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Someone simply cannot shake the thoughts of you. [Music] Someone simply cannot shake the thoughts of you. Someone cannot shake you. They just can't get you out of their system. They can't get you out of their minds. This person is borderline obsessed with you. I'm not even going to say borderline. This person is obsessed with you. This person can't stop ruminating about you. The way you look, the things you do, the way you do the things you do, the way you smell, the way you feel. This person fumbled you. Now they're living their lives in regret. And they can't stop thinking about you.
Everywhere they go, every person they encounter, every new person that they find or meet, they look for you in them. They've gone from this one to that one and they realize none of them are you. None of them are you. None of them can be you. They just can't. But yet they have searched far and wide to find another you because they know that they fumbled you. They know that it's too late to turn back. They know they can't turn back the hands of time. They know that the damage has already been done. They know that things are have already become too far gone to turn back now. They have come to the realization that you are the one that got away. And ever since they've realized that you are the one that got away, they cannot seem to shake you.
I mean, this person, they wake up thinking about you. They go to sleep thinking about you. They think about you all throughout the day. They daydream about you. They dream about you at night. And frankly, this is very unhealthy for anyone to obsess over someone in this way because, for one, it's idolatry. They're idolizing you, but the sad part of it is they had you at one point. They didn't know what to do with you. You know, nothing's worse than than praying for something or someone and then once you get it or them, you mishandle them so much, you mismanage them so much that you end up losing them. This person cannot seem to shake you. The only thing they can do is replay in their minds all of the great things about you, all of your qualities, all of your your peace, your essence, your your energy. And on the other side of that, all they can do is relive the betrayals and the things that they did to you. That guilt is eating them up from the inside out. This individual is losing sleep, frankly. But you know, the Lord says there shall be no no rest for the wicked. This person did the unthinkable to you. Now they're they can't go to bed at night because they're too busy tossing back and forth, replanting their mind the things that they did to you. This person has been spiraling because of this.
And this message is not for anyone to say, "Oh, well, you know what? I let me go and help them and be there for them and do all this because, you know, they're dealing with so on and so forth." Know this is just to say that this is what this person is encountering right now. This is what this person is facing. This is what they're battling. This is what they're dealing with because they came up against you. They came up against a child of God. See, you are the one that got away because you took your power back. You came to the realization of who you are. You discovered yourself. See, at one point, you were so lost in them because you thought they were your future. You thought they were your forever. But once you realize that you are worth far more than breadcrumbs, you stop selling yourself short, believing, you know, and putting all your belief and your faith and your hope in this person that they would change. When you realize they were never going to change, they never anticipated on changing. They never planned to change. They just told you that to keep you. And they knew that by giving you that small teeny weeny bit of hope, it was enough for you to hold on. It was enough for you to stay put and hold on and keep the faith and say, "You know what? They're going to change. They're going to wake up. They're coming to the realization of what they have. They're learning how to treat me. They're learning how to love me. They're going to learn these things."
So, you know, they they fed you these breadcrumbs every time you pull away. Every time you were getting ready to walk away and leave, they knew that. So they they put a couple drop a couple of little more crumbs out there, giving you a little hope and coming back and telling you things like, "You know what? Yeah, it's time to change. I'm going to get my life together. I realize that the life that I'm living is not the life that I want. I want you. I want us to work." Give you those little breadcrumbs. But when you realize that it was all talk and no action, you you pulled your energy back. you you drew your energy back and you say, "You know what? No, I'm worth far more than that. I'm not going to sit here and and and take and accept your breadcrumbs. No, I know what I'm worth and I'm worth the full meal." See, when it's that true God-ordained spouse, that true God-ordained individual for you, the one that God created for you, it's going to come with a certain this level of certainty. It's going to come with this level of certainty and this level of reassurance, this level of peace. It's not going to come with chaos, turmoil, confusion, because the Lord is not the author of confusion. That would be the enemy.
So, if you're in a relationship with a person and a person continues to leave you confused and wondering where you stand, are you on good terms with this person? Are you on bad terms with this person? Is this person being honest, loyal, faithful? Is this person all in? Is this person got one foot in and one foot out the door? Is this person being honest with you or is this person lying to you? Is this person for real or is this person future faking you? If you have to go back and forth in your mind, you might as well turn around and walk away because that ain't your person. That person is not for you. That is not your person. Now, don't get me wrong, when you're in a relationship and you're learning someone, you know, there are things that you're going to learn along the way, but you're never going to have that level of uncertainty. You're not going to have to go back and forth in your mind wrestling and guessing and wondering and and constantly having to to question these things. It's going to be evident in the person's actions. See, because love is is far more than an emotion. It's far more than just a four-letter word. It is an action. And it's also the character of God. It's also God. God is love. You know, and for a person to truly love you, that means that they have God's heart for you. When this but first, this person must have a true relationship with God, to know God's heart, to be able to resonate with that, to be able to understand what that truly means. If that person doesn't have no relationship with God, if that person does not keep God first, if they're not seeking you first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, all those things are not going to be added unto them. So, be wise, be vigilant, be aware of who you're entertaining before you really get serious with someone. Question their beliefs. Know the foundation. Learn what what their foundation is. Is their foundation built on God, on the word of God, or is it based on worldly things?
This person cannot shake the thoughts of you. This person cannot stop thinking about you. This person cannot stop focusing about you, focusing on you. This person can't stop focusing on you, thinking about you, ruminating about you, daydreaming about you, and they're in such agony that they're unable to get any rest because of the things that they did to you. All of the trauma, all of the hurt, all the pain, all the lies, the deceit, the manipulation, them taking you for granted. Now they realize now that everyone else has turned and walked away, you were the only one that was ever truly there. But the more you fought for them, the more they fought against you and sought everyone else. But see, that's why the Lord says we shall pray for our enemies, bless those who curse us. Because at the end of the day, once you take your hands off of it, you surrender it to God. Always remember, vengeance is mine, says the Lord. God got them and that God got you. So, I just pray this quick message blesses someone and encourages someone. Congratulations. You did the right thing, continue to keep pushing, continue to move forward, continue to grow in the things of the Lord, continue to seek you first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and allow all these things to be added unto you. So, I love you all. God loves you all. God bless you all. Talk to you soon. Till next time. [Music]