Ep 9: Pop The Balloon Or Find Love | With Arlette Amuli

[Music] n [Music] hello everyone and welcome back to my channel it's your host Arlette and we are back with another episode of pop the balloon or F love and we have some beautiful Single Ladies lined up Make Some Noise ladies all right all right so we're going to bring out some single men one by one okay and when he comes out here if he is your type he fits all of your checkboxes you know all that good stuff do not pop your balloon however if there's anything you're not feeling about him you just cannot see yourself dating this guy go ahead and pop it and then I'll go over to each of you see why you ended up popping and hopefully we get some matches yeah all right let's go ahead and get started let's go ahead and bring out our first single guy hello welcome in I'll have you hold this what's your name Ema EMA mhm all right AA how old are you 40 40 okay and what do you do I'm Chief product officer at a fintech so very nice okay and now what do you look for in a woman uh well besides Beauty which I see plentiful here on the stage um I would also say an intellectually curious woman I'm really int like an intelligent woman someone who has other interests besides kind of the stuff that we see you know people being into celebrity or whatever just something more business something right so uh that would probably be my number two thing and then God-fearing of course actually that would be number one so okay and now what are some of your deal breakers when it comes to someone you're dating um I don't know I mean I do know but I I'm I'm uh shy to say them because I don't want people to adapt too much but um okay give us at least one I'll give you one someone with just an entitled mentality I really can't stand like an entitlement okay all right yeah I'll leave it I'll leave it at that so we still haven't got any pot balloons I think cigarette smokers too yeah no cigarettes yeah so I think the ladies want to still know a little bit more about you what do you like to do for fun oh for fun uh so I like to play soccer watch movies play tennis um so I like to be pretty active I like to like things like that outside and then um gosh I can't really think of anything else besides that yeah I don't really go out like I used to so you know just in the house read okay whatever all right so we dig travel travel okay yeah everyone loves traveling let's go ahead and go on over to our pop balloon and see why they ended up popping okay cool all right if we can have your name and age my name is unique I'm 31 okay and unique what do you do I'm a beautician I doir and makeup all right okay and now why did you end up hopping your balloon he said something about smoking and I smoke I'm trying to quit but I smoke as of right now I I'm a smoker nothing to it but to do it on the quit but that's that's pretty much okay all right so then before he said that you did have your balloon un popped why did you yeah cuz I mean I'm used to a certain type and he's honestly not something I would go for and I'm trying to step out of my comfort zone a little bit so that's why I was kind of I was still waiting to pop my balloon but okay so what's your usual type and what doesn't he kind of fit into my usual type it's hard to I'm used to like yeah the total opposite okay just the total opposite of him is I don't want to say too much but I've been in long-term relationship so I don't want to I've been kids into adult so put too much on it but he's he seemed different very handsome thank you I appreciate it and now emca is unique your type uh not necessarily I mean I love your hair and I love your skin tone um the overall beauty is there for sure but uh well no no butts just you know not necessarily my traditional type okay uh all right we'll go ahead and keep that thank you we did get a pot back here all right if we can have your name and age I'm jador St I'm 31 and jador uh what do you do I am a marketing manager for the hottest clothing store in Arizona shout out Nickel City baby okay um I'm also certified uh certified Behavioral Health technician um and I model I do a bunch of stuff but I'll leave it there those are the main things that I do okay and now why did you end up popping your balloon I really didn't want to I really didn't but I'm really looking ref first someone who like matches my fly you know what I mean and when you came out you're so handsome and everything it was just the outfit that was that was really it I was like you know to know that you're going to be on this show and then I'm just I'mma leave it there so what what about his outfit are you not feeling it's the jacket and the fact that it's I don't I don't know it's just the way it was styled it's just I was just kind of like damn like okay that's what you chose for this okay yeah know now AA is she your type um to some degree yeah okay yeah to some degree yeah okay what makes her some degree your your type I think uh you know the eye makeup is a little loud for me um and uh that's really it and the shoes are actually I like the boots but I would have put it with something different yeah okay okay M all right cool thank you so all right let's head on back over here so I'm going to now switch it on over to you um how many ladies we got left we got quite a few left so um this is a hard part unfortunately I do have to have you pop someone's balloon based off of you know looks what you're not necessarily attractive to what doesn't really fall into your type so let me go ahead and have you actually pop two of them let me give you two quick and then once you pop those two I'll go ahead and follow you and you know we'll get into a little bit more as to why you ended up popping theirs okay oh this is hard I know everyone says that make it difficult all right I'm sorry okay and one more this is like awkward awkward Central yeah okay you could just stay there I'll come over here okay all right if we can have your name and age I'm Micah and I'm 33 and Micah what do you do I'm a product marketing manager for a tech company okay nice now Micah why did you have your balloon unpopped for EMA I love his style and he's very handsome I like a nice beard and yeah he just looks good and I liked his answers to the questions okay thank you now Mecca why do we end up popping uh Micah's uh my T um you know my type I like a little bit Slimmer usually um that's just where I'm at right now so you know that that was kind of the yeah the reason understandable yeah all right thank you now you did pop one more back here let's go over here if we can have your name and age I'm Britney I'm 28 and Britney what do you do I'm a reservations agent for the airlines okay and why did you have your balloon unpopped for Mecca I think he's cute he's well spoken nice teeth good skinned complexion yeah okay all right now Mecca why did we end up hopping Britney you know I don't have the best reason I kind of I go back to that thing I said about about slim and also prefer darker skin and I think she has the lightest skin up here and it's not even that your light skin it's just hey she made me choose so I had to choose that's fair I respect it okay all right thank you and now we did get a pop balloon go all right if we can have your name and age my name is Tatiana I'm 25 okay Tatiana what do you do um right now I'm a delivery driver for Amazon um I model on the side I graphic design on the side too and I'm also an aspiring actor um you need my reason now yeah why'd you pop I feel like I'm going to sound like such a child you seem like you're a lot more well put together than I am right now and you seem a little bit more precise with what you want I don't see myself fitting into that category with you my guy I like that I feel like you could like loosen up a little bit you just seem like yeah I feel you like you you seem like you could be fun but like like my fun compared to Y fun how how we going to get along with that you know what I'm saying you I don't want to I don't want to you know I love that you said that and I know that that's how I come off and I come off that way a bit on purpose but you'd be surprised at how open-minded I am and the kind of fun I have you'd be surpr tell me I regreted popping my balloon or something I mean we may never know I don't know we'll see where are you from though cuz your accent is um so I grew up in uh I grew up in Guadalupe Tempe area out here but what's funny is cuz like I was raised by a bunch of New Yorkers ah yes I'm a native arizonan interesting everybody from the East Coast got it that makes sense okay that's what I thought I heard but I wasn't sure okay all right cool all righty all right oh let's go over here if we can have your name and age so my name is Britney also I'm 31 Britney what do you do I'm a counselor okay and now why did you end up popping your balloon um I just want to hear more about him he looks good I love your outfit um he just the age he's 40 um never talked to anybody that old not saying it's a bad thing I don't know but I just just the age for me yeah yeah cool now um EMA is she someone that's your type yeah I would say so thank you okay what makes her your type um she's petite and she's well spoken and uh she has a a natural hairstyle which I prefer and yeah okay appreciate it thank you now have you ever gotten like the age thing before that women tell you you're a little too old for them or uh I mean it's happened before but it's only because like I've approached someone without knowing how old they were and they were like 22 or something like but not usually not usually no mhm yeah know he's cute but just AG thank you understood all right so we do still have three ladies left I'm going to go ahead and have you ask these ladies a question just to kind of help you narrow down see who you're more matched up with is it the same question to all three or yes okay um um partner or princess okay let's start over over here if we and you can always ask them to elaborate if we can have your name and Age and what you do my name is Brenda I'm a HR business partner at the hospitals and I also have a business on the side I'm a private Chef okay and how old are you I'm 366 okay though to answer his question partner or Princess uh I'm in between yes I'm in between I can be a princess and I also can be a partner okay MH okay that's yeah all right your name and Age and what you do I'm Nova I'm 30 and I'm a licensed as Tian okay and now partner or princess both um can you elaborate on that because I'm a little confused yeah sure so do you see yourself as more of a partner I'm thinking about marriage and now not going on a date um do you in part in marriage do you see yourself more as a partner with your husband or a princess of your husband definitely a partner then yeah for sure I believe that's marriages teamwork for sure mhm okay good all right if we can have your name agent what you do my name is Australia I'm 31 um and I have my own consulting firm where I do um Logistics I'm a property manager I'm sorry a property owner um as well as I do recruitment okay um and I'm also a partner okay good okay all right all right did you want to add on to that or um let me instead let me just can I ask another question yeah yes all right uh second question what is your dream for your life o h so many things um well I do want to settle down I feel like I am somebody who can bring a lot to the table and thirdly um I'm fun yeah what more do you want out of that okay all right same question yes um where I see myself in five years I do have a what's your dream for your life I just want to make sure dream for my life okay so dream for my life I do want to be a business owner which I'm already taking that the steps for that and I am also in nursing school so I do see myself being an aesthetic nurse and with or without a man take care of myself financially for sure okay okay a dream for your life yes so I've spent the last five years building my business um and traveling the world so I am trying to get into a place where I want to settle down have children um and continue to grow okay all right AA I'm going to have you pop someone's balloon pop this one why did we end up popping hers um in her in her dream She only mentioned career and she didn't mention any other aspect of her life and as much as I value my career and careers in general and making money um you know there's more to life than that and I just you know so that's why I leave the question so open as I want to hear how they Envision their own dream yeah yeah okay okay all right thank you all right so we do have two ladies left you always step so far away s sorry yeah all right ladies do we have a question for Mecca before we have him pick do you have one before we walk down there yes okay we'll start and then we'll go to you all right AA so in uh the questions you asked earlier same thing what are you looking for in a woman um so I'm definitely