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Regardless of my intentions, there are many people who can cause misunderstandings in rational terms. Hello everyone, this is Doro. I want to talk to you today about the word "Hongyeom" (홍염). I think it's a word that even people who aren't very interested in destiny might have heard at least once, as it's commonly associated with destiny. In previous videos, I've briefly explained the basic difference between "Hongyeom" and "Ssal" (쌀). For those who want to know more, please refer to those videos. Simply put, I said that "Hongyeom" is like a cat among dogs and cats, while "Ssal" is like a dog. Do you get the feeling? In the case of "Hongyeom," the person themselves is attractive and has an active side. They also have characteristics like dimples and red cheeks. Among the people we commonly see, those who are popular, have a constant stream of affection, and are somehow loved by many people, and have many people around them, are often said to have "Hongyeom." Today, I'd like to talk a little more about "Hongyeom." I'll explain how to use "Hongyeom" based on the four pillars of destiny, and when the "Hongyeom" period comes into your destiny. I think today's video will be interesting, so please watch until the end.
I want to talk a little more about "Hongyeom." It can be interpreted as a beautiful, charming, and attractive word. However, when we talk about the color red, people often associate it with a static color. But "Hongyeom" doesn't necessarily mean falling into promiscuity or being overly sexual. That can happen if the energy is very poorly balanced and used excessively. What I want to emphasize most about "Hongyeom" is that it's a powerful weapon that can make people like you in human relationships. This includes romantic relationships, but especially platonic ones. It can enhance the quality of my life and act as a lubricant in relationships. Of course, "Hongyeom" will also vary depending on its position. So, from now on, you should check two things. First, you need to see which character in your day pillar corresponds to "Hongyeom." Second, you need to see when the "Hongyeom" period comes. You can look at the year, month, and day pillars separately, and then think about how you can use it. And third, the function of "Hongyeom" also differs depending on whether it's in the year, month, day, or hour pillar, so I will explain this to you now.
First, let's talk about how to use "Hongyeom" when it's in the year, month, or day pillar. I'll explain it for each position.
First, in the case of the year pillar. If "Hongyeom" is in the year pillar, when you were young, there were friends in middle and high school who were constantly dating, right? Those friends often have "Hongyeom." And then, during those school days, there are people who are very proactive and want to be the center of attention, doing things like gathering children for performances or events. These people usually have "Hongyeom." However, among those friends, there are those who don't have many romantic relationships. This means that if you have "Hongyeom" in your destiny, it's good to build up your romantic relationships during middle and high school. Looking back, the feeling of friends from high school and university is different. University friends tend to look at conditions, and given their vastly different life experiences, they tend to be more cautious. However, high school friends share their daily lives and see each other's situations, so they strangely feel a sense of camaraderie. Don't you feel a different sense of connection when you meet those high school friends later? Personally, I don't think I'm particularly good at it. If you have "Hongyeom" in your year pillar, it's good to be like this. Some people also go into the entertainment industry, like idols or actors. In such cases, if you have an interest in that field from a young age, it's very good to pursue a career in acting, singing, or modeling through education.
Second, if you have "Hongyeom" in your month pillar, it's good to use it strategically. I especially want to emphasize that it's good to use "Hongyeom" well in the workplace. After all, it's the time when you start your social life in earnest in your mid-twenties. Therefore, in social life, the method of building relationships is important. In Korean society, where relationships are so important, people who can proactively build connections are said to have "Hongyeom." People with "Hongyeom" are generally very proactive and active. Many people associate this with promiscuity, but people who use "Hongyeom" well can appeal not only to the opposite sex but also to the same sex, showing that they are active, positive, and full of energy. Such people are generally liked by everyone, no matter where they go or what position they are in. People with "Hongyeom" in their month pillar, even if they didn't have such experiences in middle and high school, can suddenly become popular in college, like becoming a student council executive after diligently studying in high school. So, when building your career, networking is important, and using "Hongyeom" to build this network is also a good method. However, this is also the prime age for marriage. Therefore, you should always be careful not to misuse your "Hongyeom" in romantic relationships, or to flirt unintentionally even if you have a boyfriend or girlfriend.
