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What's up, guys? Vro here. Welcome to my channel where I pretend to be a YouTuber. Today, we're going to go over some clips of ladies giving some fantastic, just amazing advice for other women on dating and their relationship. So, let's get straight into it.
>> When you meet a man, you need to lie, lie, and lie some more. And here's all the things you need to lie about. Also, I just got these Pilates socks. How freaking cute. I'll put them in my Amazon.
Number one, how much money you make. Never tell a man how much money you make. I don't care if it's $5. I don't care if it's $5 million. He needs to think you're broke. And if you're asking yourself why, the reason is if a man is there for the wrong intentions, he will use you for your money. You will be so gaga, so stareyed that you won't even [ __ ] see it until you break up and you start doing some accounting work, girl. And you're going to be like, "What the hell?" Because men love to say that we're the gold diggers, but if they ever find out you have any coin, best believe they're going to ask you to go 50/50. They're going to ask you to go in on that bill, whatever the hell. Stop expecting those nice dinners cuz they're going to be like, "She can do this on her own." Which is like not what we want. Basically, the courting will be over, okay? And if you make more money than him, forget it. He's gone. He's out like the wind. I do not care what you say. Men do not want you to be making more money than them. It makes them feel insecure. Fight me.
Two is any past relationship. So, your bodies, just don't do it. Don't do it. I don't care what they tell you. That they want to know, that they have to know, that they won't care, that they won't judge you. Yes, they will. No, they don't need to know. Zero. The number is zero. Will they necessarily believe that? Not really. But for their men,
>> Yeah, I got to agree with this one. Um, asking a woman what her body count is is a complete waste of time because they're not going to tell you the truth. I think a better way to understand where this woman is at with her past dating is just to listen to her. She's going to talk about her past. She's going to talk a little bit about past relationships even early on. You can get a good idea of how many guys she's been with if you know what to look for. And honestly, I never never ask that question, but I feel like I have a pretty good idea of where they're at. Of course, a man doesn't want to be with a woman that has a high body count. He doesn't want to be with a woman that gets with every dude. Every guy's already had it. It doesn't make any sense. Not only that, but she's not going to be able to pair bond as well. And the higher their body count is, the less likely that their marriage is going to last. It's pretty simple.
mental health. Yes, they will. Three is any past traumas. I've said this time and time and time and time and time again. Men men will use your past traumas against you. I don't care how you put it. I don't care the rhyme or reason. They do it. Period. He'll use it as a way to punish you every time.
Four is your living situation. If you live alone, never tell a man this. Okay, I know this is a weird one. Never tell a man that you live alone specifically because most men, believe it or not, are not happy with their living situation. And if they find out that you're living well, that you have a nice place, especially because women have this way of curating a place that they stay into a home, okay? A house into a home. It is just in our nature. We always decorate really well. It smells good. It's clean. While men, on the other hand, are just dirty as [ __ ] and couldn't decorate if they freaking had a gun to their head. So, he'll like make it his business to come over your place and stay over your place and just overstay his welcome and like we don't need a man's energy in our place because why would a man be there?
Finally, five, and this kind of goes along with number one, your job. Never tell a man what your job title is. Okay, again, I've said this and I had every cashier on the freaking internet.
>> All right, I've had enough. That that was really difficult to listen to 2 minutes and 40 seconds of this woman talk. Can you imagine being in a relationship with this woman? Clearly, she's only been in toxic relationships and that's all she's ever going to be in. She wants to start off a relationship by lying immediately. So, you're slowly gonna learn the truth about things and then you're gonna trust this woman? I I don't know, man. I It doesn't make much sense, but let's let's go on.
>> Hey, baddies. Does your guy best friend like you? Oh, boy. This is hard when you are a baddie. This is hard because guys are simple creatures. is they're going to slither their way in through the friend zone if they think just they think there could be a chance with you.
>> Yep. If you are a good-looking woman, the guys that are your friends, they want to [ __ ] you. Simple as that. They're going to try to slither in there like you said and slowly, you know, they have this hope that someday, you know, you'll just see how great of a guy they are and then hook up with them. It's a terrible strategy. This is what simps do. It's not going to get them anywhere. It's going to lead to a lot of frustration and a lot of wasted time. You're going to end up doing a lot of things for these women and it's going to get you nothing. So, there's no more to say about this really. It's let's go on.
