sex Party with Dustin Ripka. In the upper right hand corner, you're going to see a button. If it looks like a pause button, that means your subscription is paused. Click the button, toggle on down to resume subscription, resume downloads, whatever. Boom. You're resubscribed. If you're watching on YouTube, I love you. I see you. I appreciate you. If you're watching on YouTube, um, have you enjoyed Sage Killjoyy's content? Will you be going over to enjoy it? Let me know in the comments. Remember, you know, YouTube is a place where censorship is running rampant. And so maybe use emojis, get creative. Uh, if you're watching on YouTube, you want to show some love, some hate, some desire, some rage, some confusion towards the show, and you also never want to miss a new episode. What can you do? You could like this video. You could dislike this video. You could do that to all the videos. You can leave a comment on this video. Leave a comment on all the videos, positive or negative. We will go back and forth. We'll have an exchange. We'll have a conversation. We'll chat with each other. It will be great. But most importantly, you want to make sure you subscribe to the channel so you never miss a new episode every single Wednesday. I am available in the DMs. And I will see you all right back here next week. [snorts]
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