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Hello everyone. This is Mystic Goddess with your general reading. So today we're going to see how they truly feel since you've been gone. This reading is for everyone of every zodiac sign. So feel free to switch the energies around as needed. All right.
So, let's go ahead and get into these messages. Give me messages, please. Holy Spirit, for everyone that watches this reading. When it comes to the person my viewers are separated from, how does that person truly feel since my viewers have been gone? How does that person truly feel since my viewers have been gone? You already have a card coming out. Two more shuffles. All right.
So, let's see what comes out here. All right. So, at the bottom of the deck, you have let me be better for you. So, this is someone who deep down is hoping that the two of you will be able to repair things. They know they could have given you more. This is someone who's well aware that they didn't give you their best self. I wouldn't be surprised if at some point in time they come back around making it seem as though things will be better or at least wanting to redeem themselves. Okay. Wanting that chance to make things right and they're also admitting that [clears throat] this love was a lesson for them.
This card came out crossing. So, it lets me know that this person really made it seem as though you didn't affect their life in any way whatsoever. Especially after the breakup, they may have come off as though you were just another notch under their belt or they may have made it seem as though you didn't make an impact. That couldn't be the furthest from the truth. I feel like this person is realizing that they're not going to find another love like the love that they had with you. Also with the card coming out crossing it lets me know that this person they have learned some lessons but they're not applying those lessons. Okay. It's giving energy of this person possibly putting you through the same cycle if you were to let them back into your life prematurely.
At the bottom of the deck you also have I deserve you. So this is someone who is very much entitled. Okay. And the audacity is they're saying that they deserve you. They deserve your love or they deserve your presence, but they're not doing anything to be deserving of it. I feel like this person is realizing that being connected with you, um, being in your presence is a privilege and it's not something that they're automatically entitled to.
At the top of the deck, you have I'm sorry isn't enough. Wow. So, [snorts] they know that they took things too far. This is someone who may have put you through a vicious, disrespectful cycle. If they have been silent, if you haven't been hearing much from this person, I feel like it's mainly because they know that sorry isn't going to get it. Okay. So, they don't know what to do to make up for their disrespect other than just to remain silent and hope that time will heal wounds. Some of you went through a lot with this person. Okay? You went through so much and it may have gotten to the point where you realize that even though it hurt to let the connection go, it would hurt even more to hold on to it.
Give me another card. So, they don't know what to what to say. They don't really know what to do. They know that sorry wouldn't be enough to make up for all of the damage that they've done. So, they're just lost. It's almost like they're [sighs] they're a bit helpless, but it's because of their own doing.
Your feelings did not matter to me at the time. So, this card lets me know that this person was not considerate of you whatsoever. They didn't think about how certain things that they were doing or certain things that they would say to you affected the connection. And even more importantly, they didn't take into consideration how those things would affect you. I feel like this is someone who would do things that really hit below the belt. like they could be really dirty and low down if they wanted to. And there could have there could have also been times when this person was so set on hurting you, so set on making you pay to the point where they may have even done things that they knew they wouldn't be able to come back from. They did way too much. So, they're admitting that your feelings didn't always matter to them, and it's mainly because they're selfish. It was all about them. All about them.
At the top of the deck, you have, I didn't expect you to leave this long. So they thought that you would be back by now. It just lets me know that this is someone who um truly felt entitled to you. Regardless of what they put you through, regardless of how much they hurt you, they always expect for you to come back. Yeah. They expect you to always give them access. So, those of you who have taken a step back, um whether you decided to break things off with this person or they are the one who broke things off with you, you not trying to repair things. You not trying to to patch up the broken pieces. that really shocked this person and it's affected them on a on a deep level. So that may be another reason why they're saying let me be better for you because of course you don't miss your water and so you're well run shy but I truly feel like this is someone who hasn't learned I don't feel like they've learned their lessons. Okay? Because they think that you pulled away to hurt them or to get back at them. All right? When in reality, you pulled away in order to protect your peace, in order to um [clears throat] in order to uphold your dignity, your self-respect, your integrity. Okay? So they make everything about them. And where they have you messed up at is you leaving for you is a game changer. And that's why it's easier for you to stay away this time around. But see, they haven't connected the do the dots there. They're still making your absence about them or about you trying to affect them in a negative way when in reality you walked away so that you could be better. So you could be a better version of yourself.
Give me another card. So they may be saying that they want to be better. One reason is because they know you deserve better. But another reason they're saying that is because they're desperate. They desperately want your presence. But as soon as they get comfortable, everything they learned is going to go right out of the door and they'll they will put you through the same vicious cycle over again. This is someone who gets way too comfortable. They have to learn the hard way. All right.