>> We need to really unbrainwash ourselves when it comes to, you know, having friend friends of the opposite gender.
>> Guys, one way a woman is telling you she does not care about the relationship is if she has a male friend that you are uncomfortable with and you say, "I am uncomfortable with said male." And she says, "Okay, sounds great. He ain't going anywhere. So either you stay knowing that I'm going to be friends with this person or you go. Right? Then you go. And this is why when she doesn't walk away from that friendship to make you more comfortable, what she is saying is she does not see you as a long-term partner. Hear me out. Because if she saw you as a long-term partner, she would have no issues giving up that friendship. She doesn't want to give up that friendship because she doesn't know if you guys are going to work out. So, if she tells her friend, "I can't be friends with you anymore because my boyfriend doesn't like you." And then a month later, two months later, 6 months later, you guys break up, she has to go back to the friendship and hope to God that he still wants to be her friend. So that's what no woman is going to tell you, but that is the truth. So if she doesn't release that friendship from your relationship, that is what she is ultimately saying.
>> Yeah, that's true. That's really good advice. So I no no no girl friend of mine is going to be close with another man that is just a friend that you know that friend wants to hook up with your girl and he's going to be talking to her all the time and hanging out oneonone and no it's just not happening just like I wouldn't expect to have a female friend while I'm in a relationship. It just doesn't make any sense. And you don't really see that until you mature a little bit. When I was younger, I didn't really know how to feel about that. But it's pretty obvious once you've been in several relationships and you've been in some good relationships and you know what works and you know what doesn't. And having friends of the opposite gender that you spend time with, talk to, especially if they're talking about their relationship, it's just a recipe for disaster. So,
>> I am this.
>> I hate when a man says a massage.
>> Here are some everyday things that are completely normalized that I find misogynistic as [ __ ] Now, yes, I did see another girl doing a series pretty much exactly like this, but it's right up my [ __ ] alley, [ __ ] And I have some [ __ ] things to bring up.
Number one is when men wear t-shirts, right? Those t-shirts that have sexualized women on them. Like it'll literally just be like some woman's body and a bikini with big boobs and like what the [ __ ] is that [ __ ] That's [ __ ] weird.
>> Yeah, that's fair. If you're wearing shirts like that, then you're either 15 or just really immature. And could you imagine if women walked around with t-shirts of just like some dude's naked upper body with his abs out? Be so [ __ ] for real. That shit's nasty. Absolutely not. If I see you wearing that on the streets, I'm looking you up and down and I might spit on you.
Number two, this should just not ever be normalized, but women's pain never ever ever being taken ser being taken seriously medically. Okay? Women are always, you know, assumed to be overthinking, just anxious about something. Um, what the [ __ ] I've experienced this. I I know so many women that have experienced this. It's a thing. It's an everyday [ __ ] thing. But if a man went into the doctor saying, "Hey, like I'm really worried about this. These are the symptoms I'm having." Oh my god. Everyone would be [ __ ] crawling on their [ __ ] pinky toes to help him.
>> I don't even know what she's talking about here. If you've ever been to an ER or a doctor's office, they treat everyone the same. You know, if someone's dying, they're going to get more attention than someone that, you know, might have broken their pinky toe. But I think what she's mean to say is that women are constantly have issues like their anxiety or they got something going on and you can't just be like, "Oh my god, are like every single day." You can't be catering to that. You got to just let them deal with some things on their own. You can't re revolve your whole life around their little issues that are seemingly every single day. But yeah,
>> to find out what's wrong, they would be getting him to get an MRI, to get an X-ray ASAP. Women, we're told, "Oh, are you on your period?" When Oh, are you pregnant? Well, just make sure you're pregnant before we see if your leg's broken. [ __ ] off, [ __ ]
Number three, dress codes always targeting girls. [ __ ] boys only got to worry about wearing the right socks. Okay. Meanwhile, go
>> I mean, you don't see men trying to wear booty shorts and a uh sports bra, you know, at the gym or their booty cheek uh cheeks aren't really hanging out much. Um you don't see a lot of guys wearing revealing clothes. It seems to be more of an issue with women wearing too little clothes. I mean, even if you're at a beach, like, yeah, women's tops are covered, but it's barely like their tops and their vagina that's covered, while guys will have shorts that go down to their knees most of the time. Not sure what she's talking about here, but looks like a bit of a reach. Girls, we have to make sure our skirts a certain height, that our shirts are certain way, that a certain amount of buttons are done up properly. You can't wear too much makeup. You got to have your hair like Oh, [ __ ] off. Like, honestly, this is just victim blaming behavior. If someone can't control themselves because of how a girl dresses, that is their [ __ ] issue.