Third, if you have "Hongyeom" in your day pillar, you have a natural charm and "Hongyeom." Therefore, people with "Hongyeom" in their day pillar have a much higher chance of succeeding in fields like acting, modeling, idols, or singing, compared to those with "Hongyeom" in their year or month pillars. Therefore, it's very good to know your energy and use it as a base for whatever you do. For example, if you have a lot of "Hongyeom" in your destiny and you are a "Mu Jin" (무진) day master, which also has "Hongyeom," what is the key to this person's success? By putting yourself forward and using Instagram, Facebook, or YouTube, you have a strong ability to attract attention. I've experienced this myself. Also, people with "Hongyeom" in their day pillar can give a favorable impression to others, so it's good to be mindful of this. First, when you have many people around you, you sometimes can't distinguish whether they will be helpful or not. People with "Hongyeom" tend to get along well with most people, thinking that they can get along with everyone. However, having many shallow relationships isn't always good. Especially if you have "Hongyeom" in your day pillar, you need to practice identifying who can truly support you when you are at your lowest point, out of hundreds of people. Second, regarding your spouse, since it's "Hongyeom," there can be risks in romantic relationships with your spouse or partner. Therefore, it's necessary to practice setting boundaries in romantic relationships first. Basically, because you are a friendly and likable person, you can easily cause misunderstandings in romantic relationships. So, people with "Hongyeom" in their day pillar may have difficulty understanding subtle cues as they get older. They might be misunderstood. So, it's good to organize your thoughts and listen carefully.
Lastly, if you have "Hongyeom" in your hour pillar, you tend to have broad but shallow relationships, but in reality, you have a strong distinction between your own people and others. You will take good care of your own people. So, while you are generally friendly to everyone, you can be particularly invested in and focused on your own people. I personally think people who can achieve this are very fortunate. However, to reach this stage, you need to be aware of your own "Hongyeom." No one starts at the highest level. People with "Hongyeom" in their year, month, day, or hour pillars, regardless of the position, can be said to suffer or worry greatly about human relationships at some point. This period of worry is necessary for your growth, so if you have "Hongyeom" in your destiny, please catch these points and don't just get stressed by it, but rather use it as an opportunity to move forward.
Next, I will talk about how to use "Hongyeom" based on the ten heavenly stems.
If you have "Hongyeom" with "Bi-gyeon" (비견) or "Geop-jae" (겁재) in your destiny, you are often popular with people of the same sex, especially male friends. So, if you want to have that popularity, you might have many male friends. In such cases, you have "Hongyeom" with "Bi-gyeon" or "Geop-jae." This can be interpreted in various ways. First, the most common interpretation is that you are very good with neighborhood friends and male friends. Second, people who have prepared for idol activities since childhood and are now active as idols, or people who use their energy well and put themselves forward, are cases where "Bi-gyeon" and "Geop-jae" with "Hongyeom" can excel. "Hongyeom" is about PR. However, just because you have a lot of "Sik-sin" (식신) or "Sang-gan" (상관) doesn't mean you're good at PR. Rather, people who brand themselves and lead in society are often those with "Bi-gyeon" and "Geop-jae" "Hongyeom." It would be even better if they have "Sik-sin" and "Geop-jae" together. Therefore, people with "Hongyeom" and "Bi-gyeon" or "Geop-jae" are very good at jobs that involve putting themselves forward, living off their image, or talking about people.
Second, "Hongyeom" with "Sik-sin" or "Sang-gan." This is the part I worry about the most. "Sik-sin" and "Sang-gan" overlap somewhat with romantic and sexual aspects. Therefore, people with "Hongyeom" and "Sik-sin" or "Sang-gan" can easily cause misunderstandings in romantic relationships, regardless of their intentions. There are many people who can cause misunderstandings. Some people are very stressed by this. For example, you might not be interested in a particular man, but he might misunderstand your intentions. Conversely, if you are a man, you might not be interested in a woman, but she might be alone and unable to do anything. This can also happen. If your "Hongyeom" is misused, it can spread like wildfire. Therefore, if you have "Hongyeom" in a destiny with too much "Sik-sin" or "Sang-gan," you should check your destiny carefully and consider whether you need to be cautious in certain areas. People with a lot of "Sik-sin" and "Sang-gan" generally have a lot of talent and skills, rather than being good at romantic relationships. Many people who diligently pursue their hobbies have "Hongyeom" with "Sik-sin" and "Sang-gan." Even in their careers, they tend to pursue creative fields like learning to dance, playing in a band, or opening a cafe. People who try to express themselves creatively often have "Hongyeom" with "Sik-sin" and "Sang-gan."