looking for a partner 100% And I think I think a wise woman would understand that um if she were a good partner to her husband that the princess treatment or queen treatment or whatever it is you're looking for is going to follow right so I think that um you know I'm a divorce a and so I'm looking for someone who's truly like a thought partner and a nurturer and all these other things and so um yeah so that's maybe something I'm a little bit on guard about maybe and I just want to like make sure which obviously it's not going to happen in 30 seconds on this thing but I just want to know where your where your head is kind of um okay okay um I'm also looking something I people mentioned that I didn't mention at the beginning is I'm also looking for someone who's like open-minded and not judgmental and part of that is because of the fun I want to have but the other part of that is just like I like to explore ideas and I don't like for too many things to be off limits just cuz I'm a curious person yeah intellectually curious okay I'm sorry divorce I'm sorry okay so it was him being a divorce a yes yes great looking guy well put together um I think it's more so have you healed from that MH yeah yeah and um me popping the Lon is I've met a lot of divorcees and I don't want to be in that position again understood right thank you let's go down over here all right you had a question for Mecca do you have children I do not okay do you want them I would like some how many are we having we between two and four okay cuz I say five three to five so that works okay do you have any children I do not have any children okay good okay let's just walk on up here let's let's go yes ma'am come on up here all right any final questions before we determine if there going to be a yes for either one of you I do not at this time I do not at this time I don't think yeah oh we got a m okay no wait hold on let me let me let me backtrack so just to confirm it's going to be a yes for you for him it's a yes yes and it's a yes for you for her sure it's a yes we got a match all right I'll take this mic and you guys can go on up let's give it up for [Laughter] them all right let's go ahead and bring out our next single guy there you go welcome in what's your name philli Phillip how old are you 34 34 and what do you do I'm the assistant track coach at Arizona State okay very nice and now what do you look for in a woman fun personality just open to new things okay all right and now what are some of your deal breakers when it comes to woman probably being close-minded just not willing to grow mature I think that over the course of a year in some way you got to just grow in some capacity okay all right now Philip what are some of the things you like do for fun uh I travel a lot um I was in Philly last week I'll be in Denver next week I like to cook roll a skate a little bit of everything okay very cool all right so we did get one pot balloon let's go on over there and see what's going on all right if we can have your name and age I'm Tatiana I'm 25 nice to meet you Tatiana we have you standing here Philip no problem thank you I said nice to meet you oh nice okay I really did not know what you said like it like was mumbled my fault oh no why did you end up popping your balloon um it's not that like you're ugly or nothing I just am not attracted honestly for sure like you you look good though like the suit you put that on appreciate it but just not for me for sure okay and is there anything specific that makes him not for you I don't want to be like it's going to sound ruthless like okay like completely respectfully like you I I'm a goofy person but you just look a little bit too Goofy for me see that's why I didn't want to say [ __ ] okay no I understand I get it you're not ugly though that's the thing like you don't look bad I just am not into it appreciate it okay now Philip is Tatiana the someone that you type um I would have to just know your personality okay if I show you this tooth is it going to change you no oh okay well it's going back over here oh I almost walked into y'all all right so we do still have quite a few balloons left un popped so we are going to switch it on over to you for the first round I'm going to have you eliminate two girls just based off of you know what's really not your type or what you wouldn't really really go for so let me give this over to you and you can go on over and pop those two and then I'll come after you and ask you why we ended up popping so just go ahead all right okay and one more okay let's start right here if we can have your name and age I'm jador Styles I'm 31 okay and jador why did you have your balloon unpopped um cuz he looks good and he's very well put together thank you yeah okay all right and now uh Philip why do we end up popping jador I mean honestly you put yourself together very nice but I just think as far as attraction just immediately just didn't click okay thank you you're welcome now is there anything specific that you know I know you said the attraction didn't really click is there anything specific no MM all right cool thank you let's go down over here we can have your name and age hi I'm Micah and I'm 33 all right nice to meet you Micah why did you have your balloon unpopped I had my balloon unpopped because I love his style I love natural hair too so good looking on that and yeah I wanted to hear more about him so I was wanted some questions to be answered so okay all right and now Philip why did we end up popping uh Micah's I think just from uh immediate first impression just not my type for sure okay and what makes her not your type um I typically like Slimmer women okay for sure but again no offense um you know look nice and uh that's that's it that's really it thank you okay so Phillip for this next round I'm going to have you ask the ladies a question it's a question that's going to go to all of them just to kind of help you narrow it down see who you're more matched up with okay first question do you have a relationship with God okay let's start right here with your name and age and do you have a relationship with God hi nice to meet you I'm Britney and I'm 28 and I do I want to get more into my relationship with God and like going to church and stuff so yeah okay okay your name and age and do you have a relationship with God yes my name is Brenda 36 absolutely Wednesday Bible study is a must so yeah okay nice to meet you your name and age and do you have a relationship with God my name is Britney I'm 31 and of course he's number one yeah okay for sure nice to meet you your name and age and do you have a relationship with God I'm Nova and I'm 30 years old and I do have a relationship with God I would like to to build on that um but yeah I would say I'm more spiritual than I am religious um but yeah I I believe in it all okay so when you say spiritual do you not subscribe to a specific denomination no yeah I don't I like to study I actually have a Quran I have um I have a lot of the different Bibles from different religions so I like to study on them to really like understand what I'm believing um so that's kind of where I'm at right now in life okay yeah all right all right cool thank you now we did get a pop balloon over here if we can have your name and age and why you ended up popping my name is unique nice to meet you I'm 31 and I popped because he asked about the relationship with God and I was raised in a household where I was told that I'm I'm a God so I really don't go to church I'm real spiritual okay that makes sense that was why I popped but I love the outfit that's why I didn't pop and I wanted to get to know and you said something about being a track coach yes you work with kids well grown kids grown kids I got grown kids so that's what made me like really wanted to get to know more okay okay now I will say you know there's a verse in the Bible that says greater than is he who is in me than he who in the world so God always dwells within us right so to me I'm not you know caught on like the denominations as much I grew up in about Church okay but just having some type of relationship is what's important to me got it I grew I mean I I wouldn't say grew up in a church but I I have went to church as I was young my mom you know went into the spiritual side so she kind of gave us the choice if that makes sense for sure and yeah so I don't really not I I'm have a relationship with myself I feel like I'm a God so I kind of think different okay understood okay all right thank you okay so based off of those responses you got I'm going to have you go ahead and pop two of these ladies balloons got it pop two got it pop too okay okay all right so why did we end up popping hers so you had a good response and honestly all four of you pretty much said the same thing so I don't really feel like there's a full justification on just oh yeah I just have to pop it but I had to pick two people okay okay and is that their answers not didn't resonate with you as much or like what was it honestly I I think your res uh your answer did resonate very well so you know I don't have anything negative to say against that okay all right did you want to add something oh no I thought you was going to ask me why I came up no that's fine all right and now why did we end up hopping hers I mean pretty much the same thing I just feel that because I had to pick two you know it's pretty much just the same but I feel as far as what you said it was not quite as in line with what they said yeah I agree it wasn't thank you all right so we do have two ladies left ladies do we have a question that we want to ask Phillip yes okay let's start here do you have kids no I don't do you want kids yes I do okay okay now do you have kids I do not have kids I do want kids though yeah okay and where where are you from again Ohio okay I can hear accent oh I don't hear it but yeah all right and now Brenda do we have a question yes where are you from originally I'm originally from Kansas and then I lived in Houston Texas for 10 years oh wow okay from Houston too I've lived there too okay what part what what part of Houston uh I went to U ofh so downtown Houston was was the spot and you said you were there for 10 years yes okay very good yeah I got my masters from prayview oh very good very good okay uh do you have kids I think you said no no no kids do you have kids I don't have kids I will like kids but marriage first for sure okay I think that's all I have right now all right any final questions before you make your decision off of these ladies here sure so every day what would you say drives you like what do you feel your purpose is I feel like my purpose is oh let me think about that um really just getting up doing what I want to do and chasing all my dreams um I like to do like content creation so like Tik Tok and I really am like big on that and like trying to chase my dreams I follow like my vision board trying to do everything that's on my vision board to complete it this year so it's just like that's what I wake up and look at every day try to chase everything that's on there so it motivates me okay for sure good question um I'm a people person so a lot of times I get myself involved with community community service things like that I My love language is acts of service so um with that being said that pushes me to get to know somebody in depth um I know everybody is on a journey so I understand that it does take time for you to get to know somebody so my passion is understanding who you are and your core values in order for me to know for sure where this is aligned yeah okay MH all right and then can I ask a follow up to that oh yeah so you said acts a service so do you feel adding value to people is something important to you absolutely absolutely uh it's important because it helps me understand what your passions are um it understands the type of person you are and your values and morals so I think it is important to you know it's full circle so you have to definitely be in in tuned with that for sure okay all right thank you all right so we have our two ladies left here I am going to have you eliminate one of them and the other one will hopefully be your match so I'll go ahead and leave the floor to you all right why did we end up popping hers so again you had a great answer I think what resonated with me with you was uh the vision board cuz I have a vision board and I'm very big on Law of Attraction affirmations manifestations but that is really it okay okay all right okay gry let me have you step on over here okay so I have one final question if there are no further questions between either one of you I do oh okay okay so how do you handle disagreements and like a relationship like arguing and stuff like that so I like to listen to understand versus listening to reply or just ignoring so I think listening to try to figure out what the roote of the problem is is where