So, you have hypocrite and you also have runner versus chaser. And both of those cards came out in reverse. So, I feel like this person accused you of doing things that you were not doing or they tried to make it seem as though you had certain hidden motives or agendas that you truly didn't have. I feel like it took this person to lose you in order for them to see that you were authentic all along. Okay. [snorts] Yeah. This is someone who knows that you stood on business. Whatever promises you made, I feel like you delivered, especially when it mattered. you were who you portrayed yourself to be all along. It's completely different from this person where um they may have sold you a dream or they would be hypocritical of the actions of others, especially when it comes to other people's lives or other people being um in toxic relationships. certain things that other people do that make relationships toxic. They turned out to be just like those people that they would be so hypocritical about.
With the runner versus chaser card coming out in reverse, it lets me know that you guys are no longer chasing the connection. Okay. Um, now for others of you, I feel like I feel like the roles are reversing. Okay? There was a time when you were once the chaser and this person was the runner. I feel like they're going to become the chaser and you will become the runner. This isn't over. It's at the bottom of the deck. See the entitlement. The entitlement. So, they're saying that it's not over. Even if they're not chasing you currently, even if this person has been silent, if they haven't been taking much action toward you, I don't care if they got in another relationship and they seem happy with the other person. In their mind, things are not over between the two of you. So, [snorts] they're going to come back in attempting to reconcile. It's either that or they're going to try and lure you back in to reconcile with them.
But just know that you strengthen yourself um with boundaries. You also strengthen your self-love with boundaries. So it's important to stand on those boundaries. Um you have to draw a line with this person and the more you stand on your boundaries, the stronger you will become. And it also shows that you're to be taken seriously. You have to be really consistent with it. Don't let up. Don't allow your mind to trick you into thinking, "Well, just this one time. Let me just do this just this one time." Don't allow your mind to trick you into that. Because once you show any sign of a tender spot, a soft spot, a weak spot. Once you do that, they're not going to take you seriously anymore. It's not enough to tell them what you're going to do. You have to you have to stand on it. You have to show them. And it's not even about showing them. It's about it's about showing up for yourself. Showing yourself.
At the top of the deck, you have I missed who I thought you were. Yeah. They miss the version of you that they feel they benefited from. They miss when you were passive. They miss when you were um jealous. They miss when you were seeking validation through them. They miss when you would turn a blind eye. They miss when you would make them a priority over yourself. They miss when you were giving them the unconditional love that you should have been pouring into yourself the whole time. Of course they miss that version of you. Of course. And notice I miss who I thought you were. So this person had you messed up all along. They underestimated you. They took your kind kindness for weakness. And it's almost like a predator prey type of thing. They thought that you were someone that could be easily prayed upon. They thought you were someone easy to get over on. [clears throat]
At the top of the deck, you have doing better. All right. So, this person may have wanted to convince you that they were doing better without you. Okay? They wanted to make it seem as though um they were [clears throat] on to bigger and better things, that they were walking on greener grass. Okay? That's the whole point of this person. putting on a show at times. And I feel like for some of you, they went above and beyond after the breakup to try and prove a false narrative or to get you to believe that they were happy without you. I underestimated you and I was just telling you guys that. Thank you for the confirmation, Holy Spirit. For some of you, this person wanted you to believe that you couldn't do better, but now they see you doing better. Some of you feel better. You feel better. And that's emotionally, mentally, and for some of you possibly even physically.
Hidden motives is here as well. So, like I was telling you guys before, they wanted you to believe that they were doing better without you. And that was the hidden motive all along. I feel like they thought that if they could make it seem as though they were out living their best life, that they were moving on, that um you were no longer desirable, it would make you chase them or it would make you do better when it comes to um pursuing them, that you would do things on their timing, that you would do things their way and to their liking. But see, they underestimated you. You were way stronger than this person ever could have imagined. And I also feel like they underestimated your authenticity because they may have truly thought that you had hidden motives because they're used to dealing with people like that. Especially when the two of you initially started dealing with each other. They think that everyone is like them. That's why it's hard for them to trust people. They think that everyone is just like them. [clears throat] They think everyone has some type of hidden motive. Everyone has some type of agenda. This is someone that may not have believed that people do nice things with a genuine heart. Like there has to be something behind it. That's the type of mentality that this person has. They also think that you or they initially thought that you pulled away from them for a different reason. Like there was some type of hidden motive behind it, but there wasn't a hidden motive. You're just putting yourself first.