Third, "Hongyeom" with "Gwan-seong" (관성). Especially for women, "Gwan-seong" is related to men. As I mentioned earlier, if men are constantly approaching you and trying to seduce you, you need to have the strength to reject them. It can be very frustrating. You might think, "Why are these guys bothering me when I'm not interested?" This often happens with "Hongyeom," regardless of intentions. Therefore, for women with "Hongyeom" in their "Gwan-seong," I strongly recommend preparing to be able to firmly reject them. Regardless of gender, if "Hongyeom" is well-developed, you can give an image of being a leader in any workplace or society. This image is very important in Korean society. Whether you are just doing what you are told or actively taking the lead, your evaluation will be different. You can have this image. Please use it well in your workplace.
Lastly, let's talk about "Hongyeom" with "In-seong" (인성). If you have "In-seong" and "Hongyeom," focus on one thing: especially those with "In-seong" and "Hongyeom" have a lot of charm that adults like. For example, when grandmothers go to the market, they often say things like, "Oh, what a cute child!" This is often the case for people with "In-seong" and "Hongyeom." If you have "In-seong," using it positively means you can receive favor from people older than you, such as your mother or father. Therefore, it's very important to make an effort to get along well with people older than you, even if you are generally good at relationships. Such people can become a great support for you.
Now, let's talk about when "Hongyeom" can occur. "Hongyeom" can occur in the year, month, or day pillars. You can find out when it will occur by looking at your birth chart, which you can find in the comments section. If you enter your birth information into a birth chart calculator, you will see one of the twelve zodiac signs (Rat, Ox, Tiger, Rabbit, Dragon, Snake, Horse, Sheep, Monkey, Rooster, Dog, Pig) in the four pillars. You can see the timing there. Personally, when "Hongyeom" occurs, I recommend actively pursuing relationships, or when you want to show yourself to the world, like on YouTube, or when you want to promote yourself. The timing is not bad. "Hongyeom" generally gives people a friendly and likable impression, so when that energy rises, it's favorable for people to accept what you do. So, personally, it's good for actively pursuing relationships, and second, when you want to put yourself forward. And third, it's great to start hobbies or creative activities. For those of you who are working professionals and watching my content, if you've always wanted to dance but thought, "How can I do it?" or if you wanted to sing but thought, "Should I join a band or a vocal club?" if you have "Hongyeom" occurring, you can have a lot of fun and rewarding experiences. This is the timing.
Now, I will tell you about "Hongyeom" by the ten heavenly stems. "Hongyeom" is not one of the twelve zodiac signs, so you can look at it by the ten heavenly stems.
First, for the "Gyeong" (경) and "Sin" (신) stems, these two characters have "Hongyeom." For the "Mu" (무) and "Gi" (기) stems, it's "Jin" (진) and "Xu" (술). So, "Mu Jin" (무진) and "Gi Xu" (기술) have "Hongyeom." For the "Geng" (경) and "Xin" (신) stems, it's "Xu" (술) and "Hai" (해). So, "Geng Xu" (경술) and "Xin Hai" (신해) have "Hongyeom." For the "Xin" (신) stem, it's "Zi" (자) and "Wu" (오). So, "Xin You" (신유) and "Xin Si" (신사) have "Hongyeom." "Xin You" (신유) people are often very beautiful and handsome, with good skin, and are very representative of celebrities. For the "Ren" (임) and "Gui" (계) stems, it's "Zi" (자) and "Wu" (오). So, "Ren Zi" (임자) and "Gui Wu" (계미) have "Hongyeom." For the "Gui" (계) stem, it's "Shen" (신). So, "Gui Shen" (계신) people can have "Hongyeom" when "Shen" (신) occurs.
So, today I have summarized "Hongyeom" for you. However, "Hongyeom" is not one of the twelve zodiac signs, so the interpretation and energy can differ for each person. But for those of you who have "Hongyeom," or even if you don't, if you want to become a charismatic, likable, and attractive person like someone with "Hongyeom," then taking action to create that image is also meaningful. So, don't be discouraged if you have "Hongyeom" or if you don't. Your life is yours to create, so use it well.
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