I'd like to start okay good yeah all right so is it going to be a yes for you for her yes and it's a yes for you for him yes we got a match all right I'll take this mic and you guys can go on off [Laughter] yes they're so cute all right let's go go ahead and bring out our next single guy welcome in he's back all right if we can have your name that was so fast I was not expecting that what's your name sir hi my name is Dr Elon and Dr know who I am how old are you that's not fair Dr elim how old are are you I'm 39 okay all right now we do see you pointed out Dr elim what kind of doctor are you what do you do yeah I'm a dentist so actually please forgive me for my attire I had an emergency earlier and I had to rush here so I didn't have time to change she's not even looking at my face okay so uh I am a traveling dentist I travel up and down the West Coast pulling teeth and placing implants for those who need it okay all right what do you look for in a woman what I look for in a woman is pretty Universal and I'm not sure if it's been explained this way but I'm going to try there's three things that every man wants and if you do these three things you can procure any man that you want and this isn't my information that I just came up with this is actually research based and the first thing is being useful how can you be useful to the person in your life why is that important because when you are a useful asset to the man that you want to be then there is no way that he's ever going to want to get rid of you the second thing is you have to blow his mind in the bedroom what does that mean that means you take the wildest nastiest thing that you've ever done figure out the wildest nastiest thing that he's ever done and exceed that otherwise he can just get it from somewhere else now the third thing and this thing is the most important thing it doesn't matter if you do the first two things if you don't do this last thing then you won't be able to keep your man and that is respect always respect your man now if you have any confusion as to what respect is say to yourself would I say this to the person who is writing my checks would I say this to my boss and if you wouldn't don't say it to your man so I'm looking for those three things okay so Dr elim we did have you on episode two of Pop the ballooner fine love and also in the get to know with you we found out that you know it didn't really work out too much with your match what happened there well we decided that we wanted different things in life we had a great conversation we went to dinner I thought that she was first class but ultimately we decided to just be friends and just support each other along our Journeys okay sounds good so we did get a couple of pot balloons here let's go over to some of these ladies and see what's going on please let's let's all right let's start here if we can have your name and age and why you ended up popping my name is Brenda I'm 36 the reason why I popped very good-looking man well put together you're in the Dentistry world that's amazing you I'm sure your love language is acts of service since you are in the Dentistry world but the way you answered that question actually my love language is physical touch oh and quality time oh and words of affirmation I I see that you like to interrupt I apologize I apologize I apologize it's best that I did pop that balloon thank you now is Brenda someone that's your type you know I actually don't know enough about her to make a valid decision on that but I love the dress you have a gorgeous smile I love what you done with your makeup and your hair you're you know awesome thank you awesome thank you okay thank you let's go over here if we can have your name and age I'm jador I'm 31 all right and jadora why did you end up popping your balloon Dr elim it's such a tragedy because you are so handsome I feel like you are extremely arrogant and I feel like you're probably going to have a hard time because you seem like the type like a know-it-all type of guy and sometimes you have to be careful with that because even when you know it all you don't know everything you know so being humble sometimes can be your best friend even if you do know it all even if you're very smart very wise wise you know but just having a humble attitude you know what I mean you would probably go a lot further and I say that with all the respect in the world thank you you're welcome who's your dentist who is my dentist not you sweetheart and I'm just going to leave it right there oh I know I'm not your dentist yeah okay all right let's let's go to our next person here your name and age and why you ended up popping so my name is Britney I'm 31 and like she said you look really good I like that you're you're in the dent you're dentist but you are given arrogant and it's given toxic too like it's given you want to debate all the time like you it's like you're going to give me a headache and if you like sh if you do know it all just a little bit better to be humble um so that's it but you look good you're handsome but it's just it's given toxic and I don't want that and it's also given like this is a joke to you like you just want to come on here just to say stuff to get a viral moment I'm not feeling that Dr elim yeah I don't even really know what to say with that I appreciate your perspective I think that your feelings are valid and if you are looking for a nuclear relationship I probably am a red flag for you so you proba probably right on that I love your honesty thank you all right if we can have your name and age and why you ended up popping hi I'm Nova I'm 30 um yeah it was a just the arrogance for me I I love a man that's very confident like you I'm going to toot your horn every time I get every chance I get but um I think you to your own horn so I don't think I will be able to accommodate that every day like you're toting and then I'm trying to uplift and it would just be a roller coaster ride like all the time like I feel like we would constantly be at up here and I like my space I like quiet I like I feel like every day would be something um not negative but just the energy would just be very high for me like it sounds like self- Leve is something that's challenging for you self love oh no baby I'm sorry cuz if you loved yourself then you wouldn't have any problem loving me oh I I love myself a lot and I I want to be able to love someone uh as much as I love myself but I feel like you love yourself so much that there wouldn't be any room for me to love you that sounded good but it also didn't make very much sense because love isn't a container love is something that you are so I love myself I've worked on myself and I understand the tools that it takes to practice self-love okay and so space and time isn't really an objective field that you need to use as a barometer to see if it's possible if we can love each other it's either you love yourself and you can share that or you're uncomfortable with it and so I feel that you're also uncomfortable with me loving myself as much as I do no no no no no and it's coming off as arrogance oh I'm arrogant no I said it's coming off as arrogance oh you're coming off yeah you you do um so my confidence is triggering you because it's reminding you I love confidence I melt in it it's not about you not having self-love it's about you not appreciating the self- Lov in other people and that is a direct reflection of how you see yourself it's the term is called projection when you see me shining it remind you that you're not shining enough oh so when I said that I melt in confidence that kind of went over your head melting in confidence is it self love confidence all that in my man is very important to me because I don't want to date a man that does not love himself cuz then he won't love me as much the level of love will be different look I'm really trying to follow you I know I know but it's okay but your ego won't allow you to take responsibility for your lack and that's okay but I don't lack anything babe po y's balloon before you even got to not Dr Elon what a shame what a shame is it though I don't yeah um you'll find your your you said you watched the show before you got here which means you have a preconceived indoctrination of who you think I am so you popped your balloon before you even got to know me based on what you've already seen please why do you want to argue with me I'm not arguing with you I'm using an inflection that is emphasizing my point you thinking that I'm arguing is a direct trigger that you can't handle what I'm saying to you okay love bug um I've been here and done that okay yeah let's let's let's do it let's let's see what's next all right if we can have your name and age and why you ended up popping my name is Tatiana um okay respectfully where do I begin my guy you got a lot of dip on your chip and I feel like the way that you com in at everybody else with like oh who's your dentist and everything you going to ask me who my dentist is and I'm not I'm not I'm not with that just yeah I'm not I'm not ready for that also let me finish real quick respectfully I'm sorry you know cuz you interrupt everybody else let me speak real quick I just personally feel like you're not used to a like and I'm not trying to say like oh I'm alpha male like you know whatever like you're not used to a dominant woman I feel like you are like it's easy kind of coming to you to belittle women a little bit I understand where you coming from with everything that you do and I saw the last episode but like you you do come off as arrogant confidence is cool but like know the difference a little bit what you going to say about my tooth bro why would I want a dominant woman when I'm the dominant one go ahead there can't be you know can I ask you a question go ahead's do you think you're the price I know I'm the prize you're the prize to the men you don't want okay when you get a man that you actually want please believe me we're the prize okay next okay your name and age and why you ended up popping my name is unique I'm 31 and I popped not that I disagree with how he is I I love the I love how he is girl say he has confidence it's nothing wrong with how he is it's not what I want at the moment okay cuz I dealt with his kind before in a way not exactly CU you know everybody's different but I dealt with his kind before and there's nothing wrong with how he is okay I feel like right now this is not the right platform for him as far as in what he's looking for or maybe he's still trying to figure out what it is you want I don't know but I know I want you do know what you want I know what I want but obviously it's multiple things that he want that he hasen't he hasn't found in received in one woman you know I I heard I I agree with you I agree with okay there's nothing wrong with that there's nothing wrong with how you think the confidence all that there's nothing wrong with it you just have to find a woman that's willing to accept those things without her feeling like her light is getting dimmed if that makes sense M so I have to find a woman who is strong enough to know that her light can't be dammed that hit me hit me with your best shot tell me your name again unique unique that is so special thank you um yeah as far as a masculinity like I said it's not a gender I feel like it's just you know so being dominant and [Music] being what was the word that she used um what was the word that you use I forgot masculine masculine masculine that is something that is not gender specific is what you're saying no I don't feel it is I'm very I feel like I'm very dominant and masculine when I need to be but can I ask you a question yeah what do you want what do I want at like out of a partner what why am I here I want my partner to be able to live in his confidence exactly like how you are but at the same time know exactly specifically what he wants instead of cuz like I said you can feel one way right now but in a couple of months you're not going to feel the same everybody Chang it's different levels you know if you get what I mean so by that line of reasoning people are making lifelong decisions based off of 6 months maybe a year so is that fair to say will you marry me based off of me knowing you for a year and a half even though you're going to change is it fair right it's fair based on if that person agrees with I mean maybe not fair Is it feasible I don't know the answer to that I do I I no it's fine it's all right let's go okay if we can have your name and age and while you ended up popping hi I'm Micah I'm 33 and I ended up popping one I actually agree with a lot of the stuff that you say so the three reasons that you gave um before I agree with all three of those so I think you're on to that um I didn't really like how you showed up I appreciate that you had emergency surgery I love that know the scrubs are clean I was wearing a white coat while I was doing