Now, at the top of the deck, you have rumors and gossiping. So, this is someone who could be spreading rumors about you or they could have been gossiping. I miss your voices here as well. So, they do miss you. They miss your laugh. They miss your voice. Some of you have a very powerful voice or there's just something about um the way that you speak, the way that you express yourself that's both powerful and comforting at the same time. I do feel like they gossip about you as well. It's not always in a bad way though. I do feel like they have revealed to someone that they do miss you. They miss talking to you. They miss um the way that you would talk to them, the way that you would be so expressive. They miss you speaking life into them. And it's so crazy. This person really initially spread rumors about you having hidden motives. That's crazy.
Give me another card. How does this person truly feel since my viewers have been gone? All right. You have all fun and games here. So, it's all fun and games until the rabbit has the gun. I feel like when the two of you initially got together, this person thought that it was just going to be all fun and games between the two of you. They may have thought it would be a fly by night relationship that you were just a dime a dozen. And so, I feel like they may have intentionally um came toward you with false promises. Now, I'm not saying that they were not truly interested in you at all, but I do feel like this person was well aware that you were out of their league. So, it's like, okay, well, I'm just going to have fun. Um, play the game or play little mind games and I'm going to be out. But, they ended up falling in love with you. Look at this. I cannot find your level of intimacy anywhere else. Yeah. See, it was all fun and games after the breakup when they thought you could easily be replaced. Now they're unable to find anyone else that can match your level of intimacy, that tender love and care that you would give to them. That genuine compassion that gentle heart.
Let's man things is at the bottom of the deck. So, this person could come in wanting to man things. Um, even if the two of you broke up over a major issue, they view it as like a petty argument, like it was just something petty. This is something that we should have mandated. Now, for others of you, the relationship could have ended over a petty argument, but that's not the point. I feel like um there was a buildup. You know how you can let so many things slide to the point where you explode and the explosion will appear to have happened out of nowhere or it will appear to others that you just blew up for the smallest reason. But it's not it's not that little small thing. It's everything. And I feel like that's that's where you were with this person. But they do want to man things. For some of you, they will come toward you wanting to fix things, but the two of you could end up having some type of petty argument. So keep that in mind as well. [sighs] Wow. They may also want to have makeup sex with you. Okay, this is someone who also may like to argue and then have sex right afterward. Something that they get out of that and I want to say that came out in another reading that I did recently as well.
I reread our messages and regret everything I said. So, this is someone who may have said some really nasty um and cruel things to you where the two of you would argue or they could have done it um after the breakup. So, they're regretting a lot of the things that they said. And for some of you, I feel like this person would say really nasty and cruel things to you even though it was just a petty little argument or a petty little um a petty little misunderstanding. It would be a small issue um a small argument but this person would get really petty during those arguments and they would say things that they cannot take back.
I use other people to make you jealous. So they're admitting that they have used others to try and make you jealous. Now that could be another person that they're entertaining. It could be friends. They could have um people around them that are also in on their hidden scheme to try and make it seem as though they're living their best life. But there are other people involved in them trying to get a jealous reaction or a jealous response out of you.
I want to make it work this time. So they're saying that they do want to reconcile and they do want to make things work this time around. Okay. But what they have to understand is they have to respect the person you have become, the version of yourself that you have become. This is someone who is so stuck on the lower vibrating version of you, okay? Um, the version of you that may have been a little insecure, the version of you that may have had a hard time setting boundaries, the version of you that may have had a hard time saying no, the version of you that allowed people to take advantage of you. They have to understand that they're not going to get that. You have you have healed that wound. You have healed that version of you. Whether it was fear of abandonment, whether it was issues with your self-esteem, whether it was not you speaking up, standing up for yourself, whether it was settling for less, it'll be different for all of you. But whatever was underneath that, I feel like you guys have been working on healing that wound. See, they benefited from that version of you [clears throat] because everything that you were supposed to be pouring into yourself, you were pouring into them. But you're pouring all of those things into yourself now. Unless they grow, they will not feel that this newer, better version of you is beneficial. They will view the newer, better version of you. They'll view it as, what's the right word? They'll view it as you being difficult. Um, this person knows that you would have done anything for them and you showed them that because many of you really did um, you really did sacrifice a lot to try and make things work. You gave this person parts of yourself that no one else no one else even had access to. I feel like you truly, some of you truly gave this person all of you. You really did. And that's why you're able to walk away and not wonder what if. And even if you catch yourself wondering what else, make sure you change that perspective really quickly. They know that you would have done anything for them for them because you did. You did. So you uplifted this person. You poured into them while they were tearing you down and draining you. But you rebuilt yourself and that's where your power is at. God gave you the strength to rebuild yourself and now you are a force to be reckoned with. Yeah. You're not depending upon anything other than God or anyone outside of you to build you up, to validate you, to make you feel good about yourself. You're not trying to prove to this person why you feel the way that you feel or why you deserve to be respected, why you deserve to be treated like you are someone of value. It's irrelevant now because you know you know those things and what this person or anyone else says or thinks about you even the things that they they do toward you. It has absolutely nothing to do with who you are as well as your worth. Yeah, you're not seeking validation.