>> Someone can't control themselves, when is that ever an issue? Do you mean guys looking at you when you're wearing basically nothing? When you're wearing clothes clearly to seek attention, it's an issue if guys are looking at you. Is that what's going on here?
>> I don't know how I don't know how many times I have to say that. Female characters always being super [ __ ] sexualized in video games. Okay? Like, I swear to God, anytime there is a female character in any [ __ ] video game,
>> Yeah. We all know that sex sells video game players like hot chicks. It's been like that forever. Um, don't play those games. Do you really need to talk about this on TikTok and basically throw a fit?
>> They're like real curvy, massive tits, massive bum. Um, wearing like
>> she's not even wearing a [ __ ] bra. So, does she have a problem with women not being able to wear a small amount of clothes or having to cover up or is wearing barely nothing an issue? Like, she's contradicting herself quite a bit here. Which way does she want it? You're not making sense, girl.
>> Latex skin tie outfits and then the men are just like they look like they're just going to war, [ __ ] Like they just like they [ __ ]
Number five, makeup being automatically considered professional for women. Okay? Like women, we we don't feel like we can just dress up in a nice business outfit, have our hair done, but walk in barefaced, okay? Cuz you're going to have people asking you if you're unwell.
>> Sure you can. But people are going to notice if you don't do it suddenly. If you start a job and you don't wear makeup, they're going to think that's just how you look. If you wear makeup like she clearly does, and then one day you don't wear makeup and you look completely different, people are going to have some questions or they're going to maybe be nice and check up on you. But it's misogynist, right? Everything Everything goes back to misogyny, you know? She [ __ ] stubbed her toe the other day. Her her cat's sick. That's [ __ ] misogyny. A man did that. You know, like she doesn't like the weather, man. You know, God, man. Misogyny.
>> They're going to be asking you, "Oh, did you not have enough time this morning? Are you okay?" But like, [ __ ] what the [ __ ] is that? What the [ __ ] is that? I could keep going on. and she is just a a lovely woman full of class. See what we got next.
>> The trans movement has to be one of the most misogynistic movements I've seen in recent date because what do you mean you as a grown man can force me as an actual biological woman to call myself a sis woman? What do you mean you can bully me or try to bully me into letting you erase womanhood?
>> Okay. into taking up my space, into taking up and erasing.
>> It's misogynistic. Most men are fighting against this, especially rightwing men, the ones that are fighting for trans rights are the liberals. So, how is that misogyny? It's the women that are fighting for this. make it make sense, man. What the
>> my rights? What makes you think that as a grown man, you can be more of a woman than I am? So much so that you are relegating me from the status of being a actual biological woman to now being a sis woman so that you can be a trans woman. That is misogyny. That is the highest one of the highest forms of misogyny I've ever heard of. this notion that a man can now redefine womanhood for us and we are now bullied into compliance.
>> I honestly when I saw this clip earlier, I thought she was based because I thought it said Missandry for some reason. I'm like, "Yeah, yeah, these women hate women because they're allowing men to become women and they're fighting for men to have female rights and all this. It doesn't make sense." But no, I thought too highly.
If you find yourself in your 20s and you're worried, what happens if I'm single and I never find my person and that's your worst case scenario? I'm here to show you what your worst case scenario looks like. I'm 39 and about to be 40 and I'm single. I've never married, never been engaged. I used to think this was my worst case scenario and now it's not. I live in my beautifully decorated apartment. I have unlimited cats. I can adopt as many cats as I want. I can get six more of these cats and I don't have to ask anyone. I can also adopt as many Chihuahua as I would like. I have girl dinner almost every single night of the week except for today. For example, my friends randomly asked, "Do you want to go out to happy hour?"
>> All right, so this woman is the stereotype. 40-year-old single, ton of cats. I don't think most women are striving for that. I think that's usually what they look at as one of the worst possible outcomes. But keep telling woman this is the way you know all the cat unlimited cats. She said did she say infinite or un either way a ton of cats? No man. This is the way.