It's so no. I appreciate it. I appreciate it, but yeah, that's really the only reason, to be honest. And I think we just probably, so if you would have seen me in the Dil office, you would have been like, "Ah, this guy." I would have been like, "Yeah, nice smile, maybe, but the scrubs was not doing it for me." I just feel like they said, "Date ready," and you've been here before, so you know what's up. And having a surgery is not an excuse, you know? I, I failed you on this day. You didn't fail me, I failed. Do it. And I'm sorry. It's okay. Next time, I'll make my patients wait. Okay, please. Thank you. All right, let's go back this way. Okay, so that is all the balloons popped. We weren't able to find you a match today, but let's go ahead and give it up for him, ladies. I'll take the mic. Thank you.

All right, let's go ahead and bring out our next single guy. Hello, welcome in. I'll have you hold this. What's your name? I'm Zach. Zach, how old are you? 37. 37, okay. What do you do? Uh, I'm an analyst. I work for the dold. Okay, very nice. And now, what do you look for in a woman? Um, I'm looking for a woman to be her authentic self, to be at her most feminine. Okay. All right. And now, what are some of your deal breakers? Ooh, um, I'm not looking for anything artificial. Um, I know this is like the BBL ER, and you know, there are guys that they, they're here for that, but I don't want, I don't want it. So, okay, natural, that's what you're looking for. Okay. All right, cool. So, we did get a pop balloon. Let's go on over there and see why they ended up popping. Let's start over here. Come on. All right, if we can have your name and age and why you ended up popping. My name is Britney, I'm 31, and I popped it just 'cause I don't want to waste time. I just caught it like, you're not like my type. Um, you, you seem cool. I like your answers. I like the natural thing. Um, but I just didn't want to waste your time or anybody's time, so I just, let me pop it right away. Well, thank you. Thank you. All right, and now, is she someone that's your type? I mean, she just said no, so let's move along. Oh, okay.

All right, then. If we can have your name and age and why you ended up hopping. Hi, I'm Nova, I'm 30, and I'm a half-er. I got my Chi-Chi done, but the rest is me. So I don't know, you could, I don't know. Yeah, that's it, pretty much. Well, you're a gorgeous lady. Thank you for your time. Thank you. And then we did get one over here as well. Your name and age and why you ended up popping. My name is Unique, I'm 31, and I popped just because he reminds me of someone. Oh, you remind me. No, stop. But he, I mean, he seems cool. I mean, after I got to hear more that he said about himself, I kind of was like, "Okay, let me get the balloon back so I can see more." But he do remind me of some, someone. So that, that was a, okay. It's no problem. Somebody cute. I'mma take that as, look, I don't judge by off of step. I don't judge by off of, um, looks, just off of personality and how you are as a man. You seem cool though. Okay. Well, thank you.

All right, let's head back over here. All right, if we can have your name and age and why you ended up hopping your balloon. My name is Brenda, 36. Hello, Brenda. Hello. The reason why I pop my balloon, it's your fashion sense. I want to walk with somebody who's confident enough to wear something that matches my energy. So that's all. Okay. Yes. So you're not really filling the style? No, I'm not, unfortunately. But good looking. Okay. Now, is Brenda someone that's your type? Um, possibly. I mean, she's gorgeous, but again, she said I don't match her style. I didn't hear anything else about her, so I don't know. Maybe looks wise, I mean, everybody up here is attractive, so. But I, it's got to be more than that, you know? Got it. Absolutely. Thank you.

All right, your name and age and why you ended up popping your balloon. I'm Jadora, I'm 31. Um, I didn't want to be shallow again, so that's why I was like, giving it time, but it's, you know, it's the fashion sense. Um, I wasn't initially attracted to you, but then when you kept talking, my thing is, uh, when you said authenticity, that's a, a really, really big one for me. I want somebody who is authentic in the person that God made them, not what they see on TV, and you know what I'm saying? So when you said that, I was like, "Yeah." But it is the fashion sense, and I hate, I hate to seem shallow. I really do, 'cause you seem like a great guy, but it's nothing wrong with you, you're handsome. It was just that I was like, "Damn, I don't want to waste this time." Come on. Yeah, so that's basically it, but you're very handsome. There's nothing wrong with you. Okay. All right, so I know you said they're all attractive up here, but is she someone that if you saw her out, like, would you approach her? Um, no, not necessarily. Okay. Um, so there are men that are like TNA. I tend to be a hair man, so like the first thing that I'm going to notice on the woman is going to be her hair, and then from there, like, I am going to look at your figure, 'cause I'm a man, but everything is about like a whole package. And like she said, my style isn't vibing with her, her style isn't necessarily vibing with me, but I love the greens, love the shades of green. You do have a lot of great taste, so I, I won't take that from you. I appreciate you. All right, perfect. Thank you.