At the top of the deck, you have young and dumb. So, this person is admitting that they were young and dumb. And for many of you, they still are made a lot of dumb decisions. And I also feel like they think they met you at the wrong time. Now, for some of you, this person could have had a rough upbringing. Um, they may have made some dumb decisions or gotten involved with people who may have negatively influenced them in some way. And now, as an adult, they project all of those wounds and traumas onto others. But yeah, they know that they were a dummy to let someone like you get away. A fool. Only a fool would let someone like you get away. My goodness. I'm going to pull one more card and then I'm going to end the reading. Give [snorts] me one more card, please. Thank spirit. What a fool.
All right. You have what did they have over me? And that card came out crossing. What they had over you is immaturity. Okay. If they chose someone else over you, if they prioritized other people over you, it's because those people had immaturity. They operated from an immature heart. Yeah. I mean, you see young and dumb here. What they what the other person had over you is that they're young and dumb. Young in the mind to be exact. Okay. And there are even younger people who have a lot more sense and a lot more wisdom than this particular person. But what the other person had over you was they're foolish. Foolish and childish, immature. And they also accept this person's immaturity. They date people who they feel are immature. People that are easier to manipulate, people who are easier to get over on, people who are easier to um to fall for the illusions. Wow. I feel like this person wanted you to feel that way. They wanted you to be sucking the energy of why they chose someone else over you, why they prioritize other people over you, why you were not as important, why would they give um good energy to others and not give that energy to you. I feel like they wanted you to to feel that way. They wanted you to question yourself. They wanted you to think that there was something wrong with you. Yeah. The only way that things would have worked out between you and this person is if you dumbed yourself down. That's the only way. This is someone who will only tell you what they want you to know. They want to be your eyes. Meaning you only see what they want you to see. They want to tell you how you should see things, what you did see what you didn't see, what you did hear and you didn't hear. You would have to dumb yourself down and dim them your light. So yeah, that's what they wanted. They wanted you to feel that way. And this card did come out crossing. So, it also lets me know that no one else has doesn't have anything over you. Okay. And for some of you, it doesn't necessarily have to be that um you that they wanted you to how can I put this with the what did they have over me card. It doesn't necessarily have to be o about them choosing another lover or you comparing yourself to other love interest. For some of you, it could just be, okay, what do your friends have over me? To the point where you laugh and joke and you're nice to them, but you're mean to me and I'm the one that's always there for you. Why Why do you choose to prioritize um your friends over me? It could it could be that does not have to be about a a romantic partner. Okay. But if you know that they did choose someone over you, um if they did go toward another person, I feel like they wanted you to think that the other person was above you or better than you in some way. so that you could try and mimic or embody that other person when they come back around almost as a way to um so that other person can be a blueprint for your grooming. It's just really sad. It really is very sad. But I am so proud of you guys. All of you that have been standing your ground. It It's not always easy, but I promise it gets easier. It gets so much easier. And you just have to remind yourself that you standing on boundaries, you distancing yourself, it's about you. You deserve peace. You deserve um someone who who values what you bring to the table. You are an empress or an emperor and you shall be treated as such. Okay. So when they come in to man things, I'm letting you know right now if you were to choose to allow them to to be a part of your life or if you choose to converse with them, there could end up being some type of petty argument. Okay? Um, it doesn't have to be necessarily at the time that they initially reach out, but I do feel like shortly afterward, you're going to realize that this person hasn't learned anything or they're at least not applying anything like they haven't changed at all. But yeah, this person is a huge hypocrite. They they wanted you to believe their false narrative that you were just like everybody else. You're just like all these other no good men out here. You're just like all these other uh no good women out here. You're just like everybody else. They wanted you to to believe that. They even tried to convince themselves of that. But energy doesn't lie. You showed up in this relationship and you showed out. And what I mean by that is you overplayed your part. You are a good woman. You're a good man. Take it however it fits. and you are deserving. I'm so proud of you guys. So, chin up, chest out, and you make sure that you continue to make yourself a priority because sometimes you unknowingly teach people how to treat you, okay? And if you come off like you'll go through anything that you don't have any boundaries that you just allow a person to treat you any kind of way, they're going to treat you any kind of way. So yeah, continue healing. All is well and you guys enjoy the rest of your night.
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