>> I said yeah I don't have to check with anyone. I don't have to plan with anyone and think gosh can we go to h can I go to happy hour? Like what are you going to do? Can like is that okay? Also, if a friend asks me to go on a trip, I just go. I don't have to ask anyone, "Is that okay? Do we have the budget for this?" It's my budget. It's my life. I can do whatever I want. This year, I decided to go to Paris for Thanksgiving because I don't really like Thanksgiving food. If I had a partner, I couldn't do that. And then I decided to go to Morocco for
>> Why can't you go on trips with your partner? Some might say it's more enjoyable and more meaningful to go with someone you love. Not that you're unable to do things when you're in a relationship. That's a weird way to look at it.
>> New Year's because I didn't have a New Year's kiss. So, why not spend it in the Sahara Desert? I'm planning my Euro summer right now and two other trips with my friends. If I had a partner, I couldn't do all this because I'd have to compromise and like ask that person and we probably would share finances. And you can't just like go and do all of that. I think the big thing though is that I always thought that I would be really lonely if I didn't find somebody. And it's actually the opposite. I feel like instead of putting all my energy into a man or a relationship, I put it into building my friendships, building my network. And now I have like such a sturdy network of people. Like I have to go have surgery soon for something. And I have more people who are willing to take care of me and like step in and be there for me than I did when I was like in a serious relationship where I live with a person. So if you're in your 20s and you're like, "Oh my gosh, what if I don't find my
>> Don't become this woman, ladies. If if any women actually see this, you're going to be happier with a good man. I'm not saying any man with a quality man and children like we were intended to be. Like that's how it's supposed to be. Not 40 with 40 cats. All right, I will play out good.
>> First dates could be amazing, could be awful. Dos and don'ts. I'm a first date expert. First do this should
>> Did you hear that? This This girl that looks like she's about 15 claims that she's a first date expert and she claims to be a coach. This girl thinks she's a dating coach. All right, let's see what she has to say. Maybe she's got some good stuff. You know, I shouldn't judge.
>> No, but if you're brand new to dating, come prepared for the date for the both of you. If you don't have money to pay for her, you shouldn't be going out in the first place. You make her pay, okay? She's not going to text you back and she's going to tell all of her friends that you suck. So, be prepared. Do not talk about yourself the whole time. You can tell if you don't actually care to get to know us. Ask us the questions. Adding to that, don't mention your
>> Yeah. Don't talk about yourself the whole time. In fact, you're probably going to get better results from letting the girl talk the whole time because that's what they like to do. They like to talk about themselves. It makes them feel good. Just look at them. Really listen, you know, have a little bit of input, but don't talk about yourself too much. Let's hear what she has to say. Okay, let her ramble. She'll feel special if you listen. Like, that's really the best way to get a good result.
>> Textes, not even once. And don't pull out your phone. Okay, I get it. If you have to send a quick text or something, scrolling, sending a snap.
>> Yeah, that's obvious.
>> Instant turn off.
>> That's obvious.
>> I think women do that.
>> Come with a plan for the date. If you show up and ask, "What do you want to do?" It's not going to blow her away. Be so respectful to everyone around you. Waiters, family members, her. You want to seem like a gentleman unless you want this to be one date. And last thing, do not set up any physical expectations at all. Really pushing something that's not going to happen on its own, like kissing at the doorstep or holding hands even, it's going to feel really forced to them and it'll push them away. Physical things will happen on their own. So only expect being able to talk to her and then if they happen
>> Yeah.
>> bonus when they do arise, always ask her first.
>> Can I kiss you?
>> No. No. No. No. Do not ask a girl if you can kiss her. Just don't like uh that's awkward. I've never done that before and I've gotten plenty of first dates. I don't even think I've gotten turned down for a first kiss before. But no, you just got to feel the vibe, feel the energy, bro. You know, you can kind of get an idea if she wants a kiss or not. If you're not sure, maybe wait till you are sure. But anyways, this uh I was trying to make a little bit shorter video, but um yeah, it's already at the 23 minute mark. So anyways, thank you so much for checking out my brand new channel. I'd appreciate any likes, comments, or subs. It would mean a lot to me. But until next time, peace viral.