Let's go on over here. Okay, if we can have your name and age and why you ended up popping. I am Tatiana, I'm 25. You seem like the most nicest man on the planet. I do not. Oh, [ __ ] oh, okay, shoot. No, you just, you just came off like you, I, I would not want to break your heart, like I would feel like such a jerk if I ever, like, oh, well, thank you. But, um, I feel like no man wants to hear, "You're just the nicest thing." That's like, well, I mean, damn, take that as a compliment, 'cause a lot of guys are jerks. I mean, like, if you're nice, that's great, like a lot of girls like nice guys, for real, for real. But like, you, I feel like you would do better with like finding, you know, the nice guy trope out of that than being like the [ __ ]. Sorry to cuss, but okay. And you look like Schoolboy Q to me, and I really dig that. That's not a bad thing. I [ __ ] with Q. I like, I like, I like Nelly. I've heard for real. And now Schoolboy Q. For real. Who told you that? I don't want to get into it. It's, I, I would have to show you the pictures. But either way, it's like, it's always somebody different, and none of the people look like each other, so I'm like, "I guess I got one of them faces." But no, I feel you. No, I feel you. But like, yeah, I, you, you seem like you cool though. I just, I, I would not want to end up like getting in a relationship with you and then like going far and then like breaking up, now we can't even be cool like that. Like, I can see you as like a really, really like great homie. Oh, well, I need some female friends that I haven't slept with. That would be excellent. If you, if, if it's not weird, I got you, bro. Like, if, if you want to be bro, you can be bro. What? [Applause] Okay. All right, cool. Thank you.

Let's go down here. All right, if we can have your name and age and why you ended up popping. Hi, I'm Micah, I'm 33, and I just, you said you like figure and shape and stuff, so I just felt like it wouldn't be a match. So that's, that's what you caught. That's what you said. Oh, I apologize. If, if that, that was the main thing that you caught that I was looking for, is figure and shape. One of the main things? Yeah. And then also the outfit too. I just, yeah, it just, I just wasn't attracted initially. So I mean, I get it. I'm about to get back on this bike, so it is what it is. Okay, bike life. I love that for you. Um, thank you though. You have a gorgeous smile, by the way, and I love the printed dress. Thank you. And the accessories. You've done an amazing job. I appreciate that. Thank you. Okay. All right, thank you.

Well, that is all of the balloons popped. Unfortunately, we weren't able to find you a match today, but thank you so much for coming on. Who knew, right? Listen, um, on a serious note, thank y'all all for coming, even the ones that were like, "Pop right off the bat." And, um, I know maybe I didn't come looking like what y'all thought I should look like, but I can't dress. That ain't my problem. I don't care about fashion. I care more about the adventures we going to go on together. So I appreciate y'all's time. I'm sorry for having wasted y'all's time, and y'all have a good night. You didn't waste time. Thank you for coming. All right, let's give it up for him then, ladies. Thank you. Thank you for coming.

Okay, let's go ahead and bring out our next single guy. Hello, welcome in. I'll have you hold this. What's your name? Uh, my name is Ontario. Ontario. How old are you? I'm 34. 34, okay. What do you do? Uh, I do videography, comedy, and photography. Very nice. Okay. And now, what do you look for in a woman? I look for in a woman, a confidence, and someone that's self-sufficient and has like, just herself together, okay? Whether it be emotionally, uh, financially too, but emotionally for sure. Okay. And now, what are some of your deal breakers? Uh, kids. Oh, okay. So that's your only deal breaker? That's definitely my deal breaker. Okay. All right. So we did get a couple of pop balloons here. Let's go on over them and see what's going on.

All right, if we can have your name and age. I'm Jadora, I'm 31. And Jadora, why did you end up popping your balloon? Because I have children. Okay. All right. And now, how many kids do you have? Five. Five? That's good. How old are you? Like the oldest? My oldest is eight. Eight. I say five and eight years. You were busy. Damn. That's not bad though. That's good though. Get to that, but okay. No, I'm just kidding, just kidding. I love my kids. Oh, okay. All right. Now, um, prior to her saying, you know, she has kids and all that stuff, is she someone that is your type? Uh, all right, I'll be honest. I'm not much into weave on either. And then that would be my other deal breaker too. Got you. Me. Okay. Thank you. Thank you.

All right, if we can have your name and age. Britney, 31. Okay. And Britney, why'd you end up popping your balloon? Same. Um, you saying deal breakers is kids. I have one. You, one. And then you also said weave. I think we all, most of us have weave in our head, so I'm like, but I do both. So, but I'm just so, that's why. You got a nice smile though. Thank you. Thank you. You do too. Thank you. All right, now, is Britney someone that's your type? Yeah, she's very pretty. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Okay.

Your name and age. Nova, and I'm 30. I have, uh, one kid. She's 10. Um, so that was your deal breaker. And I don't wear what you see. That would have been. I like that. And you have a lovely smile too. Thank you. Thank you. Okay. And now, why, prior to you know him making that statement, why did you have your balloon unpopped? Because I wanted to learn more about him. Um, he is attractive, and I'm short, so he's tall enough. So, yeah, I just wanted to learn more. Okay. All right. And now, is she someone that you would approach? I know you said kids are a deal breaker. Her, but still. I got you. But I approach. I might approach you. Yeah, I'd approach you. Okay. All right. And then we got one more over here. Your name and age and why you ended up popping. My name is Unique, I'm 31. I popped because of the kids. All right. And now, how many kids do you have? I have two. Two. All right. And now, prior to him making that statement, is he someone that is your type? Yeah, he seemed. I mean, like I said before, I have a specific type. I, and my type, I mean, I'm trying to get away from my type, if that makes sense. I'm used to drug, drug dealers. All right. I got you. I'm not, yeah, I ain't dead. Okay. And I'm trying to get away from that. Okay. But that's what I was. I got you. Okay. Okay. Now, is Unique someone you would approach? I, real honestly, no. Only because, man, you have a lot of hair. I feel like I would trip walking next to. I like, I mean, yeah, no, it looks good. No, it looks amazing. Lie. I said I step outside the box. A lot of girls have locks, not like this. Fair. [ __ ]. Fair. Perfect. Thank you.

Okay, so we do still have three unpopped balloons. I'm going to go ahead and have you ask these ladies questions to kind of help you narrow down for yourself. Oh, all right. Um, what do you do like daily? Now, like, what is like your hobbies? Okay. What are some of your hobbies? Uh, along with your name and your age. Yes. My name is Brenda, 36. I just started doing pottery. Pottery? Yeah. All right. What made you get into pottery? Uh, the ceramic, the shapes of, well, you're going to make a pot out of it, right? So the art, artistry of it is very beautiful behind it, and obviously, it's like soothing. So I see that. Yeah, I wanted to try something different. All right. Yeah. Okay. Next lady. All right, what are some of your hobbies? Um, wait, do I have to say my name first? Sure. Yes. Okay. Name. I'm, um, I'm 25. Uh, my hobbies right now, I would have to say definitely graphic designing. I do a little bit of like, job-wise, like I do commissions, and then like, just draw on the side. If anything, and then recently I started getting into the studio a little bit. I am not a rapper, but I am an artist. All right. So you doing like, pure like spoken word or you singing? Anything, really. If the beat sounds nice. Respect that. I like that. Okay. All right.

Your name and age and what are some of your hobbies? Hi, I'm Micah, I'm 33, and some of my hobbies, I like to hike, I like to cook, and I like to read. All right. All right. I like that. What do you like to cook though? Where are you from? I'm from California, but I live in Dallas. All right. You make like tacos or what do you make? I don't know what California is like. Tacos? I mean, I can make tacos, but I like to cook a little bit of everything. Um, I do like meal prepping and stuff, so I like making different like pasta dishes, chicken, but like healthier. So, got you. Yeah. All right. Little bit of everything. I'm good. Thank you. You're good. Getting hungry. Okay.

So now, what are some of your hobbies? Since you asked the ladies, I'm pretty sure they want to know. Uh, some of my hobbies, I love, I play music a lot. Um, I mean, I'm also like a casual guy. I play video games and all that too. I work out all the time, that's another hobby. And, uh, I talk a lot of trash. That's why I play. That's why I do comedy, so I make like a lot of fun of a lot of things. So there's that too. Yeah. Okay.

Let's go on over here. Why do we end up hopping? First of all, great attitude, um, well put together. Um, it's the talking trash. Yeah, I like to talk trash too, so I don't think we can match up to that. No. Yeah, fair enough. All right. Yeah, you don't think you guys could go back and forth a little banter? No, it can be a little bit toxic. Yeah, we don't want to go there. Fair enough. I mean, I think communication, that's, that's like a part of communication though, too. Like, I feel like talking kind of comes off like honesty sometimes, you know? But it depends. To what extent is your honesty? Oh, I'm very honest. I'm very honest. Oh, okay. Example, if you asked me if a dress made you look big, I would probably say it wouldn't. It wasn't the dress. Thank you very much. Next. All right. [Laughter] So we do honest answer. I feel it. I feel it. You're an honest person. You said that.

So we do still have two ladies left. Ladies, do you all have a question for him? Okay, let's go down over here. Yeah, that's fine. So my question is, uh, where, already said you don't have kids? I don't have any kids. Do you want kids? Maybe. I'm on a, I'm on the fence about it. The older I get, maybe. Okay. Is there like a reason why or no? Oh, is there a reason why? Yeah, like, um, be honest. My father wasn't around much, and I don't want to have to, I don't want to miss out on anything. Like, I don't want to have a child with someone that I'm not with and then miss out on that child's life like my dad would did with me. Oh, okay. Sorry to hear that. But I, I, and then also, like, what's the last book you read and why? Last book I read and why? Um, I mean, um, "How to Write Funny" 'cause I'm doing comedy, so that's the last one I read. Cool. That's all.

Over here. I don't know. I got to ponder a little bit with you. Shoot. Why are we pondering? 'Cause I mean, like, I, I'm not gonna lie, like a lot of things, I definitely can relate with. Like, I'm, I'm a little bit more of a ruthless type of person myself. So my thing is, is would you be able to handle something like that? Yeah. It leads, really? Yeah. These, you sure? I live in that land. That's easy. Yeah, I can do that. Huh. I don't really know what to ask. It kind of caught me off guard a little bit. I'm not gonna cap with you. Okay. No, that's fine. Oh, okay.

Let's see. Why she ended up popping? What's going on? I want kids. I want a family, and I want like two, three kids. So the fact that you're on the fence, I don't want to. I want to have kids with people that's sure, someone that's sure, not people that's unsure. That's how I end over it. So, yeah, that's it. Yeah, that makes sense. All right, cool. All right.

Why we end up hopping? I want yos like that is like a for sure thing that I want my future for sure. And like, like she said, like I'm not trying to piggyback, you said, but it is a valid thing. Like, if you don't know, like getting with me, like eventually that's going to happen. I, that I can't, I can't do that to you. If you don't, that's selfish, you know? Like, I can't do that to you. Yeah, I wouldn't leave that down that path anyway. Like, you are, yeah, you're good. So I appreciate it. Okay. All right. Well, that is all the balloons popped. We were not able to find you a match today, but let's go ahead and give it up for him, ladies. I'll take that mic.

All right, let's go ahead and bring out our next single guy. Hello, welcome in. What's your name? Reggie. Reggie. Yes, yes. How old are you, Reggie? 36. 36, okay. What do you do? Um, so I'm a political, I'm a project manager for, um, political firm. Also teach financial literacy, help people with their credit repairs, start businesses, generate passive income. Okay, very cool. And now, what do you look for in a woman? Um, for me, is communication. Conversation is key. I feel like communication equals longevity. So if you can hold a conversation, you're already winning me over. And, um, someone can provide peace. Okay. All right. And now, what are some of your deal breakers? Deal breakers, um, it goes back to the communication. You know what I'm saying? Um, if you can express yourself easily, you will get along perfectly fine. Um, not so much interested in cigarette smokers, I would say. Okay. All right. And now, um, what are some things you like to do for fun? Um, I do music, motivational music. Um, but also for me, it's, um, it's not what you do, it's who you with. You do the same thing you regularly do with the right person, you can make it a good time. So I'm about experiences. Okay. Nice. All right.

So we did get two pop balloons. Oh, three. Let's go on over there and see what's going on. Okay. If we can have your name and age and why you ended up popping your balloon. I'm Jadora, I'm 31. And it was really just initial attraction. So I waited 'cause I wanted to hear, you know what I mean? Maybe get a little more in depth. But it really is just the initial attraction. And there's nothing wrong with you, you're very handsome. Okay. So you said it's attraction, but he's handsome, so what is it that, um, if I was like to see you out and about, I wouldn't approach you? I wouldn't be like, "Oh my God, I really want to talk to him," or anything like that, you know what I mean? It's just, I know when that guy walks in, and you just wear him, but that's it. All right. Now, um, is Jadora someone that's your type? Um, I, so what do you do? I'm a marketing manager. Um, I'm a certified behavioral health technician. Um, and I'm a model. Great, great, great. Um, so for me, I'm more so like attracted, like I said, to mental, just so I say conversation is key, but I'll say just initial attraction. She definitely dresses well, so absolutely. Um, yes, I would definitely approach her. Okay. Thank you. Thank you.

All right, if we can have your name and age and why you ended up popping. Britney, 31. And, um, just kind of like that when you walked in, I didn't get that vibe. And also, I was trying to look past it, but you look like my uncle. His name is Tony, and I was like, I kept looking at you and I kept thinking about Uncle Tony, but not that you look old, but you look like you can be a sibling of his or something. So I was just like, that's weird to me, but that's it. You just look like my Uncle Tony. So I know you're, you said you're more of like a mental attraction person, but is she someone that you would approach if you saw her out? Um, definitely. Beautiful smile. Um, for me, I like to dress up, so definitely someone that would look great next to me as far as dressing. So, yeah, I would say yes. Okay. Thank you. Thank you.

Okay, let's go over here. Your name and age and why you ended up popping. I'm Tatiana, I'm 25. Um, you're not ugly, I'm just not attracted. But like, we kind of look like we got a little bit of some similar style. I see you got that clear quartz up in there too. I, I really, I really like, no, like seriously, like we twinning them type stuff. So like, I, I like what you got on. It's just, I, you a bud. I see you more as like a potential business partner than an actual romantic partner. Like I see myself going like, like 'cause as far as like what you do and what I kind of do a little bit, I could see like, you know, how could mutualism benefit off of that? But as far as like anything romantic goes, I, I just don't see it. Okay. Do you see anything there or no? It's all good. It's like, I said, about energy. Um, I like the dress, I like the fit. Um, just need a little bit, probably more body, I guess, for me. Just little, like a woman a little bit more curves. D, that's just my personal preference, I guess. All right, cool. Thank you.

Let's go over here. If we can have your name and age and why you ended up popping. My name is Unique, I'm 31. Beautiful name. I love the tiger's eye, the clear quartz, all that. Cigarette smoking? Period. I'm on my journey of getting away from that, and I'm not sure if that's, you know, like, if I'm going to continue. I'm on a journey. So I don't, that's why I popped. Goa. Yeah. Um, yeah, it's just like other smoking. Sure, it's cool, but like cigarettes is just a thing for me. It's like, it's a thing for me too. Yeah, most people, that's why I'm like, I'm on the fourth day. It's the fourth. Congratulations. Congratulations. But I'm not sure if it's going to last. You know, I'm not saying I'm not sure what I want to do or what I want to accomplish, 'cause I most definitely want to get away from it. But that's something that I'm trying to control. So that's why I popped. I respect that. M. Okay. All right.

Now, now, um, apart from him saying that, is he someone that is your type though? No, he's not my type. But I will, I don't mind getting to know or trying to figure what's going on with you or trying to get to know you, period. Like, there's nothing wrong with you. So no, that was just that. Got it. All right. And now, apart from her being a cigarette smoker, is she someone that you would approach? Um, I would say yes. I think she's, um, beautiful. She's, um, she said, as she said, she's working on herself, and so I love growth, I love elevation, so definitely. Thank you.

All right, so we do still have three balloons unpopped. I'm going to have you ask these ladies a question just to kind of help you narrow it down. Okay, perfect. Um, so my question is this, um, what are your thoughts on leaving a legacy, um, building generational wealth for you and your family, and how you working towards doing that? Okay. Your name and age and the answer to this question. My name is Brenda, 36. Very good question. Um, I think it all depends on the man. What's your vision? In order for me to be your co-pilot to make that happen. So to answer that question, it's all about communication. I believe in that. It's all about consistency. It's also about, well, some men will think that this may sound intimidating, but having a woman lead sometimes can help a situation to build that generation wealth. Perfect. Good. Yeah. Okay.

All right, your name and age and the answer to this question. Hi, I'm Nova, I'm 30. Um, right now I am in nursing school, and I plan on being an Aesthetics Nurse. I do have my own shop right now where I am practicing my aesthetician. Um, so right now I'm just trying to, I want to have a franchise of beauty bars. That's definitely my, my progress. That's the journey I'm on right now. Yeah. Amazing. That's great. All right.

Your name and age and the answer to this question. Hi, I'm Micah, and I'm 33. And I think that that is why we're here. Like leaving a legacy and creating generational wealth is extremely important to me, and that's why I want a leader in my life so that way we can do just that and I can trust your vision and get besides you. Similar to what my girl down there said, a co-pilot, and a way that I'm preparing to do that is just being prepared to be a wife and be in that co-pilot situation with a man that has vision. So, yeah. Great, great answer. Yeah.

All right, I'm going to go ahead and have you pop one of these ladies' balloons based off of those responses. You've got. Okay, go ahead and pop one of these ladies' balloons. I'm sorry, but I want to have to pop this one. Okay. All right, so why did we end up popping hers? Um, first off, the answer was amazing, definitely great. Um, I can definitely tell you're an independent woman, which that I definitely love that. Um, I would say on that part, with the woman leading, like, um, having both partners leading is definitely a great thing. But I would say when you're dealing with a man like myself, like I'm intentful, purposeful. Would you, would you know how to allow me to lead you, or would it just be a lot of button hits? No, absolutely. That's why I said, if you have a vision, I would definitely be the co-pilot to where we're going. Got you. So, okay. So, but yeah, I would say just, um, based off that, um, leading co-pilot, that's amazing. And, um, I've been in situations where it's like, yeah, it's just, it's a lot of like arguing back and forth with that, and it's like, let's, let's lead in peace, you know what I mean? We can, we're going to argue on things like this, but that, that communication part, as long as that's high, I feel like there's nothing we can't get over. Absolutely. Thank you. No problem.

All righty, so we do still have two balloons unpopped. Ladies, do we have a question to go ahead and ask to kind of get to know him a little bit better? Yeah, let's go here. So, um, what would you say, how do you handle, how do you handle conflict? Like, could, if the conversation gets messy, 'cause that will, you know, that could happen. Um, how do you think that we could work that out? So, so it's, um, dealing with different people, I would say, you, you deal with it differently. Like, should I give you space? Should I, you know, can I talk with you? For me, like I said, it's always conversation for me, but you do sometimes have to allow that grace. Like everyone is entitled to their moment. Let them have their moment, and then let's talk about it. Let's not go to sleep angry, you know what I mean? So, um, as long as you're open-minded to like having a conversation about it eventually, I won't, not immediately, you know, then I feel like we can get through conflict. We can get through a lot more than just conflict. Okay. I like that. Yeah.

Right, let's go over here. Okay, my question is, what is a quote or a life lesson that your parents taught you that you still live by today? Um, it definitely has to be, accept what you can't change, change what you can't accept. Um, through my own journey, my spiritual journey, things like this, there's things I've gone through, and it's like, I, I try to make it a point to live life with no regrets and just looking forward to the future, accepting who you are, being comfortable with who you are, and, um, moving like that. So I would say, um, that's definitely my quote. Okay. Nice.

I have one more question. Do you have children? Yes. How many? Two. What? How old are they? 13 and 14. Oh, okay. Do you want more? Um, I always say I would have another kid with a wife. Okay. Cool. Okay, that's it. That's good for you. Yeah. Okay. All right.

So it is time to make a decision based off of what you've heard so far. Which one out of these two beautiful ladies are you going to be popping their balloon? Um, once again, perfect questions, great answers, definitely love it. But if I had to pop one, I'm going to go over here and pop yours. Okay. Why did we end up popping hers? Um, truly, there's nothing wrong with her. I would say, um, just based on the answers, I liked hers a little bit more. Um, and that's literally it. Okay, cool. I think you're beautiful. Thank you.

All right, so we do still have an unpopped balloon. Let me have you come on up here. Come on up. All right, any final questions from either one of you before we determine if this is a match? Um, no. I would like to talk to you privately. Okay. Um, I have one more question. One more question. Okay. So, um, this, my, this is my question like on vices. So I, I have a vice, even though I really get a lot of time to do it, but you know, I just like to be transparent. That's one thing I look for as well. So, um, my question to you is, what is your vice? But for me, mine is video games. How do you feel like about men who play video games? I play video games. There it is. There it is. All right. Let me ask my final question. Okay. So, is it going to be a yes for you for him? Yes. And is it a yes for you for her? Definitely. We got a. All right, I'll take this mic. You guys can go on. [Applause] Off. That was perfect.

Okay, let's go ahead and bring out our next single guy. Hello, welcome in. I'll have you hold that. What's your name? Uh, it's Tio. Tio? Like piano with a T, just spelled. Oh, okay, cool. And how old are you? I'm 31. 31, okay. And what do you do? Um, I'm a multifaceted like investor with a few companies like, um, Denal Records, Resurrect Select, um, um, Omo, my, and Banadas, and First Down Catering, a few things that I have underneath my belt. Okay, cool, cool. And now, what's some things you look for in a woman? Uh, definitely look for a woman who's kind, very, someone who's very passionate, um, someone who's willing to put in the work, you know, relationships take work, you know, nothing that, you know, worth having comes easy. So just someone I definitely feel we can match equally with, walk down this path together, and try to accomplish big things. Okay. All right. And now, what are some of your deal breakers? Oh, um, uh, definitely don't like someone who's just not motivated, not really out there, uh, just trying to do better for themselves. Um, some people get so complacent these days and just, uh, you know, kind of fizzle out. So I want someone who's constantly got a lust for life, lust for knowledge, wants to continue to learn and grow together. Okay. Nice.

All right, so we did get a couple of pop balloons. Let's go on over them and see what's going on. Cool. All right. Okay. If we can have your name and age and why you ended up hopping. My name is Brenda, 36. Uh, attraction. Um, the braids was not giving, however, great personality. You have things that obviously another woman might move forward with, just not my cup of tea. It's all good. Yes. Thank you. And now, is Brenda someone that's your type? Um, probably wouldn't really know too much about her. About physical attraction, probably wouldn't be someone I would talk to right off the bat. Just, just like hard to see you with some of my things that I do in my life. I wouldn't think I would come across a girl like yourself. So, or a woman like yourself. I apologize. No, you're fine. Thank you.

All right, thank you. Let's go over here. We can have your name and age and why you ended up hopping. I'm Britney, 31. Um, so I just like to hear what people say. I don't like to just pop it right away. Um, but initially wasn't, um, this style, the braids also, and then the piercing. So it just wasn't somebody I usually go for. Um, but that's all. I love your answers 'cause I can relate to everything you said. I kind of feel like you described me in that way, but it's just the attraction. Oh, yeah. Understandable. Thank you.

All right, and now, same thing for you. You know, Britney, is she someone that you would approach if you saw her out? Not typically my type. I definitely wouldn't think I would say anything. Beautiful woman, but definitely not something I would talk to at the bar or anything. Is there like any specific? Nothing at all. Just honestly, just the vibe. Just got to, I can feel the energy, so it's a big thing. It's a big test. Yeah.

Over here, your name and age and why you ended up popping. I'm Tatiana, I am 25. Um, basically like aesthetically, not necessarily like I dig what you got going on, but just like, not for me, like that. But the characteristics that you were naming, like, I feel kind of bad 'cause I did have a little bit of drink, but I'm trying to remember. You did say a couple things like, I could see you more as like a potential business partner than an actual romantic partner. Like I see myself going like, like 'cause as far as like what you do and what I kind of do a little bit, I could see like, you know, how could mutualism benefit off of that? But as far as like anything romantic goes, I, I just don't see it. Okay. Do you see anything there or no? It's all good. It's like, I said, about energy. Um, I like the dress, I like the fit. Um, just need a little bit, probably more body, I guess, for me. Just little, like a woman a little bit more curves. D, that's just my personal preference, I guess. All right, cool. Thank you.

Let's go over here. If we can have your name and age and why you ended up popping. My name is Unique, I'm 31. I'm kind of mad I popped too soon because the more I like look at you, the more I kind of feel like you're different, and I like different. But I really, I'm not familiar with different, if that makes sense. So you're very handsome. I love how you're, you step outside the box. I'm more like that too. So I don't know, that's why I popped my balloon. Okay, he's real different. I don't know if I'm scared. I really don't know. But at the same time, I, I love your energy. You got good energy. There's nothing wrong with you. Stay the same. Okay, that's all I have to say. So are you reconsidering a balloon? Or yeah, in a way I am, 'cause I do want to get to know more about him 'cause I never dealt with somebody that really stands on what they feel and how they really, you know, the braids, all that, like it's different. Okay. So I kind of like a man that kind of steps outside the box in a way. All right, thanks. U, that's like kind of what I go for. I know I'm not trying to be for everyone, so I'm more of an acquired taste, so it's just a little bit different. It's okay to be scared, but you got to, you got to try it first, you know what I'm saying? I'm getting to learn myself even more, like, you know, so PA, that's all it takes. Yeah.

Okay, we do have a balloon ready for you. Are we, are we, are we giving it along to you? How do you feel about kids? I, I have a son. You have a son? I do. How old? He's two. Turns three this year. Okay. Okay. All right. And yourself, do you have kids? I do. Okay. I do. I have a 16-year-old and a 13-year-old. Okay. So I'm kind of like, okay, still trying to build that. Makes sense. Understand. I want my own tribe. I honestly want my partner and my leader to know exactly what the, what it is they want and go off that. I submit naturally like that, like that. Okay. What do we say, Unique? Is it a yes or no? It's a no. I don't, you know, I'm not sure. I'm not sure, and I'm also scared. So I'm not going to sit up there and force something on myself that I know I'm not ready for. Yeah, I'm not sure. Definitely. Yeah, that's fair. I'm not going to, yeah, respect. But I most definitely think there's nothing wrong with you. Stay the same. Thank you. No matter what nobody else says. Yeah. Yeah. Okay, cool.

Let's go back over here. We did get a popped balloon. If we can have your name and age and why you ended up popping. Yes, I'm Jadora, I'm 31. Um, I ended up popping 'cause initially I was like, "Okay, you're not really my type," but then you seemed very interesting, so I was like, "I don't know, let me hear more, let me see." And then, um, you were like, you know, you like a woman with a little bit more, and I'm very slim, and I love me and all of my slimness, but I know, you know, guys like a little bit more. Do nothing wrong with that, you know, but I just figured I probably wasn't for you. So I love your style though. It actually would have been great. It would have been fun to just get to know you a little bit more. It's a little bit different, you know, I just do enjoy. You look great, honestly. I love the colors, it's, it stands out a lot. Yeah. Thank you. Okay. Can I get a balloon back? Yeah, don't, don't pop just 'cause, you know, he said it for somebody else. There go. Yeah. Okay, we'll be back for you then.

We did get a pop over here. All right, your name and age and why you ended up popping. I'm Micah, I'm 33, and I ended up popping just 'cause I can't get over the septum piercing. Yeah, but you seem cool though. I like your energy and how you presented yourself, so wish you the best. Thank you as well. Question? Sure. Okay. Those aren't contacts, are they? They are contacts. They are. They are. I can't, it looks good on you. I just, I, I would have liked if you would have said, "Yeah, these are me." I would have been like, "See, see." But the difference is, is like, I did that because I tried to take away from the superficial. A lot of things happen with lashes and hairs and all these other things, and I'm just one of these guys who just enjoys doing a little bit different. So no, I definitely dig it 'cause they look good on you for sure. Like, that's a really good like color choice. Appreciate it. But that's why I was like, "No, that's not real." It can't be. No, my mom told me about him at 13, and I was like, "Done." I've been doing it. I feel that completely. No, you're good. Yeah, you're good. All right.

We were not finished over here, sorry. So you said it was just a septum ring, apart from that, everything else was okay for you? Well, um, well, not everything. I'm just not attracted. Yeah, I feel like the hairstyle, I just would like that more on me than my man, but okay. Got it. All right. Now, is Micah someone that is your type? Um, honestly, Micah, you remind me so much of my mother, who's a beautiful woman, but you really do. She's just, she wears the same hairstyle, the same thing, same color earrings. So it's just, that's the only thing I couldn't get over in general. Like, but I love my mom to death. I still call her mommy. So I wish you nothing but the best, but you just kind of reminded my mom. Well, I am going to be a great mother, so I accept that energy. I'm sure you are. She is an amazing woman, so you, I bet. Thank you. Okay. Thank you.

Okay, let's go. All right, so we did have our unpopped balloon over here. Well, she did get it back. Did you have a question that you wanted to ask her to kind of, you know, help it narrow it down, see if you are going to be? Yeah, um, what do you think it takes to acquire lasting love? Oh, I think, um, honesty and really wanting to get to know everything about the person that you're with, you know, wanting to really be that interested, um, because things are not always going to be perfect, you know? But when you really get to know a person, I feel like, um, oh, sorry. Um, when you really get to know a person, I feel like that's how you're able to work through everything. It's not a matter of just, "Oh, you made me mad one day," but you're like, "I love you. I love the person you are. How can we get through this?" You know what I mean? So, um, yeah, I would say that. Okay. Okay. Okay.

All right, let me just have you come on up here. I want to ask a question. Oh, okay. Before we, before we ask the question, um, when you pass, what do you want to be remembered for? Oh, uh, I've always thought about that, honestly. I want to really help my family with generational wealth. It's something that I feel that we lack. So I want to be remembered 'cause it's one thing to be remembered by the world, but the people I can impact closely, I want to just remember to being as a kind soul, hardworking, passionate individual who, um, no matter how dark it is, like I can always see the light in everything and try to get there, no matter how hard. I believe hard work pays off, truly. And I believe you're only a product of your placement if you believe so with that mindset. So I'm really for it. Always like self-motivation and drive, and encouraging my partner to also reach to be the best that they can be, because I'm going to be leading by example by doing that. Oh, okay. Are you coming out? Okay, let's come on.

Okay, so I just have one final question. If neither one of you have any further questions, I'm so sorry I have to ask this last question because it's so important. How do you feel about kids? I have a son. Okay. Okay. And do you have kids? Yes. How many? Five. Got it. Got it. Okay. Is that a problem? A deal breaker? I mean, how many of them? How, like, what's the, what's the ratio? Damn. Really? I have to go through all of the. Okay. Um, I have an, I have an 8-year-old, a 6-year-old, a 4-year-old, a 2-year-old, and an 11-month-old. So fresh. It's okay. It's okay. I could take it. I promise. I could take it. I could take it. I take it. I don't have just self, self-eliminate. Samurai. At least it was Samurai style. At least it was Samurai style. Yeah, I knew it. You know, I'm sorry. I just, yeah. Okay. All right.

So it was just the number of kids or the, the number of kids is a lot to deal with these days, and I, I don't, I don't think that she doesn't have her own and can't get her own and do that, but like I said, it's just a lot to go into that. So fresh, so young at that same time. Thank you. And that's the reason why everybody was like, "Don't ask any more questions." I'm like, "No, this is a big one." I'm glad you asked that. Thank you. Absolutely. I appreciate it. Not for me, but someone else, maybe you guys team up. Cheaper by the Dozen, you know what I'm saying? Somebody's going to the league out of it. I feel you. You guys got a few, a couple of them. A couple of. I'm telling you. I'm telling you. I'll have you just step back over there.

All right, well, we were unable to find you a match today, but let's go ahead and give it up for him, ladies. Thank you, ladies. Thank you guys so much. Have a good night. You as well. All right, everyone, thank you so much for tuning in on this episode of Pop the Balloon or Find Love. If you would like to be featured in any of our upcoming videos and you're in the US, make sure you send us an email, and the email address will be in the description box below. Make sure you like, comment, and subscribe, and we will catch you all next time. [Applause] [Music]